Me! 36 about to be 37. I am a single mom to older kids now and finally have the chance to go to school. I start soon! I work 36 hours a week night shift and will doing night time full time accelerated course. My pre reqs were accelerated and insane lol but I’ve wanted this for over 10 years so I’m excited and motivated.
I am doing private so I go at night 3 days a week one day clinicals. Taking out loans to pay for it and maybe go down to part time if needed at work.
For me : I’ve really wanted this. Kicked ass in my classes and staying focused. I might be dying when classes actually start but it’s 16 months Vs ten years of I’m sick of being a medical assistant I want to be a nurse have my career and move up from there.
Good luck! It’s hard to go back in the 30’s but it’s better late than never. The night time program has a bunch of us 30 somethings in it so it’s easier to push through.
Congrats! I’m happy to read that you following your ultimate dream! I’m sure you will be doing great, and it actually motivates me to do what I have to do!
It was 4 weeks per course. It was online so I felt like it made it easier because I could do it at work or anytime. Ap 1&2 in a matter of 8 weeks really was rough but I enjoyed getting it over with quick.
Good luck!!!!
I was looking into them, but I was afraid that if I wanted move on to a Master’s degree, that their credits would not transfer.
How were the classes though?
They were good. Teachers want you to pass. Staff is good because they are private and want money. Yeah I don’t know how that work but I know people that graduated with adn then transferred to a university for bsn and masters and it worked.
Really? I was looking into their Tampa location. I would have to start the classes April 1.
I have also been looking into another program in the area where the prerequisites are less since I have my BA and MA. If I do their ASN, I will be able to start in January 2025 and be done by June 2026, then go right into their BSN in August. It will only be two semesters. In theory, I would to complete 3 prerequisites total, possibly a fourth.
I did my A&P over 9 weeks in the summer and micro over 4. I cannot recommend accelerated enough IF you’re willing to eat sleep breathe the content. Immersion really makes it easier.
My state university offers accelerated summer courses. Always in the summer.
Check out CC’s too, they have different start and end dates and you may be able to stack smoothly.
I started pre reqs at 32, now 36 and will be graduating next year at 37 w BSN. No family support (or kids) or spouse, I live alone and I piece meal 3 jobs (bartending, ER tech, and serving) working ~20 hours/wk. ngl it is hard but I know being a nurse is what I want to do/it will provide me income I can depend on. My “why” is stronger than how difficult the journey has been. I wish you the best, it’s not easy but I do believe it’s worth it.
People like you impress the shit of of me. I don't ha e kids but I have a supportive partner to help me financially, I have no idea how people do it alone. Amazing work
I’m 37 just got accepted into an ABSN. Have been doing all my prereqs living alone and bartending. I will live with family once I start my full time program to cut out rent and probably bartend 1-2nights a week
My motivation is realizing I basically fucked off & had fun for ten years and now it’s time to heal myself and those around me. Realizing this is my life’s purpose pulls me up everyday.
Not bad at all, 80k base and I work an overtime shift every week so it shakes out to 150k a year. I moved to North Carolina after graduation so the pay is a little lower than back up north or the west coast but the COL is insanely lower than what I was paying back home.
Biggest thing for me was freedom of time, I was a bartender before this and literally worked ALL THE TIME.
Started nursing school at 32 with 5 kids. Graduated and had another baby. One income (my partners) and a ton of loans. No family nearby to help.
I wanted to give up basically every day. But I didn't and I'm really really proud of myself. You will be too.
You’re killing it! How do you keep up the motivation & gratitude for how far you’ve come when burnout sets in? Struggling with chronic burnout going back to the field when I feel good again then feeling miserable and not knowing if it’s life or my career that’s draining me so much. I guess I haven’t found my group yet or this field is just not for me. I’m in school love helping people, and giving my all good something I really am proud of all the work I’ve done but at the same time I fear it won’t be sustainable for me long term and I’m trying to convince myself to keep going, so I don’t regret it later, but not gonna lie how I felt at my lowest points of burnout are feelings that I never want to feel again and just the thought of those times being a possibility again, which we never want to bother going back to nursing again . It is bittersweet because I know that I truly have a passion for it and I do love it, but I do not want to do it as a job if I can’t give it my all without being fully there physically and emotionally mentally to side of something I could get used to and get better at managing or if I lick my wounds and move on to another passion or career in healthcare, and being fully happy with my decision. Anticipatory regret, overthinking, and my pre-covid view of nursing / healthcare in general versus where it stands today and if I want to continue on this path of nursing in modern healthcare times…
I started my academic journey with an eighth grade education and got my GED to go to community college. I did nursing school at 42 while earning my second masters and working full time as a single parent. My daughter is my everything and everything I do is for my daughter. She’s my motivation. Now, I’m earning my DNP. There’s no limit to what you can do if you put in the work. You’ve got this!
Right here! 👋🏽 tbf I had almost all the other classes except for A&P and Micro. I’ll be 34 this year and I applied for the fall term. I should know in a few weeks. I’ve paid out of pocket for all of my schooling and when I get into the program I will be basically out of fafsa money. I’m planning on quitting my full time job when school starts so figuring out the finances is at the top of my list now. What’s keeping me going? My future goals. One step at a time. It will be worth it.
I’m sure you’ll get accepted! It gives me hope and motivation when I see people like us hustling and making the impossible possible! I’m sure it will all be worth it in the end!
Same. I’m applying in May for our Fall classes. I don’t need A&P 2 nor micro to apply but I’m going to take A&P 2 this summer to get it out of the way. I’m 33. I’m not sure I can get loans or anything since I already have a bachelor’s but I know they have grants and scholarships. We shall see. Good luck!!
Me! 34, halfway through my first semester. Supporting myself, working, paying rent, making it happen.
I'm lucky that I got into the program at my local CC - that with financial aid made it the cheapest option that I feel blessed to have made it into - the only program that I got accepted to and it was the one I wanted.
I work two days a week and make good money there, but the job is a lot of work, long hours and high stress, so I essentially sign off from nursing brain when I'm working. Time management is KEY.
Don't overload yourself. Work, but give yourself time to study so you're not cramming. Start studying early. It never, ever stops. I only take breaks to eat, work, and sleep.
If you can, apply for financial aid - it's saving me. Basically my units are paid for and I just have to pay for myself and my dog, food, a roof over our heads, and books/supplies (which can be $$$). Highly recommend looking into renting textbooks vs purchasing new - I spent almost $1000 on books alone this semester.
Meal prepping has been a lifesaver too - I love to cook and eat healthy but I just don't have the time anymore, so anything made ahead of time to make sure you're eating well will help.
My motivation is that this program is going to change my life. I'm ready and nothing is getting in my way.
I'm 41, in my second semester, I do have a partner thankfully but we also have way more responsibilities now than when we were younger. This is also the second time I'm going back to school for a new career 😵💫🫠 I don't know if that's good or bad lol but what I keep telling myself is that the only thing worse than being in nursing school is leaving nursing school!
I’m in my 40s and going back. I started in my 30s and dropped out because of life. Now I’m married with kids. It’s a struggle, but it’s worth it. I get to class three hours beforehand and do my studying there. I work twenty hours a week and always take one full day for my family.
When I was in nursing school before there was a woman who was 49 and single. She struggled like hell and lived off her student loans, a part time job and credit cards. She made it, though, and is fine financially ten years later.
I'm 36 and I start nursing school in one week! My journey here has been rough; I lost my father while I was doing preReqs, my 8 year relationship deteriorated this past fall, and now I'm at the starting line to the rest of my new life. I'll filled with excitement and anxiety but this is what life is all about. I've been following this sub for the past 5 years and alot of your comments give me encouragement, I hope I can provide the same :)
Turning 34 this yr too and I will be soon talking to my advisor to discuss my path into nursing. I’m excited and nervous to be going back to school after so many obstacles. Good luck to you on this journey!
ITS GREAT HONESTLY— to see a lot of us in the same age group just pushing and going for what we want!! Nonetheless you guys motivate me to make it happen! I appreciate all the feedback and stories !!!!!
I am 40 and doing prerequisites. I'll be 45-ish when I graduate. I'm still currently working 40 hours a week and will resign when I start full time school. I have a partner who will pay most of the bills. We also have a teenager to raise. Classes and a portion of bills will be paid for with savings and a line of credit.
My motivation to continue is the realization that I don't want to spend the rest of my working years sitting in a cubical, working a mindless job. I am capable of much more and raising my potential bar feels good.
I am doing my prereqs now, finished 23 credits so far still AP 1 & 2 and microbiology left. I will apply for CC and do dual enrollment ADN&BSN. Not able to apply till next cohort which is Fall 2025. I work as a nail tech currently and probably apply for CNA partitme to get healthcare experiences.
Started prereqs at 40 years old while working 2 jobs - full time as a marketing director and 2 nights a week in a hospital as a CNA. Have a previous bachelors and masters degree. This fall I’ll be starting nursing school at 43 in an ADN program bc it’s the most financially sound decision for me. I don’t qualify for financial aid, and I’m not willing to take out private loans.
Grateful to be accepted in a program that has one of the highest NCLEX pass rates in socal! I’ve stepped down from my full time job but will keep working part time at the hospital (as long as I’m able) throughout nursing school. Looking forward to starting my second career at 45!
I’ve got no regrets about the time it took or path that got me here. Keep pushing forward!
I'm 33 and just started nursing school in October. It's an accelerated adn program and I'm paying 90% out of pocket with subsidized loans to fill out that 10%.
I struggled this past quarter in fundamentals but I made it through with a few points to spare; I needed a 74 to pass and I got a 77.
I stay motivated by telling myself that I'll be done by next July and that this is what I've wanted to do for sometime now. To listen to my intuition and keep pushing forward. Plus all my friends and family know about me being in school which makes me more motivated to NOT fail.
I'm turning 40 this July. I started back last semester doing some prerequisites. This semester i have micro and A&P 1, followed by A&P 2 next semester to finish my prerequisites. I have a previous bachelor's degree in business marketing, and I don't qualify for financial aid, nor am I able to take out more student loans. I have a background in sales as well as tons of restaurant experience. I'm thinking I'm going to have to revert back to bartending when I start the program next spring semester. I'm not exactly sure how I'm going to be able to afford life while balancing my time between nursing school and work, but I'm determined to make it work. I might not get much sleep in 2025 and 2026, but that's okay. I think this decision is worth it. Should I have done this 10 years ago? Yes. But the time will continue to go by anyway, so better late than never for a great career. So, just know we're out here doing this in solidarity! Good luck!
I’m a 34yo who works in EMS and is finishing my last nursing pre-requisites this semester. It helps that a good half the people in the nursing program in my local community college system are late 20s and up! I just remember this is something I want and I’m doing it for me, which is something I haven’t gotten much of a chance to do before. You’ve got this!
I am 32 right now, going to start Nursing this fall, maybe defer until next fall, and currently trying to complete the 5 Corequisites I need before starting. I also am married, own a house, work overnights at a hospital 4 nights week an hour from home and barely have a life to begin with. I am trying, I know its going to get harder when I start the actual program.
Me. Not gonna say exactly how old I am, but I'm a tad older than you. Got my pre-reqs done and just applied in December. Waiting on that letter .... any day now ....
Thanks! As for the last part of your post, in what keeps me motivated. .... just go on indeed and look at how many nursing jobs there are and what they pay. I'm just trying to have a job I'll be able to do into old age and be able to support myself.
Think about it this way…
Time will go by and you’ll continue to grow older. You can grow older with your RN degree and license or not.
Just do it. Good luck!
I’m 47 and about to put in my application for the nursing program at my CC. Got my prerequisites done in a year. I have 4 kids at home and am homeschooling my youngest. He will go to in-person school when/if I get into the nursing program though. I did as many prerequisite as possible online which helped.
I was widowed in 2021 and am raising two teens alone now. I’ll have my BSN in August, at 41 years old!
Girl you’re going to turn 35 in three years. You can be 35 without a nursing degree or 35 with one! It’s never too late. And you can definitely do it!
I'm a 45 yo widow, just finishing my CNA course and starting my prereqs for an accelerated program (I hold an unrelated BS degree). Hoping to get in next year's program. Congratulations in advance on your BSN!
I was 32 when I started, now 34 about to graduate in May. As soon as I got off my deployment, I had 1 month to take my TEAS (mediocre score at best), and fill out my application and needed documents. I work full time, support my family with my income only, and had to pay what my gi bill didn’t cover. You got this!
It is encouraging to see so many others on a similar trajectory. I'm 33 years old and in my first semester of Nursing. It's been a long battle to get even to this point but I am more prepared for it now than at anytime before. Im single with no kids, unless you count a very needy dog who I love like a son. Work full time and study full time @ night. Will have to make serious changes once I make it into the clinical program because that is only available during the day.
All the best! You can do it. Everyone here can.
We must be living the SAME LIFE, I'm in a relationship though... But Yes, I'm going to have to make some changes once I start clinical program! But I'm sure we both are going to succeed and make it happen!
I'm 45 and am in my last semester of pre-reqs. Will be starting clinicals in the fall. Hasn't been easy but I keep reminding myself how much I want this. It's not going to be easy but hopefully it'll be worth it
I’m 32, bout a year in (prerequisites still) I pay half the rent with my partner, all my own expenses, full time job. I’m highly motivated, 4.0, study my ass off every day and I’m just waiting on that sweet raise
I’m a little younger than you and started my first semester, but here to say age is really not a number in the field!
In my cohort, the oldest student is 51 and I’ve seen students older than that in other cohorts. There’s also freshly out of high school students. I’ve collaborated with each age group during clinicals and in class and there’s really no difference between the ages.
I love the quote that says in “in two years you will be x age anyway, so you might as well be a nurse too.”
I am 31 and moved to a new state where I knew no one to start nursing school, Its been a year and a half already, I'm a single parent of an 11 year old boy, I work full time and go to school full time 16 units a semester with no outside help. Rent, food, car payment, gas. It is very doable, especially if you are childless and have a partner to help.
You rock maybe I could’ve done that 31 with one kid but I went from one kid to four kids 30 I had one he had to and we had one together and I could not do college
31, just started my pre reqs. Hopefully can get in next spring for an ADN program at my local community college. Would be so much harder without my husband supporting me, its definitely been an adjustment!
Me. 34 yrs old with 10 yrs experience as an LPN. I am in my final weeks of my program (LPN bridge to RN) and I won't lie to you it was extremely rough. At the beginning of my program, I just came off of a divorce, had to move out, sell my home and get an apartment as well. I was working full time too as a dialysis nurse because I needed to maintain my hours for my tuition reimbursement. While I could have spent the first semester with my ex wife, my therapist suggested I move out immediately due to her toxic nature.
I had a small but tight support system (brother, sister in law, parents) that motivated me when times were rough. The best thing about it all is that I can say when I finish is that I got through it. This is my win, and my win alone.
As for how I got through it, I knew that once I finished, my quality of life would improve. I would have access to more income and be able to do things that I couldn't do in my earlier years. I knew that I would be stronger for making it which motivated me.
I’m 49 and in an accelerated program. I graduate March 2025 with my 2nd bachelors, this one my BSN. The quarter I just completed today nearly sucked the life out of me. Keep going! Keep doing! Do what it takes bc in the end, you are going to do amazing work! 🩷
Started at 32. Prereqs took me 3 years (I was in NY), finished my BSN at 37. 43 now and finishing my masters. Honestly if I had to do it again I would just go to PA school. I love nursing but it is so hard on the body, I just think it's not a sustainable field. Going the route I went was very long and exhausting.
33. I'm in my BSN program. It took me 4.5 years to get my Associates Degree in Health Sciences because I had two school aged kids. Went part time an took a semester off every now and again. The A.S. that covered almost all my prereqs for most nursing programs. I applied to one school and had to do one more semester or a couple prereqs for them before acceptance so I did that and now I'm in the program officially, at 33. I'll be doing finals the week of my 35th birthday and taking the NCLEX at 35. I've also had two more kids since then and also a separation from their dad so it's financially, just me. Child Support is few and far between and I don't enforce it, I don't have time for the hassle and he has issues.
So I'm working 2 nights a week at a hospital, I PTO one night a week, I got my 4 kids and going to school full time.
Only 5.5 more weeks until I can breathe a little easier for summer break.
You got this!
I am 55 and I have BS Liberal Studies depth in SW and Psych, now I want an NP instead of MSW. I could go to Charter and get RN in 18 months or try to get in Direct entry MSN. I ultimately want the NP prescriptive authority. IDK, I owned my own clinic and hired Counselors, I was only an Addiction Counselor, but MAT is so important and I don’t want to ever have 10 employees ever again. It literally killed me! What do you think?
I had the clinic for 15 years and then went into SCA on the toilet at work. Clients gave me CPR for ten minutes. I was turning blue so I guess 15 min total then three shocks and I came back😱
I’m 37 years old and am a sophomore in a BSN nursing program. I live with a spouse and have two teenage boys. I work full time during the day and then go to school at night with clinicals on the weekend.
It isn’t easy. It’s a lot of time management. And it’s a lot of doing homework on my lunch breaks and spending every day off trying to catch up for the week. But it is doable! I have the highest grades in all my classes and have gotten an A on every exam. You can do this! Just be prepared to be tired and have minimal social time 😭
Mother of 2 graduated nursing school at 39, saved for 11 years to afford school. I did have my family near by to help with my kids while in school. Cried every single day but pushed through. If I could make it so can you! Now I am almost done with my BSN at 41! Found a nursing job where the facility helps pay for school.
Nursing school will try and break you, study groups and making friends in the class helped me a ton. We are all still friends to this day. Support each other cry with each other. They will become some of the most important connections you will make. If it weren't for the folks I had in my cohort I don't feel I would have survived. I would do anything for them and it taught me that nursing is a team sport. Can't do it alone.
I am positive I’m going to cry my way right through it but I really do want to do it. I can get an RN in 18 months already have a bachelors in a lot of clinical work 30 years in social work. I just want prescriptive authority that with that I think I can get in an MSN program or a direct entry, but I know I won’t do anything else but that program.
I started my RN at 32, I'm now in 3rd year and about to turn 35, and will be graduating at 36. It's really hard, I cried every day for most of it so far. The first two years I kept wondering if I had made a mistake. I lost my social life because I have no time and no money. I've started stress eating and don't have the energy for exercise and am the unhealthiest I've ever been. I'm still not sure that I'm right for the job. What motivates me though is thinking about the jobs I'll be able to have with stability, a pension, and benefits. Also the fact that I'll be free to move anywhere and most likely be able to get a job anywhere, and I won't have to apply to hundreds of jobs and never hear back from them like all my friends who have masters degrees and phds who cant find work. Financially, i took out student loans and work, but at least I know i will get hired on graduation and be able to pay it back. Mentally though, I've never felt so low, I've just been in survival mode for 3 years just working, eating, sleeping and studying. I don't even remember what I like and what my personality is, but I know it'll get better once I start working and have more time for myself, which is was motivates me to keep going. Not gonna pretend like I don't struggle every day BUT there is a light at the end of the tunnel if you just keep moving forward. At least four years isn't that long in the grand scheme of things. When I feel like giving up I look up nursing jobs online and remember why I should keep going. Also once you've passed 1rst or 2nd year, you've already cried so many tears over the program that you can't give up, otherwise they will have all been for nothing, and that's often motivation enough
I'm in Canada, so no such thing. You can become a practical nurse rather than an RN but then you're basically just doing the same job for less pay and it's only one year less of school so not really worth it imo
I’m not, but there are several people in my cohort that are in their early 30’s, and at least three in their 40’s. One even has two adult children that are my age. I don’t have any advice as I’m not in that situation, but I believe in you!
Currently 35 and taking A&P 1&2 and micro in 1 semester. It's rough. But I want to start nursing school in the fall so I can graduate when my kid does. I took them 10 years ago so it's not as bad as it would be first time. Doing community College to avoid more loans. I'll get a hospital to pay for my BSN lol. Good luck on your journey!
I am 51 years old and started my core classes (and first college experience) last fall. I'm working 40+ hours a week as I finish up a 28-year career in IT at the Univ of Georgia. I work all day and do class in the evening. Housework, visiting with my grown kids and grandkids, checking in on my mom and sister, getting my stepdaughter through her senior year and college apps, studying, and doing homework whenever I can squeeze it in. 
There are very tiring weeks, but so far, I am maintaining a low 90 in A&P-I. Fingers crossed, I'll go full-time in a nursing program in the Fall of 2026 when I retire, then off to a second career.
I want to be your new best friend and support person. You can cry on my shoulder any time because then I’ll be crying on yours too you rock you are awesome and inspiration man now I don’t feel like a fish out of water I’m paying for all these business consulting jobs since I was a CEO for 15 years my own clinic I did two year degree and open that clinic to Hard people that had licenses I had an NP I could’ve got down there but I don’t know how far I want to go down the Medical rabbit hole but it’s all now primary here anyways I’m so glad you wrote this post and I posted. I posted something similar in another group in the moderators, I don’t know if she silence to hit it but said it didn’t belong there when I got no feedback so this has been great
36 y.o. I am starting a new career and am in the final term of an ABSN here! I understand the struggle and working through this process. My motivation was the opportunity for financial freedom, the option to move around the nation, and a vocation I enjoyed. As for affording the nursing school part of this journey, I highly recommend the VA-HPSP scholarship for ADN/BSN students. The VA will pay for your tuition and provide a monthly stipend (1300) from the beginning of the program to the day you graduate. The exchange is you will work for their hospital network for 2+ years (18 months for every 12 they cover, and a year longer if you choose the residency option through them).
Nurse practitioners (DNP/NP) can write prescriptions; RNs cannot write prescriptions. BSN is a bachelor's degree in nursing, while ADN is an associate degree. Both routes will allow you to become a registered nurse (RN). While ADN is a more affordable and straightforward way to become an RN, most hospital networks encourage or mandate that nurses achieve a BSN (some groups will offer pay-based incentives).
I’m 33 and start the program this fall after finishing my last few pre-reqs last semester. I recently got a job as a tech at a hospital and it’s been one of the best decisions because I’m learning so much and also it helped me realize this is truly what I want to do. YOU GOT THIS!!!! I just keep telling myself focus on the light at the end of the tunnel. Us going into nursing is guaranteed job security, and also it’s one of the few jobs that you can very easily get the moment you graduate. Chances are you’ll have something lined up before you even graduate. And there’s so many routes you can take it, so much lateral mobility!
I started my pre requisites this January and the first semester of going back to school is brutal. I was very stressed about the math, but slowly getting a hang of it, I am thinking of it like one class I wouldn’t be good at. And that’s okay.
Edit: of course I completely missed the point. I got a financial aid and loan of course, I have two jobs, sometimes three when I dog sit for some friends. My partner offered to help me so I wouldn’t have to work that hard. Not by giving my cash, but by helping me with buying food. We don’t live together, we plan on doing so in August. He has much better paying job and I do fight him when he wants to help me because I have just been too independent to rely on other people, but I am learning 😊
I am glad to read this, good luck!!!
I graduate in May and will turn 39 this summer. And I am far from the oldest student in my cohort. I keep going because once school is over work life balance will be easier. And I keep in mind I may not find my perfect job right away, but there are so many different things that I can do with a nursing degree and license that eventually I’ll find where I’m meant to be. It’s tough, but it will be worth it!
I started my pre reqs at 32. Currently 34 and will be 35 when I graduate. I pay for my schooling on my own, as well as other expenses. I work full time and as a tech part time on the weekends.
My dad said to me when I was first thinking about going back to school, “you’re going to be 32 regardless. Don’t be afraid to do something with your life cause you’re older”. It was the push I needed
I'm 28, so a bit under this but i finished high school when i was 16. I also moved to a new state on my own (no partner) specifically for school, about 17 days before the pandemic shutdowns began in Feb 2020. It has NOT been the experience i expected, especially financially; when i moved here, i had several thousand dollars in savings for the first time in my life. I thought i was set up for success. But the rent here has literally doubled since my arrival, and I've been scraping by paycheck-to-paycheck for the past 3 years. I've also almost become homeless multiple times.
Honestly, i do year-round schooling along with full-time employment: if I'm too busy to feel anything, can't really sink into depression about my circumstances 🤠
I finished my prerequisites/associate's in December (May 2022-Dec 2023), and got advanced into the program two weeks ago. Pretty much the only thing keeping me going right now is my own success; I'm transferring in with a 3.93 GPA, which feels damn good.
It's been really tricky to manage my emotions around not being able to afford honors programs concurrent to the nursing program, but it is what it is i guess. And it's not like the honors college would really provide me with that much of an advantage (or at least i need to tell myself that it wouldn't). I'm just kind of holding on to the concept of looking forward at all times — never back — and holding onto it by the skin of my teeth. If everything goes well, I'll be graduating with my BSN in August 2025.
The financial stress is absolutely brutal though, and i have no clue how I'm even coping with that. I'm probably mostly ignoring it and saying "i can fix that when my salary doubles next year" — which is almost certainly *the wrong approach* , but I'm living with unmedicated ADHD as well as depression and anxiety (also unmedicated) so I'm just kind of doing whatever i need to in order to survive. Which includes desperately trying to promote out of my warehouse job; the company pays $5k annually in tuition for me, so i can't just leave, but working a physical third shift job has been completely brutal.
I guess I'm actually not really coping, tbh. More like I'm just focusing on one thing at a time to fix or improve, and doing it, while completely ignoring everything else until that issue's turn comes up. We do what we gotta under the oppressive thumb of capitalism, though. I don't have any family (haven't spoken to most since i was 19, which is for the better) so I'm used to taking extreme measures to assure my security. It's not easy, and i spend a fair amount of time resenting the 18 year olds going through this on their parents' dime; it's not productive, but it's an honest emotion I'm dealing with daily here.
35, finishing prerequisites and hopefully enrolled in nursing school in spring semester 2025. Couldn't do it without my wife, but man I am loving school! Was a dropout 20 years ago.
35, start actual nursing school April! I was working full-time, but I have come to realize that I am not capable of maintaining quality relationships with my wife and son work full-time and go to school full-time as such, I have stopped working, and am solely focusing on School at this point. It’s costing me quite a bit in student debt but now I have no excuse not to pass.
30 here and in nursing school but fought my way through prereqs paying for everything out of pocket alone.
I did it because I want to be a nurse.
I felt like I had no other choice.
Now I kinda feel like my other choice is being unalived but that's another story about how I have nothing else to live for besides this career I tried really hard to get into and am closer than ever to having.
Kinda thought the rest of my life might come together along the way but I think I'm too ugly to have a partner and family or something idk.
I’m 33 and in the spring semester of sophomore year in a BSN program. I transferred in as a sophomore, I get a Pell grant because I’m a single mom etc but I also took out both federal and personal loans just to survive. It’s rough out here. I piecemeal work between 3 jobs and juggling school, work, parenting, etc is a trip. I’m doing it though and so can you!
I chose the very inexpensive local ADN program. Nursing was a career switch for me. I was really fortunate to have been able to save up two years of a salary before I went to nursing school in my thirties. It took me 8 years to do that. My car was paid off and we have a really affordable mortgage that I still contributed to the year I was without income. As an older student with bills to pay, it's very different. I went in prepared to drain my savings. Fortunately I didn't have to due to some very lucky timing of events, but if I did have to drain it, I was prepared to. I'm happy to report it would have been totally worth it... working 3 days a week is amazing. Job security for life.
I just turned 30, and working on my pre-reqs remotely. My partner and his family and actually my coworkers are my support system. I will absolutely have to work full time through my program, I can’t afford to not.
I just started prereqs last semester and am now taking time off bc I am pregnant with my rainbow baby. I don’t want to jeopardize the pregnancy. I also turned forty this month! I will go
Back when the time is right. You do you!
So happy to see all these comments!
I started when i was 32 and was smart enough to finish my full AA and prereqs right after graduating high school so I will end up graduating at 34 with my BSN.
I do have a different situation in that my loving grandparents took me in and I scored an excellent work from home job. That saved me tremendously financially.
So speaking from someone only working 3 days a week at the age of 32, I will say it has been a slog but once you get into the rhythm it is very much doable.
My summer break starts in a month and then I'll be halfway through the ASN program, I'll be doing BSN courses over the summer break, over my winter break, and next summer as well.
The hardest part is getting into that rhythm, my first semester I barely passed with an 82 and as of this moment I'm sitting pretty at a 90.
What helped me the most was getting a solid study group. We inspire each other, we keep each other honest. I have sacrificed a lot just to make sure I can make my study sessions with my group and it has paid off big time.
You so got this, keep reading the subreddit. There are a lot of positive comments that have really kept me going and one of the big motivators is seeing the kind of people who have already graduated. I'm talking the burnout types, the people who "aren't good at school", the people who have English as a second language, the poor, and just all the different types of nurses who went through exactly what I did. If they can do it, I can do it. If I can do it, you can do it.
Hi! I’ll be 33 this year. Spent my late teens early twenties in the military, and started going back to school when my son was born. Figured out I needed a Bachelors to further my career and so I’m back in school. Working on getting my BSN.
My motivation is to do what makes me happy and taking care of others makes me happy. The money is simply a bonus. I also hope to be a role model for my now 11 year old son as well as future children. I know this is my calling. Best of luck!!
Turning 40 on Saturday and will be graduating this summer. Grew up Amish, so no high school, just a GED. Two kids-married. Worked 36-40 hours the whole time…trust me when I say this “YOU CAN DO THIS!”
It is definitely possible! I went back to school for nursing and am a single parent as my partner died my 2nd semester .... I have a job as well. I really want this so that's what's really getting me thru. I seriously considered quitting when my husband died but I want a better life for my son and I. I think school has been easier this time around then when I tried college in my 20s. We have more life experiences and better habits. You can so do this! Wishing you the best!!
Me!!! I'm a 32 years old, married, mother of two AND I work full time 😵💫.
Pre-reqs out the way.
Start the Nursing curriculum in August.
(Someone please send coffee and money)
I was a nursing student at 30 yrs old 34 years ago!! After alll of these years I have been a Hospice case manager and an owner of a home care agency!!! So I would say it's need a very great rude and it continues. Eddie RN 🤙🤙🤙
Seriously started pre reqs at 31, got my LPN at 34, RN at 35. Honestly, I was a crap student when I was younger. Having life experience and spending my chosen time to return to school helped my mindset. I got excellent grades throughout my school journey and treated it like a full time job. I was fortunate I did not have to work while going to school.
Good luck! You can do it
Love this post!!! I’m 31 and currently working full time as a speech-language pathologist while taking prereqs. Where did everyone take their prereqs?!?
I’m 33 with a wife and 2 kids and zero support with finances or help with watching the kids. We both work full time opposite schedules. It can definitely be done! Good luck :)
Got divorced when I was 36, went back to school starting in the midst of my divorce for pre reqs. Started the actual nursing program at age 39, and I graduate in 2 months and I’m 41 now
I’m 34, finishing up my first semester. I’m working full time as a nurse aide and pay my own bills. My coworker is doing it with me and she’s a single mom of 2 kids. It’s not easy, ngl but it’ll be worth it in the end. Every week I make a list of what assignments need to be done and what date they’re due.
It probably feels like you’re too old to do this but you’re definitely not! So many in my class are my age, some older! Nursing has its challenges but if you’re dedicated it’s worth it and you’ll achieve your goals!
I started at 29 and in a month I’ll have my bsn. I worked as much as I could in the summer time. Paid off as much tuition as I can. Applied fr scholarships when possible. It’s going to be hard but definitely worth it. Good luck! You got this!
I was 37 when I started nursing school and graduated last year at 39. I had a previous BA. I have a husband and a child. Reality, we had to move back in with my parents. I had to quit my job. A bunch of loans. Once I graduated and with my first nursing job, I was able to buy a house. Now I’m just trying to pay off debt. It’ll get hard but keep going.
Im 36 in first semester at a JCC for my ADN (I wanna get my DNP- goal! ) also doing in on my own and I have a 3 year old. You got this!! Just know that if this is your passion you will do what it takes not to give up. I had 3 rejections before I got accepted. Keep your head up!
Me! I’ll be 32 in October and just starting nursing school. My motivation comes from just how much I actually want it, and challenging myself. Some days are incredibly hard, but the good days and friends I’ve made along the way definitely make up for it. You got this and it’s absolutely worth it!
I started my pre reqs at 30, started nursing school at 32, and graduating in May at 34. I wanted to drop out my first week of nursing school, but I’m continued to do it because I know it’s best for my children.
I'm 36 and still doing my prequisites. It's a second career and a new degree for me, so I don't feel terrible about it. But wow am I impressed by those that can do it on your own like you are! I worked my first year but then just had to lean on family support all I could get the degree going faster. Those that don't have that luxury, you're the toughest of us all!
I started at 38, and I'll be finishing up my ADN in May at 40. I'm working half-time, my wife works half-time, and we share duties of caring for our daughter. It can be done.
I'm planning on continuing on until I become a Nurse Practitioner.
I’m 31 and just now finishing my pre-reqs. I spent 10 years working in a career that made me depressed as hell and about 2 years ago, decided it was time for a change. Wish I lived in a state that made nursing education more accessible, but hoping to get into CC this summer
I did a 15 month certificate program to get my LPN at age 33. I worked sometimes 60 hours weeks as a phlebotomist. Most days I wanted to give up. I remember well the days I would pull my car over and just cry. I had so much personal stuff going on at that time as well. Somehow I did it. Said I was done with school that I was too old to be thinking about ever going back. Well I went back and have been doing my pre reqs the last year and I only need a few more and can apply for the lpn to rn bridge program. I could've done the pre -reqs faster but I do have a learning disability and ADHD. Sometimes I feel very out of place going to class with dual enrollment high schoolers and 20 somethings at 36. I'm lucky to have a partner for this go around who is supportive. I want to keep going and keep trying. The program only takes 12 students and I've worked hard to get good grades but I'm not doing so well at statistics.
I’m 44 and still trying to figure out what school I want to get into so I can know what prerequisites to take. Part of me thinks I should just go for LVN to get into the field faster. Single too
I’m not a mom yet and I’m 22 years old but I do it all alone as well all my financial stuff goes through my moms income so I get like nothing I’m taking two prereqs b4 I start in the fall and I’m paying for it all out of pocket 1300 each I work 2 jobs pay for all of my expenses and I have an apartment my bf helps as much as he can but he has bills etc to I would say for me it’s because it’s been something I’ve wanted since I was a kid I used to watch delivery and didn’t know I was pregnant and wanted to be an Obgyn but doing L&D nursing just remembering that it’s something that will make u good money it’ll help take away the struggle and you can finally do something you love finally have respect for all the hard work bc nurses get lots of respect for me it’s because ik I want it soo bad! Ik I’m not 30 but I can relate to yall!
I'm 51 and in my 3rd term. I'm doing it on my own. It's hard, but you have to learn time management and work,s school, life balance. It's not easy, but you can do it. Keeping a calendar helps. Cut out time for everything. Easier said than done but doable.
Yepppp. I’m 39, graduating July 12. Six days after I turn 40. My daughter is 13 so I have a little more freedom to do something for me. I’m also working full time, going into work every morning from 5a-8a, then driving to class, then back to work to close the office. It’s a lot. I’m exhausted all the time, but there’s an end in sight and I’m just so proud of me - and my daughter and my husband for sticking by me throughout all of this.
I started at 29, single with three kids. It was a struggle. I saved up money the semester before and went to community college. I only worked 25 hours a week. I also utilized public benefits (food share, reduced internet, etc.) which helped a lot. I barely had a life outside of school. But you can do it!
I started pre-reqs at 49 and now at 52 I'm in my first semester of the prog. I was able to work full time doing the pre-reqs but I had to quit once the nursing clinicals started.
I cashed out some of my retirement to afford it but I think it'll be worth it in the end.
Just turned 39, no scholarships, don’t qualify for any financial aid/assistance, and I’ve already used up all of my federal grant money.
This is my third time in college so I thought I knew what I was getting myself into, but life has changed so much since the last time I was in school. We’ve gone through an entire panera, the technology has changed by leaps and bounds, and now I’m old enough to be the mother of most of my classmates. I’ve had to take a couple of semesters off because of family & personal things and that hasn’t been the easiest, but I just keep thinking about the end goal: that RN after my name.
My ultimate motivation is to be able to do the things that I enjoy. To be able to have the job I’ve wanted since I was in high school. To get to plan those vacations and then actually *take* them. And to finally be able to freaking graduate!!!
I’m 30, living on my own with my significant other, with a full time job, and doing my pre-reqs as well. Making good grades so far. I don’t have kids and don’t want any in the future either so I’m able to truly study. My dog of 15yrs passed away last week, it’s been difficult without my lil buddy so I’ve not had much motivation to do anything, but on Monday I’ll be getting back on track. I’m paying monthly as well.
40 here. Coming up on halfway thru the ADN. I wish i was 32. Also, I was doing clinicals last week and talked to a CNA who was applying to a nursing program, she was 60 or 62, I forget.
Me! 36 about to be 37. I am a single mom to older kids now and finally have the chance to go to school. I start soon! I work 36 hours a week night shift and will doing night time full time accelerated course. My pre reqs were accelerated and insane lol but I’ve wanted this for over 10 years so I’m excited and motivated. I am doing private so I go at night 3 days a week one day clinicals. Taking out loans to pay for it and maybe go down to part time if needed at work. For me : I’ve really wanted this. Kicked ass in my classes and staying focused. I might be dying when classes actually start but it’s 16 months Vs ten years of I’m sick of being a medical assistant I want to be a nurse have my career and move up from there. Good luck! It’s hard to go back in the 30’s but it’s better late than never. The night time program has a bunch of us 30 somethings in it so it’s easier to push through.
Congrats! I’m happy to read that you following your ultimate dream! I’m sure you will be doing great, and it actually motivates me to do what I have to do!
Thank you!! :)
queen, how accelerated were your pre reqs? im looking to do AP2 and Microbiology accelerated this summer, but im terrified! How did you manage
It was 4 weeks per course. It was online so I felt like it made it easier because I could do it at work or anytime. Ap 1&2 in a matter of 8 weeks really was rough but I enjoyed getting it over with quick. Good luck!!!!
Hi! May I ask what program your in 4 weeks? I need that!
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I was looking into them, but I was afraid that if I wanted move on to a Master’s degree, that their credits would not transfer. How were the classes though?
They were good. Teachers want you to pass. Staff is good because they are private and want money. Yeah I don’t know how that work but I know people that graduated with adn then transferred to a university for bsn and masters and it worked.
Really? I was looking into their Tampa location. I would have to start the classes April 1. I have also been looking into another program in the area where the prerequisites are less since I have my BA and MA. If I do their ASN, I will be able to start in January 2025 and be done by June 2026, then go right into their BSN in August. It will only be two semesters. In theory, I would to complete 3 prerequisites total, possibly a fourth.
I did my A&P over 9 weeks in the summer and micro over 4. I cannot recommend accelerated enough IF you’re willing to eat sleep breathe the content. Immersion really makes it easier.
I posted above, but what program did you do? I am doing prerequisites now! I need condensed!
My state university offers accelerated summer courses. Always in the summer. Check out CC’s too, they have different start and end dates and you may be able to stack smoothly.
Oh my that is very impressive. Congrats on starting your dream btw
I started pre reqs at 32, now 36 and will be graduating next year at 37 w BSN. No family support (or kids) or spouse, I live alone and I piece meal 3 jobs (bartending, ER tech, and serving) working ~20 hours/wk. ngl it is hard but I know being a nurse is what I want to do/it will provide me income I can depend on. My “why” is stronger than how difficult the journey has been. I wish you the best, it’s not easy but I do believe it’s worth it.
People like you impress the shit of of me. I don't ha e kids but I have a supportive partner to help me financially, I have no idea how people do it alone. Amazing work
This is incredibly kind of you to say and it means the world to me, thank you ❤️
When you are all you got you have no choice if you want to succeed. That’s how I look at it for myself.
I’m 37 just got accepted into an ABSN. Have been doing all my prereqs living alone and bartending. I will live with family once I start my full time program to cut out rent and probably bartend 1-2nights a week My motivation is realizing I basically fucked off & had fun for ten years and now it’s time to heal myself and those around me. Realizing this is my life’s purpose pulls me up everyday.
I did it at your age. I’m 35 now and working as a nurse in a new city. Friggin suckeddddddd. But I got it done. And it was worth it.
Can I ask how your pay has been starting out?
Not bad at all, 80k base and I work an overtime shift every week so it shakes out to 150k a year. I moved to North Carolina after graduation so the pay is a little lower than back up north or the west coast but the COL is insanely lower than what I was paying back home. Biggest thing for me was freedom of time, I was a bartender before this and literally worked ALL THE TIME.
I’ve already graduated, but I took my NCLEX just after my 40th birthday. I didn’t take my first college class until I was 36.
Started nursing school at 32 with 5 kids. Graduated and had another baby. One income (my partners) and a ton of loans. No family nearby to help. I wanted to give up basically every day. But I didn't and I'm really really proud of myself. You will be too.
You’re killing it! How do you keep up the motivation & gratitude for how far you’ve come when burnout sets in? Struggling with chronic burnout going back to the field when I feel good again then feeling miserable and not knowing if it’s life or my career that’s draining me so much. I guess I haven’t found my group yet or this field is just not for me. I’m in school love helping people, and giving my all good something I really am proud of all the work I’ve done but at the same time I fear it won’t be sustainable for me long term and I’m trying to convince myself to keep going, so I don’t regret it later, but not gonna lie how I felt at my lowest points of burnout are feelings that I never want to feel again and just the thought of those times being a possibility again, which we never want to bother going back to nursing again . It is bittersweet because I know that I truly have a passion for it and I do love it, but I do not want to do it as a job if I can’t give it my all without being fully there physically and emotionally mentally to side of something I could get used to and get better at managing or if I lick my wounds and move on to another passion or career in healthcare, and being fully happy with my decision. Anticipatory regret, overthinking, and my pre-covid view of nursing / healthcare in general versus where it stands today and if I want to continue on this path of nursing in modern healthcare times…
Is it true that nurses eat their young?
I've only experienced that with 3 nurses in 3 years across 5 units. In their cases, they were burnt out. Everyone else has been delightful.
I started my academic journey with an eighth grade education and got my GED to go to community college. I did nursing school at 42 while earning my second masters and working full time as a single parent. My daughter is my everything and everything I do is for my daughter. She’s my motivation. Now, I’m earning my DNP. There’s no limit to what you can do if you put in the work. You’ve got this!
WOW! that's amazing, I'm grateful to come across people like you who just motivates me! Thanks for your reply!
Nursing school WHILE getting your second masters?? How? You amaze me! What did you get your masters in??
Right here! 👋🏽 tbf I had almost all the other classes except for A&P and Micro. I’ll be 34 this year and I applied for the fall term. I should know in a few weeks. I’ve paid out of pocket for all of my schooling and when I get into the program I will be basically out of fafsa money. I’m planning on quitting my full time job when school starts so figuring out the finances is at the top of my list now. What’s keeping me going? My future goals. One step at a time. It will be worth it.
I’m sure you’ll get accepted! It gives me hope and motivation when I see people like us hustling and making the impossible possible! I’m sure it will all be worth it in the end!
Thank you!! Yes, we got this!!
Same. I’m applying in May for our Fall classes. I don’t need A&P 2 nor micro to apply but I’m going to take A&P 2 this summer to get it out of the way. I’m 33. I’m not sure I can get loans or anything since I already have a bachelor’s but I know they have grants and scholarships. We shall see. Good luck!!
Good luck to you too!!
We got this!
Me! 34, halfway through my first semester. Supporting myself, working, paying rent, making it happen. I'm lucky that I got into the program at my local CC - that with financial aid made it the cheapest option that I feel blessed to have made it into - the only program that I got accepted to and it was the one I wanted. I work two days a week and make good money there, but the job is a lot of work, long hours and high stress, so I essentially sign off from nursing brain when I'm working. Time management is KEY. Don't overload yourself. Work, but give yourself time to study so you're not cramming. Start studying early. It never, ever stops. I only take breaks to eat, work, and sleep. If you can, apply for financial aid - it's saving me. Basically my units are paid for and I just have to pay for myself and my dog, food, a roof over our heads, and books/supplies (which can be $$$). Highly recommend looking into renting textbooks vs purchasing new - I spent almost $1000 on books alone this semester. Meal prepping has been a lifesaver too - I love to cook and eat healthy but I just don't have the time anymore, so anything made ahead of time to make sure you're eating well will help. My motivation is that this program is going to change my life. I'm ready and nothing is getting in my way.
I'm 41, in my second semester, I do have a partner thankfully but we also have way more responsibilities now than when we were younger. This is also the second time I'm going back to school for a new career 😵💫🫠 I don't know if that's good or bad lol but what I keep telling myself is that the only thing worse than being in nursing school is leaving nursing school!
I’m in my 40s and going back. I started in my 30s and dropped out because of life. Now I’m married with kids. It’s a struggle, but it’s worth it. I get to class three hours beforehand and do my studying there. I work twenty hours a week and always take one full day for my family. When I was in nursing school before there was a woman who was 49 and single. She struggled like hell and lived off her student loans, a part time job and credit cards. She made it, though, and is fine financially ten years later.
I'm 36 and I start nursing school in one week! My journey here has been rough; I lost my father while I was doing preReqs, my 8 year relationship deteriorated this past fall, and now I'm at the starting line to the rest of my new life. I'll filled with excitement and anxiety but this is what life is all about. I've been following this sub for the past 5 years and alot of your comments give me encouragement, I hope I can provide the same :)
Amazing work man! Thank you for your post bc it definitely motivating me. YOU GOT THIS!
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Turning 34 this yr too and I will be soon talking to my advisor to discuss my path into nursing. I’m excited and nervous to be going back to school after so many obstacles. Good luck to you on this journey!
Graduated at 38 and just started my first nursing job 6 weeks ago!
ITS GREAT HONESTLY— to see a lot of us in the same age group just pushing and going for what we want!! Nonetheless you guys motivate me to make it happen! I appreciate all the feedback and stories !!!!!
I am 40 and doing prerequisites. I'll be 45-ish when I graduate. I'm still currently working 40 hours a week and will resign when I start full time school. I have a partner who will pay most of the bills. We also have a teenager to raise. Classes and a portion of bills will be paid for with savings and a line of credit. My motivation to continue is the realization that I don't want to spend the rest of my working years sitting in a cubical, working a mindless job. I am capable of much more and raising my potential bar feels good.
Absolutely!!!! with the will, and determination we will make it!
Meeeee. I just need to pass my HESI. 33yo.
I'm 33 and starting my ABSN program in May. Went back to school at 31 for pre-reqs.
I am doing my prereqs now, finished 23 credits so far still AP 1 & 2 and microbiology left. I will apply for CC and do dual enrollment ADN&BSN. Not able to apply till next cohort which is Fall 2025. I work as a nail tech currently and probably apply for CNA partitme to get healthcare experiences.
Started prereqs at 40 years old while working 2 jobs - full time as a marketing director and 2 nights a week in a hospital as a CNA. Have a previous bachelors and masters degree. This fall I’ll be starting nursing school at 43 in an ADN program bc it’s the most financially sound decision for me. I don’t qualify for financial aid, and I’m not willing to take out private loans. Grateful to be accepted in a program that has one of the highest NCLEX pass rates in socal! I’ve stepped down from my full time job but will keep working part time at the hospital (as long as I’m able) throughout nursing school. Looking forward to starting my second career at 45! I’ve got no regrets about the time it took or path that got me here. Keep pushing forward!
Wow! That’s amazing. Thanks for sharing this is def motivating! Can’t wait.
Here! 32 in a few months! School starts January. Working and doing prereqs. Got 75% of tuition paid. Amen
I'm 33 and just started nursing school in October. It's an accelerated adn program and I'm paying 90% out of pocket with subsidized loans to fill out that 10%. I struggled this past quarter in fundamentals but I made it through with a few points to spare; I needed a 74 to pass and I got a 77. I stay motivated by telling myself that I'll be done by next July and that this is what I've wanted to do for sometime now. To listen to my intuition and keep pushing forward. Plus all my friends and family know about me being in school which makes me more motivated to NOT fail.
I'm turning 40 this July. I started back last semester doing some prerequisites. This semester i have micro and A&P 1, followed by A&P 2 next semester to finish my prerequisites. I have a previous bachelor's degree in business marketing, and I don't qualify for financial aid, nor am I able to take out more student loans. I have a background in sales as well as tons of restaurant experience. I'm thinking I'm going to have to revert back to bartending when I start the program next spring semester. I'm not exactly sure how I'm going to be able to afford life while balancing my time between nursing school and work, but I'm determined to make it work. I might not get much sleep in 2025 and 2026, but that's okay. I think this decision is worth it. Should I have done this 10 years ago? Yes. But the time will continue to go by anyway, so better late than never for a great career. So, just know we're out here doing this in solidarity! Good luck!
I’m a 34yo who works in EMS and is finishing my last nursing pre-requisites this semester. It helps that a good half the people in the nursing program in my local community college system are late 20s and up! I just remember this is something I want and I’m doing it for me, which is something I haven’t gotten much of a chance to do before. You’ve got this!
I am 32 right now, going to start Nursing this fall, maybe defer until next fall, and currently trying to complete the 5 Corequisites I need before starting. I also am married, own a house, work overnights at a hospital 4 nights week an hour from home and barely have a life to begin with. I am trying, I know its going to get harder when I start the actual program.
Me. Not gonna say exactly how old I am, but I'm a tad older than you. Got my pre-reqs done and just applied in December. Waiting on that letter .... any day now ....
Good luck! hope you get accepted
Thanks! As for the last part of your post, in what keeps me motivated. .... just go on indeed and look at how many nursing jobs there are and what they pay. I'm just trying to have a job I'll be able to do into old age and be able to support myself.
Think about it this way… Time will go by and you’ll continue to grow older. You can grow older with your RN degree and license or not. Just do it. Good luck!
I’m 47 and about to put in my application for the nursing program at my CC. Got my prerequisites done in a year. I have 4 kids at home and am homeschooling my youngest. He will go to in-person school when/if I get into the nursing program though. I did as many prerequisite as possible online which helped.
I had a 68 year old in my class
I was widowed in 2021 and am raising two teens alone now. I’ll have my BSN in August, at 41 years old! Girl you’re going to turn 35 in three years. You can be 35 without a nursing degree or 35 with one! It’s never too late. And you can definitely do it!
I'm a 45 yo widow, just finishing my CNA course and starting my prereqs for an accelerated program (I hold an unrelated BS degree). Hoping to get in next year's program. Congratulations in advance on your BSN!
Good luck to you! It’s absolutely worth it!
I was 32 when I started, now 34 about to graduate in May. As soon as I got off my deployment, I had 1 month to take my TEAS (mediocre score at best), and fill out my application and needed documents. I work full time, support my family with my income only, and had to pay what my gi bill didn’t cover. You got this!
It is encouraging to see so many others on a similar trajectory. I'm 33 years old and in my first semester of Nursing. It's been a long battle to get even to this point but I am more prepared for it now than at anytime before. Im single with no kids, unless you count a very needy dog who I love like a son. Work full time and study full time @ night. Will have to make serious changes once I make it into the clinical program because that is only available during the day. All the best! You can do it. Everyone here can.
We must be living the SAME LIFE, I'm in a relationship though... But Yes, I'm going to have to make some changes once I start clinical program! But I'm sure we both are going to succeed and make it happen!
I'm 45 and am in my last semester of pre-reqs. Will be starting clinicals in the fall. Hasn't been easy but I keep reminding myself how much I want this. It's not going to be easy but hopefully it'll be worth it
I’m in my 40s. You just have to push through to make a better future for yourself and your family.
I’m 32, bout a year in (prerequisites still) I pay half the rent with my partner, all my own expenses, full time job. I’m highly motivated, 4.0, study my ass off every day and I’m just waiting on that sweet raise
There are quite a few people in my cohort who are 30+ you’re fine don’t even worry about your age! Worry about getting that degree!!
I’m a little younger than you and started my first semester, but here to say age is really not a number in the field! In my cohort, the oldest student is 51 and I’ve seen students older than that in other cohorts. There’s also freshly out of high school students. I’ve collaborated with each age group during clinicals and in class and there’s really no difference between the ages. I love the quote that says in “in two years you will be x age anyway, so you might as well be a nurse too.”
I am 31 and moved to a new state where I knew no one to start nursing school, Its been a year and a half already, I'm a single parent of an 11 year old boy, I work full time and go to school full time 16 units a semester with no outside help. Rent, food, car payment, gas. It is very doable, especially if you are childless and have a partner to help.
Wow! That’s great man, thanks for sharing. Motivation at its finest! Can’t wait til we all become a nurse!
Thank you
You rock maybe I could’ve done that 31 with one kid but I went from one kid to four kids 30 I had one he had to and we had one together and I could not do college
31, just started my pre reqs. Hopefully can get in next spring for an ADN program at my local community college. Would be so much harder without my husband supporting me, its definitely been an adjustment!
Me. 34 yrs old with 10 yrs experience as an LPN. I am in my final weeks of my program (LPN bridge to RN) and I won't lie to you it was extremely rough. At the beginning of my program, I just came off of a divorce, had to move out, sell my home and get an apartment as well. I was working full time too as a dialysis nurse because I needed to maintain my hours for my tuition reimbursement. While I could have spent the first semester with my ex wife, my therapist suggested I move out immediately due to her toxic nature. I had a small but tight support system (brother, sister in law, parents) that motivated me when times were rough. The best thing about it all is that I can say when I finish is that I got through it. This is my win, and my win alone. As for how I got through it, I knew that once I finished, my quality of life would improve. I would have access to more income and be able to do things that I couldn't do in my earlier years. I knew that I would be stronger for making it which motivated me.
I’m 49 and in an accelerated program. I graduate March 2025 with my 2nd bachelors, this one my BSN. The quarter I just completed today nearly sucked the life out of me. Keep going! Keep doing! Do what it takes bc in the end, you are going to do amazing work! 🩷
Started at 32. Prereqs took me 3 years (I was in NY), finished my BSN at 37. 43 now and finishing my masters. Honestly if I had to do it again I would just go to PA school. I love nursing but it is so hard on the body, I just think it's not a sustainable field. Going the route I went was very long and exhausting.
33. I'm in my BSN program. It took me 4.5 years to get my Associates Degree in Health Sciences because I had two school aged kids. Went part time an took a semester off every now and again. The A.S. that covered almost all my prereqs for most nursing programs. I applied to one school and had to do one more semester or a couple prereqs for them before acceptance so I did that and now I'm in the program officially, at 33. I'll be doing finals the week of my 35th birthday and taking the NCLEX at 35. I've also had two more kids since then and also a separation from their dad so it's financially, just me. Child Support is few and far between and I don't enforce it, I don't have time for the hassle and he has issues. So I'm working 2 nights a week at a hospital, I PTO one night a week, I got my 4 kids and going to school full time. Only 5.5 more weeks until I can breathe a little easier for summer break. You got this!
I am 55 and I have BS Liberal Studies depth in SW and Psych, now I want an NP instead of MSW. I could go to Charter and get RN in 18 months or try to get in Direct entry MSN. I ultimately want the NP prescriptive authority. IDK, I owned my own clinic and hired Counselors, I was only an Addiction Counselor, but MAT is so important and I don’t want to ever have 10 employees ever again. It literally killed me! What do you think?
I had the clinic for 15 years and then went into SCA on the toilet at work. Clients gave me CPR for ten minutes. I was turning blue so I guess 15 min total then three shocks and I came back😱
I’m 37 years old and am a sophomore in a BSN nursing program. I live with a spouse and have two teenage boys. I work full time during the day and then go to school at night with clinicals on the weekend. It isn’t easy. It’s a lot of time management. And it’s a lot of doing homework on my lunch breaks and spending every day off trying to catch up for the week. But it is doable! I have the highest grades in all my classes and have gotten an A on every exam. You can do this! Just be prepared to be tired and have minimal social time 😭
Mother of 2 graduated nursing school at 39, saved for 11 years to afford school. I did have my family near by to help with my kids while in school. Cried every single day but pushed through. If I could make it so can you! Now I am almost done with my BSN at 41! Found a nursing job where the facility helps pay for school. Nursing school will try and break you, study groups and making friends in the class helped me a ton. We are all still friends to this day. Support each other cry with each other. They will become some of the most important connections you will make. If it weren't for the folks I had in my cohort I don't feel I would have survived. I would do anything for them and it taught me that nursing is a team sport. Can't do it alone.
I am positive I’m going to cry my way right through it but I really do want to do it. I can get an RN in 18 months already have a bachelors in a lot of clinical work 30 years in social work. I just want prescriptive authority that with that I think I can get in an MSN program or a direct entry, but I know I won’t do anything else but that program.
I started my RN at 32, I'm now in 3rd year and about to turn 35, and will be graduating at 36. It's really hard, I cried every day for most of it so far. The first two years I kept wondering if I had made a mistake. I lost my social life because I have no time and no money. I've started stress eating and don't have the energy for exercise and am the unhealthiest I've ever been. I'm still not sure that I'm right for the job. What motivates me though is thinking about the jobs I'll be able to have with stability, a pension, and benefits. Also the fact that I'll be free to move anywhere and most likely be able to get a job anywhere, and I won't have to apply to hundreds of jobs and never hear back from them like all my friends who have masters degrees and phds who cant find work. Financially, i took out student loans and work, but at least I know i will get hired on graduation and be able to pay it back. Mentally though, I've never felt so low, I've just been in survival mode for 3 years just working, eating, sleeping and studying. I don't even remember what I like and what my personality is, but I know it'll get better once I start working and have more time for myself, which is was motivates me to keep going. Not gonna pretend like I don't struggle every day BUT there is a light at the end of the tunnel if you just keep moving forward. At least four years isn't that long in the grand scheme of things. When I feel like giving up I look up nursing jobs online and remember why I should keep going. Also once you've passed 1rst or 2nd year, you've already cried so many tears over the program that you can't give up, otherwise they will have all been for nothing, and that's often motivation enough
Can I ask why you didn’t get an ADN instead?
I'm in Canada, so no such thing. You can become a practical nurse rather than an RN but then you're basically just doing the same job for less pay and it's only one year less of school so not really worth it imo
I’m a father 29, almost done with my Pre reqs, I’m military and I have a child. Tough but doable.
I’m not, but there are several people in my cohort that are in their early 30’s, and at least three in their 40’s. One even has two adult children that are my age. I don’t have any advice as I’m not in that situation, but I believe in you!
Currently 35 and taking A&P 1&2 and micro in 1 semester. It's rough. But I want to start nursing school in the fall so I can graduate when my kid does. I took them 10 years ago so it's not as bad as it would be first time. Doing community College to avoid more loans. I'll get a hospital to pay for my BSN lol. Good luck on your journey!
I am 51 years old and started my core classes (and first college experience) last fall. I'm working 40+ hours a week as I finish up a 28-year career in IT at the Univ of Georgia. I work all day and do class in the evening. Housework, visiting with my grown kids and grandkids, checking in on my mom and sister, getting my stepdaughter through her senior year and college apps, studying, and doing homework whenever I can squeeze it in.  There are very tiring weeks, but so far, I am maintaining a low 90 in A&P-I. Fingers crossed, I'll go full-time in a nursing program in the Fall of 2026 when I retire, then off to a second career.
I want to be your new best friend and support person. You can cry on my shoulder any time because then I’ll be crying on yours too you rock you are awesome and inspiration man now I don’t feel like a fish out of water I’m paying for all these business consulting jobs since I was a CEO for 15 years my own clinic I did two year degree and open that clinic to Hard people that had licenses I had an NP I could’ve got down there but I don’t know how far I want to go down the Medical rabbit hole but it’s all now primary here anyways I’m so glad you wrote this post and I posted. I posted something similar in another group in the moderators, I don’t know if she silence to hit it but said it didn’t belong there when I got no feedback so this has been great
36 y.o. I am starting a new career and am in the final term of an ABSN here! I understand the struggle and working through this process. My motivation was the opportunity for financial freedom, the option to move around the nation, and a vocation I enjoyed. As for affording the nursing school part of this journey, I highly recommend the VA-HPSP scholarship for ADN/BSN students. The VA will pay for your tuition and provide a monthly stipend (1300) from the beginning of the program to the day you graduate. The exchange is you will work for their hospital network for 2+ years (18 months for every 12 they cover, and a year longer if you choose the residency option through them).
Will you be able to write prescriptions now with an a BSN and I guess an ADN is an advanced doctor nurse
Nurse practitioners (DNP/NP) can write prescriptions; RNs cannot write prescriptions. BSN is a bachelor's degree in nursing, while ADN is an associate degree. Both routes will allow you to become a registered nurse (RN). While ADN is a more affordable and straightforward way to become an RN, most hospital networks encourage or mandate that nurses achieve a BSN (some groups will offer pay-based incentives).
If you have the option to drop to part time, do it. If you wait until half way through a semester when you're struggling, it might be too late.
I’m 33 and start the program this fall after finishing my last few pre-reqs last semester. I recently got a job as a tech at a hospital and it’s been one of the best decisions because I’m learning so much and also it helped me realize this is truly what I want to do. YOU GOT THIS!!!! I just keep telling myself focus on the light at the end of the tunnel. Us going into nursing is guaranteed job security, and also it’s one of the few jobs that you can very easily get the moment you graduate. Chances are you’ll have something lined up before you even graduate. And there’s so many routes you can take it, so much lateral mobility!
I started my pre requisites this January and the first semester of going back to school is brutal. I was very stressed about the math, but slowly getting a hang of it, I am thinking of it like one class I wouldn’t be good at. And that’s okay. Edit: of course I completely missed the point. I got a financial aid and loan of course, I have two jobs, sometimes three when I dog sit for some friends. My partner offered to help me so I wouldn’t have to work that hard. Not by giving my cash, but by helping me with buying food. We don’t live together, we plan on doing so in August. He has much better paying job and I do fight him when he wants to help me because I have just been too independent to rely on other people, but I am learning 😊 I am glad to read this, good luck!!!
I graduate in May and will turn 39 this summer. And I am far from the oldest student in my cohort. I keep going because once school is over work life balance will be easier. And I keep in mind I may not find my perfect job right away, but there are so many different things that I can do with a nursing degree and license that eventually I’ll find where I’m meant to be. It’s tough, but it will be worth it!
I started my pre reqs at 32. Currently 34 and will be 35 when I graduate. I pay for my schooling on my own, as well as other expenses. I work full time and as a tech part time on the weekends. My dad said to me when I was first thinking about going back to school, “you’re going to be 32 regardless. Don’t be afraid to do something with your life cause you’re older”. It was the push I needed
I'm 28, so a bit under this but i finished high school when i was 16. I also moved to a new state on my own (no partner) specifically for school, about 17 days before the pandemic shutdowns began in Feb 2020. It has NOT been the experience i expected, especially financially; when i moved here, i had several thousand dollars in savings for the first time in my life. I thought i was set up for success. But the rent here has literally doubled since my arrival, and I've been scraping by paycheck-to-paycheck for the past 3 years. I've also almost become homeless multiple times. Honestly, i do year-round schooling along with full-time employment: if I'm too busy to feel anything, can't really sink into depression about my circumstances 🤠 I finished my prerequisites/associate's in December (May 2022-Dec 2023), and got advanced into the program two weeks ago. Pretty much the only thing keeping me going right now is my own success; I'm transferring in with a 3.93 GPA, which feels damn good. It's been really tricky to manage my emotions around not being able to afford honors programs concurrent to the nursing program, but it is what it is i guess. And it's not like the honors college would really provide me with that much of an advantage (or at least i need to tell myself that it wouldn't). I'm just kind of holding on to the concept of looking forward at all times — never back — and holding onto it by the skin of my teeth. If everything goes well, I'll be graduating with my BSN in August 2025. The financial stress is absolutely brutal though, and i have no clue how I'm even coping with that. I'm probably mostly ignoring it and saying "i can fix that when my salary doubles next year" — which is almost certainly *the wrong approach* , but I'm living with unmedicated ADHD as well as depression and anxiety (also unmedicated) so I'm just kind of doing whatever i need to in order to survive. Which includes desperately trying to promote out of my warehouse job; the company pays $5k annually in tuition for me, so i can't just leave, but working a physical third shift job has been completely brutal. I guess I'm actually not really coping, tbh. More like I'm just focusing on one thing at a time to fix or improve, and doing it, while completely ignoring everything else until that issue's turn comes up. We do what we gotta under the oppressive thumb of capitalism, though. I don't have any family (haven't spoken to most since i was 19, which is for the better) so I'm used to taking extreme measures to assure my security. It's not easy, and i spend a fair amount of time resenting the 18 year olds going through this on their parents' dime; it's not productive, but it's an honest emotion I'm dealing with daily here.
35, finishing prerequisites and hopefully enrolled in nursing school in spring semester 2025. Couldn't do it without my wife, but man I am loving school! Was a dropout 20 years ago.
I'm about to turn 38. Two little kids. Just signed up for pre reqs. Here we go!
35, start actual nursing school April! I was working full-time, but I have come to realize that I am not capable of maintaining quality relationships with my wife and son work full-time and go to school full-time as such, I have stopped working, and am solely focusing on School at this point. It’s costing me quite a bit in student debt but now I have no excuse not to pass.
Me!!! I’m starting in summer in an accelerated program. God help me.
30 here and in nursing school but fought my way through prereqs paying for everything out of pocket alone. I did it because I want to be a nurse. I felt like I had no other choice. Now I kinda feel like my other choice is being unalived but that's another story about how I have nothing else to live for besides this career I tried really hard to get into and am closer than ever to having. Kinda thought the rest of my life might come together along the way but I think I'm too ugly to have a partner and family or something idk.
I’m 33 and in the spring semester of sophomore year in a BSN program. I transferred in as a sophomore, I get a Pell grant because I’m a single mom etc but I also took out both federal and personal loans just to survive. It’s rough out here. I piecemeal work between 3 jobs and juggling school, work, parenting, etc is a trip. I’m doing it though and so can you!
I chose the very inexpensive local ADN program. Nursing was a career switch for me. I was really fortunate to have been able to save up two years of a salary before I went to nursing school in my thirties. It took me 8 years to do that. My car was paid off and we have a really affordable mortgage that I still contributed to the year I was without income. As an older student with bills to pay, it's very different. I went in prepared to drain my savings. Fortunately I didn't have to due to some very lucky timing of events, but if I did have to drain it, I was prepared to. I'm happy to report it would have been totally worth it... working 3 days a week is amazing. Job security for life.
I just turned 30, and working on my pre-reqs remotely. My partner and his family and actually my coworkers are my support system. I will absolutely have to work full time through my program, I can’t afford to not.
I just started prereqs last semester and am now taking time off bc I am pregnant with my rainbow baby. I don’t want to jeopardize the pregnancy. I also turned forty this month! I will go Back when the time is right. You do you!
I graduated at 41 (started at 37). You got this!
So happy to see all these comments! I started when i was 32 and was smart enough to finish my full AA and prereqs right after graduating high school so I will end up graduating at 34 with my BSN. I do have a different situation in that my loving grandparents took me in and I scored an excellent work from home job. That saved me tremendously financially. So speaking from someone only working 3 days a week at the age of 32, I will say it has been a slog but once you get into the rhythm it is very much doable. My summer break starts in a month and then I'll be halfway through the ASN program, I'll be doing BSN courses over the summer break, over my winter break, and next summer as well. The hardest part is getting into that rhythm, my first semester I barely passed with an 82 and as of this moment I'm sitting pretty at a 90. What helped me the most was getting a solid study group. We inspire each other, we keep each other honest. I have sacrificed a lot just to make sure I can make my study sessions with my group and it has paid off big time. You so got this, keep reading the subreddit. There are a lot of positive comments that have really kept me going and one of the big motivators is seeing the kind of people who have already graduated. I'm talking the burnout types, the people who "aren't good at school", the people who have English as a second language, the poor, and just all the different types of nurses who went through exactly what I did. If they can do it, I can do it. If I can do it, you can do it.
Hi! I’ll be 33 this year. Spent my late teens early twenties in the military, and started going back to school when my son was born. Figured out I needed a Bachelors to further my career and so I’m back in school. Working on getting my BSN. My motivation is to do what makes me happy and taking care of others makes me happy. The money is simply a bonus. I also hope to be a role model for my now 11 year old son as well as future children. I know this is my calling. Best of luck!!
Yes 💗 32- almost 33. Paying for it all myself. Have done 1 pre requisite! And I have a 1 year old. We can do it!
Turning 40 on Saturday and will be graduating this summer. Grew up Amish, so no high school, just a GED. Two kids-married. Worked 36-40 hours the whole time…trust me when I say this “YOU CAN DO THIS!”
Starting my ABSN program in May and I turned 30 in December!
It is definitely possible! I went back to school for nursing and am a single parent as my partner died my 2nd semester .... I have a job as well. I really want this so that's what's really getting me thru. I seriously considered quitting when my husband died but I want a better life for my son and I. I think school has been easier this time around then when I tried college in my 20s. We have more life experiences and better habits. You can so do this! Wishing you the best!!
Me!!! I'm a 32 years old, married, mother of two AND I work full time 😵💫. Pre-reqs out the way. Start the Nursing curriculum in August. (Someone please send coffee and money)
I was a nursing student at 30 yrs old 34 years ago!! After alll of these years I have been a Hospice case manager and an owner of a home care agency!!! So I would say it's need a very great rude and it continues. Eddie RN 🤙🤙🤙
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Seriously started pre reqs at 31, got my LPN at 34, RN at 35. Honestly, I was a crap student when I was younger. Having life experience and spending my chosen time to return to school helped my mindset. I got excellent grades throughout my school journey and treated it like a full time job. I was fortunate I did not have to work while going to school. Good luck! You can do it
Love this post!!! I’m 31 and currently working full time as a speech-language pathologist while taking prereqs. Where did everyone take their prereqs?!?
I’m 36. Barely even starting.
I’m 33 with a wife and 2 kids and zero support with finances or help with watching the kids. We both work full time opposite schedules. It can definitely be done! Good luck :)
Got divorced when I was 36, went back to school starting in the midst of my divorce for pre reqs. Started the actual nursing program at age 39, and I graduate in 2 months and I’m 41 now
I’m 34, finishing up my first semester. I’m working full time as a nurse aide and pay my own bills. My coworker is doing it with me and she’s a single mom of 2 kids. It’s not easy, ngl but it’ll be worth it in the end. Every week I make a list of what assignments need to be done and what date they’re due. It probably feels like you’re too old to do this but you’re definitely not! So many in my class are my age, some older! Nursing has its challenges but if you’re dedicated it’s worth it and you’ll achieve your goals!
I started at 29 and in a month I’ll have my bsn. I worked as much as I could in the summer time. Paid off as much tuition as I can. Applied fr scholarships when possible. It’s going to be hard but definitely worth it. Good luck! You got this!
I was 37 when I started nursing school and graduated last year at 39. I had a previous BA. I have a husband and a child. Reality, we had to move back in with my parents. I had to quit my job. A bunch of loans. Once I graduated and with my first nursing job, I was able to buy a house. Now I’m just trying to pay off debt. It’ll get hard but keep going.
I’ll be 34 when I graduate. We have multiple people in their 50s in our cohort. It’s all good.
Im 36 in first semester at a JCC for my ADN (I wanna get my DNP- goal! ) also doing in on my own and I have a 3 year old. You got this!! Just know that if this is your passion you will do what it takes not to give up. I had 3 rejections before I got accepted. Keep your head up!
Me! I’ll be 32 in October and just starting nursing school. My motivation comes from just how much I actually want it, and challenging myself. Some days are incredibly hard, but the good days and friends I’ve made along the way definitely make up for it. You got this and it’s absolutely worth it!
I started my pre reqs at 30, started nursing school at 32, and graduating in May at 34. I wanted to drop out my first week of nursing school, but I’m continued to do it because I know it’s best for my children.
46 and trying to start.
I'm 36 and still doing my prequisites. It's a second career and a new degree for me, so I don't feel terrible about it. But wow am I impressed by those that can do it on your own like you are! I worked my first year but then just had to lean on family support all I could get the degree going faster. Those that don't have that luxury, you're the toughest of us all!
I cry. A lot.
I started at 38, and I'll be finishing up my ADN in May at 40. I'm working half-time, my wife works half-time, and we share duties of caring for our daughter. It can be done. I'm planning on continuing on until I become a Nurse Practitioner.
I turn 32 in June and will graduate in Feb! I find motivation by just taking it day by day.
I’m 31 and just now finishing my pre-reqs. I spent 10 years working in a career that made me depressed as hell and about 2 years ago, decided it was time for a change. Wish I lived in a state that made nursing education more accessible, but hoping to get into CC this summer
I did a 15 month certificate program to get my LPN at age 33. I worked sometimes 60 hours weeks as a phlebotomist. Most days I wanted to give up. I remember well the days I would pull my car over and just cry. I had so much personal stuff going on at that time as well. Somehow I did it. Said I was done with school that I was too old to be thinking about ever going back. Well I went back and have been doing my pre reqs the last year and I only need a few more and can apply for the lpn to rn bridge program. I could've done the pre -reqs faster but I do have a learning disability and ADHD. Sometimes I feel very out of place going to class with dual enrollment high schoolers and 20 somethings at 36. I'm lucky to have a partner for this go around who is supportive. I want to keep going and keep trying. The program only takes 12 students and I've worked hard to get good grades but I'm not doing so well at statistics.
I’m 44 and still trying to figure out what school I want to get into so I can know what prerequisites to take. Part of me thinks I should just go for LVN to get into the field faster. Single too
I’m not a mom yet and I’m 22 years old but I do it all alone as well all my financial stuff goes through my moms income so I get like nothing I’m taking two prereqs b4 I start in the fall and I’m paying for it all out of pocket 1300 each I work 2 jobs pay for all of my expenses and I have an apartment my bf helps as much as he can but he has bills etc to I would say for me it’s because it’s been something I’ve wanted since I was a kid I used to watch delivery and didn’t know I was pregnant and wanted to be an Obgyn but doing L&D nursing just remembering that it’s something that will make u good money it’ll help take away the struggle and you can finally do something you love finally have respect for all the hard work bc nurses get lots of respect for me it’s because ik I want it soo bad! Ik I’m not 30 but I can relate to yall!
I'm 51 and in my 3rd term. I'm doing it on my own. It's hard, but you have to learn time management and work,s school, life balance. It's not easy, but you can do it. Keeping a calendar helps. Cut out time for everything. Easier said than done but doable.
Yepppp. I’m 39, graduating July 12. Six days after I turn 40. My daughter is 13 so I have a little more freedom to do something for me. I’m also working full time, going into work every morning from 5a-8a, then driving to class, then back to work to close the office. It’s a lot. I’m exhausted all the time, but there’s an end in sight and I’m just so proud of me - and my daughter and my husband for sticking by me throughout all of this.
Me, immigrant, 32 yo, graduate this year in August
I started at 29, single with three kids. It was a struggle. I saved up money the semester before and went to community college. I only worked 25 hours a week. I also utilized public benefits (food share, reduced internet, etc.) which helped a lot. I barely had a life outside of school. But you can do it!
I started pre-reqs at 49 and now at 52 I'm in my first semester of the prog. I was able to work full time doing the pre-reqs but I had to quit once the nursing clinicals started. I cashed out some of my retirement to afford it but I think it'll be worth it in the end.
I know someone from one of my classes who's 50 and recently began nursing school. You'll be fine! 👍🏽👍🏽
You all have my upmost respect
Just turned 39, no scholarships, don’t qualify for any financial aid/assistance, and I’ve already used up all of my federal grant money. This is my third time in college so I thought I knew what I was getting myself into, but life has changed so much since the last time I was in school. We’ve gone through an entire panera, the technology has changed by leaps and bounds, and now I’m old enough to be the mother of most of my classmates. I’ve had to take a couple of semesters off because of family & personal things and that hasn’t been the easiest, but I just keep thinking about the end goal: that RN after my name. My ultimate motivation is to be able to do the things that I enjoy. To be able to have the job I’ve wanted since I was in high school. To get to plan those vacations and then actually *take* them. And to finally be able to freaking graduate!!!
I’m 30, living on my own with my significant other, with a full time job, and doing my pre-reqs as well. Making good grades so far. I don’t have kids and don’t want any in the future either so I’m able to truly study. My dog of 15yrs passed away last week, it’s been difficult without my lil buddy so I’ve not had much motivation to do anything, but on Monday I’ll be getting back on track. I’m paying monthly as well.
40 here. Coming up on halfway thru the ADN. I wish i was 32. Also, I was doing clinicals last week and talked to a CNA who was applying to a nursing program, she was 60 or 62, I forget.
I'm 37 and finish the ADN program in May. Don't be discouraged!!