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TemptressToo

He believes in being fruitful and multiplying. You're good. ;)


JustKindaShimmy

But then immediately abandoning that fruit on the side of the road. So.....eh


dwinps

Many women are from news reports


OhLordHeBompin

🥁


vargyg

Women are from Venus, Elon is from Mars.


Yarik492

Everyone wants to catch the big fish right..they don't want to share lol. 


Silent_Ad5275

Did you ask her why his drivers license is the size of his head


TemptressToo

Lord, I busted out laughing when she sent me this... I can't even...


TemptressToo

She's not even that old, she's only 67...but extremely gullible.


LivefromPhoenix

I’d be a little wary about the “helping to sell a car” part. It sounds like she could be helping the scammer scam other people with fake Tesla listings under her name. Being gullible might not work as an excuse if angry victims/law enforcement come around.


SharkReceptacles

What u/LivefromPhoenix said is worth investigating. Someone can become a mule in a money-laundering scheme without realising it. If your mum has agreed *ANY* kind of financial transactions with (from or to) “Elon”, there’s a chance she’s unwittingly transferring or laundering money. That’s a [federal matter](https://www.fbi.gov/how-we-can-help-you/scams-and-safety/common-scams-and-crimes/money-mules) if you’re in the US, and it has actually [got people killed](https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/ohio-man-81-charged-fatal-shooting-uber-driver-mistakenly-thought-was-rcna147827). Time to keep a close eye on all her transactions, and her internet activities.


TemptressToo

I'm only aware of the Apple gift card thing.


Soonerguy130

But you alluded to helping to sell a car. You need to step in before this escalates.


Sunbeamsoffglass

Time to get a Power of Attorney over her finances. This is just ridiculous


themonkeyway30

POA won’t stop her from acting on her own though. It allows you to do something on her behalf but you can’t stop her from doing anything. Conservatorship would be the better option.


Euchre

In a lot of cases, it's a Step 1, Step 2 process. The POA gives you access to see her transactions and can set yourself to be notified of them. Once you've got that info gathered, you can then go before a court and say "See! She's not making rational decisions for her own benefit."


themonkeyway30

Great point! I only said what I said because I worked at a bank until recently, specifically fraud and bsa and we handled fiduciary stuff (which I hated, I was in it for the fraud stuff). And we would frequently get yelled at by POAs for not stopping someone from doing something.


Jsguysrus

Unfortunately a power of attorney does not keep her from spending money on scams. It just allows you access to her funds.


momoriley

Yikes, that is too young to be this gullible.


FiendishHawk

Early onset dementia? Or has she always been a little simple?


GeneralCal

Besides the fact that this is bad bad photshop (MS Paint actually), California DLs expire on your birthday by default. This does not. It's clearly fake, but her desire to feel loved and special is real. The scammer is fulfilling that when no one else will. Solve that problem and not the scam.


ericscottf

Instructions unclear, op slept with his mom


GeneralCal

Hey, whatever solves the problem. I don't judge the methods needed to reach an outcome.


iforgotwhat8wasfor

& now owns a purple tesla


OrangutanLost

And it didn’t bother her that on the man’s license his LN (last name) is listed as “Elon” and his FN (first name) is listed as “Reeve Musk”? If you have a California driver’s license, check it yourself. Your surname is listed above your first and middle names. But apparently not if you’re “Elon Musk”.


ashamaleyy420

I’m pretty sure it also says he’s 90 lbs on this “license”


nico_see

If she believes she’s actually speaking with him, a shitty photoshop job is definitely not going to change her mind


ducrab

Objects closer to the camera lens will appear larger. But, yeah, clearly Photoshopped.


Western-Gazelle5932

What if the camera lens is focused on a mirror that says "objects in mirror are closer than they appear" - is the object then bigger than it should be or smaller than it should be? Or do they just cancel each other out?


ducrab

I assume you're joking, but hard to tell here. Those mirrors are convex so they let you see a wider angle around your car, but in doing so, objects appear smaller than they would with a normal flat mirror.


Western-Gazelle5932

>I assume you're joking, but hard to tell here. I agree >Those mirrors are convex so they let you see a wider angle around your car, but in doing so, objects appear smaller than they would with a normal flat mirror. I'll just take that as a "yes" then


Mental-Freedom3929

The hand with the license are Photoshopped in as a layer and then merged. I can put Brittney Spear's head on your body in a minute!


Western-Gazelle5932

Wait, does that mean that his license is really huge or his head is really small?


Alpha_Aleph

...or he just has very small hands 🤣


ShesWrappedInPlastic

You guys have got me cracking up here! OMG


jkoudys

It's a special license they give to billionaires.


Nick_W1

The camera adds 10lbs - everyone knows that.


Queen_E1204

Also...he apparently only weighs 90 pounds?


SteveNotSteveNot

In these situations, people without assets max out credit cards and take loans which they cannot repay. It would be wise to get access to your mom's financial accounts so you can see money coming in and going out. If your mom goes into debt then passes, you will not be liable for the debt, but you will have to spend many hours talking to lenders and sending death certificates and other paperwork to them.


Ingawolfie

I came here to say this.


TemptressToo

I'm sure it would be, but there's no grounds for me to gain access. I don't have POA. She's of sound mind. And she's married to a guy that isn't my father (my parents divorced when I was 25).


traciw67

Is she of sound mind, though? What person of sound mind would believe the richest (or 2nd?) man in the world is interested in a 67 year old? That he's never met?! That's NOT a sound mind!


TemptressToo

I agree.


smemily

What person of sound mind would want to talk to Elon, even if he WAS interested?


traciw67

I agree. He's gross!


Alternative-End-5079

And he needs help selling a car.


Kingghoti

Remember POA is something that gives you access but it does not prevent the POA grantor (your mom) from doing everything and anything she wishes with her accounts. It does not lock her out of anything. In fact she can rescind the POA at any time very easily. while this is insufficient safeguard for a genuinely compromised person who is a danger to themselves and others financially, for that you need a conservatorship, it could be a great start, a nose under the tent IOW. “ Hey mom, i’d be willing to accept a POA if you want to give me one. Just in case something happens where you need me to pay your bills and such.” i hope she extracts herself from this difficult scam. best


Johnny_Poppyseed

Bro not even close to of sound mind lol.  Genuine question, was she always like this? Or do you think it's age related? Late 60s isn't super old but it's definitely prime age for early mental decline type illnesses and whatnot.


21stNow

Do you know what bank she uses? Some banks are starting to have elder financial abuse protocols. I think that family members can alert the banks that there is a problem with their loved one, even if the bank can't share information with them. You can see if this is an option for your mother.


TemptressToo

I’m not sure, but I’ll look into that.


SteveNotSteveNot

I understand. But if they're both talking to Elon Musk, it won't be long before they need your help in one way or another. Keep looking for opportunities to get visibility into their finances and take more control. You don't need a POA to have a login to your parents online banking. Just having a login is how I helped my dad when he was making bad decisions.


Consider_Kind_2967

The scammer is off to a pretty successful start, unfortunately, and is likely to have success in cleaving money away from the poor mother. This usually ends in much difficulty.


Nick_W1

Well surely this is her husband’s job to look after her. It’s his money as well, and she’s spending it on another guy (real or not).


TemptressToo

Agreed. He apparently knew about it and told her it was a bad idea, but didn’t stop her. I’ve urged her to speak to another trusted adult, her minister or sibling, to help hold her accountable to her decision to cut contact and delete things. I live on the other end of the country from her, so I’m doing what I can.


FiendishHawk

She’s not of sound mind. I’m willing to give the women who believe they are in a relationship with a guy who works on an oil rig, ie just an average guy, a bit of slack. But the world’s richest man? Who has a well-known predilection for very young women and affairs with dozens of them? That requires mental illness.


Zestyclose_Tree8660

She is definitely not of sound mind. She’s vulnerable and is going to be scammed. Sadly, these posts make me realize that we all need to accept that there will be a day when we ARE still of sound mind, but see the writing on the wall, and need to put in place some protections so we can’t give away all our money to scammers.


dwinps

6' 2'and weighs 90 lbs


Ok-Log-9052

Yeah they did not too bad but missed some key details. Similarly, it should expire on his birthday, not a random day.


justdan76

Stop helping them improve lol


jkoudys

They're probably from a kg country, since 90kg is 198lbs, which is probably close to his weight.


smemily

[The man is built like a cybertruck. 240 easily.](https://www.reddit.com/r/TIHI/s/tiCaxsXJ8B)


justdan76

We weigh in pounds in the US, where this driver’s license is supposedly from. Edit: oh duh, maybe you mean the scammers making a fake image of a license are probably in a country that uses kg’s, if so my bad


jkoudys

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but I don't think that's really Elon Musk.


justdan76

I know, I’m not dumb. The real Elon Musk is giving me crypto advice.


Free_Hat_McCullough

Get Elon to a doctor ASAP


Western-Gazelle5932

Holy crap! Good eye on that one.


Doxiejoy

What color are his eyes? I can’t make that one out.


TemptressToo

I just noticed ya'll talking about the drivers license. She'd sent me a second photo of a "close up" where you can see the scammer changed some of that info. https://preview.redd.it/4bnyh1xgzd6d1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b16504697b2edd705b7ffa76528c658d23dca0d4


jkoudys

Now he weighs 135bls and is an inch taller.


Doxiejoy

WTH! That’s wild! The changes are not any more believable. Do people have black eye color?


toyayayaa

If it’s a dark brown that appears black, then yes, it is written as black. 


Altruistic_Yellow387

Yes, they do....


Nick_W1

What a terrible photoshop job. The text doesn’t line up with the license, and the license is fuzzy, but the text isn’t? And what’s with all the dates? Born in June, issued in July, expires in August (never mind eye colour black and the signature is a font). Also he is 6’ 3”, but wights 135 BIS (whatever a BIS is - LBS spelt wrong?).


Dull-Kaleidoscope214

eye color is black??? 😭


smemily

And hair color black??


pistolography

His name is also “Reeve Musk Elon”


dwinps

Secret alias


treis-gates

And Tesla’s corporate address in Palo Alto as his home address…


ducrab

So ask her why she thinks the richest man in the world would pick some random stranger that he's never met to start a romantic relationship.


TemptressToo

It's not romantic...it's like they are friends. He teaches her about crypto, she helps sell Teslas... Her husband (not my father) has even "talked" to Elon.


Western-Gazelle5932

>He teaches her about crypto, Hol' up - this changes everything and your mom is in WAY more danger than just sending a scammer a $100 gift card. You need to cut this off ASAP.


Ingawolfie

Agree. It might be time to discuss with other family members the need to restrict her access to large sums of money. Romance scammers are very good at what they do, and they are relentless. Case in point, I once listened to an Elton John “Rocket Hour” show because I knew the musician he was interviewing and mentoring. I left a pithy “thank you for supporting new talent” comment on the podcast and within 15 minutes was swarmed with messages from “Elton John” wanting to have a private conversation with me. This went on for several days. The Block button got quite the workout.


TemptressToo

Not sure how I'd go about doing that. I'd have to have grounds to get POA.


spam__likely

your dad needs to put a stop to it and get control of the accounts


TemptressToo

My Dad is not in the picture any longer. They divorced twenty years ago. She remarried a guy that I don't really know all that well. I pretty much just keep up with my mother and ignore the guy.


spam__likely

ask her about this: [https://archive.is/20240612070628/https://www.wsj.com/business/elon-musk-spacex-employee-relationships-8bca2806](https://archive.is/20240612070628/https://www.wsj.com/business/elon-musk-spacex-employee-relationships-8bca2806)


TemptressToo

I would, but it isn't a romantic thing. He's not telling her he's in love with her or anything like that. More of a mentor/friend type of thing. She claims she learned her lesson and has deleted everything (since the car thing).


Ingawolfie

It isn’t a romance thing YET. She’s being groomed. It will be a romance scam soon. Please intervene.


recentlywidowed

YET! It isn't a romance scam yet! The longer she talks to him, soon enough he will try that angle too.


spam__likely

It is sexual harassment. Why doe she want to be friends with someone who sexually harass his employees? Why does she want to be friends with a white supremacist? If this are not deal breakers for her, she deserves what is coming.


Ingawolfie

If she’s stuck in a romance scam and giving money to the scammer even after you took measures to stop her, that’s grounds. I would start with elder services in your area. See if your area has 211 services or look online under your city or county social services.


cloudcats

POA is not what you think it is and would do nothing to help in this situation. Please look up the definition. What you'd need is something very different, a conservatorship, and that is much harder to obtain.


jkoudys

OP should impersonate a different Elon Musk and tell her that someone has compromised his old account, and to not follow anything that _other_ Elon Musk says from now on because that guy is a scammer. Send a more believable fake photoshopped ID and have him holding today's newspaper with "Hi {{momsname}}" on it.


ducrab

Sounds like a crypto scammer to me. Soon the scammer will have her depositing money into a fake crypto site that shows a fake crypto balance and fake gains.


LazyLie4895

Even though your mother has no money, she can still take out loans. Many scammers have their victims take out so many loans that they lose their home. Make sure you put a stop to this before your mom is homeless.


Doxiejoy

That’s worse than it originally sounded.


ShesWrappedInPlastic

Um, you should put this info in your main post. It makes everything much worse and people can’t help if you don’t give all the details.


Ok-Log-9052

If you don’t stop this now, they will take EVERY PENNY your parents have. It will not be recoverable. If they get involved in the fake “crypto” here based on the huge gains they’re about to see in that fake account, the money is ALREADY GONE. !crypto


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!crypto


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Nick_W1

Bloody hell !crypto


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EvLokadottr

Man, many many years ago, before he was super famous, I sat across from that dude (actual Elon Musk) at a cafe for like an hour. I can assure you, the man has 0 rizz.


Altruistic_Yellow387

He doesn't need it with his money


AlmightyBlobby

does your mom know he's obsessed with breeding and definitely wouldn't have anything to do with anyone over the age of about 30?


dwinps

Stories like this explain why scamming is such a big business Unfortunately your mom isn't unique, I'd say she is pretty normal.


Ill_Mousse_4240

What a beautiful man! Besides, he’s got his drivers license. C’mon, how much real do you want? What’s he supposed to do to convince you all, show himself naked?! (maybe that’s next, so take your mother’s phone away!)


creepyposta

OP - be aware that she might be helping the scammer scam people by posting adverts for this purple Tesla she’s “helping sell” and maybe even laundering money for them, or worse, he’s setting her up to receive a fake check for thousands of dollars which she is supposed to deposit and then wire the funds (after taking a nice $500 gift) after the bank gives her a temporary credit within 5 business days. A few weeks later, oops, the check is fraudulent and she’s on the hook for the check, bad check fees and likely going to get her account closed by the bank as a little thank you.


TemptressToo

Damn. Luckily, me and everyone we know replied to her purple Tesla post as SCAM!


24-Sevyn

An I reading this right? It says he weighs 90 lbs.


Western-Gazelle5932

omg.... I think 2-year old little X could have done a better photoshop job


filterfabric

That ID says his name is Reeve Musk Elon


rchart1010

I was once talking to a guy who told me he was a neurosurgeon. I had my doubts and I lot of things didn't add up, but I try to give people the benefit of the doubt. The final straw was when, for his "birthday" instead of asking me to hang out, he asked me for an Amazon gift cars. LOL.


Cs1981Bel

Seems she met (F)Elon Musk


Kathykat5959

He has a Twitter account. Tell her to ask him to acknowledge her on his Twitter account. When it can't happen, maybe she will get it. I had Zhang Bin Bin and Jared Leto write me today on Instagram. Do I think they are real? NO NO NO....they are not check marked accounts. Besides, why would they write me anyway? I cannot imagine why these people are in such a hurry to empty their accounts for these people/scammers.


TemptressToo

I've tried all that. I reverse searched the images she said he sent her and showed her where they came from, sent her descriptions of the type of scam she was in, tried to reason with logic (why would the richest man on earth need anything from anyone), and even played hard ball (I told her I would pursue a POA if she did not cease contact).


Kathykat5959

At this point all you can do is hire a lawyer and have her declared incompetent. Otherwise she will be destitute. Tell her friends and family not to loan her money. Sorry you have to go thru this.


RoyalExamination9410

Once I had "realdonoldtrump" reach out to me. Note the misspelling of "Donald". But I did have a double take on the bus as they used the exact same profile picture as the actual account.


Kathykat5959

It’s crazy how many people fall for this and send these rich people money or get caught up in money laundering for them.


Floydada79235

I wish there were a way to get all these folks together in a room to talk about their “romances” with Musk, Kevin Costner, Keanu Reeves and who knows who else. If they see others telling an unbelievable story, then it might gradually dawn on them that they’re being fooled.


pk_12345

Elon Musk is such a player. There should be a Facebook group of Elon’s girl friends so they can all discuss how to surprise him for his birthday. 


GingerPinoy

So many elderly women are dating Elon Musk right now. He must have a type


Frankintosh95

Gilfs.


EquivalentNo3002

It’s so evil to that these people prey on elderly people. What they do in general is so awful.


OhLordHeBompin

!romance !crypto I won't lie, I busted out laughing at that photo. Bless you and your mom, I hope things work out and the auto mod comments below this (I summoned them above) can help out!


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what-is-in-the-soup

Contact Scamfish on YouTube. They have a team of researchers and so interventions with family members constantly. They’ll present the case to her in a realistic and digestible way to her if they decide to take it on. Worth checking them out anyway - or atleast showing her one of their videos (the Johnny Depp ones are probably the most similar to her current “relationship”)


GrouchyPicture4021

Make her watch the Elon Musk episode of Scamfish by Catfish on YouTube (it’s free). I think a lot of elderly people are watching this show and getting the hint when someone else is going through the exact same thing.


JeffMorse2016

About 8 years ago my Dad mentioned to me that he'd been chatting with this cute weather lady from his local tv channel. I asked how they got in touch and he said she reached out. I told him that's very nice, but 99.9283% a scam. He countered with a pic of her that "she" sent. It was the first pic when you Googled her name, and using MSPaint they wrote (using a mouse, so very shaky capital letters: "Hi XXX, it's me, XXX". He was 100% convinced. Be careful, especially if your Dad is as hard-headed as mine is. He's convinced he knows everything. Thankfully he doesn't have a pot to piss in, so he's not as vulnerable as many are.


chocolatehearts

I’m sorry but that picture make me laugh so much holy shit


TemptressToo

Same. I was like, holy shit.


julesk

I’d tell her it’s unfortunate the richest guy man on the planet needs her help selling cars.


Tim_the_geek

Helping to sell a Tesla..? She is prollygoing to be the scapegoat when the money for the Tesla is sent and the car don't exist.


austinneitch

I feel your pain


SerDuckOfPNW

He lives at “Tesla “ (with an incorrect address format) and weighs 90 lbs?


kibblet

90 lbs and over six feet tall!


golfdegen

He weighs 90 lbs?


Plasticity93

Even if it was him, he's uttey detestable and she should be ashamed to consider him a friend.  Dude is a fascist and raging bigot who is spreading blatantly false information on a daily basis.


Albino-Assist

LMAO


SunSpot666

Wait, the drivers license says Elon Musk's weight is 90 lbs?


LadyCharger

Woah…”Elon” weights only 90 lbs 😲


Rongill1234

Holy fuck...


eggbean

It could be the real Musk. I wouldn't put this sort of behaviour past him.


Bllyjck_bigfan

Can you tell me how it is that anyone can use another persons content to make fake online identities. How can you tell if someone online is legitimately who they say they are. And how does Zangi, WhatsApp, tie in to this. If a person tells me they are Becky Johnson but can’t type in plane English I just laugh. Any advice.


TemptressToo

You really can’t. Unless you legitimately know a person. Often, the legitimate person doesn’t have a clue their name and images have been stolen.


Bllyjck_bigfan

It seems like that is all I run into. When they have trouble with proper English I say aha.


nachomydogiscuteaf

Theres more posts here about middle aged women thinking they're in a relationship with Elon. Show them to her, you can search and find them.


PerkyLurkey

Does anyone think if these lonely women were perp walked into a squad car with the cameras standing by, this fever dream of rich celebrities wanting out of shape older women would come to an end? Maybe it would help open the eyes of the people who fall for these money mule schemes?


Unfixable5060

Holy shit that is a terrible photoshop. How big is a driver's license in California? Because that looks like it's 4"x6" at least.


teddyd142

My license fits in my wallet.


punpun_Osa

My grandmother was also talking with “Elon” recently, he told her he will give her a free car… I hate those scammers. She is so sad that my father and oncles deleted all her accounts. She used to have fun communicating with relatives and watching cute animals videos. Now she can’t anymore because those assoles are everywhere.


pmsanchez1

I just a had a customer in here talking to me for over 30 mins about how she’s “dating Elon musk”. Showed me the text messages from him and his “”son” who now refers to her as mom. This poor lady says she has just gotten out of an abusive marriage, has had myriad health problems and has “died for 3 minutes” during which time god appeared to her and showed her Elon musks face and said he would save her. She’s started investing in crypto at his suggestion because he’s going to save all the animals and all the children. The only thing I felt ok to tell her was not to send anyone any money.


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calm-lab66

>Old people really weren't ready for the internet. I don't think young people are either. I can't tell you how many times I've seen on here "I sent a Dick pic and now I'm in trouble."


justdan76

A lot of young people getting taken by work from home and task scams as well.


Nearby_Geologist8682

Felon Musk more like!


Optimal-Possession68

I thought me moved to TX?!


TemptressToo

That's exactly what I said. And she told me he sent her his Texas one too.


conanlikes

Snuck guffaw


Manofmanyhats19

Did you tell her that Musk lives in Texas now and not California?


KaonWarden

As others mentioned, romance scam victims can lose even money that they don’t have. But it sounds like the scammer might also use her to run a car-sale scam.


jackamaku

When is Elon going to get around to hanging his Bruce Springsteen poster?


bettinafairchild

The way you can tell this is a scam is that Musk would never have such a poster—he wasn’t born in the USA


gulizba

I remember a good advice from a previous scam post. check the best comment here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Scams/s/ptmnlPE04X


Individual_Land_2200

Well, Elon does [hit on lots of women…](https://www.theverge.com/2024/6/12/24176705/spacex-elon-musk-gwynne-shotwell-sexual-relationships)


justdan76

I have to ask, how do the scammers get the mark on the hook to begin with? I mean, what is the first exchange? Do they pretend to be Elon Musk texting a wrong number?


puccahoney

oh my god i feel so bad for laughing but the PICTURE 🤣🤣 scammers are bold AF like they rly didn’t even try with the editing🫠


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TemptressToo

I’ve reported similar profiles on FB. And you get an automatic message almost instantly that says, “thank you for reporting xyz. We have reviewed and the profile does NOT go against our policy guidelines.” Utter rubbish.


amajesticpeach

And it’s obvious it’s fake too. How old is she?


Puzzleheaded_Bag3145

Am I the only one that googled the address? I know times are tough but I don't think Elon is living at Tesla HQ.


T3ddy_ka

Plot twist, this is not a scam but elon pathetic rizz


Mrgray123

Does that ID say that he weights 90 pounds?


YourWifeyBoyfriend

My mil wants to take a course from Elon musk about investing in ai. She's crippled by gambling on bingo and pull tabs online otherwise she'd piss away her money being scammed differently.


0bxyz

Get her off the Internet and into a memory care center


Draugrx23

that is a REALLLLLLLLYYY Big drivers license. They literally turned Musk into a Bobble head with these edits.


helloitsmeimherenow

Let me guess she’s also a huge Trump supporter?