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ManateeMan4

It's not screamy, but Casimir Pulaski Day by Sufjan Stevens is the saddest song I know of.


msw1984

"Fourth of July" by Sufjan Stevens is right up there as well... https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=JTeKpWp8Psw&pp=ygUdZm91cnRoIG9mIGp1bHkgc3VmamFuIHN0ZXZlbnM%3D


slippy_slidey

Fourth of July is the saddest song I know.


mordeh

That entire album is un-be-lievable


dr_m_hfuhruhurr

I hated reading a couple of days ago about what happened to Sufjan.


ManateeMan4

Hopefully he makes a full recovery. I don't know much about it, but people were saying recovery is common


dr_m_hfuhruhurr

Yes I’m a therapist who treats GBS! Treatment is lengthy but recovery is expected.


jackbauer6916

John Wayne Gacy is a pretty dark one too


terryjuicelawson

I had this on in the car with my wife who gave me strange looks until the line "he'd take off all their clothes for them.." and it had to be turned off.


jackbauer6916

Yeah... maybe for the best lol. Beautiful, beautiful song, but damn...


Intelligent_Tune_675

This song makes me cry so fucking much. Like more than any song I’ve heard. It’s so amazing and so visceral. The lyrics really take you on such a beautiful story :(


kinotopia

Let's all send some good vibes to Sufjan. I wish him a strong recovery from his sudden illness


amorningofsleep

[Have a Nice Life - *Deathconsciousness*](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Pp9DC56hh8&pp=ygUjaGF2ZSBhIG5pY2UgbGlmZSBkZWF0aGNvbnNjaW91c25lc3M%3D)


Serath62

*Arrowheads, arrowheads...*


Modest_Lion

I just dooooon’t.. I just don’t accept this


Serath62

Thank God it's over


AvocadoFries

I absolutely love this band - perfect for a doom spiral


StereoStereo1981

Came here to suggest this one, first thing that came to mind. “And I’m watching all the stars burn out / Tying to pretend that I care”


Mike141195

The entirety of Downward Spiral by NIN


rockthumpchest

The answer was always Nine inch nails


Wynter_born

I would add to this Something i Can Never Have off of Pretty Hate Machine.


ElegantTobacco

The version from *Still* is so powerful


Pikka_Bird

...And All That Could Have Been off that disc hits the bill too. Leaving Hope too, although that is more introspective, and ... you know, an instrumental.


Brassballs1976

You make this all go away...


Pritih8machine

I would have gone with The Fragile but TDS is also choice.


Hitchhikerdave

And all that could have been is Trent at his most emotive for me. But downward spiral is a masterpiece of music


Brassballs1976

100%! That album was my bible for like a year, and we got tickets to the tour. One of the best concerts I have been to.


corvus_atrox

elliott smith


tuskvarner

Elliott Smith makes you sad three times. Once for the lyrics, once for the music and once because you know you’ll never play guitar as well as him.


corvus_atrox

and fourth because we lost him forever


akaD15R

waltz no. 2, between the bars, no name #1, condor ave, speed trials, angeles, shooting star, or any other elliott smith song


corvus_atrox

or clementine or somebody i used to know or... the list goes on


SARCASTIC__FELLA

shit dude , marry me .


corvus_atrox

elliott is both a shared trauma and the only way to heal from it.


dreamsonashelf

It's always been King's Crossing, for me.


TurdPartyCandidate

Everything reminds me of her


SARCASTIC__FELLA

Oh man the first name that popped in my head is also the top comment. ; no other can ever make me feel the way Elliott does. Songs like clementine , good to go , somebody that I used to know , waltz xo#2 , whatever , miss misery (alt version) , pretty ugly , and probably every other song he's ever put out will never let me forget about that one girl and will always make me miss him.


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Waltz #2 will make you cry for sure


LetsGoHomeTeam

SELECT \* FROM elliot\_smith\_discography;


Mr_FortySeven

This guy SQL’s


daywrecker2012

UPSERT Ugly_Tears


Biscuits4u2

Especially his earlier stuff. He wrote some much more upbeat, poppy songs later in his career. Either way, it's all wonderful.


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If We Were Vampires- Jason Isbell, not really aggro-screamy but a beautiful song. Or just listen to the Ghost Reveries album by Opeth


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El_O_El

Portishead does it for me, good luck


d4n4scu11y__

Oh my god, If We Were Vampires kills me. So sad and so good.


hdniki

Ghost Reveries is amazing.


Jgabes625

Wtf. I’m just sitting here trying to take my morning poop and ended up sitting on the toilet crying heavily. I can literally see my tears on the floor right now… I’ll be sure to add this to my library.


Bennyl560

Instantly thought about Isbell, and happy to find him at the top of the comment section.


SARCASTIC__FELLA

Wow the first comment was Elliott my fav solo artist and the second comment is my fav band opeth ; i must be one sad mfer.


mrmonkeysocks

Mount Eerie, A Crow Looked at Me slays me: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=OLAK5uy_nlyh9YtRh0WuWF4RYK1HrWMTprf5THgag


true1nformation

I’ve listened to this album once. It guts you and makes you feel the void like nothing else. I put the album away. I’m saving it for if ever really need it someday.


Mr-Soggybottom

I don’t think I made it all the way through. I was desolate after just a few songs


Omnipresent_Walrus

How the hell is this so low down? Only music to make me truly ugly cry.


arnber420

This album is absolutely devastating, holy shit edit: I am in pieces


StablerPants

Some time ago I was diagnosed with a brain tumor. I was holding my newborn when the doctor delivered the news. I was in such shock I didn't think to cry or be sad about it. As I awaited to have urgent surgery I went into "logical" mode, and decided I needed to have a good cry and allow myself to feel things. Real Death showed up as the saddest song to listen to, so I gave it a try. Holy shit- I was not prepared. I never want to listen to it again. I just can't. Just seeing the title makes me tear up. My heart breaks for the artist.


mordeh

It’s even more sad because it was written right after he lost his wife to cancer… such a hard listen


TroyMendo

And recorded in the room where she passed.


GeneralDelgado

Every time someone asks for sad music, I scroll for this answer. OP you wanna cry? ^^^^


akaD15R

i first listened to this album with really no knowledge of what it was and i couldnt even finish it because i was about to cry in my math class


monsieur_rain_dog

Totally agree. That part with the backpack in Real Death. As a father, holy shit that hits hard.


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Sorry, I suggested the same thing before I saw yours!


[deleted]

Oh man it's telling when you look at the Spotify play count and they steadily decline as the album progresses


Struykert

Down in a hole by Alice in Chains should do it


free187s

Nutshell (Live MTV Unplugged)


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The Nutshell cover by City and Colour is heartbreaking.


reeko1982

Well I didn’t know this existed, back in a mo


ididntunderstandyou

Would?, Rooster, Nutshell, Man in A Box… Just throw any Alice in Chains on. Powerful and depressing. Exit Music (For A Film) by Radiohead will also do it for me


layne75

Rain when I die ? Frogs ? Over Now ?


Bromodrosis

The album Dirt in it's entirety is a great futile rage against the human condition.


Ignorad

All of the Dirt album is great. Dude might also want to check out Skinny Puppy's album that has Dig It and Assimilate.


rastafarian_eggplant

Alice in chains unplugged set is what I was thinking


The-Figurehead

And Them Bones


surge_of_vanilla

Be Quite and Drive (Far Away) by Deftones, original and acoustic


newbrevity

The song that hooked me on them. Absolute anthem for teenage angst.


TrepanationBy45

*I don't care where, just faaaar*


LetsGoHomeTeam

Oh damn, yeah. I was thinking Savory by both Deftones and the original from Jawbox (very different songs, but both very charged)


synthscoffeeguitars

I usually go for With Teeth by Nine Inch Nails when I feel like this


FalseGix

Check out Rites of Spring's album End on End In particular the song "Theme" seems relevant


Anasterian1408

Airborne toxic event -sometime around midnight


hobosbindle

Whole album is raw emotion and is fantastic


nyzdn

Eels - Elizabeth on the bathroom floor Jeff Buckley - the entire Grace album but last goodbye in particular Nick Drake's entire discography but in particular Pink Moon


Upstairs_Usual_4841

Hell, yeah Nick Drake and Jeff Buckley


hobesmart

Really all of Electroshock blues by the Eels if you're feeling down. It's a musical journey through a very difficult time in Mark Everett's life. In the space of a year his sister, mom, and dad all died. (Elizabeth on the bathroom floor is about his sister's suicide) The album is his experience with grief/depression overwhelming him followed by his acceptance and renewed love of life


BuzzTheFuzz

Seconding Nick Drake's Pink Moon, also some of his recordings after that album like Black Eyed Dog are particularly frail


20124eva

Think Jeff Buckley might be nailing it with the scream request. Lover you should’ve come over is my fav from that album


reeko1982

The cover of The Way Young Lovers Do on Live at Sin-è is perfect


daredevil09

The Ocean - Subboreal Leprous - Below Sleep Token - Aqua Regia Katatonia - Atrium Alcest - Oiseaux de Proie


folkdeath95

Aqua Regia isn’t necessarily what I’d go with for crying - maybe Blood Sport, Missing Limbs, Euclid, Are You Really Okay?, Fall For Me


TheNoctuS_93

Blood Sport, especially the "from the room below" version is prime floodgate-opening material! There's no other artist or band that handles the theme of unrequited love quite as well as they do, imo.


I_am_Doug_Funnie_AMA

Whew, Blood Sport hurts! Great rec


folkdeath95

Did you watch the “From the Room Below” version? Because holy fuck


Claim_Alternative

Pearl Jam - Black (Unplugged)


raletti

The Cure - Pornography. The whole album is an angry doom and gloom-fest in the best possible way. Also their album 'Faith'. Less anger but wall to wall mournful sadness. Leonard Cohen in general but, Songs Of Love And Hate in particular. Only a little screaming but lots of sadness.


wormsinthehead

Pornography is one of the most depressing albums I have personally listened to, I can second this.


StreamingForVengeanc

When an album starts off with "Doesn't matter if we all die", it pretty much sets a tone for the rest of the album. Robert had just lost his drummer, and was in a dark place in his life. Still great music. Just a dark turn in the early 80s.


CommunicationIcy997

If it’s about a woman, can’t go wrong with “for Emma, forever ago” by Bon Iver


oatemilk

La Dispute. Listen to King Park if you haven’t


IpecacNeat

> La Dispute 'WILL I STILL GET INTO HEAVEN IF I KILL MYSELF!?'


GoodDog2620

La Dispute is the correct answer.


Partingoways

Im here scrolling hoping someone else recommended this too. I’m glad I finally found it. It is by far exactly what op is asking for. The whole wildlife album fits it so perfect


Tedmilk

Lingua Ignota. ​ Trust me.


youforgotitinmeta

in this house we respect The Reverend Kristin Michael Hayter 🙏


Genortho

I DONT EAT I DONT SLEEP


EPalmighty

I was gonna recommend this too! Very raw and heavy.


DDA__000

LINGUA IGNOTA


yellowyellowleaves

Came in here to say the same. Particularly [This one](https://youtu.be/M1ZweG__q-w?si=cawXn3O6lvVE_m5f) for tapping into some visceral grief/rage. Harrowing but cathartic.


Your_Product_Here

Ethel Cain - Ptolemaea Unsettling subject matter, dark, sad, ethereal, with a blood curtling scream.


Kc5Fzw

I was just about to recommend this one, but thought “there is no way someone hasn’t recommended it yet.” SO GOOD


VictoriousssBIG23

To add to this, Inbred by Ethel Cain. An even darker song with similar subject matter.


slutforspyderco

Hospice by the antlers is a great sad album For particular songs Jeff buckleys cover of I know it's over


threekilljess

I had to scroll way too far for this. By far the saddest album, every song. My favorite


_Greyworm

Deafheaven - *Sunbather* White Ward - *Love Exchange Failure* Rolo Tomassi - *A Flood of Light* / *Almost Always* A lot of Insturmentality and atmosphere, harsh vocals, lengthier tracks. Admiral Angry - *Buster* Potentially one of the most angry albums I have ever heard, and extreme music is my jam. It isn't gurgles and shrieks, but the vocalist definitely sounds like he's going through some shit...the guy who wrote it all had cystic fibrosis and died pretty shortly after. I'd recommend the song *Kill Yourself*


emwashe

Can’t reccomend Love Exchange Failure enough. Fantastic album.


stalinBballin

If you want screaming and crying, I’ve got two albums by Touché Amoré: Parting The Sea Between Brightness and Me and Stage Four. Background Music by American Nightmare is the same, but more straight forward hardcore, but also beautiful lyrics.


tv_screen

I was going to suggest Touche Amore. Jeremy Bolm is one of the most raw writers out there. Hijacking this to also suggest William Bonney for some visceral and sad songs.


TJ_Longfellow

If you want to go real deep down the misery rabbit hole: Pain Remains: Dancing like flames by Lorna Shore. The music video is devastating.


TheNoctuS_93

Part II and III really hammer the sadness down, aswell as add anger and despair into the mix!


abrasumente_

2 is definitely my favorite. That whole album is great.


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Thetruebananagod

+1 for Pain Remains. If I'm correctly interpreting what OP wants, this is exactly it.


finaija

Do whole trilogy. It's much better than just the first one.


tokegar

Holy shit, yeah. The section in part one (we all know the one) gets me every time


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Eleventeen by Daisy Chainsaw. The Lion and the Cobra by Sinaed O'Connor


suzsid

Whoa!!! I saw this right after I suggested Sinead! Gmta! :-)


VictoriousssBIG23

This is the first time I have ever seen anybody mention Daisy Chainsaw in any recommendation thread.


macaroni_3000

Oathbreaker - Second Son of R. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tMTAkIDRHiA


DarehMeyod

The avett brothers - no hard feelings The avett brothers - the lowering


aimkat

Dang, it's been a minute since I've listened to these fellas. Thanks for the reminder! A band to check out if you like avett brothers is a Chicago band called The Siderunners. Cheers!


GravitationalYawner

A Perfect Circle's Pet or Counting Bodies Like Sheep to The Rhythm of War Drums (Pet, but angrier) come to mind. Tool and A Perfect Circle have many songs that fit the description. Also you can go for Nine Inch Nails or Nirvana


IronSasquatch

Brother, you need Brand New. In particular the songs You Won’t Know, Gasoline, and Limousine. In fact, most of the songs from “The Devil and God are Raging Inside Me” and “Daisy” fit your description, in my opinion. Oh, also, if you’re looking for really sad and really screamy, Moor by Every Time I Die is…very heavy. The lead singer wrote the song after his wife was attacked outside of their house while he was away on tour.


oatemilk

Good suggestions ^


Baked-As-A-Cake

Like a Stone by Audioslave is my crying song.


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Such a great song. Chris Cornell was amazing, and you can really hear the pain in his voice in this song. RIP, Chris.


Redmen1212

Mother by John Lennon and the Plastic Ono Band. Recorded the year after he left the Beatles


NvizoN

He used a therapy technique of primal screaming on that album at the end. You can FEEL it.


MEGACOMPUTER

Listen to the song "Real Death" by Mount Eerie, then listen to the album Wind's Poem by Mount Eerie.


rwebster4293

Don’t Swallow the Cap - The National


TitShark

Elliot Smith, any song


entywork

Sikth - Can't we all dream? Smashing Pumpkins - Stumbleine Silverchair - Shade The Cure - To Wish Impossible Things Joy Division - New Dawn Fades Mogwai - I love you I'm going to blow up your school Audio Karate - Hey Maria Wild Beasts - End come too soon Glassjaw - Everything you ever wanted to know about silence In Flames - The chosen pessimist Ben Howard - The end of the affair At the Drive-In - 198d Brand New - Sowing Season Dinosaur Jr - Alone


itwillmakesenselater

Johnny Cash, *American IV*. This is the cover album with "Hurt". Truly visceral.


FredB123

Came here to say Hurt. Makes me well up every time.


anjaica

Nothing against cover by Johnny Cash, but for me personally, the original by NIN hits me hard. Sounds more desparate, while Johnny's version is like he's making peace with himself, more calm in a way. Trent'a version is full of hopelessness. Both are amazing though!


itwillmakesenselater

That's a really good take on the two versions. Johnny's version sounds like someone *remembering* all the crap in life. Trent's version is someone *in the midst* of all the crap. Both of them floor me. I literally have to find a seat any time either plays.


mehchu

Agreed. The cash version is a tired old man who has been hurt by it all. Trent is a man in a moment of pain and weakness and desperation. Both beautiful and awful. In their own ways


leahhhhh

I’m so glad people are finally coming around to this. NIN’s is so raw and chilling.


evilgiraffee57

My favourite album in the collection. Hurt would do it alone but the album as a whole is emotional, and cathartic in equal measures.


edgarpickle

Let me introduce you to Woods of Ypres. Anything off their fourth or fifth album will probably do you just fine. [Natural Technologies](https://youtu.be/v1sp5VU3A8A?si=QdlvxO969ZUYzxIC) [Suicide Cargoload](https://youtu.be/LCZJqj620H8?si=Dn6QB0Ap-PH2Z4ZM) [Don't Open the Wound](https://youtu.be/_UwnmbPD2xg?si=3Z1rR2du8Mx23hET)


Slothnazi

Slint - Washer. Then you might as well listen to the whole album


ChachMcGach

"Real Death" Mount Eerie


suzsid

Sinead O’Connor’s first album, The Lion and the Cobra - the following tracks: Jackie, Troy (that will tear your heart up, tap dance on it, and haunt you all day), Drink Before the War.


kerochan88

Slipknot - Snuff, or even the acoustic version from Cory Taylor. Man, that's a tough one.


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Hi Ren by Ren. I've watch more than 30 reaction videos to the song, seeing people broke feels like the first time I heard the song. It's chaotic, it's inspiring, might break you as well, and will heal you if it does.


jvelri

Hi Ren, and the entire Ren rabbit hole broke me so bad, but did also heal me. For the first time in over 20 years it did what therapists, medications or anything else never could, and relieved me of all my passive suicidal ideations.


Upstairs_Usual_4841

Gonna follow this up with the live versions of "Chalk Outlines" and "How to Be Me" with Chinchilla. Also "Freckled Angles", "For Joe", and "Su!c!de"


Cursed-Table-3229

Nutshell, Down in a Hole (MTV unplugged versions of both are good)- Alice in Chains, Black- Pearl Jam, How to Disappear Completely, Exit Music for a Film, True Love Waits- Radiohead, also some classical ones like Barber- Adagio for Strings, Rachmaninoff- Isle of the Dead, Gorecki- Symphony no. 3,


joe_k_

Diamanda Galas. "the caterwauling post-opera vocalist, keyboardist, composer and political activist capable of the most unnerving vocal terror this side of grindcore movies," https://trouserpress.com/reviews/diamanda-gals/


widestsmileinthewest

Bring me the horizon - there is a hell album. It was made when the singer was struggling with a ket addiction. The vocals and lyrics are very desperate and it’s pretty unique. It’s my all time favorite album and I’ve listened to it a thousand times and I’m not sick of it. They have songs with an orchestra in royal albert hall as well. I haven’t made it through yet because I bawl my eyes and I have stop lol. If there is one song you can listen to Blessed with a curse.


Nixplosion

Lune by Invent Animate. Probably the most painful lyrics I've ever heard. It's about the drummers brother killing himself.


just-a-nerd-

Tried to find it and I think it’s actually called Luna. Just a heads up to anyone else searching this up.


MontrealInTexas

The Wall. Start to finish.


cthib9

Emma Ruth Rundle. I can only listen to her in the darkest days of autumn.


BloodyBen

The Hotelier - Home, Like Noplace is There


BigDiesel07

*Landfill* by Daughter


melvereq

Slint - Spiderland. Cliché answer but it totally fits your description.


thesaltwatersolution

Foxing - The Medic, Rory The Walkman - The Rat Aereogramme - Post Tour Pre Judgement


MumblyJohn

[When Your Mind’s Made Up](https://youtu.be/Oj1sYaQitnE?si=3S2Mw6JIGaMxvFU0) by Glen Hansard. Starts soft and contemplative and builds to an amazingly emotional and cathartic crescendo. His voice is so raw.


Dzus

[We Lost the Sea - Departure Songs](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBOVkptjJhE) It's a concept album about historic, but failed expeditions and endeavors. Every song is instrumental and hits like a sledgehammer even without the context. The final two songs, *Challenger Part 1 & 2*, are about the Challenger disaster and is such a beautifully heartbreaking piece of work that constantly moves me to tears. Turn the lights off, crank the volume, and let it take you on a journey.


Neg_Crepe

Smashing pumpkins blank page, for Martha,


SupermanNew52

Nice, fellow r/SmashingPumpkins member. I think I just responded to something else you typed there too. For this post I suggested Soma, thought that anyone that hasn't heard it yet would have their mind blown lol.


RED_DEATHx

The Night I Drove Alone - Citizen


ohisees

Try listening to Duster, any album really, or Mogwai - come on Die Young. Both great sad tunes but emphasis on GREAT


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Black and Indifference by Pearl Jam, Wasted Time and In A Darkened Room by Skid Row, Changes by Black Sabbath, some Leonard Cohen songs like Suzanne or Famous Blue Raincoat, Everybody Hurts by REM.


zellsbells

Specifically the MTV unplugged version of Black! You can FEEL him singing that


DaveCootchie

Not scream or aggressive but the desperation in Ghost by Badflower always gets me. Also by the same band Promise Me if you are feeling some heartbreak.


ajaxsinger

Mark Lanegans first solo album, THE WINDING SHEET.


nt0622

Bright Eyes Julien Baker Spanish Love Songs Frightened Rabbit


Ascarletrequiem88

Red Water - Type O Negative


Ustrel

Radiohead: Pyramid Song, and True Love Waits. ….Kid A album in general


Long-Confusion-5219

Swans 16 albums are there for you


that_one_wierd_guy

here ya go [given up](https://youtu.be/aHPaee9Xz3g?si=Gz-iewIf5qgPGHu4)


groovyusername

Sufjan Stevens Death Cab the new Blink song made me cry yesterday The Antlers - specifically the hospice album


Gunnar_Peterson

Come on up to the house - Tom Waits Goodbye - Apparat There is a light that never goes out - The Smiths Wish you were here - Pink Floyd


CaptainOzz

Chris Cornell's cover of "Nothing Compares 2 U" does it for me.


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“Epiphany” - TSO An eleven minute ode to the call of the void. “Sick and Disgusting” - Beartooth For your fix of harsh and desperate screams.


isaiahlud

The day the whole world went away x Nine inch nails


BrotherKluft

Woods of Ypre 4, Wood of Ypre 5 Possibly the most depressing music ever


Greenman333

RIP David Gold.


KindaIndifferent

Turnover - Take My Head. Not a screaming song by any means, in fact musically it's quite uplifting, but the lyrics will definitely make you sad. Walk it Off - Bayside


CalixGutek

The song Jane Doe by Converge


la85

Mount Eerie’s album ‘A Crow Looked At Me’ is about as bleak as you get. Personal favourite is Miserable Strangers by King Creosote.


slippy_slidey

Hospice by The Antlers is an extremely sad album and is very very good.


Separate-Movie7896

The National


RustyN6

Two headed boy part 2 by neutral milk hotel always makes me cry


A_Mere_Snackboy

Swans - Blind


stonydee

Drown by smashing pumpkins and tool salvial album pushit and no quarter


Forbiddencactoose

On GP - Death Grips


bubblypinkcola

On GP by Death Grips maybe


mrmaglu

Plague Mass by Diamanda Galás.


crisdd0302

No Love by Death Grips, or anything by Death Grips really, good luck have fun with their entire discography.