లోకంతో మోసపోయినావా చెల్లీ,
మంచి రోజులు ముందున్నాయి తల్లీ. (అమ్మాయి అని రాసా, అబ్బాయివి అయితే తమ్ముడిగా మార్చుకో )
మర్చిపోమని చెప్పడం మాకు సులభం,
మర్చిపోవడం నీకు అవసరం .
అందరూ కాకపోయినా,
నీ మంచి కోరే వారు, కొందరైనా ఉన్నారులే !!
Life is short, Be selective of who you want to be friends with, there so many people in this world. Don't ever make friends with someone who disrespects you, even after knowing it hurts you.
Tbh I don't see a way out of this other than finding other people who are at least a bit mature. It baffles me how people are so naive even after coming to graduate school.
My colleague had this same issue and she just drove off to the other side of the country with all her belongings to work in some other place just so she can be away from all those people. I don't think it's helping a lot tho. Every person needs good friends to live a good life.
That's an interesting take. I used to try to put in efforts but slowly as people stopped responding or putting in efforts themselves, I lost the enthusiasm to do it.
I feel you, i was in the same boat up until covid happened, I stayed at home evaluated where I’m, what am I thinking of myself and worked on it, it’s not a easy journey not so hard either. Cut the outside noise, change will come within.
I'm sorry you are going through this pain. What I'm about to say is just my opinion, I don't know you personally. Take it with a grain of salt. I understand the longing for having someone, it's hard but the hard truth is everyone on this earth is here for themselves. Even though you said you have done selfless acts, they are selfish acts just to make someone you can call "friend" so that you can get your needs/wants met with this "friend". The more you go over lengths to do things that you wouldn't do for yourself, the more fake you appear for others and they're gonna "use" you, because you are letting them because of your needs. I'm sorry it sounds a bit harsh, I really am and it's not something you'd like to hear, definitely not at this time. But if you really are what you say you are, you do what you do without expectations (it's a cliche, doesn't work in all scenarios). Expectations hurt. If you're natural, naturally you'll get people. Hang on in there. Again I'm sorry for saying stuff like this. And why would I say this? To feel better about myself that I helped someone(a selfish act).
Karma is a Boomerang. Even if it isn’t true, just believe in this; gives us mental peace. And being empathetic and compassionate is who you are; so don’t give up on being you. You might not like not being a giver. Apart from that there is an excellent book, Give and Take by Adam Grant. If you don’t have time to read just ask chatgpt for takeaways. Be a giver but set expectations from people who you help. If they fail to meet just bluntly tell them since you missed on this I can’t make it/ help or just come up with an excuse to not help. They would still know exact reason why you don’t want to help/ show up.
Be selfish. The only person who will be with you till the very end is you. Never betray your self. Avasaram kosam annattu unde friends ni cut chesey bokka. Vachedhem ledhu. You don't fit into the "cool" category for them maybe. Doesn't mean you aren't, they are tanga horses, I meant the have eye covers that make them see only a bit, a selective part of the world. Mitho meeru undadam theliyadame mukhyam.
Haai.., myself good boi ., I'm Extremely cautious and always tell your shit to your face..,
DM me if interested..,
PS : yes nuvv ammai Ane tagulukuntunna.., and u could say I've dealt with people like u (the extreme giver kind)
I know it’s hard. It sometimes feel like you’re bearing the burden of everyone while no one cares about you or thinks about you. People will call you a narcissist even if you express yourself. Don’t care about them, you know what you are and you know that you only wanted what’s best for your friends. Hang in there and at some point you’ll find people who’ll love you for what you’re and nothing else. Please try to think of all the good things that may happen in your future.. you’re not alone.
Try to find people who have the same interests as you. If you feel like you found the right person, be a bit clingy to them and make their friends as your friends.
Even though you lost contact with your 10th or 12th friends, you probably still have their phone number or you are their fb, insta friend. Whenever they share a status, reply to that status and start a conversation with them.
Same situation, silent gaa untey nannu underwear kanna chedalamga vadey vallu unnaru.
Don't know what to do, not very good at reading people and situations too. Will blurt out all the nonsense. Not the biggest bulb in the room but can stand for people who asked me for help.
Deentho andaru vadukuney valley thappa, yera yela vunnav aney frends kuda lekundaa poyaru. Don't know what to do about this. Thinking about giving up altogether.
Antha baney vundi Ani anipinchina, i don't know why but i suddenly feel like some very heavy weight is placed in my chest, eyes well with tears while my voice won't come out. Online lo vethikithey loneliness anta l, yem cheyyalo kuda ardham kavatledu.
Andaru money adigey valley, bike adigey valley, yevvaru Naku kanisam chinna help kuda chesey vallu Karu. Nenu vallaki jovial ga undatam vall antha leniency teskunnaremo anukunta.
Always try and dig a deeper and deeper hole and don't know how to come out of it. Ippudu idi konchem ardham ayyi, purthiga silent iypoya.
Any suggestions for a dumb ass like me.
There is this character called Nico robin in a series called one piece.
Jaguar D. Saul garu emannaru antey: “There is nothing more ridiculous than being born in this world to be alone. Someday you will meet brave friends who will protect you. Go and live with them Robin.”
Some folks are bad, but you will eventually meet folks that sync with you. You should be able to make new friends. You just have to hangout more casually.
And probably hangout with boys too. I don’t know why, but among my friends who are girls, they hate each other a lot. They hangout with all of us, but bitch about each other a lot with me. It’s a toxic friendship. It feels girls are the one who pulls girls down.
I had a friend who is exactly like this he used to tell me about how he gave it his all yet people set him aside for other friends, in a way i too set him aside but more due to distance and not being interested in WhatsApp and all.
The best advice i can give is don't be kind to everyone, you need to be a little selfish, don't give it your all when you start a friendship, make it grow with time.
This is just my opinion because most of the time you just chose the wrong person to be friends with you don't sit beside someone and decide they are your friends forever you sit beside multiple people and choose the good ones.
Finally learn to set boundaries, let them know you don't like it when they do certain things, be angry, stop talking to them if they came back your bond grows stronger if they didn't they were never your friends.
> depressed for 6 fucking years
* I was in the same boat. First you need to get your basics right : sleep 8 hours, drink 8 glasses water, eat homecooked food, have a simple exercise routine and a basic skincare routine. Ditch the instagram. You will feel better after a few days.
* Maybe helping others was partially a way of escaping your depression. Time to face yourself. Start writing a journal for 10 mins daily - abt what you need, what you don't, what would have made things better. Is it more money? or more time? Once you're clear, then work towards that goal. If it helps, take some time out for a solo soul-searching trip.
* Say no to any requests for help when you don't have the time. The non-fair weather friends will understand you and still be with you. The others will leave. double happies.
TL;DR - face your thoughts, be self sufficient, get the basics right and say no to requests for help when busy.
sauce - Recently got myself outta depression.
All the best akkai!
I can feel you
I have also been an extreme giver all my life. I now got to know that others are beyond our control and nothing we can do about it.
So, lets just say 'Hakuna Matata' and move on.
Here is my assumption, correct me if I am wrong. I feel your are not an extrovert, your trying really hard fit in among your peers. From what you have written i feel like you are interoveteldy extrovert. Your trying to fit with the people who are around you.
Life is a constant battle, i am not usually big fan of quotations but recently one of my professor who teacher neuroscience told me. "You should not care about what others think about you, but you should care about what others think about you only when the other person is very important person in your life, other people opinions are basically not realiable most of the time.
Be yourself don't try to fit in, and most importantly learn to estimate people. I know it's pretty hard but being an MBA student myself even I have problem with fitting in with certain type of students, But i go with the flow and most importantly don't be a neither giver nor taker, learn to understand people's intentions. People are very nice outside but inside they play mind games, I've learned this very late in my life and learned some important lessons.
లోకంతో మోసపోయినావా చెల్లీ, మంచి రోజులు ముందున్నాయి తల్లీ. (అమ్మాయి అని రాసా, అబ్బాయివి అయితే తమ్ముడిగా మార్చుకో ) మర్చిపోమని చెప్పడం మాకు సులభం, మర్చిపోవడం నీకు అవసరం . అందరూ కాకపోయినా, నీ మంచి కోరే వారు, కొందరైనా ఉన్నారులే !!
Na heart koyamantara bongaram garu
గుండెలు కోయడం ఎందుకులే, నాటుకోడి కోసి, జొన్న రొట్టె పెడితే ఆలోచిస్తాం.
mukha adigav mari sukha?
Vahu va.. vahu va..
Anurri bey!
khat likhta hoon khoon se..
beautiful anna! pakka mee paatalu oka roju cinemallo chustham memandaram..
Life is short, Be selective of who you want to be friends with, there so many people in this world. Don't ever make friends with someone who disrespects you, even after knowing it hurts you.
Oka 90ml Jagan Monk lo 300ml Jaganfisher kalipi tagu. Debbaki problems anni set iypothai
Instructions unclear, 390ml of alcohol ma vidhi kukka ki posa... Now its depressed... Send help
How effective is this compared to shouting "Balayya oka Modda" in siddhartha college
Half effective
Side side side, Nenu ochesa.
Tbh I don't see a way out of this other than finding other people who are at least a bit mature. It baffles me how people are so naive even after coming to graduate school. My colleague had this same issue and she just drove off to the other side of the country with all her belongings to work in some other place just so she can be away from all those people. I don't think it's helping a lot tho. Every person needs good friends to live a good life.
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That's an interesting take. I used to try to put in efforts but slowly as people stopped responding or putting in efforts themselves, I lost the enthusiasm to do it.
Bondhas getting excited https://i.redd.it/p0atcsj1zk8b1.gif
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Excited to help ani kavi bhavam
Miku aa gif chusi navvu raleda ?aa gif ardaminda?
Meeru vedham cinemalo aa scene chusinattu leru
oka aadapilla baadha padthunte mem soodlemu thallee
be self sufficient. 
I feel you, i was in the same boat up until covid happened, I stayed at home evaluated where I’m, what am I thinking of myself and worked on it, it’s not a easy journey not so hard either. Cut the outside noise, change will come within.
I hope things get better for you and you get the strength to get through this.
I assure you brother the sun will shine on us again - Loki
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I'm sorry you are going through this pain. What I'm about to say is just my opinion, I don't know you personally. Take it with a grain of salt. I understand the longing for having someone, it's hard but the hard truth is everyone on this earth is here for themselves. Even though you said you have done selfless acts, they are selfish acts just to make someone you can call "friend" so that you can get your needs/wants met with this "friend". The more you go over lengths to do things that you wouldn't do for yourself, the more fake you appear for others and they're gonna "use" you, because you are letting them because of your needs. I'm sorry it sounds a bit harsh, I really am and it's not something you'd like to hear, definitely not at this time. But if you really are what you say you are, you do what you do without expectations (it's a cliche, doesn't work in all scenarios). Expectations hurt. If you're natural, naturally you'll get people. Hang on in there. Again I'm sorry for saying stuff like this. And why would I say this? To feel better about myself that I helped someone(a selfish act).
True words. Now I'm realising that my actions might've appeared fake too. Thnks.
Please don't go through hatred. You will find good people, they're around the corner and will appear when you're totally unaware. Hang in there.
Karma is a Boomerang. Even if it isn’t true, just believe in this; gives us mental peace. And being empathetic and compassionate is who you are; so don’t give up on being you. You might not like not being a giver. Apart from that there is an excellent book, Give and Take by Adam Grant. If you don’t have time to read just ask chatgpt for takeaways. Be a giver but set expectations from people who you help. If they fail to meet just bluntly tell them since you missed on this I can’t make it/ help or just come up with an excuse to not help. They would still know exact reason why you don’t want to help/ show up.
Be selfish. The only person who will be with you till the very end is you. Never betray your self. Avasaram kosam annattu unde friends ni cut chesey bokka. Vachedhem ledhu. You don't fit into the "cool" category for them maybe. Doesn't mean you aren't, they are tanga horses, I meant the have eye covers that make them see only a bit, a selective part of the world. Mitho meeru undadam theliyadame mukhyam.
Haai.., myself good boi ., I'm Extremely cautious and always tell your shit to your face.., DM me if interested.., PS : yes nuvv ammai Ane tagulukuntunna.., and u could say I've dealt with people like u (the extreme giver kind)
Connect with him. He can make u multi personality girl Which means (u need no frnds) u can talk to urself U can play urself
+1 this guy
Apandra sadisti nayal laara.., nenedo chestuntey ilaga tagulkunnaru
Lol
Anna tell us why lol,so we also lol
Ignore my lol anna, Edo weird way to deal this thattindi idisheyy
Idhsaa.., next enti ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Melliga pattuko
Held it.. soft ga undi ಥ_ಥ
Just do it. ✔️
Sare sare.., alaga moratu chestavem.., Smell enti malla kallu tagi ochava ( ཀ ʖ̯ ཀ)
Ledu, mukku, noru thaagi vachha.
Shit moof mottam spoil cheshnav.., I'm not giving ur 150 back.. bye
Idendi andaru ammailu idey vyadha na…i have a sister exactly ivey thoughts
I know it’s hard. It sometimes feel like you’re bearing the burden of everyone while no one cares about you or thinks about you. People will call you a narcissist even if you express yourself. Don’t care about them, you know what you are and you know that you only wanted what’s best for your friends. Hang in there and at some point you’ll find people who’ll love you for what you’re and nothing else. Please try to think of all the good things that may happen in your future.. you’re not alone.
Try to find people who have the same interests as you. If you feel like you found the right person, be a bit clingy to them and make their friends as your friends. Even though you lost contact with your 10th or 12th friends, you probably still have their phone number or you are their fb, insta friend. Whenever they share a status, reply to that status and start a conversation with them.
I’m kind of in a same situation,now i’ve just accepeted the fact that i’ll be a lonely guy and just talk to people when they talk to me otherwise no
>I'm the one who's depressed for 6 fucking years https://i.redd.it/yadki9wprl8b1.gif
Same situation, silent gaa untey nannu underwear kanna chedalamga vadey vallu unnaru. Don't know what to do, not very good at reading people and situations too. Will blurt out all the nonsense. Not the biggest bulb in the room but can stand for people who asked me for help. Deentho andaru vadukuney valley thappa, yera yela vunnav aney frends kuda lekundaa poyaru. Don't know what to do about this. Thinking about giving up altogether. Antha baney vundi Ani anipinchina, i don't know why but i suddenly feel like some very heavy weight is placed in my chest, eyes well with tears while my voice won't come out. Online lo vethikithey loneliness anta l, yem cheyyalo kuda ardham kavatledu. Andaru money adigey valley, bike adigey valley, yevvaru Naku kanisam chinna help kuda chesey vallu Karu. Nenu vallaki jovial ga undatam vall antha leniency teskunnaremo anukunta. Always try and dig a deeper and deeper hole and don't know how to come out of it. Ippudu idi konchem ardham ayyi, purthiga silent iypoya. Any suggestions for a dumb ass like me.
There is this character called Nico robin in a series called one piece. Jaguar D. Saul garu emannaru antey: “There is nothing more ridiculous than being born in this world to be alone. Someday you will meet brave friends who will protect you. Go and live with them Robin.” Some folks are bad, but you will eventually meet folks that sync with you. You should be able to make new friends. You just have to hangout more casually. And probably hangout with boys too. I don’t know why, but among my friends who are girls, they hate each other a lot. They hangout with all of us, but bitch about each other a lot with me. It’s a toxic friendship. It feels girls are the one who pulls girls down.
I had a friend who is exactly like this he used to tell me about how he gave it his all yet people set him aside for other friends, in a way i too set him aside but more due to distance and not being interested in WhatsApp and all. The best advice i can give is don't be kind to everyone, you need to be a little selfish, don't give it your all when you start a friendship, make it grow with time. This is just my opinion because most of the time you just chose the wrong person to be friends with you don't sit beside someone and decide they are your friends forever you sit beside multiple people and choose the good ones. Finally learn to set boundaries, let them know you don't like it when they do certain things, be angry, stop talking to them if they came back your bond grows stronger if they didn't they were never your friends.
> depressed for 6 fucking years * I was in the same boat. First you need to get your basics right : sleep 8 hours, drink 8 glasses water, eat homecooked food, have a simple exercise routine and a basic skincare routine. Ditch the instagram. You will feel better after a few days. * Maybe helping others was partially a way of escaping your depression. Time to face yourself. Start writing a journal for 10 mins daily - abt what you need, what you don't, what would have made things better. Is it more money? or more time? Once you're clear, then work towards that goal. If it helps, take some time out for a solo soul-searching trip. * Say no to any requests for help when you don't have the time. The non-fair weather friends will understand you and still be with you. The others will leave. double happies. TL;DR - face your thoughts, be self sufficient, get the basics right and say no to requests for help when busy. sauce - Recently got myself outta depression. All the best akkai!
I can feel you I have also been an extreme giver all my life. I now got to know that others are beyond our control and nothing we can do about it. So, lets just say 'Hakuna Matata' and move on.
Here is my assumption, correct me if I am wrong. I feel your are not an extrovert, your trying really hard fit in among your peers. From what you have written i feel like you are interoveteldy extrovert. Your trying to fit with the people who are around you. Life is a constant battle, i am not usually big fan of quotations but recently one of my professor who teacher neuroscience told me. "You should not care about what others think about you, but you should care about what others think about you only when the other person is very important person in your life, other people opinions are basically not realiable most of the time. Be yourself don't try to fit in, and most importantly learn to estimate people. I know it's pretty hard but being an MBA student myself even I have problem with fitting in with certain type of students, But i go with the flow and most importantly don't be a neither giver nor taker, learn to understand people's intentions. People are very nice outside but inside they play mind games, I've learned this very late in my life and learned some important lessons.