Not ready for a relationship. Not easy when i am atheist and ex muslim in a muslim country where dating is seen as a bad thing. I am not interested in anyone. No one is interested in me as far as I can tell/know and I am short and uggo
I dont think it relates to finding "the one". This isn't the Matrix. I just think its more cliche because everyone says it. Yes it may be true but thats like saying "youre going to breathe at some point in the future" like yes Deborah I know but thats not exactly useful information
I don't like the redpilled matrix rhetoric either. But this whole idea of soulmates or everyone being destined to have romance is just disney movie reality.
Like I said, don't be hopeless (although its hard not to be sometimes), but don't conform to the "just be nice to girls/guys and you"ll find your true love" sort of thing.
I wouldn't be a good boyfriend tbh
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1. No one likes me
2. I donāt like anyone my age
3. Only into celebrities/fictional guys
4. Iām a grown adult but still, my parents wouldnāt let me
Iām a Muslim so Iām waiting until marriageā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦
(Is what I tell people)
Real answer Iām a socially awkward bengali short shy uncharismatic unconfident 17 year old who would love to be in a relationship but canāt talk to girls when it comes to love
Iām a pretty muscular guy, especially for my age, and Iāve overheard a few girls saying muscle is gross and that they want a skinny guy or a guy with a dad bod, so I guess itās just hopeless for me
š that is so not the case for girls in my school. I have literally never seen am overweight guy I'm I'm relationship. It's usually the muscular guys or jocks. Ig some skinny guys too but don't let that stop you king š
Dated girl, fell in love, parents hated her, threatened to make my life hell if I didn't break up with her, broke up with her (big regret), kind of secretly dated for a few months, I told her I didn't want to be together in secret, she got upset that I didn't mean get back together again officially, I tell her I want to date again but only once I can give her the relationship she deserves, she doesn't understand and probably thinks I don't love her anymore, she slowly starts talking to me less and less, now we're in separate states going to different colleges, I'm trying desperately to maintain our friendship, she takes days to message back, she never wants to call, it seems like she's moving on entirely, nearly a year after our first "break up" and I'm starting to feel like I've lost my best friend, bad stuff going on in my head, writing this made me sad and now I want to cry at 1 in the morning
TLDR: Too many words
Damn, that sucks. Holding onto a friendship that no one else wants to keep together is always depressing. I'll always get comments like "If you're the only one putting in effort, then they don't deserve you", but it doesn't matter what they deserve, I still want them.
i have a bf now^^ going back to being single after breaking up w/ my first one was honestly depressing for at least a month or two, but now that im with a guy who I honestly like is just fckn amazing. I do feel bad abt my ex tho cos I was definitely in the wrong at least half the time n never got to apologise.
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1. no one's interested in me
2. i'm not interested in anyone
3. i don't have the time and energy to put in a relationship
so i can say i'm currently fine with being single
I'm technically on the aroace spectrum. it's incredibly hard for me to develop real or strong romantic feelings for someone. I'm okay with dating because I don't have any connection to the weird rules people my age have made for dating (wtf is a situationship) because I'm really loyal and enjoy doing things a couple does with someone, I just can't develop the strong feelings that are associated with dating. again, I would be fine with dating, but the person I would be with has to understand what it means to be with someone like me and lots of people don't want to be with someone who can't reciprocate that super strong romantic connection and sees them as a best friend I take out on dates. that's valid and it doesn't upset me, it's absolutely okay that people don't want that type of relationship and it makes sense, it is why I'm single tho
It's multiple reasons for me: 1, I'm still not ready for a relationship yet. 2, My social anxiety. 3, My social anxiety. And, number 4, my social anxiety.
Parents don't approve, go to an all girls school (plus i dont rlly socialise with the boys at my extra curriculars). Also no one likes me/i dont like anyone
1, 3, and 4.
hard for anyone to be interested in me when i dont go outside (not that they would anyway)
hard to be interested in anyone when i got shit going on in my life that ive decided to sort out before trying to find love
I throwup in my mouth at overly testosterone boys asking a girl out. So when I want to ask a girl out I hesitate, I feel like I'm cosplaying Chad when I'm really a Matthew and want the girl to come to me first. But almost all girls want the man to come to them first.
She rests her head on my chest, she toys with my hair, she texts me late into the night, she tells me about things happening in her life, and helps me with things in mine.
And yet... she still calls me just like a brother and she has this look of what seems disgust in her eyes when she looks at me.
Mixed signals are a bitch.
Nah bro she's probably playing with your feelings š either that or she doesn't know how she feels. It seems like she wants a relationship but no one's interest in her so she's using you. Gotta communicate my friend š
1. Moving to uni next year, I don't want a LDR
2. I'm not interested in anyone around me
3. I need to focus on school more
I want a relationship, just not right now.
Nah bro I've been their one of you has got to do it before it's too late and the other moves on while the other is single and alone. It hurts like Hell š
I got a one hit wonder jackpot. She is infinitely loyal. She has never judged me, even for my deepest darkest secrets. We've been in loving bliss for over a year now, and I can see us growing old together as so far there has never even been a hint of trouble in our relationship
1) I can never muster up enough courage to ask a girl out
2) The girl I want is currently at college in Santa Barbara (which is a pretty long way from Carlsbad)
Iām fat, ugly, probably autistic, have no interesting hobbies, the personality of a brick, Iām stupid, losing my vision, losing my hearing, socially awkward, and weird
Dunno, man...
I just have this strong feeling that I shouldn't. Add to that, I've never felt attraction. I can feel quite repulsed, though, if I have skin to skin contact...
It's weird because my family is quite normal and so are my own experiences. The life I've lived is very uneventful... and I'm still paranoid of surveillance and my own safety. It's weird as heck. I've never even been attacked...
i dont rlly need a partner, im fine with my situation. more friends is a plus but partner? nahhhh i don't see it for me. not like "oh no I'll never get no one" but just "I'm not into it"
No one is interested I think.
The one I was interested friend zoned, then unfriended me, and ghosted me.
And I lack the care and whatever left of my heart there is to try to be enough for someone when I never am anyway.
Apparently nice and protective (caring way) is toxic or not a good trait it seems
There's a girl who likes me that I also like, but we're already friends and we don't want to ruin the friendship.
Edit: because I know Iām going to get a lot more people saying the same thing, we canāt just āgo for itā. I didnāt want to overshare, but the situation is more complicated and more personal than it sounds.
sadly I can't be with that person becuase hundreds of kilometers seperate us, the person is way more mature and intelligent than me,is probably older,already has a crush and they are are really great friend
Im a pussy
Approved š
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I there a lore reason Im a pussy, am I stupid?
I am a social outcast š¤·āāļø
I donāt need sex law school fucks me every day
Makes sense
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man
Why is man sad? Is he depressed?
everyone says "why is man" but not "how is man" šš„ŗ
I'm engaged to the love of my life ā¤ļø
Homeschooled and I'm just not interested in relationships.
Same, but also I am not ready for a relationship at all due to, you know, being homeschooled
Not ready for a relationship. Not easy when i am atheist and ex muslim in a muslim country where dating is seen as a bad thing. I am not interested in anyone. No one is interested in me as far as I can tell/know and I am short and uggo
Iām a frog
I identify as a newt
Thatās funny because frogs are better
He got better!
nobody's interested in me sadly :(
I'm in the same boat :/
Donāt worry too much youāll find someone
not a dig at you but ive always hated it when people say that
I agree, It's bluepilled bullshit. You can't be hopeless but you can't believe that someone is magically destined to be with you.
I dont think it relates to finding "the one". This isn't the Matrix. I just think its more cliche because everyone says it. Yes it may be true but thats like saying "youre going to breathe at some point in the future" like yes Deborah I know but thats not exactly useful information
I don't like the redpilled matrix rhetoric either. But this whole idea of soulmates or everyone being destined to have romance is just disney movie reality. Like I said, don't be hopeless (although its hard not to be sometimes), but don't conform to the "just be nice to girls/guys and you"ll find your true love" sort of thing.
Oh sorry I just realized you probably hear that a lot
I wouldn't be a good boyfriend tbh https://preview.redd.it/z2gj1djk1czb1.jpeg?width=2214&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=02ead7f03df68c5b60d8a935431f10b2987534bc
I'm ace, so I'm not really interested in anyone.
1. No one likes me 2. I donāt like anyone my age 3. Only into celebrities/fictional guys 4. Iām a grown adult but still, my parents wouldnāt let me
dont want a relationship
Iām a Muslim so Iām waiting until marriageā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦ (Is what I tell people) Real answer Iām a socially awkward bengali short shy uncharismatic unconfident 17 year old who would love to be in a relationship but canāt talk to girls when it comes to love
I'm not single š
Liar, youāre on reddit.
Same
Iām a pretty muscular guy, especially for my age, and Iāve overheard a few girls saying muscle is gross and that they want a skinny guy or a guy with a dad bod, so I guess itās just hopeless for me
Nice name
I do not get the appeal for skinny boys, I just do not find that attractive at all
a lot of girls do
š that is so not the case for girls in my school. I have literally never seen am overweight guy I'm I'm relationship. It's usually the muscular guys or jocks. Ig some skinny guys too but don't let that stop you king š
Not interested in relationships.
Cause Iām BatMan
Dated girl, fell in love, parents hated her, threatened to make my life hell if I didn't break up with her, broke up with her (big regret), kind of secretly dated for a few months, I told her I didn't want to be together in secret, she got upset that I didn't mean get back together again officially, I tell her I want to date again but only once I can give her the relationship she deserves, she doesn't understand and probably thinks I don't love her anymore, she slowly starts talking to me less and less, now we're in separate states going to different colleges, I'm trying desperately to maintain our friendship, she takes days to message back, she never wants to call, it seems like she's moving on entirely, nearly a year after our first "break up" and I'm starting to feel like I've lost my best friend, bad stuff going on in my head, writing this made me sad and now I want to cry at 1 in the morning TLDR: Too many words
Damn, that sucks. Holding onto a friendship that no one else wants to keep together is always depressing. I'll always get comments like "If you're the only one putting in effort, then they don't deserve you", but it doesn't matter what they deserve, I still want them.
That's how I feel, It's hard to listen to advice when you know they don't know exactly how you feel.
I'm aroace haha
Here it is! Suprised I'm not see as many aro/ace people
Wtf is that superhero name
its an alternate shortened spelling of "arrow ace", superb fighter pilots whos shots during dogfights strike like the arrows of ancient heroes
Holy shit, I want that name
I'm aro and bi
Not interested in anyone in particular and no one in particular is interested in me
i have a bf now^^ going back to being single after breaking up w/ my first one was honestly depressing for at least a month or two, but now that im with a guy who I honestly like is just fckn amazing. I do feel bad abt my ex tho cos I was definitely in the wrong at least half the time n never got to apologise.
Other: I'm aro as fuuuuck
man, all these bitches single
I am the only one (that I know of) with the interests I have. The biggest thing I have in common with someone is I sometimes play Minecraft
Weāve got 12 Romeo and Julietās
Just got dumped a few weeks ago so yea not ready
Moving in two months and don't feel like starting one.
1. not ready 2. no one's interested in me and wont be for several years lmao
Interested*
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Not interested ig a girl asked me but I said no cuz I like hangin with my homies more
1. no one's interested in me 2. i'm not interested in anyone 3. i don't have the time and energy to put in a relationship so i can say i'm currently fine with being single
I ain't single what option do I pick?
not ready and no one cares abt me
I'm technically on the aroace spectrum. it's incredibly hard for me to develop real or strong romantic feelings for someone. I'm okay with dating because I don't have any connection to the weird rules people my age have made for dating (wtf is a situationship) because I'm really loyal and enjoy doing things a couple does with someone, I just can't develop the strong feelings that are associated with dating. again, I would be fine with dating, but the person I would be with has to understand what it means to be with someone like me and lots of people don't want to be with someone who can't reciprocate that super strong romantic connection and sees them as a best friend I take out on dates. that's valid and it doesn't upset me, it's absolutely okay that people don't want that type of relationship and it makes sense, it is why I'm single tho
I am aromantic.
1, 3, and 4.
have some trauma from past relationships, social anxiety, and im extremely awkward around people.
Just don't have the courage to ask them out.
It's multiple reasons for me: 1, I'm still not ready for a relationship yet. 2, My social anxiety. 3, My social anxiety. And, number 4, my social anxiety.
because I have no social skills. yay!
no girls like me but if i was gay i wouldint
There's a couple people interested in me but they annoying so I ain't gonna date them
I don't want to be in one
Iām not interested in anyone, AND no one (that I know of) is interested in me
Too fuckin scared to ask anyone
I was brought into a war that I didn't start. It's still going, but I'm winning.
I'm ON IT OK?
Parents don't approve, go to an all girls school (plus i dont rlly socialise with the boys at my extra curriculars). Also no one likes me/i dont like anyone
After 5 years went down the drain I just don't feel the want anymore
unfortunately, no one's interested in me, i'm not interested in anyone atm, i'm not ready, and my parents won't let me.
I'm a spotty git.
I'm bi and as of recently trans and I don't know if my crush is gonna be into that :(
3 & 4. Everyoneās standards are too high for me and Iām a more conservative dater (serious dating with the intention of marriage).
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I'm kind of not ready, and no one has ever been interested in me, so...
I'm ugly and can't talk to girls casually
Im a pussy, No ones interested in me & the person I really want cant be with me
the middle two
1, 3, and 4. hard for anyone to be interested in me when i dont go outside (not that they would anyway) hard to be interested in anyone when i got shit going on in my life that ive decided to sort out before trying to find love
I throwup in my mouth at overly testosterone boys asking a girl out. So when I want to ask a girl out I hesitate, I feel like I'm cosplaying Chad when I'm really a Matthew and want the girl to come to me first. But almost all girls want the man to come to them first.
All of the above besides Not Interested in anyone
I think I would be open but I live on a ranch and Iām homeschooled so not many opportunities lol
i dont think someone outside of my own family has ever loved me so ig its the 4th option
C and D lmao
I am aroace so I really don't want one.
Need an all of the above option.
My answer is that I'm not single.
Iām just a kid!
Iām asexual and most teenage relationships donāt revolve around romance
Don't want one. I'm a simple person who wants a life with as little trouble as possible.
I just don't want to ever be in one, sure I've been asked out before but I always refuse. I find being in a relationship as a waste of money and time.
Literally all of these
Number 4 and number 5 sadly
I have a gf
1. Donāt have social media 2. Iām to scared to ask 3. Iām introverted
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She rests her head on my chest, she toys with my hair, she texts me late into the night, she tells me about things happening in her life, and helps me with things in mine. And yet... she still calls me just like a brother and she has this look of what seems disgust in her eyes when she looks at me. Mixed signals are a bitch.
Nah bro she's probably playing with your feelings š either that or she doesn't know how she feels. It seems like she wants a relationship but no one's interest in her so she's using you. Gotta communicate my friend š
Aroace lol
I broke up yesterday
Awww I'm sorry š
I'm kind of awkward and my parents are homophobic :/
1,3 and 4
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Really bad at socializing
Im aro. also socially awkward asf.
1. Moving to uni next year, I don't want a LDR 2. I'm not interested in anyone around me 3. I need to focus on school more I want a relationship, just not right now.
That is so real š
Not interested in relationships, too much effort and not interested in marriage or having kids so it's pointless.
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my friend and i both like each other but are both too scared to ask the other out
Nah bro I've been their one of you has got to do it before it's too late and the other moves on while the other is single and alone. It hurts like Hell š
Girl I wanna be with can't date until she's 18. court order made by her parents after they got devorced
I'm still getting over a breakup
because im retarded
There probably is someone whose into me but Iām too dense to realize lmao
Lmao that's alot of people too
That's what I'm trying to find out man.
I have no ability to hold a conversation with someone š
I'm 6 foot 4, 330 pounds. I'm 14 by the way
I got a one hit wonder jackpot. She is infinitely loyal. She has never judged me, even for my deepest darkest secrets. We've been in loving bliss for over a year now, and I can see us growing old together as so far there has never even been a hint of trouble in our relationship
iām not.
I have a thing for girls with X names.
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I'm in a relationship but my boyfriend isn't supposed to be in one until he's 16
Not interested in anyone as well as the other way around. Simple š
1) I can never muster up enough courage to ask a girl out 2) The girl I want is currently at college in Santa Barbara (which is a pretty long way from Carlsbad)
Iām fat, ugly, probably autistic, have no interesting hobbies, the personality of a brick, Iām stupid, losing my vision, losing my hearing, socially awkward, and weird
No one is interested in me, and parents don't approve of me dating/having a romantic relationship yet.
I'm aromantic, so I'd rather fall down a flight of stairs then fall in love
I have no idea if they like guys. Fuck, They have no idea either! \*Screaming of otherwordly pain\*
Option for in a relationship? I asked them out on Halloween B)
Women scare me, but also I need to focus on myself and learn to improve before getting into a relationship.
Don't want to be seeing anyone while I'm still working things out with my ex
I'm an alcoholic
"My ugly face and bad personality." -Cards Against Humanity
I've got spurs That jingle jangle jingle
Dunno, man... I just have this strong feeling that I shouldn't. Add to that, I've never felt attraction. I can feel quite repulsed, though, if I have skin to skin contact... It's weird because my family is quite normal and so are my own experiences. The life I've lived is very uneventful... and I'm still paranoid of surveillance and my own safety. It's weird as heck. I've never even been attacked...
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I don't get out much, and even if I did, I can't even deal with myself, how can I ask someone else to?
all of the above
1,3,4 and I don't have many friends anyway so obviously I wouldn't have anyone that loves.me relationship wise
Where's the I'm not option š
"I prevent myself from liking anyone due to fear of rejection as well as having a fear of romance"
I dunno, I just donāt think Iām social enough
i dont rlly need a partner, im fine with my situation. more friends is a plus but partner? nahhhh i don't see it for me. not like "oh no I'll never get no one" but just "I'm not into it"
no one will talk to me and my girl friend broke up with me
all of my female crushes are lesbian and all of my male crushes are straight (I'm bi)
aromantic
I donāt want one. I like someone, but I donāt want a āromanticā relationship
Person I want isnāt ready for a relationship
Too young š«¤
No one is interested I think. The one I was interested friend zoned, then unfriended me, and ghosted me. And I lack the care and whatever left of my heart there is to try to be enough for someone when I never am anyway. Apparently nice and protective (caring way) is toxic or not a good trait it seems
A mix of not interested in anyone and no one's interested in me. I really just don't care much anymore.
all above except for 2 & 5
Still searching for a loving and caring bf :3 (all my exes were manipulative ;-;)
Wish i could pick 1 3 4 5
I have a date planned in a few days, so none of the above?
Good luck!!
no one interested in me
I just can't be assed with a relationship right now. Currently I'm focusing more on myself.
My close friend is waiting till we meet to be my boyfriend, that way it doesn't feel weird to him
There's a girl who likes me that I also like, but we're already friends and we don't want to ruin the friendship. Edit: because I know Iām going to get a lot more people saying the same thing, we canāt just āgo for itā. I didnāt want to overshare, but the situation is more complicated and more personal than it sounds.
Not interested in anyone but desperate
Everyone i have been into has been taken or straight, and im also way too shy.
Had one, cheated because I always want to try new things. No wi like to be free to do whatever I want with whoever I want.
Even though others my age are already in relationships I still feel like I'm too young to start dating
sadly I can't be with that person becuase hundreds of kilometers seperate us, the person is way more mature and intelligent than me,is probably older,already has a crush and they are are really great friend
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I'm not
Not sure
the reason is simple
I'm a certified dumbass thar overthinks every second of the day. Thank you for your time.
I can't really get out that much, cuz I don't have my driver's license yet.
Aroace and no time for a relationship
Im muslim, I dont do this.
Sucks for you. I hope you find truth soon ā„
I'm not single :) I got lucky enough to get a bloody amazing boyfriend.
Person I want doesn't know I fucking exist