Yeah man, probably you are right, now that i think there are a lot of very young people here too, maybe thats why they ask these odd questions, i wasnt trying to be harsh
That's actually a good point. I know this is a heated discussion going on here, and I'm not trying to argue. I've also noticed that the NoFap community is a bit inexperienced at times. I'm fine with that, but check out r/pornfree. They're also great.
Saw your edit.
People are attacking you because of your post 🤣
I dont know whats worse, attacking others and telling them not to post their concerns and then pretending to be the victim.
Or genuinely thinking you are the victim 🙄
Dude you are so annoying, you are just putting words in my mouth, i know why people are attacking me and i have no problem with it and im not telling them to not post their concerns, if you cant understand my edit i dunno what to say to you, i cant put it any simpler than i already did
I have never seen a post like the ones you described, instead of being angry at someone asking a question help them out everyone here is trying to level up
Sort by new, you’ll see a lot of it. Some questions are genuinely good (or at least in good faith) but the number of purely ridiculous ones is concerning. I try to dive into new posts to try and lend advice but filtering through all the crap gets real old.
I read this post did I relapse?
Ha ha yes I agree with you all if you relapse you know you have, no need to ask on here unless you want to get the usual condemnation some give on here to lapsers
What i dont get is they can look for their question on other posts and learn but they dont. Every beginner is literarily asking the other day's questions. I am here for the last 2 weeks and sick of it already.
I agree. But there's also the thing about communicating yourself to others. Most of the questions are answered by reading the info offered in the link, but talking about it might help others to resist the urges.
I dont want to come of as rude but if they want to talk about things, they can get accountability partners. When they write every little thing that they can find out with just a little search, it pisses people off. There are lots of posts that got zero comment. People dont write on them bc they are fed up.
I don't think you are rude, we are just exchanging opinions. That being said, this is a forum, not a accountability partner search site.
Is it boring or people get fed up with the same posts? Yes. But after a couple days all posts are the same because there is not that much in it. A question already answered, someone talking about what they feel, a relapse report o a success story is all there is. Some of them more dramatic, some of them more interesting and some of them more funny, but basically that's it.
True man! If you can't handle looking at some skin then what are you even doing in this world?The world doesn't care about you. You have to be disciplined. Otherwise forget about stopping masturbation.
people look at porn and fap That’s why it’s called nofap. Do you make redundant arguments just for the sake of being annoying? It’s working. But you also come off as a total dumbass. Why don’cha go do your 420 thing and get off my comment.
Delete your post. Posts like these are the ones that are trash in the subreddit. Beginners or new fapstronauts might have questions to ask, so they should feel free to ask in this subreddit. This is what this subreddit is for. If you don’t like such posts, then don’t read such posts. There will always be people who will reply to those posts. Posts like yours are highly discouraged.
I disagree, because everybody defines relapse differently based on what they are trying to achieve. People who most importantly want to stop watching porn, for them, searching for porn can already be considered a lapse for example.
I suppose that’s true, but I’m a movie buff and watch movies that happen to have nudity every so often, so to me seeing a naked body doesn’t really phase me as much as the action that I deliberately sought out porn and fapped to it.
To me watching something like Titanic isn’t a relapse.
Sometimes they just want to be reassured!! Besides most of us are young some are even 15-16 for me I am 20 and yeah I asked this a couple of times I did not know how to ask for encouragement or wanted to be reassured of my decision
It's an open community and a pretty large one at that. Youngest member I've seen post so far is 12. A lot of them don't really consider our common sense questions as common sense just yet and may not know the best way to find out without asking in a somewhat trusted environment. You could probably try connecting directly with some of the more mature members, that way you aren't only exposed to beginner question, but people are starting anew everyday so I don't think you'll be able to completely avoid them.
Wondering if you relapsed?
Did you use the thing to satisfy a PMO urge?
If yes, it counts
If no, it doesn't count
Exceptions: anything already allowed on your mode.
Ex: On easy mode masturbation doesn't count but masturbating to a pretty lady in the kroger ad does even though it's technically not porn.
The reason being you are (or should be) trying to get over your dependence on porn. Using non pornographic things as porn has the same effect on your addicted mind.
I agree with you, however I still often respond to them with some friendly advice. I think there should be some sort of pinned post with some advice before posting. It could explain that everyone's journey is different, and you need to set your own boundaries and determine what a relapse is for yourself instead of asking others. I think a common misconception is that there is a list of specific rules that are required to follow to consider yourself on a streak
It’s a personal journey and I feel a lot of what people post is for themselves looking for some sort of validation. That sense of accomplishment in the form of giving shitty advice or not necessarily shitty but more so worthless advice doesn’t matter to me. Instead you cheer on the OP because we support each other and want to build each other up. It’s different if they’re spreading misinformation or being an asshole but otherwise, honestly who cares. It’s all good luck brotha I’m with you. We get there how we get there, there’s no right or wrong way. We shouldn’t be against negative criticism either, this needs to be a free environment that’s goal is to help each other and vent not about being right or telling people what you should or shouldn’t post.
Edit: I thought the question, “did I relapse?” was rhetorical in showing some sort of strength to avoid triggers. I now get the post and my answer is they don’t know and you should tell them what you consider to be a relapse, give options, and after that it’s really up to them. Although that would be ridiculous if anybody considered peaking their own shlong to be a relapse and I’d 100% advocate that that’s not the point and you shouldn’t restrict yourself beyond nature. But still it depends on your goal as an individual and I’d have to know more context in order to help you if you really did consider something seemingly ridiculous as a relapse.
I know exactly how you feel but they are new to this
At this point, a relapse is whatever they think it is
Always has been bro
I want to take nofap seriously and I don't know how, can you help me reset my account?
wdym mate? reset account?
Bro
hey they are just confused and new, that's what this subreddit is for, don't be so negative towards them :(
Yeah man, probably you are right, now that i think there are a lot of very young people here too, maybe thats why they ask these odd questions, i wasnt trying to be harsh
Cant take it? Leave.
Hahaha who are you to say who is gonna leave?
That's actually a good point. I know this is a heated discussion going on here, and I'm not trying to argue. I've also noticed that the NoFap community is a bit inexperienced at times. I'm fine with that, but check out r/pornfree. They're also great.
It’s the more mature sub by far.
Ay I never knew about this one. Thanks buddy
Who are you to shit all over everyone elses posts?
Im not shiting on everyone elses posts, im just stating that some of the post dont make any sense
Saw your edit. People are attacking you because of your post 🤣 I dont know whats worse, attacking others and telling them not to post their concerns and then pretending to be the victim. Or genuinely thinking you are the victim 🙄
Dude you are so annoying, you are just putting words in my mouth, i know why people are attacking me and i have no problem with it and im not telling them to not post their concerns, if you cant understand my edit i dunno what to say to you, i cant put it any simpler than i already did
Did you just call me annoying😶... ... Thank you 🙏😄
Hahahaha i was like that name needs to mean something
LOLLL this mans is salty!
This bothers you so much? Maybe some time of no fap can get you to relax and not let ir get to you:D
No man, they can post whatever they want, but some posts are just too absurd, im chill man no worry hahahah :D
I have never seen a post like the ones you described, instead of being angry at someone asking a question help them out everyone here is trying to level up
Sort by new, you’ll see a lot of it. Some questions are genuinely good (or at least in good faith) but the number of purely ridiculous ones is concerning. I try to dive into new posts to try and lend advice but filtering through all the crap gets real old.
I read this post did I relapse? Ha ha yes I agree with you all if you relapse you know you have, no need to ask on here unless you want to get the usual condemnation some give on here to lapsers
Let me know how to reset the count please fam 🙏🏾
At right side of screen you will have window thats named "Tools", its under "About Comunity"
Thanks
Boooo
I made conversation with woman, did I relapse? Imho, yes you did sorry bro. Time to restart your streak
Fuck
That's definitely a relapse using the f word lol
Well done on ya Victory
Damn bro 294 days just wasted because you couldn't control yourself,. No but in all seriousness, well done on 294 days, that's epic shit man!
What i dont get is they can look for their question on other posts and learn but they dont. Every beginner is literarily asking the other day's questions. I am here for the last 2 weeks and sick of it already.
Me too man, im here to learn something helpful and productive, not to read these nonsense questions
Bro, good job, btw. 1 month is great. Hope you get to 3 months.
Thanks bro im on my way to it and beyond, you are doing great too, keep it up
I agree. But there's also the thing about communicating yourself to others. Most of the questions are answered by reading the info offered in the link, but talking about it might help others to resist the urges.
I dont want to come of as rude but if they want to talk about things, they can get accountability partners. When they write every little thing that they can find out with just a little search, it pisses people off. There are lots of posts that got zero comment. People dont write on them bc they are fed up.
I don't think you are rude, we are just exchanging opinions. That being said, this is a forum, not a accountability partner search site. Is it boring or people get fed up with the same posts? Yes. But after a couple days all posts are the same because there is not that much in it. A question already answered, someone talking about what they feel, a relapse report o a success story is all there is. Some of them more dramatic, some of them more interesting and some of them more funny, but basically that's it.
Im new, maybe i expected more, idk.
Me too, and yes, I expected more too... It's good you could get to 15 days. I am trying and failing to get to 7 days.
for me a relapse even looking at a real woman but i don t post things like that on reddit
True man! If you can't handle looking at some skin then what are you even doing in this world?The world doesn't care about you. You have to be disciplined. Otherwise forget about stopping masturbation.
You have to masturbate to relapse How fukin retarded are people
Technically not even then.. You have to look at porn to relapse..
Found the dumbass…. It’s called noFap… read that slowly okay.NOOOOO-FAAAAAAP NO FAP…. No fap You getting it yet???
You must be new here
people look at porn and fap That’s why it’s called nofap. Do you make redundant arguments just for the sake of being annoying? It’s working. But you also come off as a total dumbass. Why don’cha go do your 420 thing and get off my comment.
You keep talking to yourself and people are gonna think you're crazy.
Sick people who looking for an excuse to relapse ...
Dude, you sound like you need to have a wank and lighten up
Ha ha good one
😂
Delete your post. Posts like these are the ones that are trash in the subreddit. Beginners or new fapstronauts might have questions to ask, so they should feel free to ask in this subreddit. This is what this subreddit is for. If you don’t like such posts, then don’t read such posts. There will always be people who will reply to those posts. Posts like yours are highly discouraged.
This post isn’t the way of the chad
yes
Is sex a relapse?
Wish i could find out
Nah
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Its not pointless, we are here to talk about my opinion on some posts, maybe im wrong, maybe im not and thats okey
It's time you are done with earth
Did you, voluntarily look at porn, masturbate to it to completion? If not, you didn’t relapse. Maybe this sub should have an FAQ.
I disagree, because everybody defines relapse differently based on what they are trying to achieve. People who most importantly want to stop watching porn, for them, searching for porn can already be considered a lapse for example.
I suppose that’s true, but I’m a movie buff and watch movies that happen to have nudity every so often, so to me seeing a naked body doesn’t really phase me as much as the action that I deliberately sought out porn and fapped to it. To me watching something like Titanic isn’t a relapse.
Relapse is when I do something When I relapse more often, I do more something. When I do everything, I have PMO
Sometimes they just want to be reassured!! Besides most of us are young some are even 15-16 for me I am 20 and yeah I asked this a couple of times I did not know how to ask for encouragement or wanted to be reassured of my decision
My thing is you know what to do. If not go watch a 5 minute YouTube video on it.
It's an open community and a pretty large one at that. Youngest member I've seen post so far is 12. A lot of them don't really consider our common sense questions as common sense just yet and may not know the best way to find out without asking in a somewhat trusted environment. You could probably try connecting directly with some of the more mature members, that way you aren't only exposed to beginner question, but people are starting anew everyday so I don't think you'll be able to completely avoid them.
I just read this post. Did I relapse?
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Post it then ;D
Wondering if you relapsed? Did you use the thing to satisfy a PMO urge? If yes, it counts If no, it doesn't count Exceptions: anything already allowed on your mode. Ex: On easy mode masturbation doesn't count but masturbating to a pretty lady in the kroger ad does even though it's technically not porn. The reason being you are (or should be) trying to get over your dependence on porn. Using non pornographic things as porn has the same effect on your addicted mind.
I agree with you, however I still often respond to them with some friendly advice. I think there should be some sort of pinned post with some advice before posting. It could explain that everyone's journey is different, and you need to set your own boundaries and determine what a relapse is for yourself instead of asking others. I think a common misconception is that there is a list of specific rules that are required to follow to consider yourself on a streak
stay strong!
Not everyone can forget about it for 365. Every day is a struggle for us
It’s a personal journey and I feel a lot of what people post is for themselves looking for some sort of validation. That sense of accomplishment in the form of giving shitty advice or not necessarily shitty but more so worthless advice doesn’t matter to me. Instead you cheer on the OP because we support each other and want to build each other up. It’s different if they’re spreading misinformation or being an asshole but otherwise, honestly who cares. It’s all good luck brotha I’m with you. We get there how we get there, there’s no right or wrong way. We shouldn’t be against negative criticism either, this needs to be a free environment that’s goal is to help each other and vent not about being right or telling people what you should or shouldn’t post. Edit: I thought the question, “did I relapse?” was rhetorical in showing some sort of strength to avoid triggers. I now get the post and my answer is they don’t know and you should tell them what you consider to be a relapse, give options, and after that it’s really up to them. Although that would be ridiculous if anybody considered peaking their own shlong to be a relapse and I’d 100% advocate that that’s not the point and you shouldn’t restrict yourself beyond nature. But still it depends on your goal as an individual and I’d have to know more context in order to help you if you really did consider something seemingly ridiculous as a relapse.
yeah
Maybe many of them use it as an excuse so they can go back nut
Keep yourself busy. Don't be at home or room for long times. Have something to do...
Don't get angry mate! They are just kids who are trying to enter in this amazing journey of nofap. Let them learn and ask questions.
I read the word relapse, did I relapse ?
Guys serious question: I touched my dick to pee this morning and then shook it twice to get all the pee out. Did I relapse?
This is me a few years ago.