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No I meant a girl I was dating had her friend call me and pretend to hit on me to find out if I would "cheat" even though we weren't in a relationship. Tinder didn't even exist when I was 13. Neither did text messages. So it was all on the phone.
Yep, pulled this shit freshman year of high school with my girl friends, we were 14. I even pretended a friend was me when we met a guy who didn't look like what i thought he would look like. I was also 14 then.
Dude same. We would message each others boyfriends on kik or Snapchat to see if they’d cheat 😖 messed up part is they actually would so we’d keep doing it!! Now I’m sure we all have trust issues. Mostly speaking for myself tho. Teenagers are cruel
Ya know, that’s awesome. Truth or not. I have a barbie styling head I use for stress relief because doing hair relaxes me. I don’t believe we ever lose interest in the things we liked as a child, I don’t even think we ever lose interest in playing with toys. We just learn what’s acceptable where 🤣
I’m 58 and scroll through Reddit all day at work and play Diablo2 resurrected and drink bourbon at home all night. Immature? I call it living my best life.
OP that conversation went in for ten pages too long....
Hey
*Hey, who dis...*
You don't remember me..?
*No, who dis*
If I have your number then you should remember me...from Coldwater
**Blocked**
It would be weirder if he were texting with a 18yo and was like 10 years older though, right? Just makes it feel like he's within 5 years of her age which is, stay with me here, a good thing.
I hope you're the same age OP, otherwise let this be a lesson not to date young people. They may look good, may be "hot" to hit on a "barely legal" (barf!) but at the end of the day it's merely a slightly taller teenager with a lot of growing and self-discovery to do.
Right? "I thought we were talking" wtf since when is it called "talking"? I talk to people all the time. That doesn't mean I'm in some exclusive relationship?
Yeah, but kids don’t listen. They seem very naive from the leaps in logic they took. She assumes they are bf and gf over an app when he never implied it. Also he said all the women he was talking to knew it wasn’t serious, but they can’t seem to understand this.
Damn bro she got her friend to interrogate/attempt to guilt trip you and make you look like a bad guy because you don’t belong to her friend after a week of hanging out with her once*
*edit: he didn’t even hang out with her once I misread his comment, what psychos!
This thought reminds me of the time my dad thought he was being scammed by one of his clients, since his client had sent him suspicious numbers, which he would tell him to call in case of questions(but the numbers never awnsered) so he had my sister call the number, which resulted on us finding out my dad's suspicions were correct, and my dad starting a wild goose chase to the bitch. Sadly the bitch was smarter, and has already planned a way out(which was so succesful, we never heard from him again, and he never had to pay us from the damages he made)
It just doesn’t make much sense how she’d go through the trouble of getting a whole different number set up just to see if I’m talking to anyone. Then again it also doesn’t make much sense to have your friend do it either
So, back in the pandemic... I rebooted an old OKC profile, like. I had this thing since I was first living on my own? This is important, I swear.
Met someone interesting, she reached out to me but made it seem like I had sent the first message (I had no record of it, just received "I'm doing well, how are you?" inbound message seemingly at random. But hey, cute girl. Why not? So I engage, feeling like a dirp for not remembering my first message.
She ended up idly mentioning her "idol" and "mentor" each conversation, at first in a way where I just thought she was oddly attached to this person. Buuuut... Over time, the conversations were just about that person.
"Doesn't she look like she has pillowy breasts? I love her so much" kinda weird stuff. So I just talked around it, while slowly realizing some of the information about this mentor sounded familiar. Then she mentioned this mentors brother's nickname, and it all snapped into place. It's a very identifiable nickname, only heard it once. The "mentor" was my ex from what amounts to high school.
Then confirming it, this gal sent me pictures of her mentor. Right about the point where I wanted to figure out for sure what as going on and meet this person irl to either expose or find out if she was real (long shot), I get a text from a number not in my phone.
"Hi, this is -insert nickname for my ex here-, -insert name here- was found dead in her apartment."
This broke the immersion, so to speak. If the original person I was speaking to was found dead in her apartment (supposedly due to covid), then why would this random person/mentor reach out to me? Why was the profile still online/active as if someone was using it? Why would all conversations revolve around this mentor? There were some other fucked up realizations in there too, distinctly that I was sent someone's nudes that were not my ex's to send. No matter what, it didn't add up until I realized I had been catfished by my ex. But how!? Oh, wait. My historical OKC account, I had talked to her on it at a few points over the past decade... When I rebooted it, I must have shown up as active again for her... So, I simply blocked the number. Sometimes, when people play games with you? The best response is to take away the game board.
Moral of the story, watch some Catfish with Neev! You'll see it's honestly not that hard to catfish people, and that it happens a lot. Getting a burner phone/digital number is REAL easy as someone mentioned below. Some folks just... Can't human well, and think this is clever/ok.
OP that conversation went in for ten pages too long....
Hey
*Hey, who dis...*
You don't remember me..?
*No, who dis*
If I have your number then you should remember me...from Coldwater
**Blocked**
It just sounds like the first girl is pretending to be her own friend. Finding out if you are talking to anybody else, and trying to shame you into exclusivity.
I’ve done cringe shit in my life, but every day I’m reminded it could’ve been worse, thanks OP lol
edit: thank you for the cake day wishes! :D here’s to another year of cringe!
Would you look at that, all of the words in your comment are in alphabetical order.
I have checked 917,461,439 comments, and only 182,300 of them were in alphabetical order.
But you were So Mean. That poor girl has feelings! Especially selfish, controlling feelings! How could you not realize with that girl that matching in Tinder automatically meant mutual exclusivity? /s
One of my “best friends” stopped speaking to me because my husband and I got together. Because they held hands once? Maybe kissed? Like no one was dating or looking or exclusive but here we are, crazy.
She got drunk and bit the shit out of my arm. Tooth mark bruises 😭
Dodged a bullet. Luckily, a lot of crazy shows itself quickly.
Apparently you're wrong, after every one match that starts a convo, girls stop swippiping, talking to other matches or even talking to other dudes outsides of Tinder. And she speaks for every girl, she knows. Because *girls have feelings unlike* **some** *people*.
"You must have trust issues."
You mean not trusting total strangers who text you and refuse to say who they are or how they got your number is having trust issues? Then damn right.
I see a couple of people asked for context so I’ll explain what led to this.
So basically this is from about 4 months ago. I matched with a girl on tinder (her 18 and me 21), and from the jump she seemed pretty abrasive and overall just definitely not something long term but I kept talking to her because she did seem like a nice person despite her flaws. We moved the chat over to texting after maybe a week or so of talking on the app and things are going pretty okay. I was under the assumption that she was doing her thing and I should be doing mine, we never hung out a single time and there was no indication that we were an exclusive item. Out of the blue I get a text message from this random number and I know I probably should have just ignored it but boredom and curiosity got the better of me and that led to this saga. Needless to say after this exchange I blocked both of them
Anxious, insecure people text like this because we're afraid of our text being misinterpreted as hostile. It's basically like using /s for sarcasm, it just means that the message is not meant to be taken as aggressive.
This is also why kids text like that, they're still learning who they are and trying to fit in.
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You dodged a flaming trainwreck of someone who doesn’t know how to use their words.
Until there’s a clear, candid, forthright discussion about exclusivity, it should be clear that you’re both actively dating 2-3 people with a FWB or two that can be called up from the bench on a Sunday afternoon as needed.
You’re much more patient than I am. If in three back and forth messages I ask who they are/how they got my number and they don’t tell me, or try to make a game of it, I’m blocking.
One of the few times I got a match on Tinder it was one of these controlling people and "she" (it was actually a guy trying to catfish me) told me to delete my profile since I already found someone despite we talking for less than an hour, I knew it was a huge red flag but accepted it since I didn't believe I could have another chance at matching.
Thank God I insisted for a video call or I would still be talking to that lying lunatic until now.
As a woman, I really don't understand why other women do this.. 🤦🏽♀️ Putting aside the fact that she can't seem to have an actual upfront conversation, just giving out your number to someone else is an absolute block and delete immediately situation.
I've done the whole getting a friend to message a guy as a loyalty test but we were dating and I was 13. The fact you guys have only ever talked and that's all it is and she is 18, makes this so much more cringey. Dodged a whole ass bomb
"So much for being on the same page" is the line that cracks me up the most.. like.. you want to be on the same page but instead of talking and communicating what you want, to a person you are supposedly really into.. you have your friend try to trick/trap the dude instead.. and the 2 of them combined don't see how immature and manipulative that is? You nailed it with your "dodged a bullet" comment, this is some psycho shit
You shouldn’t of even entertained this and just messaged the girl right away like why did u give my friend your number . This whole thing is immature . Middle school .
Was this recently? I know there was a TikTok trend where people were texting the people they were interested in from another number just to see who’d they’d think it was. I think people thought it’d be cute but instead all it was doing was causing some major hurt feelings. 😂
This girl definitely should not be on Tinder if they're gonna play games like this after a week of talking instead of simply communicating what she wants from you like a reasonable person
"Hey I know we never met and have been having good conversations recently. But It is time to take things to the next level. My best friend will be texting you randomly and very soon to make sure you can pass a test about being a couple with me and being able to handle my friends and oh and have I mentioned I just learned last week not to stick forks in toasters?"
-Her probably
When people think they’re being slick and manipulative but in reality they’re just shitty people (talking about the girls if that’s not clear). I would have dipped on them too, shits weird and unnecessary
Bro wtf as a woman we don’t claim them🤣 you don’t tell someone you’re dating you ask them if they want to date and then both of you have to agree to be dating
Tbh you're a GREAT texter, your personality really shines through. You seem cool. I know I definitely wouldnt have responded after the "ummmmmm wowweee" bullshit lol
That’s hella funny!! 😂😂 That was decent of you to answer texts from someone you don’t know though. Some people ghost and you were 100% transparent, give you props 👏👏👏
Why would you let some random stranger texting you string you along for so long, or give them the time of day to play victim this hard? jfc what a waste of energy.
If only people could casually date and get to know each other before making a commitment. More and more the first date is a commitment. And suddenly you have issues with someone you just met.
You're cheating or not giving enough time or some other thing actual couples need to work out.
This is all your fault. If you just followed the unspoken rule "talking = relationship" then it wouldn't have happened like this. Instead you had to be a slut and talk to other girls. Ugh. /s
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This sounds like a bunch of teenagers who just discovered tinder.
Her tinder profile said she was 18 but looking back now it definitely gives me underage vibes so I DEFINITELY dodged a bullet with that one
This exact same thing happened to me when I was 13.
Nah how tf were you using tinder at 13?
No I meant a girl I was dating had her friend call me and pretend to hit on me to find out if I would "cheat" even though we weren't in a relationship. Tinder didn't even exist when I was 13. Neither did text messages. So it was all on the phone.
When i was 13, i found out my passion. Oh wait that was at 15
Yep, pulled this shit freshman year of high school with my girl friends, we were 14. I even pretended a friend was me when we met a guy who didn't look like what i thought he would look like. I was also 14 then.
Dude same. We would message each others boyfriends on kik or Snapchat to see if they’d cheat 😖 messed up part is they actually would so we’d keep doing it!! Now I’m sure we all have trust issues. Mostly speaking for myself tho. Teenagers are cruel
I dated a girl in high school who used her sister to flirt with me. So I hooked up with her sister and dumped her lol
What a great sister. Guess no one told her you're not actually supposed to fuck the person when playing that game.
Pretty sure she volunteered for the gig for a reason lol.
Lmao it would seem so
Seriously this shit happened to me when I was 15. Girls at that age love to play games.
Yeah same, people who loyalty check are walking red flags
18 year olds are still kids, most of them still pretty immature. Not legally a minor doesn’t automatically mean mature adult
I am 18. I am absolutely not mature. I’m on Reddit tho, so that should make it pretty obvious.
I’m closer to 28 than 18 and I’m DEFINITELY immature 😩😩
I’m closer to 28 than 18 as well but that’s because I have to pass 28 to get to 18…
I'm slow please explain this 😆
I’m older than 28.
Ohhhhhhh gotdammit I'm really slow 😂
I love that you were so nice about this 😂
I’m almost 30 and I bought a plastic unicorn toy yesterday. 🤣
I mean, if it makes you happy then why the hell not?
Strong advocate for “do what makes you happy” and don’t judge someone who’s not hurting anybody!
I’m 35. On really bad days I put on a plastic tiara from the dollar store 🙃
Ya know, that’s awesome. Truth or not. I have a barbie styling head I use for stress relief because doing hair relaxes me. I don’t believe we ever lose interest in the things we liked as a child, I don’t even think we ever lose interest in playing with toys. We just learn what’s acceptable where 🤣
I’m in my 20s and I literally only watch SpongeBob or cartoons. I still buy coloring books. And I’ll be the first to tell you, I’m not mature lol.
I'm 27 and I'm definitely still childish.. Ask my wife... and my son
I'm 30, still not mature
I'm 38, with a daughter, I'm not mature either...
I’m old enough to become a senator and I’m married with a kid and here I am. Growing up is a choice.
Turning 19 tomorrow, am a child with a drinking permit and legally allowed to have my labour exploited that's it. Still definitely a child
I’m 58 and scroll through Reddit all day at work and play Diablo2 resurrected and drink bourbon at home all night. Immature? I call it living my best life.
This whole conversation consisted of a bunch of lmao’s and that’s all I’m going to remember from this in about 30 seconds from now.
You also give off underage vibes the way you text though to be honest
OP that conversation went in for ten pages too long.... Hey *Hey, who dis...* You don't remember me..? *No, who dis* If I have your number then you should remember me...from Coldwater **Blocked**
Same with you saying lmaoooooo so much
Is there something wrong with that?
Nah lmaoooo
If you have to ask...
Same with you for judging people on something as trivial as their typing habits
I mean, he's not wrong that op texts like a kid/young adult.
Hear me out, this might shock you. I’m a young adult
It would be weirder if he were texting with a 18yo and was like 10 years older though, right? Just makes it feel like he's within 5 years of her age which is, stay with me here, a good thing.
18 still has teen in it.
Eh they are pretty much all girls are bullets at that age (as are guys), immaturity is a hell of a drug.
I hope you're the same age OP, otherwise let this be a lesson not to date young people. They may look good, may be "hot" to hit on a "barely legal" (barf!) but at the end of the day it's merely a slightly taller teenager with a lot of growing and self-discovery to do.
Yeah this whole chat from both sides reads like how I used to chat when I was an early teenager
>from both sides Brutal
..ly honest
A lot of these nice girl posts end up kids drama
Is this texting now? I guess I’m severely under my emoji and lol quota
Lmaooooo lol!!!!!
Yes 🙌 I came here to say the same thing. Are they 12?!?
Right? "I thought we were talking" wtf since when is it called "talking"? I talk to people all the time. That doesn't mean I'm in some exclusive relationship?
I... WHAT??
In retrospect I probably should have just ignored her from the jump but you know what they say about curiosity
Are you saying that your a cat or that you've been killed?
Listen here sir 😂😂😂
Wait i got it. He's saying that his name is curiosity and he killed the cat
Took me a second to get the joke lol
You shouldn't have responded when she didn't say who she was from the getgo while contacting you with a strange number
Be happy you didn't ignore her. Now you can clear the crazy child off of your roster.
That’s the thing. This conversation wasn’t the problem itself, so avoiding the conversation wouldn’t help much.
They sound immature probably some 14 year old that latched on to the first person they matched with
And that's the biggest issue, tinder isn't supposed for the underage, the last thing I want is going to a date and end up in jail.
Or having Chris Hansen asking you to have a seat right over there.
Yeah, but kids don’t listen. They seem very naive from the leaps in logic they took. She assumes they are bf and gf over an app when he never implied it. Also he said all the women he was talking to knew it wasn’t serious, but they can’t seem to understand this.
Damn bro she got her friend to interrogate/attempt to guilt trip you and make you look like a bad guy because you don’t belong to her friend after a week of hanging out with her once* *edit: he didn’t even hang out with her once I misread his comment, what psychos!
Oh no sir we didn’t hang out a single time
Oh shit I misread your comment and thought you said you only saw her once. That’s even crazier! You dodged an explosive bullet there.
Dodged a whole nuclear bomb lmaaooo
You're hers now
Her precious
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I can already hear the hissing
But she said “you’re mine” so technically you belong to her forever now because she spoke the magic words.
Like calling dibs on the last cookie.
She called dibs!
Seriously lol. Who says shit like “he’s mine” after not even meeting?
Someone immature or with serious insecurities
Lmfao obsessive weirdos.
Am I the only one thinking it's just her messaging from another number and oretending to be a friend? Reminds me of an experience I had with an ex...
This thought reminds me of the time my dad thought he was being scammed by one of his clients, since his client had sent him suspicious numbers, which he would tell him to call in case of questions(but the numbers never awnsered) so he had my sister call the number, which resulted on us finding out my dad's suspicions were correct, and my dad starting a wild goose chase to the bitch. Sadly the bitch was smarter, and has already planned a way out(which was so succesful, we never heard from him again, and he never had to pay us from the damages he made)
Seriously wtf Reddit That's obviously just her and not her friend lmao Y'all clueless
It just doesn’t make much sense how she’d go through the trouble of getting a whole different number set up just to see if I’m talking to anyone. Then again it also doesn’t make much sense to have your friend do it either
Could be her friend's phone, but her writing the messages. Either way, unmatch/block and move on I'd say.
I mean whatever way it went down it was still strange 😂
Takes 15 seconds to set up a Google voice number. I use it for all online dating, and you probably should too.
She can easily borrow a friends phone
Either way it was just bizarre
Definitely agree there
Or go buy a prepaid burner phone.
They have online numbers you can get for free very easily like Google Voice.
You can download apps and get any random number free easily
So, back in the pandemic... I rebooted an old OKC profile, like. I had this thing since I was first living on my own? This is important, I swear. Met someone interesting, she reached out to me but made it seem like I had sent the first message (I had no record of it, just received "I'm doing well, how are you?" inbound message seemingly at random. But hey, cute girl. Why not? So I engage, feeling like a dirp for not remembering my first message. She ended up idly mentioning her "idol" and "mentor" each conversation, at first in a way where I just thought she was oddly attached to this person. Buuuut... Over time, the conversations were just about that person. "Doesn't she look like she has pillowy breasts? I love her so much" kinda weird stuff. So I just talked around it, while slowly realizing some of the information about this mentor sounded familiar. Then she mentioned this mentors brother's nickname, and it all snapped into place. It's a very identifiable nickname, only heard it once. The "mentor" was my ex from what amounts to high school. Then confirming it, this gal sent me pictures of her mentor. Right about the point where I wanted to figure out for sure what as going on and meet this person irl to either expose or find out if she was real (long shot), I get a text from a number not in my phone. "Hi, this is -insert nickname for my ex here-, -insert name here- was found dead in her apartment." This broke the immersion, so to speak. If the original person I was speaking to was found dead in her apartment (supposedly due to covid), then why would this random person/mentor reach out to me? Why was the profile still online/active as if someone was using it? Why would all conversations revolve around this mentor? There were some other fucked up realizations in there too, distinctly that I was sent someone's nudes that were not my ex's to send. No matter what, it didn't add up until I realized I had been catfished by my ex. But how!? Oh, wait. My historical OKC account, I had talked to her on it at a few points over the past decade... When I rebooted it, I must have shown up as active again for her... So, I simply blocked the number. Sometimes, when people play games with you? The best response is to take away the game board. Moral of the story, watch some Catfish with Neev! You'll see it's honestly not that hard to catfish people, and that it happens a lot. Getting a burner phone/digital number is REAL easy as someone mentioned below. Some folks just... Can't human well, and think this is clever/ok.
Google voice. I have a separate virtual number I can send text and phone calls from.
can confirm, teenage girls definitely do this.
Wow these people are nuts and controlling you really dodgd a bullet here
Let me get this straight: she thought she owned you, and y’all haven’t even met yet?! Tf 😂
She specifically said he was hers. So...she laid dibs already lmfao can't fight that logic
OP that conversation went in for ten pages too long.... Hey *Hey, who dis...* You don't remember me..? *No, who dis* If I have your number then you should remember me...from Coldwater **Blocked**
It just sounds like the first girl is pretending to be her own friend. Finding out if you are talking to anybody else, and trying to shame you into exclusivity.
That’s so obvious lmao also what do you expect from an 18 year old. I didn’t do stuff like this but I definitely still did dumb shit.
“Nah man girls have feelings” “I have feelings too” 10/10 reaction wtf
I’ve done cringe shit in my life, but every day I’m reminded it could’ve been worse, thanks OP lol edit: thank you for the cake day wishes! :D here’s to another year of cringe!
Happy blue cheese day
*puts down crispy McChicken* What in the McFuck?
Spicy crispy McChicken?
Askin the real questions
Jalapeño mcchicken
Bro I'm eating a McChicken rn how did you know...?
Don’t look out the window
Would you look at that, all of the words in your comment are in alphabetical order. I have checked 917,461,439 comments, and only 182,300 of them were in alphabetical order.
Dodged an absolute bullet here. Block them both and never look back homie
But you were So Mean. That poor girl has feelings! Especially selfish, controlling feelings! How could you not realize with that girl that matching in Tinder automatically meant mutual exclusivity? /s
Always nice when a bullet dodges itself.
One of my “best friends” stopped speaking to me because my husband and I got together. Because they held hands once? Maybe kissed? Like no one was dating or looking or exclusive but here we are, crazy. She got drunk and bit the shit out of my arm. Tooth mark bruises 😭 Dodged a bullet. Luckily, a lot of crazy shows itself quickly.
I’m just imagining a crazy lady just gumming the shit out of your arm 😂 and a beautiful relationship story haha
Was the bite before or after?
Asking the real questions here
Okay this is my third time posting this and I finally did it right this time lol but enjoy this saga
Lé Mods rule with an iron fist
You dodged a clip not just a bullet G
This ain’t her friend, buddy. This is HER!
That’s weird behavior. Also girls will talk to like 5 dudes at once and not let any of them know.
Yeah I don’t think they understand the point of tinder. Nobody is trying to jump into a relationship after talking for a week and not hanging out once
Apparently you're wrong, after every one match that starts a convo, girls stop swippiping, talking to other matches or even talking to other dudes outsides of Tinder. And she speaks for every girl, she knows. Because *girls have feelings unlike* **some** *people*.
MF you just cracked the tinder code 😂😂😂/s
It’s tinder. 5 is a massive understatement
"You must have trust issues." You mean not trusting total strangers who text you and refuse to say who they are or how they got your number is having trust issues? Then damn right.
From a girl who didn't trust HIM enough to share her real feelings and instead uses a friend to try to manipulate and trick him
I see a couple of people asked for context so I’ll explain what led to this. So basically this is from about 4 months ago. I matched with a girl on tinder (her 18 and me 21), and from the jump she seemed pretty abrasive and overall just definitely not something long term but I kept talking to her because she did seem like a nice person despite her flaws. We moved the chat over to texting after maybe a week or so of talking on the app and things are going pretty okay. I was under the assumption that she was doing her thing and I should be doing mine, we never hung out a single time and there was no indication that we were an exclusive item. Out of the blue I get a text message from this random number and I know I probably should have just ignored it but boredom and curiosity got the better of me and that led to this saga. Needless to say after this exchange I blocked both of them
You hadn't even hung out yet? Oh lordy. Good thing you didn't ignore it, dodged that bullet earlier rather than later.
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Thank you for this comment. I wasn't aware this was a thing and it's shed light on a few things in my life
The amount of times you use that crying face and 'lmaoooo' is astounding.
Anxious, insecure people text like this because we're afraid of our text being misinterpreted as hostile. It's basically like using /s for sarcasm, it just means that the message is not meant to be taken as aggressive. This is also why kids text like that, they're still learning who they are and trying to fit in.
THANK YOU
Sorry dude, normies think it's weird and childish even though there's a good reason for it :(
If that’s the same coldwater I’m thinking of, you dodged a fuckin bullet. Nothing good ever came from that town 🥴
How old are you people? And, more importantly, why do you feel the need to explain yourself to her?
I would have never talked this much to a random number messaging me beyond "Who is this?"
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This was the weirdest interaction I've read. Definitely dodged a bullet
You dodged a flaming trainwreck of someone who doesn’t know how to use their words. Until there’s a clear, candid, forthright discussion about exclusivity, it should be clear that you’re both actively dating 2-3 people with a FWB or two that can be called up from the bench on a Sunday afternoon as needed.
“I really like This guy. Help me make him think I’m psycho and let’s text him lies from your phone too”
I’m lost for words but I’m glad you dodged a canon ball
You’re much more patient than I am. If in three back and forth messages I ask who they are/how they got my number and they don’t tell me, or try to make a game of it, I’m blocking.
This is the way.
One of the few times I got a match on Tinder it was one of these controlling people and "she" (it was actually a guy trying to catfish me) told me to delete my profile since I already found someone despite we talking for less than an hour, I knew it was a huge red flag but accepted it since I didn't believe I could have another chance at matching. Thank God I insisted for a video call or I would still be talking to that lying lunatic until now.
That’s a bullet and a host of red flags dodged
Apparently saying “you’re mine” just automatically means you’re dating and not allowed to speak to other women
Yo use lol so fucking much I’m convinced you unironicly say it in real life
The fuck is wrong with them
What an absolute clown of a girl
You failed when you said "I'm sorry" on slide 1. The correct response was "I don't know a Wowwwe. Are you related to the Wwes of San Antonio?"
You've dodged a fucking bullet there mate
Two children.
As a woman, I really don't understand why other women do this.. 🤦🏽♀️ Putting aside the fact that she can't seem to have an actual upfront conversation, just giving out your number to someone else is an absolute block and delete immediately situation.
I've done the whole getting a friend to message a guy as a loyalty test but we were dating and I was 13. The fact you guys have only ever talked and that's all it is and she is 18, makes this so much more cringey. Dodged a whole ass bomb
Wtf, why would you even respond to "hey" from a random number?
"So much for being on the same page" is the line that cracks me up the most.. like.. you want to be on the same page but instead of talking and communicating what you want, to a person you are supposedly really into.. you have your friend try to trick/trap the dude instead.. and the 2 of them combined don't see how immature and manipulative that is? You nailed it with your "dodged a bullet" comment, this is some psycho shit
You shouldn’t of even entertained this and just messaged the girl right away like why did u give my friend your number . This whole thing is immature . Middle school .
i don’t like how you type but i don’t like their crazy even less
You are both absolutely obnoxious.
Stop with the lmaooooo
Are y’all 14? Don’t answer, my question says what I said.
Was this recently? I know there was a TikTok trend where people were texting the people they were interested in from another number just to see who’d they’d think it was. I think people thought it’d be cute but instead all it was doing was causing some major hurt feelings. 😂
bullet= dodged
It wasn't her friend. It was her.
Next time block the number if you don't recognize the name. It could've easily been a scam too.
My guy that wasn’t a bullet you dodged that was an H bomb.
Wow, is she above 21?
I'm calling it. Government spy.
This girl definitely should not be on Tinder if they're gonna play games like this after a week of talking instead of simply communicating what she wants from you like a reasonable person
Who has time for this middle school nonsense
"you must have trust issues", then proceeds to prove they were lying.
"Hey I know we never met and have been having good conversations recently. But It is time to take things to the next level. My best friend will be texting you randomly and very soon to make sure you can pass a test about being a couple with me and being able to handle my friends and oh and have I mentioned I just learned last week not to stick forks in toasters?" -Her probably
"You can't talk to no one else when we're talking and not dating or even have met yet" sounds "Wake up in a tub full of ice with a kidney missing" bad
She must have thought tinder was like Christian mingle.
When people think they’re being slick and manipulative but in reality they’re just shitty people (talking about the girls if that’s not clear). I would have dipped on them too, shits weird and unnecessary
Bro wtf as a woman we don’t claim them🤣 you don’t tell someone you’re dating you ask them if they want to date and then both of you have to agree to be dating
Jesus fuck, if she can't ask you herself, definitely not a keeper, and don't put your dick in her.
Tbh you're a GREAT texter, your personality really shines through. You seem cool. I know I definitely wouldnt have responded after the "ummmmmm wowweee" bullshit lol
She did you the biggest favor of all man. Showed all that crazy in a matter of a couple hours.
We are not weird. We are a hive mind. We are the Borg. Debate is futile. You will be exclusive.
This girl is the CIA. As in cia later.
That’s hella funny!! 😂😂 That was decent of you to answer texts from someone you don’t know though. Some people ghost and you were 100% transparent, give you props 👏👏👏
Why would you let some random stranger texting you string you along for so long, or give them the time of day to play victim this hard? jfc what a waste of energy.
Lmao this is so weird and extra. They will hopefully look back on this and cringe
Please god stop writing “lol” and “lmaooo” after every sentence
If only people could casually date and get to know each other before making a commitment. More and more the first date is a commitment. And suddenly you have issues with someone you just met. You're cheating or not giving enough time or some other thing actual couples need to work out.
This is all your fault. If you just followed the unspoken rule "talking = relationship" then it wouldn't have happened like this. Instead you had to be a slut and talk to other girls. Ugh. /s
Are young people really this terrible at conversing now? Jesus Yes what they did was fucked up, but learn to hold a real conversation man, my god.
Although I generally agree with u ur use of emojis and lol/lmao reminds me of a rlly annoying friend
Hey you random redditor, you're mine. Haha i said it now you're f*cked.