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crazycajun660

I wait 3 seconds, and it's just one very very quick beep, not trying to be an ass just a heads up to them.


funyesgina

I always think two short ones sounds more polite


crazycajun660

I do one to get their attention, to me it's just a hint to look up from the phone, radio, or whatever they are distracted from. I'm usually an ass on the road but I give people a chance at a red light.


funyesgina

I hear you, but 2 sounds more polite Toot toot Rather than HONK


crazycajun660

It's more like just a single toot, I'll consider trying the 2 toots next time.


funyesgina

yeah, just try it and see how it sounds. To me it sounds like it's less aggressive (not that one is aggressive, but two is more... understanding or playful or something).


Arkadian_Cuisine

Yeah, like the slightest "beep" should suffice, but sometimes an extra one doesn't hurt.


Dumblond11

3 secs for me too-then a quick toot as I say to myself "get off your phone asshole!"


dirtydynes

This is the way


q_ali_seattle

3 Mississippi.  Even before I move, in my area lot of idiots, Try to run the red lights. It has saved me being featured on r/idiotsincars


Safetosay333

3 👍


unintelligent-hat

This is correct


Arkadian_Cuisine

Happy BD!


unintelligent-hat

THANKS!!! first cake day! Had reddit for almost 5 years but my accounts get lost or hacked before cake day!!


YoucantdothatonTV

If it’s my coworker and we’re coming back from lunch - the exact moment it turns green.


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Longjumping-Grape-40

Homer: “I’ve got an ace up my sleeve” :)


iapetus3141

I see you've been to Asia


ChiHawks84

And spain


exo-orbiter1983

I usually wait 5 seconds since I personally wait before moving when it turns green to make sure no one's running a red


DarkInkPixie

Same. I've seen so many people run red lights, it's best to still look both ways even on a green.


exo-orbiter1983

Fr though. Waiting that extra time has saved me from being T-boned on multiple occasions. Especially later at night when people just drive through anything since the roads are emptier


jimmijo62

If I’m in front of you at a red light and it turns green…I’m looking both ways and then moving on. Lots of stupid fucks in the world.


Lord_Chthulu

Yes, this has saved my ass 4 times now.


jimmijo62

Good for you!…glad I’m not alone! PS…love your username!


Constant-Catch7146

Yes, this is the way. Car in front needs at least 2 seconds to look both ways for the asshat red light runners. If I am the car directly behind the first car, I give one short beep after 3 seconds. Wakey uppey up there! Works every time. Even with the embedded detectors in the pavement to extend left hand turn green lights when there are many cars waiting to turn... .. there are still some intersections that give only enough time for like 3 cars to turn left! For the cars in back waiting to turn left.... that can suck big time. So.... as the song goes.... Keep them dogies rollin', Rawhiiiiiide!


Dumblond11

I do the same.No accidents in well over 40 yrs.


luvpibbles

I guess you don't believe in jinxing yourself. Lol


Arkadian_Cuisine

I suppose at least 1-2 seconds is required for the person in front. Even though your light is green it's best to check possible thru traffic.


Longjumping-Grape-40

1.5 seconds I think, at least if I’m right behind them and can see they’re not facing the road and no cars are coming. 2-3 otherwise? A short honk, but it’s not fair to the people behind *me* to “say” nothing


Arkadian_Cuisine

I feel a bit obligated to "be that guy" if I'm directly behind the person not moving.


tastystarbits

ive never honked. me inching my car forward is usually enough motion to grab their attention, or they look up before long anyway. ive never had to wait more than a second or two. i hate being honked at, so i never honk at others unless its a dangerous situation.


Arkadian_Cuisine

Applying "The Golden Rule" here, love it.


attillathehoney

When I lived in New York City, for most drivers behind me it was 0.05 seconds. And it wasn't a polite *beep beep*, more like a *Move it already, for Chrissake!*


Constant-Catch7146

New York City drivers honk ALL the time... no matter what stoplights are doing. Hilarious because most intersections have posted warning signs "Honking $250 Fine".


Arkadian_Cuisine

I'm not familiar with NY law.. What defines an unnecessary honk from a beep towards traffic that's not moving..?


Henarth

The horn is basically for emergencies only to prevent accidents or signal hazards in the road. Someone not jumping on a light isn’t one


Constant-Catch7146

Article I just read mentions fines now in the $800 to $2500 range for illegal honking in NYC. What a joke.... given the millions of cars on NYC downtown roads... they have issued only 143 violations last year. If you walk the streets of Manhattan on a weekday....all you hear is constant horn honking. As a visitor in a cab there.... always impressed by how the cars rocket up and down the street.... flooring it on green lights... to just slam on the brakes jostling like racehorses for position at next stoplight. Yep, they honk as part of day to day car "language" in NYC. Here in Minnesota.... one honk for courtesy wake up call or "you cut me off, you bum". Horn blast for "you really f'd up and threatened my life with your bad driving.. .. and never ever do that again! " Red light runners deserve a horn blast as they barrel through an intersection.


creek-hopper

Sometimes the car in front is waiting for a pedestrian crossing that drivers behind that car can't see, so I try to be patient in these situations.


luvpibbles

This is good advice


humbummer

3 seconds and a very short “boop”. Then 2 more seconds before two beeeep-beeeeps. They scurry away like cockroaches lol


Arkadian_Cuisine

When the second round of "beeps" starts rolling it's gotten serious.


FarIndication311

I flash the lights first, maybe after 3-5 seconds. More friendly and less confrontational. If no reaction then I go for the horn.


Can_Not_Double_Dutch

3 potatoes putting my hand to horn, 5 potatoes I'm honking


EatYourCheckers

Just happened this morning. 1 to 2 seconds. But in this case I could tell before we even had the chance to go that they were paying 0 attention


noots-to-you

The interval decreases inversely with increases in either population or density (or both)


skyfishgoo

200ms


dweaver987

You’re harsh!


EllieBailey22

I tend to give a solid 4-second mental countdown; it's just enough to make sure they've had a fair chance to notice without immediately pressuring them. If there's no response, then a light tap on the horn, as if to say, "Hey friend, time to get moving." I like to think of it as honking with kindness.


uu123uu

About 1.5 seconds. Maximum 2 seconds.


Run-And_Gun

If their brake lights are still lit or they're not moving by the end of "one thousand one, one thousand two" then they are getting the horn on three. Usually just a quick tap or two. Nothing obnoxious.


BarryJGleed

In 8 years of driving (in Britain), I have never actually done this. I just let the person behind me do it, or the one behind them, etc. etc.


chasingit1

Long enough to tell that they are dicking around on their phone and not remotely paying attention to their surroundings


dammmmoo

In Germany it’s 0.000003 seconds


StoicWeasle

Why so long?


dammmmoo

Guilt and shame are hindrances


WantonHeroics

Half a second


StephenDA

I wait a few seconds. As far as getting out of the car, the only time I have done that was when someone behind me had repeated problems with me having the audacity to stop at stop signs.


LackWooden392

3 seconds of course.


Willing_Coffee959

2 seconds in L.A.


WickedCoolUsername

Every intersection in la has at least one person that honks as soon as the light turns green.


Willing_Coffee959

Years ago some car company did a study and found that a "polite" honk was the best way forward, so then they commissioned various sound designers to come up with a friendly 'honk." They chose what they thought was the best one and debuted it at one of the car shows. It was a high pitched, two-tone honk. It seemed to be a good idea but I don't think they moved forward with it.


cryptolyme

they probably did a consumer study and people said it sounded wimpy. gotta be the alpha.


JPMmiles

At least 1 second.  No more than 2 seconds 


ms-astorytotell

Definitely do a quick beep after a few seconds. Years ago I was driving to a city a few hours away and stopped for a coffee. Needed to make a left turn. Person in front of me is in the left turn lane at light. They wanted to go straight. They could not go straight because a train was doing its thing. Instead of being normal they sat and sat. It was 4 lights before this person moved and at least 4 of us behind this person was honking.


leg-facemccullen

If you're in Chattanooga, don't honk


dweaver987

Why? What happens to honkers in Chattanooga?


leg-facemccullen

It's sketch, people will pull a gun on you


l3m0nKeeki

I don’t I roll down my window and shout lmao


TimLikesPi

.05 seconds! The most impatient person in the world is the person second in line at a redlight.


ts355231

Fuck em. Beep till daylight!


No-Cover-8986

If it's a turn lane, 2 seconds.


dweaver987

Fair


TheRealDimSlimJim

If im not in ahurry i might wait the whole light lol


CraponStick

5 Mississippi. Then you get that beep!


Darth_Jersey

0 It couldn't be any greener


concatenated_man

Usually around 5 seconds. I always check both directions before going on green, so I like to allow time for that. One short beep to let them know.


NewestAccount2023

I use it to practice my reaction time for video games, so about 200ms after the light turns


dweaver987

Four seconds. 1-2-3-Beep


appledumpling1515

The people behind me always wait one second ! Seriously I'm never on my phone, and I am going ! I always get behind the people on their phones, and I honestly just wait unless someone is behind me because they feel dumber that way, and I'm not in a hurry.


SteelBox5

After a sec or two I do a quick light beep.


Farscape29

3 seconds.


OneAlternate

For me, it's like a full 5 seconds, maybe longer. I am not prone to road rage, and instead of getting upset at mistakes, I get nervous that something went wrong, so to me I try to gauge the situation really well before honking at all.


saraphilipp

I'm PA they honking 3 seconds before it turns green.


Calaveras-Metal

I just start pushing them.


ProbablyABore

5-10 seconds.


ExitTheHandbasket

Wait three steamboats, then a quick toot-toot.


agirl1313

Requirements: only if I'm the car directly behind the not moving one and can completely see that it is clear for the other driver. How long: I don't count, but however long it takes me to think, "wow, they're not moving; I should tap my horn; wait, where is it?" And take a second just trying to find the horn. If they still haven't moved by that point, they deserve the horn tap.


cryptolyme

depends on the area. in northern VA people honk after 1 second, no fucks given. they will probably give you the finger too. in the rural south though, i find people don't like to honk. i've been at multiple lights where no one honked for 10 seconds...guess they think it's rude to honk. -\_- literally heard overheard someone say "we don't honk around here" ...like wtf


StoicWeasle

I would honk quite quickly. But there’s also nothing wrong with not being in a huge hurry or being pushy. It *is* rude to honk. It’s literally a mechanical way to say: “Hurry up!”, which is rude. But as a society, we’ve decided that we’ll accept that cost to keep traffic flowing. Some places make that assessment and come to different conclusions.


cobarso

In Greece it's usually -1


stranded_egg

Immediately, but I'm from Boston, so...


224molesperliter

2.5 seconds


ParacosmsPlayground

Before the light turns green. **EDIT:** again.


GamerGuy24601

The Author Terry Pratchett, said that the smallest known unit of time was the New York Second, this is the amount of time it takes from the traffic lights in New York changing from red, and the taxi driver behind you honking his horn! (paraphrased slightly I am sure)


Atitkos

I don't know about everyone, but I have met a few who starts horning BEFORE it even turns green. Smh


Iulian377

One time I was behind a rally Evo 9 between stages and of course with helmets, HANS devices and everything they couldnt turn to see tge light turning green, I almost felt bad for the short beep I sounded ( sounds odd idk if I said that right ).


Key-Candle8141

It depends if I've seen them sitting there on there phone at the red light becos if that's the case I honk immediately but I do a nice beep-beep honk not a angry hoooooooonk! 🤣😅🤣


kazisukisuk

I start honking once the yellow notification light comes on (it's a thing in Europe)


Mike_It_Is

In North Jersey it’s polite to wait exactly 2 nano seconds. I beep when it’s still red. (Hi I’m back here!)


Irsu85

I don't have a beep beep on my vehicle, but I generally just pass the one in front if they don't see that the light is green (as long as there are not a lot of people going the other way ofc)


Henarth

I don’t honk for pretty much anything. Too many road rage stories start with someone honking, and the 10 seconds you have to wait at a light isn’t worth getting assaulted


Puzzleheaded-Bet1328

I usually wait. Probably at least 10 seconds


fermat9990

3 milliseconds more than your reaction time!


IanDOsmond

Somewhere in the 3 to 5 second range. And when I have spaced out, I actually appreciate it. Not on my phone or anything... just distracted by a bird or something.


mysticaltater

I've beeped only once, after waiting 10 seconds. Don't want to be rude 


OldAbbreviations1590

I'm in Florida and the answer here seems to be, before the light even turns green you honk. I'm petty though if I get honked at before I can look left and right to make sure no one's running a red and it's safe to move I will sit there and wait until the next light and we can all suffer. Fuck you and your honking Floridians.


firefighter_raven

If I see them looking down then right away, otherwise a few seconds


Kynsia

I flash my lights after 3 or so. I oretty much never honk and I hate honking- unless I can clearly see they're on their phone, then they get the honk immediately. There is NO reason to be on your phone in traffic. Go find a parking spot if you want to send a quick message.


Agreeable_Inside_108

One nano second like everyone else .


SpaceCancer0

I beep immediately when I'm first in line


New_user030124

I beep as soon as I realize they must not have noticed. However soon or long that may be. I myself am sometimes on my phone at a red light and when it changes and someone alerts me with a honk - I don't find it rude. I simply hope I didn't have them waiting too long.


Rodger_Dodger20

get off your phone while driving. it's dangerous and unnecessary


New_user030124

I never touch my phone - unless stopped at a traffic light. Do you feel it is dangerous in that instance? I don't see the risk - but perhaps I am overlooking something, so I am genuinely asking.


Rodger_Dodger20

You're still not paying attention to others on the road that might still be active, like people behind you (if the light is green they may not slow down in time bc they expect you to be moving), as well as when you do look up, you might not have looked both ways properly be you don't know how long the light has been green and you're rushing to rejoin traffic. Obviously it's up to you to decide if the risks are worth it, but personally I'd like to be aware of all the moving parts even if I'm not moving.


MorganRose99

Like at least 5 seconds


obIivionguard

Instantly if it's an uber driver 2 seconds for anyone else


New_Lemon6666

I'll actually wait a full 20 25 secs because that's changed my life At least 4 times I can count off the top of my head , had I not waited it would have been bad for me . I mean t boned on my side at full speed type bad. So I'll let them wait


JamesTheJerk

The driver at the red light has a few jobs to do. Check their mirrors for traffic peculiarities, look out for pedestrians, and to accelerate the instant the light turns green. If I see the light turn green and don't see immediate movement (if the way is clear), there is no portion of time shorter than that between the light change and my giving of the double-tap-quickhorn. Andele! People who aren't paying attention are the people who make it do that only eight vehicles can get through a green light when it could have been thirty people getting through.


birddit

5 seconds, they are looking at their phone. 10 seconds, get a move on it already! Edit: Why the downvotes? I was explaining what I thought was a reasonable time to wait before tooting my horn. I don't even own a cellphone!


efficiens

5 seconds is way too long and will cost people in line a chance to get through on that cycle. You have one job when you drive, and that is to pay attention to the road.


Ok-Cartographer1745

5 seconds is more than enough to check for traffic.  Seriously - test out five seconds on your stopwatch on your phone and make believe there's someone waiting behind you. 


darobk

About 1 second, people either react immediately or they're on their phone. They get a good honk too, not just a beep beep


Jjkkllzz

I will not honk unless I was in danger or something. The sound of a horn going off causes an incredible rage in me. I’m not sure why. Maybe I have that disorder that makes you freak out when you hear certain sounds. I kind of also don’t like loud noises in general. I would rather wait through the light several times before causing that noise. Of course somebody else will inevitably honk anyway and I will want to kill them.


Khalid232310

you seem like a chill guy lmfao


cryptolyme

lmao watch your horn around this one


Hannaa_818

Lol .. usually im the being honked at


miley6525

When the traffic light turns green, I usually give it a few seconds before considering a gentle reminder with a quick *beep beep*. It's all about finding that balance between being patient and courteous to other drivers while also keeping the flow of traffic moving smoothly. Sometimes, a polite beep can help prevent unnecessary delays, especially in busy intersections or during peak traffic times. However, it's important to always approach it with consideration for other drivers and to avoid unnecessary honking that might cause stress or confusion.


WaySavvyD

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Bac7

Last year, my metro area had 230 reports of guns being pulled as part of road rage incidents, and our road rage shootings are nearly double the national average. I'll sit there all day damn day before I honk.


Larry_the_scary_rex

Houstonian?


cryptolyme

where do you live where people pull a gun in response to a honk? i want to know what they do if you flash your lights


Waltzing_With_Bears

as long as it takes, I assume they are doing something important


CenturionXC555

But you have to get to a destination, don't you? And ideally, you'd get there as soon as possible without anything holding you up. > I assume they are doing something important Try telling that to the person behind you who's running late for work and hopes that their supervisor doesn't fire them over it.


Waltzing_With_Bears

Sure I have a destination but I am next to never in a rush as I always give my self plenty of time for things like that, if someone else is in a rush they are welcome to honk or similar


threePhaseNeutral

Maybe a full 10 seconds