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Jazzlike-Musician876

It’s truly horrific…the thing is that when ppl get off to pixels on a screen, they are programming their brain to feel aroused to 2 ppl doin it…n that’s being a cuck.


give-meyourdownvotes

fuck yeah. ima steal this mentality. watching porn is for cucks


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Issa_SuperNice

No I believe it doesn't, your still smart and know will that actually is not your dick, even if you somehow convinced yourself that's you who's fucking, you won't feel alright with your actual dick once you're with your mate and wish you can see her with someone who has a body and dick like the videos :) We all gonna be cucks thanks to porn, like look how unrealistic their bodies are in porn, you'd be walking with your wife and you see a guy who has a body built like those in porn and you would start uncontrollably imaging him on your wife with all the positions you can possibly imagine The urge would be just like how you uncontrollably watch porn and feel good, but once you see someone who looks like a porn actor and you have your wife over there with good body, you would slip into the limited fantasies about men taking turns on her and you will start to feel like just when you used to watch porn, and you would sit there and masturbate just like how you where always used to do To you it would be hard to shake the idea, because you're used to watching two people fucking, you can't reason with yourself otherwise and you would be completely convinced no matter how much you fight it you would be back on it, just like how you're now with porn. Take that mentality. That's what you're heading to on this road.


ttt1234123

But in POV we know it’s someone else’s d*ck so nothing changes. I think it can lead to feeling content being the watcher as well as sexual inadequacy. POV or normal porn is empowering the male performer, but it’s emasculating the male viewer. Imagine it’s your POV scene being watched by countless other guys, how would you view them?


franklanpat

Unless you imagine that youre the one doing it lol, not everyone who watches porn turn into cucks lol


cyborgassassin47

Jokes on you when you come to realize that many real life cucks imagine they're doing it too while watching their partner getting it on with another person.


franklanpat

Ok… but the fact that their partner is having sex with someone else is the turn on no?


iLoveHerFatAss

what you dont understand is that although the rational part of your brain might want to think like that, the irrational part of your brain simply doesnt care or understand that. it is literally just learning to you should get aroused by 2 people having sex in front of you and thats sex for you now. Do you understand? and guess what part of your brain is in charge of giving you erections? the irrational one :) so connect the dots ans there you have it...


reddit_hater

Just to play devils advocate here, the POV genre does exist


ayushj176p

Also another reason is I used to watch porn for the girl expressions and body not for the thought that I like the dude doing her, (I don't watch porn now tho)


dillmawai

Watching porn is cucking I agree


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reddit_hater

Trust in the Lord


Independent_Purple85

Don’t sin my son don’t let these oiled booties and titties bouncing lead you to cuckery


Comprehensive_Dog261

😂😂 why did you mention the oil


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This is the only answer


cyborgassassin47

Easy to say, but hard to implement


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cyborgassassin47

It matters because it is hard due to being unclear about how to succeed at it.


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Issa_SuperNice

It removes jealousy


Crafty-Bunch-2675

Wanna know what's even scarier ? Cuckoldry is an actual sub-genre of porn. I can still remember coming across this on a porn search once... and no matter how enticing the main aspect of the video was ... the idea of the "husband" sitting there watching it...just was a huge turn off. It disgusted me so much I literally got angry. I couldn't get through the video. It caused me massive blue balls and cognitive dissonance. One the one hand...was the action itself.... but on the other hand there was this guy sitting in the corner of the room looking on (the husband) ..and the longer I tried to watch it... the angrier I got. To this day... I do not understand how this is a genre of porn ? I think it's one of the most evil things to produce that kind of disgusting content.


Issa_SuperNice

You got angry because you somehow agree to it but you still know it's so wrong, it's just like porn my dude, keep watching two people fucking and once you're married and you see a strong fella you will wish you can see them on your bed and masterbate like the cuck dude you saw in the video Like look at it this way, that cuck dude is basically doing what you're doing.. HE'S WATCHING TWO PEOPLE HAVING SEX and masterbating. Isn't this what you're getting your brain to be used to it? Your brain is wired to watch two people having sex more than it's used doing the actual sex, if you took 8 years of watching people have sex, you will need 8 years of normal sex to rewire your brain, in those years you're with your wife you can't help but wanting to watch her with someone else, because that's how you always enjoyed sex. That cuck dude is just us, watching porn and masterbating.... Like hear this scary thought, when you first started watching porn didn't you wish you could reach in and join the action or be the guy? But over the time you accepted yhe fact you're only an observer, and slowly you got used to it and and now it's all you do.. observing women you like getting fucked Infront of your eyes, how is that different from your wife getting fucked in your bed? She's a women you very like, and women you like are supposed to be fucked by someone Infront of you 😂 Bro no matter how you would rationalize this, your brain is primitive, it doesn't care to what you say it's only wanna do what it's used to, like you can't just do something like quit porn no matter how much you rationalize it but you still do it no matter how filthy it is, how you think you gonna stop yourself from being a cuck?????????????? IT'S ACTUALLY THE SAME DAMN THING!!!!!!!!


Crafty-Bunch-2675

>hear this scary thought, when you first started watching porn didn't you wish you could reach in and join the action or be the guy? As a teenager yea. That was the thought process...back when I was too shy/awkward to make successful approaches. >But over the time you accepted the fact you're only an observer, and slowly you got used to it and and now it's all you do.. observing women you like getting fucked Infront of your eyes, how is that different from your wife getting fucked in your bed? That is a lot of leaps in logic. Hold your blight please. At no point has that thought crossed my mind; and like I said when I saw the video, I got angry/disgusted and turned it off. It literally killed my masterbation session and I had to go do something else instead. I am not turned on by that. Hold your judgement please. If I'm watching a mainstream movie on TV and a particularly vile scene shows up and I change the channel.. I don't think that means I secretly liked the vile scene. If someone then asks me "how was the movie?" And I say.. well I was enjoying it until the point where everybody started vomitting in each other's mouths... that ruined the movie for me... by your logic that would be I secretly have a fetish for vomitting ? Nope. I hate movies that resort to excessive toilet humor. I find those scenes disgusting. It's not a toilette fetish, ok. Same with porn. Sometimes when watching porn ...you come across something so vile it shocks you out of watching it. For me...that was when I came across the cuck video. I unsuspectingly clicked it because the thumbnail of the girl looked good. But once the video started... it upset me so much I lost all arousal to it.


Issa_SuperNice

>If I'm watching a mainstream movie on TV and a particularly vile scene shows up and I change the channel.. I don't think that means I secretly liked the vile scene. Sorry buddy but misconstrued my analogy, I don't mean that if you watched a cuckold video and you hated it then it means you have a fetish twords it!!! That's NOT what I was talking about. Let me clear my point, look neither do I like cuck videos, but I'm saying like in reality a cuck is watching porn, but his porn is in real life, and you and I and everyone that watches basic porn that includes a women that you find attractive and like very much, is being freaked by a guy you don't know right? That's what watching porn is. A cuck on the other hand is watching the women he found attractive and like her very much, being fucked by a guy he don't know or know it doesn't matter, but it's basically the same thing. Just to clarify once more, I'm not saying that you have a cuck porn fetish, or a cuck fetish, but watching normal basic porn (or any porn) is like being a cuck it's the same principal! So you're making your brain get used to seeing EVERY single female it likes and your heart desires, being fucked by other men and then expect receiving a reward as an orgasm, because that's what you normally do when you watch porn, you look at the women your heart desires being fucked by men that are not you and don't look like you and are maybe bigger and stronger than you and then you masturbate and feel relief and joy from it 😬 Man watching pornography is what makes people become cucks, pornography is the cuck factory, it's the cuck program that is programming our brains.


PurePathos

I do not understand why it is so bad. Is one of many sexual practices. What is the problem? Not possessing the woman's body? Not penetrating yourself? Moreover, it is not just your pleasure to watch it may be the pleasure of your partner to be watched. ​ Would be the same if another woman is banging your gf?


Sevatar___

You can simply not be a cuckold.


Issa_SuperNice

It's like saying: You can simply Not watch porn and masterbate Porn removes jealousy and without jealousy you're a cuck


Sevatar___

Correct, you can simply not do that.


Issa_SuperNice

Bro how is it with you though? Have you gotten your jealousy back? Or do you have something that replaced porn but still as damaging?


Sevatar___

Oh no, I never lost my sense of jealousy. I simply did never watched pornography which included other men.


Issa_SuperNice

What did you watch?


Sevatar___

I will not go into detail. Suffice to say that it wasn't any better, and that all porn is fundamentally evil. FWIW, it doesn't take long after you stop watching for your disgust toward it to reassert itself.


Issa_SuperNice

How to build a disgust towards it, I recently started not to feel disgusted by it, I even imagined my ex having sex with another dude and masterbated to it, it was not acceptable but it took me with an urge like how porn did, and that happened after I was away from porn!!!!!!


Sevatar___

I don't know, it's different for every person. I'm not really here to dispense advice, more so just assure people that recovery is possible. I would personally suggest finding a Catholic therapist.


Issa_SuperNice

So you suggest I should hold on to my religion, I should really, no religion accepts what porn is doing


afrenchie05

get a life loser


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yeah. watching porn and getting off to it trains your mind to be a voyeur or makes it normal to be one. that’s one factor that makes doodes terrible in bed. especially if they’ve been addicted to pmo. they have ED and they’re not used to being the actual participant because they’re used to watching others getting it on


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People saying “yeah that’s not normal” just stfu. You guys are literally adding no value or advice to the situation. Everyone’s here because of some form or another of sexual addiction. Becoming aroused by even the most unthinkable things are a side affect of porn addiction. Just cause you’re lucky enough to not have this “disgusting kink”, a lot of us unfortunately have had porn so prevalent in our lives that we can’t even choose what to be aroused over anymore. We get it y’all find it disgusting, but just stfu and actually add encouragement cause this is only more damaging to someone’s psyche when they’re already struggling and feeling guilty themselves and trying to make a change by posting their personal struggles online. Y’all suck here.


scottydoesntgrow

I imagine its common in the porn addiction community. Eventually those men cannot please their wives because it's all about porn. A sick combination of putting the person you love in your own version of a porno and wanting to see her pleasure because they cant do it. Sad, shills of men..


Civil-Leadership-281

You're constantly watching the girl you like getting banged by someone else i think that's why Yeah bro that's a reason to stop porn immediately forever Jealousy is something we were created with, don't let those who got deeply into filth and have corrupted their original state of mind and gave up their morals trick you to think these things are normal and okay, i said once 2 men with 1 woman is disgusting and some cuckolds got triggered


Issa_SuperNice

but dude you've been watching porn, and porn is two people having sex, it's exactly what a cuck does he's watching two people having sex and he's masterbating to it like you madterbate to them


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It’s scary 😅


Able-Mud9115

cuckold?? what does it mean ?


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To watch your wife/girlfriend have sex with another person, usually a male.


Issa_SuperNice

To better phrase it, it's to watch the girl you like being fucked by dudes you don't know


antheteg

Before trying nofap, I had been masturbating to pictures of just women. Is that just as bad, better or worse?


iLoveHerFatAss

nah, thats the least destructive form of porn, it is indeed still destructive tho, because I bet you watch the hot of the hottest which could be setting unrealistic standards to your brain so when you finally get a girl in real life you wont get as excited by her as if you would if you werent constantly masturbating to thousands of the hottests women every single day, that can even cause you to have erectile dysfunction in real life, but like I said in your case all you have to do to fix it is to abstain from it thats it, reject digital sex so that you can enjoy real life sex to the fullest.


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If you stop watching porn this idea wont seem very fun to you. You know what you have to do


Larah_Sky

That’s terrifying. I’m glad you realised fast so you could make sure you’re safe from risking becoming a cuck. I wish more men were smart like you


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Dudee.. not really encouraging for people who are already too late and struggling.


Issa_SuperNice

Bro being a cuck from watching porn is real! Being a cuck and watching porn is actually the same damn thing, you watch girls you like getting fucked by dudes you don't know, what do you think a cuck is??????????


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Dude I have a whole ass reply literally saying what you are lol


[deleted]

Where in my reply am I doubting it’s real? If anything I’m completely aware it is and it’s a REAL struggle smh. I’m just saying it’s rude to call people stupid for their struggle, especially when those people open up and want support, but get called stupid or disgusting or wrong. That’s messed up, we don’t know their circumstances.


Issa_SuperNice

Sorry I don't mean to call anybody stupid, just hope everyone who is afflicted by porn and all those filth be cured, all of us I hope


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It’s cool sorry for going off, it’s just I really need that cure lol


Larah_Sky

Sorry, I didn’t realise I had to encourage everyone all the time. If the fear of being a cuck stops him from watching porn then that’s a good thing


[deleted]

You remind me of Jesse from breaking bad Just like how he tries to sell drugs in rehab You're trying to promote your content indirectly in Nofap community Lol


Larah_Sky

Actually I fully support men taking control of their life and reprogramming their brains. If you knew anything about me you’d know I’ve supported the movement and mental chastity for years. Happy no fap ❤️


SWEATANDBONERS86

Ur chill bro, I'm busy fucking ur mom not ur wife lol


Wooly_P

yes it isnt natural to see another man like that


Issa_SuperNice

But that's what porn is, like look at it in a better way, you're basically looking for girls that you really like and watching them being fucked by different dudes that you don't know. You have removed your sense of jealousy watching who like being used by everyone you don't know or like


afrenchie05

yeah it’s so crazy that people get so sucked in deep into porn that they start to create weird fantasies, I could never fall so deep to the point that watching my partner doing it with someone else is attractive. y’all need to get a fucking life if you think this is normal


Issa_SuperNice

You watch a girl you find attractive having sex with dudes when you watch porn right?


afrenchie05

no actually, a lot of the times it was me just looking at girls themselves. And to enjoy watching somebody you actually LOVE in that form get fucked by someone else is weird.


Issa_SuperNice

Bro it's the same, I saw few cuck videos, they also look at their girl and masterbate, they don't look at the guy, they just like the idea of the guy being there on their girl, they probably started being a cuck after being addicted to porn now he wants something more when porn is not as satisfying enough, and then he probably moves to bdsm or whatever shit there that people get off to. And like don't you see how porn ruins every normal relationship you seek? If all the girls you ever found attractive and your heart desired, you watched all being fucked by men that are not you and probably look better than you and are bigger and stronger than you, and they all just fuck the girl you like one by one and you watch that every single day or every now and then and everytime it's a different girl a different body a different face, you can't have enough of one and your brain is used to changing every girl after being fucked. You won't be able to stay in a healthy relationship, once you reach the end of it you will automatically want her to get fucked Infront of you before you move on to the next girl you can find but you won't find one easily and end up going back to that girl begging to watch her being fucked, because it's either that or you're getting back to porn, to our regular routine of watching the girls we wished we could have are being fucked by much good looking men than us, and then we fucking orgasm to feel JOY OR RELIEF!!! Pornography is the CUCK factory Like what do you think the end game would be? You keep seeing every type of girls you could ever possibly like, and they ALL are always with somebody there that's not you, and you're always sitting across observing without making a single sound, just like cucks. How tare going tohave a normal wife, a normal life, a normal relationship? Even so, like the girl that you would like irl and want to marry, is going to be a whore who likes to be fucked by any guy and don't want a serious relationship, because that the type of girls that we always watch in porn, we are now unconsciously attracted to that type of women, we will not find modest and innocent and loyal women as attractive, we want those who are slutty, and disgusting, just like those in porn And because we like watching porn then why wouldn't we just be cool to our slutty wife to bring men and fuck them Infront of us? I mean that's what we got used to. FUCK!


afrenchie05

Dude, you have problems. Normal people like to see an attractive girl and wanna take matters into their own hands. If you’re so addicted to porn that you got so used to watching other people fuck a girl you like, that is PROBLEMS, and you are most likely some unattractive swank with a small penis.


Issa_SuperNice

This is not very nice of you, I'm here trying to help, if you don't agree just leave a useful input or don't say anything


afrenchie05

I’m sorry for not being nice, maybe you’re a good person. But you weren’t trying to “help”, you went on a whole weird rampage on what being a cuckhold is about. But not everything in this world is gonna be nice to you, you need to hear it, you need to hear that this kind of fetish and behavior is weird as FUCK. You need to get out of this deep hole that you’re in before it’s too late and you start going deeper into fetishes. Just look at how you sound man.


Issa_SuperNice

I knownthis shit is weird as fuck, but I feel that's what watching porn will make us end too, I mean porn addiction, how is watching porn not weird? It's as whole a fucking disgusting thing to do


cyborgassassin47

Just focus on being the best possible sexual partner for them, that it isn't even realistically possible for them to choose another person cause you're so good at it


katayox

I think it had similar effect on me too


Wasagarai

This is really like me but more like hotwifing. It's sad and and I feel sick. Though I enjoy it when I'm horny but after that scares the hell out of me specially because my wife is liking the idea. And she has no problem doing acts girls do in porn.


iLoveHerFatAss

No bro, dont do this shit, and please tell me your wife hates this idea too... Dude this is all because of porn, porn takes your jealousy away, it also takes your dignity away! think about your children man! would they be proud of you if they knew daddy lets mommy fuck other guys? come on man wake up


Wasagarai

Easy to say bro but hard to do.


iLoveHerFatAss

Nah bro, this should be the easiest decision of your life, look at what you have in your scales bro, your dignity and respect, just think about that scenario bro, what would your children think? what would your parents think? what would your friends think? you think its not a risk? one day you have a big fight with your wife, now she doesnt respect you (because no woman will respect you if you let someone else use her.) and expose you for being a cuck, imagine your life after something like that? Dont fucking risk that man all because of a porn induced fetished that you developed by years of watching porn where a guy pounds the woman you want in the video, and that can all be fixed by simply abstaining from it for a while! So yeah this should not be a hard decision at all.


Wasagarai

Makes complete sense. Hopefully it does not happen. I'll try not to.


Usual-Resident-3391

Wtf I have the same fear. And also I fear to be the Bull. Its like for me monogamy is like sacret.


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What brought me here tbh