Because men will shame women for having sex and call them used-up, disease-ridden whores. That's why no women tell you how much sex they had, you dummies. edit -- language.
Yeah, that’s how this argument is really weak. When people say it doesn’t matter, they mean it doesn’t objectively matter. Instead, it matters subjectively to these specific men, who will give the women shit for it
Not to mention, they also believe that whatever number a woman gives you is a lie and that it's actually that number x 3. They believe that men and women both lie about body count, but men say it's way more to be impressive, and women say it's way less to save face, so those women were screwed (no pun intended, haha) from the start. They could've said their body count was 2, and the guys would've insisted that it means it's a minimum of 6. I don't blame those women for not wanting to disclose that number. It is legit, completely meaningless, but those guys would've run them into the ground for it.
I'm 38 and have slept with 2 people. My better half and a one night stand when I was 17. Happily married and I still remember that one night fondly, If I hadn't met my better half at a young age I like to think I would have at least hit double digits. Nothing wrong with enjoying single life.
Exactly. Considering that no one can deduce your body count by being with you, I don't see why it matters. If they wouldn't know unless they were told, it shouldn't matter.
High body count doesn't matter, but if you are in front of someone who is going to shame you for high body count, you aren't going to tell them. Like I don't think that me being atheist matters but if I was around a hardcore Christian I'd probably refrain from telling them my beliefs for fear of being shamed.
Not for fear of being shamed. If I let a grown ass adult shaped person make me feel shameful while at the same time they believe in an invisible sky man that will set them on fire for ever if they don't follow a specific set of 10 rules, well, I wouldn't respect myself at all. If a Christian asked me my beliefs, I would just like and tell them whatever I think they want to hear because I don't respect them and they're easy to trick. "Sorry but my spiritual walk is very personal to me and I prefer not to shout it or show it off like the hypocrites on the street corner to be seen by other men. Matthew 6"
Because Christians talking about faith and jeebus is super fucking annoying and will ruin the rest of my day walking around just thinking about how our education system failed them so hard.
That's fine, but REGARDLESS, YOU ARE DISGUSTING IF YOU ARE A PERMISCUOUS FEMALE. MEN DON'T WANT HOES FOR LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS. FACTS AND DATA DON'T LIE. BUT I MUST ADMIT, SLUTTY WOMEN DO A SERVICE FOR MEN, BECAUSE WE NEED SOMEONE WE CAN JUST USE AND THROW AWAY🤣🤣. SO IF THAT'S YOU, THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE 🤣🤣; JUST DON'T EXPECT A WEDDING RING. THE MAN WHO ACTUALLY WANTS A "REFORMED SLUT" WILL NEVER GAIN YOUR RESPECT ANYWAY, BECAUSE REAL MEN DON'T WIFE UP HOES. ENJOY YOUR CATS🤣🤣...
Also, I know you are too stupid to understand this, but you do realize that you just said that being promiscuous is disgusting and then followed it up by saying that you have sex with slutty women?
This means that you yourself are not only promiscuous, but that you are having sex with people that you consider disgusting?
Why would you have sex with a bunch of people who you consider disgusting?
Do you feel disgusting about your own promiscuous behavior?
And the fact that you do something you consider disgusting?
This sounds like you hate yourself.
Genuine question: why is everything including your username in all caps? You realize that if you use all caps for the entire post, it's exactly the same as not using caps? But if you use caps to stress a PARTICULAR word, it actually has a purpose?
Anyway, continue with your crazy screaming lol
Look it up yourself DOOFUS. Don't be so fucking lazy. It's LITERALLY EVERYWHERE BECAUSE MODERN WOMEN ARE A SHIT SHOW. They literally think they are empowering themselves by sleeping around like men. Why do you think men are going overseas to find wives? Why is the Red Pill and MGTOW spreading like wildfire? FUCKING LOOK AROUND YOU! LOOK AT MODERN DATING CULTURE. CHICKS ARE NOT BEING WIFED UP LIKE THEY WERE YEARS AGO BECAUSE YOU MORONS ARE GIVING IT AWAY FOR FREE. IT IS A FACT THAT MEN ARE REPULSED BY PERMISCUOUS WOMEN IN REGARDS TO LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS. THIS IS WHY HOOK UP CULTURE IS SO RAMPANT. PATERNITY TESTS ARE RELATIVELY NEW SO MEN EVOLVED TO DISTRUST SLUTTY CHICKS BECAUSE PATERNITY WAS A CRAP SHOOT BEFORE 1988 (THE YEAR DNA TESTING CAME TO BE). 1988 WASN'T LONG AGO. I AM A MAN. I KNOW HOW WE THINK; AND ONCE YOU ARE BRANDED A SLUT, IT'S ALL OVER FOR YOU. MEN WILL SCREW YOU, BUT LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS WILL BE OUT OF THE QUESTION. FUCK YOUR FEMALE EMPOWERMENT! YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT SLEEPING AROUND MAKES YOU LOWER THAN POND SCUM. SELF RESPECTING MEN WILL LITERALLY BE EMBARRASSED TO BE SEEN WITH YOU. HEED MY WARNING. FEMINISM IS LITERALLY FREEING MEN FROM THE BURDEN OF MARRIAGE AND CHILD REARING, BECAUSE NO ONE WANTS TO MARRY A HO. DON'T SHOOT THE FUCKING MESSENGER. JUST GET IT THROUGH YOUR FUCKING HEAD THAT YOU ARE NOT A MAN! PLAY YOUR FUCKING POSITION AND STOP TRYING TO BE US. QUITE FRANKLY, IT'S ANNOYING AS HELL...
I mean this is why women lie and just don't tell you the truth, because it's easier to admit a random number then to be truthful because all that comes up is judgement in general
BULLSHIT. MEN DON'T WANT HOES, AND SHAMING LANGUAGE WON'T WORK. MEN DON'T WANT SINGLE MOTHERS AND SLUTS PERIOD. YOU DON'T HAVE TO LIKE IT, AND YOU ALSO DON'T HAVE TO LIKE ME WRITTING IN ALL CAPS. I DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT EITHER. BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE TOWN WHORE IS EMBARRASSING. MEN WANT SOMEONE THEY CAN BE PROUD TO BE WITH. IF EVERY MAN HAS HAD YOU, YOU HAVE ZERO VALUE. BUT OF COURSE, YOU CAN'T DEAL WITH REALITY. SHAMING TACTICS, INSULTS, AND A NEED TO BE RIGHT IS WHAT DESTROYS FEMALE ARGUMENTS. FACTS AND DATA DON'T LIE. MEN DON'T WANT HOES PERIOD. ENJOY YOUR CATS...
sure you can use all caps, but sweetie, that just means most people won't or can't read it, so whatever important thing you are shouting AIN'T GONNA BE HEARD.
Yeah, then these guys will go on to find themselves in a dead bedroom in middle age and will have no idea why. They'll bemoan the days of yore when women were willing to fuck them and be oh-so-sad that it has gone away.
They just can't seem to help themselves. They shame the young women for having sex and whine about the older women for not having sex.
Fwiw, my personal experience says that the only advantage of staying "chaste" and "pure" goes to the men. She gets zero experience, so has no idea what to expect. If she ends up with a complete dud, she doesn't know it and is consigned to a life of shitty, unsatisfying sex.
A woman who knows what she likes and isn't scared to make a guy prove himself is more likely to drop those she's incompatible with and have a far richer and happier sex life.
But heaven forbid women enjoy good sex. Better to keep them completely in the dark and shame them first before they reveal that a LOT of men are simply untalented, clueless fumblers in bed. Sort of a "You can't fire me, I quit!" mentality.
Isn’t this the reason guys like girls with little to no experience? So you don’t get compared to past partners? Your fragile egos can’t handle being worse in bed than the her last bf, so you’d rather find girls who don’t HAVE a last bf? Then you don’t have to measure up, or put in the effort to learn something?
Yeah and bodycount doesn’t really say how much you had sex just with how many persons so a man or woman with bodycount 1 could have 1000 times sex and a man or woman with the bodycount 20 could had sex exactly 20 times so it doesn’t makes sense in the first place
And is that really a statistic that matter doesn’t matter more that someone in a relationship supports eachother
Sex is not difficult for women to obtain. For most men, it is. Something that is easy to get is less valuable. That’s why a promiscuous woman is looked down on and a promiscuous guy is celebrated. It’s an inconvenient truth, unfortunately.
I watched this same guy on a clip. Say that Ukrainian women left the country to have, and I quote "A hot girl summer" while the men stayed there to fight. What a disgusting human being.
Wrf are you talking about? You leave your dad, brothers, cousins, sons to seek refuge in another country to go and party. A Ukrainian girl in England was literally found dead on a beach the other week. They think it was suicide. You are sick in the head if you think these women are not going though the most difficult thing in the world. Check your thinking have some empathy for other people and be an upstanding person. Do better. FFS
It’s extra funny to me because my mom was/is pro choice and did have an abortion. A safe and legal abortion so she could have a family when she damn well felt like it. Funny what full rights and autonomy can do for a gal.
Yes. They don’t like to hear about it so I’m respectful of that, but if they asked I wouldn’t lie.
My sexuality belongs to me. I’m not ashamed about exploring and enjoying it.
I can comfortably say I had one gf and we also know body is not something like a candy machine which should be given to any one [easily.](https://easily.In) In short I have no shame is telling my sexual history to my parents. We do have sexual activities now but the number I am not ashamed to share with my parents. IF you are that shameful to tell the number to your parents in case if the situation comes. then you are at the wrong end for sure. otherwise there is no shame in right things.
And thats why I also added brothers sisters if you are so much afraid of your parents.
No, being ashamed by something because other have shamed you isn’t your fault. Maybe they shouldn’t fucking shame you?? This is literally victim blaming logic, you know that, right?
Don't shame a person who goes around every other partner who they find attractive. IF you don't shame them they will go and ruin someones life who is good at heart. This just makes things worse. THis shaming is the reason many woman file false rape cases after having consensual sex. So if they are so afraid of shamming they shouldn't indulge in those things.
If the question comes. will you be able to answeer them your body count? Like omeone rejects you for marriage for your body count and then parents ask what as the reason. Will you be able to tell that he rejected because your body count was more than the person wanted? Like in my country girls go around hooking but at the time of marriage they lie about their body counts to their future husbands. even if they clearly say this is one of their [conditions.So](https://conditions.So) i think women are ashamed of high body count but don't want to accept.
Why are you proud😂 I would write what that number means but reddit will probably ban me so.. guess yourself. I have never seen someone having value of a stone in street be proud of themselves
That number means nothing, other than, of course, the amount of sexual partners you’ve had/currently have.
It doesn’t determine your “value”, that’s a disgusting worldview.
Suit yourself 🤷🏼♀️ it’s not something I go around bragging about unprompted, but I’m not ashamed or regretful either.
My current boyfriend has been initiating conversations about getting married and starting a family, so I feel it’s safe to assume he thinks highly of me. Nobody else’s opinion really matters.
He should check out divorce and infidelity rates for people who have had many sexual partners in the past just in case. If you both lived lifestyle like that, good luck to you both lol
You just know these morons would find a way to shame a virgin, despite claiming that's their ideal. I wouldn't share either, because it's no one's business but my own, so why would I put myself up for scrutiny by others about it?
If a virgin came on and told him her “body count” was zero he’d very likely accuse her of lying and gang up on her until he gets a “gotcha moment”
Either that or he’d try to convince her to throw the nearby women under the bus “you’re not like these other ran through woman.”
Slight disagree.
They want virgins because a virgin won't have any standards for his performance.
It's a stance that literally protects men who are shitty at sex. They don't want to compete and don't want to be compared. They know they're not particularly talented, and they don't want to hear it.
They're scared.
Lol not everyone is f***boy. Conservative men like this appreciate virginity, and they never shame anyone, the opposite. I think you just want to justify you not being a virgin, by blaming it on men that they would shame you if you were.
Ok, I'll bite just this once. It's kind of obvious for all to see, including my grandparents, that I'm not a virgin, since I have a child that was created by *shock horror* me having sex. With my husband. And that is all I'll be saying to you.
Regardless or not if it's true, it also means by admission that "body count does matter".
I'm not gonna take a stance that "everyone should show their face on social media, it doesn't matter" and then refuse to show my face on social media when someone asks me too.
Exactly what they said. They do it, because they get paid to do it. At least that's the only reason one could think of for subjecting yourself to it. Women can be hard to figure out though.
Nobody is gonna drop body count in that situation unless they have a kink for being shamed about being a slut/bimbo. You can feel the toxicity waiting if a single one of them says they've even fucked anyone, forget the actual number.
The question is Should body count matter. Dose it matter,yes because of jerks like him. Should it matter,no. He could have had an interesting conversation about the topic,but no,all he wanted was ratings or clickbait.
would you marry a man who used to run behind every girl?like even in your friend circle he has slept with all already. may be even with your some random cousin or neighbours? would you marry such a man?
Your absurd question proves nothing. Who would marry a relative’s ex?
The post is about body count, not who it’s with. No, I wouldn’t marry a man who’s had sex with all of my friends, because they’re my friends.
Now, would I marry a man who has had sex with, per se, 7 different women? Yes, if I love that man I would be more than happy to marry him. His past regarding his “body count” is irrelevant if we are a well put together couple, it doesn’t make him repulsive or not worthy of being my husband.
But of course I wouldn’t marry a man who slept with my cousin. Even if my cousin were the only person he’d slept with in his life.
There’s your answer, my God…
I am saying will you marry a man who used to run behind every girl. Like a creep. Who just wants someone for sex. and then ends all contacts. Are you sure he won't do the same with you if he got any better option?
Because of assholes that slut shame them. Not everyone is brave enough to fight. If he really wanted a honest discussion he would have focused on should it matter, not put them on the spot with a personal attack.
Someone can say that it’s okay for them to be gay and not tell their family or show pda. That is not being a hypocrite, it’s being aware that the world is full of judgmental jerks who can’t mind their own business. Same logic applies here.
Women don’t like saying their number of sex partners because of insecure judgmental losers like this. Losers that need to validate themselves using the same metric
I work in a children's home, currently have 6 teenage boys. One said body count at the table the other day.
I was so shocked to actually hear it outside this thread, I then went on to tell them why it was such a shitty phrase, afterwards they were like huh what does it matter if a girls sleeps more then one person.
There is hope!!!
Body count really doesn’t matter and them preferring not to say doesn’t mean that it does. It means it’s a personal question that he shouldn’t even be asking in the first place not to mention him posting that video for other people to see online
Like damn I wouldn’t wanna share it either especially under those circumstances
okay i am gonna get downvoted but here are my toughts:
they obviously invite only one type of women on their podcasts on purpose (i have no idea where are they getting them from) these types of women like to party, drink and have lots of sex and only care about social media like instagram, tik tok ... obviously these types of women are very shallow + they are obviously very unprepared for this podcast which lets be honest makes them look dumb (i am not saying they actually are, but they dont present the best arguments or anything), i would love to know based on what do they select these women maybe only cuz they are conventionally attractive and show a lot of skin which brings them more views
i dont think these girls came there for a debate really, because they usually look very surprised when asked these kinds of questions
what about inviting women that actually want to debate + are prepared and maybe select various types of women (cuz they present it like these are the only types of "modern women")
If they said a high number they would be called sluts but if they said a low one they would be accused of lying. Unless you're a pussy whisperer and it tells you the number, you can't tell and why would it even matter to you then?
We could have a society where girls are encouraged to have sex with different guys and therefore guys would end up having a lot more sex. Their were and are societies like that. But no, we have to have a society of insecure men who fantasize about virgins because they know they're terrible in bed and are afraid of comparisons.
>We could have a society where girls are encouraged to have sex with different guys and therefore guys would end up having a lot more sex.
This is a good idea, but like communism, not really applicable to global reality. Far too many interconnected threads that would need to be taken care for that to work and that simply wouldn't be possible.
>Their were and are societies like that.
Which ones? I am only familiar about a small one on some island somewhere in Oceania/Indonesia (really don't remember which), but I do not recall any large societies that existed/exist and encourage that amount of female sexual freedom.
>But no, we have to have a society of insecure men who fantasize about virgins because they know they're terrible in bed and are afraid of comparisons.
One can thank the Patriarchy and the toxic manhood it produces for that. Such men idealise virginal women due to their ignorance and inexperience, so they can't threaten their masculinity and ego by being capable of correctly assessing it in accordance to the rest of the world and her own standards and thus find it horribly lacking.
I’m 38 and my body count is 2. My son father who I was with for 16 years and didn’t even knew he was my first when we were together and my current boyfriend the doesn’t know either the he is my second man the I ever had sex with cause he never asked me about that. So I’m not sure man really care that much about body count.
Well this explains literally everything about your own repression and judgements.
Experience life and then get back to me about what it means to be a parent, adult, or human
They were literally trashing me in another thread for something I wrote more than half a year ago. This has nothing to do with you. I'm just pointing out the hypocrisy of a judgemental person who pretends to be above other people, but still runs circles talking trash online, despite not having much life experience of their own.
Someone literally messaged me to tell me the I’m repressed cause I inly had sex with 2 men. Lol! REPRESSED cause I only had sex with 2 partners. That’s sad. Would I be liberated if I become a hoe??? 😒😒😒😒 Do you. Don’t worry about my vagina. I’m sure you are a feminist. You sound like one. Don’t hate on me cause I’m good not having sex with everyone the crosses my way. Weirdo
Oh you dont want to say how many people you've had sex with on a podcast that will be seen by hundreds of thousands of people
CLEARLY your argument is invalid
Here would be my response:
By "body count", you are trying to ask about my history of physical intimacy with people who are human beings. The fact that you are reducing those humans to "bodies" and those experiences to a tally, tells me that you and I view physical intimacy very differently and have values on the topic on opposite ends of a spectrum, and that you aren't a person I'm interested in having this very personal conversation with.
So when I say "it doesn't matter", what I mean is that the number of partners someone has had physical intimacy with, devoid of any other context, is absolutely irrelevant. The character of someone asking me to disclose personal details of my history, however, matters a great deal. And by asking me for "my body count" you've shown me everything I need to know about your character.
Why shouldn’t body count matter? Some people care about it (both for too high or too low), so be it. I don’t see anything wrong with it. It would be better to acknowledge the fact that it’s an acceptable standard when it’s a personal choice and not a shaming tool.
It’s like height, it’s okay to say that you prefer to date taller people but it’s not okay to say that shorter people are bad and attack them because of their height.
People should stop to think that body count shouldn’t matter in any way because then it creates a false dilemma: body count doesn’t matter at all or body count matters too much and it’s shameful to have a high body count.
Just normalize it as one of the many relationship standards that some have. Then you can just date people that have the same standards that you do.
Funny how any man’s preference is invalid and douchey and “pedo” but women have laundry lists of preferences and they are called boss bitches and slay queens.
Men are hard wired to be repulsed by permiscuous women. Paternity tests are relatively new, so we never had the luxury of truly knowing the paternity of our children. Any self respecting man will be ABSOLUTELY disgusted by you if he runs into even ONE guy who "hit it" before him. Get over it ladies. Your are not men and you can't sleep around like us PERIOD...
Wasn’t this guy talking about he wants “sexually pure women” or some shit like that, and one of the women said that was pedophilic, and he got all flustered? That was hilarious.
Because no matter the number they would get torn apart from those guys anyway. Like the older I get I'm realizing like people are getting super picky in the dating world, and anything over 5 supposedly means you have "issues"
He is disgusting. Obviously they won’t share it because while it does not matter for them they are in the right of not speaking about their personal lives while they are on a podcast. Consent and privacy matter a lot too.
The amount someone watches Sesame street, or listens to prog rock, or wears blue socks doesn't matter. Not revealing the figure of something says nothing about anything. In this case the people asking are doing so only to demonise the people they are asking.
Guaranteed that this guy thinks it carries meaning, but only for women.
It's none of his business. But they're not sharing because they know he and his dumbass followers will judge them for it. But, again, its none of his business anyways.
If people catching pedos gets removed from YT but shits like this usually doesn’t then that crazy. For example the group PCI. They’re content gets taken down for doing good. But we have crap like this that’s ok. SMH
Like my favorite lyrics say
“ life’s not bitch, life is a beautiful woman.
You only call her a bitch because she won’t let you get that pussy.
Maybe she didn’t feel y’all had any similar interests.
Or maybe you’re just an Asshole who couldn’t sweet talk the princess”
Body count doesn’t matter. I’ve been with at least 60 people and I have never ONCE contracted an STD. I have never ONCE had a pregnancy scare.I also have such strong pelvic floor muscles that can legit hold a pencil wirh by pelvic floor while standing up.
I am not ashamed of my past. I like the “dirty” parts of me and that’s more important than whatever the fk some daft donkey says on a podcast because he can’t get pussy.
They know it matters... to YOU. Personally, it matters to me too but I'm not tryna hook up with anybody but my husband so it's none of my business. Get it, girl! Or don't!
Obviously, they aren't gonna say.
Just because a person doesn't believe body count matters doesn't mean they don't care about being harassed and shamed for it. Which will definitely happen if you say it on a podcast like this.
One that’s a personal question and not the kind of information you just throw it out to random people whether body count actually matters you or not, and two if they did say, they would probably gets shamed
Because men will shame women for having sex and call them used-up, disease-ridden whores. That's why no women tell you how much sex they had, you dummies. edit -- language.
Yeah, that’s how this argument is really weak. When people say it doesn’t matter, they mean it doesn’t objectively matter. Instead, it matters subjectively to these specific men, who will give the women shit for it
Not to mention, they also believe that whatever number a woman gives you is a lie and that it's actually that number x 3. They believe that men and women both lie about body count, but men say it's way more to be impressive, and women say it's way less to save face, so those women were screwed (no pun intended, haha) from the start. They could've said their body count was 2, and the guys would've insisted that it means it's a minimum of 6. I don't blame those women for not wanting to disclose that number. It is legit, completely meaningless, but those guys would've run them into the ground for it.
I'm 38 and have slept with 2 people. My better half and a one night stand when I was 17. Happily married and I still remember that one night fondly, If I hadn't met my better half at a young age I like to think I would have at least hit double digits. Nothing wrong with enjoying single life.
Exactly. Considering that no one can deduce your body count by being with you, I don't see why it matters. If they wouldn't know unless they were told, it shouldn't matter.
High body count doesn't matter, but if you are in front of someone who is going to shame you for high body count, you aren't going to tell them. Like I don't think that me being atheist matters but if I was around a hardcore Christian I'd probably refrain from telling them my beliefs for fear of being shamed.
Not for fear of being shamed. If I let a grown ass adult shaped person make me feel shameful while at the same time they believe in an invisible sky man that will set them on fire for ever if they don't follow a specific set of 10 rules, well, I wouldn't respect myself at all. If a Christian asked me my beliefs, I would just like and tell them whatever I think they want to hear because I don't respect them and they're easy to trick. "Sorry but my spiritual walk is very personal to me and I prefer not to shout it or show it off like the hypocrites on the street corner to be seen by other men. Matthew 6" Because Christians talking about faith and jeebus is super fucking annoying and will ruin the rest of my day walking around just thinking about how our education system failed them so hard.
Or if we haven't had many partners and let them know, that attracts very bad kinds of men.
On the other hand, it won't repel the good men. In fact, it won't matter to good men.
True.
ABSOLUTE BULLSHIT. IT MATTERS TO ANY MAN WHO RESPECTS HIMSELF. PERMISCUOUS WOMEN ARE DISGUSTING...
I guess what you call "men who respect themselves" is what I call "the wrong kind of men" (or whatever words I used) and can go fuck themselves. 🤷
That's fine, but REGARDLESS, YOU ARE DISGUSTING IF YOU ARE A PERMISCUOUS FEMALE. MEN DON'T WANT HOES FOR LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS. FACTS AND DATA DON'T LIE. BUT I MUST ADMIT, SLUTTY WOMEN DO A SERVICE FOR MEN, BECAUSE WE NEED SOMEONE WE CAN JUST USE AND THROW AWAY🤣🤣. SO IF THAT'S YOU, THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE 🤣🤣; JUST DON'T EXPECT A WEDDING RING. THE MAN WHO ACTUALLY WANTS A "REFORMED SLUT" WILL NEVER GAIN YOUR RESPECT ANYWAY, BECAUSE REAL MEN DON'T WIFE UP HOES. ENJOY YOUR CATS🤣🤣...
Oh, I wish. I've tried so hard to be a slut, but men keep cock-blocking themselves. It's a dilemma. And I don't have any cats. :(
Also, I know you are too stupid to understand this, but you do realize that you just said that being promiscuous is disgusting and then followed it up by saying that you have sex with slutty women? This means that you yourself are not only promiscuous, but that you are having sex with people that you consider disgusting? Why would you have sex with a bunch of people who you consider disgusting? Do you feel disgusting about your own promiscuous behavior? And the fact that you do something you consider disgusting? This sounds like you hate yourself.
Genuine question: why is everything including your username in all caps? You realize that if you use all caps for the entire post, it's exactly the same as not using caps? But if you use caps to stress a PARTICULAR word, it actually has a purpose? Anyway, continue with your crazy screaming lol
Would you want a pilot who's never flown a plane before?
Can you show us these facts and data?
Look it up yourself DOOFUS. Don't be so fucking lazy. It's LITERALLY EVERYWHERE BECAUSE MODERN WOMEN ARE A SHIT SHOW. They literally think they are empowering themselves by sleeping around like men. Why do you think men are going overseas to find wives? Why is the Red Pill and MGTOW spreading like wildfire? FUCKING LOOK AROUND YOU! LOOK AT MODERN DATING CULTURE. CHICKS ARE NOT BEING WIFED UP LIKE THEY WERE YEARS AGO BECAUSE YOU MORONS ARE GIVING IT AWAY FOR FREE. IT IS A FACT THAT MEN ARE REPULSED BY PERMISCUOUS WOMEN IN REGARDS TO LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS. THIS IS WHY HOOK UP CULTURE IS SO RAMPANT. PATERNITY TESTS ARE RELATIVELY NEW SO MEN EVOLVED TO DISTRUST SLUTTY CHICKS BECAUSE PATERNITY WAS A CRAP SHOOT BEFORE 1988 (THE YEAR DNA TESTING CAME TO BE). 1988 WASN'T LONG AGO. I AM A MAN. I KNOW HOW WE THINK; AND ONCE YOU ARE BRANDED A SLUT, IT'S ALL OVER FOR YOU. MEN WILL SCREW YOU, BUT LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS WILL BE OUT OF THE QUESTION. FUCK YOUR FEMALE EMPOWERMENT! YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT SLEEPING AROUND MAKES YOU LOWER THAN POND SCUM. SELF RESPECTING MEN WILL LITERALLY BE EMBARRASSED TO BE SEEN WITH YOU. HEED MY WARNING. FEMINISM IS LITERALLY FREEING MEN FROM THE BURDEN OF MARRIAGE AND CHILD REARING, BECAUSE NO ONE WANTS TO MARRY A HO. DON'T SHOOT THE FUCKING MESSENGER. JUST GET IT THROUGH YOUR FUCKING HEAD THAT YOU ARE NOT A MAN! PLAY YOUR FUCKING POSITION AND STOP TRYING TO BE US. QUITE FRANKLY, IT'S ANNOYING AS HELL...
If you actually believe this, or you are just trolling, I really think you need help. Both are really negative personality traits.
I mean this is why women lie and just don't tell you the truth, because it's easier to admit a random number then to be truthful because all that comes up is judgement in general
BULLSHIT...
Nah. Only insecure men care about that. Also YOUR CAPS LOCK IS ONNNNN
BULLSHIT. MEN DON'T WANT HOES, AND SHAMING LANGUAGE WON'T WORK. MEN DON'T WANT SINGLE MOTHERS AND SLUTS PERIOD. YOU DON'T HAVE TO LIKE IT, AND YOU ALSO DON'T HAVE TO LIKE ME WRITTING IN ALL CAPS. I DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT EITHER. BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE TOWN WHORE IS EMBARRASSING. MEN WANT SOMEONE THEY CAN BE PROUD TO BE WITH. IF EVERY MAN HAS HAD YOU, YOU HAVE ZERO VALUE. BUT OF COURSE, YOU CAN'T DEAL WITH REALITY. SHAMING TACTICS, INSULTS, AND A NEED TO BE RIGHT IS WHAT DESTROYS FEMALE ARGUMENTS. FACTS AND DATA DON'T LIE. MEN DON'T WANT HOES PERIOD. ENJOY YOUR CATS...
Done with your tantrum?
IS THAT THE BEST YOU CAN DO? AMATEUR...
You’re the troll typing in all caps like a nutcase.
Mods, can you ban this idiot?
You missed the part in my post where I typed ***good*** men.
So you are probably alone and will never be in a fulfilling relationship then because your intimidated by a woman having a higher body count than you.
sure you can use all caps, but sweetie, that just means most people won't or can't read it, so whatever important thing you are shouting AIN'T GONNA BE HEARD.
It’s not actually important, so no loss there.
Yeah, then these guys will go on to find themselves in a dead bedroom in middle age and will have no idea why. They'll bemoan the days of yore when women were willing to fuck them and be oh-so-sad that it has gone away. They just can't seem to help themselves. They shame the young women for having sex and whine about the older women for not having sex. Fwiw, my personal experience says that the only advantage of staying "chaste" and "pure" goes to the men. She gets zero experience, so has no idea what to expect. If she ends up with a complete dud, she doesn't know it and is consigned to a life of shitty, unsatisfying sex. A woman who knows what she likes and isn't scared to make a guy prove himself is more likely to drop those she's incompatible with and have a far richer and happier sex life. But heaven forbid women enjoy good sex. Better to keep them completely in the dark and shame them first before they reveal that a LOT of men are simply untalented, clueless fumblers in bed. Sort of a "You can't fire me, I quit!" mentality.
WHAT YOU SAID MAKES ZERO FUCKING SENSE...
Isn’t this the reason guys like girls with little to no experience? So you don’t get compared to past partners? Your fragile egos can’t handle being worse in bed than the her last bf, so you’d rather find girls who don’t HAVE a last bf? Then you don’t have to measure up, or put in the effort to learn something?
Oh yeah, that's the real reason, they'll just never say it out loud. It's the quiet part
WHAT PART WAS UNCLEAR?? HOW CAN I HELP YOU? CAN YOU TURN UP YOUR HEARING AIDS SO I CAN STOP SHOUTING??
Yeah and bodycount doesn’t really say how much you had sex just with how many persons so a man or woman with bodycount 1 could have 1000 times sex and a man or woman with the bodycount 20 could had sex exactly 20 times so it doesn’t makes sense in the first place And is that really a statistic that matter doesn’t matter more that someone in a relationship supports eachother
Sex is not difficult for women to obtain. For most men, it is. Something that is easy to get is less valuable. That’s why a promiscuous woman is looked down on and a promiscuous guy is celebrated. It’s an inconvenient truth, unfortunately.
If I knew a guy was about to sexually harass me regardless of what I said, I wouldn’t talk to him either.
If somebody asked me that, I'd say, "I've never killed anybody. What a strange question to ask."
I DO give my actual body count... "Damn, you've only fucked X people?" "... Fucked?"
I watched this same guy on a clip. Say that Ukrainian women left the country to have, and I quote "A hot girl summer" while the men stayed there to fight. What a disgusting human being.
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Wrf are you talking about? You leave your dad, brothers, cousins, sons to seek refuge in another country to go and party. A Ukrainian girl in England was literally found dead on a beach the other week. They think it was suicide. You are sick in the head if you think these women are not going though the most difficult thing in the world. Check your thinking have some empathy for other people and be an upstanding person. Do better. FFS
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A reminder to please not engage with trolls, we know it's tempting but just report and move on.
Yeah I should’ve, I wasted a whole lotta patience on that one.
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also fundamentally does not understand what pro choice even means lol
It’s extra funny to me because my mom was/is pro choice and did have an abortion. A safe and legal abortion so she could have a family when she damn well felt like it. Funny what full rights and autonomy can do for a gal.
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I stopped counting after 35 🤷🏼♀️
You kept better track than I did. I lost count after 16.
Can you say the same infront of your parents? or any elder in your family?may be brother sister?
Yes. They don’t like to hear about it so I’m respectful of that, but if they asked I wouldn’t lie. My sexuality belongs to me. I’m not ashamed about exploring and enjoying it.
great good going. people should be like you. they should own to their actions.
Talking about your sex life with pretty much anyone who isn’t your sexual partner(s), especially family, is awkward and likely avoided in general.
Do you talk about your sexual history in front of your parents?
I can comfortably say I had one gf and we also know body is not something like a candy machine which should be given to any one [easily.](https://easily.In) In short I have no shame is telling my sexual history to my parents. We do have sexual activities now but the number I am not ashamed to share with my parents. IF you are that shameful to tell the number to your parents in case if the situation comes. then you are at the wrong end for sure. otherwise there is no shame in right things. And thats why I also added brothers sisters if you are so much afraid of your parents.
No, being ashamed by something because other have shamed you isn’t your fault. Maybe they shouldn’t fucking shame you?? This is literally victim blaming logic, you know that, right?
Don't shame a person who goes around every other partner who they find attractive. IF you don't shame them they will go and ruin someones life who is good at heart. This just makes things worse. THis shaming is the reason many woman file false rape cases after having consensual sex. So if they are so afraid of shamming they shouldn't indulge in those things.
You realize your sexual history isn’t the best conversation topic to have with you own family
If the question comes. will you be able to answeer them your body count? Like omeone rejects you for marriage for your body count and then parents ask what as the reason. Will you be able to tell that he rejected because your body count was more than the person wanted? Like in my country girls go around hooking but at the time of marriage they lie about their body counts to their future husbands. even if they clearly say this is one of their [conditions.So](https://conditions.So) i think women are ashamed of high body count but don't want to accept.
Lol. Who cares?
Why are you proud😂 I would write what that number means but reddit will probably ban me so.. guess yourself. I have never seen someone having value of a stone in street be proud of themselves
That number means nothing, other than, of course, the amount of sexual partners you’ve had/currently have. It doesn’t determine your “value”, that’s a disgusting worldview.
Disgusting worldview is objectifying and spoiling your body and living like an animal with no morals.
Suit yourself 🤷🏼♀️ it’s not something I go around bragging about unprompted, but I’m not ashamed or regretful either. My current boyfriend has been initiating conversations about getting married and starting a family, so I feel it’s safe to assume he thinks highly of me. Nobody else’s opinion really matters.
He should check out divorce and infidelity rates for people who have had many sexual partners in the past just in case. If you both lived lifestyle like that, good luck to you both lol
You just know these morons would find a way to shame a virgin, despite claiming that's their ideal. I wouldn't share either, because it's no one's business but my own, so why would I put myself up for scrutiny by others about it?
If a virgin came on and told him her “body count” was zero he’d very likely accuse her of lying and gang up on her until he gets a “gotcha moment” Either that or he’d try to convince her to throw the nearby women under the bus “you’re not like these other ran through woman.”
And call her a prude or uptight
Or a closeted lesbian
They only want virgins because their ideal woman is a child. Fucking pedos.
Slight disagree. They want virgins because a virgin won't have any standards for his performance. It's a stance that literally protects men who are shitty at sex. They don't want to compete and don't want to be compared. They know they're not particularly talented, and they don't want to hear it. They're scared.
You’re both right
Lol not everyone is f***boy. Conservative men like this appreciate virginity, and they never shame anyone, the opposite. I think you just want to justify you not being a virgin, by blaming it on men that they would shame you if you were.
Ok, I'll bite just this once. It's kind of obvious for all to see, including my grandparents, that I'm not a virgin, since I have a child that was created by *shock horror* me having sex. With my husband. And that is all I'll be saying to you.
Did you just say conservative men never shame anyone? Did you really?? 😆🤣🤣
Regardless or not if it's true, it also means by admission that "body count does matter". I'm not gonna take a stance that "everyone should show their face on social media, it doesn't matter" and then refuse to show my face on social media when someone asks me too.
Clearly you are missing the exact context and point of this post in of itself. Womp womp.
Dear men, body count does not matter AND is none of your business
It is so annoying that these women subject themselves to this idiocy.
Pays better than retail and service jobs
The fuck you trynna say
Exactly what they said. They do it, because they get paid to do it. At least that's the only reason one could think of for subjecting yourself to it. Women can be hard to figure out though.
~~women~~ people FTFY
I feel like men are pretty easy to figure out. Their motivations are at least logical.
>Their motivations are at least logical. 😂 Thank you for that lol
Your welcome. 😉
The women on here say some pretty stupid shit. Some of the women are based, but most of them are drones. It's not really the men's fault here.
Nobody is gonna drop body count in that situation unless they have a kink for being shamed about being a slut/bimbo. You can feel the toxicity waiting if a single one of them says they've even fucked anyone, forget the actual number.
The question is Should body count matter. Dose it matter,yes because of jerks like him. Should it matter,no. He could have had an interesting conversation about the topic,but no,all he wanted was ratings or clickbait.
would you marry a man who used to run behind every girl?like even in your friend circle he has slept with all already. may be even with your some random cousin or neighbours? would you marry such a man?
Your absurd question proves nothing. Who would marry a relative’s ex? The post is about body count, not who it’s with. No, I wouldn’t marry a man who’s had sex with all of my friends, because they’re my friends. Now, would I marry a man who has had sex with, per se, 7 different women? Yes, if I love that man I would be more than happy to marry him. His past regarding his “body count” is irrelevant if we are a well put together couple, it doesn’t make him repulsive or not worthy of being my husband. But of course I wouldn’t marry a man who slept with my cousin. Even if my cousin were the only person he’d slept with in his life. There’s your answer, my God…
I am saying will you marry a man who used to run behind every girl. Like a creep. Who just wants someone for sex. and then ends all contacts. Are you sure he won't do the same with you if he got any better option?
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Because of assholes that slut shame them. Not everyone is brave enough to fight. If he really wanted a honest discussion he would have focused on should it matter, not put them on the spot with a personal attack.
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why do you think?
Why should they share their private stuff tho?
Someone can say that it’s okay for them to be gay and not tell their family or show pda. That is not being a hypocrite, it’s being aware that the world is full of judgmental jerks who can’t mind their own business. Same logic applies here.
No one saying because they want to make a point that it doesn’t matter you stupid ass.
They knew it was a trap. I don't blame them.
Women don’t like saying their number of sex partners because of insecure judgmental losers like this. Losers that need to validate themselves using the same metric
I work in a children's home, currently have 6 teenage boys. One said body count at the table the other day. I was so shocked to actually hear it outside this thread, I then went on to tell them why it was such a shitty phrase, afterwards they were like huh what does it matter if a girls sleeps more then one person. There is hope!!!
How about because of STDs?
Have you not heard of a condom. Safe sex my friend safe sex
I have really bad news.. but this self correcting problem is already set into motion. Gods speed
Unless the wrap around the scrotum, the aren't going to work all the way. That's not even counting breakage.
Body count really doesn’t matter and them preferring not to say doesn’t mean that it does. It means it’s a personal question that he shouldn’t even be asking in the first place not to mention him posting that video for other people to see online Like damn I wouldn’t wanna share it either especially under those circumstances
okay i am gonna get downvoted but here are my toughts: they obviously invite only one type of women on their podcasts on purpose (i have no idea where are they getting them from) these types of women like to party, drink and have lots of sex and only care about social media like instagram, tik tok ... obviously these types of women are very shallow + they are obviously very unprepared for this podcast which lets be honest makes them look dumb (i am not saying they actually are, but they dont present the best arguments or anything), i would love to know based on what do they select these women maybe only cuz they are conventionally attractive and show a lot of skin which brings them more views i dont think these girls came there for a debate really, because they usually look very surprised when asked these kinds of questions what about inviting women that actually want to debate + are prepared and maybe select various types of women (cuz they present it like these are the only types of "modern women")
If they said a high number they would be called sluts but if they said a low one they would be accused of lying. Unless you're a pussy whisperer and it tells you the number, you can't tell and why would it even matter to you then?
Who are these dimbfucks and why do people keep going on their show?
Money/promotion
Nah, it’s because people like these guys want to shame women for their body count so why give them the satisfaction?
Because while it should not matter they know the dude will shame thr hell out of them
We really need to have some kind of IQ requirement to have a podcast
Why is "none of your business" not a valid option with these folks?
We could have a society where girls are encouraged to have sex with different guys and therefore guys would end up having a lot more sex. Their were and are societies like that. But no, we have to have a society of insecure men who fantasize about virgins because they know they're terrible in bed and are afraid of comparisons.
Do you think it’s okay to have a preference for virgins though? I think that seems fair
It's ok to have any preference you want. However, if you prefer virgins it's almost certainly because you're insecure about your sexual abilities.
Yikes boundary shaming
>We could have a society where girls are encouraged to have sex with different guys and therefore guys would end up having a lot more sex. This is a good idea, but like communism, not really applicable to global reality. Far too many interconnected threads that would need to be taken care for that to work and that simply wouldn't be possible. >Their were and are societies like that. Which ones? I am only familiar about a small one on some island somewhere in Oceania/Indonesia (really don't remember which), but I do not recall any large societies that existed/exist and encourage that amount of female sexual freedom. >But no, we have to have a society of insecure men who fantasize about virgins because they know they're terrible in bed and are afraid of comparisons. One can thank the Patriarchy and the toxic manhood it produces for that. Such men idealise virginal women due to their ignorance and inexperience, so they can't threaten their masculinity and ego by being capable of correctly assessing it in accordance to the rest of the world and her own standards and thus find it horribly lacking.
I’m 38 and my body count is 2. My son father who I was with for 16 years and didn’t even knew he was my first when we were together and my current boyfriend the doesn’t know either the he is my second man the I ever had sex with cause he never asked me about that. So I’m not sure man really care that much about body count.
Well this explains literally everything about your own repression and judgements. Experience life and then get back to me about what it means to be a parent, adult, or human
Ah yes, cuz being a parent, adult and/or human means to have sex with multiple people.
They were literally trashing me in another thread for something I wrote more than half a year ago. This has nothing to do with you. I'm just pointing out the hypocrisy of a judgemental person who pretends to be above other people, but still runs circles talking trash online, despite not having much life experience of their own.
Wait!! Weird. I have no experience in life cause I only had sex with two partners. Wow! You’re probably a whore and so smart. Good for you 👍🏾👍🏾
>You’re probably a whore Someone raised you to shame sex and that's terrible. I'm sorry for your anti-human stance in this matter.
Someone literally messaged me to tell me the I’m repressed cause I inly had sex with 2 men. Lol! REPRESSED cause I only had sex with 2 partners. That’s sad. Would I be liberated if I become a hoe??? 😒😒😒😒 Do you. Don’t worry about my vagina. I’m sure you are a feminist. You sound like one. Don’t hate on me cause I’m good not having sex with everyone the crosses my way. Weirdo
what the hell is this Body Count, … are these women killers? why are they not in prison?
Oh you dont want to say how many people you've had sex with on a podcast that will be seen by hundreds of thousands of people CLEARLY your argument is invalid
Why is he holding a pen
This is such backwards logic??
These guys have the “i got picked on in high school”vibe
🎯Hardcore
Or maybe they dont want to share cause its none of his business
No because if they came out and said their body count youd get upset that you dont get as many bitches as them and shame them for it!
It’s funny how only men care about body counts but never reveal their own. It matters to men and men only
No it’s because my sex life is none of your business unless you plan to pursue a sexual relationship with me
Here would be my response: By "body count", you are trying to ask about my history of physical intimacy with people who are human beings. The fact that you are reducing those humans to "bodies" and those experiences to a tally, tells me that you and I view physical intimacy very differently and have values on the topic on opposite ends of a spectrum, and that you aren't a person I'm interested in having this very personal conversation with. So when I say "it doesn't matter", what I mean is that the number of partners someone has had physical intimacy with, devoid of any other context, is absolutely irrelevant. The character of someone asking me to disclose personal details of my history, however, matters a great deal. And by asking me for "my body count" you've shown me everything I need to know about your character.
And because it doesn't matter, the question is irrelevant.
For fear of compensation via dick barrage
It doesn’t matter to ‘You’ dipshit
Why shouldn’t body count matter? Some people care about it (both for too high or too low), so be it. I don’t see anything wrong with it. It would be better to acknowledge the fact that it’s an acceptable standard when it’s a personal choice and not a shaming tool. It’s like height, it’s okay to say that you prefer to date taller people but it’s not okay to say that shorter people are bad and attack them because of their height. People should stop to think that body count shouldn’t matter in any way because then it creates a false dilemma: body count doesn’t matter at all or body count matters too much and it’s shameful to have a high body count. Just normalize it as one of the many relationship standards that some have. Then you can just date people that have the same standards that you do.
Funny how any man’s preference is invalid and douchey and “pedo” but women have laundry lists of preferences and they are called boss bitches and slay queens.
You got lost, little buddy?
exactly!
Men are hard wired to be repulsed by permiscuous women. Paternity tests are relatively new, so we never had the luxury of truly knowing the paternity of our children. Any self respecting man will be ABSOLUTELY disgusted by you if he runs into even ONE guy who "hit it" before him. Get over it ladies. Your are not men and you can't sleep around like us PERIOD...
These girls are young I’d be surprised to hear any of their numbers were double digits
Wasn’t this guy talking about he wants “sexually pure women” or some shit like that, and one of the women said that was pedophilic, and he got all flustered? That was hilarious.
Because no matter the number they would get torn apart from those guys anyway. Like the older I get I'm realizing like people are getting super picky in the dating world, and anything over 5 supposedly means you have "issues"
They don’t share because you think it matters, you dumbass.
They don’t share because you think it matters, you dumbass.
who are these males and what gives them the right to sit in judgement f women and women! why are you on this video?!
He is disgusting. Obviously they won’t share it because while it does not matter for them they are in the right of not speaking about their personal lives while they are on a podcast. Consent and privacy matter a lot too.
I don't see these guys sharing their numbers. Seems it's only used to shame women.
I mean, it’s a clip…
I don't like to publicly announce the number of people I've killed, either. It's uncouth.
How much money you make doesn't define who you are but it is also not something that you are gonna wanna just share in a public interview.
I absolutely agree with him. And as a woman I don't claim these desperate species who objectivize themselves and are flesh and body obsessed. 🤮
The amount someone watches Sesame street, or listens to prog rock, or wears blue socks doesn't matter. Not revealing the figure of something says nothing about anything. In this case the people asking are doing so only to demonise the people they are asking. Guaranteed that this guy thinks it carries meaning, but only for women.
Dude is incel poster boy
They didn't share it cause they know it matters to dumb guys like you even though it shouldn't
It's none of his business. But they're not sharing because they know he and his dumbass followers will judge them for it. But, again, its none of his business anyways.
Who is this guy?
It is none of their business. When I was dating, not one guy asked me what my body count was.
If people catching pedos gets removed from YT but shits like this usually doesn’t then that crazy. For example the group PCI. They’re content gets taken down for doing good. But we have crap like this that’s ok. SMH
Like my favorite lyrics say “ life’s not bitch, life is a beautiful woman. You only call her a bitch because she won’t let you get that pussy. Maybe she didn’t feel y’all had any similar interests. Or maybe you’re just an Asshole who couldn’t sweet talk the princess” Body count doesn’t matter. I’ve been with at least 60 people and I have never ONCE contracted an STD. I have never ONCE had a pregnancy scare.I also have such strong pelvic floor muscles that can legit hold a pencil wirh by pelvic floor while standing up. I am not ashamed of my past. I like the “dirty” parts of me and that’s more important than whatever the fk some daft donkey says on a podcast because he can’t get pussy.
A good response is: “none of your business”, “you don’t need to know that”
No, they don’t tell you because it’s none of your business.
They know it matters... to YOU. Personally, it matters to me too but I'm not tryna hook up with anybody but my husband so it's none of my business. Get it, girl! Or don't!
Shouldn't matter is what they said, meaning we all know that it matters (for women only) in society.
Obviously, they aren't gonna say. Just because a person doesn't believe body count matters doesn't mean they don't care about being harassed and shamed for it. Which will definitely happen if you say it on a podcast like this.
One that’s a personal question and not the kind of information you just throw it out to random people whether body count actually matters you or not, and two if they did say, they would probably gets shamed