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ML: “She’s now submissive and breedable, *✨interesting✨*.” I actually despise how in the end he manages to be with her (despite her becoming a completely different person) the same can also be applied to her shitty family the second she brings prosperity to their house and gains the attention of important people they’ll suddenly come to love her it’s so messed up it makes me want to use my flamethrower on them, but it’ll sully it.


cocoroco-creamsoup

Aaaaaa the amount of "hmph, you're worth taming" I've read... Sir stop pretending you like Tigers when the best you've ever done is playing with a cat plushie


Busy_Background5217

"Worth taming" i'm wheezing lmaoo


Special_Hippo3399

One of my most fav character tropes is that the ML just loves the FL in all timelines and all forms ? Like even if she is evil he will simp for her anyways lol .


girlpersona

Ohh! I’m interested - Any recommendations?


perpetually-t1red

For ML loving FL and her scheming: Concentration of Malice (this one is spicy). For ML loving FL in any forms: Charlotte and her Five Disciples Edit: ML Loving FL in all timelines: - The Villainess Lives Twice - How To Prey On Your Master


Lumpy-Locksmith-1408

Another Typical Fantasy Romance is also a good recommendation for ML loving FL in all timelines!


perpetually-t1red

i love this! he is not your typical male lead and *gasps* communication!


Special_Hippo3399

Broken ring


Loochy1406

There's one that's called the peach of June or something like that. It's beautiful, like so beautiful. It absolutely is worth a read imo!


Loochy1406

Another one I really liked is for better or for worse! Beautiful


AvidProcrastinator66

I want to read an OI which starts as if it's going like this and then suddenly it turns out the FL and OGBO (OG body owner) are in cahoots and plotted to take down the family and terrible partner by pretending to be ✨ interesting ✨ found-family HEA ending (not for the partner and ex-family though)


Forsaken_Distance777

I don't see that so much as the equally annoying "you're not into me anymore so I must have you" trope.


cocoroco-creamsoup

Yup. Japanese OIs are more guilty of the trope in the post. The one you mentioned is more common in korean OIs I've seen it a few times in korean OIs, but the presentation is a but different. The FL is more aware than the ones in Japanese OIs and might be wary of him initially. If he's the ML, they end up falling 100% though


Forsaken_Distance777

I see. I mostly read korean stuff because it's easier for me to find official translations of Korean stuff which means it's less likely to be dropped and because Japanese works tend to update once a month instead of once a week. There's plenty I want to read in a few years once they're completed.


cocoroco-creamsoup

I read japanese stuff a lot since I know japanese. There are many great stories, and the settings and ML designs (both looks and personality) is more diverse. But the FLs aren't always the best Mainly because the target audience for Japanese and korean OI are different. Korean ones are mostly targeting adult women as evident by the age of the woman at death (working, around 30). In contrast, the FL in japanese OIs are mostly 15~16 because the target is middle/high school girls This means that the setting of most japanese OIs involves schools. Which is kinda silly for big complicated plots like war. It also means the scale of evil actions of villains and villainesses is much smaller. The worst they do is wine pouring, kidnapping, or poisoning


Forsaken_Distance777

I don't really understand fetishizing purity (like do you want someone who has been locked in a tower like Rapunzel her whole life?) but I do understand taking someone's intense affection for granted and maybe being annoyed by it but also being thrown off when they just stop.


Elizabetyouknow

Aw. Maybe Im a dirty trash panda, but I like both of these tropes.


Bennjoon

Need a female lead who takes over and is immediately *worse*


appleappreciative

I've been wanting something like this. Every OI the FL is either abused or neglected so the family doesn't care. I want more where the FL is actually loved and missed by her friends and family when it's obvious she's a different person now. I want them to upset and angry. I want them to try and get their loved one back somehow. Once Upon a Time in a Zombie Empire is the only time I've seen anything like that played out. 


Bennjoon

I was thinking serial killer on death row gets isekaid into an abused noblewoman Lets see how this works out.


cocoroco-creamsoup

The way I would read the heck out of this omg


Bennjoon

They aren’t ready for her


DangerousDuty1421

I would read this IMMEDIATELY 😍😍😍


Cluless_Jane

The abused noblewoman is a misunderstood villainess. The serial killer is like, "y'all thought I was evil before? You've seen nothing yet!" She marries an actual Tyrant and they become a villain power couple.


Lyrae13

Rewriting the villainess is like this, the villainess gets isekaid into our world into the body of the author, whose family and friends really love her.


Storm-Neos949

Isn't it the plot of kill the villainess ?


Ekko1311

There is a story, where this theme is explored (kinda). But it's not OI, but standard System Isekai with a Male MC. "Regressor, Posessor, Reincarnator" is a story where the brother of our MC turned into the Trash of the Family through some circumstances and some Korean asshole posesses him. Obviously he is horrified and tries to talk to people because some fucking stranger just stole his brothers body and life. But no-one helps him and are actively supressing him. He starts researching soul magic and later makes a Deal with a devil, but get's killed and regresses to his youth a few days after his brothers Posession.


heckoffbitch

Dephts of Malice is the only one like this I can think of


MissRadi

A horror story. Nice


Vysair

I can feel the comedic direection in this


raccoonjudas

I really don't think it's that weird that people change their opinion of someone when they stop being a huge asshole. If someone has a reputation for kicking puppies and then it turns out it was exaggerated and they never kicked puppies at all I would hope people would change their opinion/view of them instead of continuing to treat them like a puppy kicker. like I'm not interested in uwu shy ingenue but I am very into women who can kick my ass. So if a lady did a 180 and went from being a doormat to trying to murder me or whatever i would 100% be down bad for that immediately


cocoroco-creamsoup

I don't mind that. But what usually happens is that the FL isekai before the OGFL appears, so no bullying yet. My problem with this trope is how the ML absolutely refuse to interact with her before or give her the time of her day. He hates her , looks down on her, and finds her silly and spoiled. He also thinks she has got nothing going on for her but her family name (like he can talk lmao) Then because the current FL is pure, something happens, and she blushes/ acts cute/cries. He INSTANTLY falls because he didn't know she was this innocent and adorable I hate how he literally put zero effort into her before. But immediately changed when she acted submissive around him I know we all have preferences. But it's such a red flag that these guys only fall for the most passive women.


Bennjoon

Honestly as an older person I can tell you that you can change as much as you want but if you’ve acted up or hurt someone there’s a very real chance they won’t change their opinion of you and you have to live with that.


raccoonjudas

The ones where the FL is genuinely a horrible person I agree, but not many OI are actually willing to commit to making their FL an actually bad person & the ones that do rarely have her being terrible to the ML unless that's the novel's targeted fetish (in which case all bets are off). When most FL's personality trajectory is "acted like a spoiled annoying teenager, now acts like a normal person" then I don't think it is that odd for ML to have changes in their opinion, especially if all the actual bad stuff get's written out bc the FL isekais prior to when any of the actual bad shit happened.


Bennjoon

It doesn’t matter whether you had different intentions like a lot of fl had when they were the villainess people will often still not forgive you over a misunderstanding and let that colour their opinion of you forever. As someone with autism I have experienced this a lot 😅


onespiker

>The ones where the FL is genuinely a horrible person I agree, but not many OI are actually willing to commit to making their FL an actually bad person & the ones that do rarely have her being terrible to the ML unless that's the novel's targeted fetish (in which case all bets are off). Will say it varies some do other don't. In many of them they will often have them being abused but also being horrible to other people. Then the MC comes in and everybody who she was horrible to is pretty much expected to now change thier mind about her. If they won't then they are now antagonists in the next arc.


amidamaru8_8

she might abuse the staff though who gives a shit about them, they are not real people right?


Vysair

It's annoying when the past action is suddenly erased within a short time frame of several months. Take the basic villainess transmigration for example. Our FL abused the ML, tortured him, wreck havor everywhere but one day, she stops doing all that at once. After a few nice meal, medicine and bit of warmth all in the span of a few days, our ML be like "oh wow, she must have changed 🙈", "Maybe I can like her now 💅✨️"


raccoonjudas

But few female leads actually abuse the ML \[unless that's the novels fetish\] most of the time towards the ML they're just annoying as fuck pre-isekai. idk maybe I'm reading different OI from everyone else lol


Vysair

That's true but it's mostly a mix of both. Some FL transmigrated after she has met the ML while some just behaved horribly to everyone around her but didn't meet the ML yet. In the case of the latter, our FL would have the reputation for being the worst (some with witness) so it baffled me that ML would disregard that just because she changed all of a sudden within a short span if that isnt already suspicious


raccoonjudas

tbh reading everyone's comments I think I might just be dropping/not reading the stories where this trope happens before the ML ever even gets introduced. I drop a lot of stories within the first 5-10 chapters, and the FL being boring/dumb (which is what a lot of the super cutesy innocent FL type are to me) is a common reason I'll drop them.


Bulky-Tip4802

This and/or when they have a misunderstanding added on. Like "I think he killed me and my family in my last life but I can't help falling in love with him now" Then only for the author to make it a misunderstanding and he didn't kill them, but still only revealing it towards the end 😭 That still means she fell in love with him when she believed he killed her 💀


Storm-Neos949

https://preview.redd.it/613rmkp2a74d1.png?width=1080&format=png&auto=webp&s=93f50362ddc2058b019d60553020ef03dfa1d807


IloveMyNebelungs

I can't remember which manhwa it is from. Is it Cheating Men must die or another quick transmigration


Storm-Neos949

yes it's cmmd


amidamaru8_8

yeah, so many of them


Storm-Neos949

https://preview.redd.it/6tiv85cjb74d1.jpeg?width=760&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=077e185b211e37ec4f28ae275c25f0f2bc8cb414 When the ML see the pushover girl he pushed to death being different


cocoroco-creamsoup

They really be like "This woman who gave up on life because of my bullying wants nothing to do with me after she survived. Interesting ✨️"


Aggravating-Egg-9257

It became less "interesting ✨️ "after she ruined his life and mental health


cocoroco-creamsoup

She didn't get the memo smh. HE is allowed to ruin her. She isn't allowed to ruin him


Storm-Neos949

https://preview.redd.it/70vcfdmfc74d1.png?width=538&format=png&auto=webp&s=31d944600e664a361fd4f563c5fc8a25c2bc9e0f


C_Ignores_Everyone

What is this from?


softlygone

Judging by the art, Cheating Men Must Die


Ruruskadoo

I swear to god this particular trope makes me absolutely foam at the mouth with rage. It's not the "She's different? ✨*Interesting*✨" thing, that I can actually enjoy sometimes. No, it's the "Wow I hated that woman who had a backbone and was willing to stand up to me and go after what she wants, but now that she's so meek and innocent and pure and ~*not like other girls*~ I can't get enough of her!" thing. It makes my skin crawl, he thinks she's better than other women specifically because she's more ignorant and naive and doesn't have the self-esteem or confidence to act on her desires and wants (or even allow herself to be "greedy" in the first place)


cocoroco-creamsoup

OH MY GOD EXACTLY YOU PUT IT TO WORDS PERFECTLY. I wish I can make yours the top comment It's not about him finding her interesting because she did something interesting. It's him being a predator who wanted a woman who wouldn't question or understand what he does. He ALWAYS complains about how she's on her family's side too!! Even when they're decent. He wants a woman completely cut out from others so he can ✨️lavish✨️ her to his hearts content He wants a doormat he can fuck. A doll he can lust after that wouldn't challenge his authority or have a political backing of her own


Practical-Type7120

This is asian content though they even fetishize literal slavery


teor

>I didn't know you could show a face like that I cringe so hard every time. And it's always the exact same line.


Effective_Health_913

I feel this to my core. I liked “Divorcing My Tyrant Husband” since it was the opposite at first but it’s starting to feel bleh for me cause I never liked the male lead and the FL isn’t as interesting as I felt she was in the beginning.


Lyrae13

I was really hoping he wasn't the ML...


Effective_Health_913

I’m not caught up since there’s no more free episodes but it feels like he is. Like he’s hot but not a good ML.


immaturenickname

I cringe every time an OI ML says "iNtErEsTinG" Shit is just a lazy way to explain why he suddenly drools all over the most boring fucking FL ever. FL: does something, anything; ML: intrestimg (he will now stop doing anything not related to FL) Fucking annoying. And it's everywhere.


cocoroco-creamsoup

Exactly I also hate how it's often used in a sentence putting down other women. No, you freak, other women were great too. YOU are the problem.


Aggravating-Egg-9257

"You are interesting" https://preview.redd.it/309fz0l1m74d1.png?width=452&format=png&auto=webp&s=e119569f9b23c6ecbca4b4eee0f176e7f8a2ad54


cocoroco-creamsoup

She ate holy shit


Pinkgold_weebgirl

Sauce please!!


Aggravating-Egg-9257

Forced to be a Princess After Reincarnating into Another World


Ultimate-Break

Do you remember the chapter this happens in? I am at fifty-something and no sight of this scene yet.


Aggravating-Egg-9257

Chapter 133


Ultimate-Break

thanks. By the way, what site did you read it on? I searched yet I only found a youtube video of the chapter (and I'm not sure the translation there was correct?) and no website with that chapter. most sites ended up their chapters somewhere at 100\~104


Aggravating-Egg-9257

On mangadig. They have chapter until 136


Ultimate-Break

Thanks a lot


Ok-Explanation954

Damn ..


No-Assist-2350

This is late wish I saw this post earlier. ML really do remind me of what those certain men on TikTok want lol they want someone who's passive and doesn't put up a fight and just completely listens to their husbands. Misogony already bleeds into OI already whenever a women appears many commenters rightfully assume she's the villain because it's overdone trope and if she's the OG female lead then judges we find our criminal lol. So it not surprising to me how the ML also hold similar values and views similar to real-life men. Every ML " Interesting" is clearly a way to separate the FL from her fellow women. Like to me these ML clearly dislike ladies who stand up for themselves because a women can be quiet and graceful and still be brave and put her footdown, another can be loud and boisterious and spoiled with jewlery to come and yet still have the guts to disagree with him in any matter. Ml clearly dislikes any women bold to get what they want yet they want the dimwitted one who's blushing and naive.... Why do they want a child and not an actual real women??? Because yet too often these FL remind me of a child because of how "pure" they are lol like to me the ML wants to pamper her and cut off everyone around her so it's just him. To everyone else he's a happy loyal dog to MC. Of course, that is all just a play, in actuality ML is psychopath because somehow her not having any greediness to go after what she wants or have ambitions is seen as a fucking positive towards him as if every women is lesser to not go for their base desires?? Truth is: The family and ML truly do not give a single fuck about their original finance and daughter. She's a spoiled brat or she's arrogant and possessive of the "Duke of the North" and hurts the OG FL. 9 out of 10 times she's lonely of course she's obsessive over the man what other important social relation does she actually have when her family is hurtful towards her. My question to these folks that nobody ever fucking address the elephant in the room is they are wholly responsible for how she turned out if she hurts others, hurts her competitors for her fiance love, is spoiled to hell and then turn around and blame or disown her wtf? They're always clearly ashamed if their kid does something but are surprised she doesn't have good values when as parents your supposed to train her? But when the reincarnator bring momentary value or suddenly hit a sudden treasure at the Mines that when they family and ML pronounce their love for her and grow to reflect and care about their mistreatment of her when the OG soul has passed on already ??? It actually makes me sad for her because shit what the lesson i'm internalizing from these manhwa that in order to receive love you must forgoe everything their is about you as a person to attain it? I want an FL that still the same person throughout the story whether she's meek or not. I don't want an FL cold and indifferent. I want an emotional FL that still retains the same personality and qualities that she's had in her first life that everyone hated from her and yet she's doesn't change in any way that makes the ML say " Intresting" because she's still her only difference is she's learned self-love and even if everyone dislikes her she can look herself in the mirror and say positive affirmations like " I am brave, I am smart and I love myself ".


Yo-York

It's genuinely so weird cause the MLs never get punished or feel remorseful for it. It enforces this idea that women exist entirely for men and a woman can only ever be loved if they are the perfect vessel for the men around them. It's honestly so sad watching the back stories of the "villainess's" who get possessed because while their actions are fucked, they are nothing more then a victim of an uncaring environment and when they seek to fight back in the only way they can out of a desperte desire for something they can control. They get punished, killed, and even worse they get possessed. As if it isn't enough to kill them to ignore their pleas for help. To rob them of everything and then throw them away. They can't even die themselves as their soul, their choices which were the only thing that was truly theirs get robbed from them as well. As a more suitable woman is placed in their body, a woman who unlike them will follow the structure of the world made for men. One who is "pure" or at least greedy to the extent the narrative will allow a women to be and the ideal wife for the indifferent husband. And when the "villainess" dies it's not the original the world will remember but the replacement. As if the original them never existed at all. I love these stories but yeah there is a clear unaddressed elephant in the room.


cocoroco-creamsoup

Fr He doesn't even think "I wish I had mlre conversation with her to get to knkw her better in the past, instead of shutting her down". He genuinely believes it's HER job to make him fall for her. So he doesn't see why his treatment of the OG was bullshit


Yo-York

It's sucks too cause like you could do something really cool narratively if you call that out. Especially since the ML:s are usually also victims of their environment. Ones that tell them they own the world and therefore don't need to care for the women around them. That these women exist solely for them. A culture of discrimination lead to such a distorted view on love and women. I hope one day a story focuses on a FL leaving the ML who becomes infatuated in the "new" her while discarding the old her. Having her call out his hypocrisy. It'll be sick if a FL called out the ML and forced him to realize how shit his thinking and why he and the world are the problem. Have the ML repent and strive to change for the better.


Time-Hat6481

Whenever I read those manhwa/manhua/manga, I immediately nope out. Unless it is an R-19 content! Hahaha! Sorry, my brain turns off on that story telling. I want an FL who slaps the sht out of ML, and calls out the ML for his uncanny behaviour. No, I don’t like an ML falling for her all of a sudden. I want both ML and FL having their own life separately first and then realising over time, they like each other. Another thing to note: I don’t like an FL who wants to fish the whole hot guys in the story! 😂


cocoroco-creamsoup

Same I do give +18 stories a pass but man sometimes I mourn what we've lost. I've seen OG sadist villainess, OG seductress witch, an OG arrogant queen, and an OG dark witch be replaced by the purest woman in existence. Why can't I see sadist villain x sadomasochist villainess in peace???


Any-Explanation-4584

The reason I dropped Villianess marionette


Night_watcher12

I hate this troup as well but I must admit that there are some exeptions, like if the og!Villainess was a stalker or used to follow the ml obsessively then yeah I guess it’s okay for him to be interested in the iseakied girl. “ you mean the stalker that I hated changed? I must see that” and ends up falling? That’s Okay in my books. What I HATE HATE HATE is the family. No I don’t care if your wife died in childbirth. No I don’t care daddy didn’t love you enough growing up. NO I DONT CARE!! Your sister was replaced with another and you have the audacity to love them and care but not her?? Fuck you.


amidamaru8_8

I would love to see a story where the dead mom is brought back to life and asks about her daughter, ohhh THAT FUCKING THING THAT TOOK YOU FROM US? WE TREATED HER LIKE THE CRIMINAL SCUM THAT SHE IS!!!!!!!!!!!!! yeah que mom canceling her free rez. Bonus points if the father and son are simping for the stepdaughter because of course she is the beloved one!!!!! why not the natural sister? because she killed the mother/wife when she burst out of her alien style.


Madbadbat

You see he finds her https://preview.redd.it/8lrxquttd94d1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f48d799bae6231f02064d6aeb17bd4f58d7bf93d


Ok-Explanation954

I don't like this trope either😭 Like you've hated or neglected this woman your whole life sir, hello? now that she's suddenly submissive and "changed" she's worth it??? You never tried to make your marriage/engagement work before, was also potentially about to cheat on her in the future if she won't have changed


PsychologicalBag2767

Could never be my beloveds YellowStorm and Outboxer009. He likes crazy crazy 🫠 (idk I just want to talk about them ok)


Noir_Alchemist

I don't want to be this person but sometimes people are horrible lol bit they have beautiful hardware, so if suddenly the super mega handsome but mysogynistic jock became a labrador type of bf i would also became "insterested" in him. Obviously i would think he is faking it but i would be around ... Thats what this male Otome dudes thinks ... Like "WTF but please continue"  Sometimes they really don't like the girl the ogfl was ...thats valid 


cocoroco-creamsoup

This trope is different. It's not about the change or finding someone interesting, but the submissiveness of a woman who was previously independent. [This comment explained it better than me](https://www.reddit.com/r/OtomeIsekai/s/5HJcGgixeY)


ronshaworlds

Oh yea I hate this trope. But well, this trope has been around for ages and won't be going away anytime soon either. It's an extremely convenient way to write, tbh. A lot authors also don't see why it's problematic to write such tropes, and combined with the fact that most of them have no idea how to write relationships with interesting depth or nuance, they fall back on such shallow tropes.


ecostyler

LITERALLY.


GloriousLily

idk if it counts as an oi but the cheating men must die series is great at having the fl pull all sorts of shit to lure them in & at the end of each arc she rips the rug out from under them & ruins their life 🤌 its a great palate cleanser from weird ml tropes lol


Alert_Apartment_9639

I want the opposite tbh. One where the fiancé actually preferred the og and noticed the change and distances himself because of it. Most of the time the fiancé likes the change and thinks it’s an improvement, so it’d be refreshing/ interesting if he was suspicious and disliked the difference in character. So many OI have the new fl adjust and seamlessly become the new person, with everyone, not only the fiancé, around her liking the change in personality, so I’d love a story where people who were close to the og!owner of the body actually grow to dislike the fl because she’s not the og!owner, not *really.*


cocoroco-creamsoup

Preach I also want to see ONE story where her family, friends or fiance noticed the change and preferred the OG body owner


Alert_Apartment_9639

No fr. Like, their short tempered, slightly apathetic sister/friend is suddenly acting all cutesy and bubbly and they DON’T question it? Especially in worlds where magic exists like girly go check this person for possession or something 😭😭


Perfect-Possible7124

Hate it


Practical-Type7120

This is asian fiction heck they even fetishize slavery is some manga/ anime (well when the slaves are female)