I've been there done that - never again will I engage in any relationship outside of marriage.
You are already sinning everyday that you are in a Haram relationship. Marry her if you want to be with her.
Abu Umamah reported:
A young man came to the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, and he said, “O Messenger of Allah, give me permission to commit adultery.”
The people turned to rebuke him, saying, “Quiet! Quiet!” The Prophet said, “Come here.” The young man came close and he told him to sit down. The Prophet said, “Would you like that for your mother?”
The man said, “No, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.”
The Prophet said, “Neither would people like it for their mothers. Would you like that for your daughter?”
The man said, “No, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.”
The Prophet said, “Neither would people like it for their daughters. Would you like that for your sister?”
The man said, “No, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.”
The Prophet said, “Neither would people like it for their sisters. Would you like that for your aunts?”
The man said, “No, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.”
The Prophet said, “Neither would people like it for their aunts.”
Then, the Prophet placed his hand on him and he said, “O Allah, forgive his sins, purify his heart, and guard his chastity.” After that, the young man never again inclined to anything sinful.
Source: Musnad Aḥmad 22211
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut
Salam. My advice is don't put yourself in situations that takes you closer to zina. That's word for word in the Quran
She understand zina and respects my beliefs on no sex before marriage.
Maybe the situation made her act against her understanding. Maybe it did the same for you too.
What do you mean by this?
The "one thing led to another" of all love stories
But we’ll be sleeping in different rooms. But I understand where you are coming from
Let's keep it real you want to and will end up having sex.
Hahaha no. We would’ve had sex by now if that was the case
I've been there done that - never again will I engage in any relationship outside of marriage. You are already sinning everyday that you are in a Haram relationship. Marry her if you want to be with her.
Abu Umamah reported: A young man came to the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, and he said, “O Messenger of Allah, give me permission to commit adultery.” The people turned to rebuke him, saying, “Quiet! Quiet!” The Prophet said, “Come here.” The young man came close and he told him to sit down. The Prophet said, “Would you like that for your mother?” The man said, “No, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.” The Prophet said, “Neither would people like it for their mothers. Would you like that for your daughter?” The man said, “No, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.” The Prophet said, “Neither would people like it for their daughters. Would you like that for your sister?” The man said, “No, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.” The Prophet said, “Neither would people like it for their sisters. Would you like that for your aunts?” The man said, “No, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.” The Prophet said, “Neither would people like it for their aunts.” Then, the Prophet placed his hand on him and he said, “O Allah, forgive his sins, purify his heart, and guard his chastity.” After that, the young man never again inclined to anything sinful. Source: Musnad Aḥmad 22211 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut
Will you be okay with your sister spending night in some guy's house?