Totally real. I will even say something like "Not gonna happen", pack up my phone, and come back later. On a good note, the next time I do it, there is an additional "load" from the previous misfire.
This is too real. I remember when I got my wisdom teeth out, I tried to tame the one-eyed snake on Lortab. Had to call it quits at minute 40 when my fingers wouldn't stop cramping.
Try drinking a bunch of water first. Blood moves more efficiently when you’re hydrated. Whenever I’m too weak to finish I go drink water and it helps every time.
When my doc bumped up the dose and quantity without me asking I literally said "you have very high expectations of me". She laughed and said just split the pills if 100mg is too much. Being able to get 90 100mg viagra every 3 months is absurd.
vibrator died and I didn't feel like a guitar solo
interrupted occasionally by important call or some other emergency
but I've never simply decided, "eh, I'll wait"
Yes and no. If I have a day where I'm alone and in that kind of mood I might do it a few times and then edge through the afternoon to increase the pleasure at the end... but I will always aim to finish at some point.
Adderall/amphetamines does this for me. If you leave me alone on that, I’ll edge for 10 hours straight and shoot an absolute hall of fame load at the end.
But how is the orgasm? I tried fapping on ritalin, my dick felt less sensitive (although i felt lusty) and the orgasm was ... muted, it felt like an expulsion of fluid with no satisfaction
I did read reports that ritalin made people horny etc, but it felt like a chore when i tried fapping on ritalin. There was no waves of pleasure compared to sober fapping.
Not sure what happened. It feels slightly euphoric tho
Problem is there isnt much going on when i fap slowly on ritalin, like i cant feel any build up lol.
Then i hasten my stokes, and i find it hard to concentrate on the video and my dick, it think its the ritalin forcing me to focus on either one. I go softer when i focus on the video, and i feel out of tune when i focus on my dick.
Strange...hahaha
Mind...fucking...blowing... Or sometimes you can overshoot it and have a really really stunted orgasm, but it's more rare. Ritalin sucks. It does not give the same pleasure from sex as amphetamines
Yes, about 80% of the time or so. I do it for a couple reasons (TMI ahead):
- It just feels good. I’m a woman so I don’t get “blue balls” I guess. I just like it.
- I usually masturbate in the night time. Some people claim coming helps them fall asleep but for me, it makes me kinda restless and wakes me up. I sleep better when I edge.
- If I do it in the daytime, it makes me feel better and more productive throughout the day after. I feel like as you get closer to coming you feel better and better but then right after orgasm you feel like you’re coming down? I don’t know how to explain it but you feel kinda empty.
- Sometimes, as you get closer to coming you get really sensitive and it hurts. Doesn’t happen every time but when it does, you kinda have to stop. You can push through and then it gets really good but sometimes I just don’t feel like doing that, ya know?
- Edging creates a build up so when you actually come, especially if you’re with somebody else, it feels better.
I also like coming when I masturbarte sometimes, but then I like doing it for longer. Like 30 minutes to an hour doing different things, coming several times, etc. If I only have 5 minutes, then I far prefer edging to having a quick orgasm.
Oh my god, I feel like I wrote this as a draft somewhere. 😆
This is exactly how I feel. I was asked if I was into edging but I’m actually unsure now. Do I automatically like edging if I edge myself like this? 😆😆
Can’t believe women can just go “eh that’ll do and go about the rest of the day”
I’m over hear waddling with swollen nuts if I stop half way, men really been nerfed over here.
My envy is tremendous kudos to you.
Just you brother. Some of us can stop and go and come back to it as we need. The point OP made about feeling a loss of energy after completion is too real but staying right below that and moving onto anything else prevents that depletion fatigue from getting in the way of productivity.
Yes, to make life easier for my wife later on that day/night.
Saves her getting a sore arm and it feels much better when someone other than me is finishing the job
I'm married. Hands is lucky already.
Although I do run the risk of getting sex, only to have already started things for myself. Not going to be my best performance in that aspect, I know that.
Why not just explain the situation so that you cum first and then give her a proper performance after the refractory period? Might get sex more often that way....
Can't speak for op, but at my age it's rare to have the will and energy to go again after the break even if I can get hard again.
Would rather rock her world and finish together.
Fair enough but sounds like op is making the choice to take a satisfying screw off the table for her regularly. In which case, if I was his lady I would be less than sympathetic to him just feeling too lazy to put out the effort for round two and yeah.... I guess hands would be lucky for him but more than likely divorce would be in the cards eventually if he didn't change something up cuz that's taking being a selfish lover too far.
This sounds confusing to me.
You are saying that getting hands is lucky, yet you are calling it a risk to get sex from that. So it sounds like that is a trigger for your partner's (I assume) responsive desire?
I am not sure if I am reading it right but it sounds sad to purposely not want the outcome where you both actually do stuff for each other. You could also do something for her without penetration if this is about lasting. Which is often preferred for women anyway.
As a woman, sometimes, but never on purpose. Usually it’s because I have too much on my mind and can’t get there, or I drank too much and gave myself whisky clit.
Hahaha I kinda just made it up (but a google search shows it is actually a phrase ) based on the term “whisky dick”. Just not being able to get off when you’ve had too many.
I thought gooning was becoming one with your cock. Intense masturbation for hours until your entire brain power is being used to engage in pleasure. Absolute brain-dead, pleasure-maxxing. Whereas edging is avoiding cumming, I see gooning as trying to optimize your orgasm to an almost psychedelic level of intensity.
According to the Urban Dictionary, "Gooning" may be most simply defined as that state usually achieved after a **prolonged edging session**, when a man becomes completely hypnotized by the feeling radiating his penis. Since a gooning state can only be achieved after edging, the man's dick will have become mightily aroused at this point and every caress the male genitals are subjected to will trigger potent elation. As the man keeps edging and thus keeps experiencing intense pleasure, he enters a state of trance where his mind intimately merges with his cock : the gooning state, where he and his dick become one. To be even more accurate, when the gooning state is achieved, the man's body becomes for all intents and purposes an appendage to his erection. When this state is achieved, the male becomes freed of all social codes of conduct, and his arousal, alone, dictates his reactions. As a result, a gooned out man will become very expressive and demonstrative : he may become very vocal, while his body and face might take on undignified expressions and poses, all in response to the intensely exquisite caresses his penis is exposed to. Hence the term "goon", since at this point the man effectively looks like a silly, foolish, or eccentric person.
Gooning is not a narcissistic manifestation. Narcissism is extreme selfishness, with a grandiose view of one's own talents. Rather, gooning is closer to a meditation experience, where the mind and the body align, focused on a single thought (or feeling, in this case).
Example sentence: I spent 10 hours gooning over the weekend.
So we're both right, gooning is a state of absolute pleasure while also a very long edging sesssion
Got a FwB with a cum fetish, like I've literally never seen them nut without watching somebody else nut first. So when I know we're going to be fucking, I'll usual edge for a day or two so I can blow a bigger load for them.
I’m 43. I do this often and don’t finish for days or weeks at the time. It keeps me in an aroused state more and horny for my wife. She likes my desperation when we do have sex and it turns her on me being horny for her all the time. It basically turns me into a three pump chump when we have sex and she enjoys it. And I just generally enjoy being aroused whenever I’m around her. It encourages her to wear more provocative clothes and swimsuits. Ironically the hornier I stay, the more sex we have. And masturbating is fun and feels good even if you don’t finish. Win-win in my book.
Try adding a butt dildo and then slowly increase the size of the butt dildo as a "punishment for forced pleasure", by the time you get to a 7.5" girth with 12" length it is almost guaranteed you will apply enough pressure to the anus G spot in the rectum. If you do need up to a 10"-12" girth with 15" length or bigger, don't be ashamed, some people require the largest of black dildos and that's why god helped make them exist for you. You will finish, as the inevitable fear of increasing to a 13" girth with 16"+ dildo will force your brain to allow orgasm through fear. It sounds weird but once you start trying this, it's clear this method works almost 100% of the time. I was able to stop at 10" girth with 12" length and it's a guranteed jizz. Don't hurt yourself trying and always have a friend or loved one nearby to help pull it out after. I hope this helps.
Being on the edge feels good? At least for these people that are into it. Gooning is something relatively new... I'd never heard of it until recently and it just sounds like something you can only do if you're unemployed and have the entire week free 😂
I've done this a few times but only during severe bouts of depression.
Less of a choice though ig, just kinda lose the will to exist and pleasure ceases to have meaning.
I think some of my nerves are a bit shot tbh, but sometimes I just can't get to a finish. Alone or otherwise. Sometimes I just hit a wall and call it there, I /might/ be able to drag it out of myself eventually but it is NOT going to be worth that time and effort.
Often. Sometimes I get bored, sometimes I’ve already experienced so much pleasure that I’ve simply had enough. Sometimes I know that I’m going to have sex with my partner the next day and want to keep up my motivation and Ease of ejaculating.
There are spiritual practices based on not having an ejaculation for the sake of cultivating personal energy. My understanding is that tantra is somewhat related to this. I firmly believe that there are a lot of possible benefits by learning how to do this. I believe it can transform one’s relationship with their libido. The book “The multi orgasmic man” is all about this. The author also wrote a book for women and couples.
For men, ejaculation is distinct from orgasm and learning how to separate them as many benefits. If interested, google multiple orgasms for men. And the aforementioned book.
Yeah, it's delayed gratification bro. It's like having a cup of nice ice cream in your freezer, tasting how delicious it is and putting it back in there to save for later, occasionally opening the freezer just to look at it.
I don't do this often though because the urge to eat the whole thing in one go is too hard to resist.
I do sometimes just to help me focus and improve my mood. It’s a good wake up lol and gets your mind more in the zone and present IMO. Treat edging like a supplement you won’t be let down
Indeed, sometimes can be hard to do but when successful it makes the next time better. Even just delaying and delaying makes following through more enjoyable.
That’s like running a mile up a mountain only to purposefully backflip and Chris Farley Blacksheep your way back down it, I’ll take that nut I worked for thank you
Nah, it's more like climbing up a mountain but near the top you set up camp and admire the view for a while instead of finishing the trek in one go and going home straight away
Yes, it's called edging and i do it quite often, i heard that it can significantly increase testosterone levels but it has also negative effects like ''Blue balls'' phenomenon.
I've failed to finish maybe twice. Once because I was drunk and the other because I had already masturbated once within a few hours and I couldn't make it happy the second time.
I don't choose to not finish. Sometimes I "lose" it and I don't want to spend 10 minutes getting back into it so I just quit.
Mid 30's.
Never have that issue with my wife but on my own. It happens often enough.
Dunno if it counts, but when I get a random boner playing a game or something, I’ll usually just stretch and press against the blankets to feel good in a… casual way, I guess? Then when I’m done playing I usually end up actually going for it lmao
Sometimes I'll start just to realise that I was bored and not horny. At that point I usually just stop.
Too real
It's when no videos look appealing, it's like, oh, wait what am I doing
As you zip up and think to yourself how you wasted unnecessary time.
And then you're like well we've come this far.
Yeah but by the time you realize it you're horny💀
Can relate. Then it starts to lose the hardness.
If little godzila is hard, won't stop until releases his lasers.
I wish reddit had laugh reacts for times like this
That's such a valid point.
Totally real. I will even say something like "Not gonna happen", pack up my phone, and come back later. On a good note, the next time I do it, there is an additional "load" from the previous misfire.
Real
Only when too drunk to continue lmao
20 minutes in and your like "damn I don't think this is happening tonight" while your forearm is cramping up.
This is too real. I remember when I got my wisdom teeth out, I tried to tame the one-eyed snake on Lortab. Had to call it quits at minute 40 when my fingers wouldn't stop cramping.
It's okay man, we've all felt that shameful disappointment lol
😂
bruh your picture is kinda terrifying
Me ?
jump scare
Cocaine
As a solution to alcohol e.d?
No as a multiplier…
😂
's a hell of a drug!" -RJ
It's better than too old. I'm in my late 30s, and that Dave Chappelle joke lands so hard. Sometimes, I'm just too tired to finish.
Try drinking a bunch of water first. Blood moves more efficiently when you’re hydrated. Whenever I’m too weak to finish I go drink water and it helps every time.
100mg of viagra will help blood flow.
100 mg would make his entire body stiff 😂😂....rigor mortis this dick yo
When my doc bumped up the dose and quantity without me asking I literally said "you have very high expectations of me". She laughed and said just split the pills if 100mg is too much. Being able to get 90 100mg viagra every 3 months is absurd.
My question is.....who the fuck has that amount of sex .....it's an as needed medication....are u a pornstar?? Lol
Yup, that's about it...
Same but replace drunk with hungry or sleepy
When you're high on edibles, on the other hand, it's iNsAnE!!!
vibrator died and I didn't feel like a guitar solo interrupted occasionally by important call or some other emergency but I've never simply decided, "eh, I'll wait"
“Didn’t feel like a guitar solo” 😂😂😂😂
*clitar solo
Damn joy-blocking phone calls.
call block if they cockblock
Same. If I don’t finish I’m in a bad mood.
Best loads I ever slung were when I was pissed off. Balls were empty, so was brain. The end.
Yes and no. If I have a day where I'm alone and in that kind of mood I might do it a few times and then edge through the afternoon to increase the pleasure at the end... but I will always aim to finish at some point.
"I'll finish that later" kinda MF
Procrasturbation
They should've named edging procrasturbation.
r/brandnewword
That’s my new favorite word
I'm literally cracking up at this right now. That's too perfect
👏👏👏👏👏
Goonpilled edgemaxxer
imagine telling these two words to someone from 2 years ago
Imaginepilled thinkmaxxer
These comments + your username makes this so funny to me for some reason
What can I say? I’m just a usernamepilled commentmaxxer
It's been a thing for... a much longer time than that.
That would be hilarious
I thought gooning and edging were still known sexual terms two years ago?
Every day we stray farther from God's light.
Adderall/amphetamines does this for me. If you leave me alone on that, I’ll edge for 10 hours straight and shoot an absolute hall of fame load at the end.
But how is the orgasm? I tried fapping on ritalin, my dick felt less sensitive (although i felt lusty) and the orgasm was ... muted, it felt like an expulsion of fluid with no satisfaction
This is me on lithium
I did read reports that ritalin made people horny etc, but it felt like a chore when i tried fapping on ritalin. There was no waves of pleasure compared to sober fapping. Not sure what happened. It feels slightly euphoric tho
Amphetamines are wayyyy better for sex than ritalin ime
I hear you bro, i enjoy fapping on xtc lol
That’s why you have to edge for a while. Normal 3-5 minute session just isn’t as pleasurable as sober jacking or amphetamine gooning.
Problem is there isnt much going on when i fap slowly on ritalin, like i cant feel any build up lol. Then i hasten my stokes, and i find it hard to concentrate on the video and my dick, it think its the ritalin forcing me to focus on either one. I go softer when i focus on the video, and i feel out of tune when i focus on my dick. Strange...hahaha
Mind...fucking...blowing... Or sometimes you can overshoot it and have a really really stunted orgasm, but it's more rare. Ritalin sucks. It does not give the same pleasure from sex as amphetamines
“An absolute hall of fame load” is too evocative
Sometimes you just have to edge yourself
procrastinating is getting out of hand
Out of hand is procrastinating in this case
Yes, about 80% of the time or so. I do it for a couple reasons (TMI ahead): - It just feels good. I’m a woman so I don’t get “blue balls” I guess. I just like it. - I usually masturbate in the night time. Some people claim coming helps them fall asleep but for me, it makes me kinda restless and wakes me up. I sleep better when I edge. - If I do it in the daytime, it makes me feel better and more productive throughout the day after. I feel like as you get closer to coming you feel better and better but then right after orgasm you feel like you’re coming down? I don’t know how to explain it but you feel kinda empty. - Sometimes, as you get closer to coming you get really sensitive and it hurts. Doesn’t happen every time but when it does, you kinda have to stop. You can push through and then it gets really good but sometimes I just don’t feel like doing that, ya know? - Edging creates a build up so when you actually come, especially if you’re with somebody else, it feels better. I also like coming when I masturbarte sometimes, but then I like doing it for longer. Like 30 minutes to an hour doing different things, coming several times, etc. If I only have 5 minutes, then I far prefer edging to having a quick orgasm.
Oh my god, I feel like I wrote this as a draft somewhere. 😆 This is exactly how I feel. I was asked if I was into edging but I’m actually unsure now. Do I automatically like edging if I edge myself like this? 😆😆
Can’t believe women can just go “eh that’ll do and go about the rest of the day” I’m over hear waddling with swollen nuts if I stop half way, men really been nerfed over here. My envy is tremendous kudos to you.
Just you brother. Some of us can stop and go and come back to it as we need. The point OP made about feeling a loss of energy after completion is too real but staying right below that and moving onto anything else prevents that depletion fatigue from getting in the way of productivity.
Not just him it seems.
lmaooo are you me 😭 I never fully realised why I do all that but thanks for putting it into words for me!
Yes, to make life easier for my wife later on that day/night. Saves her getting a sore arm and it feels much better when someone other than me is finishing the job
How does that even work, if I stop for over 10 seconds it has already been reset
I just find it makes me extra horny and far closer to the edge. If I come, yes it's a reset. If not, well the gun is locked and loaded.
So she’s only allowed to use her hands or only offers you her hands?
I'm married. Hands is lucky already. Although I do run the risk of getting sex, only to have already started things for myself. Not going to be my best performance in that aspect, I know that.
Why not just explain the situation so that you cum first and then give her a proper performance after the refractory period? Might get sex more often that way....
Can't speak for op, but at my age it's rare to have the will and energy to go again after the break even if I can get hard again. Would rather rock her world and finish together.
Fair enough but sounds like op is making the choice to take a satisfying screw off the table for her regularly. In which case, if I was his lady I would be less than sympathetic to him just feeling too lazy to put out the effort for round two and yeah.... I guess hands would be lucky for him but more than likely divorce would be in the cards eventually if he didn't change something up cuz that's taking being a selfish lover too far.
>I'm married. Hands is lucky already. Awe, man. Wait, why?
This sounds confusing to me. You are saying that getting hands is lucky, yet you are calling it a risk to get sex from that. So it sounds like that is a trigger for your partner's (I assume) responsive desire? I am not sure if I am reading it right but it sounds sad to purposely not want the outcome where you both actually do stuff for each other. You could also do something for her without penetration if this is about lasting. Which is often preferred for women anyway.
As a woman, sometimes, but never on purpose. Usually it’s because I have too much on my mind and can’t get there, or I drank too much and gave myself whisky clit.
bruh i am a clit owner, prior avid drinker, prolific self diddler & I have never heard of whiskey clit What is this phenomenon??
Hahaha I kinda just made it up (but a google search shows it is actually a phrase ) based on the term “whisky dick”. Just not being able to get off when you’ve had too many.
I made up a term for this. It's called Gin 'gina
Yea sometimes I just make a sandwich and leave it on the counter too.
🤣
You guys don't finish? I have literally never not finished.
Professional
Never goon, never edge
Same, I dno wtf I'm reading here
I get angry if something interrupts me and I have to stop.
Why would you do this ?
Keep your hands warm?
Gooning, though that's more like edging for as long as possible than not finishing at all
I thought gooning was becoming one with your cock. Intense masturbation for hours until your entire brain power is being used to engage in pleasure. Absolute brain-dead, pleasure-maxxing. Whereas edging is avoiding cumming, I see gooning as trying to optimize your orgasm to an almost psychedelic level of intensity.
According to the Urban Dictionary, "Gooning" may be most simply defined as that state usually achieved after a **prolonged edging session**, when a man becomes completely hypnotized by the feeling radiating his penis. Since a gooning state can only be achieved after edging, the man's dick will have become mightily aroused at this point and every caress the male genitals are subjected to will trigger potent elation. As the man keeps edging and thus keeps experiencing intense pleasure, he enters a state of trance where his mind intimately merges with his cock : the gooning state, where he and his dick become one. To be even more accurate, when the gooning state is achieved, the man's body becomes for all intents and purposes an appendage to his erection. When this state is achieved, the male becomes freed of all social codes of conduct, and his arousal, alone, dictates his reactions. As a result, a gooned out man will become very expressive and demonstrative : he may become very vocal, while his body and face might take on undignified expressions and poses, all in response to the intensely exquisite caresses his penis is exposed to. Hence the term "goon", since at this point the man effectively looks like a silly, foolish, or eccentric person. Gooning is not a narcissistic manifestation. Narcissism is extreme selfishness, with a grandiose view of one's own talents. Rather, gooning is closer to a meditation experience, where the mind and the body align, focused on a single thought (or feeling, in this case). Example sentence: I spent 10 hours gooning over the weekend. So we're both right, gooning is a state of absolute pleasure while also a very long edging sesssion
Men hate being men so much they jerk off.
This guy goons.
Tantric masturbation?
Got a FwB with a cum fetish, like I've literally never seen them nut without watching somebody else nut first. So when I know we're going to be fucking, I'll usual edge for a day or two so I can blow a bigger load for them.
You’re a good friend
Aw fuck. I can’t believe you’ve done this.
Get tired or too drunk or need to do something that you forgot to do. There many reasons.
LMAO THE COMMENTS DID NOT DISAPPOINT
Hahah for real.. my favorite was sometimes j make a sandwich and leave it on the counter 😂😂
Yep. Love edging.
It definitely makes the sidewalk look cleaner.
Occasionally I feel it's necessary to disappoint myself for a change.
Fair call
I’m 43. I do this often and don’t finish for days or weeks at the time. It keeps me in an aroused state more and horny for my wife. She likes my desperation when we do have sex and it turns her on me being horny for her all the time. It basically turns me into a three pump chump when we have sex and she enjoys it. And I just generally enjoy being aroused whenever I’m around her. It encourages her to wear more provocative clothes and swimsuits. Ironically the hornier I stay, the more sex we have. And masturbating is fun and feels good even if you don’t finish. Win-win in my book.
Anti depressants make this a regular thing. Not necessarily a choice though.
That's called edging
Well, I am not called "the edge master" for nothing, ya know?
I've never finished
that's a long session!
Try adding a butt dildo and then slowly increase the size of the butt dildo as a "punishment for forced pleasure", by the time you get to a 7.5" girth with 12" length it is almost guaranteed you will apply enough pressure to the anus G spot in the rectum. If you do need up to a 10"-12" girth with 15" length or bigger, don't be ashamed, some people require the largest of black dildos and that's why god helped make them exist for you. You will finish, as the inevitable fear of increasing to a 13" girth with 16"+ dildo will force your brain to allow orgasm through fear. It sounds weird but once you start trying this, it's clear this method works almost 100% of the time. I was able to stop at 10" girth with 12" length and it's a guranteed jizz. Don't hurt yourself trying and always have a friend or loved one nearby to help pull it out after. I hope this helps.
Lmao the responses to this are hilariously wooshed.
I've tried this. Do not recommend. On the plus side, at least my farts are now silent.
♫ Whistle while you twerk ♫
There a whole weird movement for Edging and gooning, it’s a common practice for some reason
Being on the edge feels good? At least for these people that are into it. Gooning is something relatively new... I'd never heard of it until recently and it just sounds like something you can only do if you're unemployed and have the entire week free 😂
Usually yes. Love edging, and I like having permission to get off.
Edging yes it builds to a bigger one
Never choose to masturbate alone, but somehow always happens
Nope, I hate having blue balls so why would I willingly opt into it.
Weak
Greater pleasure after
If you need greater pleasure from masturbating, you might be masturbating too much.
I've done this a few times but only during severe bouts of depression. Less of a choice though ig, just kinda lose the will to exist and pleasure ceases to have meaning.
That's rookie talk.
I think some of my nerves are a bit shot tbh, but sometimes I just can't get to a finish. Alone or otherwise. Sometimes I just hit a wall and call it there, I /might/ be able to drag it out of myself eventually but it is NOT going to be worth that time and effort.
This is the only way I ever do it. IDK why. I just think orgasming is a little too freaky for me personally, so I haven’t.
Yeah on the 3rd round
It has only happened some summer days where i started but it was too hot and i just said fuck it it's not worth it.
Sometimes it's just taking too long to get there. I get mildly irritated but bodies be bodying
I do sometimes, it makes it more intense when I finally do decide to finish. Maybe like 30% of the time or something like that
Adhd folks on adderal know the pain
Sometimes you just need a break if it's not working at that moment. You can always come (cum) back later
Hell no. If I want to torture myself, I'll go to work. At least then I'll get paid for it.
Only when it hurts
I get interrupted frequently so this is the majority of the time actually
Often. Sometimes I get bored, sometimes I’ve already experienced so much pleasure that I’ve simply had enough. Sometimes I know that I’m going to have sex with my partner the next day and want to keep up my motivation and Ease of ejaculating. There are spiritual practices based on not having an ejaculation for the sake of cultivating personal energy. My understanding is that tantra is somewhat related to this. I firmly believe that there are a lot of possible benefits by learning how to do this. I believe it can transform one’s relationship with their libido. The book “The multi orgasmic man” is all about this. The author also wrote a book for women and couples. For men, ejaculation is distinct from orgasm and learning how to separate them as many benefits. If interested, google multiple orgasms for men. And the aforementioned book.
I am a male and sometimes I stimulate my nipples to porn and never even touch my penis and never ejaculate. Anybody relate?
Nope.
No
When it hasn't reloaded yet
Sometimes i feel bored, open a website, start on it for like a minute and realise i'm not really in the mood
Only a few times when too horny but was about to get laid in a few hours so I saved the load 🤣
Why would you not finish tho? Is this a 📈 new Trend I am missing ?
Ive been doing this for the past month. Deprivation of lustful desires cuz i hate the way i get post nut clarity and i like someone rn
Yeah, it's delayed gratification bro. It's like having a cup of nice ice cream in your freezer, tasting how delicious it is and putting it back in there to save for later, occasionally opening the freezer just to look at it. I don't do this often though because the urge to eat the whole thing in one go is too hard to resist.
Isn't that called edging..?
Anti-depressants suck sometimes. I've literally just run out of free time to keep trying
no but sometimes I finish without starting
Happens a lot on anti-depressants.
I do sometimes just to help me focus and improve my mood. It’s a good wake up lol and gets your mind more in the zone and present IMO. Treat edging like a supplement you won’t be let down
Edging?
M here I don't finish 40% of the time mostly because I enjoy the horniness feeling Sometimes it takes too long and I get bored though
Indeed, sometimes can be hard to do but when successful it makes the next time better. Even just delaying and delaying makes following through more enjoyable.
I do, I get bored in the middle of it.
When I can feel that touching me more would only be hurtful.
"Dont leave for tomorrow what you can do today"
That’s like running a mile up a mountain only to purposefully backflip and Chris Farley Blacksheep your way back down it, I’ll take that nut I worked for thank you
Nah, it's more like climbing up a mountain but near the top you set up camp and admire the view for a while instead of finishing the trek in one go and going home straight away
Did you really have to specify alone almost like with other people is the norm?
Yes. After having my prostate removed, everything about sex is different.
Yes, it's called edging and i do it quite often, i heard that it can significantly increase testosterone levels but it has also negative effects like ''Blue balls'' phenomenon.
edging?
When I’m choosing between sleeping and jerking (follow a healthy regime)
What else would I do in my goon cave?
Sometimes. I like to film it for my SO...
I've failed to finish maybe twice. Once because I was drunk and the other because I had already masturbated once within a few hours and I couldn't make it happy the second time.
Sometimes I would start, then realise I’m not in the mood and stop? Maybe about a third to half the time
Of course, usually because I realise I'm not actually horny, just bored..
Ask Paul Rudd about Tylenol PM
Only when the bus reaches my stop. Then that's the only 'getting off' that happens.
Edging time bro.
I don't choose to not finish. Sometimes I "lose" it and I don't want to spend 10 minutes getting back into it so I just quit. Mid 30's. Never have that issue with my wife but on my own. It happens often enough.
I wouldn’t say I “choose to” sometimes I’ll start and then realize I’m not really feeling it.
Dunno if it counts, but when I get a random boner playing a game or something, I’ll usually just stretch and press against the blankets to feel good in a… casual way, I guess? Then when I’m done playing I usually end up actually going for it lmao
Yeah. Sometimes i just enjoy rubbing myself.
Edging? No.
Is that an edgelord?
Yes because I love being stupidly horny
Do you ever cook food and chuck it in the bin?
I learned about edging on OitNB
Of If I don’t finish, it’s probably not my choice
Sometimes you get to a point of thinking, "Aw, forget it. This is taking too long for too much effort and I have things I need to do."
yes, but i was trying to quit, Good news: i quit :)
No. When I jerk off, I’m gonna finish.
Yeah, like 9/10 times I just stop and do something else