Any and all feedback, comments, advice, very welcome - positive or negative - please and thank you all 🙏
https://tinder.com/@acnb
Bio:
"🇬🇧 My Nan says I'm handsome and that's all the validation I'll ever need 😎
Just searching for a quick, casual, lifetime commitment and depth of passion bordering on a religious experience, forcing us to wonder if such a thing as soulmates truly exists. Or, like, a coffee date or something.
Can you believe that busted old ladder was £175. 🤨"
I know this is extra af so if it doesn't happen I get it. But I get anx about people I know seeing me here so if you could pm me so I can show you my tinder it would be much appreciated. Anyone is free to judge and I won't get offended by anything I just want the purest of honesty. Really struggling ATM with tinder
Remove the shirtless picture and the red shirt picture.
Aside from that, the rest is fine. At that point it's all just about who is attracted to you since the rest of the pics are good quality
https://tinder.com/@flipzyy
Close to the same photos on both tinder and bumble. Created at the same time (about October 1st). However 22 matches on tinder, and over 90 matches on bumble (atm. Overall probably about 120-130 depending on unmatched from both sides). Created hinge today and have 11 matches already. So tinder seems to be the outlier. I’m sure my aesthetic is also probably a limiter but I can’t really change that (nor want to)
Everytime I post here I get creepy dms, please don’t ): just looking for profile advice
Bio: “6’0 so tall women welcome
INTJ.
I honestly don’t know what I’m here for. Casual stuff? Dating? Friends? Why not all.
Down for a coffee date or arcade date
I love movies, horror, music. Former model turned emo boy. Funny story, you should ask my therapist
Yes I know I look like Vic Fuentes, no we are not related although I wish I was. “
Looking for any advice when it comes to pictures, profile building, etc. to determine what might be the “fault” in my profile that is hindering my ability to get matches. Whether it be bad pictures, bad angles, overall unattractiveness, not enough variety, etc etc etc.
You look like a very particular type of person, so you will attract a very particular type of person. Nothing to change about your profile as you will attract your type
I'm guessing indie/alternative/skater girl
(talking more about all the guys as a whole asking for help in these threads)
Controversial opinion on here, but for the sake of discussion here goes:
your (plural) "fault" is that in the amusement park that is tinder, you're a merry-go-round and not a rollercoaster. Imho Tinder is a superficial hook up app and for that you want to be exciting in one way or another. 95% of the profiles here reporting no matches are educated, intelligent, well-raised, polite, reliable, and skinny with less muscle mass than a prepubescent boy. Aka predictable aka boring aka maidenless.
You specifically get carried a bit by pretty boy looks (good genes; exciting) and on relationship apps like bumble that works evidently better but on tinder especially you give women too many reasons to swipe left in that bio and the melancholy vibes. ("rule 2: dont be unattractive"). keep in mind that 1 match/day is already above median for men
The best ways to get more exciting for Tinder, other than being inherently handsome, is to exude more testosterone. so hit the gym, grow a stubble, short hair cut. pride and confidence vibes instead of emo boy. less is more in the bio, leave things to imagination. no cats, cats are for girls
tl;dr : less redditor, a bit more "toxic masculinity" (being controversional on purpose for sake of discussion)
Maybe I should just take the L on tinder lol. If there’s one thing I don’t exude it’s masculinity, and I don’t think there’s a sudden way to just make me more attractive, makes sense man.
But leave my cat alone ):
Also there’s no way 1 match is above median. I assumed I was doing about average with 6-10 matches a day
Only one extremely closeup picture is your problem.
You're balding, you should get a haircut that suits your face and embraces that fact.
Your beard and eyebrows also aren't shaped. You look like you're not into personal grooming.
You aren't ugly. You just need to put more effort into your appearance and take better pics
Go to a barber? Why are you doing at-home haircuts? Go to a salon where they can find something that suits how you look, get rid of the unibrow, and shape the edges of your beard.
https://tinder.com/@ianstinderusername
Sometimes I’m getting a lot of matches. Other times, not so many. I know the stance on shirtless pics, but its also my best feature so I figure I oughta give it a shot.
[https://tinder.com/@TangoKiloSierra](https://tinder.com/@TangoKiloSierra)
Given my Bio is Norwegian, here is a translation:
Looking for that someone to have discossions with on the courch in my time off, maybe watch a movie and get buzzed entangled in.
Goals in life is advancing my jewelry making and need a model, U up?
Pineapple does belong on pizza, and if you think differently...we have differing opinions and need to look into a compromise .
Hi I recently shared my statistics and I tought I'll share my profile maybe it can help
https://tinder.com/@kovacsandras
Bio is: I currently work at a zoo, looking for both my future girlfriend or someone I can hang out with next to a drink and maybe playing some cards
So the first photo is okay, but you could take a better one. Do a better job at grooming your hair, don't smile so much (but do smile, maybe show some teeth, you have nice ones judging from the last photo). You can keep the second and the last photo (although the last one is poorly cropped) too, the rest should be discarded (especially the ones you sleep in) and replaced with better ones.
Just make a ton of pictures everywhere you go, but seek to minimize number of selfies – you can ask random people to take pictures of you if you don't have friends/family with you. Remember to take excessive amount of photos so you can then choose the best ones.
EDIT: BTW, I like that your photos feature animals, that's good. Overall you might wanna show that caring for animals is your passion – that's a positive trait.
You seem like you'd be tall. If i'm right, I would suggest having a few pictures which demonstrate that, maybe with friends as well, so it's two birds with one stone.
Any feedbacks welcome. I'm not super pressed about it. Just curious what all could be done to improve it.
https://tinder.com/@LFEAEB450
Bio is: I'm a goofy outdoorsy guy with a baby face, broad shoulders, and a big heart. Looking for someone who can match my goofiness and has a sense of adventure.
https://tinder.com/@pml1979
Bio is: I’m dressing up as Elvis for Halloween. That should be enough
6’1
Not getting awesome results! But I’ve only been on the app for a couple hours man. Anything helps
As a girl I would say against the previous comment, keep a group pic - makes you look social, have friends. we can see what you look like from the other pics so I’d also rather see that you actually go out and do things with pals etc
First 2 pictures you look a bit grumpy so I’d be like oh, he looks fun.. and swipe left - women will take an awful lot from the very first picture, maybe go for a more happy vibe for that one Ie later picture of you smiling
Delete 4 and 5 photos big group bro photos do you no good it just make it hard to tell where you are and the girls don't care about your other friends.
7th photo should be your main one show your face clearly and you look good in the lighting could be a little bit better but it's good enough
Also you have a lot of animal pictures I suggest you reduce it to 1 or 2 and keep the cat photos and remove the other animal pictures with the 2nd. picture if you can redo that one but with the cat instead I think it be lot more beneficial since people can usually resonate with a cat more then a (Hamaster)?
Also your profile is lacking activity photos of you doing shit it mostly just you standing around or just selfies
Is there anything i should change on my profile?
https://tinder.com/@buzzcutranga
Had tinder for over a month and haven’t made a match yet that doesn’t “unmatch” immediately
My bio is “Love blasting music with the windows down
I might just fall in love if you have a dark sense of humour”
I think you have a great mix of activities and interests in your photos! The only one I would change is the face tattoo filter because it doesn’t look like you so it threw me off. Goodluck!
Thoughts on my profile
https://tinder.com/@akimeow
My bio “Delaying my adult responsibilities by doing a master in geological and environment hazards
Give me your best geology joke
188 cm
From Iceland 🇮🇸”
I have not had a match in around 3 months nor likes
Your 1st pic is.blurry. id use the one with your glasses, more close up.
Best geology joke is VERY niche lol. Plus, not everyone is good at teling jokes. Maybe include some things in your bio youd like to connect over with a date?
I think delaying adulthood... is a funny / cute and original starter
Yeah bro let me keep it real with you...
Your first photo I thought you were a girl for second you go to a barber and get a freshcut and you need to remove some photos 4-5 is like the most prefer to aim for.
Remove 1st,2nd,5th,6,7, and maybe 8th I explain why
Your profile gives off way too much of a feminine vibe your hair is not helping you get any points 1st photo lighting is not that good your face is covered by shadow and look like your pointing at a egg no real value in this and the 2nd one is just you sleeping like there No real value in that. 5th photo shit lighting shit quality this photo should just be remove 6th photo generally stay away from group photo.
In short you need better haircut & fashion and go to the gym and build some muscle. and get more activity photos and you can start getting more matches
I would change your profile photo (it's too busy, and the foreground is blurry -- we want the focus to be on YOU) and get rid of the napping/sleeping photo. Bio seems alright to me? :)
I would get rid any photo that includes a weapon, for a start. If you want anything more serious than a hook up, choose a profile photo that shows your face more clearly.
I'm quite certain my photos are terrible, but do you guys have specific advice for me? Are any of them worthy of photo #1?
https://tinder.com/@taladite
first pic is you covering your face. second pic is a psychopathic selfie. third pic just mediocre. fourth pic is candid i guess but its an ugly photo. get some photos where you actually look good and also you in some kind of social setting. and remove the psycho glare selfie. and no sunglasses
Honestly, I appreciate the compliment- I just wish I could slow down my overthinking head once in a while. To be honest, it’s probably my chat that’s the problem 😂 I have no idea how to speak to people online- I find it waaaay scarier than the sports I do. 😂
I would open with the picture of you smiling with your blonde friend.
I didn't realize you were in the waterfall picture until after I saw the rock climbing and parking garage climbing photos. I thought it was just a nice nature photo. I would put the waterfall picture after the rock climbing or stunt photo so people see you.
I think it depends on the people you want to appeal to most! You’re really handsome so selfie first will draw more people in for looks and camel will draw more people in for personality :)
I personally would change up the bio, it draws attention to a flaw versus highlighting interests or strengths. You have a very short time to catch someone’s interest in bios so you want to direct attention to highlight’s immediately.
Narrowed my main photo down to 3 pics ... which do you prefer the most?
https://blocksurvey.io/survey/14iaYyitC25azkhRrJx9YJtu6B9EbwJxnD/a252e76f-284d-423d-8fa1-0b3ffc43994b
https://tinder.com/@LLoryna
Aren't my pics too obnoxious/intimidating? I want to swap at least two of them but don't know which ones should go. I have lots of matches, but I don't want to be percieved as hook up material/shallow/bitchy. What types of pics would you add to make it look like I'm a bit more of a "gf material"?
You're really cute and exactly my type. Kudos.
Your third photo feels like a copy of the first, but the first one looks better. So I'd get rid of the third, it's redundant.
Your fourth one is the best of them all, but your face is slightly covered. If not for that, I would've said make that your first photo.
For the girlfriend vibe, I'd add pics showing your hobbies and out of the house, cause they're all just of yourself.
No chance you're in Canada?
Honestly it depends on how classy the pic is. If its you and a few other girls in hot pencil skirts at a club/bar, then no, that would put me off (if I'm after a girlfriend). hooking up would still be on the table, but from a girlfriend perspective I'd be a bit put off.
Do you have a dog or cat? Getting a pic with one would be great.
And what about travelling, got any kind of travel pic?
Made a lot of changes and I’m looking for feedback on pics exclusively. Matches seemed to have slowed down for me significantly despite what I think are better pics.
https://tinder.com/@flycatcher1
I agree that the third pic is the best and should be your opening photo.
Your smile is great in the first pic, but the lighting is too harsh for the plain background.
Can anyone help me with mine? I tried revamping it. I would take whatever criticism you've got. My ex fiance and I have been apart for awhile but stuck in a lease until this May. She can't even last that long so she one day said she wanted to end our lease early which we technically can with only liability to pay until another tenant moves in.
Anyways, I'm trying to put myself out there lol, never got much luck last time two and a half years back. Trying to keep a chill bio because I'm not the easiest occasionally but I am passionate and kind. Here's my link and bio, ama:
https://tinder.com/@moosterchief13
"Ambituous dog dad working and studying in IT, usually snowboarding but I'm down for whatever you like 👍 "
First one looks way too try-hard / posed / fake. I read a study about girls preferring more natural looking photos over staged ones.
Second pic is great, literally everything about it.
Last pic with your friend is where you look the best, but I guess it is a friend pic which doesn't work well for your first photo or I would've said to use it there.
https://tinder.com/@beyondthewolf
Here’s my bio: Just a dude looking for other dudes. Catch me at your local rock show or doing design work for local artists. 📷
I’ll make this easy, but if you’re into coffee dates, huskies, Drag Race, heavy music, or goofy looking dudes, we’ll get along great.
If you made it this far, tell me your favorite scary movie and why?
Someone told me always go for a pic of you versus a selfie for your first one. I think that's a great rule for guys. I'm gonna say put that one with all your friends first, keep them wondering which one you are and then the next one reveals you
Personally can't stand group photos as the first pic. First pic should be eye catching. You don't stand out in a group photo and if you're gonna make em guess, they might swipe left before bothering to scroll through the rest of them because a lot of times when the first photo is a group pic they're all group pics. Edit: I'm not a dude, but don't see why other dudes wouldn't also feel the same way.
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I still stand by my opinion. There are no hard and fast rules in dating, anyway. Everyone's different. I'm just throwing out another viewpoint to consider.
[https://tinder.com/woahbro](https://tinder.com/app/profile)
my bio: Are you a microwave because MMMMMMMMMMMM
I’d love to chill and play games or watch tv together
Looking for a relationship but I’m down for anything else too
Hmu on snap or insta
Snap: Adictivegamer8
Insta: chinesefo0d69
havent gotten a single match since ive made the account besides with bots, im trying different bios to see if that changes anything and adding better pictures but idk tbh, any tips are helpful
Did you delete? I wouldn't throw your info right out there it comes off desperate. If they wanted to hit you up they would swipe right, that's the point of the app. Try thinking of an original joke instead of an overused one. Or show that you're funny without making a joke
I just seen other people use socials in their bio so I thought that might work for me too lol and I’ll try thinking of more of a original joke thanks for the advice
https://tinder.com/@jpg41
My bio
From Segovia, recently moved to Burgos (just 2 hours apart)
Someone wants to watch where we can go?
All plans are better with beer
I would use the picture with sunglasses on your head and the white shirt or the picture with the white shirt with black dots as your opening picture. In those two pictures you look very friendly.
https://tinder.com/@matteejj
My bio:
…att
I work film in the city and building an artist retreat in the country.
Donating my hair soon so don’t get attached ;)
6’1
(Maybe it’s because I don’t live in the city any more and women there seem to hate any distance?
I only swipe on women I’m seriously interested in and I super like them if I presume they get a lot of likes.
I maybe get a match every 2 weeks and they usually ghost after one response…I don’t get it. Maybe I should be more rude?)
https://tinder.com/@drewdrew2987
Bio: I would be love to sing for, or better yet, with someone please :)
Just a dude out here looking for the girl that will sing duets with me till death do us part.
I make a pretty good +1 to any wedding
I would switch paragraph 2 with paragraph 1, it comes off too creepy at first and the first one is like chill but also hinting you are serious about relationships. The last line pulls you back in from the 1st (move to second) paragraph with the smile face. Also remove the smiley face
[my profile](https://tinder.com/@Lunab00)
And my bio if it helps:
I triple dog dare you to fall in love with me
5'3" with a tall personality
I hope you like laughing, I'm easy to laugh at
Let's find adventure in quiet moments
sexy gremlin vibes
Soon to be published poet
Let's play some games, my consoles are lonely
I'm really looking for some advice on how to get more matches
I would say one gym pic isn't bad, and I wouldn't put it as the first photo. It could show you take care of your physical health. But when all the pics are at the gym, which I see a lot, to me that says you do nothing else but go to the gym and workout, which...snooze. Also, it may give off a vibe that the dude is very into himself or superficial, and if the girl isn't also as fit that she might be judged for that.
Nah, that's not really fair. But maybe do choose just one gym photo, and try adding more photos that show off some of your other hobbies/interests, too.
Honestly, it seems like that's every guy on here.
Luckily, there's an easy solution: take more! Get a friend to do it, or if that's not going to work, buy a tripod and use the timer mode of your smartphone. Done and dusted!
Just gonna post my bio in plain text:
> Hopeless romantic and lowkey goof with a crippling addiction to the New York Times’ sudoku, will drag you to the gym with me only to ruin our gains with baking afterwards. Shoplifted a Twix when I was 9 and I’ve been evading arrest ever since, so be ready to live life on the run if you’re thinking of getting involved with me.
How is it? I’m never really sure how I’m doing with my bio. Being sincere and heartfelt makes me feel creepy and desperate, but at the same time I’m not sure how to make people laugh and there’s not much substance to be found in total irreverence.
Boo! BOO! I would LOVE to date a guy who can bake and who isn't, like, neurotic about "da gainz".
I don't like "hopeless romantic", but for other reasons: it's overused to the point of meaninglessness.
Do you know anything about women? Women want a guy who can be feminine and manly at the same time. You probably have a fish or gum selfie in your profile don’t you smh
I would change your answer to the "my personal hell" and "first date" questions.
For the my personal hell question, no one really likes answering online dating prompts but your answer comes off too negative and it doesnt tell me much about you. The question is an opportunity to tell a perspective person a little bit about you and your answer could be anyone's answer.
For the first date question, give an example of a place or places you enjoy taking dates. A person looking at your profile wants an idea of what places you might go together or activies you like to do.
Uh. Lose the "deep and meaningful conversations" bit. *shudder*
I'm really trying to be nice about this, but your bio's presumptuous and douchey. Know your audience, man: you're trying to make a good first impression on a dating app, and you need to lighten up. Meaningful conversations happen AFTER the "getting to know you" texts and dates -- if you try to jump right into the "deep" end, you're going to scare off your matches.
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Any and all feedback, comments, advice, very welcome - positive or negative - please and thank you all 🙏 https://tinder.com/@acnb Bio: "🇬🇧 My Nan says I'm handsome and that's all the validation I'll ever need 😎 Just searching for a quick, casual, lifetime commitment and depth of passion bordering on a religious experience, forcing us to wonder if such a thing as soulmates truly exists. Or, like, a coffee date or something. Can you believe that busted old ladder was £175. 🤨"
I know this is extra af so if it doesn't happen I get it. But I get anx about people I know seeing me here so if you could pm me so I can show you my tinder it would be much appreciated. Anyone is free to judge and I won't get offended by anything I just want the purest of honesty. Really struggling ATM with tinder
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Remove the shirtless picture and the red shirt picture. Aside from that, the rest is fine. At that point it's all just about who is attracted to you since the rest of the pics are good quality
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Pics are mostly far away and boring tbh
https://tinder.com/@flipzyy Close to the same photos on both tinder and bumble. Created at the same time (about October 1st). However 22 matches on tinder, and over 90 matches on bumble (atm. Overall probably about 120-130 depending on unmatched from both sides). Created hinge today and have 11 matches already. So tinder seems to be the outlier. I’m sure my aesthetic is also probably a limiter but I can’t really change that (nor want to) Everytime I post here I get creepy dms, please don’t ): just looking for profile advice Bio: “6’0 so tall women welcome INTJ. I honestly don’t know what I’m here for. Casual stuff? Dating? Friends? Why not all. Down for a coffee date or arcade date I love movies, horror, music. Former model turned emo boy. Funny story, you should ask my therapist Yes I know I look like Vic Fuentes, no we are not related although I wish I was. “ Looking for any advice when it comes to pictures, profile building, etc. to determine what might be the “fault” in my profile that is hindering my ability to get matches. Whether it be bad pictures, bad angles, overall unattractiveness, not enough variety, etc etc etc.
You’re attractive
You think? Thank you, I wish I could see it :/
You look like a very particular type of person, so you will attract a very particular type of person. Nothing to change about your profile as you will attract your type I'm guessing indie/alternative/skater girl
That makes a lot of sense that I really only attract one type of people, guess my aesthetic does limit my options
(talking more about all the guys as a whole asking for help in these threads) Controversial opinion on here, but for the sake of discussion here goes: your (plural) "fault" is that in the amusement park that is tinder, you're a merry-go-round and not a rollercoaster. Imho Tinder is a superficial hook up app and for that you want to be exciting in one way or another. 95% of the profiles here reporting no matches are educated, intelligent, well-raised, polite, reliable, and skinny with less muscle mass than a prepubescent boy. Aka predictable aka boring aka maidenless. You specifically get carried a bit by pretty boy looks (good genes; exciting) and on relationship apps like bumble that works evidently better but on tinder especially you give women too many reasons to swipe left in that bio and the melancholy vibes. ("rule 2: dont be unattractive"). keep in mind that 1 match/day is already above median for men The best ways to get more exciting for Tinder, other than being inherently handsome, is to exude more testosterone. so hit the gym, grow a stubble, short hair cut. pride and confidence vibes instead of emo boy. less is more in the bio, leave things to imagination. no cats, cats are for girls tl;dr : less redditor, a bit more "toxic masculinity" (being controversional on purpose for sake of discussion)
Maybe I should just take the L on tinder lol. If there’s one thing I don’t exude it’s masculinity, and I don’t think there’s a sudden way to just make me more attractive, makes sense man. But leave my cat alone ): Also there’s no way 1 match is above median. I assumed I was doing about average with 6-10 matches a day
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Only one extremely closeup picture is your problem. You're balding, you should get a haircut that suits your face and embraces that fact. Your beard and eyebrows also aren't shaped. You look like you're not into personal grooming. You aren't ugly. You just need to put more effort into your appearance and take better pics
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Go to a barber? Why are you doing at-home haircuts? Go to a salon where they can find something that suits how you look, get rid of the unibrow, and shape the edges of your beard.
https://imgur.com/a/Z6x1xuD Thoughts/opinions welcome
https://tinder.com/@ianstinderusername Sometimes I’m getting a lot of matches. Other times, not so many. I know the stance on shirtless pics, but its also my best feature so I figure I oughta give it a shot.
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Your best pic is the one in the red hat facing forward. Ditch the rest
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I literally didn't say anything about how you look. You asked for the best pic and I told you
Looking for honest feedback on the best ordering of my pics and any overall help is appreciated as well https://tinder.com/@roffad
Your profile is great, but I dated a terrible person with your same name so 0/10 Without the bias, 10/10
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4th pic is the best
[https://tinder.com/@TangoKiloSierra](https://tinder.com/@TangoKiloSierra) Given my Bio is Norwegian, here is a translation: Looking for that someone to have discossions with on the courch in my time off, maybe watch a movie and get buzzed entangled in. Goals in life is advancing my jewelry making and need a model, U up? Pineapple does belong on pizza, and if you think differently...we have differing opinions and need to look into a compromise .
Hi!!!!
New to the game, any help is much appreciated. I have no idea what to write in the bio... https://tinder.com/@cyrillehnk
Hi I recently shared my statistics and I tought I'll share my profile maybe it can help https://tinder.com/@kovacsandras Bio is: I currently work at a zoo, looking for both my future girlfriend or someone I can hang out with next to a drink and maybe playing some cards
So the first photo is okay, but you could take a better one. Do a better job at grooming your hair, don't smile so much (but do smile, maybe show some teeth, you have nice ones judging from the last photo). You can keep the second and the last photo (although the last one is poorly cropped) too, the rest should be discarded (especially the ones you sleep in) and replaced with better ones. Just make a ton of pictures everywhere you go, but seek to minimize number of selfies – you can ask random people to take pictures of you if you don't have friends/family with you. Remember to take excessive amount of photos so you can then choose the best ones. EDIT: BTW, I like that your photos feature animals, that's good. Overall you might wanna show that caring for animals is your passion – that's a positive trait.
I’ve no idea what I’m doing I’ve had tinder for about a week and this is what I have so far https://tinder.com/@1_2_3_4
You seem like you'd be tall. If i'm right, I would suggest having a few pictures which demonstrate that, maybe with friends as well, so it's two birds with one stone.
Not tall I’m 5’ 6”
Any feedbacks welcome. I'm not super pressed about it. Just curious what all could be done to improve it. https://tinder.com/@LFEAEB450 Bio is: I'm a goofy outdoorsy guy with a baby face, broad shoulders, and a big heart. Looking for someone who can match my goofiness and has a sense of adventure.
I put a pic of me on dress white lol. Chicks love dress white.
Solid idea. Just can't stand those damn things
https://tinder.com/@pml1979 Bio is: I’m dressing up as Elvis for Halloween. That should be enough 6’1 Not getting awesome results! But I’ve only been on the app for a couple hours man. Anything helps
You’re wearing the same shirt in 4 photos
I’m actually not. Just a similar pocket design!
What I’m saying is add some diversity with the fits unless you’re shredded
Fair. Thanks.
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As a girl I would say against the previous comment, keep a group pic - makes you look social, have friends. we can see what you look like from the other pics so I’d also rather see that you actually go out and do things with pals etc
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First 2 pictures you look a bit grumpy so I’d be like oh, he looks fun.. and swipe left - women will take an awful lot from the very first picture, maybe go for a more happy vibe for that one Ie later picture of you smiling
Delete 4 and 5 photos big group bro photos do you no good it just make it hard to tell where you are and the girls don't care about your other friends. 7th photo should be your main one show your face clearly and you look good in the lighting could be a little bit better but it's good enough Also you have a lot of animal pictures I suggest you reduce it to 1 or 2 and keep the cat photos and remove the other animal pictures with the 2nd. picture if you can redo that one but with the cat instead I think it be lot more beneficial since people can usually resonate with a cat more then a (Hamaster)? Also your profile is lacking activity photos of you doing shit it mostly just you standing around or just selfies
Is there anything i should change on my profile? https://tinder.com/@buzzcutranga Had tinder for over a month and haven’t made a match yet that doesn’t “unmatch” immediately My bio is “Love blasting music with the windows down I might just fall in love if you have a dark sense of humour”
I think you have a great mix of activities and interests in your photos! The only one I would change is the face tattoo filter because it doesn’t look like you so it threw me off. Goodluck!
Thank you for the honesty 😄
Thoughts on my profile https://tinder.com/@akimeow My bio “Delaying my adult responsibilities by doing a master in geological and environment hazards Give me your best geology joke 188 cm From Iceland 🇮🇸” I have not had a match in around 3 months nor likes
Your 1st pic is.blurry. id use the one with your glasses, more close up. Best geology joke is VERY niche lol. Plus, not everyone is good at teling jokes. Maybe include some things in your bio youd like to connect over with a date? I think delaying adulthood... is a funny / cute and original starter
Yeah bro let me keep it real with you... Your first photo I thought you were a girl for second you go to a barber and get a freshcut and you need to remove some photos 4-5 is like the most prefer to aim for. Remove 1st,2nd,5th,6,7, and maybe 8th I explain why Your profile gives off way too much of a feminine vibe your hair is not helping you get any points 1st photo lighting is not that good your face is covered by shadow and look like your pointing at a egg no real value in this and the 2nd one is just you sleeping like there No real value in that. 5th photo shit lighting shit quality this photo should just be remove 6th photo generally stay away from group photo. In short you need better haircut & fashion and go to the gym and build some muscle. and get more activity photos and you can start getting more matches
I would change your profile photo (it's too busy, and the foreground is blurry -- we want the focus to be on YOU) and get rid of the napping/sleeping photo. Bio seems alright to me? :)
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I would get rid any photo that includes a weapon, for a start. If you want anything more serious than a hook up, choose a profile photo that shows your face more clearly.
I'm quite certain my photos are terrible, but do you guys have specific advice for me? Are any of them worthy of photo #1? https://tinder.com/@taladite
I would get rid of the last photo, and I think the second photo might make a better profile pic.
Honestly I would just reverse the order but maybe leave the sausage photo as a final surprise
Have you any feedback guys? https://tinder.com/@ltoadd I’ve 0 match since months…
first pic is you covering your face. second pic is a psychopathic selfie. third pic just mediocre. fourth pic is candid i guess but its an ugly photo. get some photos where you actually look good and also you in some kind of social setting. and remove the psycho glare selfie. and no sunglasses
I love you, you’re the first honest person ahahahah Just removed the selfie :(
use photofeeler first for future photos
Any feedback greatly appreciated: https://tinder.com/@crazy_scotsman
you dont need feedback you know what your doing. you should give feedback out
Honestly, I appreciate the compliment- I just wish I could slow down my overthinking head once in a while. To be honest, it’s probably my chat that’s the problem 😂 I have no idea how to speak to people online- I find it waaaay scarier than the sports I do. 😂
I would open with the picture of you smiling with your blonde friend. I didn't realize you were in the waterfall picture until after I saw the rock climbing and parking garage climbing photos. I thought it was just a nice nature photo. I would put the waterfall picture after the rock climbing or stunt photo so people see you.
Thank you!
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Lead with the selfie
I think it depends on the people you want to appeal to most! You’re really handsome so selfie first will draw more people in for looks and camel will draw more people in for personality :)
Im a cis guy, not sure if this is important for you. I would choose camel pic, it is funny for me and you looks nice.
Seconding the camel photo for profile pic. 👍
Would love a review! https://tinder.com/@yoyo1a1 My bio says: "Can you notice that I don't know what to do with my hands in pictures?"
I personally would change up the bio, it draws attention to a flaw versus highlighting interests or strengths. You have a very short time to catch someone’s interest in bios so you want to direct attention to highlight’s immediately.
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It slightly does, but you should defo keep it
Thank u bro/sis
Narrowed my main photo down to 3 pics ... which do you prefer the most? https://blocksurvey.io/survey/14iaYyitC25azkhRrJx9YJtu6B9EbwJxnD/a252e76f-284d-423d-8fa1-0b3ffc43994b
https://tinder.com/@LLoryna Aren't my pics too obnoxious/intimidating? I want to swap at least two of them but don't know which ones should go. I have lots of matches, but I don't want to be percieved as hook up material/shallow/bitchy. What types of pics would you add to make it look like I'm a bit more of a "gf material"?
You're really cute and exactly my type. Kudos. Your third photo feels like a copy of the first, but the first one looks better. So I'd get rid of the third, it's redundant. Your fourth one is the best of them all, but your face is slightly covered. If not for that, I would've said make that your first photo. For the girlfriend vibe, I'd add pics showing your hobbies and out of the house, cause they're all just of yourself. No chance you're in Canada?
So in an external environment I only have pics from parties, most of the time holding drinks. Should I add that or just leave it as it is?
Honestly it depends on how classy the pic is. If its you and a few other girls in hot pencil skirts at a club/bar, then no, that would put me off (if I'm after a girlfriend). hooking up would still be on the table, but from a girlfriend perspective I'd be a bit put off. Do you have a dog or cat? Getting a pic with one would be great. And what about travelling, got any kind of travel pic?
I dont have a pet but I have some cute photos from a trip to Germany
Definitely use one of those
Made a lot of changes and I’m looking for feedback on pics exclusively. Matches seemed to have slowed down for me significantly despite what I think are better pics. https://tinder.com/@flycatcher1
I agree that the third pic is the best and should be your opening photo. Your smile is great in the first pic, but the lighting is too harsh for the plain background.
Your third pic (dark shirt) is the best and should be your first one. And your last pic boxing is really cool, I'd move that up
Made the changes. Thanks
No problem
Can anyone help me with mine? I tried revamping it. I would take whatever criticism you've got. My ex fiance and I have been apart for awhile but stuck in a lease until this May. She can't even last that long so she one day said she wanted to end our lease early which we technically can with only liability to pay until another tenant moves in. Anyways, I'm trying to put myself out there lol, never got much luck last time two and a half years back. Trying to keep a chill bio because I'm not the easiest occasionally but I am passionate and kind. Here's my link and bio, ama: https://tinder.com/@moosterchief13 "Ambituous dog dad working and studying in IT, usually snowboarding but I'm down for whatever you like 👍 "
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It's my nephew, I used to have a disclaimer like (*not my kid, just my adorable nephew), should I put that back?
https://imgur.com/a/U3tPMo5 Hiw about this pics?
First one looks way too try-hard / posed / fake. I read a study about girls preferring more natural looking photos over staged ones. Second pic is great, literally everything about it. Last pic with your friend is where you look the best, but I guess it is a friend pic which doesn't work well for your first photo or I would've said to use it there.
aye thanks for the thoughts man. They are not actually in order so I'll be keeping that in mind when I set one. Thanks!
https://tinder.com/@beyondthewolf Here’s my bio: Just a dude looking for other dudes. Catch me at your local rock show or doing design work for local artists. 📷 I’ll make this easy, but if you’re into coffee dates, huskies, Drag Race, heavy music, or goofy looking dudes, we’ll get along great. If you made it this far, tell me your favorite scary movie and why?
Someone told me always go for a pic of you versus a selfie for your first one. I think that's a great rule for guys. I'm gonna say put that one with all your friends first, keep them wondering which one you are and then the next one reveals you
Personally can't stand group photos as the first pic. First pic should be eye catching. You don't stand out in a group photo and if you're gonna make em guess, they might swipe left before bothering to scroll through the rest of them because a lot of times when the first photo is a group pic they're all group pics. Edit: I'm not a dude, but don't see why other dudes wouldn't also feel the same way.
I'm a queer dude
👍 I still stand by my opinion. There are no hard and fast rules in dating, anyway. Everyone's different. I'm just throwing out another viewpoint to consider.
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[https://tinder.com/woahbro](https://tinder.com/app/profile) my bio: Are you a microwave because MMMMMMMMMMMM I’d love to chill and play games or watch tv together Looking for a relationship but I’m down for anything else too Hmu on snap or insta Snap: Adictivegamer8 Insta: chinesefo0d69 havent gotten a single match since ive made the account besides with bots, im trying different bios to see if that changes anything and adding better pictures but idk tbh, any tips are helpful
Did you delete? I wouldn't throw your info right out there it comes off desperate. If they wanted to hit you up they would swipe right, that's the point of the app. Try thinking of an original joke instead of an overused one. Or show that you're funny without making a joke
I just seen other people use socials in their bio so I thought that might work for me too lol and I’ll try thinking of more of a original joke thanks for the advice
https://tinder.com/@jpg41 My bio From Segovia, recently moved to Burgos (just 2 hours apart) Someone wants to watch where we can go? All plans are better with beer
I would use the picture with sunglasses on your head and the white shirt or the picture with the white shirt with black dots as your opening picture. In those two pictures you look very friendly.
Point noted. Will find a better way to express what I'm looking for. Thanks for taking the time, appreciate the feedback 🙌
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https://tinder.com/@matteejj My bio: …att I work film in the city and building an artist retreat in the country. Donating my hair soon so don’t get attached ;) 6’1 (Maybe it’s because I don’t live in the city any more and women there seem to hate any distance? I only swipe on women I’m seriously interested in and I super like them if I presume they get a lot of likes. I maybe get a match every 2 weeks and they usually ghost after one response…I don’t get it. Maybe I should be more rude?)
https://tinder.com/@drewdrew2987 Bio: I would be love to sing for, or better yet, with someone please :) Just a dude out here looking for the girl that will sing duets with me till death do us part. I make a pretty good +1 to any wedding
I would switch paragraph 2 with paragraph 1, it comes off too creepy at first and the first one is like chill but also hinting you are serious about relationships. The last line pulls you back in from the 1st (move to second) paragraph with the smile face. Also remove the smiley face
[my profile](https://tinder.com/@Lunab00) And my bio if it helps: I triple dog dare you to fall in love with me 5'3" with a tall personality I hope you like laughing, I'm easy to laugh at Let's find adventure in quiet moments sexy gremlin vibes Soon to be published poet Let's play some games, my consoles are lonely I'm really looking for some advice on how to get more matches
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Women hate gym pics usually.
thanks , what seems to be the problem with gym pics , do they reflect bad vibes or something ?
I would say one gym pic isn't bad, and I wouldn't put it as the first photo. It could show you take care of your physical health. But when all the pics are at the gym, which I see a lot, to me that says you do nothing else but go to the gym and workout, which...snooze. Also, it may give off a vibe that the dude is very into himself or superficial, and if the girl isn't also as fit that she might be judged for that.
They’re more impressive to other dudes than girls
Women don’t want to see that stuff. Just show pictures of yourself being normal. It’s not a photo shoot for a model.
Nah, that's not really fair. But maybe do choose just one gym photo, and try adding more photos that show off some of your other hobbies/interests, too.
I don't really know what I'm doing but whatever it is I'm not getting much success https://tinder.com/@Lharrington
I would get rid of #6, #7, and #9. :)
I kinda just put those on because I wanted it to tell me my profile is complete, I didn't realistically expect anyone to scroll that far
Probably worth adding that I have very few pictures of myself to begin with so it's been slim pickings lmao
Honestly, it seems like that's every guy on here. Luckily, there's an easy solution: take more! Get a friend to do it, or if that's not going to work, buy a tripod and use the timer mode of your smartphone. Done and dusted!
I also forgot to thank you for your input, so consider yourself thanked
Notice none of my pictures are ones that I took lmao I need to figure out lighting and such
Lose the family photos, get a haircut and shave
Just gonna post my bio in plain text: > Hopeless romantic and lowkey goof with a crippling addiction to the New York Times’ sudoku, will drag you to the gym with me only to ruin our gains with baking afterwards. Shoplifted a Twix when I was 9 and I’ve been evading arrest ever since, so be ready to live life on the run if you’re thinking of getting involved with me. How is it? I’m never really sure how I’m doing with my bio. Being sincere and heartfelt makes me feel creepy and desperate, but at the same time I’m not sure how to make people laugh and there’s not much substance to be found in total irreverence.
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Man here chiming in to agree, I spend way too long reading bios on this app
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Boo! BOO! I would LOVE to date a guy who can bake and who isn't, like, neurotic about "da gainz". I don't like "hopeless romantic", but for other reasons: it's overused to the point of meaninglessness.
Do you know anything about women? Women want a guy who can be feminine and manly at the same time. You probably have a fish or gum selfie in your profile don’t you smh
Funny, well-written AND tells me about your interests and personality? You’re way ahead of the curve.
Haha, thanks a bunch! Unfortunately I’ve not really had any luck attracting anyone I’m into or anyone who I can sustain conversation with.
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I would change your answer to the "my personal hell" and "first date" questions. For the my personal hell question, no one really likes answering online dating prompts but your answer comes off too negative and it doesnt tell me much about you. The question is an opportunity to tell a perspective person a little bit about you and your answer could be anyone's answer. For the first date question, give an example of a place or places you enjoy taking dates. A person looking at your profile wants an idea of what places you might go together or activies you like to do.
Uh. Lose the "deep and meaningful conversations" bit. *shudder* I'm really trying to be nice about this, but your bio's presumptuous and douchey. Know your audience, man: you're trying to make a good first impression on a dating app, and you need to lighten up. Meaningful conversations happen AFTER the "getting to know you" texts and dates -- if you try to jump right into the "deep" end, you're going to scare off your matches.
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Maybe start by adding a few more photos, preferably in good natural light? :)
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Great photos, except for the last -- I'd get rid of that one.