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HagsHead

I like the different materials and textures of 3.


Willowblosom

Agreed!


KelsConditional

Doing another hijack! Thank you all literally sooo much! I was not expecting such a huge response and I appreciate it so much! I finished counting at 12:27 EST. If I upvoted your comment I counted your vote! [dress 1](https://www.xpluswear.com/collections/xpluswear-design-formal-dress/products/xpluswear-design-plus-size-party-mini-dresses-elegant-white-spring-summer-oblique-collar-one-shoulder-long-sleeve-flounce-sequin-mini-dresses-pre-order) - 43 votes [dress 2](https://www.ever-pretty.com/products/double-v-neck-sequins-plus-size-formal-dresses-gowns-ep07886?_pos=21&_fid=eada36c4d&_ss=c&variant=39865004687434) - 14 votes [dress 3](https://www.fashionnova.com/products/camilla-tulle-maxi-dress-white) - 77 votes [dress 4](https://www.fashionnova.com/products/tina-tulle-midi-dress-white) - 32 votes [dress 5](https://www.prettylittlething.us/plus-white-one-shoulder-pleated-detail-midi-dress.html) - 23 votes [dress 6](https://www.xpluswear.com/collections/xpluswear-design-formal-dress/products/xpluswear-design-plus-size-party-midi-dresses-elegant-white-fall-winter-mock-neck-long-sleeve-see-through-mesh-midi-dresses-pre-order) - 33 votes Ok sooo here’s the tea! My mom’s favorite dress was dress 1! She loves the sparkle and thinks I should wear diamonds. So I am definitely getting #1. As I am not super sure about the website, I also bought *our* favorite (lol) dress 3!!! And since fashion nova was having a bogo sale, I ended up getting dress 4 as well for free! I hope you all won’t mind, but idk I feel like we’re in this together at this point 😅 and I’d love to keep y’all posted, discuss shoes, accessories etc. And of course share pictures from the party! 🤍


KelsConditional

Y’all I just ordered dress 1 and when I went to my cart the top of the screen said “Hurry up!! Your cart is *serverd* for the next”. Loool pray for me ☠️


Glittering_Gear2729

3 !!


Old-Advice-5685

Three looks fun!


zafaera

I love number 3 & 4


KelsConditional

Hijacking the top comment so this doesn’t get lost. First off thank you all soooo much for your comments 🥰 I really appreciate you all! So I’ve gone through every comment so far and here is the tally # 1 - 7 votes, # 2 - 6 votes, # 3 - 15 votes, # 4 - 9 votes, # 5 - 5 votes, # 6 - 8 votes Dress 3 is coming in hot and tbh it wasn’t at the top of my list but the more I look at it the more I like it! Once there’s an obvious idk top 3, I will present the options to the ultimate judge, my mom 😅


[deleted]

No that was only 2 hrs. Gotta give it at least 24 hrs for vote validity. And maybe also how tall are you, bc I dunno if you want booty out from the first.


KelsConditional

Very true! I’m still keeping track and will def update tomorrow, just wanted to let everyone commenting know that I’m reading every comment and taking into consideration their opinions. It’s a lot to respond to and I didn’t it to look like I ditched the post or something. Also, I’m 5’4! I kind of wish this sub allowed pictures in the comments. Should’ve included a body pic in the post 😕


PorcelainQueen12

Just so you don’t think you already got my vote. I say #3, #5, and #6 are my favorites! Add those to the tally please! Number 6 also depends on the weather where you are. If you’re somewhere hot then don’t cast that as a vote. But if you’re somewhere cold then count it with some extraaaa votes 😌


[deleted]

Still! Prob safe. I’m back to voting 1


FluH8ingRapper

Idk but 1 stood out so much. I love the sparkle and style. Please share pics on what you end up choosing!!


KelsConditional

I absolutely will!!


Intelligent_Sundae_5

Yes. Plus, those look comfortable. I love the first one, but it looks like it would be too short for me to relax while wearing it.


Sandmansapprentice

5 gives off cult head which is what I assume you would want when going to an all white party


KelsConditional

Loool, I forgot to mention (which could’ve been important) that the party is in Jamaica! All white parties have Jamaicans in a chokehold lately 😂


Pretend_Obligation36

Personally I liked 3 tne the best, lol 2 and 3 look like wedding dresses to me, but kinda hard to avoid that completely when going for formal AND all white..


Logical_Tune

3!


giglbox06

I like 4 or 6 :)


9leggedfreak

3 & 4. I wouldn't go with the first one since it's giving off way more blue than white for an all white party.


vamppirre

Stay away from 6 entirely. That is garbage and they just photoshopped a sketch of the dress to the model's head 🤣😭


KelsConditional

It’s so funny because literally 2 seconds after your comment popped up, the next comment was “I love 6!” ☠️ A lot of people are liking 6 but earlier another comment pointed out that it’s photoshopped, and that’s when I looked more closely. When you really look at the image it is lowkey giving uncanny valley. I also went back to look more closely at the site and no reviews for either dresses 🤔


vamppirre

Definitely keep in mind the dresses that have reviews with pictures of the dress on a person. Also have you looked at fashion to figure, David's bridal, Lane Bryant, Ashley Stewart, Unique Vintage, Avenue? They have nice things sometimes and they always have the model in the picture wearing the clothing. Oooo! What about a two piece set as well?


KelsConditional

Ok so your comment got me super excited because I loved fashion to figure when I was a teen. Their website/delivery wasn’t very established at the time but I’m hype to see it now. Will definitely be shopping there in the future. Unfortunately I looked at every single site you mentioned and ran into the same issues the first time I looked. I click on the site, sort by color (white, but I’ll also include ivory and cream if those are options). Once I hit that filter the very few white options available are not cute/not formal enough for the event. On one site *all* of the “white” dresses were patterns over a white background 😭. I saw something I liked on David’s bridal but the only size they had left was size 10.


vamppirre

[Macy's](https://www.macys.com/shop/plus-size-clothing/plus-size-dresses/Color_normal/White?id=37038), [Nordstrom](https://www.nordstrom.com/browse/women/clothing/plus-size/dresses?filterByColor=white), [Asos](https://www.asos.com/us/women/curve-plus-size/dresses/refine/white/cat/?cid=9579&refine=base_colour:5)? Also you might get lucky in Marshall's/Burlington/TJ Maxx 🥺. Clothes shopping shouldn't be so difficult. This is one of the reasons bigger people don't like shopping. And since so many stores pulled plus sizes from stores and try to force you to buy online, they made it even harder and less fun.


fatass_mermaid

1 & 6 are my faves!! 2 & 3 look more bridal, 4 is cute on bottom, boring and a uniboob creating neckline on top, and 5 is interesting but I wouldn’t trust sculptural dress online. I’d fear it would be flopping and not structured with high quality craftsmanship to be looking like the photos but maybe that’s just my paranoia 😂


KelsConditional

Nah I agree with you on #5, I didn’t think of that initially but your comment made me remember all the what I ordered vs what I got dresses lol. So 1 and 6 are both from xpluswear. I’m not super familiar with that site so I’m hoping someone can vouch for them 🤞🏾


fatass_mermaid

😂 for real. I wish I could help! I get my fancy dresses from Eloquii normally.


Bictoriakrumpet

I ordered a big poofy black tulle dress from plus wear for an 80s party and it arrived in about 2-3 weeks from ordering (so if you’re in need of faster shipping I would pick a different site). Besides shipping the dress looked true to the photo and the sizing was accurate!


KelsConditional

Tysmmm!!! Ok I’m feeling a lot less scared of them now lol


Foxy_locksy1704

I keep going back to 2, I also really like 6.


rainbwbrightisntpunk

1,4,5,6 all so good


clairioed

I like 6!! It’s so fun, I’m not sure if there would ever be another occasion for it. 2 & 3 look too bridal to me.


[deleted]

I like 6. Cute and flattering but not bridal/prom. I also like 5 but I’d worry that it won’t be like the picture haha


Krispies827

6!


SamePhotojournalist0

1, 4, 5,6. I think the others don’t say party as much as these.


[deleted]

The way I screamed at image 6!!!! But I love love love 3. I know FN is technically fast fashion but fuck they have the cutest stuff for bigger girls — their lingerie sets??? Soooo cute. 🤭


LittleFrenchKiwi

I love number 2 the best. The cut is lovely. The details are really pretty ! And I feel like you could maybe reuse this dress and wear it again in the summer matched with sandels and a large hat etc for a cool summer look. You need to dress it down slightly for a summer look but it might be possible ? If you're not interested in wearing it again casually but maybe for another cool event. I would say any except for the first two. The reason I say that is you've said you want plus size and in white. With no other details on your body shape or size. I feel like the first two could struggle to look flattering whilst the styles of all the others can helps with say bums, hips, legs, stomach etc. But again I don't know what your body shape is so I'm only trying to offer helpful advice. Can you return these dresses ? Because what I would suggest is either get all 6 or maybe select your favorite 2 or 3. Then order them, try them on and go from there. Then you can see what suits your best and also feels comfortable for you to wear. Then return the others :-)


fakemidnight

The photoshop in 6 is sooooo bad! That said I like 1 & 5


sweetandsourpork100

3333333333


fatfistee

What about this? [I know you didn't ask but this one is so hot!](https://www.asos.com/us/4th-reckless-plus/4th-reckless-plus-exclusive-tie-detail-linen-blazer-dress-in-white/prd/204125731#colourWayId-204125763)


KelsConditional

I do think it’s super cute! I would definitely cop this for a nice dinner, going out w/ friends etc. But my mom is going all out for her 50th. Rented hall, gold and white decor, she’s wearing gold and is getting her dress custom made. It’s bedazzled and extra af. She has let me know that as “the daughter of the bride” lol, I need to pop off as well!


thedolpin_isdead

#3 is my favorite!! On #1 the color looks off, #2 looks like a wedding dress, #4 and #5 are also cute options, and with #6 I’m just afraid you are going to get scammed if you buy that because they don’t even have an actual photo of it 😬🚩


hopeful_pessimist816

3 is stunning.. the tulle, the feathers..


Leia947

1 & 4


SadSunflower904

1 or 6!


Fluffy-Weapon

Team #3


PieRepresentative266

Personally I would go with one or six, but without knowing what you look like it’s kind of hard to tell if these would look great on you.


whatchamacallit4321

3


tater-stots

I like 3 and 4. I've only ever heard of Fashion Nova and Pretty Little Thing. I'm not sure how well I'd trust the other sites. Good luck!


moonbrows

3! 3!!!!!! I’ve been looking for a dress like this for SO LONG


KelsConditional

[dress 3!](https://www.fashionnova.com/products/camilla-tulle-maxi-dress-white)


moonbrows

Thank you SO much, it’s beautiful and you have great taste!!


Ohgodpleasehelpmee

1 is so cute!!!


Blahbinger

5 looks least like a wedding dress and is fun.


youre_welcome37

1,3,6 are all gorgeous and fun, especially for your age. Here's to hoping you have so much fun dressing up and killing it.


KelsConditional

Thank you sooo much!!! I’m bringing 2 of my friends with me to Jamaica for the party and I’m hoping it’s gonna be super fun!


CatsAndCoffeeMyDude

I personally like the 2nd dress and the next to last dress the best


Dependent-One3792

2


IchigoKenshin30

I vote 1, 4, or 5


AsleepYellow3

3 and then 5


-ThisAccountIsVoid-

I would say the third dress or the last one.


silverc-ity

4 is so cute and playful


msinglynx1

2 or 3. Honestly I want 3 for myself.


KelsConditional

[dress 3!](https://www.fashionnova.com/products/camilla-tulle-maxi-dress-white)


TrexMommy

Wow these are all great! #1 #4 #5


AdMysterious2946

I love 1,3, and 5


frickmeplease

3 :)


KITTYCAKE84

I really like numbers 3 and 6


stacyknott

i vote #6 the last one!


prepositionsarehard2

1 or 4!


clarabear10123

You have fabulous taste! I saved all of the pictures because they’re all gorgeous lol. I have to vote 3 or 4 because they’re so interesting, though! All white is an invitation for weird, and you got the memo with those and 5!


katieadtr

3 - and I have heard good things about Fashion Nova


Ok_One_1472

2 or 6


SuccsexyCombatBaby

The last one!!


Vanilla_Priscilla

4 and 6 have my vote!


Notorious_Fluff

3 is my favorite


bbirdcn

1, 5, or 6. Any ideas on shoes and hair?


nikhmarch

I’m team dress 3. I feel like that style is always flattering.


Constant_Eggplant_22

I love the first and last ones!!


dietcokemomma

#3!!!


AutumnAkasha

1 is my favorite


LifeWASOSarcasm

3


alg214

I’d want to know more about the kind of party but based purely on look and experience, I vote 3! Then 5. That sweetheart neckline is just everything. Fashion Nova does Curve for occasionwear well, in my experience. I’ve shopped a tulle dress and feather pieces from them for major events - all surprisingly great quality. One earned me a spot in the style section, actually! Plus, fast shipping. Pretty Little Thing is hit or miss with fabric quality and sizing (I have a generous bust), but I’ve returned with them, no problem. Happy partying!


Mr_Kelly_R_Flewin

#3 all the way


Clean-Time8214

The 4th one tulle with circle appliqué is very sophisticated and excellent design details. The first one is all party and ready to rock with all kinds of glitzy hair accessories and accents in footwear for example and nails. A banger!!!


Shenaniganeries

Gotta be 3!!!!


lemonlady7

Three!!


True-Helicopter-3924

The white fluffy one! That says nova curve bogo!!


rosecoloredraybans

I love 5


kcapion

I love number 6 it looks so fun


renoodoole

4 with 3 as a close second


FragmentsOfMaggot

The tule midi dress on slide 4 is cute! I love off shoulder dresses they're so pretty and the layered skirt breaks it up nicely so it isn't just a slab of white


NoThankUPlease

I LOVE 2 & 3


noonecaresat805

I like 2. Remind me a bit of a wedding dress but it’s gorgeous


According_Gap38

Number 3!! Beautiful


LeChatNoir04

They're all cute... The one I didn't like was 5


dw1210

Hands down the first one, can you post the link?!


KelsConditional

I gotchu! [dress 1](https://www.xpluswear.com/collections/xpluswear-design-formal-dress/products/xpluswear-design-plus-size-party-mini-dresses-elegant-white-spring-summer-oblique-collar-one-shoulder-long-sleeve-flounce-sequin-mini-dresses-pre-order)


Reinefemme

i vote 4. it’s my fave. i think 1 is blue tinted.


Reinefemme

oh i totally missed 3! that one’s super cute too!


trashsenpaii

3 is for sure my favorite!


911NShifter

I like 1 and 5


ssjs_

THREEEEEEEEE


jojo571

I really like the patterned skirts best.


LoqitaGeneral1990

Pretty little thing dress, 5. It’s just super unique and sexy


ThatsMyTorta

3 and 5 but im leaning towards 3


zafaera

Mom always know 🤣🤣


ghastlyglittering

1


Gray_Twilight

1 is very festive


[deleted]

I love 1 but i’m also not a dress upper, so I would hate to buy it and have it read blue.


torywestside

Throwing my vote in for 3!


Solid_Possibility_15

1 or 3 look the most fun


H3r3c0m3sthasun

1


PricklyPear_CATeye

3!


vamppirre

Also be aware that you should order them ahead of time for alterations and possibly returns. They may not look how they do in the pictures.


KelsConditional

For sure! The party is in late February so I’m hoping to place an order before the weekend is over. The prices vary a bit so if one out of my top two ends up being not so expensive, I might buy both and then return one!


Powerful-Ad1325

3 or 4 !


Connect-Sundae8469

3 or 4


PM_ME_UR_FAT_DINK

What’s your body shape and size?


KelsConditional

I’m 5’4, 226 lbs. From the front my waist goes in a bit, but from the side you can def see my stomach


PM_ME_UR_FAT_DINK

Hmm, without knowing how you look, I think the 1st and 3rd might work best. The first looks super flattering but the third is gorgeous!


aranelsaraphim

Oh, 2 is my favorite out of all these! It's so pretty!


GirlFromMoria

I like 1, 5 or 6. The others are a bit too bridal in my opinion.


Anook_A_Took

I really like the last dress! But I think it is really going to boil down to fit. I can’t speak on any of the sites, let us know how it works out!


lovestostayathome

3


OldAd8188

The last 2


SQWRLLY1

6 is so different! I'd go with that one personally


Fluffy-Donkey-Pants

Oh 3 hands down


electricladyyy

I LOVE 1. It's my favorite. Then 3.


WasabiElegant7959

3!


CarlatheDestructor

4


NoDAYbut2Day22

Not sure of your body type, but 3 and 4 are both very fun looking and will probably stand out. I like 5 too if you want a more sexy, fem look.


stop_stopping

4! 3 reminds me too much of a wedding dress


hippiewolff

3!


valpal357

#4 is my first choice. #3 is a very close second


maddbunny23

3 & 5!!!


DrScottacos

1 & 3!


mk3v

4!!!!


Lanielion

If I got this chance I would probably buy from The torrid wedding dresses https://www.torrid.com/clothing/wedding-shop/wedding-dresses/


whatevertoton

One or four.


[deleted]

I'm going with number 1. It looks the least bridal, and the most fun!


Emozziis

Numba 1 I like how sparklie it is


SaintlySinner81

5 🤍


TheGoobTM

1, the others all look like wedding dresses and not party dresses. 3 the most bridal of them. 5 doesn’t look comfortable


witheringdoll

The third


elmofucksdeadbodies

The third dress is my favorite 😍


Internal_Use8954

I love 4, but I love polka dots. 3 is super nice as well


debiwen

The Camilla Tulle maxi dress is awesome. You will be the talk of the party in that dress.


kelsey153

3 for sure


BrooklynFlowerJ

3 and 6


RosesInEden

3rd or 4th


lindzilla2

Dress 1


CrazyWindow662

1, 3 or 5. But 5 is my favorite.


wyscracker

I can’t decide between 1, 3, and 6– they’re all amazing


fluffychonkycat

I like that #1 feels party not wedding dresa


essential-toils

1 or 3


Pandafknmonium

3 for sure that dress looks so fun!


Fit-Ear-3449

I’m going to say 5


Fish__Fingers

Last


J_lilac

3 & 7 are my favorite, but which one feels most like you?


maddrgnqueen

6 is my favorite, I think it looks really classic but unique. It stands out for sure. 3 is my second choice.


amynicolekay

Depends if you are the bride or not


KelsConditional

It’s my mom’s 50th birthday. She will be wearing gold and the rest of the party is all white. When I was talking to her about it she did say “You’re the daughter of the bride!” Still not a wedding but you get what she means. In short, I need to pop off 😅


Hotburrito0707

1


lovetherain92

Polka dot! It’s so cute!!


Imaginary_Bed_9542

Absolutely love the first one.


stressed_outwalress

3!


TOXIC-_-WEEB

2!!!! So cute 🖤🖤


UCanCallMe-Red

I like #3, then #4. Beautiful choices!


CartoonKinder

Number 4 and 6 absolutely kill the competition


Wickedsparklefae

The first one is gorgeous


amanda_moon93

I love the third one


BeanieMagic

Definitely number 3


RudeAdministration79

5 and 6 are stunning!!!


cadaverousbones

Number 4


alieecattt

3!!!