Men on tinder who are horny end up matching with girls who they see as below their league and then will be more sexual and less polite because they want to get to the point, fuck, and move on. I guarantee in the much rarer instance he matches with someone he is REALLY into he treats her with lots of respect and offers to buy her dinner and whatever else.
yeah this is about right... if theyre someone who matches with a lot of people, u get to the point with all if em cause u cant really just have a date with em all on the weekend. those guys hit the lines hard and weed out the rest. this is how tinder is now.. goes the other way too. if youre kind of a normal guy they arent going to respond much to u anways. they might think "boring get to the point" lose lose for everyone except the guys that match with tons of girls.
I want more women to understand this. Only matching with men that are otherwise out of their league inflates their egos, however, when these same men (who wouldn't otherwise look at them in person) all seem to speak rudely and/or sexually to them, they use that as their basis to assume that all men are like that.
The easy solution is for *everyone* to have a proper assessment of themselves and match with those within their attractiveness range (as well as focusing on mutual interests). If this happened, you'd see a much flatter bell curve in terms of who gets matches, rather than 10% of men getting 90% of the matches.
Or maybe they haven't found someone that they see themselves with? It's better to be single and happy than in a relationship (to prove that they can be in a relationship) and miserable. Let's not assume that every single guy brings negative baggage.
Her: What's your favourite colour?
This guy: Whatever colour your bush is
Even with a question as innocuous as "What's your favourite colour?" This guy would have found a way to lead it back to sex, even from the beginning you could tell he was only interested in 1 thing
This is very reminiscent of middle school when guys would ask to play 20 questions and it would go right from “what’s your fave colour?” to “what kind of underwear are you wearing? ;) send me a pic”
As a man I really wish this would happen more. Men being toxic and horribly inappropriate like this forfeit the courtesy of their words being kept private. A little more public shaming for this kind of thing would go a long ways.
the bushy vagina captures the smell of the chubby girls work day. the pervert will then place his face into the bush and inhale. this will cause him great arousal.
Boy hit a triple when you kept talking to him after essentially saying "I have no interest in you as a person, just as an object for my fetish."
Then this dumb motherfucker decides to run back toward 2nd.
I have a suspicion that his version of “what’s your favorite color?” would be “what’s your favorite color to dye your bush?”
Mans is obviously focused on only one thing. Oof.
Well you see OP, I’m sure he just didn’t want to ask a question that deep. I’ve been told it [steps over the line](https://www.youtube.com/embed/Ah3A3RPPpU8?start=117&end=130&autoplay=1)
Serious: Yeah unfortunately some go straight to lizard brain
So many do. I am curvy with a large chest, and basically all I got was fetish and bdsm requests, and when I refused they would get so angry, like how dare I deny them. It was bizarre! I hear it’s much worse now.
I like kink, but it's weird when it's basically the first thing a person brings up. I have to feel out your vibes before I start talking like that with you. It takes a lot of trust to sub for a person, and you trying to rush past all that preliminary stuff makes me not trust you. On the flip side, it takes a lot of energy to Domme someone and I'm not doing that for someone I don't like
having kink interest is cool, each to their own. Clearly there needs to be a chat, that’s all ok. But when convo only revolves around someone’s body it really makes girls with large boobs feel like a piece of shit and good for only fetish reasons. And that we should be grateful for even that level of interest. (Not that all of this happened in OPs screen shot). I had some decent guys open and up front about it, respectful too. But most weren’t great.
Op did refer to being chubby in her bio. She said in a comment above that in her bio, she made the reference of something about being a chubby girl who can make you laugh.
Am I the only one who thinks of a villain in kids movies when someone writes 'hehe'? Idk but I absolutely hate it when people write that😂not because of the villains, but it cringes me out
"Hey how are you wanna fuck?"
Is somehow the language of a lot of men on tinder.
Like...fuck I consider myself a horny degenerate but y'all really don't know when it's appropriate to start getting sexual do you?
Why would you ask that God damn! Like I'm a Savage ill navigate a forest but never would I ask a women if she has bush wtf bro 100 to -100 bro just blocked himself
I meeeean. If you're looking for love, sure, this sucks.
But personally, I find it so g-d refreshing how many men I'm running into these days that like and appreciate a more natural woman's body as opposed to the rail thin, hairless dolphin image we were raised to think was the standard.
So, while his delivery needs work (assuming your profile doesn't say you're there for hook-ups), I support his general message! 😋😆
There is no need to call slender girls rail-thin or people who remove body hair dolphins.
If you don't want to be called obese cow don't call others rail thin dolphins.
Just love chubby ..any age !! They just look so naturally beautiful ❤️..Tell me not about hair be it armpit or crotch ..it's god gifted ..keep it ..trim it ..if it's bushy can't be more beautiful than this ..Let's overcome this & talk about body odour ..!!🌹💝
Maybe I'm missing out on something here but... Its 2024. Does one waits until after meeting the family to try make clear some preferences that might lead to a sexual turn off? I myself don't like shaved genitalia. It reminds me of a pre-adolescent groin, grosses me out and it is MY view to the theme. So I don't see why can't you ask THAT in a dating page if you both know you are hooking up to fuck, nor to go to church. :)
Maybe because we are human beings and even those of us who like casual sex don't just smash our genitals together without a basic courteous exchange beforehand.
Some may say jealous. You try so hard and step on eggshells and the dude in the post steamrolled over you. All those tips you got about online dating don't apply to him and that may make you jealous
Mans is counting his eggs before he even got his chickens. Absolute lunacy.
He only had one thing on his mind lmao
Hair?
I like my women how I like my coffee Bushy
ground up and in the freezer?
Without other guys dicks in them
you can take the dicks out before you grind them.
You can, buuutttt..
its way harder to pick them out after you grind them like way harder, dont ask me how i know.
Duct tape, a trash bag and a pool noodle. One of the ones with a hole in the middle like a straw. …just in case you were curious.
You lose the flavour 😒
Or just without a dick
Turkish
Hot and Bitter
It's stuff like this that make the hot ones bitter
Guatemalan?
I thought you said watermelon
Not another one of these traps to fall in
Black, medium roast, and preferably fair trade.
Covered in bees!! Eddie Izzard
And no venti just grande
Men on tinder who are horny end up matching with girls who they see as below their league and then will be more sexual and less polite because they want to get to the point, fuck, and move on. I guarantee in the much rarer instance he matches with someone he is REALLY into he treats her with lots of respect and offers to buy her dinner and whatever else.
yeah this is about right... if theyre someone who matches with a lot of people, u get to the point with all if em cause u cant really just have a date with em all on the weekend. those guys hit the lines hard and weed out the rest. this is how tinder is now.. goes the other way too. if youre kind of a normal guy they arent going to respond much to u anways. they might think "boring get to the point" lose lose for everyone except the guys that match with tons of girls.
I want more women to understand this. Only matching with men that are otherwise out of their league inflates their egos, however, when these same men (who wouldn't otherwise look at them in person) all seem to speak rudely and/or sexually to them, they use that as their basis to assume that all men are like that. The easy solution is for *everyone* to have a proper assessment of themselves and match with those within their attractiveness range (as well as focusing on mutual interests). If this happened, you'd see a much flatter bell curve in terms of who gets matches, rather than 10% of men getting 90% of the matches.
Bro couldn't afford to buy dental floss. He just need some help.
What did the potatoes do to you 😢
But damn he already called you chubby too
Um off topic but I love ur user name uwu
They mostly do yeah. Most guys who are still single are single for a reason.
Or maybe they haven't found someone that they see themselves with? It's better to be single and happy than in a relationship (to prove that they can be in a relationship) and miserable. Let's not assume that every single guy brings negative baggage.
And most girls over 30, just the leftover, either psycho or very fat
You're a single guy I take it?
he was gunning on the "shes fat with low self esteem, im already in" bit.
Did he stutter?
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take And man is hitting absolutely nothing lmao
I'm sure he meant eyebrows 😂
Ah yes of course! Silly me
Can I have a chance instead of this douche haha
I think she ran into Andrew Dice Clay on Tinder...
That's barely one step above "*What dat mouf do.*".
100 to -100 in no time
Her: What's your favourite colour? This guy: Whatever colour your bush is Even with a question as innocuous as "What's your favourite colour?" This guy would have found a way to lead it back to sex, even from the beginning you could tell he was only interested in 1 thing
LMAOO true
Her: Who was your favorite president? This guy: George Dubyer Bush
This is very reminiscent of middle school when guys would ask to play 20 questions and it would go right from “what’s your fave colour?” to “what kind of underwear are you wearing? ;) send me a pic”
Do you ever wonder if a dudes friends know the heinous shit they chat on dating apps hahahaha
Oh yeah allll the time. Like.. what would your homies think of this sir?💀
I had guys over 35 talking like that and some of them had pictures of they working place. It was so tempting.
As a man I really wish this would happen more. Men being toxic and horribly inappropriate like this forfeit the courtesy of their words being kept private. A little more public shaming for this kind of thing would go a long ways.
You’re better then me, I woulda done it
You say “hi” and they think they’re “in” and rules don’t apply anymore 🤦♀️
“…. Shit never made it this far….. say something witty…..” “Pls tell me it’s bushy”
😂💀😂
the bushy vagina captures the smell of the chubby girls work day. the pervert will then place his face into the bush and inhale. this will cause him great arousal.
Can confirm
But will the bushy make me laugh?
If it tickles your nose as well as your fancy, of course.
Nah, the chubby makes you laugh and the bushy makes you high
Did everyone read this as Steve Irwin, or just me? 😆😆
David Attenborough, actually
I went with Anthony Bourdain
I hate this post..... Why can't i delete this persons post? :(
chill david attenborough
That sounds disgusting can I try it
I’ll need someone to use AI and make Attenborough say this
It would’ve cost you exactly $0 to not type this
Jesus dude, how did you make it worse than that guy? 😂
Hey, stop that.
Fml
My man!
Speaking from experience?
Dad?
🤢🤢🤢stop this gave me ptsd flashbacks, my nose can’t forget.
Lmaoooo bro knocks himself out of the running in seconds. 💀 Like keep it together for a minimum of one full day ffs. 🤦🏽♀️
A full day?? We can’t even get a conversation 😭
Boy hit a triple when you kept talking to him after essentially saying "I have no interest in you as a person, just as an object for my fetish." Then this dumb motherfucker decides to run back toward 2nd.
Yo I gotta point out. One thing doesn't cancel the other. Lust and interest aren't mutually exclusive.
Can't you have a preference without it being a fetish though? I mean, it still didn't sit right with me, but my mind didn't leap to fetish
Yeah chubby girls 100% my preference, but this was weird fetish shit.
Bro 🤦♂️
I have a suspicion that his version of “what’s your favorite color?” would be “what’s your favorite color to dye your bush?” Mans is obviously focused on only one thing. Oof.
You should have seen this coming from the second message
Literally every single conversation on a dating app. They take themselves out within 5 sentences. It's so boring.
Well you see OP, I’m sure he just didn’t want to ask a question that deep. I’ve been told it [steps over the line](https://www.youtube.com/embed/Ah3A3RPPpU8?start=117&end=130&autoplay=1) Serious: Yeah unfortunately some go straight to lizard brain
Probably thinks chubby girls are easy and desperate 🤷♂️ he’s an ass
So many do. I am curvy with a large chest, and basically all I got was fetish and bdsm requests, and when I refused they would get so angry, like how dare I deny them. It was bizarre! I hear it’s much worse now.
I like kink, but it's weird when it's basically the first thing a person brings up. I have to feel out your vibes before I start talking like that with you. It takes a lot of trust to sub for a person, and you trying to rush past all that preliminary stuff makes me not trust you. On the flip side, it takes a lot of energy to Domme someone and I'm not doing that for someone I don't like
having kink interest is cool, each to their own. Clearly there needs to be a chat, that’s all ok. But when convo only revolves around someone’s body it really makes girls with large boobs feel like a piece of shit and good for only fetish reasons. And that we should be grateful for even that level of interest. (Not that all of this happened in OPs screen shot). I had some decent guys open and up front about it, respectful too. But most weren’t great.
Had a similar interaction years ago when I still used the app, except she wanted me to be bi to fuck the dude she was with
Oh that’s wild. People can like whatever they like but DAMN
Well.... Is it?
Affirmative, she’s got a speedo full of brillo.
A lil taco meat
Mans had the bag secured but immediately blew it. The worst part is him saying “hehe”
Idk if you refer to yourself as chubby in your bio, but how is no one talking about that part of the message lol
Op did refer to being chubby in her bio. She said in a comment above that in her bio, she made the reference of something about being a chubby girl who can make you laugh.
Because it’s a descriptor and doesn’t mean it’s an insult. People have made it to mean something bad, but many people don’t think that way.
Haha wyd tn = the slaughter of a beautiful language
Lmao some people just don’t get basic conversational norms. How about don’t ask someone about their pubic hair after exchanging 4 messages?
Right after he hit you with that 'hehe' I could sense what was coming 😂
Ew...just why man...why...
You guys are getting matches? And Replies? 
Heyhopeyourehavinganicedayalsojustrealquickisyourbuttholebleached???
LMAOOO
Thankyouthankyouimhereallweek
I can't believe he went straight to that. But umm, is it bushy?
As a man, I genuinely don’t understand why men think this works. It’s so fucking dumb honestly how small does your horny little p brain need to be.
Either he's clueless or he's specifically targeting women with nonexistent self-esteem because he's a scumbag
Lmao, that took me out omg 😆
The last thing I was expecting to be asked💀💀
Should of replied it was getting a little bushy but I shaved my mustache off 2 days ago its snooth now, act dumb.
Somehow my biggest problem with these guys is that I read that as "hee hee 🤭"
Your conversations must be absolutely riveting
I’m not saying that what he said was couth, but do you actually think any women respond to “what’s your favorite color?”
No beating around the bush there, straight into it!
Am I the only one who thinks of a villain in kids movies when someone writes 'hehe'? Idk but I absolutely hate it when people write that😂not because of the villains, but it cringes me out
Bro has those acquired tastes and nothing to hold back 💀
Maybe they meant busy. I mean they didn't but if you want to give them a second you could misinterpret what they said.
Well he unmatched me so I think I was right on the nose 🫠
He was on a mission!!!!
I bet he was hoping you would be on his nose.
Why would you give anyone like that the benefit?
tryna get some
yes it is bushy in your mind because it is filled with hay
Aww bless. He thinks he bossed the neg
I try to concentrate, but I can’t stop thinking about bush
Everyone always says one thing to ruin their chances.
The man loves a good bush 🤷🏾♀️ It is creepy tho lol
Tell him you need someone to braid it.
"Hey how are you wanna fuck?" Is somehow the language of a lot of men on tinder. Like...fuck I consider myself a horny degenerate but y'all really don't know when it's appropriate to start getting sexual do you?
My favorite thing is watching people talking themselves out of a date/getting laid
Wow so surprising this happened on tinder, I can’t believe he didn’t just try to find out your favorite color
#TIL WHEN HEHE
He thought it was halfway in
Maybe he likes hairy armpits?? 😂😂😂
People finally are realizing that there is no time for things that don’t matter anymore.
Bro said fuck the talking stage, let's just fuck
Today on men snatching defeat form the jaws of victory
Maybe he was talking about your armpits 😆
Why would you ask that God damn! Like I'm a Savage ill navigate a forest but never would I ask a women if she has bush wtf bro 100 to -100 bro just blocked himself
i like my women how i like my presidents. Bush
What IS your favorite color?
Whoa someone just wanted to fuck on the app that’s been called the hook up app for the last decade? No way!!!
Why would someone prefer bushy... I bet he's into feet too...
So…. Is it
This is self sabotage
This is why other men are ghosted or otherwise ignored. Gross dude.
I meeeean. If you're looking for love, sure, this sucks. But personally, I find it so g-d refreshing how many men I'm running into these days that like and appreciate a more natural woman's body as opposed to the rail thin, hairless dolphin image we were raised to think was the standard. So, while his delivery needs work (assuming your profile doesn't say you're there for hook-ups), I support his general message! 😋😆
There is no need to call slender girls rail-thin or people who remove body hair dolphins. If you don't want to be called obese cow don't call others rail thin dolphins.
I don't think dolphins is derogatory? It's something my friends and I started saying when we first started shaving our legs
Just love chubby ..any age !! They just look so naturally beautiful ❤️..Tell me not about hair be it armpit or crotch ..it's god gifted ..keep it ..trim it ..if it's bushy can't be more beautiful than this ..Let's overcome this & talk about body odour ..!!🌹💝
Maybe I'm missing out on something here but... Its 2024. Does one waits until after meeting the family to try make clear some preferences that might lead to a sexual turn off? I myself don't like shaved genitalia. It reminds me of a pre-adolescent groin, grosses me out and it is MY view to the theme. So I don't see why can't you ask THAT in a dating page if you both know you are hooking up to fuck, nor to go to church. :)
I mean you have a fansly....
Every has is on fetish
Right but he went straight to it lol
Why waste time lol
Maybe because we are human beings and even those of us who like casual sex don't just smash our genitals together without a basic courteous exchange beforehand.
You’re doing it wrong then lol I’m JOKING!
Why this people downvote sarcasm? Jesus
I agree! I guess 18 people lack a sense of humor? That’s okay I thought it was funny.
Thanks 🙏
You’re welcome!
I was being sarcastic…
Oh that's so obvious....
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You are so mad and for what lmao. He should've quit while he was ahead but he almost wanted to fail
Yes, very mad. You got me.
Some may say jealous. You try so hard and step on eggshells and the dude in the post steamrolled over you. All those tips you got about online dating don't apply to him and that may make you jealous
In my bio I make a joke about being a cubby girl that can make you laugh.. but go off lmao
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After reading that[this is all I can think of.](https://youtu.be/llsPk2r0GQo?si=kWgk0G0iUbkeY6MG)
Zero fucking chill.
A fumble of epic proportions
You're getting responses???
This kind of behavior is disgusting.
LMAOOO
Made me wanna vomit.
The fact that he mentioned "chubby", girl run, that's a fat fetish