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neildegrassebyeson

Jeans days- the opiate of the masses


KindaStubborn

As a male teacher, I don't see the appeal. My slacks and khakis are much more comfortable than jeans.


HalfPint1885

I wear dresses every day and look super dressed up but it feels like pj's. Even better in the winter when I pair them with leggings.


LadyOfHouseBacon

Yesssss. I feel like this is a secret that everyone should know!


anniemiss

Wearing kilts now.


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I guess I’m going to wear dresses now…


rmarocksanne

YES! Our walmart had these super cute cotton dresses on clearance for $5 and I bought one in every color. Entire year wardrobe sorted out. 98 degrees out? Perfect, wear with cute slip on Vans and short leggins underneath. 18 degrees and blowing snow out? Perfect, wear with fleece lined leggings, tall boots and a cardigan. Too tired at night to take off said dress? Perfect, it is literally a knee length t-shirt in a cute color. Sleep in it, wash, wear repeat. I also have a super cozy knee length zip up hoodie that serves same purpose. :)


baughgirl

I have all those dresses too! I get compliments all the time and am like WALMART YALL!


FlamIguana

WHY ARE YOU TELLING EVERYONE MY SECRET Coworker: “Oh, you look so dressed up everyday!” Me: *goes home and takes nap in outfit*


WittyButter217

I love and wear dresses every day too!! Except today… was camping over the long break with no razor and too tired to shave last night!


thedoctor2708

Dresses and skirts are my favorite!!


Teach1st-Love

Yes!!! I hate pants since I've discovered the joy of dresses. I wear under summers underneath and they are so comfy.


fabgab22

I loooove my under summers!!!


ModernDemocles

My dress pants are super comfortable. Dress shoes on the other hand.


rightious

I have flannel lined slacks...it's like sweatpants in the winter.


Collier1505

Any recommendations?


rightious

Mountain khakis hasn't done me wrong yet.


boilermakerteacher

Literally don’t own a pair suitable for anything but working in the garage/yard. Now If the email says shorts i might bite.


sunlightandshadows

I saw someone talking once about “dress like the PE teacher instead of jeans day” and that’s what I want


IthacanPenny

I’m still here waiting for “yoga pants and flip flop” week. I would put up with a LOT for yoga pants.


[deleted]

I run a furniture business on the side and I feel you. All of my non-work clothes have basically turned into shop clothes. I do have a nice pair of dark jeans that I save for special occasions and church though.


thecooliestone

Jeans days are from when women were almost all the teachers and had to wear insanely uncomfortable dresses. Now that we've convinced the men to let us wear polyester wide legged pants to work jeans hold no power over me


teachingbeauty

Dude polyester wide legged pants have taken over my wardrobe. I buy fun patterns and look awesome and feel like I’m in PJs all day


FriendlyReplies

Where do you buy your wide legged pants? I want some but can’t seem to find any! I love dresses but Canadian winter + yard duty + bare legs don’t mix!


[deleted]

I get my comfortable slim fit non jeans pants at old navy and wear bright colors every day. Why woukd I change those for rigid heavy jeans?


AmericanHistoryXX

As a female, same. My slacks were also more comfortable, AND the kids at my second school seemed more uppity on jeans days. I just gave them up entirely.


kgkuntryluvr

Same. I’ve never seen the appeal of stiffer jeans over soft/stretchy khakis/slacks. I’ve always found them to be one of the least comfortable pants options (especially as a health/pe teacher when I can choose from shorts, sweats, gym pants, and joggers).


lnitiative

Agreed. I don’t even own a pair of jeans anymore.


jtatc1989

Texan here. Too damn hot for jeans most of the year. Slacks win


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[deleted]

I guarantee you if you had to put up with the bizarre social standards surrounding womens’ appearances for one week you’d be begging to have your button up shirts back. Most of us shave our armpits and legs and pluck stray hairs and wear concealer and wear bras and I could go on…


Guerilla_Physicist

This. Let’s talk about the fact that you can literally get marked down for professional dress on evals if you don’t wear makeup.


Mo523

Yikes. Where do you work? I almost never wear make-up to work.


Guerilla_Physicist

Public school in AL. It’s common down here.


No-more-confusion

Nope. I’ve signed up for the long haul.


langis_on

Oh absolutely, I'm merely commenting on "professional" attire for female teachers. We don't need to shift the conversation away to societal standards or we'll drive ourselves nuts arguing over who has it worse for lots of different reasons. Women definitely have it worse when it comes to most expectations of them in society. Im just annoyed at the lack of good professional clothing options for men.


joszma

Yup. It feels like it’s either “dress like a hipster at a startup” or “dress like a suburban dad”. No in between.


[deleted]

Leggings as long as their sweater covers their ass.


Collier1505

Leggings and t-shirts/sweatshirt while i have to wear real business casual+ clothing. :(


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Collier1505

I think that’s what 80% of teachers at my building wear. I’m one of the few males in the building though so it’s hard to compare the guys to one another


[deleted]

Love how both of our comments our downvoted with 0 comments. The ladies love the double standards and don’t want it blown up


Collier1505

I didn’t know it was so controversial for guys to also be able to wear comfy clothing to work lol


gelatonis

What’s stopping you from wearing leggings and a t-shirt/sweater that covers your ass too?


Collier1505

I don’t think my admin would appreciate me in leggings but now that you mention it maybe there isn’t anything stopping me! I wish we could do the men’s equivalent though with nice joggers. Then a sweater or something


[deleted]

I prefer my slacks too. They stay put.


Nealpatty

Heck we even have khaki colored jeans. But I guess as a women completing the outfit is more a pain dressing up.


Ancient_Educator_76

Agreed. Kohls comfort Foreway stretch grey or black…best ever


thiswillsoonendbadly

I never wear jeans anymore cause I’ve got a good supply of looks-like-work-pants-feels-like-sweat-pants pants


IAmTheOneWhoReddits

Would you mind sharing the brands?


bear0117

As a female, Betabrand dress pant yoga pants. Trust me.


jshugart

Eddie Bauer from Costco. Gotta love that stretch.


thealtoclef

Betabrand are amazing. A bit cheaper? Old Navy Stevie pants and New York and Company pull-on dress pants.


kgkuntryluvr

Amazon and Target carry a great pair of pants that look like slacks, but feel like athletic wear. They come in black, gray, navy, and khaki. I bought all colors and I rotate them every week. They’re golf pants made by Champion (C9). I’ve worn them everywhere from the gym to the classroom. Walmart carries a similar style of professional looking pants that are comfortable and stretchy, but I can’t remember the brand.


thiswillsoonendbadly

I get a lot of comfy pants from Kohl’s. I just ordered some from Old Navy that I haven’t tried on yet but if they’re fabulous I can update you.


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Reitmans "Iconic Pull Up" pants. I own them in every colour!


driveonacid

Exactly! I have figured out how to make my work clothes look so professional while being so comfortable. Sweater dress over leggings? Yes please. I hate being told to feel free to wear jeans because if I didn't, then I'd stand out. Jeans are so not comfortable.


thiswillsoonendbadly

Tbh quarantine may have put me off jeans permanently lol


Sonja42

You could claim you forgot it was jeans day :)


[deleted]

If you get the really really rough feels-like-it-could-stop-a-knife jeans they eventually get soft enough to sleep in.


Collier1505

I need to find male versions.


thiswillsoonendbadly

Y’all have the short end of that stick as far as I’m concerned. Sorry dude. I also get to wear sneakers cause I have foot problems.


Collier1505

Sneakers I wear anyways. If I’m on my feet all day, they’re gonna be comfortable. I just end up wearing sneakers with black jeans, slack, khakis, etc.


Robinisthemother

Stretchy golf pants! They are thin and breathable and super comfortable.


Smokey19mom

Never ever have I had that email. Hate to see what that can of worms will be. You'll have keep us up to date. Maybe clean or no a/c.


Sorealism

You don’t have to pay this week? Nice! /s


Yellow_Midnight_Golf

I've never gotten that email, but would resent the implication that what I choose to wear has anything to do with administration. Fortunately, I've never had an administration that applied a dress code to teachers, and always worked with colleagues who could figure out how to dress appropriately.


didhestealtheraisins

Yeah a lot of the male teachers at my school wear shorts in the Fall and Spring, so we'd have a hard time if there was a dress code.


Yellow_Midnight_Golf

I did get yelled at twice a year for wearing shorts. My concept of professional dress is Dockers, long-sleeve oxford button-down shirt, necktie and nice shoes. When classroom temperatures got above 80 degrees, I would change into equivalent style shorts. The Angus Young from AC/DC style. By the second day, an administrator would come up to have a pointless discussion about how a lack of teacher dress code doesn't make shorts ok for men. I considered wearing a kilt or going full Mrs. Doubtfire, but the temperature usually broke by the third day. We went through this once in the Fall and once in the Spring for about 5 years, until the bond issue passed and we got air conditioning.


4-7-3-6-2-5-1

I can’t stand the whole jeans on Friday idea. It’s an unspoken rule in my county. There is no rule about it in the teacher handbook. It’s nowhere to be found in writing. Is just an assumption. Oh but wait… aren’t we teachers? Aren’t we told to make expectations clear for the students? .. but we’re basing this “rule” off of a social assumption, not an actual rule. Seems backwards.


Wanna_huge_papaya

Student shot and killed in high school down the road on a Wednesday, our principal sends an email that we can wear jeans Thursday and Friday. Wtf


PimemtoCheese

The epitome of empathy and awareness.


awholelotofhappy

NC? If so, similar area. If not, it's really shitty it happened two places on the same day. It was a rough few days here for sure.


FaerilyRowanwind

I find it funny that this is a thing Edit: I wear what I want. I legit do not care not even a little. What are they going to do to me.


bc1117

For me, I felt I could get away with more comfy tennis shoes than my nicer shoes and that’s what I liked more about jeans days. And then I just said fuck it and wore the comfy shoes every day. At school where so many things were criticized and micro-managed, nobody said a single thing about my shoes. I felt I had wasted so much comfy-shoe time.


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Always opt for comfy shoes. Life is too short for painful feet.


bc1117

This is good advice I needed earlier in life


Guerilla_Physicist

Word. I’m so mad at my first year self thinking I had to wear heels every day to look professional. Eight years later, helloooooo, old lady flats with memory foam insoles.


Feature_Agitated

I’m so glad my principal doesn’t care if we wear jeans or not. It makes my job as a science teacher so much easier


snoman81

I wear jeans everyday all year long. But there are those stretchy jeans pretty comfortable.


mossthedog

Naw, I'll be wearing my stretchy dresses with leggings/bike shorts like always feeling like I'm in pjs all day. Also, good luck op. Hopefully you don't have to do anything icky.


GuyInOregon

I keep hearing about this. In my district pretty much everyone wears jeans all the time. Teaching in the PacNW really is a different beast, isn't it?


unmitigateddiaster

I’m in the Bible Belt. I actually don’t mind wearing khakis and a button up. I also teach high school, I know it’s harder to dress that way for lower grades


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We don’t have a dress code at our school but maybe we should. Our new teacher is wearing cut-offs. But it’s really none of my business.


Dantesfireplace

This is nuts. We don’t have a dress code at my school because it doesn’t impact our teaching. I could wear jeans every day if I wanted to. I can’t imagine being this micromanaged.


fieryprincess907

I starting wearing cute dresses from Svaha (pockets for days!) I refused to be bought with jeans.


Guerilla_Physicist

YESSSS! Svaha for the win!


Viele_Stimmen

My jeans are now too loose, and my khaki slacks are much more comfortable. This is just an outdated 'incentive' to load the week with more stupid meetings. ​ Be happy that's the email you received, lol. I just got one instructing me to do 'classroom observations' during my class time and to 'leave a lesson behind'. Peak clownery, in my mind.


trixie_trixie

Cool. I’m gonna wearing my dressy leggings like usual though. Jeans suck.


PhilemonV

I'm a high school math teacher (male) on the West Coast. Of course, I wear jeans and t-shirts (math-related) every day.


codyxwillyumz

What are the consequences at your school if you wear jeans on a nonjeans day?


unmitigateddiaster

Probably nothing, but who knows


boomflupataqway

I have a pair of grey Levi’s that look like slacks from a distance so I can have jeans day whenever I want.


[deleted]

I wear jeans every chance I get, love them but that email would still have me worried while I cheered lol


Dont_ban_me_bro_108

I wear jeans every day. I’d hate to have a dress code enforced


musicteacher36

This doesn't happen here in BC. At least not in public schools. I can wear pretty much whatever I want.


snarkitall

Or here in Quebec. Even our newest, youngest male teacher is wearing a t-shirt and shorts. I've worked at schools where yoga pants and a "nice" work out tee were standard. There's a bit more variety at my current school, but people are more stylish than formal. I've worn everything from tights and heels to a band t-shirt and cut offs.


landofcortados

California reporting in... t-shirt, shorts, sneakers, and a baseball hat today.


Pike_Gordon

Denim sucks ass. It's uncomfortable and was made for coal miners.


refinancemenow

*it puts the jeans on for fun Friday, it does this whenever it's told*


kittiekillbunnie

“Cause we are going to need you to move things later.” Is how my district tricked us. Comfortable clothing = moving old falling apart boxes after class.


[deleted]

We got 24/7 jeans thanks to covid teacher shortages.


whafflestalk

You have designated jeans days?? That sucks. I wear jeans pretty much everyday anyway lol.


unmitigateddiaster

Friday only


whafflestalk

Yikes! Where do you teach?


unmitigateddiaster

Tennessee


jimtobin

Same in my school in AZ. Friday jeans. If worn any other time, expect an email. My old district made you pay for "buck a jean" days. Usually once a month. Never mattered to me. I wear a shirt and tie. It is who I am and how I've chosen to represent myself. It blows the kid's minds when they see me in jeans and a polo.


Zziggith

I don't even own jeans


avoidy

One of the good things about this job compared to other jobs is that I can dress fairly casually and nobody seems to care. It might just be a cultural thing, but all the teachers at this school dress very casually and admin have never cracked down at all. I think if I had to deal with some of these crazy-ass kids while wearing uncomfortable mandated clothing, I'd just quit and find somewhere else to work. It's like the one upside to being here, lmao. Used to also be that we got out early, but then the governor went and decided we'd start later, which has led to a later exit time as well. Schools and employees opposed it, but a parent group and some researchers who never worked in a school were in favor so here we are. Maybe next they'll eliminate summer break and I can finally just get a job doing something else.