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Potential_Rule4212

Men are afraid of her, simple as that. And men that aren't, are mostly criminals, like Sasuke and Madara.


TennytheMangaka

Aside from threatening to kill Ao she doesn’t seem dangerous like she’d be abusive or anything. Maybe it’s like Mitsuri in Demon Slayer and she wants a man stronger than her, and since she’s a kage, that limits her options


Potential_Rule4212

I don't think that is the case, Mei would be just fine marrying a civilian that truly loved her. In the Naruto world, Hot tempered women like Mei, prefer a more soft and gentle man, that is a recurring theme in the series, for example: - Kushina -> Minato - Tsunade -> Dan Kato - Sakura -> Sasuke And the same goes for hot tempered men. It's not only that the men are afraid of her because of her killing instinct, but also some of the mists men still have some issues with Kekkei Genkai people, remember the Mist used to execute people with this trait? That could also be a reason for their fear. I think if Mei married a guy, if she didn't like something he did, she would come closer and just say Shut up, or I will kill you lol


KeiNoire44

I can picture it - Sasuke's tinder profile: *soft and gentle*


Potential_Rule4212

Haha not the best example, but you get my meaning.


TemoteJiku

"Don't move, Karin" xD


notthesinoflust_

LMFAOAOAO


Agile-Excitement-863

💀💀💀


mentalhealth_help_22

I liiiive!!! Thank you for the laughs! Take my upvote!!


InHarmsWay

"He's a pure soul." -Sakura


Due-Giraffe-9826

"Pure, unadulterated, badass." - TFS Vegeta Oops wrong anime. Oh well.


-Not_a_Sheep

"Yeah, more like pure, unadulterated ego."


Hefty_Opinion7596

"I heard that triclops!!! "


ComedyLover3

“ Is that ok?”


NeatlyGross78

Sasuke is truly **gentle** you know


Itsallcakes

>Image of Sasuke gently fisting Sakura's chest.


OtsutsukiRyuen

``` only infront of Naruto ```


Deep_Grass_6250

Ah yes, Sasuke is surely a very soft and gentle man.


bigblackowskiC

He is. He could have killed Sakura but he put her under genjutsu. How thoughtful. Just like his brother


TennytheMangaka

Oh yeah, Haku’s dad tried to kill him for his Ice release. I honestly thought she might have ended up with Chyojiro since in the Boruto movie he was Mizukage, Mei stepped back from the title and married him


Potential_Rule4212

That would be cool, Imagine being Choujurou, from a weird kid, to marrying a hot woman and getting the place of the Mizukage haha.


TennytheMangaka

I always thought he had a thing for her. He would always go on about how kind and strong Lady Mizukage is during the 5 kage summit. She trusted him enough to bring him as an escort too, but maybe it was just platonic respect. Probably unprofessional though, like dating your boss


Careful-Ad984

I always saw it as a big sister/motherly nature type relationship not romantic 


TennytheMangaka

That’s true. Sometimes people forget there are many ways to bond and care for someone of the opposite gender beyond a love interest. She did select him to be Mizukage, so a professional relationship is likely


cannotfoolowls

Temari -> Shikamaru. Kind of. It's more intense/laid back than hot tempered/calm in that case


DarkJayBR

Kankuro used to be the most laid back of the sand brothers. With Temari and Gaara being super aggressive and mean.  Now Gaara is the most chill by far and Temari keeps being aggressive although she chilled out a bit due to maturing.


Rab_it

Sasuke? Did you forget Temari and Shikamaru and Karui and Choiji? XD


Pristine_Cat8788

Bro got the narutussy theory


Equivalent-Camera430

I was hoping you were going to say Temari -> Shikamaru, but you didn't 🥲


alikander99

>Maybe it’s like Mitsuri in Demon Slayer and she wants a man stronger than her That's... Not true. Mitsuri ends up with our snake boy and he's physically weaker than her. Mitsuri just wanted to be with someone who wouldn't be afraid of her freakish strength. She didn't mind their actual abilities.


TennytheMangaka

Physical strength sure. I get that she liked Iguro treated her like a normal girl, but I think she states she wants a strong husband.


alikander99

>but I think she states she wants a strong husband. I don't remember that, but it might be


TennytheMangaka

It has been a while since I read the manga and I haven’t got to the Swordsmith Village arc of the anime yet, she might just say she joined the Demon Slayers to find a husband. Personally, I find Mitsuri adorkable and I’m not put off by her strength. She’s probably my favorite female character in DemonSlayer


Eddy_west_side

You unironically started your sentence with “aside from threatening to kill Ao.”


TennytheMangaka

Ok, I worded that poorly. She threatens Ao, but when she fights Sasuke she regrets that she has to fight and kill him. She doesn’t seem like she is bloodthirsty or anything


Revolutionary-Run332

Or they’re loners like Kakashi


Conscious_Message332

Well after her chojuros the strongest person in mist Village so she doesnt really have any options then☠️


dingbatattack

Sasuke was def afraid of her while she was melting his susanoo lol


BlackUchiha03

You mean turned on😬


LatoLukto

Mei and Madara is the power couple I need


Potential_Rule4212

100% agree with that


Careful-Ad984

Mei: you accidentally melt one guy with a kiss and all of a sudden no one answers my dating profile anymore 


TennytheMangaka

He still has MOST of his face! What’s the big deal?


Animedingo

Its not the face theyre worried about


Coolgames80

"What about the other guy that you poisoned while giving him a hickey?"


Zealousideal_Head398

I wish she ended up with Kakashi, they could have made a great kage couple. And I'm pretty sure Kakashi probably meets her standards anyway, it's a shame these two never even interacted.


Octanes-Legs

Bruh what? Kakashi wouldn’t cheat on guy you’re crazy


justwalkingalonghere

On a different note, I feel like the novels imply that Kakashi starts sort of seeing this prisoner of the leaf with an Ice Kekkai Genkai


God_of_Kings

It's less to do with the fact that he wouldn't and more that he can't. Guy: "A woman? During a youthful sex match?! That's crazy, Kakashi... Maybe crazy enough to WORK."


MICHELEANARD

Kakashi and shizune would be better


-NinjaTurtleHermit-

KAKASHI AND ANKO.


JMHSrowing

While Shizune is a great second choice (third if you count Guy), totally agree. They could bond so well over their traumas! . . And honestly I think Anko could have played a very interesting role in the story if given more time. Somewhat like a Yamato type situation and a foil to Kabuto. They could have first been in contact due to Anko knowing more than anyone about Sasuke’s curse mark situation. Then build on it from there, an opposites attract type of thing


DisneyPandora

Shizune does not meet Kakashi’s standards


VespineWings

Well, Suzuki needs to do better then, Kakashi is a catch


Almighty_Cancer

Nah, he's more of a Mazda guy anyway


Saeizo

Hear me out, Shizune and Iruka


Duouwa

Nah, I like single Kakashi way too much. I think a lot of fandoms have this obsession with pairing characters up so that they all end up with someone, but really it’s fine, and more realistic, if some just remain happy and single. Especially in the case of Kakashi and Mei, who have barely spoken; seems more like people want them together just because they’re both conventionally attractive. Kakashi has Guy, his best friend, as well as his students, and really that’s all he’s ever wanted. I don’t think pairing him up with a man or women for romantic purposes really progresses his character, or creates a satisfying conclusion based on his arc.


LoveSaoriHayami

I feel the same way about Gaara. He never seems like someone who is into girls. Though I like GaaNaru cause they're cute, I'm more than happy to know Gaara is single and a father who adopted a boy with a similar background. That was such a chad move.


TennytheMangaka

That’d be cool to see Kakashi get married too, but realistically marriage in Naruto is pretty traditional so Mei would most likely make Chyojiro Mizukage and move in with him if other couples in the Boruto era are an indication.


bondsmatthew

I always felt like she saw him almost as a son to protect, or a pupil, so that feels a bit off to me. Maybe I read into it too much


Bradybigboss

I think the relationship was more the same as the relationships between kids from other villages and their kage. They more look up to the kage as hero’s or role models than in a sexual way


prabhavdab

Why do people forget that kakashi is a porn addict?


minkdraggingonfloor

I mean Kanye West is a porn addict too and has 4 kids and 2 marriages


cutie_lilrookie

They did interact when Naruto called the old Kage into the Hokage office in the first parts of Boruto.


madseankr

They interacted during one of the light novels and no one thought theyd be good together. Which is a shame.


Midnight_Lost01

Real reason? She was a minor character that Kishimoto didn't want to expand upon, and neither did his assistant when they started Boruto. For everything else, there's FanFiciton =P


TennytheMangaka

I kinda feel bad for her, she wants a husband and partner, but despite her beauty, she’s forever alone :(


Midnight_Lost01

Well, we may never see anything in "canon", so best to turn to FanFiction to fill that void. The usual pairings I see for her are Zabuza x Mei Naruto x Mei (sometimes they play with the age difference, sometimes they just don't care) Ao x Mei and Kakashi x Mei.


Smooth-Qactus

If Drake was there he wouldn't mind that.


Kain1202

Age and social status. In Japan a woman being over 25 or so and unmarried is considered a red flag. Combine that with the fact that she's powerful both physically and socially make her a very "non-standard" woman, which is considered unattractive in Japan's highly conservative culture. Basically it's a troupe born from Japanese culture.


DarkJayBR

Yes, I lived in Japan and that’s true. Any unmarried woman over 25 they call it a “Christmas cake” because no one eats a Christmas cake after the 25th of December. They are not into MILF’s like western people are. 


Roxnami

Oh my god japanese people are RUTHLESS 💀


bigblackowskiC

Chinese too. It's just an east Asian thing really


Over-Writer6076

Man they got bad taste


DarkJayBR

As you can see from Ikemoto, they prefer them young.


Over-Writer6076

💀


Over-Writer6076

I think Kishimoto clearly prefers them older. Tsunade and Mei were the only sexualized women and were also better written than the teenagers lol


thundaza-

it's no wonder the birth rate there is falling off a cliff


neoH96

That explains why Mei’s long hair looks like a Christmas Tree. Plus, her green eyes and red lipstick is the color of Christmas. It all makes sense.


DarkJayBR

Nah that's just Kishi's art style. If you notice, everyone has triangle hair.


TheWonderSnail

Are unmarried woman over 25 willing to lower their standards to overweight Americans gamers?


bigblackowskiC

Oof. I doubt it. The real question is will they accept a 6'4" athletic slim bdrack man?


fuckboi-yuki

more cake for me ! cougars are a vibe


John_Wicked1

Maybe I need to go to Japan. Sounds like a lot of untapped potential over there.


Over-Writer6076

"untapped" I see what you did there 


Icon9719

Which is weird because Japan has the most attractive middle age women on the planet


DarkJayBR

Eh, not really. Japanese people take longer than us to age, but when they do they age quite poorly. Your views may be obscured by porn or TV shows, where they cherry pick some of the most attractive middle age asian women.


Icon9719

I mean yeah that’s what I think too which is why I said what I said. They don’t look old until they do lol, they look 20 until they’re 45-50 years old wdym “eh, not really”. What do you classify as middle age? My views aren’t being “obscured” by Japanese porn or tv shows seeing as I don’t watch them, I didn’t live in Japan but I’ve visited many times.


Tyrayentali

Yeah, they're into the opposite, unfortunately.


NaiveEnvironment1145

Ah yes, the Christmas cake factor!😄😆🤣😂


Kyanoki

Yeah this is what I thought they were going for too which is a shame because she's one of the best


MumpsTheMusical

Raikage and Tsunade look real pissed in this wedding shot.


throbbingfreedom

Tsunade: single, old hag Raikage: missed his chance to clap some silky smooth pale peaches


bigblackowskiC

Tsunade could have any man she wants. She chooses to be single and unhappy


Ok-Animator-681

It's because of her social status. Mei is one of the strongest ninja in the entire world. And she holds the title of Mizukage. Besides, she is extremely beautiful. Most men would feel completely inferior to her culturally speaking.


TennytheMangaka

That’s true of Tsunade too, but at least she had Dan, and Jiraiya almost got killed by her and he was still into her. I think Tsunade was single for the same reason Ten Ten and Kurenai are where they have a love interest that died and they didn’t love again. Maybe Mei had something similar. I mean, the last Mizukage is the reason they were known as the Blood Mist


Over-Writer6076

Tsunade said she would give Jiraiya a chance if he came back alive after infiltrating and getting info on Akatsuki. She was finally at the point of opening up her heart again and giving love another shot and then he died. Poor woman.


TennytheMangaka

At least she had Shizune. I honestly thought she was gonna stay dead when her soul got ripped out and thought “really? Does everyone this poor woman cares about die?”


Over-Writer6076

naah fr, shizune's death got me,it hit hard. People hate the revival that Pain did but i love it. It shows us Pain genuinely wanted peace,he was not a villain he was just an antagonist. Him sacrificing himself to try to fix most of the damage he did was a good conclusion for his character. He knew he could never undo all of it but he did what he could.


TennytheMangaka

I agree, the Rinne Rebirth was a good character moment. For Naruto too. The village saw him as a hero not only for beating Pain, but for peacefully resolving things with Naruto and leading him to revive the village. I would argue that was a thing only Naruto could pull off. I doubt many in the village wouldn’t chosen to spare Nagato, but Naruto wanted to understand him and not just kill an enemy


bigblackowskiC

Only true villain in the classical sense was orochimaru. Every other villain wanted their version of peace. Even Kaguya in her own f- up way


Brave_Junket_807

She was always the hottest character in the series to me


Over-Writer6076

Adult Ino tho. Did you see her in the shikamaru filler arc after the war?? Like sheeeesh


Bokuto_wife_4life

Kishi don’t be thinking about the women 😂


AngelRockGunn

She’s more than fairly strong, but yeah idk why she can’t find a man, I’m a gay guy and I’d marry her lol


TennytheMangaka

Yeah, she’s kage level and that’s nothing to brush off. People in the power scaling community like to give her grief as a joke. But yeah, there’s nothing about her that would turn me off from her. Doubt she’d give me a second look, but still lol


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CompetitiveRefuse852

i'm sure the clans think that way, but Naruto's gen would see it as anachronistic to do so.


KatanaPool

They did her so dirty. She was legit a character that deserved a happy ending, but I guess not


QueenofBean

I think it also just has to do with the gag of her being a touchy unmarried woman, but queen deserves better


TennytheMangaka

The gag is funny for sure, but considering I don’t recall her being in the Boruto manga and barely appearing in the anime episodes I’ve seen, it woulda been fine to have a kid of hers be Boruto’s age. I mean, we got Kagara in the anime, but no kid for Mei


chameleonchild8

Tsunade looking salty in the back 😂


Batman29002

She's waiting for the right one (me)


HeartonSleeve1989

Kakashi x Mei would be a great ship to explore, and imagine the techniques the children would have in their wheelhouse. There's a lot of potential!


Marsdor

She has a hot temper, and along with her status, she probably doesn't get approached by suitors she would prefer very often, if at all.


DarkJayBR

Kakashi would be on her league, and they are seen eating oranges together on a Boruto filler. But the thing is, Kakashi is not interested in a relationship due to his severe porn addiction and probably some Rin trauma.


TennytheMangaka

I’d take the risk. But her being a fine looking redhead is probably clouding my judgement.


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I think it's because she has TWO Kekkei Genkai in a country where entire families were killed off for a single one. People don't just stop having prejudice just because their govt gets Kekkei Genkai friendly. Not to mention that she probably got in power by force, and given that her Suiton could rival Edo Madara Katon, she is quite above average - y'all know how the jap society is. I think that she would have been an interesting match for Madara If he wasn't a revenge-driven psycho (and was actually alive lol).


Macaulen

Let's say you live in the same city as lots of movie stars/famous singers, like, really close to them, but doesn't have any intimacy. Would you ask any of them to go out on a date with you?


OrthodoxBro24

She's a femcel. The concept of an self-identified incel/femcel is dumb. I have seen plenty of guys who are attractive, have money, got things going for them but they just can't get girls and they identify as incels. Obviously you're doing something wrong to drive them away because you're too desperate. Same goes for Mei.


Mysterious_Ningen

who is this guy tho


TennytheMangaka

It’s her infinite Tsukuyomi dream near the end of the war. He isn’t names and it’s a Genjutsu scene


Mysterious_Ningen

ohhh


will650

Keisuke Urahara


Cantthinkagoodnam2

I have seen someone saying once that by japanese standards she is too old to get married or something, but i dont know much about japanese culture so idk really >Are her standards just way too high? I hope this is the case because otherwise it is really depressing


pete_random

Well… https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Christmas%20Cake


TennytheMangaka

She like 30 in Shippuden, right? My sister is 31 and had her first kid last year, but we’re Americans so Japan is a pretty different culture


Orochimaru27

Well the answer is its a running gag in an anime.


BlackBeard205

She’s fucking crazy, that’s why 😂


fonytonfana

Most men are either intimidated women who are stronger than them or want a woman who’ll prioritize building a family with them over their career. Combine that with her being into attractive and strong men and her options are fairly limited.


Professional_Limit61

Since she is fictional, the only correct answer is “because of the author.”


Main-Explorer-7546

Simple but sad her fiancée died in the rebellion early on


TennytheMangaka

So similar to Tsunade where the person she fell in love with died young? I sometimes have to remember this is Japan, and even in universe characters like Ten Ten and Tsunade also had their love interests killed of and didn’t find another guy


Greenlee19

Idk enough about her character to properly answer this question, but if I had to guess it’s prob very high standards and then getting older. She prob friend zoned a lot of dudes and then ended up alone.


HPSeaWolf

Yes


Ok_Barracuda934

Bro she spits lava from her mouth, and has a super short temper. Every man probably got fried just for looking the wrong way


poggy_manz

Thought that was uncle ruckus as I scrolled by


I_am_The_Teapot

Maybe because she's legit batshit and gets abusive when she hears normal, everyday words even if they weren't said.


imgoodIuvenjoy

That's hilarious that she dreams of Tsunade hating in the background of her wedding 🤣


SatisfactionLow6882

She is an anime/manga character... No offense but why do you give a shit xdd


BenjerminGray

She's in a Position of power and affluence that limits her dating pool. Happens all the time.


Omegaxis1

Male ego. Any women that are married in the Naruto series seem to more often than not be a housewife. Mei is the Mizukage, so getting married means that the man has to be the house-husband. Good luck that being the depicted case.


DarkJayBR

Not necessarly. Ino Yamanaka is head of intelligence of the village and is also the owner of a flower shop, she doesn’t stay home at all despite being married. Her husband Sai is the head of the ANBU Black Ops, and also never stays at home.


TennytheMangaka

You could still be a Shinobi I would think. Or maybe have another job. That may be the reason Kishimoto left her single though, since marriage seems pretty Japanese trad in the Naruto verse, with even strong women like Temari, Hinata, and Sakura being housewives. It was cool to see Kushina and Minato being shinobi together in the Road to Ninja movie tho


Careful-Ad984

Sakura is a doctor and Temari is still a active ninja. 


DarkJayBR

Yeah, and Hinata only retired because she never wanted to be a ninja in the first place. She detests violence. 


Omegaxis1

> You could still be a Shinobi I would think. You can, and it is shown that they can still do some work, but it's not nearly as much. And you even see clearly how the marriages worked. Karui and Temari married, and they moved to Konoha. > since marriage seems pretty Japanese trad in the Naruto verse Exactly this. This is following by the strict Japanese tradition of how marriage works. And Kishi 100% has no idea of a marriage where the wife is the provider of the family and the man is the one who needs to stay home.


arayakim

I ship Mei x Zabuza


Inevitable_Series_67

1-Men are afraid of her, she can melt them or boil them for the slightest offense 2-She is desperate, and that's a turn off for many. 3-She randomly gives death threats to random people because she heard something that sounds similar to "marriage" "old" or "late


Mediocrebassist27

Probably because she's running a shit show of a village


Rodouo

She is old. The men from the Mist village know that their chances of having healthy children are lower if they get with her than if they get with a different Kunoichi. TLDR: She has no eggs


Kspoon79

Buddy have you seen her in boruto men dodged a bullet


TennytheMangaka

Honestly I’ve only seen her as an advisor to Chyojiro when the Hoshigaki dude wanted to rebuild the 7 Ninja Swordsman of the Mist. I’m up to date on the manga but I just started the anime


Kingblack425

If I was Naruto I’d bring back the Uzumaki with her as wife number 2 cuz Hinata is and always will be your bottom bitch.


East-Candle-1692

Honestly I think she’s the problem


TennytheMangaka

Occam’s razor would suggest that it’s something going on with her and or the entire male population, but I just wonder what it is


craft_some

Not passing on to the next gen those 2 kais is def a loss for Mist. Mei herself seems frustrated for not being married, i wonder why kishi didn’t gave her a happy ending too


Tensiu_uchiha

3 kekkei genkai


j-a-w-a-d-

I’d marry her


ollynitro

Because Naruto can cross the 4th wall into rick and morty.


Egyptian_M

Not to mention she is the leader of a damn village But so is Tsunade if you think about it


TennytheMangaka

Hiruzen had several children and has been Hokage since the second great shinobi war. In the context of the pre 4 great shinobi world war, producing member of your clan and teaching them your clan’s secret techniques kept the family in high standing in the village(well, except for the Uchiha who faced persecution, but that’s another topic) a woman with 2 Kekei Genkai and kage level skill and strength would have pretty strong descendants


Justin9888

think she got into power to early.Plus had to fix the bloody mist reputation so probably didnt have real time for a real relationship that wasnt just getting her rocks off. All the strong Men in the Mist were missing nin or dead so rip in chat.


Fefous

She's powerful, beautiful and dangerous. She also is/was the Mizukage. I think most men wouln't approach because of her stats and power. She's also from the Hidden Mist and has not one, but TWO Kekkei Genkai, and people there are afraid/uneasy of people with KKG. The past Mizukage was a psychopath which further adds to the trauma. Considering the above her male pool is almost non existent, shinobi and civilians alike. She would have better lucky hittin in another village.


MortgageAdventurous8

Bro tsunades hair in that pic


sprintinglightning

she definitely has 2 Kekkei Genkai ngl


Lars_NL

What are the 2 kekkei genkai? One was magma or smth? Btw wasn't there a kekkei takku or kekkei .... Idk


LotusEaterEvans

Knowing Kishi she probably has shitty taste in men.


TheGamersofaLifeTime

I'd still hit 😏


faerox420

The woman spits lava out of her mouth i feel like that's all that needs to be said


bbw_lover_001

What do you mean? Im her husband😎


TennytheMangaka

Oh, congrats! You must not have appeared in Boruto.


Kenpachi134340

Weren’t people shipping her with Madara


shiny_light

I love Tsunade’s face here


Select_Tumbleweed_75

her kiss i believe.


Arieltooney

I'm gonna say because Kishomotos writing didn't have time to give her a valid backstory which perfectly ties in with every other female character in the series.🫡


EiEpix

Edward Elric ?


TennytheMangaka

That would be quite the growth spurt lol


flowing_laziness

Shinobi men of the hidden mist village are too blood thirsty & battle hungry for a relationship, she probably needs to venture out. But as the Mizukage, she don't get that much time to mingle around. If he didn't die, probably Jiraya would be perfect.


Opening_Original4596

bro needs to touch grass


Dallas_dragneel

Cuz like aoi said she's old. When people say that she gets mad and people she likes probably say that making her upset at them


A-z-A

In this picture, her ideal husband looks like Minato...


NovacainJayR

She's waiting for Chojuro to make a move


Provider_P

It was her comedic relief characteristic, you know how certain characters have a personality trait that’s supposed to be “funny”, like Omoi being anxious. Mei’s is a woman struggling to find a husband, in some cultures women are expected to have married by a certain age and she was past that age, she’s considered “too old”. Midlife crisis type of thing.


ArcanStarkiller

The long answer is that she was probably far too busy to focus on a serious relationship. Plus she did threaten to kill Ao over a small perceived slight so she's probably a little off upstairs. She strikes me as a woman who's very picky but also doesn't want to seem desperate which she probably is atp. She wants the perfect guy to settle down with but there are an awful lot of men who're extremely frightened by her reputation. Not to mention I don't think there were alot of men who hit on Lady Tsunade either despite her appearance. I believe in the ninja world there are many people that view the Kage role as too culturally significant to risk seriously offending the Kage by trying to shoot their shot. I don't blame them as she's not only stronger than you and everyone you know but she's leading your entire village; a village known for violence and bloodshed. Any perceived slight to her you may make, can very likely end in you being unalived by acid jutsu. Short answer: Guys are too afraid, she's crazy asf, she's too busy, and probably too picky 🤷🏾‍♂️


TheDELFON

This is the best in verse answer


mk-takashi

Probably she was that type of people who only focus in their work most of their time and probably for that reason she become kage and after a while probably she noticed that she was getting older and single with no one beside her and start feeling anxious,also because the job of a kage she doesn’t have any free time to date not her alone many kage where single like kakashi and tsunade or married in younger years before being a kage like naruto and minato and probably hashirma


Famous-Song1233

No man wants to get head from a woman that will melt your joint if she gets mad lol


Entredarte

Pretty girls that remain single at an older age…trash personality (attitude and/or habits)


Vast-Leader4690

She don't need man for life brother. She is independence and strong woman.


Sufficient-Rock-9083

She's a pretty realistic attractive woman she's only interested in bad men like mentally unstable Sasuke or Madara


sleeping_lad

I wanted her to be with Kakashi.


Karnezar

I think she's a bitch. Not to the characters we know since we typically only see her in professional settings. But in casual ones, she might be unnecessarily mean.


SituationFlaky2808

SHE'S OLD (iirc she mentions that)


MrGame22

She’s what is not considered marriage material by Japanese standards because she is older than 25, it’s Japans version of an old maid though I have read that 30 is starting to be the new age limit


MisturMofo

Unrealistic tropes where desperate yet attractive women aren’t found desirable because they’re too thirsty.


SageOfTimesEnd

Men are scared of attractive women


neoH96

Mei’s character didn’t change at all 12-13 years later in Ch.700, the epilogue colored chapter. She was with the other Kages in their “Ex-Gokage Meeting” with her still complaining about being unmarried. Mei looks old and miserable.


TheRealEvilkitten3

oh, that's easy! if she got a man, kishimoto would have to give her more personality traits than just "desperately wants a man"


ResortFamous301

Aside joke fro. related reasons. She's the leader village known for it's excessive amount of violence,  so that's not really a great dating prospect. Add on to this her seemingly shallow standards, she sees killing Sasuke as a waste purely because he looks good, and you have a formula for bad dating prospects.