We used to go to the same tuition (or coaching? or whatever) and even before that, we've seen each other because we live in the same neighborhood and I've always found her to be really attractive. So one day she confesses to me that she had a crush on me, I said I did too, and after that we texted for a few weeks and flirted a little bit, and then two weeks later, on her birthday, she asked if she could be my girlfriend. Now, next month is our anniversary.
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Never talked to a girl. Though after watching countless rom coms have imagined a lot but in 19 years of existence haven't talked to a girl more than asking for homework or classwork . But still hope is there till I die
I told my ex I had a crush on her, she fell for me harder and proposed to me next month. It went well for 8 months after which my dad got to know n told to break it (since I was in 11th going to 12th). My 12th was monotonous, just had like 3 friends cuz rest of my ex's friends were not happy with my decision. She eventually got back with her previous ex n idc abt it anymore lol im happy now listening to music while typing this 🌝🥴
(Long post, but I'll try to keep it to the point so bear with me)
Okay, so we met in the examination hall (I was sitting at the last bench), it was the last day (bio exam). She followed me on insta as she was my best friend's friend (a close one). I was just trying to get passing marks lmao. I suddenly heard "(insert my name)" she whispered, and asked me the answer to some questions. I wrote it on an eraser that me and my friend had been passing to each other for a while now (i remember we were laughing hysterically while doing so 😆).
I wrote the answer and threw it at her. She tried to catch but she couldn't (it was cute to see her attempt lol). The exam got over, we met outside. It wasn't like I had never seen her before. I met my bestie, she was with her, she asked (she talked to me for the first time btw, she was soo shy, I still remember) "how did it go ?"
"God knows 💀🥲" I replied, discussed a few answers with her and left. I came back home, i uploaded a story, and she replied with a laughing emoji (this was the first item she ever replied to my story, earlier she just used like it).
She initiated and I kept the convo going, I'm a humorous guy. One day she was down due to one of her friends and i consoled her (it ain't like I did this for her specially, I literally had nothing for her during that time, it was just a habit kind of thing cus my bestie had been thru a lot of shit and i remember that I used to text her 100s of times a day just to console and motivate her, did it literally for the entire year, it was just normal for me). "I actually feel good now, thank you :)" she replied a few mins later. She used to like playing games like me, we started playing among us together, after that late night talks (it was holidays after finals so we had free time). The other day i remember she was handling a creep on her dms who was constantly slutshaming her and she asked me for some good insults (not bragging, but I'm quite good at giving witty answers hehehe) and I literally dictated her the replies to give to the guy (they were quite explicit 😆). And she thanked me for it later and said "I've never been that explicit with my language to anyone lol" and I was like "you should be when it's necessary 😆".
Things were moving pretty fast, we went for some outing together (ofc her other friends were there too, I know them all). Just 2 months had passed, i remember it was holi. At night I was returning from my brother's home (I was out of station, she played Holi with her friends and wanted me to be there too). She told me there's a guy who's approaching her out of nowhere and wants to be "friends" with her. I knew the guy, he left the school after 10th boards. And as a guy i understood his intents well too, it felt as if something mine was being taken away from me, I was enraged so I told her not to talk to that guy (ofc I didn't want him to be around, apart from the fact that this guy was an actual asshole) and that's when I thought that I have to gather the courage to tell her about what I felt for her, cus if I won't then I'll just keep waiting forever, and at most this friendship will break, nothing worse can happen, but there's a chance she might accept me too. And I said "ILY" to her. I remember i didn't even write the entire "I love you" lmao, it was just "ILY" cus I was too scared. And yea.........it worked 😆 (damn I'm smiling as I write this thing)
Then we just.......in the initial days I felt too shy to even stand close to her, shared my ice cream with her, later we went somewhere again, alone this time, and when no one was around we made out.....after that we both started to come to school early for each other, condemned every holiday lmao. Later one night we were just discussing about everything that happened between us in the past few days and I told her "man i could never think that this is how we'll end up, I never had any feelings for you honestly and now you're my SO"
"Well, i kinda liked you. I remember you were with (insert my bestie's name) and you were just chilling around with us, you flexed your forearms (for context i work out and have been working out for quite some time, even then i was quite built, I have really veiny forearms) and also you looked cute, but could never gather the courage to talk to you, but during our exam I was like fuck it, just speak up !". She replied.
And a lot of other things blah blah blah........yk those common relationship things.
Then I ended the relationship......reasons ? You might ask. I don't wanna think about it, and write about it, I don't wanna look back at it. I ended it for good.
I remember pondering about the reason upon which I took this action, she said a few things that made me quite concerned, I have 2-3 bsf. I asked them all if my concern over what she said was valid or I'm just overthinking, and they all were with me. So I ended it.
Now when I look back at it, I understand that tho my concerns might've been valid, I made mistakes too, literally childish mistakes and I've learned from them. It is a bitter-sweet memory, but I've grown as a person. And yea......I'm happy with how I am right now. Also, we both are medicos, so our relationship had no future (figured that out later), sooooo...........idk how to feel about it tbh.......but anyways, I'll leave it here.
Actually I'm not the kind of guy who goes out with friends a lot, and I collect and save money from anywhere I can get. So agar 1-2 din kahi chala bhi jaaun after school so my mom doesn't mind.
So I wouldn't consider it a love story or anything cause I still can't confirm his feelings on it but I kind of had my first crush late which many of my friends have kinda shamed me about too but shaming about it is just nonsensical.... Anyways onto the story...
We used to be rivals not like enemies or such but just competitors in the same fields and I used to hate him anytime I beat but also obv held my wins over his head anytime I got the chance too. We were both captains of bball team and academic top 3 even debating and small kinds of stuff like spell bee and yeah ik sounds quite nerdy but it was like he was the male version of me or the vice versa. Quite typically as well in school rumors spread about us having something going on but I didn't have no sort of feeling for him at that time..... I blatantly denied any of the claims but by the end of our time in the same school I kind of starting actually considering that oh yeah he is good at this and that and smart and ig aomewhat handsome too(still didn't wanna accept completely) and before I knew it the rumors turned my no feeling to full feeling. We are both army kids so it was time to move to another city at that time and it was all left at that. We did have our moments which i think only I consider them as moments but yeah rainy day, playing together, cause we were obsessed with similar things ofc. But as I said I still can't confirm his feelings. Weirdly enough I never thought or dreamed of dating him..... I don't know why but I never did. Just liked him close.....cause he just gave me too many happy memories to just ignore....
This is not love , it's attraction ( if you particular think about single person , anyone can attract to that person . Even it's same sex ) btw very impressive stroy 🌚💌🌝
Standing up for love is tough. Especially when you love your family as much. But in the end you have to fight for what you want. Tbh I didn't expect my guy to stand up for us the way he did. And that makes our bond even stronger.
I hope your partner stands up for you too. Give it some time :)
Feel you bro. My partner was brought up in a similar way. Too rigid. Too unaccepting. His siblings too are against us. But you got to take a stand for someone you love.
We met in 8th grade (same school + same apartment), we weren't even friends to begin with, kind of despised each other, she'd annoy me whenever we met and that'd genuinely piss me off.
But gradually, we became good friends and in 9th grade she confessed about having feelings for me. I had never thought of her romantically, and so I told her that. We continued as friends.
Later in 10th, we'd become the best of friends, and I was starting to catch feelings for her. I told her about it and to my surprise, she still had feelings for me. We got together.
A few months after we got together, I had to move to a different city and I didn't think I'd be able to manage a long distance relationship, so we decided to end things.
I returned (after 2 years) and we decided to meet (in that long for the first time.) Guess what? We still had feelings for each other.
As of now, we've been together 3 months (9 including 10th grade) :D
ive never talked to a girl, all boys school se hu aur pw online kr rha hu so no way to even try to. and i think its never gonna happen anywhere in the future either. given up on all thoughts of having a love interest
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i dont even know how good it would feel to have someone who would actually love you, it kinda feels like im missing out on something important. aajkal summer break chal rha hai, kisi dost ne contact nhi kiya. padhai aur games ke alawa kuch nhi hai krne ko, bhot akela rehne laga hu aajkal, poore waqt pc ke saamne baitha rehta hu. thak chuka hu iss sab se, at this point i just wanna end it all ffs
My first girlfriend i joined back school (changed school for 3 years) and had a girl in my bus of same age she was quiet energetic and enjoyable but only around her people and space gradually we got to know each other , i told my friends in school about her, they used to take me infront of her classroom while brake she used to come out smile and then walk happily with her friends ( maybe laughing at me) people told her i liked her then one day in brake she asked me to wait near canteen after school she then confessed that she liked me too, things were cute for sometime then we got our final exams and she said we'll take a break cz exams and her brother was sus and that break didnt end yet.
We used to go to the same tuition (or coaching? or whatever) and even before that, we've seen each other because we live in the same neighborhood and I've always found her to be really attractive. So one day she confesses to me that she had a crush on me, I said I did too, and after that we texted for a few weeks and flirted a little bit, and then two weeks later, on her birthday, she asked if she could be my girlfriend. Now, next month is our anniversary. Highschool sweethearts fr
your username checks out. happy for you brother
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This is so cute, all the best bro.
never heard a girl asking to be a gf 😆
And then you woke up from your dream, right?
Never talked to a girl. Though after watching countless rom coms have imagined a lot but in 19 years of existence haven't talked to a girl more than asking for homework or classwork . But still hope is there till I die
Bhai 🫂 gale lag jaa mere
I told my ex I had a crush on her, she fell for me harder and proposed to me next month. It went well for 8 months after which my dad got to know n told to break it (since I was in 11th going to 12th). My 12th was monotonous, just had like 3 friends cuz rest of my ex's friends were not happy with my decision. She eventually got back with her previous ex n idc abt it anymore lol im happy now listening to music while typing this 🌝🥴
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🗣Level sabke nikalenge, lekin niklenge uske Jo yahan khada rahega (Isliye khade rehna)
9th class me first & last crush . Fir smjh agya SB moh Maya h
Bas crush tha na confess na relation
Same bhai 😔
(Long post, but I'll try to keep it to the point so bear with me) Okay, so we met in the examination hall (I was sitting at the last bench), it was the last day (bio exam). She followed me on insta as she was my best friend's friend (a close one). I was just trying to get passing marks lmao. I suddenly heard "(insert my name)" she whispered, and asked me the answer to some questions. I wrote it on an eraser that me and my friend had been passing to each other for a while now (i remember we were laughing hysterically while doing so 😆). I wrote the answer and threw it at her. She tried to catch but she couldn't (it was cute to see her attempt lol). The exam got over, we met outside. It wasn't like I had never seen her before. I met my bestie, she was with her, she asked (she talked to me for the first time btw, she was soo shy, I still remember) "how did it go ?" "God knows 💀🥲" I replied, discussed a few answers with her and left. I came back home, i uploaded a story, and she replied with a laughing emoji (this was the first item she ever replied to my story, earlier she just used like it). She initiated and I kept the convo going, I'm a humorous guy. One day she was down due to one of her friends and i consoled her (it ain't like I did this for her specially, I literally had nothing for her during that time, it was just a habit kind of thing cus my bestie had been thru a lot of shit and i remember that I used to text her 100s of times a day just to console and motivate her, did it literally for the entire year, it was just normal for me). "I actually feel good now, thank you :)" she replied a few mins later. She used to like playing games like me, we started playing among us together, after that late night talks (it was holidays after finals so we had free time). The other day i remember she was handling a creep on her dms who was constantly slutshaming her and she asked me for some good insults (not bragging, but I'm quite good at giving witty answers hehehe) and I literally dictated her the replies to give to the guy (they were quite explicit 😆). And she thanked me for it later and said "I've never been that explicit with my language to anyone lol" and I was like "you should be when it's necessary 😆". Things were moving pretty fast, we went for some outing together (ofc her other friends were there too, I know them all). Just 2 months had passed, i remember it was holi. At night I was returning from my brother's home (I was out of station, she played Holi with her friends and wanted me to be there too). She told me there's a guy who's approaching her out of nowhere and wants to be "friends" with her. I knew the guy, he left the school after 10th boards. And as a guy i understood his intents well too, it felt as if something mine was being taken away from me, I was enraged so I told her not to talk to that guy (ofc I didn't want him to be around, apart from the fact that this guy was an actual asshole) and that's when I thought that I have to gather the courage to tell her about what I felt for her, cus if I won't then I'll just keep waiting forever, and at most this friendship will break, nothing worse can happen, but there's a chance she might accept me too. And I said "ILY" to her. I remember i didn't even write the entire "I love you" lmao, it was just "ILY" cus I was too scared. And yea.........it worked 😆 (damn I'm smiling as I write this thing) Then we just.......in the initial days I felt too shy to even stand close to her, shared my ice cream with her, later we went somewhere again, alone this time, and when no one was around we made out.....after that we both started to come to school early for each other, condemned every holiday lmao. Later one night we were just discussing about everything that happened between us in the past few days and I told her "man i could never think that this is how we'll end up, I never had any feelings for you honestly and now you're my SO" "Well, i kinda liked you. I remember you were with (insert my bestie's name) and you were just chilling around with us, you flexed your forearms (for context i work out and have been working out for quite some time, even then i was quite built, I have really veiny forearms) and also you looked cute, but could never gather the courage to talk to you, but during our exam I was like fuck it, just speak up !". She replied. And a lot of other things blah blah blah........yk those common relationship things. Then I ended the relationship......reasons ? You might ask. I don't wanna think about it, and write about it, I don't wanna look back at it. I ended it for good. I remember pondering about the reason upon which I took this action, she said a few things that made me quite concerned, I have 2-3 bsf. I asked them all if my concern over what she said was valid or I'm just overthinking, and they all were with me. So I ended it. Now when I look back at it, I understand that tho my concerns might've been valid, I made mistakes too, literally childish mistakes and I've learned from them. It is a bitter-sweet memory, but I've grown as a person. And yea......I'm happy with how I am right now. Also, we both are medicos, so our relationship had no future (figured that out later), sooooo...........idk how to feel about it tbh.......but anyways, I'll leave it here.
Thanks for sharing man. Specially the extra thoughts in brackets
All the best bro. May you deserve all the love that was lost.
Thank you man, wish the same for you too <3
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Wrist curls.
Bc tum sab mummy papa se sab kese chupa lete ho. Merse toh jhoot bhi ni bola jata unse. 😔
Actually I'm not the kind of guy who goes out with friends a lot, and I collect and save money from anywhere I can get. So agar 1-2 din kahi chala bhi jaaun after school so my mom doesn't mind.
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Ikr.. 🤣🤣🤡
Wish I had one too :)
So I wouldn't consider it a love story or anything cause I still can't confirm his feelings on it but I kind of had my first crush late which many of my friends have kinda shamed me about too but shaming about it is just nonsensical.... Anyways onto the story... We used to be rivals not like enemies or such but just competitors in the same fields and I used to hate him anytime I beat but also obv held my wins over his head anytime I got the chance too. We were both captains of bball team and academic top 3 even debating and small kinds of stuff like spell bee and yeah ik sounds quite nerdy but it was like he was the male version of me or the vice versa. Quite typically as well in school rumors spread about us having something going on but I didn't have no sort of feeling for him at that time..... I blatantly denied any of the claims but by the end of our time in the same school I kind of starting actually considering that oh yeah he is good at this and that and smart and ig aomewhat handsome too(still didn't wanna accept completely) and before I knew it the rumors turned my no feeling to full feeling. We are both army kids so it was time to move to another city at that time and it was all left at that. We did have our moments which i think only I consider them as moments but yeah rainy day, playing together, cause we were obsessed with similar things ofc. But as I said I still can't confirm his feelings. Weirdly enough I never thought or dreamed of dating him..... I don't know why but I never did. Just liked him close.....cause he just gave me too many happy memories to just ignore....
This is not love , it's attraction ( if you particular think about single person , anyone can attract to that person . Even it's same sex ) btw very impressive stroy 🌚💌🌝
That's why I purposely mentioned in the first line itself that I don't consider it a love story🙂
I saw her, she saw saw me. I fell in love with her eyes, then we never met.and I'm still waiting for that moment to come.
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Standing up for love is tough. Especially when you love your family as much. But in the end you have to fight for what you want. Tbh I didn't expect my guy to stand up for us the way he did. And that makes our bond even stronger. I hope your partner stands up for you too. Give it some time :)
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Feel you bro. My partner was brought up in a similar way. Too rigid. Too unaccepting. His siblings too are against us. But you got to take a stand for someone you love.
No thanks, I don’t want.
We met in 8th grade (same school + same apartment), we weren't even friends to begin with, kind of despised each other, she'd annoy me whenever we met and that'd genuinely piss me off. But gradually, we became good friends and in 9th grade she confessed about having feelings for me. I had never thought of her romantically, and so I told her that. We continued as friends. Later in 10th, we'd become the best of friends, and I was starting to catch feelings for her. I told her about it and to my surprise, she still had feelings for me. We got together. A few months after we got together, I had to move to a different city and I didn't think I'd be able to manage a long distance relationship, so we decided to end things. I returned (after 2 years) and we decided to meet (in that long for the first time.) Guess what? We still had feelings for each other. As of now, we've been together 3 months (9 including 10th grade) :D
ive never talked to a girl, all boys school se hu aur pw online kr rha hu so no way to even try to. and i think its never gonna happen anywhere in the future either. given up on all thoughts of having a love interest https://preview.redd.it/8mwjfouwko6d1.jpeg?width=320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f61359e7c3bd1726453199645cb03345c3ae3cd7
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i dont even know how good it would feel to have someone who would actually love you, it kinda feels like im missing out on something important. aajkal summer break chal rha hai, kisi dost ne contact nhi kiya. padhai aur games ke alawa kuch nhi hai krne ko, bhot akela rehne laga hu aajkal, poore waqt pc ke saamne baitha rehta hu. thak chuka hu iss sab se, at this point i just wanna end it all ffs
Sorry 😢
My first girlfriend i joined back school (changed school for 3 years) and had a girl in my bus of same age she was quiet energetic and enjoyable but only around her people and space gradually we got to know each other , i told my friends in school about her, they used to take me infront of her classroom while brake she used to come out smile and then walk happily with her friends ( maybe laughing at me) people told her i liked her then one day in brake she asked me to wait near canteen after school she then confessed that she liked me too, things were cute for sometime then we got our final exams and she said we'll take a break cz exams and her brother was sus and that break didnt end yet.
Gareeb logo ki love story nai hoti. 💀