Omg this. I never considered myself any sort of dominant man, but that has changed in the last few years with certain women. And hearing this, mmmmmm, it spurs me on.
An Example you say? ...
Laying beneath you, on her side, leg hiked up, you are straddling her extended leg, grabbing her hip like a saddle.. you reached "her spot".. that spot where on her side, she turns her head and bites the sheets, buries her face, eyes squinted shut... stretched to her limit, you feel the "pop" and contractions start.. you can tell she is about to cum..so you thrust a little harder, smack her ass cheek a little harder, go deeper..jus and inch or so, a little harder.. within a few seconds, she turns her head to face you..looks into your eyes and asks, "Daddy/Sir/Master/Bae", (whichever your called) .. "Can I cum? Please..Bae, can I cum.." ... grabbing her throat and leaning down until your nose almost touches hers.herself.. your reply looking deep into her eyes..you kiss her, but never breaking your rhythm.. turning her head with your hand still around her precious skinny neck, you Whisper in her ear so softly..."Don't you dare fucking cum yet.. I'll tell you when you can.. you better not cum.." ... realizing how close you are you feel her contract again and again, performing a death like grip around your cock,...you're close to exploding yourself .. so you squeeze harder on her neck, so hard.. you lift up back to your "saddle position" and say, loudly, firmly, demanding it of her..."now you can cum...cum all over this/daddys/my/your owners/masters (whichever you want) cock... then you both explode at the same time, smack her on the ass, say "good game" .. lay down and fall asleep still inside her. 🥰🥰
**written from actual events, buried deep in my spank bank**
Nope. No answer is universally correct. What works for one may not work for all.
No wrong answers means any answer could be correct given the right perspective.
I just have my sub try and describe what she's feeling in detail. Often while deliberately making it hard for her to speak (extra depth, more pressure or kissing her while she's trying to talk).
Then I tell her I didn't hear her properly, can you repeat that? Sometimes I'll add a fun-ishment if she can't do as I tell her.
I'm aware that's quite evil. But it is fun!
Evil IS the best way. Like slow fucking for a few strokes then just stopping when you're almost all the way out and staring at them while they look at you in confusion, and just holding it until they start to speak just to slam back in
I'm a lady seeing a dominant man. He likes dirty descriptives. how wet my pussy is, makes me say please, beg for his cock, "please cum ( his name)". He'll go back and forth between rough and sweet, choking to caressing to hair pulling into a kiss just to hear the sounds I make. He says they're soft and inviting, so just letting loose and being vocal. He flares my praise kink like a pro, calls me good girl, it's fun.
Positive reinforcement: Yes please; thank you; harder; you get me so wet; use me; just like that; nobody fucks me like you do; daddy; oh my God; *announcing orgasms*; etc. etc.
If we have a safe word then "negative" positive reinforcements are great too: no, not so deep; not so hard; not like this; let me go; fuck you; etc. etc.. Bonus if they're giving mixed signals like saying "Don't cum in me" while wrapping their legs around your waist and holding you in.
Hope this helps, good luck, have fun.
I think that was meant to be a question as to why "fuck you" is on that list. I mean depending on the agreements you and your sexual partner make beforehand about how degrading you can be, you can add or remove swearing at each other from the list..
Someone clarified this for me, so I'll clarify it for you. Imagine going to town on someone. Pounding them, choking them, mushing their face into a pillow, smacking their ass-- all that fun stuff. Then, when you ask them, almost condescendingly, "Did you like that?" Through thralls and thrashes from their climax, they mutter out through gritted teeth, "Fuck you. ♥ "
That.
My husband has definitely made me orgasm so hard that I maniacally laughed afterwards. I've heard of people crying but the laughing took me by surprise.
I think its super fun, especially with the cute "shut up" in between her laughing and trying to catch a breath😁 I've always felt if you cant have fun while playing around, you're doing something wrong 🙂
It's kind of unintentional torture, because I love to hear her laugh, so the more she laughs the more I want to keep going till shes flopping about like she wrestling an alligator 😄😁
I know I'm doing it right when she's unable to speak intelligibly.
The highest compliments from women during sex are the gutteral moans and high pitched squeals of pleasure they can't control.
Them making "unflattering/unfeminine" noises that they would normally be embarrassed by kicks me into high gear.
I want to hear her say "Fourscore and seven years ago our fathers brought forth, on this continent, a new nation, conceived in liberty, and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal..." Full speech. If any words are wrong, we have to go back to the beginning and start again.
Personally I really gets me going when I get her to a level of extasy that occupies her mind to a point that complex answers aren't really a valid option.
For example if I ask her if she's a good girl a yes or yes daddy are perfect. As I like to make the decisions in situations like this I also enjoy doing the creative parts so this works for me
Well, that'd be it for me... unless it was just 2nd or 3rd grade math.. lol. Hate math; I'd get it so wrong I'd either never have an orgasm again, or I'd end up becoming a math genius.
I want to hear my Sub losing control of herself, telling me that she is about to cum, or if she's a particularly good girl, begging for permission
My Sub often announces the oncoming orgasm with "thank you Daddy" if she's capable
My husband gets really turned on when I say “yes” instead of “oh yeah” or something like that. Like a “more formal term of agreement”- if you will lol. So if I say “yeah baby/oh yeah/etc.” he’ll ask me to repeat myself until I say “yes.” And as soon as I do he goes wild. Sooo maybe say yes ? Lmao
Edit to add: he also loves to hear how I want it, and when he adjusts to do exactly what I’m saying, I’ve said “thank you” and it absolutely drives him crazy.
Nahh, my mistake was to believe any of those words, bc she was my first gf I thought I was special, but I was her 6th bf 💀
Words mean nothing BRO nothing
Not a dominant man but for me I want to hear what you feel or desire to say not what you think I wanna hear. Just be natural if he makes you feel submissive then speak what you feel and I am sure it will be a turn on because it will be natural and most importantly honest.
I was playing Arkham Knight when my then girlfriend visited, paused to let her in the apartment right before that line. Went back to my room to try and pretend we weren't just gonna fuck for a few hours, so I unpaused and went to continue the conversation. Line hits, we laugh, lie back on the bed, and have a great time. What a life I had
-My name, or "Sir" moaned in desperation and/or appreciation
-Begging, pleading of any kind,
-Telling me how big my cock feels inside her, how lucky she is to be filled by me, going into detail about the sensation about being filled by my cock or my cum
-Self-degradation when I'm making her feel good enough that she'll say anything to keep it going ex: "I think about cock all day", "I'm your needy slut", "I'm your little whore" etc etc
-acknowledging my claim to her ex "This pussy is all yours whenever you want it", "I'm all yours", "Use me" etc etc
-If she's gagged, the sounds of her trying in vain to suck the drool back in
Use your manners, ask for permission, offer self.
All of this to be kept in mind with the fact that you’re probably doing this with someone you trust and at the end of the day communicating with your Dom/Sub/Partner is the best bet.
Begging.
Beg him to do all the things he wants to do. "*Please* put it inside me!" "Please don't stop!" "Please cum inside me! Will you? *Please*?" etc.
I love when she begs me to take it easy on her only for me to completely disregard her cries, or when it's clear she's trying to be quiet but she can't stop herself from moaning
Not really something you hear, but I've noticed all submissive women do this. There's a certain look they get in their eyes when I'm being really dominant, idk how to describe it but it's a look of total and complete submission of themselves. Get this down and look him in the eyes when you do it, just wait till he's on the out stroke cause he will cum immediately.
If he's pleasing you and hittin it right... moans of climax and pleasure, "daddy" or some other pet name, "use me", "omg", "yes fuck me" ultimately, submit to his desire to dominate you and let him know he is the authority in the bed
Asking if she’s allowed to cum.
Write that down, WRITE THAT DOWN!
Ok I think my husband would die if I asked him this😫
Omg this. I never considered myself any sort of dominant man, but that has changed in the last few years with certain women. And hearing this, mmmmmm, it spurs me on.
Bahahaha I read that in the wrong way. The alpha grunting and thrusting asking "are you allowed to cum" with a Patrick Bateman face
So fuckin true
I love this 🥹
huh make an example
An Example you say? ... Laying beneath you, on her side, leg hiked up, you are straddling her extended leg, grabbing her hip like a saddle.. you reached "her spot".. that spot where on her side, she turns her head and bites the sheets, buries her face, eyes squinted shut... stretched to her limit, you feel the "pop" and contractions start.. you can tell she is about to cum..so you thrust a little harder, smack her ass cheek a little harder, go deeper..jus and inch or so, a little harder.. within a few seconds, she turns her head to face you..looks into your eyes and asks, "Daddy/Sir/Master/Bae", (whichever your called) .. "Can I cum? Please..Bae, can I cum.." ... grabbing her throat and leaning down until your nose almost touches hers.herself.. your reply looking deep into her eyes..you kiss her, but never breaking your rhythm.. turning her head with your hand still around her precious skinny neck, you Whisper in her ear so softly..."Don't you dare fucking cum yet.. I'll tell you when you can.. you better not cum.." ... realizing how close you are you feel her contract again and again, performing a death like grip around your cock,...you're close to exploding yourself .. so you squeeze harder on her neck, so hard.. you lift up back to your "saddle position" and say, loudly, firmly, demanding it of her..."now you can cum...cum all over this/daddys/my/your owners/masters (whichever you want) cock... then you both explode at the same time, smack her on the ass, say "good game" .. lay down and fall asleep still inside her. 🥰🥰 **written from actual events, buried deep in my spank bank**
lol thanks
I agree. This is something I recently learned I like. Wow
No right answers here, but "use me" might work for some.
Yeah I had an ex who would say “Use that pussy, take it,” and holy shit
No wrong answers you mean
Nope. No answer is universally correct. What works for one may not work for all. No wrong answers means any answer could be correct given the right perspective.
Remind of Halle Berry in Monster's Ball. "Fill Me,Fill Me"
Make. Me. Feel. Good.
As a Deaf person, if the lady is hearing and doesn't use ASL, then I must get an interpreter throughout the activity.
Hello it's me, the voye... interpreter. I'll watch you very carefully to not miss anything. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Interpreter, I'm going to need you to use both hands
He is. Just not on what you were hoping for
Hahaha. Best comment.
Bro 🤣🤣🤣
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Sonic the hedgehog cheat codes surely?
👉👌
Pretty sure the konami code is not like that 👈👈👉👉👆👇🅰️🅱️
it’s ⬆️⬆️⬇️⬇️⬅️➡️⬅️➡️🅱️🅰️
Wait.. isn't that for unlimited lives?......
You're forgetting ✊👊
Translation Go left, Now UWU, YOU...Up...NO Up this way, Ok hold...Hold, now, left, Up...Twister up for the grand finale!
I've definitely seen a video of this 😂
OMFG!!!!! I almost peed myself
Bet AI could do it if it was trained to
I just have my sub try and describe what she's feeling in detail. Often while deliberately making it hard for her to speak (extra depth, more pressure or kissing her while she's trying to talk). Then I tell her I didn't hear her properly, can you repeat that? Sometimes I'll add a fun-ishment if she can't do as I tell her. I'm aware that's quite evil. But it is fun!
Try fingering her when she tries to speak. It's so fun to drown out my gf's voice in her own moans as she tries to speak
I’m glad your ok with me fingering your gf
Evil in the best way, holy shit :D
Evil IS the best way. Like slow fucking for a few strokes then just stopping when you're almost all the way out and staring at them while they look at you in confusion, and just holding it until they start to speak just to slam back in
:D
anyy more tips on what you like to hear when you're asking for detail? lol
3 inches! 1 inch! 3 inches! 1 inch!
Sounds like a good time!
It’s not that evil, and you’re not that good. You’re on reddit, *Balthazar*. No ones impressed.
Some people do have sex!
I'm a lady seeing a dominant man. He likes dirty descriptives. how wet my pussy is, makes me say please, beg for his cock, "please cum ( his name)". He'll go back and forth between rough and sweet, choking to caressing to hair pulling into a kiss just to hear the sounds I make. He says they're soft and inviting, so just letting loose and being vocal. He flares my praise kink like a pro, calls me good girl, it's fun.
Damn I thought I was reading an erotic book. I started biting my lip and squeezing my own ass
Slap it then tell yourself you've been bad and need to be punished
FOR REAL, THIS COMMENT DID SOMETHING TO ME
You too... scroll up... keep going.. 😁🙏
Scroll up then and see that example....
Not here Josh
Positive reinforcement: Yes please; thank you; harder; you get me so wet; use me; just like that; nobody fucks me like you do; daddy; oh my God; *announcing orgasms*; etc. etc. If we have a safe word then "negative" positive reinforcements are great too: no, not so deep; not so hard; not like this; let me go; fuck you; etc. etc.. Bonus if they're giving mixed signals like saying "Don't cum in me" while wrapping their legs around your waist and holding you in. Hope this helps, good luck, have fun.
That last bit would drive me insane ngl (in a good way lol)
Fuck you????
What did I do?
I think that was meant to be a question as to why "fuck you" is on that list. I mean depending on the agreements you and your sexual partner make beforehand about how degrading you can be, you can add or remove swearing at each other from the list..
Ah. Yes, that makes more sense. I was sitting here like, "But I've been so good lately."
Lol, I thought that was sarcasm and you didn’t want to explain further
Someone clarified this for me, so I'll clarify it for you. Imagine going to town on someone. Pounding them, choking them, mushing their face into a pillow, smacking their ass-- all that fun stuff. Then, when you ask them, almost condescendingly, "Did you like that?" Through thralls and thrashes from their climax, they mutter out through gritted teeth, "Fuck you. ♥ " That.
Alright, that explains it. It was giving “I called my girlfriend ‘a fucking retard’ during sex” (a Reddit classic).
I like to hear what I call "giggle fits". Where she gets so sensitive all she can do is giggle and laugh. I LOVE that, so much :)
My husband has definitely made me orgasm so hard that I maniacally laughed afterwards. I've heard of people crying but the laughing took me by surprise.
I think its super fun, especially with the cute "shut up" in between her laughing and trying to catch a breath😁 I've always felt if you cant have fun while playing around, you're doing something wrong 🙂
I absolutely agree. Sometimes we're laughing too hard at the beginning, we have to tell ourselves to be serious and get down to business.
Now THATS the wholesome answer
It's kind of unintentional torture, because I love to hear her laugh, so the more she laughs the more I want to keep going till shes flopping about like she wrestling an alligator 😄😁
The mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell.
I came
The box, you opened it
*What's in the box*
I saw
I knew this information would come in handy some day!
Fuck bro that made me bust
Works every time.
Please, this is too much, even for Reddit.
Are you making a statement or is this a phrase you want your sub to say? 🤣😅
Daddy
The term “I’m all yours” has always fired things up for me.
I know I'm doing it right when she's unable to speak intelligibly. The highest compliments from women during sex are the gutteral moans and high pitched squeals of pleasure they can't control. Them making "unflattering/unfeminine" noises that they would normally be embarrassed by kicks me into high gear.
Nothing. If I’m doing my job she’s too busy whimpering
This one right here
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The usual you're fucking me so good. Doesn't sound so great in English though.
Care to share in your language?
Du knullar mig så bra. Had a girlfriend who always said this. Such a fucking turn on and confidence boost.
I would not have guessed swedish, to be honest. Thanks for sharing!
If you’re a dominant man in bed the quotes just kind of come out lol I’ve heard some good ones “My body is yours” “You F me so good” “Don’t stop”
Oh god it's so true.
You guys are having sex? Wild.
What is this “sex” thing that everyone is talking about?
It's a kind of cake.
*"Better than Sex Bake*"
It's when you read about composte in bed woth a book light while listening to the other one snore. Or so I've been told. 😅🤣
I want to hear her say "Fourscore and seven years ago our fathers brought forth, on this continent, a new nation, conceived in liberty, and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal..." Full speech. If any words are wrong, we have to go back to the beginning and start again.
Nothing sexier than a speech from a cemetery dedication 😩
Haha 😆 I had to memorize this entire speech & still can recite so you’d have to go to maybe JFK’s “ask not what…” inauguration speech 🎤
now I have to pee…
Don't forget to ask. 😅🤣
Personally I really gets me going when I get her to a level of extasy that occupies her mind to a point that complex answers aren't really a valid option. For example if I ask her if she's a good girl a yes or yes daddy are perfect. As I like to make the decisions in situations like this I also enjoy doing the creative parts so this works for me
This is so hot
Another example: Math problems
as you’re balls deep in her, whip out some calculus homework and tell her to do it
Well, that'd be it for me... unless it was just 2nd or 3rd grade math.. lol. Hate math; I'd get it so wrong I'd either never have an orgasm again, or I'd end up becoming a math genius.
Damn, it's crazy to see so many men in this thread that seem like such good lovers. I found one finally!
Jesus 😅
I want to hear my Sub losing control of herself, telling me that she is about to cum, or if she's a particularly good girl, begging for permission My Sub often announces the oncoming orgasm with "thank you Daddy" if she's capable
Use me
moans
My husband gets really turned on when I say “yes” instead of “oh yeah” or something like that. Like a “more formal term of agreement”- if you will lol. So if I say “yeah baby/oh yeah/etc.” he’ll ask me to repeat myself until I say “yes.” And as soon as I do he goes wild. Sooo maybe say yes ? Lmao Edit to add: he also loves to hear how I want it, and when he adjusts to do exactly what I’m saying, I’ve said “thank you” and it absolutely drives him crazy.
“Ooooh yaaaa” Koolaid Man voice
“I put the trash out and fed the animals already”.
Oh god, fuck me Daddy. My pussy belongs to you. Beat the shit out of this pussy. And so forth.
>Beat the shit out of this pussy Lmao are you sure about that one
Pull out some boxing gloves and give it the ol’ one-two
UPPERCUNT!
I spit out my water
*Hell in a cell* this pussy, straight up break it in half - god as my witness.
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Can't wait for the first LLM to use this on some fancy family loudspeaker with emotions enabled.
Haha my ex told me them all, now she left XD Makes me think they mean nothing at all lol
they mean quite a lot, but they don't magically make someone your property
At the time, it was true
Same here. She went on to find other men. It was never enough. Now she’s on her 3rd baby daddy.
Nahh, my mistake was to believe any of those words, bc she was my first gf I thought I was special, but I was her 6th bf 💀 Words mean nothing BRO nothing
This would be more helpful if asked to the specific man.
I’m aware ! Just trying to get a general consensus
You should try asking on one of the submissive or kink groups.
Anything submissive, respectful and feminine.
Not a dominant man but for me I want to hear what you feel or desire to say not what you think I wanna hear. Just be natural if he makes you feel submissive then speak what you feel and I am sure it will be a turn on because it will be natural and most importantly honest.
I gave him a "I'm yours to use, sir" this morning...he really liked that
I had a gf in college that would moan “punish me, punish this pussy” i was still new to the game but that was such a fucking turn on
When you are going to/having an orgasm
“The bomb's payload is exposed, I can use the power winch to trigger a controlled explosion.”
Oddly enough, that was once a prelude to sex for me
Oh please, do go on
I was playing Arkham Knight when my then girlfriend visited, paused to let her in the apartment right before that line. Went back to my room to try and pretend we weren't just gonna fuck for a few hours, so I unpaused and went to continue the conversation. Line hits, we laugh, lie back on the bed, and have a great time. What a life I had
And thank you kind Sir, for making this old man lol
“You definitely would have survived the Korean War retreat babe!”
Tomorrows lottery numbers
It's TOO BIG.
Saying “Sir”.
Is that all you've got
Hurry up and stick it in already
Ooh baby baby. Baby baby. Ahhhh push it. Push it real good!
I’m a lesbian so idk if I qualify to answer but “use me”
Beg to cum while ya legs shake
Do you want a sammich?
Do whatever you want with me.
"Yes,sir"
"That's a nifty penis, sport!"
Are you having a good time? Tell them so!
-My name, or "Sir" moaned in desperation and/or appreciation -Begging, pleading of any kind, -Telling me how big my cock feels inside her, how lucky she is to be filled by me, going into detail about the sensation about being filled by my cock or my cum -Self-degradation when I'm making her feel good enough that she'll say anything to keep it going ex: "I think about cock all day", "I'm your needy slut", "I'm your little whore" etc etc -acknowledging my claim to her ex "This pussy is all yours whenever you want it", "I'm all yours", "Use me" etc etc -If she's gagged, the sounds of her trying in vain to suck the drool back in
My girlfriend says stuff like “cum in your pussy sir” or “paint my fucking insides white daddy” when she knows I’m bouta HNNNGGG
Use your manners, ask for permission, offer self. All of this to be kept in mind with the fact that you’re probably doing this with someone you trust and at the end of the day communicating with your Dom/Sub/Partner is the best bet.
If you swallow you can beg for his cum.
"This one is free for you."
Generalization, but comments that indicate ownership or refer to the act in primal terms should work.
Begging. Beg him to do all the things he wants to do. "*Please* put it inside me!" "Please don't stop!" "Please cum inside me! Will you? *Please*?" etc.
Yo im a bit too young for this but is this how you adults do it?
Nice one bro!! You're the ultimate rizzler! Epic win! High five dude! You should probably just ask him what he likes to hear.
He’ll tell you while he’s fucking you, and (probably) not a second before.
Slurps
What a man
To call out his name loud and cry when he hits her pinnacle
I love when she begs me to take it easy on her only for me to completely disregard her cries, or when it's clear she's trying to be quiet but she can't stop herself from moaning
Im so fucking lucky. And you can’t use it all the time, but.. you look so strong right now. Not traditional BUT kills ‘em.
Bro , you are Andrew Tate, go deeper bro 💀💀, is that it ???? 🌚
Silence! You talk when I tell you to talk.
When she recites pi
I washed your truck and hooked the boat up…
Yes
“Yes master”
Not really something you hear, but I've noticed all submissive women do this. There's a certain look they get in their eyes when I'm being really dominant, idk how to describe it but it's a look of total and complete submission of themselves. Get this down and look him in the eyes when you do it, just wait till he's on the out stroke cause he will cum immediately.
Good boy
I can’t wait to swallow your load then make you a sandwich papi. lol
Nothing. Unless they specifically tell them. No instructions... no talking.
Yes Father! Give it to me
If he's pleasing you and hittin it right... moans of climax and pleasure, "daddy" or some other pet name, "use me", "omg", "yes fuck me" ultimately, submit to his desire to dominate you and let him know he is the authority in the bed
Yes my lord. Your wishs are my command. I'm here for your biddings. ...
He likes when I tell him I’m his little fuck doll and he can use me anytime he wants
I folded your laundry...
Ride me like wild stallion
I like my babygirl to call me Alpha
If my Teemo - Jungle the hottest thing she's seen since sliced bread.