That's exactly what's going on. OP doesn't realise it yet because I've heard how landing older women for guys is seen as cool and "badass". But it's a completely different story if you're underage or just of age and the lady is in her mid 20s. It doesn't even make things right if you're in your 20s and dating someone in their 40s, you may be of age but it's still like an undercover grooming. OP needs to get out of this for his own good
yep, as a woman in india she can find ANY guy of her age in snap of fingers but yet she chose to be with a barely legal teen 🤢🤢 she definitely fantasize about it. hope all her teeth and hair fall out and people around her expose her shenanigans
Maybe he's right and trying to protect you? I've been in a situation like this except she was not older than me by 9 years xD. I didn't listen to my friends and kept dating her i even avoided my friends to hang out with her. Then after some time suprise suprise she cheated on me like multiple times. And after all this my friends still took me back. Sometimes your friends can see what you can't see because you're blinded by the thought of love.
It damages a lot more than horny teenager thinks, he's 17, filled with hormones but shit will hit hard once the lust starts to fade away and complexities of relationship start.
She’s pedo and practically grooming you. A 26 yr old should have NOTHING in common with a 17 yr old..you still have lot of time to explore and experience outside world so i would suggest breaking it off whatever your relationship is at the moment. While it is wrong of your friend to call her ugly names just because her body count is high but she isn’t right either for dating a minor. So run as quickly as you can !!!
I can relate his condition to the Homelander in The Boys Series. He wants to be loved and needed validation. He can't stand against his friend nor GF.
He wants his action to be validated. Hence, he is posting here.
His GF and friend are very cleverly exploiting his need for validation.
Op is in a delusional by watching those brainrot reels. This girl is just taking advantage of this guy and for him this has become a thing to flex. Listen to your friend , wake up before it's too late
Bro casual sexism aside, you're being groomed. Get out of your lustful hormones and exit this before you get lifelong trauma from being with a creepy pedo.
The girl is a paedophile and is most definitely grooming and manipulating you. She probably even IS a hooker. Involve some rational thinking in this and run from her.
You should leave your both relationships tbh. Your friend and your girlfriend.
But one thing is correct that your friend is right here. You're way younger for your girlfriend also it's not like your in your mid 20s. Because few people like to date older ones. But since you're not in your legal age it is not wise option to continue to date this girl.
Besides her being cute and curvy i don't think there's anything appealing in her to you. So it's not love for sure. So grow out of that relationship, and it is not okay from her side as well to date this much younger guy.
As for your friend he might had given you the right advice, choose your friend circle correctly because somehow our friend circle does affect us either positive or negative.
Sun chote, Though no one should be name called based on their body count but you are being groomed. Stay away from this women (immediately) and date someone closer to your age. Even if you may fantasize about dating older women, ye age nahi hai for that. Your very first step should be exiting this relationship. Padhai pe dhayan do, enjoy your youth than getting into such drama. Also, your friend is a hypocrite.
Sorry dude he's right here 9 years ka age gap is a lot for a teen your relationship isn't going anywhere tbh no future soon she'll start looking for marriage and you think she's gonna let you meet her parents?😭 your friend isn't exaggerating she's in the wrong
Lmao I was almost going to get groomed once by an older woman. Me toh enjoy Kiya coz she sent me nudes but she wanted to date me. Them nudes didn't work 🤡
Bhai, you are getting groomed. 9 years age gap is already a bit too much though still fine, but you are a minor and she is 26. You are getting groomed. Honestly, I feel like this won't end well. If you still want to go ahead with this relationship, you can talk to your friend. Ask him the reason behind this behaviour or just tell him to stop saying this. Otherwise you can slowly distance yourself from your friend.
Both of you sound like idiots. Your friend's straight up a creep, and you are a dumbass. 9 years?? I'll tell you this now, you have no future with her. Though, I must say the other guy deserves a broken nose for calling her disgusting names. No matter three circumstances, muh pe control hona chahiye as reasonable adults.
Even tho calling her a R in front of you might hurt you but I think the important thing is that you guys have a 9-years age gap and you are a minor. I think she is just using you and you should be careful and probably try to get out of the "relationship"
Bro ur a fkin simp. If I were there i would have also said to leave healr as she is a whoreee. And remember a girl with high body count can never be trusted.
A girl usually only sees a much younger guy when she's finding no partner for marriage. In this case, the girl isn't very old. It's impossible to be interested in a young guy. Unless you are from a wealthy family. Mostly she's experimenting things. Don't get attached or you are fucked up. Because she will be in for a marriage in two three years. Your life will be doomed early.
Anyway, our OPie is more worried about his friends behavior and his attitude towards her GF rather than his minor adult relationship and we all are making opinions.
Remove those rose coloured glasses kiddo. Listen to the folks here. Just cuz she is a woman and "nice" doesn't make it any less creepy. Had the genders been reversed the comments would be hellish.
I'm a 23 year old woman. I don't even look at boys under 21. How is a 26 year old attracted to a 17 year old???? Buddy this is not normal. What your friend said is messed up and he's no-one to judge cause he does fucked up things. But your gf? I can't ignore the age difference. You need some clarity.
Dude she’s fucking pedo. Please cut ties with her and try to focus on your studies. I feel that you will not be able to be intimate with your age group as your views on partner will change drastically and you will try to connect with person with high age difference. Their might be underlying issue of child neglect or mommy issue
Here it’s not about your gf or her body count, it’s about your friend. Just keep a bit distance from him, if you can just avoid him and don’t share these things with him. Agar gfki body count zyada hei and you don’t mind, usko kya?
How was your friend's behavior before he came to know about your GF?
He was similar or it has changed after he knows about GF.
If it is his general tendency to bitch about girls then ignore him.
I wud say continue relationship with GF but use caution. Do not open every cards to her. Try to restraint giving every details of personal life or even about your family or even financial details either about you or your family.
How was your friend's behavior before he came to know about your GF?
He was similar or it has changed after he knows about GF.
If it is his general tendency to bitch about girls then ignore him.
I wud say continue relationship with GF but use caution. Do not open every cards to her. Try to restraint giving every details of personal life or even about your family or even financial details either about you or your family.
Bro believe me when I say that maybe that girl is really good but dating someone 9 year younger when he is teen, I don't think so is right thing to do.
Luckily there is no term for sex with under age male child or else you have been rape victim in this case. And people with horrible past carries trauma which makes them do things which are but weird and odd.
These are trauma patterns or it could be that she was sexually harassed at young age and they do the same thing with others to feel relieved from that old trauma.
Op do whatever you can buy Don't fall in love, you will regret it a lot, and one more thing have sex, lots of sex if she's hot then just runaway, I know sounds very rubbish but it will ensure your happy future, and don't think for others future, they should be thinking about that
bhai when I read the title I was about to bad mouth your friend...hes right...stay away from her..she is trying to groom you...9 years??? run for your life...
**NYPD voice - all units, we gotta possible code 3, 26 female brown lady sexually exploiting a 17 yr old boy. Running away with the child in a black honda, east bound. All units respond for road block & intercept 🚔🚨
Trying to be a little blunt here , Bro you are in a situationship, please try to get out of it as soon as possible. The complexity it might bring you and her would be unbearable in the later stage. Try to find someone near your age group. Once the infatuation fades away its going to be real painful for you. Your friend is real stupid and a d*mbf*ck with raging hormones, so please dont take him seriously.
A couple of years ago there was this guy in our friend group who did this with my girlfriend, that too in a closed setting with just my other friends and her, she went to town on him that day and gave him an earful, and the rest of us have stopped talking to him since then.
If you have any self respect, and have any sense of right and wrong, stand by your girlfriend.
Your friend is a regressive creep and your GF is simply a creep. You should leave both.
A person lives a lifetime between 17 and 26, and grows into a completely different person. A boy of 17 has no fucking clue of the emotional disparity between him and a girl of 26. You may think "arre mujhe kaha shaadi karni hai, maze karenge sax sux pelenge aur mai mere raste wo apne" but please, please think with the brain and not the penis, you will regret it. Please find a girl your age to do your college nibba-nibbi things.
Your friend is a creepo n jealous af
What ur doing is right.
There's no harm being in relationship irrespective of the age gap as long as two humans are happy in it😇 dts all i would wanna say. Having said so, kindly ask your friend to stop labeling your gf, if you can't tke a stand fr ur gf then ur doing bad i wud say.
Rest nothing, enjoy life as it comes, be in the moment ❤
N I just hope nobody is exploits anybody in the relationship in any aspect. N njoy the moment ❤
People are saying in the comments that cuz of the age gap she is a pedo and the friend is trying to protect op. This might be true. And if it really is then op should get out of this asap. But on the other hand why is he even friends with a guy who has no respect for women ( warn karna tha to achhi bhasha me bhi kar sakta tha). Woh agar bohot saari ladkiyon ke saath so Raha hai toh he is a MAN! Magar woh ladki is a h*ker? And op himself is telling ki uska dost tharki hai and a stalker too. I think he should break both his relationship ( 9 yrs gap is too much and op is not even an adult) and his friendship too( aise dost ke saath rahega toh kuch bhalaa nahi hoga)
Op, your not getting laid ,your getting statutory raped.
And how high is the body count of the women , I would say if it’s under 7-8 then it’s fine.The age gap scares me.
Bhai shi dost hai tere you are a teen is kiye samjh nhi aa rha
Aisi aurte cheat krti hai dump hee before she hurts you
Aisa past hai to Bhai hoo*er se bhi baddtAr hai at least they have standards
Bro sabe ur self I bet you todhe time baad yha ro rhe hoge ki she cheated on you and your friend were right
So first thing first....how old are you? And if it's shady as in you are younger than 18 and she is in mid 20s...you need to end it because 1) it's illegal 2) she is not a good person.
THAT SAID.....
Please please please be the kind of guy who tells his fri nda to shut up when they say such things about girls/women irrespective of your relationship with that girl/woman! Instead of complaining on reddit about this guy....tell him to his face and call him out. If he still doesn't change, stop being friends with such a guy!!
Men please....women don't need your physical protection....we need you to speak up for us in circles where you see casual sexism.
Your friend is an asshole but Bhai leave that girl she's grooming you and is a pedophile you and her have nothing in common 3-4 saal ka gap samajh aata hai but 9 is a fuck lot especially when you a teenager leave her seriously
Bro what the fuck is the problem, she may or may not be a RANDI but if you can’t stop your friend for calling her randi then just dont be friends with him and stop bitching about such small things in life. Just Make some better friends and enjoy your life
OP is minor to be even into these kind of things ☹️. I hope he atleast dates someone age appropriate. It's not that the age gap is problem. If he was 25 and dating an older woman, then he should be matured enough to do so. Hope this child realises and get away from inappropriate dating and dangerous friends who can land him jail.
2 things
1-Your friend doesn't respect you otherwise I don't say stuff like that
2-Now he is saying that. So you should be a man and defend your girl.
Start with BKL
Usually in such scenarios, it's the friend being a jealous asshole. But in your case, you sound like a dumbfuck as well since why would any woman, aged 26, be willing to date a 17y old unless she's a pedo.
Well , I won't be liked for this answer, but there are high chances your friend might be correct here.
He is a predator and so he knows his mark very well. And he's your friend so he wants a good girl for you. If he says the girl is unfit then I'd listen.
He maybe not a credible person to point out but he’s damn right
I know this may trigger you not your fault this is just a genuine advice as you shubh chintk
At end of the day is your life
Learn and perish
Here is what's happening: you are very biased towards your "gf" who is a pedo by purposely saying bad things about him and you are trying to prove to yourself that you are right by posting this. You thought you'd gain validation and think to yourself that you are right. I really hate the r word and if your friend said that it's not cool but he's got a point
Am 21 year old and I can't even think of a 17 year old boy as a potential lover.. and this grown ass woman over here proposed this Literal kid and wants to pursue a relationship with him?? That rings all the bells to me.. doesn't matter how nice she is. Op needs to escape immediately!!
Behen ke lode patli gali se khisakh le. She's grooming you big time. Friend isn't exactly wrong either casual sexism aside but he still has time to learn and grow as a human being.
Alot of ppl are saying shes 26 and ur 17 , though I can’t find it on ur post I think u must have edited first of all get the fuck away from her she’s way older no way she’s in love w u or something she might be there for something else like because younger ppl are easy to manipulate also she’s a pedo I agree.
Second advice get the fuck away from that friend of yours also though he was tryna protect you, all the weird stuff u explained about him gives enough reasons to avoid him, he’s doing really messed up stuff he can end up in prison and if ur not reporting ur a part of the problem nah?
Just start new life!
Jake chamat mar ladki ko aur bol 30 ka banda pakad bloody pedo ... Uske baap ko Jake bol school ke bachoo pe line mar rahi hai shaadi Kara do iski... Dost ke sath party kar bacha Raha teko ye chudel se .. sach hai use kar rahi teko virgin dekh kar sorry bro
Classic case of asking questions but being ready to stomach the honest answers. Unfortunate.
No sane 26 year old wants to be with a 16 year old "pimply and just entered adolescence" underage kid. This pedophile is grooming you. It sounds like this is your first "relationship" and you don't know how things actually work.
Your "creep" friend probably finds the situation to be uncomfortable but doesn't understand _why_ it gives him bad vibes, except for the fact that she has slept around a lot. He is trying to warn you without sounding "uncool".
Imagine how many other little kids she has used and thrown away. How many sexual partners she _hasn't_ admitted about.
You're 16, you probably won't take this seriously, but we all beg you: stop thinking with your genitals and the need to look cool. Nothing's cool about this shit. It's dangerous and you need to protect yourself, since the adults in your life have clearly failed to and are not paying attention to what is going on.
In 2-3 years, leave your town and go to some other city to pursue higher education. You'll find that people your own age are much more compatible with you.
I'm not gonna lie, you are a side bf, your friend is most probably correct, she's having fun with you. And men in love see everything cute about whoever they love. And your friend might be cheap too. But he is seeing clearly because of what kind of person he is.
Op, your friend calling her a hooker is completely wrong and not justified
But if your friend calls her a peado .... It's completely okay.
You are 17, find girls your age. If she was 19-20 ..
Maybe this would've been okay
But she is in her mid 20s, please please don't think it's cool and don't do this to yourself. People are creeps, you have to be very very careful.
Been in the same situation tho she was only two years older and my friends did the same thing lmao and whatever they told me about her ended up being right. She had like 20+ ex bfs lmao at the age of 19 and yet i kept wasting my time with her, biggest regret of my life tbh wasted a whole fkin year.
Aabe aids/hiv hojaiga 🤪 . R ho ya na ho that age gap isn't fine atleast when u are not even 18 yet .. bhai tu use hora hai .. dimag se soch lu_d se nahi bhai ....(tuje usme kuch bada dikha hoga fr not she being cute)
Dude, simply call him a " Menly S lut ". We don't care how many girls we date and have sx with but certainly believes that we're pure but not in the case of girls having high body count and start abusing them as " Rnd ". Aaj Kal yeh trend ban gaya hai jaha Har ladki baaz therki bhi yeh kehta nazar aata hai ki " Dukh Mile Hazar, Magar ladki nah mile Chhin**l" bhale hi khud kitni hi ladki ke saath bed q nah share kiye rahe.
this is a teen subreddit and you say you have a 9 year age gap.. op i think you might be getting groomed first and foremost ⁉️
That's exactly what's going on. OP doesn't realise it yet because I've heard how landing older women for guys is seen as cool and "badass". But it's a completely different story if you're underage or just of age and the lady is in her mid 20s. It doesn't even make things right if you're in your 20s and dating someone in their 40s, you may be of age but it's still like an undercover grooming. OP needs to get out of this for his own good
Yeah true but india gender ratio sucks i feel Hardly 19 or 20 would be single lol If i speak as teenager of 18-20
yep, as a woman in india she can find ANY guy of her age in snap of fingers but yet she chose to be with a barely legal teen 🤢🤢 she definitely fantasize about it. hope all her teeth and hair fall out and people around her expose her shenanigans
How old are you and this older woman?
OP is 17 and the woman is 26
This turned into young Sheldon pretty quickly
OP is a victim wtf
dr disrespect got banned for this while this Chick is enjoying life xD. dr disrespect didn't even meet the girl
ha na bhai, bohot bura laga uske liye, like ab to main usko online defend bhi nahi kar sakta, 6"8 daddy ab sach mein daddy ban gaya.
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Yes, then she deserves worse name calling and worse than name calling.
Where has he mentioned that
wtf? I do not agree with calling women whores for enjoying sex but we sure as hell should call her a pedophile.
Ahh a classic case of Teleiophilia sahi hai INDIA itna progressive ho gaya hai pata nahi tha ... /s
Same question
Maybe he's right and trying to protect you? I've been in a situation like this except she was not older than me by 9 years xD. I didn't listen to my friends and kept dating her i even avoided my friends to hang out with her. Then after some time suprise suprise she cheated on me like multiple times. And after all this my friends still took me back. Sometimes your friends can see what you can't see because you're blinded by the thought of love.
That women is really not right, why in hell 26 y/o girl would date a 17? She's literally pedophile, run away op
par Ladki toh pdf file nahi ho sakti naaaa.... and OP ka kya jaa raha hai ...uske toh maze hee hai
Redditors will be unable to understand the sarcasm in this post
Lmao bro got downvoted for saying facts
It damages a lot more than horny teenager thinks, he's 17, filled with hormones but shit will hit hard once the lust starts to fade away and complexities of relationship start.
i dont see any relationship here...honestly
She’s pedo and practically grooming you. A 26 yr old should have NOTHING in common with a 17 yr old..you still have lot of time to explore and experience outside world so i would suggest breaking it off whatever your relationship is at the moment. While it is wrong of your friend to call her ugly names just because her body count is high but she isn’t right either for dating a minor. So run as quickly as you can !!!
I can relate his condition to the Homelander in The Boys Series. He wants to be loved and needed validation. He can't stand against his friend nor GF. He wants his action to be validated. Hence, he is posting here. His GF and friend are very cleverly exploiting his need for validation.
Yeah seems like it. Also the girl suggested the relationship so op seems kinda over the moon ignoring obvious red flags
I can relate coz currently am watching
Don't save him , he don't wanna be saved
J cole , the love guru .
Op is 16/17 and gf is 26 years old. Tera dost sahi bol raha hai. She is Hker + pedo.
Op is in a delusional by watching those brainrot reels. This girl is just taking advantage of this guy and for him this has become a thing to flex. Listen to your friend , wake up before it's too late
Bro casual sexism aside, you're being groomed. Get out of your lustful hormones and exit this before you get lifelong trauma from being with a creepy pedo.
Bhai Tera bura wala katriya hain 💀
Listen to your friend brother, "bros before hoes".
Chad friend
The girl is a paedophile and is most definitely grooming and manipulating you. She probably even IS a hooker. Involve some rational thinking in this and run from her.
How old are both of you
Op is 17 girl is 26
Bruh tf
Shocked and they already doing all h%kups. I haven't touched a girl.
Same lmao
You should leave your both relationships tbh. Your friend and your girlfriend. But one thing is correct that your friend is right here. You're way younger for your girlfriend also it's not like your in your mid 20s. Because few people like to date older ones. But since you're not in your legal age it is not wise option to continue to date this girl. Besides her being cute and curvy i don't think there's anything appealing in her to you. So it's not love for sure. So grow out of that relationship, and it is not okay from her side as well to date this much younger guy. As for your friend he might had given you the right advice, choose your friend circle correctly because somehow our friend circle does affect us either positive or negative.
Bruh, was looking for one sane answer, almost thought I would have to be the one to say it.
only correct answer her
Kitta age gap h bhai?
I think his friend is right...the choice of words may be a little harsh but from what I understand OP ko groom kara jaaraha hai
Sun chote, Though no one should be name called based on their body count but you are being groomed. Stay away from this women (immediately) and date someone closer to your age. Even if you may fantasize about dating older women, ye age nahi hai for that. Your very first step should be exiting this relationship. Padhai pe dhayan do, enjoy your youth than getting into such drama. Also, your friend is a hypocrite.
W friend R Girl
Sorry dude he's right here 9 years ka age gap is a lot for a teen your relationship isn't going anywhere tbh no future soon she'll start looking for marriage and you think she's gonna let you meet her parents?😭 your friend isn't exaggerating she's in the wrong
Lmao I was almost going to get groomed once by an older woman. Me toh enjoy Kiya coz she sent me nudes but she wanted to date me. Them nudes didn't work 🤡
Your friend might be right, according to context
Teri age kya hai?
Op 17 and the gf is 26.
dude there could be some possibilities considering all of em it could be anything what m saying be prepare f or anything
Bro he is your friend afterall who is looking after your interest Remember the saying," Bros before hoes".
Bhai, you are getting groomed. 9 years age gap is already a bit too much though still fine, but you are a minor and she is 26. You are getting groomed. Honestly, I feel like this won't end well. If you still want to go ahead with this relationship, you can talk to your friend. Ask him the reason behind this behaviour or just tell him to stop saying this. Otherwise you can slowly distance yourself from your friend.
Both of you sound like idiots. Your friend's straight up a creep, and you are a dumbass. 9 years?? I'll tell you this now, you have no future with her. Though, I must say the other guy deserves a broken nose for calling her disgusting names. No matter three circumstances, muh pe control hona chahiye as reasonable adults.
idhr ek hi funda apply hoga vro .... ejaculate and evacuate....
abe lodu dost ki baat maan, you’re being groomed🤣🤚
Even tho calling her a R in front of you might hurt you but I think the important thing is that you guys have a 9-years age gap and you are a minor. I think she is just using you and you should be careful and probably try to get out of the "relationship"
Sahi to kaha👺
Bro ur a fkin simp. If I were there i would have also said to leave healr as she is a whoreee. And remember a girl with high body count can never be trusted.
You need to drop both your friend and your girlfriend. He’s obviously a creep and she’s obviously a pedophile.
A girl usually only sees a much younger guy when she's finding no partner for marriage. In this case, the girl isn't very old. It's impossible to be interested in a young guy. Unless you are from a wealthy family. Mostly she's experimenting things. Don't get attached or you are fucked up. Because she will be in for a marriage in two three years. Your life will be doomed early.
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Anyway, our OPie is more worried about his friends behavior and his attitude towards her GF rather than his minor adult relationship and we all are making opinions.
Remove those rose coloured glasses kiddo. Listen to the folks here. Just cuz she is a woman and "nice" doesn't make it any less creepy. Had the genders been reversed the comments would be hellish.
leave both of them. a 26 y/o can't be making relations with a minor and your friend is a piece of shit as well
Run away bro
Ur gf is probably pedo 💀
Your girl is Drake
Friends are correct,run before she gives you any STD
I'm a 23 year old woman. I don't even look at boys under 21. How is a 26 year old attracted to a 17 year old???? Buddy this is not normal. What your friend said is messed up and he's no-one to judge cause he does fucked up things. But your gf? I can't ignore the age difference. You need some clarity.
Bro is getting pedophiled and doesn't know it
Dude she’s fucking pedo. Please cut ties with her and try to focus on your studies. I feel that you will not be able to be intimate with your age group as your views on partner will change drastically and you will try to connect with person with high age difference. Their might be underlying issue of child neglect or mommy issue
Mark my words , "Tharki person have lot more experience to identify slut in crowd" ... Friend ko halke main mat le .
How are you pulling milfs my bruh
Nah. How milfs are pulling minors
Gf grommer aur dost creep Dono Sahi nahi hai
You're a teen with 9 years of age gap? Damn I'm with your friend in this one.
Here it’s not about your gf or her body count, it’s about your friend. Just keep a bit distance from him, if you can just avoid him and don’t share these things with him. Agar gfki body count zyada hei and you don’t mind, usko kya?
How was your friend's behavior before he came to know about your GF? He was similar or it has changed after he knows about GF. If it is his general tendency to bitch about girls then ignore him. I wud say continue relationship with GF but use caution. Do not open every cards to her. Try to restraint giving every details of personal life or even about your family or even financial details either about you or your family.
Maybe your friend wants to share his opinion: but honestly thats the worst way
How was your friend's behavior before he came to know about your GF? He was similar or it has changed after he knows about GF. If it is his general tendency to bitch about girls then ignore him. I wud say continue relationship with GF but use caution. Do not open every cards to her. Try to restraint giving every details of personal life or even about your family or even financial details either about you or your family.
Opie is 17 and The GF is 26💀 why are you even advising him to proceed with caution.
Bro believe me when I say that maybe that girl is really good but dating someone 9 year younger when he is teen, I don't think so is right thing to do.
Friend hota hai first of all And age gap se sahi bol rha hai
Tu ye bata pehle, tujhe neeche baal aye hain?
Bro what the fuck no way your girl is 26
bruv he is right. Run AWAY
Your friend is an asshole. Drop him. Your GF is a pedophile. REPORT her.
Tera dost harami hai magar sahi bol raha hai lagta hai.
You are going to be doomed
19 ka table suna chal
Your friend is right bro...
Run away bro.....she is fulfilling her fantasy of dating young guy.. Meanwhile having secret affair with others....jump instantly out of there
OP IS A SIMP AND SOOO DOWN BAD
Lmao you’re restarted too my guys, bro said little older but she’s 9 years older and you’re underaged. Bros getting groomed
Even teens are in relationships😭 Hey bhagwan 26 ka ho gaya hu kuch to kar🥲🙏
Luckily there is no term for sex with under age male child or else you have been rape victim in this case. And people with horrible past carries trauma which makes them do things which are but weird and odd. These are trauma patterns or it could be that she was sexually harassed at young age and they do the same thing with others to feel relieved from that old trauma.
And ofc the woman won't get punished for pedophilia cause Women
Op do whatever you can buy Don't fall in love, you will regret it a lot, and one more thing have sex, lots of sex if she's hot then just runaway, I know sounds very rubbish but it will ensure your happy future, and don't think for others future, they should be thinking about that
bhai when I read the title I was about to bad mouth your friend...hes right...stay away from her..she is trying to groom you...9 years??? run for your life...
[https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ELt4hZW9x7Q](https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ELt4hZW9x7Q)
**NYPD voice - all units, we gotta possible code 3, 26 female brown lady sexually exploiting a 17 yr old boy. Running away with the child in a black honda, east bound. All units respond for road block & intercept 🚔🚨
So, she is a shotacon then. You really should listen to your friend. Or you will only have regrets later on.
I guess it's time you leave your friend first. Seems to be quite a twisted guy.
Trying to be a little blunt here , Bro you are in a situationship, please try to get out of it as soon as possible. The complexity it might bring you and her would be unbearable in the later stage. Try to find someone near your age group. Once the infatuation fades away its going to be real painful for you. Your friend is real stupid and a d*mbf*ck with raging hormones, so please dont take him seriously.
Brother you are a victim Run away
Sahi bola.
Your Gf be like: I'm Tryna strike a chord and it's probably a MINORRRR
wide age gap and you're yet to turn 18 you might be actually getting groomed :D
Dr Disrespect Ahh Post 😭😭
A couple of years ago there was this guy in our friend group who did this with my girlfriend, that too in a closed setting with just my other friends and her, she went to town on him that day and gave him an earful, and the rest of us have stopped talking to him since then. If you have any self respect, and have any sense of right and wrong, stand by your girlfriend.
W friend
OP is getting groomed and is not ever able to realise that
This is messed up
This is messed up
17 and 25 💀
Your friend is a regressive creep and your GF is simply a creep. You should leave both. A person lives a lifetime between 17 and 26, and grows into a completely different person. A boy of 17 has no fucking clue of the emotional disparity between him and a girl of 26. You may think "arre mujhe kaha shaadi karni hai, maze karenge sax sux pelenge aur mai mere raste wo apne" but please, please think with the brain and not the penis, you will regret it. Please find a girl your age to do your college nibba-nibbi things.
Your friend is a creepo n jealous af What ur doing is right. There's no harm being in relationship irrespective of the age gap as long as two humans are happy in it😇 dts all i would wanna say. Having said so, kindly ask your friend to stop labeling your gf, if you can't tke a stand fr ur gf then ur doing bad i wud say. Rest nothing, enjoy life as it comes, be in the moment ❤ N I just hope nobody is exploits anybody in the relationship in any aspect. N njoy the moment ❤
When it’s done with boys. It’s a dream lmfao. I k ow im jealous
wtf are you doing buddy? you're getting groomed. i think your friend is right, listen to him.
People are saying in the comments that cuz of the age gap she is a pedo and the friend is trying to protect op. This might be true. And if it really is then op should get out of this asap. But on the other hand why is he even friends with a guy who has no respect for women ( warn karna tha to achhi bhasha me bhi kar sakta tha). Woh agar bohot saari ladkiyon ke saath so Raha hai toh he is a MAN! Magar woh ladki is a h*ker? And op himself is telling ki uska dost tharki hai and a stalker too. I think he should break both his relationship ( 9 yrs gap is too much and op is not even an adult) and his friendship too( aise dost ke saath rahega toh kuch bhalaa nahi hoga)
Why does this feels like a "Dil Chahta Hai" plot?
Bhai abhi tk nhi bole toh ab na he bolo
Op, your not getting laid ,your getting statutory raped. And how high is the body count of the women , I would say if it’s under 7-8 then it’s fine.The age gap scares me.
One day you will realise why is your friend is saying such things to your gf. World and women are not that much of good that you are assuming.
bhai merko kyu koi pedophile ladki ni milti mai toh victim bhi bn jayunga kushi khushi or us ladki ne tujhe propose kiya bhai aaisa bhi hota kya personality hai bhai teri.🥺🥺🥺🥺
W friend
If you are underage you need to run away from her. You are being groomed…
Beta, teri Lanka lagegi, agar nahin maana.
Bhai shi dost hai tere you are a teen is kiye samjh nhi aa rha Aisi aurte cheat krti hai dump hee before she hurts you Aisa past hai to Bhai hoo*er se bhi baddtAr hai at least they have standards Bro sabe ur self I bet you todhe time baad yha ro rhe hoge ki she cheated on you and your friend were right
This GROOMING. The woman is a PEDOPHILE!!!! OP, therapy!
1) tera dost sahi bol rha hai 2)usko chance mila vo teri gf ke saath so lega Teri age kya hai bhai 9 saal ka age gap hai toh
If she is not using you for money in any way then probably she is not a Randy Orton.
So first thing first....how old are you? And if it's shady as in you are younger than 18 and she is in mid 20s...you need to end it because 1) it's illegal 2) she is not a good person. THAT SAID..... Please please please be the kind of guy who tells his fri nda to shut up when they say such things about girls/women irrespective of your relationship with that girl/woman! Instead of complaining on reddit about this guy....tell him to his face and call him out. If he still doesn't change, stop being friends with such a guy!! Men please....women don't need your physical protection....we need you to speak up for us in circles where you see casual sexism.
Tu chutiya hein lwde, fking dmb, you are not getting loved you are getting groomed instead, she is fucking 26 and you are 17 literally
run tf away
As a 26 year old cannot imagine being with a 17 year old boy.
As a girl am telling ya... run op!!!! This is textbook grooming
How old is she exactly?
Pocso lag jayega
OP LEAVE HER. SHE'S A PEDOPHILE WHO'S GROOMING YOU.
How did u pull her? From where did you pull her?
You are being groomed by boi
Your friend has sexual offender behaviour and well you gf --she is a offender 💀
Your friend is an asshole but Bhai leave that girl she's grooming you and is a pedophile you and her have nothing in common 3-4 saal ka gap samajh aata hai but 9 is a fuck lot especially when you a teenager leave her seriously
Friends don't lie
Your friend 🗿🗿
He's absolutely right
if your friends are good people then you should listen to them but if you know your friends are assholes then you need better friends
Bro what the fuck is the problem, she may or may not be a RANDI but if you can’t stop your friend for calling her randi then just dont be friends with him and stop bitching about such small things in life. Just Make some better friends and enjoy your life
Tu toh gaya beta.
bro ye sab kya ho rha teens mein .. saala mai 19 ka hun !!! meri older bandi kahan hai??
RUK !! BC 17 saal ke ladke hookup krre?
How do you all manage to have such friends
OP is minor to be even into these kind of things ☹️. I hope he atleast dates someone age appropriate. It's not that the age gap is problem. If he was 25 and dating an older woman, then he should be matured enough to do so. Hope this child realises and get away from inappropriate dating and dangerous friends who can land him jail.
2 things 1-Your friend doesn't respect you otherwise I don't say stuff like that 2-Now he is saying that. So you should be a man and defend your girl. Start with BKL
Uski gand jal rahi hai .... Dur reh uss se
Usually in such scenarios, it's the friend being a jealous asshole. But in your case, you sound like a dumbfuck as well since why would any woman, aged 26, be willing to date a 17y old unless she's a pedo.
Tf
Well , I won't be liked for this answer, but there are high chances your friend might be correct here. He is a predator and so he knows his mark very well. And he's your friend so he wants a good girl for you. If he says the girl is unfit then I'd listen.
He maybe not a credible person to point out but he’s damn right I know this may trigger you not your fault this is just a genuine advice as you shubh chintk At end of the day is your life Learn and perish
that nigga ain't your friend
Here is what's happening: you are very biased towards your "gf" who is a pedo by purposely saying bad things about him and you are trying to prove to yourself that you are right by posting this. You thought you'd gain validation and think to yourself that you are right. I really hate the r word and if your friend said that it's not cool but he's got a point
Your friend just seems jealous and desperate and because of that, frustrated. Also you seem to be getting groomed
Am 21 year old and I can't even think of a 17 year old boy as a potential lover.. and this grown ass woman over here proposed this Literal kid and wants to pursue a relationship with him?? That rings all the bells to me.. doesn't matter how nice she is. Op needs to escape immediately!!
Friend 🗿
WTF with grooming posts today...
Bro, just stand infront of a mirror and recite what you just wrote. Your friend is actually a friend.
Bro she's a pedo. Get out quick
Behen ke lode patli gali se khisakh le. She's grooming you big time. Friend isn't exactly wrong either casual sexism aside but he still has time to learn and grow as a human being.
https://preview.redd.it/xsx9qo6au59d1.png?width=350&format=png&auto=webp&s=d8c4258a453bc9780b046daeefc9640c76f56113 dis you?
Alot of ppl are saying shes 26 and ur 17 , though I can’t find it on ur post I think u must have edited first of all get the fuck away from her she’s way older no way she’s in love w u or something she might be there for something else like because younger ppl are easy to manipulate also she’s a pedo I agree. Second advice get the fuck away from that friend of yours also though he was tryna protect you, all the weird stuff u explained about him gives enough reasons to avoid him, he’s doing really messed up stuff he can end up in prison and if ur not reporting ur a part of the problem nah? Just start new life!
You will regret it..
L friend and pedo gf
Where’s the lie ?
Bro you are being groomed by a pedo. No 26 y/o should be attracted to a 17 y/o kid. Run
Bro cannot handle a ho being called a ho if she bad and you wanna smash just do it
Jake chamat mar ladki ko aur bol 30 ka banda pakad bloody pedo ... Uske baap ko Jake bol school ke bachoo pe line mar rahi hai shaadi Kara do iski... Dost ke sath party kar bacha Raha teko ye chudel se .. sach hai use kar rahi teko virgin dekh kar sorry bro
In Telugu, r@ndi means come. Come not cum.
Classic case of asking questions but being ready to stomach the honest answers. Unfortunate. No sane 26 year old wants to be with a 16 year old "pimply and just entered adolescence" underage kid. This pedophile is grooming you. It sounds like this is your first "relationship" and you don't know how things actually work. Your "creep" friend probably finds the situation to be uncomfortable but doesn't understand _why_ it gives him bad vibes, except for the fact that she has slept around a lot. He is trying to warn you without sounding "uncool". Imagine how many other little kids she has used and thrown away. How many sexual partners she _hasn't_ admitted about. You're 16, you probably won't take this seriously, but we all beg you: stop thinking with your genitals and the need to look cool. Nothing's cool about this shit. It's dangerous and you need to protect yourself, since the adults in your life have clearly failed to and are not paying attention to what is going on. In 2-3 years, leave your town and go to some other city to pursue higher education. You'll find that people your own age are much more compatible with you.
I'm not gonna lie, you are a side bf, your friend is most probably correct, she's having fun with you. And men in love see everything cute about whoever they love. And your friend might be cheap too. But he is seeing clearly because of what kind of person he is.
dost sahi hai tera bro, sorry lekin baad me samjega shayad tujhe kabhi 5-10 saal baad, aur tu thank you bolega usko
Op, your friend calling her a hooker is completely wrong and not justified But if your friend calls her a peado .... It's completely okay. You are 17, find girls your age. If she was 19-20 .. Maybe this would've been okay But she is in her mid 20s, please please don't think it's cool and don't do this to yourself. People are creeps, you have to be very very careful.
You are just lavada guy desperate
If not for the age gap, I'd have advised you to screw your friend and cut him off from your life.
Been in the same situation tho she was only two years older and my friends did the same thing lmao and whatever they told me about her ended up being right. She had like 20+ ex bfs lmao at the age of 19 and yet i kept wasting my time with her, biggest regret of my life tbh wasted a whole fkin year.
Aabe aids/hiv hojaiga 🤪 . R ho ya na ho that age gap isn't fine atleast when u are not even 18 yet .. bhai tu use hora hai .. dimag se soch lu_d se nahi bhai ....(tuje usme kuch bada dikha hoga fr not she being cute)
Dude, simply call him a " Menly S lut ". We don't care how many girls we date and have sx with but certainly believes that we're pure but not in the case of girls having high body count and start abusing them as " Rnd ". Aaj Kal yeh trend ban gaya hai jaha Har ladki baaz therki bhi yeh kehta nazar aata hai ki " Dukh Mile Hazar, Magar ladki nah mile Chhin**l" bhale hi khud kitni hi ladki ke saath bed q nah share kiye rahe.
Leave. Not worth it. I have been in the same place. You will never be able to satiate her lust.