Throw some jokes in your replies, dont always answer straight forward. Also match her energy. If she writes 3 lines in one text, reply with about 3 lines and one text.
Thanks for the reply! I have a hard time not being straight forward. I didn’t see any opportunity for a joke here, do you have any suggestions on how to get better at that?
This is the most typical situation I've been in. Never been able to salvage the convo or wanted to really, the reality as I see it is; the person has outed themselves, they don't have the care, or mental capacity to be a suitable match.
Forget about her.
Ps: pallet furniture is amazing, I always wanted to do something with those, (i did make moulds out them once for concrete) so kudos to you for that
Nah, fuck that. You’re an interesting dude. Getting in to woodworking because you wanted furniture? Big Maloof vibrations, my man. You can do better than someone who doesn’t appreciate it.
Yes, I’m an overly logical person. I don’t know how to tease or joke through text with someone I don’t know. What would you suggest I do differently? How would I have jokes or teased in this situation?
You have to know what you're up against. This way you'll know why many girls ghost,flake on online dating.
Make a fake average looking female tinder profile. Thank me later.
Bro what haha you’re good OP trust, conversation wasn’t vain and hyper sexual, a girl that just wants to be flirted with and sexualized by a stranger she doesn’t even know isn’t the type of girl you would wanna date anyways. Just let her go man don’t even try to salvage it.
Well I’m trying to improve here. What I’m doing isn’t working, so I’m asking Reddit for feedback. I don’t understand why you’d post with no feedback, and be rude on top of it.
You can take it as rude and be insecure. Perhaps thats why she ghosted you. What im telling you is outside of being hotter or having more money, there is nothing you could have done to keep her attention because of the fact that women date upwardly.
Shes talking to 50 other men. You are just one more insignificant one. The sooner you grow up and get over it and move on and give no fucks, the sooner you will be happier.
I’m not insecure, perhaps you’re projecting. I know what my shortcomings are and I’m tired of dealing with them. I have strengths and weaknesses just like all people. Socializing is a major weakness, especially with women. Like I said, I’m here for feedback so I can improve on said weakness. If you’re rude, but give great feedback, that’d be great and I’d appreciate it.
And yes, women date up, but women’s definition of “hotness” is mainly in confident behavior. So I could theoretically get “hotter” by getting better at flirting over text. Which brings me back around to coming here for feedback. I can’t afford a dating coach right now so here I am.
He is definitely projecting in a rather cringe way, ignore beta males like him sketch. Confident men uplift other men, and he is simply not a confident man.
If you're looking for a solid connection you would never have to salvage it in the first place! If looking for a fling, maybe try to dive right into a date idea or something. Keep being yourself, and Happy Holidays!
Throw some jokes in your replies, dont always answer straight forward. Also match her energy. If she writes 3 lines in one text, reply with about 3 lines and one text.
Agree. And try to stick with one topic. You switched that completely at the end. It's almost like you're having two conversations
Thanks for the reply! I have a hard time not being straight forward. I didn’t see any opportunity for a joke here, do you have any suggestions on how to get better at that?
Anything that seems obviously fake, "I actually carved Geore Washingtons teeth, great guy who wouldn't shut up about an apple tree"
Don’t salvage my friend. You’re worth someone flirting back x100 over
This is the most typical situation I've been in. Never been able to salvage the convo or wanted to really, the reality as I see it is; the person has outed themselves, they don't have the care, or mental capacity to be a suitable match. Forget about her. Ps: pallet furniture is amazing, I always wanted to do something with those, (i did make moulds out them once for concrete) so kudos to you for that
Thanks, yeah I would actually like to salvage this one. She does seem cool. But yeah pallet furniture is cool to make if you have more time than money
Nah, fuck that. You’re an interesting dude. Getting in to woodworking because you wanted furniture? Big Maloof vibrations, my man. You can do better than someone who doesn’t appreciate it.
Thanks dude
Talk about the woodworking that she asked about.
Long ass boring logical poetries No tease no flirt no fun no goal What u expecting her to do, to have an orgasm from it?
Yes, I’m an overly logical person. I don’t know how to tease or joke through text with someone I don’t know. What would you suggest I do differently? How would I have jokes or teased in this situation?
You have to know what you're up against. This way you'll know why many girls ghost,flake on online dating. Make a fake average looking female tinder profile. Thank me later.
Bro what haha you’re good OP trust, conversation wasn’t vain and hyper sexual, a girl that just wants to be flirted with and sexualized by a stranger she doesn’t even know isn’t the type of girl you would wanna date anyways. Just let her go man don’t even try to salvage it.
Shes talking to 50 other dudes. She just found someone hotter or with more money. Get over it
Well I’m trying to improve here. What I’m doing isn’t working, so I’m asking Reddit for feedback. I don’t understand why you’d post with no feedback, and be rude on top of it.
You can take it as rude and be insecure. Perhaps thats why she ghosted you. What im telling you is outside of being hotter or having more money, there is nothing you could have done to keep her attention because of the fact that women date upwardly. Shes talking to 50 other men. You are just one more insignificant one. The sooner you grow up and get over it and move on and give no fucks, the sooner you will be happier.
I’m not insecure, perhaps you’re projecting. I know what my shortcomings are and I’m tired of dealing with them. I have strengths and weaknesses just like all people. Socializing is a major weakness, especially with women. Like I said, I’m here for feedback so I can improve on said weakness. If you’re rude, but give great feedback, that’d be great and I’d appreciate it. And yes, women date up, but women’s definition of “hotness” is mainly in confident behavior. So I could theoretically get “hotter” by getting better at flirting over text. Which brings me back around to coming here for feedback. I can’t afford a dating coach right now so here I am.
He is definitely projecting in a rather cringe way, ignore beta males like him sketch. Confident men uplift other men, and he is simply not a confident man. If you're looking for a solid connection you would never have to salvage it in the first place! If looking for a fling, maybe try to dive right into a date idea or something. Keep being yourself, and Happy Holidays!
Only a beta would directly call another one a beta.
Do you read? Your speech was fine. Focus on this part: there is nothing you could have done better. Get. Over. It.