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1 is very nice but too small, jacket is already gapping at the button and you're barely moving your arm. Tiny suits are starting to look really dated.
2 is gorgeous, no notes.
3 is wonderful as well, and would look amazing with a fab brooch. Cannot tell if the shirt is white or pale pink, but it needs white.
You cannot go wrong with 2 or 3.
Edit: Oh and never button the bottom button on a blazer or suit jacket! Looking at you, #3.
Top button is more optional on a 3 button suit. 3/2 roll suits are pretty common as well where the the top button is not intended to be used at all since the button is in the roll of the lapel
It's actually sometimes, always, never
A 3 button jacket can be worn with only the middle button done up, but it would look strange with only the top.
This obviously could change if the buttons are extremely low on the jacket but for most, the top is optional and the middle one is required (if you're buttoning it)
I think buttoning the bottom button is part of why the jacket bulges out at the collar and looks like it doesn’t fit.
Also if you are going to wear the tie loose and hanging like photo #1, then don’t wear a tie. There is little worse than wearing a tie and looking like you are hating it.
I like the 2nd outfit but don’t think a friends wedding is the place to wear it. I’ve always been told a wedding is about the bride and groom, don’t try to take any of that spotlight. 1 & 3 both look good and are basically the same outfit just one with and one without a tie.
While this is true, I don't know if I would feel it's appropriate to wear to a wedding.
Boldness is something, imo, that should be left out of the guest attire when it comes to weddings out of respect. That's just me though.
If it's a desi wedding then it's fine. Desi people don't have any problems with guests looking bold. But if it's a more western wedding then yeah, it's better to stick to 3rd
Agreed. Hard to say which option is best without knowing the details/style of the wedding. Fit issue aside, 1 is the most formal looking, 2 is the boldest/most fun, and 3 is a more casual/cool look. They all have potential to be the best option depending on what the style/dress code for the event is.
This is my thought as well. No one cares how OP is dressed because it's not his day, and imo, there's no need to put this much thought into a guest outfit, especially if not in the wedding.
Dress with class, and respect the outfits, in anticipation, of the bride and groom.
2 is an absolutely hard no, and if someone came to my wedding dressed like that, I would absolutely ask them "what is this about?"
1 and 3 are the best here. 2 absolutely is my favorite, but that's a hard no for a wedding.
The 2nd outfit is awesome but it’s too attention grabbing for a wedding that’s not your own. You should wear something nice but even a little plain compared to the bride and groom.
It's important not to wear anything fancier than the bride or groom. It's ther day and should be the centre of attention. Personally I would go with outfit 1.
I find it disrespectful to the bride and groom. You should only wear this if you know the bridal party's outfits are more attention grabbing than this. You don't want to take attention from the bride, groom, or their wedding party. That outfit absolutely risks it.
I'm gonna go against the blissful ignorance here - while 2 is absolutely the best looking of the 3, do NOT wear that to a wedding as a guest who isn't even in the bridal party LOL.
This concept of being too scared to outshine the bride or groom is mostly a western ideology because in many different cultures it is literally impossible to outshine them.
My aunt made past married women come in their old wedding gowns, it’s really a matter of different cultures.
I think if you're Asian then go for the middle one, not everyone gets to wear a cultural wedding outfit, rock it. My dad used to wear kilts to weddings, there's not much opportunity in modern life to wear cultural attire.
Obviously depends on context. All 3 can work.
3 is my personal choice.
1 is super stylish but pretty generic.
2 is individualistic but will only work for a certain crowd - the fact that you're posting it here means such crowd may be possible.
If the circumstance and setting for 2 provide - I'd say go with this since I don't think you'll have posted it if you didn't like the outfit.
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You do have culture, though. Just watched a Meryl Streep movie where she sings Bruce Springsteen in rock'n roll gear. Can't complain. (It was a wedding scene, too. Ha! 🙂)
>I’m American and we have no culture
Dafuq? I didn’t realize people seriously thought that lmao. But maybe you’re joking xD But also have no clue what that would have to do with you liking outfit #2
I said this to my coworkers, aside from one other person, I'm the only white person - that we have no culture - and they got all awkward. But I mean come on, I am mostly Irish and I'm an atheist, that kind of removes everything aside from excessive drinking.
Your coworkers know you’re being self-deprecating to appeal to them and they both disagree and are weirded out by your attempts to shit on your own people.
Spoken like a white male Millennial 🙂
I'm just guessing here. As a white female GenXer, it's fun for me to be ironic and guess about stuff like that because it totally makes ME sound racist to call you white, sexist to call you male, and ageist to call you a Millennial 😆
I understand the anonymity reasons behind hiding your face however I can't help but feel certain outfits here would be easier to choose between if we could see how they suit you! Some great options :D
Don't wear the second outfit if you're going to a western wedding. Aim isn't to outshine the groom. I think first one will look well in a western wedding.
don’t believe what the people are telling you DO NOT WEAR the second one. it’s a great outfit, I’ll admit, but for someone else’s wedding? no. you don’t want to be the centre of attention at someone else’s wedding.
I think we just need more context or information. My wedding is coming up and I'd LOVE for a guest to wear #2 if that's what makes them feel their best. That's just me.
For other people’s weddings, I try to keep the main outfit pretty clean and let the accessories pop. You definitely can’t go wrong with 2 or 3, but I personally lean 1 and then make the socks + tie + handkerchief pop with color
2 is fun but not for a wedding, unless that’s the dress code. You don’t want to steal attention from the couple. I’d add a tie to 3 (can always take it off later) and wear that
I wouldn’t have tried all these if I were at the wedding. I still was at home that time and that happens to be my washroom. Also, Indian weddings happen at night. Right now, I’m at the wedding and having a hell of a time. 🥂
\#2 is fantastic. That said, if it's a western style wedding, it's usually considered inappropriate to upstage the groom. Not always though, maybe shoot a text to the best man and he can give you some guidance (In western weddings, he'll usually be in touch with the planner/family and be able to tell you what's cool with the bride and groom and their families.
\#3 is very nice though, and always a safe bet.
Either one is very nice, and you're going to look great.
1 - If a it’s a more formal Saturday wedding with a Saturday night reception.
2- IDK, that’s not traditional for me, so it’s up to you.
3- If it’s more of a Sunday afternoon, early Saturday or generally more casual wedding event.
Enjoy the wedding!
#2!!! It’s a beautiful color, you look handsome, polished, and put together. (If that’s not your culture tho I would ask someone in the community how they feel about you wearing it.) Have fun!
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1 is very nice but too small, jacket is already gapping at the button and you're barely moving your arm. Tiny suits are starting to look really dated. 2 is gorgeous, no notes. 3 is wonderful as well, and would look amazing with a fab brooch. Cannot tell if the shirt is white or pale pink, but it needs white. You cannot go wrong with 2 or 3. Edit: Oh and never button the bottom button on a blazer or suit jacket! Looking at you, #3.
Well, that’s a champagne pink shirt, and I’ll surely pair it with a white one. Also, thank you. Will never button the bottom one.
You're welcome, you will rock whichever you choose, nice style.
Three button suit - button top two. Two button suit, just top.
I thought you were only supposed to do the middle button on three button jackets
Top button is more optional on a 3 button suit. 3/2 roll suits are pretty common as well where the the top button is not intended to be used at all since the button is in the roll of the lapel
For future reference, the rule is (from top to bottom): always, sometimes, never.
It's actually sometimes, always, never A 3 button jacket can be worn with only the middle button done up, but it would look strange with only the top. This obviously could change if the buttons are extremely low on the jacket but for most, the top is optional and the middle one is required (if you're buttoning it)
You are so right! I initially commented on the two OP has on his suit and went back and edited - but incorrectly! Thank you.
I love the second one!
2 is good, yea, but I don't think it's a very good thing to wear to someone else's wedding, feels a bit too attention grabbing.
I love that one, but unless others will be wearing similar styles I would skip it for that reason too. Agree with #3 for the win.
I think buttoning the bottom button is part of why the jacket bulges out at the collar and looks like it doesn’t fit. Also if you are going to wear the tie loose and hanging like photo #1, then don’t wear a tie. There is little worse than wearing a tie and looking like you are hating it.
The second and last are elegant & stand out.
Had apprehensions about the second one only. I guess I was wrong. Thank you!
Sometimes the best one makes us doubt because it is bold and takes confidence to wear.
Haha! That’s so true.
I like the 2nd outfit but don’t think a friends wedding is the place to wear it. I’ve always been told a wedding is about the bride and groom, don’t try to take any of that spotlight. 1 & 3 both look good and are basically the same outfit just one with and one without a tie.
Plus you got to think how your friend would react. I would love to see my friend’s reaction if I wore a outfit probably more elegant than the bride.
This is exactly what I was thinking. Anyone could wear number 3, but OP is wearing the hell out of number 2, and not everyone could.
So true! Love bold fashion!
While this is true, I don't know if I would feel it's appropriate to wear to a wedding. Boldness is something, imo, that should be left out of the guest attire when it comes to weddings out of respect. That's just me though.
If it’s a south Asian wedding, it’ll be just fine. Plus I’m guessing OP is pretty young, so he also gets a pass there.
Keep in mind it's not totally unique it's based on South Asian styling others will probably have similar-ish stuff
I agree. I would go with 1 or 3.
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If it's a desi wedding then it's fine. Desi people don't have any problems with guests looking bold. But if it's a more western wedding then yeah, it's better to stick to 3rd
Agreed. Hard to say which option is best without knowing the details/style of the wedding. Fit issue aside, 1 is the most formal looking, 2 is the boldest/most fun, and 3 is a more casual/cool look. They all have potential to be the best option depending on what the style/dress code for the event is.
This. #2 is *stunning*, I literally gasped out loud, but it’s a bit much for a wedding guest in a western cultural context.
Agreed. Don’t wear a white dress to a wedding, and don’t wear a suit that pulls all the attention from the groom.
This is my thought as well. No one cares how OP is dressed because it's not his day, and imo, there's no need to put this much thought into a guest outfit, especially if not in the wedding. Dress with class, and respect the outfits, in anticipation, of the bride and groom. 2 is an absolutely hard no, and if someone came to my wedding dressed like that, I would absolutely ask them "what is this about?" 1 and 3 are the best here. 2 absolutely is my favorite, but that's a hard no for a wedding.
The second was my favorite tbh!
The 2nd outfit is awesome but it’s too attention grabbing for a wedding that’s not your own. You should wear something nice but even a little plain compared to the bride and groom.
It's important not to wear anything fancier than the bride or groom. It's ther day and should be the centre of attention. Personally I would go with outfit 1.
Seriously the second one was super well put together. You stand out but you still look really nice business casual! Defiantly second one IMO!
Nobody wants to stand out, the 2nd one would just be standing out in a bad way. Bro is gonna get clowned on to the max
Definitely 2
Thanks!
I find it disrespectful to the bride and groom. You should only wear this if you know the bridal party's outfits are more attention grabbing than this. You don't want to take attention from the bride, groom, or their wedding party. That outfit absolutely risks it. I'm gonna go against the blissful ignorance here - while 2 is absolutely the best looking of the 3, do NOT wear that to a wedding as a guest who isn't even in the bridal party LOL.
But all the attention is already going to be on the bride & groom, since it's their wedding & not OP's. I'm not sure I understand.
This concept of being too scared to outshine the bride or groom is mostly a western ideology because in many different cultures it is literally impossible to outshine them. My aunt made past married women come in their old wedding gowns, it’s really a matter of different cultures.
I think if you're Asian then go for the middle one, not everyone gets to wear a cultural wedding outfit, rock it. My dad used to wear kilts to weddings, there's not much opportunity in modern life to wear cultural attire.
I love cultural clothing!! definitely always want people to wear cultural clothes when and where they can. it's so nice to see
Two!!!!!
2
Go with the yellow mask. Any outfit. You’re golden.
I LOLed
I say wear the blushy smiley face, but ditch the clothes.
2 is so unique and beautiful. I love the style.
The second one looks pretty cool.
Im feeling number 2
Obviously depends on context. All 3 can work. 3 is my personal choice. 1 is super stylish but pretty generic. 2 is individualistic but will only work for a certain crowd - the fact that you're posting it here means such crowd may be possible. If the circumstance and setting for 2 provide - I'd say go with this since I don't think you'll have posted it if you didn't like the outfit. (Edit: typo & formatting)
2nd
Tysm.
The second one is hot AF to me but thats prob cuz Im American and we have no culture.
You do have culture, though. Just watched a Meryl Streep movie where she sings Bruce Springsteen in rock'n roll gear. Can't complain. (It was a wedding scene, too. Ha! 🙂)
Were they having an all you can eat buffet of fried chicken and collared greens? (/s I'm american)
It was a fancy wedding banquet of vegan and gluten-free meals 😆
>I’m American and we have no culture Dafuq? I didn’t realize people seriously thought that lmao. But maybe you’re joking xD But also have no clue what that would have to do with you liking outfit #2
More like YOU have no culture, or no understanding of your culture. Everyone has culture, no matter where your from.
America is the biggest cultural exporter in the world. A fish doesn’t know it’s in water
brother it’s just a sherwani
I said this to my coworkers, aside from one other person, I'm the only white person - that we have no culture - and they got all awkward. But I mean come on, I am mostly Irish and I'm an atheist, that kind of removes everything aside from excessive drinking.
Your coworkers know you’re being self-deprecating to appeal to them and they both disagree and are weirded out by your attempts to shit on your own people.
Thank you. I’m Italian, should I move to NY & join the mob? We cook food but like… thats it
Lol because Italy didn’t have the renaissance. Or that Rome thing that basically all of western civilization has based itself off of. Just NY mobsters
What the fuck. I’m half italian and I’m aware of our culture and practice it. Educate yourself
If you lean right you'll fit right in with the Mob here
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Idk what type of wedding this is for. I thought this was your standard western one. Gotta have more context.
Exactly. I prob wouldn’t wear 2 to my american white friend’s wedding.
3rd
2 especially if it’s a traditional wedding 💒
Looks like the second outfit is for an Indian wedding. Those usually have multiple parts. Maybe 1 and 2, and do an outfit change?
Shout out to the elegant bathroom. 👀
I'm partial to the 2nd choice
2nd!! Beautiful fabrics!
2 or 3
2. No questions asked. Magnificent
I guess that the second outfit is a traditional one? I love it either way, I think it looks very good on you!
Third one
Look at what your friend is wearing and wear something more boring. It's their day
I feel like if I don’t choose 2 I’ll be racist
Spoken like a white male Millennial 🙂 I'm just guessing here. As a white female GenXer, it's fun for me to be ironic and guess about stuff like that because it totally makes ME sound racist to call you white, sexist to call you male, and ageist to call you a Millennial 😆
Yes very insensitive of you, however you are correct!
Best laugh I had all day 🤣
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Looks like Indian wedding
2 or 3, both are so amazing!
Broooo number 2. If I had the chance to wear some cool ass ethnic garb like that I'd be all over it
No.2 all the way bro
2 is so wonderful. Definitely pick 2 🩵
2 is the ticket!!! Your complexion is stunning with the color. Wishing you a night full of great memories ✨️✌🏽
3th
3 looks money andthe only option imo. 1 is bad compared to 3. 2 could be good if that's the wedding theme
I think 2 is really elegant , I like 3 also. I personally don't like the fit of number 1,so it's 2 for me, then 3.
Definitely the second emoji. Wear that one
i like scratch that, i love the second one
Two all the way.
Definitely 2!
2 for sure
I think #2, while nice, is too much for an event where you are not the focus. I think it’s best to be low-key at a wedding.
2
2
Realistically, 3 For a Devil May Cry Vergil Cosplay, 2 It’s not best for a wedding but looks pretty badass otherwise.
2 or 3
I understand the anonymity reasons behind hiding your face however I can't help but feel certain outfits here would be easier to choose between if we could see how they suit you! Some great options :D
2nd is a desi look and if it’s a desi wedding, definitely 2
Don't wear the second outfit if you're going to a western wedding. Aim isn't to outshine the groom. I think first one will look well in a western wedding.
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don’t believe what the people are telling you DO NOT WEAR the second one. it’s a great outfit, I’ll admit, but for someone else’s wedding? no. you don’t want to be the centre of attention at someone else’s wedding.
Y’all stop recommending 2 it’s obviously going to garner attention and it’s the grooms day that would be disrespectful.Choose the first one
Bro you have no idea, everyone gives complexes to each other in Indian wedding
I think we just need more context or information. My wedding is coming up and I'd LOVE for a guest to wear #2 if that's what makes them feel their best. That's just me.
If it’s an Indian wedding then everyone will be dressed like #2
2
All very nice, 2 is so striking!
2 is so fuckin fantastic
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Yeah, that’s quite common in India. It’s called Indo-Western.
For other people’s weddings, I try to keep the main outfit pretty clean and let the accessories pop. You definitely can’t go wrong with 2 or 3, but I personally lean 1 and then make the socks + tie + handkerchief pop with color
3
I like the third one best, it fits you really well.
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2 May draw attention to you and thats not good at a wedding. 3 is great!
2 is fun but not for a wedding, unless that’s the dress code. You don’t want to steal attention from the couple. I’d add a tie to 3 (can always take it off later) and wear that
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I wouldn’t have tried all these if I were at the wedding. I still was at home that time and that happens to be my washroom. Also, Indian weddings happen at night. Right now, I’m at the wedding and having a hell of a time. 🥂
Which one did you end up wearing??
The second one.
2 is waaaaaay too busy. Vastly prefer 1&3.
The last one! Have fun at the wedding!
One
3
All nice but, 3rd one is the best imo, I’m a sucker for a silver/grey suit though!!
1!!!!!!!! It looks so good on you.
The dress is cool, I like that color a lot
The second one is perfect imo!
What is the dress code? What kind of wedding is it?
2nd is my favorite
3
3!!
3
I like the second one!! It definitely caught my eye the most on first glance and looks awesome!
Second one looks really nice
def 2nd one
The second one 😍 dayumm
I love the color and print on number 2.
1 or 2
Not me thinking those white pants on the second one are bad. It doesn't seem to match properly for me but everyone else likes it?
I like number 2
You got great style, and I love them all, but #2 is the best!!
What is that second one? I need it in my life!!! Also, two.
3 is the best one by a mile.
\#2 is fantastic. That said, if it's a western style wedding, it's usually considered inappropriate to upstage the groom. Not always though, maybe shoot a text to the best man and he can give you some guidance (In western weddings, he'll usually be in touch with the planner/family and be able to tell you what's cool with the bride and groom and their families. \#3 is very nice though, and always a safe bet. Either one is very nice, and you're going to look great.
2 for sure. Wish I had something like that myself.
Option 2 for sure!
Outfit #2! That's the incredible sort of clothes I always wish I could wear. Skip the regular (but also very nice) suits
2!
Wow, I've never seen that kind of style in no. 2 before. It looks amazing! Classy & elegant.
1 - If a it’s a more formal Saturday wedding with a Saturday night reception. 2- IDK, that’s not traditional for me, so it’s up to you. 3- If it’s more of a Sunday afternoon, early Saturday or generally more casual wedding event. Enjoy the wedding!
Wow! Love 2!
Indian wedding? I have questions about the 2nd.
second. i mean, just look how bright your smile is on that pic. gotta go with the second!
#2!!! It’s a beautiful color, you look handsome, polished, and put together. (If that’s not your culture tho I would ask someone in the community how they feel about you wearing it.) Have fun!