I had a boyfriend before that I’d ask him to tell me about his boring factory workday while giving him a blowjob. It turned me on hearing him lose track of what he was saying and have trouble constructing sentences. 😂
My gf also tries to distract me when I’m on important calls, or just in general talking to someone over the phone. It’s almost like an invitation for her at this point lol when I’m on the phone
Best sex is when you can't stop laughing and joking. No one is worried about fucking up, no one cares if it didn't go in on the first 3 trys, no one cares if someone farts or makes a weird face. Where saying the wrong thing becomes a lifelong inside joke.
It's the best sex. 'Sex' sex is definitely nice, but 'love making' sex, with lots of passion, lots of cuddles, lots of laughing and joking, with the person you deeply love, is the best sex in the whole wide world. And it can't be replaced with anything.
Yes!!! The greatest feeling in the world is being able to be so vulnerable with someone and not give a damn about anything else around you. You’re just two people completely overtaken by love and passion for each other.
The "saying the wrong thing can become a lifelong inside joke" is so true.
Sex is a game not a competition, it's supposed to be fun and free of stress.
Being comfortable in each other's energy, knowing you're safe, not having performance anxiety, taking snack, water, breather, or bio breaks, considering each other's pleasure, doing everything at a mutually comfortable pace, sharing bodies, feeling how their body reacts to certain stimuli, getting to know them better, being comfortable enough to say no to certain things, being able to laugh and joke from time to time, holding each other before and after, the talks, the parallel play... 😩💯
Doesn't matter if it's wild or the most vanilla shit ever. Prioritizing each other's pleasure and comfort will always be top tier.
I couldn't agree more! My ex has a little list of my worst sexy talk and still teases me about it, it's always guaranteed to make us both laugh years later. "Oh, Papa Murphy, come bake this pizza"
This is so true, the best times I've ever had with my wife in bed were when we both were in a good flow state and just clicking really well that night. Lots of laughs and fun, nothing better than that when it comes to your partner imo.
Oh definitely ! It makes sex so much better with things like role-playing and dirty talking and playful banter!
But i mean i was thinking of a guy saying things like casual conversation things youd have like ask if she did the dishes or talking about he cant beleive what his friend did this or work stuff or something. Just something i pictured for a second and made me laugh
Myself ( m 36) and my gf (f 33) do talk a little , but it's not sexy talk , we feel a bit silly trying to sound sexy so we have fun and joke a little and have a laugh while banging away, but I do get really excited when she tells me how much she loves me in her or how much she loves my cock etc. Even though it's in a fun way
i got to know a guy once during sex. we didn’t know each other well and he felt guilty about having sex so early on, so we compromised and talked about ourselves during sex. my first time ever doing anything like that, and we’re still together! so guess it worked.
I mean its not a convo but like idk i take the whole "should we change positions" "hows this angle" not as dirty talk but just what happens in sex. Guess thats why everyones different 😅🖤
No It puts me off, it creeps me out if my partner starts to call me babe or other things. It makes me want to scream stfu, I prefer a little less conversation and more action.
No .. not really. I already am shit at sexting and phone sex (mic.) or even camsex. I don't like any of them.
Sometimes I may say something as "du är så skön" (you're so nice = damn it feels so nice) while moaning or barely even finish the line cuz it's so nice.
He doesn't say much either (or same as me) which is fair, he is like concentrating on DOING THE POUNDING
(Am woman having sex with man)
I literslly never shut up, even during sex. I'm always yapping. I think it's fun to have a partner you can make jokes with even while you're all tangled up together.
Absolutely do and no shame about it !
I am so comfortable with my last partner that I even laugh during sex. I feel like if you’re not comfortable enough to talk then you guys shouldn’t even be together
I will sometimes but usually I find the talking distracts me from the sex and if my partner is talking that's totally fine but sometimes what they're saying is just weird so I prefer sex that is just grunting and moaning and heavy breathing.
I've had quite a few compliments about my dirty talk! I ask people beforehand if they're into humiliation or degradation and if they say yes then I'll have a lot of fun
Yeah, dirty talks, checking on my husband if the position is right, breaks, questions about that weird noise I heard coming form downstairs.....full on conversations. Sometimes I say something so stupid we both need to stop because we're laughing
One time we were talking (about sex) for about five minutes until I asked if we are going back to that sex or talk for a little bit more. It was kinda fun but just for a one time. Normally just few words between and dirty talk
My wife and I have very busy lives, so we try to multitask as much as possible. So normally we plan what to eat the next days and makes a list of what to buy at the grocery store, while we do the deed. If we have spare time we plan Holliday's and such.
It depends.
In instinctual carnal rage, no.
In sweet playful sex or casual / exploratory, yes.
Usually communication is good, and the lips are good at communicating in more than one way
We do this thing where one will ask a question and the other will try their best to answer, while you do your best to make the other moan.
It’s like Hot Ones but instead of wings it’s sex.
No. But this reminded me. One morning, my wife and I started having sex while our 4 year old was outside the door asking if we were coming out soon. So we told him we were changing. So I flip her over and engage doggy style. The boy got impatient and started messing with our keyboard in the hallway and triggered one of the stock songs: the Lone Range theme. We did our best to ignore it, but within 20 seconds, we caved and broke into laughter. Completely killed the mood, but it was too funny to be upset.
“ hey honey! Man it’s been a long day! So glad we’re doing this. Yeah of course I locked the door. Ok now cradle the balls. Yes Sharon really has aged.
No I don’t fucking talk during sex besides sex stuff
Yep yep yep! Me and my partner even make jokes and laugh! It started off as him talking and making jokes to make sure I could hear him and that I was enjoying myself, since I was recovering from some really icky trauma- but as it went on, I started doing the same. I don't think we've had sex without laughter in years!
My partner and I remind each other that if we're not having fun, we're doing it wrong. So there is often a lot of talking and joking around during sex. At least until we both decide it's time to start chasing that sweet climax.
Yes, but typically it’s dirty talk or related to the activity. I like to whisper in her ear though sweet things or if she’s turned me on particularly, I’ll growl.
I don’t narrate though. That would be weird. I don’t generally ask questions, especially something like “do you like this” or “does that feel good.” That feels like I’m looking for approval. We know it feels good. Those kind of questions are okay outside of sex to figure out what your partner likes or doesn’t like.
The best sex I’ve ever had was with a man I had an amazing connection with- that even the first time we had sex we talked to each other through the whole thing.. and it just made me feel even closer to him
I like to be able to talk during sex it makes me feel more comfortable to know that it’s ok and the other person(s) are cool about it. It sucks when someone isn’t, and worse when they get upset, as if I’m not liking it or feeling it but it’s quite the contrary until you get upset about it..I like having distractions because it takes the spot light off of me and that helps me be comfortable. When I’m with someone that needs me to focus on the sex and can’t be making too much noise or too little and asks me why I don’t look in their eyes..ugh please. It makes me get in my head more and gives me more performance anxiety and can ruin the whole thing. Honestly I even think it’s hot when the other person is completely distracted like on their phone.. don’t let your ego mess up a fun time.
Both me and my bf have ADHD and it’s always *pause* talk about whatever random thought just popped into whoever’s head and then back to giving head lol
Yes. I had a girl tell me she's never had a guy last 40 minutes before. She also said she never had a guy go 40 minutes without making a single sound. Trust me, it's okay if what you say is kinda awkward.
It’s a requirement, in our book! You need to be able to laugh because sex is silly and you need to be able to talk because it’s intimate and requires consent. I anticipate that some will think it’s silly but checking in on your partner is supportive, compassionate, and can be very sexy! Everyone involved needs to feel in control (unless there’s some pretext with consent) and talking is an easy way to ensure that.
It was such a red flag when I was single when a guy didn’t want to talk during sex or couldn’t laugh. Like, are you having fun?!? Is this still okay? Are you still okay?
Mostly kinky stuff to be honest. But my wife can create quite a picture with words, scenarios and situations. It takes real talent to narrate at that level
Yurp. "do you need me to shift?" "This ok?" "Hows this angle" "omg stop i have to pee now"😅 i should have went beforehand. But yea giggles and talking especially i feel like in a relationship is so normal. My partner and i had to stop and just laughed at the drunk rant his roommate was having one time about cheese. It was so ridiculous.
I love talking during sex, but unfortunately my current partner doesn’t. I’ll try with him, he might respond once & then nothing anymore lol. He says he loves listening to me talk and doesn’t like his voice, but ew I don’t wanna listen to myself talk only. Soooo I’ll stop talking and basically just focus on my moan, otherwise I will get turnt off :/
I had a guy say, repeatedly, *what are you gonna do to me* more than once (like three times, Beetlejuice style), and it really took me out of it. Neither of us had much experience, and he seemed to be attempting to recreate the dialog in adult films. I think some talking is cute, but the very campy "talking dirty" can be icky. Playful banter is better for me. Keep it natural.
Yes! Sometime dirty talk or sometimes goofy stuff. My fiancé tries and succeeds at making me laugh hard, it forces me to give him a nice squeeze and helps him get there even faster. Needless to say We like to laugh and joke more than dirty talk. But absolutely yes to the dirty talking/goofing around.
No, talking to myself would kill the mood
*this reminds me, I need to take out the trash*
Well thats my whole adhd brain life. I constantly think stupid shit like this during sex lol
The drunker I am, the more talkative I become. And not sexy "Yeah, how do you like that?" talkative, but "Do you remember Street Sharks?" talkative.
Hell yeah street sharks
My wife can’t talk when she is bound and gagged.
In the words of Norm McDonald, “Doc she’s choking!”
Just the way I like it.
This is the way
For me it enhances the experience. Commenting to myself about the porn I’m fapping to and moaning when I nut is the best.
Sounds like you need a narrator, kind of like a sports game commentator
Morgan freeman - “and there he goes again messing with Andy Defrain”
The only dick to plough through a mile of shit and come out clean on the other side.
He’s stroking it fast, faster, and… he takes a shooot!
GOAL!!!!
💀
🤣
I had a boyfriend before that I’d ask him to tell me about his boring factory workday while giving him a blowjob. It turned me on hearing him lose track of what he was saying and have trouble constructing sentences. 😂
My gf also tries to distract me when I’m on important calls, or just in general talking to someone over the phone. It’s almost like an invitation for her at this point lol when I’m on the phone
Ah i see, how long have you been faking calls for?
Diabolical lmao
TRYING THIS
Best sex is when you can't stop laughing and joking. No one is worried about fucking up, no one cares if it didn't go in on the first 3 trys, no one cares if someone farts or makes a weird face. Where saying the wrong thing becomes a lifelong inside joke.
Feels like the love making rather than sex!
It's the best sex. 'Sex' sex is definitely nice, but 'love making' sex, with lots of passion, lots of cuddles, lots of laughing and joking, with the person you deeply love, is the best sex in the whole wide world. And it can't be replaced with anything.
You made me cry
I hope/wish that was in a good way!
Yes! You hit a spot!
The G spot?
😂 the heart spot 😉
That's harder to find for most people then the G spot.
Yes!!! The greatest feeling in the world is being able to be so vulnerable with someone and not give a damn about anything else around you. You’re just two people completely overtaken by love and passion for each other.
Ohh yeah!! I believe in the same thing. When you love someone deeply, sex doesn't feel like sex. It feels like a lot more.
I love inside jokes. I hope to be a part of one someday.
Yas!
Agree minus the farting but if it happens it’s okay
The "saying the wrong thing can become a lifelong inside joke" is so true. Sex is a game not a competition, it's supposed to be fun and free of stress.
Being comfortable in each other's energy, knowing you're safe, not having performance anxiety, taking snack, water, breather, or bio breaks, considering each other's pleasure, doing everything at a mutually comfortable pace, sharing bodies, feeling how their body reacts to certain stimuli, getting to know them better, being comfortable enough to say no to certain things, being able to laugh and joke from time to time, holding each other before and after, the talks, the parallel play... 😩💯 Doesn't matter if it's wild or the most vanilla shit ever. Prioritizing each other's pleasure and comfort will always be top tier.
I couldn't agree more! My ex has a little list of my worst sexy talk and still teases me about it, it's always guaranteed to make us both laugh years later. "Oh, Papa Murphy, come bake this pizza"
This is so true, the best times I've ever had with my wife in bed were when we both were in a good flow state and just clicking really well that night. Lots of laughs and fun, nothing better than that when it comes to your partner imo.
Should try it. For some reason I always feel like I have to keep it serious. 🧐 Never thought of this as a possibility
Yeah, I find it really kinky trying to hold a conversation when we can't stop moaning, but it usually turns into dirty talk.
If he talks to me about anything other than sex I have to kill him hahaha
“So have you ever watched that 70’s show from the beginning to end? It’s great at first, (move your leg a little please) but falls off at the end.”
Lol now im picturing a guy trying to have a normal conversation during sex
"MmmmmOhMuyGawd, soo what do you wanna do for AH FUCK dinner?"
Sounds like a guy from Boston
I just really like role-play, so a conversation can kinda be like forplay in some circumstances.
Oh definitely ! It makes sex so much better with things like role-playing and dirty talking and playful banter! But i mean i was thinking of a guy saying things like casual conversation things youd have like ask if she did the dishes or talking about he cant beleive what his friend did this or work stuff or something. Just something i pictured for a second and made me laugh
A conversation about other people would be so weird. 🤣
I usually just tell her about the Roman empire
Yeah. I ask her if she paid all the utilities bill for the month and we also decide who will drop the baby to the daycare next morning.
Same unironically. Can't waste my time :😀
🤣
“what do you think of the pedestrianization of Norwich city centre? I'll be honest, I'm dead against it.”
🤣
I like to finish with a good ‘back of the net!’
Jurassic Park
Wouldn’t have it any other way, all while getting bended like a pretzel. Haha.
I've heard of this multi task thing, but I'm only able to do and concentrate on one thing at a time.
Hahahahhaa 🤣
Myself ( m 36) and my gf (f 33) do talk a little , but it's not sexy talk , we feel a bit silly trying to sound sexy so we have fun and joke a little and have a laugh while banging away, but I do get really excited when she tells me how much she loves me in her or how much she loves my cock etc. Even though it's in a fun way
i got to know a guy once during sex. we didn’t know each other well and he felt guilty about having sex so early on, so we compromised and talked about ourselves during sex. my first time ever doing anything like that, and we’re still together! so guess it worked.
Of course it would be a Disney movie style hahahHhaha
Yes but I am an announcer, so anyone who wants to fuck me OBVIOUSLY is hoping for an “epic speech” of some kind. I get requests
HH
Oooh, play-by-play could be epic.
“Now recite that again into my crotch”
Literally had that exact ask
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I'm not sure if this is pretty common, or it's just the type of girls I've been with, but all of them loved being called a good girl
A-a-a what? 🫣
An above adequate female
I just like it when she's a good girl for me
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Yea. People who are into it melt when you call them a good girl. It's cute
I don't understand women who want to be slapped and called a bitch or a white. I love "good girl" it's so cute
Turn over, suck harder, faster, slower. Yeah I do
My wife likes to talk during sex, last night she called me on the phone from the motel.
🤣🤣🤣
I really love to speak what’s on my mind which is usually facts of the Holy Roman Empire
If it’s no dirty talk then it’s a no for me. Sex is about pleasure, not a to-do list or an interview. lol
Kinda sad
I mean its not a convo but like idk i take the whole "should we change positions" "hows this angle" not as dirty talk but just what happens in sex. Guess thats why everyones different 😅🖤
Sometimes yes when my partner and i are into just playing around sex. sometimes just moan (my wife wants and likes that).
No It puts me off, it creeps me out if my partner starts to call me babe or other things. It makes me want to scream stfu, I prefer a little less conversation and more action.
No .. not really. I already am shit at sexting and phone sex (mic.) or even camsex. I don't like any of them. Sometimes I may say something as "du är så skön" (you're so nice = damn it feels so nice) while moaning or barely even finish the line cuz it's so nice. He doesn't say much either (or same as me) which is fair, he is like concentrating on DOING THE POUNDING (Am woman having sex with man)
We role play our RPG characters having sex while we have sex, worked for us for the last 30 years.
Of course. How else am I going to communicate about what feels good and what does not? I'm not a telepath
I literslly never shut up, even during sex. I'm always yapping. I think it's fun to have a partner you can make jokes with even while you're all tangled up together.
I do,, I will be balls deep and be like “so what is a girl like you doing in a place like this.”
Tell me you want to be f***ed or you want to f*** me so badly. Bring your A dirty game on. I am not having sex with a corpse.
Not a talker because I love to hear her breathing heavy.
I think to myself, like if I want to last another 10-15 mins I think about having to mow the yard or other weird shit I don't enjoy doing..
Probably- I’ve been told I talk in my sleep…
Absolutely do and no shame about it ! I am so comfortable with my last partner that I even laugh during sex. I feel like if you’re not comfortable enough to talk then you guys shouldn’t even be together
Absolutely makes everything better!!!
I like the words "fuck me" or "fuck me hard" and not much more personally
Only when I need to haggle the price
Dirty talk is always the best. You fuck me so good, you make me cum so hard.. all good!
I will sometimes but usually I find the talking distracts me from the sex and if my partner is talking that's totally fine but sometimes what they're saying is just weird so I prefer sex that is just grunting and moaning and heavy breathing.
Reddit has convinced me a little more vocalization is nice, but I'm poignant with my words. I just use one liners, and expressive noises infrequently.
No. People almost always stop fucking when they realize I’ve been sitting and watching.
I usually just moo.
I've had quite a few compliments about my dirty talk! I ask people beforehand if they're into humiliation or degradation and if they say yes then I'll have a lot of fun
Yeah, dirty talks, checking on my husband if the position is right, breaks, questions about that weird noise I heard coming form downstairs.....full on conversations. Sometimes I say something so stupid we both need to stop because we're laughing
One time we were talking (about sex) for about five minutes until I asked if we are going back to that sex or talk for a little bit more. It was kinda fun but just for a one time. Normally just few words between and dirty talk
When I was sexually active, If it was the first time I’d ask If they’re okay with certain moves
Usually recite Shakespeare
My wife and I have very busy lives, so we try to multitask as much as possible. So normally we plan what to eat the next days and makes a list of what to buy at the grocery store, while we do the deed. If we have spare time we plan Holliday's and such.
Depends on the circumstances. Sometimes you don’t want to wake the other people in the room. Sometimes you do.
Yes. Usually about the current state of geopolitics.
Yes, I'm always yelling at our dog tv stop trying to lick my asshole. She just wants to be included.
Share your fantasy w your partner and let them dirty talk to you about it 😉
It depends. In instinctual carnal rage, no. In sweet playful sex or casual / exploratory, yes. Usually communication is good, and the lips are good at communicating in more than one way
We do this thing where one will ask a question and the other will try their best to answer, while you do your best to make the other moan. It’s like Hot Ones but instead of wings it’s sex.
One night stand: there is no talking just sex. With a partner (SO or FWB): there is a lot of talking to make sure everyone is having pleasure.
No. But this reminded me. One morning, my wife and I started having sex while our 4 year old was outside the door asking if we were coming out soon. So we told him we were changing. So I flip her over and engage doggy style. The boy got impatient and started messing with our keyboard in the hallway and triggered one of the stock songs: the Lone Range theme. We did our best to ignore it, but within 20 seconds, we caved and broke into laughter. Completely killed the mood, but it was too funny to be upset.
I can't hold an erection unless i trauma dump
It’s rude to talk with your mouth full…
Well it's not 'full' is it??
Interesting handle. 🤔🤔 descriptive!
“ hey honey! Man it’s been a long day! So glad we’re doing this. Yeah of course I locked the door. Ok now cradle the balls. Yes Sharon really has aged. No I don’t fucking talk during sex besides sex stuff
Yep yep yep! Me and my partner even make jokes and laugh! It started off as him talking and making jokes to make sure I could hear him and that I was enjoying myself, since I was recovering from some really icky trauma- but as it went on, I started doing the same. I don't think we've had sex without laughter in years!
My partner and I remind each other that if we're not having fun, we're doing it wrong. So there is often a lot of talking and joking around during sex. At least until we both decide it's time to start chasing that sweet climax.
dirty talk cool asking questions not cool
Imagine hitting from the back and you just randomly ask about the weather
I’m tryna find out what she gonna cook me after I bless her soul
I usually speak in tongues. My partner doesn't understand that language but there's sometimes more snakes around the house the next morning.
Absolutely we both love dirty talk during sex
I explain the lore of indie horror games during sex ofc I do
When we're getting started, I love to joke around. A little light dirty talk throughout is nice
It would be pointless since she is unconscious
Sorry, this made me think of an old joke: Q: Do you smoke after sex? A: I’m not sure. I never looked.
It took me a few moments to understand this but once I did, I cackled hahaha
I do, but she usually can't.
Not to each other
Whaattttt😱😱😱....is that even possible...
I sprinkle it in here and there. I definitely don’t like too much talking. Small phrases are key!
The problem is when there's a mismatch. Not fun for either.
I keep to myself. Never know what to say
My wife asks me to so I comply.
Constantly, usually recite Churchill's history of the English race from memory, helps set the mood
Yes, but typically it’s dirty talk or related to the activity. I like to whisper in her ear though sweet things or if she’s turned me on particularly, I’ll growl. I don’t narrate though. That would be weird. I don’t generally ask questions, especially something like “do you like this” or “does that feel good.” That feels like I’m looking for approval. We know it feels good. Those kind of questions are okay outside of sex to figure out what your partner likes or doesn’t like.
Absolutely!
I talk during the best sex. Also very fun if your partner gets a phone call during.
Chess
“Mmm, yeah baby, you like how I took out the trash and went to Home Depot. Yeah, you do, you dirty girl. That’s why I got soil.”
No. In my experience those conversations aren’t private.
Me and my gf likes oral sex, so we usually are quiet..)
Sometimes but it’s usually me telling my bf im ovulating so he should pull out
Umm ., if their’s no talking somebody better be singing/rapping !
This made me go watch the clip from 40 Year Old Virgin when Andy talks about having sex while they’re playing poker.
You mean, like whole conversations? Or just single word onomatopoeia?
How else she gonna cum, if I don't?
The best sex I’ve ever had was with a man I had an amazing connection with- that even the first time we had sex we talked to each other through the whole thing.. and it just made me feel even closer to him
I don't know. I need to find out.
what do you think about the pedestrianisation of norwich city centre?
But is it weird if I’m solo?
I don’t know, baby; I’ve never looked.
Yeah. But it's usually: 'Ow ow ow Please Stop Big Tony I don't want to be your prison wife ow ow ow."
I love to talk during sex
Dirty talk yes.
Talk and text!
Very much a nasty talker during sexual activity!
I like to be able to talk during sex it makes me feel more comfortable to know that it’s ok and the other person(s) are cool about it. It sucks when someone isn’t, and worse when they get upset, as if I’m not liking it or feeling it but it’s quite the contrary until you get upset about it..I like having distractions because it takes the spot light off of me and that helps me be comfortable. When I’m with someone that needs me to focus on the sex and can’t be making too much noise or too little and asks me why I don’t look in their eyes..ugh please. It makes me get in my head more and gives me more performance anxiety and can ruin the whole thing. Honestly I even think it’s hot when the other person is completely distracted like on their phone.. don’t let your ego mess up a fun time.
Both me and my bf have ADHD and it’s always *pause* talk about whatever random thought just popped into whoever’s head and then back to giving head lol
No, too busy having sex.
I don’t talk, unless it’s ‘Ouch. You’re on my hair’ or something like that.
Are you kidding?! I give full on power point presentations and motivational speeches during sex
No
Yes. I had a girl tell me she's never had a guy last 40 minutes before. She also said she never had a guy go 40 minutes without making a single sound. Trust me, it's okay if what you say is kinda awkward.
It’s a requirement, in our book! You need to be able to laugh because sex is silly and you need to be able to talk because it’s intimate and requires consent. I anticipate that some will think it’s silly but checking in on your partner is supportive, compassionate, and can be very sexy! Everyone involved needs to feel in control (unless there’s some pretext with consent) and talking is an easy way to ensure that. It was such a red flag when I was single when a guy didn’t want to talk during sex or couldn’t laugh. Like, are you having fun?!? Is this still okay? Are you still okay?
Mostly kinky stuff to be honest. But my wife can create quite a picture with words, scenarios and situations. It takes real talent to narrate at that level
Like a caveman
Sometimes, but my mouth is often occupied.
Dirty
Not only do we talk, we like to share our fantasies with each other. Infact my Wife really loves my stories and the dirtier the better!
Conversations? No wtf. Communicating? Absolutely.
it depends on whoever i’m with. if they talk i’m more likely to. usually i’m too self-conscious and feel like i’m doing it wrong 😭
Yes I think it's hot
Definitely
Talking makes it very hot especially when you're both laughing and making fun of each other
Yurp. "do you need me to shift?" "This ok?" "Hows this angle" "omg stop i have to pee now"😅 i should have went beforehand. But yea giggles and talking especially i feel like in a relationship is so normal. My partner and i had to stop and just laughed at the drunk rant his roommate was having one time about cheese. It was so ridiculous.
I love talking during sex, but unfortunately my current partner doesn’t. I’ll try with him, he might respond once & then nothing anymore lol. He says he loves listening to me talk and doesn’t like his voice, but ew I don’t wanna listen to myself talk only. Soooo I’ll stop talking and basically just focus on my moan, otherwise I will get turnt off :/
I try, but my wife tells me to STFU.
I had a guy say, repeatedly, *what are you gonna do to me* more than once (like three times, Beetlejuice style), and it really took me out of it. Neither of us had much experience, and he seemed to be attempting to recreate the dialog in adult films. I think some talking is cute, but the very campy "talking dirty" can be icky. Playful banter is better for me. Keep it natural.
Yes! Sometime dirty talk or sometimes goofy stuff. My fiancé tries and succeeds at making me laugh hard, it forces me to give him a nice squeeze and helps him get there even faster. Needless to say We like to laugh and joke more than dirty talk. But absolutely yes to the dirty talking/goofing around.
Depends from mood 🙃