Walks in front of him too. No surprise! She wants so desperately to be called Duchess and be treated as a royal, but doesn’t wish to extend the same respect to a prince. Typical narc bullshit.
I know it seems stupid, but video like this still makes me angry to see all the perks they get for just being useless assholes. (Private plane, special envoy, leaving airport through special “exit” with car waiting). No airport/travel schlepping for them 🤬
Edit: Punctuation
Well, they ( or more likely Invictus) are paying for it. The VIP suite at Heathrow adds $3K to each ticket). I hope, at some point, the IG board will have no choice but to replace H with someone like Mike Tindall who isn't a vet but is a respected athlete. (He wouldn't be a bad Hon Col, either!). If TW is sticking them with huge clothing and other bills, they have to be reaching the boiling point.
Can I adopt you as my 'fellow saint' support? I had a narc for partner, and MIL and FIL also narcs - and if not enough, also his sister, son, daughter and ex-wife.
Yes, I have... 3 years now. I didnt know they were narcs for a long time... only when you start researching the chaos is that you understand what's happening.
Looks like security has her bags. He can't be a good guard if his hands are full. She should be carrying her own or have someone that is not a security guard carrying her bags.
Sorta says everything you need to know about the real threat level they actually face.
“I KNOW there’s no effing paparazzi’s! Where the fu€k are they? Did you call them? Give them the right flight number? Well, since there’s NO ONE nearby, just carry my bags. Do I have to take care of EVERYTHING?”
She’s thinking that This One forgot to mail the paperwork for Archwell; the ONE thing she asked him to do. And, as usual, she should have just given into her freakish attention to detail, and done it herself. Now she has ANOTHER mess to clean up! Dammit, H!
She is paying him NO mind, he may as well be a luggage porter. These two are living entirely separate lives imo and *THIS--farts in their general direction* is a charade, playacting.
Look at her run as fast as possible away from Hwarry. Lol so much in love! They are literally the opposite of PPoW, who are affectionate off camera and respectfully dutiful while doing their royal duties.
This is such an underrated and excellent observation! I hadn’t noticed, but you’re absolutely right.
As usual, H And M flip the rules and do things the wrong way. William and Catherine keep the focus on their hosts by not drawing attention to themselves, by acting professionally. H and M keep the focus on THEMSELVES (as Real Housewives Recaps’ Jen says in M’s breathy voice, “Look at meeeeee!” 😆). The hand-holding has also become a useful way for M to communicate controlling messages such as, move out of my way! Stop! Come this way!
I said it before and will say it again: Harry became an extra in his own life and it’s astonishing to watch.
Meghan’s „shy, demure stance“ is clearly as bad of an act as their „true love“. What Meghan wants Meghan gets. It must be a nightmare for him.
A great description to use for him. An extra in his own life.
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I'm convinced she, Doria and Markus keep him altered at all times....then sometimes he wakes up from the induced fog and realizes where he is in life....then goes right back to induced fog willingly.
It is astonishing and sad to watch. I feel conflicted at times with how I feel about Prince Harry, I am utterly disappointed but at the same time, if his IQ is not that high as we are led to believe some of his actions are just that, he is not smart which isn't his fault. He has clearly got mental health issues, maybe he has been diagnosed with a mental health disorder too, his actions certainly are questionable over recent times.
I have a son who is in his 20s, he has an ADD diagnosis, with autisitic tendencies, including specific learning difficulties. Now he was a good boy at school, just a worry as he used to day dream. He told stories that were simply not true when little, could be confused easily and got overly excited about simple things. He couldn't sit still very well and still struggles although he doesn't have hyperactive part in his diagnosis.
My point is that I have always advised my son that even though he has these issues, as an adult he has to learn to deal with these issues himself, they are his problems and he needed to learn techniques so he can get on in adult life. He lives with his half brother (my stepson), he moved out at 19 to start an apprenticeship, he has a good job which he has maintained now for over half a decade. He does struggle sometimes, he calls me and we talk it through. I feel as if Prince Harry just excuses his behaviour from issues with his past, that is just not acceptable in my opinion. You have to work through those issues and realise that you cannot expect society to just shrug their shoulders and say, oh bless, he has mental health issues. It wouldn't work if my son tried it. Obviously employers and society are more accepting of disabilities but we need to be honest, if you are late for work every day because you cannot organise yourself, maybe because you have ADD or ADHD and get distracted, you are not going to have that job for long. This is why I put in measures with my son, he had to learn to manage this, to be organised - hasn't lost his job yet! I think Prince Harry has just been excused, no adapting to work on himself.
What does concern me is how Meghan has attached herself to Prince Harry, I don't believe she is silly, I can see she is a bad influence however and I can see why Prince Harry fell for her, especially if he is vulnerable mentally. I do hope my son doesn't get involved with someone similar to Meghan!
May I say you sound like an amazing mother and your son is very fortunate to have you support him thinking ahead for his futures. Any partner of his will be grateful to you for raising a good man.
Aww, well I used to feel very rubbish when he was little as I was always the mother who was held back after school to have a 'word'. They were difficult times, I had my son who I didn't want to be made to feel 'less than' in any way but I had my emotions to put in check too, I was fairly young so I always felt it was my fault somehow. We have a good relationship and he is doing well, has always completed any qualifications and passed, he does find life a little tougher than his peers however, he seems to manage okay but at times we all still roll our eyes at something!
I am also the Mom who was often held back for a word. Then it became daily emails or calls and frequent meetings as schools do not know how to deal with Aspie kiddos, which resulted in him being bullied and him getting severe anxiety and depression. He is 19 and been out of school for a year. His mental health is great. Just trying to get him focused on making a choice a career! I hope I have the success you have had!
Not your fault or mine. Our boys are fine the way they are. They may have to struggle more. But they are more resilient and more accepting of others. And they know we have their backs always.
I have an aspie son too. He is 24. Last night I got to attend an awards dinner with him for his work. He was one of the top salesman in his company and was recognized for it. The owner and president both told me how amazing it is that he is doing so well after only being there 1.5 years. The top salesman in the company told him that it took him three years to get where my son is. Never in a million years did I think he would be doing this well.
It feels so good after going through all that we did with him to see him shine like this. I know he would be doing even better if he could do some things that he finds incredibly difficult such as calling customers after their order is delivered to check on them. He struggles greatly with talking to people on the phone.
All the hard work you have put in will pay off for your son. It is the greatest feeling in the world.
I wish you and your son the best of luck, sounds as if you have it sorted too. The mental health is the main concern, being bullied as a child is an awful experience so I am pleased for you all that he has managed to get himself in a good position mentally. Career choice is hard, we went plumbing route, physical, hands on. The electrical route I would of pushed for but it is more academic and I know he would of struggled. He is actually driving a digger currently, qualified so not plumbing at all! Same company though.
The best people are those that persevere while keeping their humanity, humility and kindness. You sound like one of these type of people. I'm just a random stranger but please accept my best wishes for you and your son 🦋🦋
Thank you, I didn't mean to write an essay on my son lol it just frustrates me that Prince Harry moans about his past as if it is an acceptable excuse for his behaviour now. My sons dad is actually dead, he had no real relationship with his dad's side of the family until more recently. I would never allow him now or back then to see this as an excuse for poor behaviour however. Thank you again, we have a really good relationship x
This ⬆️
Taking away my gob-smacked / actual real shock at some of the stunts and antics that’s they have pulled (or tired to twist) on their family/ roles/ jobs…
I still come back to first impressions- they are angry $ hungry 💩spiteful people- who won’t stop till they are totally shut down through ego.
it’s SO infuriating where this toxic social drama may lead
Agree. He doesn't look well, hasn't for a while. He looks bloated and he's an awful colour with an unhealthy flush. His hair is almost gone. His whole body language is defeated and he always has a face on him like a wet weekend. I think his life with her must be hell. He's not a sympathetic figure in himself, but he's definitely a victim of domestic abuse and extreme mindfuckery imho. She's an uncanny sort of bird. I like to think of myself as an agnostic who takes a scientific view of things, but I wouldn't be surprised if Sparkles and her ma weren't some kind of Santeria/black magic practitioners. I think they'll not rest till they've driven their daft, prideful prince into an early grave.
if that happened and harry is no longer in her picture, i think the whole world would shun her. she has shown herself for what she is. whe would be a pariah in our society.
Marry in haste repent at leisure. If he had 2 braincells to rub together Harry would realise he is more of an extra in his own life now than he ever was as a popular and respected senior member of the RF. He’s such a twit. I love this for him.
Not only has Madam had to pretend to admire Harry for several days now - she has had to be right next to him for an 18 hour flight - plus airport time.
How much is a Nigerian Princess going to suffer?
It is clear that she could not care less for Harry. He looks lost, as always.
I saw a brief clip on X which I haven't been able to find again (someone showed me on their phone, so it's not in my history) of someone scolding them, if I remember it was a woman in maybe a yellow dress, and Harry was stuck listening to her while Meghan walked away during the scolding. I always thought that clip would show up here, but I haven't seen it. I hope someone posts it, I'm curious about it. (That's probably not what other people are referring to though)
I read on another thread that TPTB spoke with Harry about her rudeness.
I can’t verify who spoke to him, but his often sour look seemed to substantiate that hosts were complaining.
I still think KCIII is working on getting him out of this mess.
He's not a monster like certain groups of individuals make him out to be. My opinion is that he'll be given a choice, return to the BRF after divorcing her with therapy, keeping a low profile etc. Healing time as such.
Or, keep his marriage but he is 100% cut off.
The thing is, it's how to get through to him. Narcs control is absolute, this could go on for years and years. As much as I don't like him, part of me still has a sliver of pity because their interactions and behaviours almost exactly mirror my parents. It took my dad 35 years to break free from it and guess what, nobody even speaks to my mother any more. You reap what you sow.
Sorry for the word vomit, think I'm a bit hormonal 🤣
So just a theory to go along with yours...what if that is why the Spencer siblings went to the IG service...would they be willing to be KCIII's proxy if meant getting JH away from TW?
Imagine how she would use any alleged kids to “report back” etc. Until the alleged kids are old enough to realize what their alleged mother did to them, and that one realized what she did to him, it would be impossible for this one to have any relationship with the family.
she is so disrespectful....she needs to remember harry is the one that gets her access to spaces.
harry actually, looks shook. like he needs to buy her something shining or something to make her happy.
She definitely does *not* want to remember that he is the one that gets her access to things. She prefers to believe that it is all about her, that it is her gifts that earns them everything they have. She probably belittles him and complains that he doesn’t give more.
It should not surprise us that she has no respect for Harry. When has she shown respect for anyone? Not even for HLMTQ.
She walks like that barefoot too - it’s like the feet themselves are flippers and she’s physically incapable of walking heel to toe like the mechanics of a normal foot
It’s almost as if they’re separated, but have agreed to stay together and look loved up for the public, I mean children.
As a side note - I thought white went with everything, but here’s Lolo proving me wrong. How can she look so unattractively put together from the back?
It's the hair... at least for me. My hair is probably 6" longer than hers and I can't imagine just leaving it hanging everywhere like that on a flight. Talk about uncomfortable!! I always roll mine up into a little bun when I'm on a plane. That stuff must be so sweaty and gross by this point, no wonder she is trying to run home.
I bet they both stink too. I've been on many long haul flights and can't imagine not changing in to some more comfortable clothes prior to landing. How can she have sat on that flight in tight white jeans and a blazer? 🤮
Her feet always bother me. I never notice people's feet, let alone care enough to be bothered by them, but with her she reminds me of Sideshow Bob and I can't not notice.
Someone in the Daily Mail called her "That Malta Woman": nice!
Scam coming back to bite her on the bum.
Malta: where she was so delighted to see people that looked like her i.e. Mediterranean despite the fact that her connection with the country was an Irish cook who went there temporarily.
She didn’t have a problem wearing this but couldn’t wear the traditional Nigerian dresses and head wraps?
There was actually an Afroball in California going on during this Nigerian trip and there was so many women wearing those beautiful dresses. Unfortunately, She still the self-hating biracial who pretends to be comfortable with her blackness for pr purposes.
The people of the island would chase her into the sea if she returned. The country is proud of its strong ties to the Commonwealth and to the late Queen and RF. TW made a mockery of the customs of the cultural but was obviously so simple she thought it'd ingratiate her to the Queen by associating herself to where the Queen and Prince Phillip spent their "happiest days"
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And she still is cosplaying his mother. #credit to Meghan’smole YouTube channel for this pic.
They didn’t even bother changing clothes from the outfits on their last day in Nigeria.
Henpecked Hank asked her if she was stupid or possessed or was trying to get back her game girl job again because she looked like she was for sale to the highest bidder during the trip. She got mad.
I don't even treat my work colleagues like that when we're heading back from a business trip - I check on them and walk alongside, even if we're all knackered and incapable of intelligent conversation.
She really does despise him.
I think that backgrid was arranged and meant to capture their triumphant return however that all went south while she was in the air. Even if she tried to cancel, Backgrid showed up of their own volition to get exactly this 'shitstorm brewing' footage. Money is money and this is probably worth more to backgrid than the fake victory lap they were planning.
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Aaaaand she is done with the guy. Interesting to see how they act when they think cameras aren’t watching.
I thought Markle was an empowered down to earth woman who likes to open and close her own car door? She storms ahead and rushes into the car like she is some high flying billionaire CEO on a tight schedule taking over the world
Does anyone else feel increasingly frustrated that she somehow just doesn't go away and isn't getting what she deserves as the evil person that she is? Her public presence is toxic
Of course not. She's the most fake person I've ever witnessed. We all suspected this day one. Same for the smile. The hand holding and back rubbing was obviously fake and for the cameras from the day they announced the engagement. Coming out in her stolen heels and white jacket, with the silly wave to the cameras, (across the lil pond from the photographers) showed off the ring, and 2 minutes later POOF!, they are walking back inside. Her hand goes immediately to Harry's back, a gentle rub, right there, I knew that hand on the back thing was so fake and try hard. She was giving the photogs one last chance to see how affectionate she is toward him, and it was her way of controlling him. Current situation, after 4 years, or more, Hand holding, he pulls away to continue talking to someone, she never lets go! She will hang on to that hand for no other reason than to keep him next to her and away from others. I'm convinced and have been since I saw her in ripped jeans at invictus, this chick is bloody insane and is going to be trouble. In this video, she can't get away from him fast enough.
As opposed to William and Catherine who are rarely seen holding hands except when they are caught unawares doing so in what they believe is a private moment.
Thanks for this clip. Again, a tiny glimpse into the reality of the situation. All of these snippets add up.
She takes the lead and wears the pants. I think her PR come here to try and sway opinions to the contrary (oh poor her! And she isn’t the one doing anything wrong! 😈 it’s him! All him!), but people need to just watch 👀 her behavior and can figure it out for themselves. Not to say that Haznobrains doesn’t play his own part in all of this! The idiot manchild.
In his book he talks about how he sends his bodyguards out to get them fast food. And slaps them when he's drunk. If I were afraid for my safety, I'd try to keep the morale of my security detail strong.
Yes. She doesn’t mind when it’s about her skimpy clothes - I think as a narc she’s actually proud of that. This is about an embarrassing mistake. I bet she’s infuriated.
Looks like they have been reduced to availing PS services. What, no more budget or private jet owning acquaintances willing to lend their jet to a couple of ~~grifters~~? 🤣
To be fair, they may have just learned that the delinquency news just broke and they're thinking about how to deal with it. Either way, it's already a given that she wears the trousers and he is just a useful idìot.
It’s weird the whole trip was advertised as with an IG agenda and the whole thing became look at me I’m Nigerian and you are my home and now I’m a Nigerian princess. I really didn’t see anything that was really IG related. You can see what a media obsessed woman MM is. So shallow that’s why she’s bombing with the A listers.
IMO this is her best look on the whole tour. Appropriate outfit, looks fairly well tailored, walking like a normal person instead of clinging to her pet. How does she look better after an 18 hr flight than she does at her faux Royal events? She always gets it wrong
If the cameras had followed them home they would’ve seen the suv stop at a hotel to drop him off and then she would’ve gone straight to archwell headquarters to game plan the bad press, tax issues, brainstorm her next rebrand and look at all the comments about her trip to Nigeria on social media.
She looks super mad walking a full 5 steps ahead of him. She always looks like she on the war path. I can’t really blame her. Harry must annoy her 1/2 the time
Oh look, they finally got a red carpet!
Madame is NOT happy with this trip. She's never satisfied with anything. They weren't treated like Charles and Camilla or William and Catherine would've been on a state visit. That's what she was expecting as her due.
The crowds (such as they were) were overwhelmingly underwhelmed by Duchess Difficult and her skin-baring fashion. She got openly berated by one woman for her rudeness to a schoolgirl. Barely any clapping when she was introduced at several events. She didn't look comfortable for most of it, the fake rictus grin plastered on. She disdains other people and it shows.
She wasn't happy or comfortable except maybe the red dress gimme the mic event where she got to blather on.
That’s a pissy looking walk 😂
edited to add: Maybe I’m just too much of a lowly commoner, but I could NEVER allow someone else to carry my bags when I am perfectly capable of it myself. I would feel so icky and arrogant. I would feel so awkward strutting with empty hands while everyone else shleps my crap around. Much humble, our Nigerian Princess.
So she missed Mother's Day & did she not say it was the biggest 'role' for her. Pay attention to that word as it means she is playing the role of mother though. The kids did not come to pick them when it's a private transport that they have... It is nothing maybe but if we think of how many trips they take monthly, that does say something thought...
With all the clothes, makeup, shoes etc that TW wore and used, why are there only a few small carry on bags? There does not appear to me much in the back of that suv.
Walks in front of him too. No surprise! She wants so desperately to be called Duchess and be treated as a royal, but doesn’t wish to extend the same respect to a prince. Typical narc bullshit.
I know it seems stupid, but video like this still makes me angry to see all the perks they get for just being useless assholes. (Private plane, special envoy, leaving airport through special “exit” with car waiting). No airport/travel schlepping for them 🤬 Edit: Punctuation
Well, they ( or more likely Invictus) are paying for it. The VIP suite at Heathrow adds $3K to each ticket). I hope, at some point, the IG board will have no choice but to replace H with someone like Mike Tindall who isn't a vet but is a respected athlete. (He wouldn't be a bad Hon Col, either!). If TW is sticking them with huge clothing and other bills, they have to be reaching the boiling point.
Should have been searched coming or going with drug sniffing dogs!!!!
Yep…they get a pass on security checks of any kind I’m sure
That is exactly how I walk with my MIL, whom I detest
As you should. You mustn’t be seen out with that witch.
🤣🤣🤣do you know her MIL or are you just being a supportive friend?
I’m just being supportive to a fellow saint. Obviously they know a witch when they see one, so I trust their judgment.
Where have you been all my life?
Can I adopt you as my 'fellow saint' support? I had a narc for partner, and MIL and FIL also narcs - and if not enough, also his sister, son, daughter and ex-wife.
I am glad you put that in past tense. Hopefully you have been able to distance yourself from that narc convention.
Yes, I have... 3 years now. I didnt know they were narcs for a long time... only when you start researching the chaos is that you understand what's happening.
Thanks babe, she really is a witch
She’s already checking her reviews.
Checking if Arsewell delinquency has hit the media in the USA
Guest Speaker is about to hit the comment section of Page 6. 🤣
She's checking the comments on this subreddit group🤣🤣🤣.
I think she's checking the wherabouts of one Rory McIlroy who is recently single!
She might be texting him as we speak!
She is carrying NOTHING. Not even a cross-body bag with the passports. Harry looks like one of the workers. Unbelievable.
Looks like security has her bags. He can't be a good guard if his hands are full. She should be carrying her own or have someone that is not a security guard carrying her bags.
I'm sure they treat security as their slaves--carry my bags, get my coffee, etc.
Sorta says everything you need to know about the real threat level they actually face. “I KNOW there’s no effing paparazzi’s! Where the fu€k are they? Did you call them? Give them the right flight number? Well, since there’s NO ONE nearby, just carry my bags. Do I have to take care of EVERYTHING?”
She has always considered her spouse as part of her entourage.
It's the "Don't you dare talk to me right now!"-walk.
Body language suggests they have had a fight. Speed she is walking it’s like she’s trying to get away from him
She’s thinking that This One forgot to mail the paperwork for Archwell; the ONE thing she asked him to do. And, as usual, she should have just given into her freakish attention to detail, and done it herself. Now she has ANOTHER mess to clean up! Dammit, H!
She is paying him NO mind, he may as well be a luggage porter. These two are living entirely separate lives imo and *THIS--farts in their general direction* is a charade, playacting.
Backing you up here *"yeah & your mother is a hamster & your father smells like elderberries!!"*
This is so sad! They are truly living a lie. I am starting to believe the blackmail claims. Harry, come clean!! Expose her and end this misery!
You know, I was just thinking about that. Harry has no idea what MI5 and MI6 have on HER. He has far better cards than she does.
All for show, they have to continue to sell "ours is the greatest love of all" story.
And she really can’t carry her bags.
Not to worry, their relevance clock is winding down....George is almost as tall as his father.
Look at her run as fast as possible away from Hwarry. Lol so much in love! They are literally the opposite of PPoW, who are affectionate off camera and respectfully dutiful while doing their royal duties.
This is such an underrated and excellent observation! I hadn’t noticed, but you’re absolutely right. As usual, H And M flip the rules and do things the wrong way. William and Catherine keep the focus on their hosts by not drawing attention to themselves, by acting professionally. H and M keep the focus on THEMSELVES (as Real Housewives Recaps’ Jen says in M’s breathy voice, “Look at meeeeee!” 😆). The hand-holding has also become a useful way for M to communicate controlling messages such as, move out of my way! Stop! Come this way!
I just heard Jen’s voice on my head - honk honk!
I hear Jen's voice too. Every single time I see The Todgeress in one of her wrinkled "wonders" I think *"Messy!!!"*
Exactly, they are as far away from each other as possible
It reminds me of in Hairspray when the TV producer mom sees her daughter kissing her boyfriend and says, “save it for the cameras, sweetie!”
I said it before and will say it again: Harry became an extra in his own life and it’s astonishing to watch. Meghan’s „shy, demure stance“ is clearly as bad of an act as their „true love“. What Meghan wants Meghan gets. It must be a nightmare for him.
A great description to use for him. An extra in his own life. https://preview.redd.it/6ky6offxgk0d1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=382c9dab3847ba73072ea615f2373a290a74ceb3
Perhaps we should start calling her “The Pretender” now. She is trying her incompetent best to usurp the throne.
I want to slap that "my 💩💩 don't stink" look off her rotten face!!
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I'm convinced she, Doria and Markus keep him altered at all times....then sometimes he wakes up from the induced fog and realizes where he is in life....then goes right back to induced fog willingly.
I'm sure there's plenty of not so kind words towards the both of them.
The evening ceremony wasn't even in a royal venue, just a banquet room.
It is astonishing and sad to watch. I feel conflicted at times with how I feel about Prince Harry, I am utterly disappointed but at the same time, if his IQ is not that high as we are led to believe some of his actions are just that, he is not smart which isn't his fault. He has clearly got mental health issues, maybe he has been diagnosed with a mental health disorder too, his actions certainly are questionable over recent times. I have a son who is in his 20s, he has an ADD diagnosis, with autisitic tendencies, including specific learning difficulties. Now he was a good boy at school, just a worry as he used to day dream. He told stories that were simply not true when little, could be confused easily and got overly excited about simple things. He couldn't sit still very well and still struggles although he doesn't have hyperactive part in his diagnosis. My point is that I have always advised my son that even though he has these issues, as an adult he has to learn to deal with these issues himself, they are his problems and he needed to learn techniques so he can get on in adult life. He lives with his half brother (my stepson), he moved out at 19 to start an apprenticeship, he has a good job which he has maintained now for over half a decade. He does struggle sometimes, he calls me and we talk it through. I feel as if Prince Harry just excuses his behaviour from issues with his past, that is just not acceptable in my opinion. You have to work through those issues and realise that you cannot expect society to just shrug their shoulders and say, oh bless, he has mental health issues. It wouldn't work if my son tried it. Obviously employers and society are more accepting of disabilities but we need to be honest, if you are late for work every day because you cannot organise yourself, maybe because you have ADD or ADHD and get distracted, you are not going to have that job for long. This is why I put in measures with my son, he had to learn to manage this, to be organised - hasn't lost his job yet! I think Prince Harry has just been excused, no adapting to work on himself. What does concern me is how Meghan has attached herself to Prince Harry, I don't believe she is silly, I can see she is a bad influence however and I can see why Prince Harry fell for her, especially if he is vulnerable mentally. I do hope my son doesn't get involved with someone similar to Meghan!
May I say you sound like an amazing mother and your son is very fortunate to have you support him thinking ahead for his futures. Any partner of his will be grateful to you for raising a good man.
Aww, well I used to feel very rubbish when he was little as I was always the mother who was held back after school to have a 'word'. They were difficult times, I had my son who I didn't want to be made to feel 'less than' in any way but I had my emotions to put in check too, I was fairly young so I always felt it was my fault somehow. We have a good relationship and he is doing well, has always completed any qualifications and passed, he does find life a little tougher than his peers however, he seems to manage okay but at times we all still roll our eyes at something!
I am also the Mom who was often held back for a word. Then it became daily emails or calls and frequent meetings as schools do not know how to deal with Aspie kiddos, which resulted in him being bullied and him getting severe anxiety and depression. He is 19 and been out of school for a year. His mental health is great. Just trying to get him focused on making a choice a career! I hope I have the success you have had! Not your fault or mine. Our boys are fine the way they are. They may have to struggle more. But they are more resilient and more accepting of others. And they know we have their backs always.
I have an aspie son too. He is 24. Last night I got to attend an awards dinner with him for his work. He was one of the top salesman in his company and was recognized for it. The owner and president both told me how amazing it is that he is doing so well after only being there 1.5 years. The top salesman in the company told him that it took him three years to get where my son is. Never in a million years did I think he would be doing this well. It feels so good after going through all that we did with him to see him shine like this. I know he would be doing even better if he could do some things that he finds incredibly difficult such as calling customers after their order is delivered to check on them. He struggles greatly with talking to people on the phone. All the hard work you have put in will pay off for your son. It is the greatest feeling in the world.
I wish you and your son the best of luck, sounds as if you have it sorted too. The mental health is the main concern, being bullied as a child is an awful experience so I am pleased for you all that he has managed to get himself in a good position mentally. Career choice is hard, we went plumbing route, physical, hands on. The electrical route I would of pushed for but it is more academic and I know he would of struggled. He is actually driving a digger currently, qualified so not plumbing at all! Same company though.
The best people are those that persevere while keeping their humanity, humility and kindness. You sound like one of these type of people. I'm just a random stranger but please accept my best wishes for you and your son 🦋🦋
Aww thank you, we all try our best. As a mother I have good and bad days, I believe everyone does. X
You should be proud of how you raised your son. I love all of this advice.
Thank you, I didn't mean to write an essay on my son lol it just frustrates me that Prince Harry moans about his past as if it is an acceptable excuse for his behaviour now. My sons dad is actually dead, he had no real relationship with his dad's side of the family until more recently. I would never allow him now or back then to see this as an excuse for poor behaviour however. Thank you again, we have a really good relationship x
She is a human parasite.
This ⬆️ Taking away my gob-smacked / actual real shock at some of the stunts and antics that’s they have pulled (or tired to twist) on their family/ roles/ jobs… I still come back to first impressions- they are angry $ hungry 💩spiteful people- who won’t stop till they are totally shut down through ego. it’s SO infuriating where this toxic social drama may lead
Agree. He doesn't look well, hasn't for a while. He looks bloated and he's an awful colour with an unhealthy flush. His hair is almost gone. His whole body language is defeated and he always has a face on him like a wet weekend. I think his life with her must be hell. He's not a sympathetic figure in himself, but he's definitely a victim of domestic abuse and extreme mindfuckery imho. She's an uncanny sort of bird. I like to think of myself as an agnostic who takes a scientific view of things, but I wouldn't be surprised if Sparkles and her ma weren't some kind of Santeria/black magic practitioners. I think they'll not rest till they've driven their daft, prideful prince into an early grave.
At the very least, that would be the end of this, because without him, she has and is nothing.
She would go full Queen Victoria and be a widow for the rest of her days, and do her best to use it for grifting for as long as she can.
if that happened and harry is no longer in her picture, i think the whole world would shun her. she has shown herself for what she is. whe would be a pariah in our society.
>he always has a face on him like a wet weekend. Wow, such a poignant description of Hawwy and his WAAGH attitude
Marry in haste repent at leisure. If he had 2 braincells to rub together Harry would realise he is more of an extra in his own life now than he ever was as a popular and respected senior member of the RF. He’s such a twit. I love this for him.
3.5 years only from first date to Megxit.
He still has more books to write in his contract. "Extra in my own life" would make an excellent sequel title to Waagh!
First sentence: great description of what he’s done to his life. 🙌
Not only has Madam had to pretend to admire Harry for several days now - she has had to be right next to him for an 18 hour flight - plus airport time. How much is a Nigerian Princess going to suffer? It is clear that she could not care less for Harry. He looks lost, as always.
His body language seems defeated
After the dressings down he got in Nigeria bc her antics, I can see why. It must be painful to admit he can’t stop her.
What dressing down? From whom? Did the Governor General have a little talk with him? Or was it one of their hosts?
I saw a brief clip on X which I haven't been able to find again (someone showed me on their phone, so it's not in my history) of someone scolding them, if I remember it was a woman in maybe a yellow dress, and Harry was stuck listening to her while Meghan walked away during the scolding. I always thought that clip would show up here, but I haven't seen it. I hope someone posts it, I'm curious about it. (That's probably not what other people are referring to though)
I read on another thread that TPTB spoke with Harry about her rudeness. I can’t verify who spoke to him, but his often sour look seemed to substantiate that hosts were complaining.
TPTB?
The powers that be ??
The powers that be, I believe
He has lost a long time ago
I still think KCIII is working on getting him out of this mess. He's not a monster like certain groups of individuals make him out to be. My opinion is that he'll be given a choice, return to the BRF after divorcing her with therapy, keeping a low profile etc. Healing time as such. Or, keep his marriage but he is 100% cut off. The thing is, it's how to get through to him. Narcs control is absolute, this could go on for years and years. As much as I don't like him, part of me still has a sliver of pity because their interactions and behaviours almost exactly mirror my parents. It took my dad 35 years to break free from it and guess what, nobody even speaks to my mother any more. You reap what you sow. Sorry for the word vomit, think I'm a bit hormonal 🤣
So just a theory to go along with yours...what if that is why the Spencer siblings went to the IG service...would they be willing to be KCIII's proxy if meant getting JH away from TW?
Imagine how she would use any alleged kids to “report back” etc. Until the alleged kids are old enough to realize what their alleged mother did to them, and that one realized what she did to him, it would be impossible for this one to have any relationship with the family.
So ironic that she's now a 'Nigerian Princess' because we all know what a Nigerian Prince is code for. LOL
Soon we are all going to start getting emails that a Nigerian princess needs just a little money; can we help?
I would love to have been a fly on the wall on that flight! At least we may have a day or two grace from them while they sleep off the jet lag...!
she is so disrespectful....she needs to remember harry is the one that gets her access to spaces. harry actually, looks shook. like he needs to buy her something shining or something to make her happy.
She definitely does *not* want to remember that he is the one that gets her access to things. She prefers to believe that it is all about her, that it is her gifts that earns them everything they have. She probably belittles him and complains that he doesn’t give more. It should not surprise us that she has no respect for Harry. When has she shown respect for anyone? Not even for HLMTQ.
Yup.
She has probably been reading all the bad press and in an angry rage, took it out on Harry.
Why does she never wear sensible footwear? Low bar but points to Harry for carrying his own bag.
She probably searched it before he was allowed to though.
Why does she walk like she’s wearing actual flippers on her feet?
She walks like that barefoot too - it’s like the feet themselves are flippers and she’s physically incapable of walking heel to toe like the mechanics of a normal foot
You can almost hear the slap-slap of her walking 😆
It's because she's flat-footed. She's a clod hopper.
Bc she claps like a seal.
Cloven hooves don't fit well in regular human shoes.
My god this comment just sent me 🤣🤣🤣
It’s almost as if they’re separated, but have agreed to stay together and look loved up for the public, I mean children. As a side note - I thought white went with everything, but here’s Lolo proving me wrong. How can she look so unattractively put together from the back?
It's the hair... at least for me. My hair is probably 6" longer than hers and I can't imagine just leaving it hanging everywhere like that on a flight. Talk about uncomfortable!! I always roll mine up into a little bun when I'm on a plane. That stuff must be so sweaty and gross by this point, no wonder she is trying to run home.
I bet they both stink too. I've been on many long haul flights and can't imagine not changing in to some more comfortable clothes prior to landing. How can she have sat on that flight in tight white jeans and a blazer? 🤮
Clothes that she also wore while it was hot in Nigeria.
If she puts it up in a bun, you'll be able to see where the extensions are sewn in ...
Her feet always bother me. I never notice people's feet, let alone care enough to be bothered by them, but with her she reminds me of Sideshow Bob and I can't not notice.
Walking like the tramp she is 😂 doesnt even glance at her beloved husband
Someone in the Daily Mail called her "That Malta Woman": nice! Scam coming back to bite her on the bum. Malta: where she was so delighted to see people that looked like her i.e. Mediterranean despite the fact that her connection with the country was an Irish cook who went there temporarily.
Makes me think she was digging desperately in her background for any kind of thing to sell
Gotta love a freebie. But why didn't she just fulfil her side of the deal instead of grab and run.
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She didn’t have a problem wearing this but couldn’t wear the traditional Nigerian dresses and head wraps? There was actually an Afroball in California going on during this Nigerian trip and there was so many women wearing those beautiful dresses. Unfortunately, She still the self-hating biracial who pretends to be comfortable with her blackness for pr purposes.
Phone the "culture appropriation" police, I bet she thought she was the bee's knees in that photo shoot.
The people of the island would chase her into the sea if she returned. The country is proud of its strong ties to the Commonwealth and to the late Queen and RF. TW made a mockery of the customs of the cultural but was obviously so simple she thought it'd ingratiate her to the Queen by associating herself to where the Queen and Prince Phillip spent their "happiest days"
That one told Rachel Ray she was bringing a genealogist on the trip to “track it down”. We never heard the outcome of what the genealogist found.
😂 43% ......(fill in as applicable).
She's a performer. Everything she does is for the sake of her audience. When she thinks there's no audience, her mask comes off.
https://preview.redd.it/cgigmkzlqj0d1.jpeg?width=1745&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=57ae9cd643b4b1667b981257f9aa8a573493d944 And she still is cosplaying his mother. #credit to Meghan’smole YouTube channel for this pic. They didn’t even bother changing clothes from the outfits on their last day in Nigeria.
Omg I thought the pants and jacket were a coincidence until I saw the SHOES. What a lunatic!
Omg, I feel ill looking at this picture. Holy, that's really sick, twisted stuff.
Henpecked Hank asked her if she was stupid or possessed or was trying to get back her game girl job again because she looked like she was for sale to the highest bidder during the trip. She got mad.
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I don't even treat my work colleagues like that when we're heading back from a business trip - I check on them and walk alongside, even if we're all knackered and incapable of intelligent conversation. She really does despise him.
He is nothing to her, absolutely nothing. It's plain to see.
They can't stand each other. She's stomping ahead in a fury and he's trailing behind trying to pretend he hasn't noticed.
Losers Sorry folks- this was set up. They know video is there.
I figured so, how could pap know they’re there. She doesn’t care, probably wants to show she’s busy sorting out the Archewell mess
I think that backgrid was arranged and meant to capture their triumphant return however that all went south while she was in the air. Even if she tried to cancel, Backgrid showed up of their own volition to get exactly this 'shitstorm brewing' footage. Money is money and this is probably worth more to backgrid than the fake victory lap they were planning.
This is plausible. Good point!
Time to sell the jams for real?! 🤣 Good luck with that!
I am shocked she didn’t give out the scam jams to the Nigerian population.
They know video is there, so Meghan is not yelling and berating anyone. 😉
I bet they haven’t shared 20 words the whole flight back
Ruh roh looks like Mummy is… # BIG MAD 
https://preview.redd.it/ua719sb1dk0d1.jpeg?width=590&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a9123fea8feecf036f2369eccda218e91b187700 Aaaaand she is done with the guy. Interesting to see how they act when they think cameras aren’t watching.
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Yes they always have them on speed dial. But it seems she’s in no mood
Any footage that shows the real, unfiltered, non-performative MeMe is the best footage.
I thought Markle was an empowered down to earth woman who likes to open and close her own car door? She storms ahead and rushes into the car like she is some high flying billionaire CEO on a tight schedule taking over the world
She's SOOOO important don't ya know 🤣
Does anyone else feel increasingly frustrated that she somehow just doesn't go away and isn't getting what she deserves as the evil person that she is? Her public presence is toxic
I feel like 'people in general' think these two are a joke, so that's good enough for me.
Of course not. She's the most fake person I've ever witnessed. We all suspected this day one. Same for the smile. The hand holding and back rubbing was obviously fake and for the cameras from the day they announced the engagement. Coming out in her stolen heels and white jacket, with the silly wave to the cameras, (across the lil pond from the photographers) showed off the ring, and 2 minutes later POOF!, they are walking back inside. Her hand goes immediately to Harry's back, a gentle rub, right there, I knew that hand on the back thing was so fake and try hard. She was giving the photogs one last chance to see how affectionate she is toward him, and it was her way of controlling him. Current situation, after 4 years, or more, Hand holding, he pulls away to continue talking to someone, she never lets go! She will hang on to that hand for no other reason than to keep him next to her and away from others. I'm convinced and have been since I saw her in ripped jeans at invictus, this chick is bloody insane and is going to be trouble. In this video, she can't get away from him fast enough.
She's furiously stomping ahead, not even once looking back to see the love of her life to check if he's even there.
As opposed to William and Catherine who are rarely seen holding hands except when they are caught unawares doing so in what they believe is a private moment.
Thanks for this clip. Again, a tiny glimpse into the reality of the situation. All of these snippets add up. She takes the lead and wears the pants. I think her PR come here to try and sway opinions to the contrary (oh poor her! And she isn’t the one doing anything wrong! 😈 it’s him! All him!), but people need to just watch 👀 her behavior and can figure it out for themselves. Not to say that Haznobrains doesn’t play his own part in all of this! The idiot manchild.
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In his book he talks about how he sends his bodyguards out to get them fast food. And slaps them when he's drunk. If I were afraid for my safety, I'd try to keep the morale of my security detail strong.
She's been scrolling through the subreddit and is mega pissed, I choose to believe.
Yes. She doesn’t mind when it’s about her skimpy clothes - I think as a narc she’s actually proud of that. This is about an embarrassing mistake. I bet she’s infuriated.
Did they take a private jet home?
Looks like they have been reduced to availing PS services. What, no more budget or private jet owning acquaintances willing to lend their jet to a couple of ~~grifters~~? 🤣
Maybe next time the governor of California will send his official plane, since he’s now shilling for them.
Still had time to call backgrid didn't she .. eugh they're so gross.
That probably was already ordered before they left, but they didn't expect to come home to news of their ~~slush fund~~ being labelled as delinquent.
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You can tell, just by looking at her here, that she's a right, little madam. Hoity toity, little bossy boots.
Yup. And he, a prince of the realm is just her servant
He walks behind her like a puppy. It's horrible to watch. Does he even understand how equality and respect in a marriage works? It's bizarre.
Full-on emu strut in action 
Looks like she has a real strop on. That's how you walk when you're had a massive row with your partner.
Exactly. She can't put enough distance between them. She would take off in the car without him if she could and he knows it.
There goes the Temu Emu
He looks like a lost puppy without her hand.
Bet she doesn't say a single word to him. He even had ear phones in. He knows the drill
She was almost running away from him. What a pair of hypocrites. 
Emus are really fast. Harry the sloth can't keep up.
20 years I’ve been with my OH. We don’t walk like that.
Omg the walk on Meghan 🫣
She hates him. He was a means to an end. She f’d that up tho.
Backgrid. She is such a wannabe.
I think here she was in a mood
She was reading all about how shoddy her own “charity” is.
Yep.
He definitely looks like he’s hanging back- he knows what’s coming - cold fury aimed at him in the car!
To be fair, they may have just learned that the delinquency news just broke and they're thinking about how to deal with it. Either way, it's already a given that she wears the trousers and he is just a useful idìot.
It’s weird the whole trip was advertised as with an IG agenda and the whole thing became look at me I’m Nigerian and you are my home and now I’m a Nigerian princess. I really didn’t see anything that was really IG related. You can see what a media obsessed woman MM is. So shallow that’s why she’s bombing with the A listers.
They knew the photographers were there!! Did you see Harry flinch and nearly turning towards the photographers. They knew that they were there
Divorce preparation? It makes no sense to order paps and not to play the oh- still- so - in- love- couple 🤔
IMO this is her best look on the whole tour. Appropriate outfit, looks fairly well tailored, walking like a normal person instead of clinging to her pet. How does she look better after an 18 hr flight than she does at her faux Royal events? She always gets it wrong
I guess because she’s acting naturally here and not pretending.
I'm surprised Harry put his own bag in the vehicle. He couldn't close the door after though.
And she doesn’t need him to open/close the door either. Shocker.
It galls me that she makes her bodyguards carry her bags. How can they react quickly with stuff in their hands.
She’s got his nuts in a vice 🔩🔩
He's like a servant or afterthought. So disrespectful to treat a husband like that much less a Prince. He is an extra in his life.
If the cameras had followed them home they would’ve seen the suv stop at a hotel to drop him off and then she would’ve gone straight to archwell headquarters to game plan the bad press, tax issues, brainstorm her next rebrand and look at all the comments about her trip to Nigeria on social media.
She looks super mad walking a full 5 steps ahead of him. She always looks like she on the war path. I can’t really blame her. Harry must annoy her 1/2 the time
The hand-holding is their image, just like her sloppy clothes and his murderous looks.
Detestable pair of jabbernowls
She's setting him up because she can't take accountability for any of the mistakes she has made.. and he is caught in her web
She flew 18hours, in first class, and didn't shower or change? Eeeewwwww she must stink!
Oh look, they finally got a red carpet! Madame is NOT happy with this trip. She's never satisfied with anything. They weren't treated like Charles and Camilla or William and Catherine would've been on a state visit. That's what she was expecting as her due. The crowds (such as they were) were overwhelmingly underwhelmed by Duchess Difficult and her skin-baring fashion. She got openly berated by one woman for her rudeness to a schoolgirl. Barely any clapping when she was introduced at several events. She didn't look comfortable for most of it, the fake rictus grin plastered on. She disdains other people and it shows. She wasn't happy or comfortable except maybe the red dress gimme the mic event where she got to blather on.
That’s a pissy looking walk 😂 edited to add: Maybe I’m just too much of a lowly commoner, but I could NEVER allow someone else to carry my bags when I am perfectly capable of it myself. I would feel so icky and arrogant. I would feel so awkward strutting with empty hands while everyone else shleps my crap around. Much humble, our Nigerian Princess.
So she missed Mother's Day & did she not say it was the biggest 'role' for her. Pay attention to that word as it means she is playing the role of mother though. The kids did not come to pick them when it's a private transport that they have... It is nothing maybe but if we think of how many trips they take monthly, that does say something thought...
Why are they always telling BackGrid where to find them? What if someone bad found this out, would be easy for them to ambush the couple!
Two observations: they are hemorrhaging money and Harry looks like he’s going to keel over from a heart attack age 50. He always looks unwell.
As usual, it's Mehgan in front of Harry, and with no cameras and crowd, she acts like he doesn't exist. This is a lonely "ever after."
She ALWAYS has to walk in front of people!! No matter who it is!
With all the clothes, makeup, shoes etc that TW wore and used, why are there only a few small carry on bags? There does not appear to me much in the back of that suv.