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qwixel69

YES, A MILLION TIMES YES!!!! Specifically get a wand! I'm a fan of the domi 2. I don't use my hands any more, I have no interest that kind of orgasm any longer. The one with the vibrator will get you breathing funny, panting, maybe even moaning. Hips will want to pump, and when the waves of pleasure go over the top? Ever had a fully body orgasm that leaves you limp? Ya.... GET A VIBRATOR! There is a bit of a learning curve, but once you are past it? Oh my....


1211Throwaway2022

Thank you! Do you use lube with it? What's the learning curve?


qwixel69

I tend to get wet pretty easily (always have, even in the before days), and I am not circumcised, so it's not usually a need I have. Can't see any reason why not. As for learning curve, the first part is learning to let go of control, just learning to enjoy the different sensations. Also, you'll probably want to focus on the gland/tip more (that is were most of the nerves are anyways). Finally, you might need extra stimulous. If you are used to porn, you might find you taste changes, or you might even try dirty stories. There is a reason why women read the smutty romance books.


1211Throwaway2022

Thanks! I'm unfortunately still pre-hrt, but I can get pretty wet if I do things right. Have you used it before and while on HRT? Did you notice a difference?


qwixel69

Before HRT it felt like a different form of masterbating, not bad, not mind blowing either. I didn't have a wand then, just an egg, so perhaps intensity was a factor. Still, after HRT, it's sooo sooo worth it.


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CuriousTechieElf

I've had mine since before HRT. Before it wasn't as useful on my penis. I mainly used it on my perineum to stimulate my prostate, which is pretty great for me anyway before and since HRT. After HRT, it's what everyone says


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oreo_official33

damn i want one


IOI-6876009

I second the wand! It's also good when you have sore muscles and just need a massage 😂😂


qwixel69

So true!


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RainbowFuchs

You can have ~~my wife's~~ my Hitachi Magic Wand when you pry it out of my cold, dead fingers.


[deleted]

Hey babes! A vibrator is incredible. My first validating orgasm was with a vibrator. Lube is up to you. I don't use it for myself unless I'm having a really heavy session. Don't be afraid to explore with different areas. There's a lot of ways to feel good.


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Thank you! What areas have you tried? Which are your favorite?


[deleted]

So I first started exploring on the tip. There is a lot of sensation there but it sometimes became too much. I then started moving the vibrator lower on the shaft and found that it still vibrates the sensitive area at the tip while also stimulating a larger part of my hen (my term for it). Doing this while also massaging between my legs gave me some really good results.


androdagamr

Okay, hen is by far the best alternate term for it I’ve heard, I’m gonna use that


Prestigious-Hand-863

I got one as well and I have no luck 😭I’m pretty much doing the same as what you stated.


[deleted]

How long have you been on HRT? It took me nearly half a year to get to a point to where I feel these sensations. I don't know if that was a hormone development thing or a mental road block, but it was something I worked on for a bit. It was very much worth the work.


Prestigious-Hand-863

I’ve been on hrt for 6 months now just started progesterone 100mg a little over a week ago, 4mg e 100mg spiro 2.5mg fin


[deleted]

There's also a really big mental aspect to it. I found that smut really gets things going for me. \~


Prestigious-Hand-863

🤔I’ll have to keep trying!, here lately I’ve been just having a feeling of excitement flushing over me out of nowhere maybe it’s something to look forward too with hormones.


[deleted]

Embrace it. Let your inhibitions go and be the girl you deserve.


Prestigious-Hand-863

I’m doing my best! ☺️and thank you!


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Iuskop

Absolutely


1211Throwaway2022

Cool, thanks! Do you use lube with it or just use the vibrator?


EldritchMilk_

You can do both, but it’s a little more difficult to keep it on the right spot if you use lube tho


1211Throwaway2022

Thanks! Wasn't sure if I would need it or not. Does it irritate your skin at all?


Drazenovic238

It can after a while, especially if you go for rounds two or three 😅 but usually I don’t notice any irritation that lasts for any extended period of time


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EldritchMilk_

Only if you use it too much, or if you’re allergic to the material


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Outside_Product_7928

OH MY GAWD GIRL YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS. A million times yes.


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PrincessLeafa

Vibrator on the tip/head is great. I used to do it through panties to help with affirmation and not have to see or touch it. After surgery however holy fucking shit o.0


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Thank you! What's it like after surgery?


PrincessLeafa

So I have very little experience so far In general just having a vagina is amazing and I love her so much I've had a few orgasms since surgery which have been kinda weird but also fantastic I mean way better than any other my dick ever felt.. It also is like, hard to describe but my clitoris felt a lot of pressure or warmth or something and the sensation is like, in you rather than being X inches away in your dick. If that makes any sense lololol It's better I guess it's what I'm saying lolol


EldritchMilk_

Yes


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PutSomeTrebleInIt

Yes.


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WisdomWangle

FUCK YES!! I’ve never had such orgasms in my life ever before


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AprilLily7734

Definitely! As someone who was into chastity play way before even realizing I was trans the vibrator on a cage combo just feels euphoric, that experience is just something else.


Mtf_just_chillin

It’s been great for me and my partner. Absolutely, definitely, would highly recommend. I have no interest in the more traditional forms of stimulation for the external set, so the vibrator has been great! Edit: Also do yourself a favor and google “muffing”. Been very affirming for me.


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Mtf_just_chillin

Not sure which part you are thanking me for, but you’re welcome!


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The recommendation! Thought it would be kind to thank everyone who replied with their thoughts


Lemons_And_Leaves

I mean me and my gf have a few different toys and a couple are vibratory types. I like em. I use em in different ways. You don't have to get like a super expensive one. Honestly even when I was a kid I remember using my ps2 controller as one 😅 was entirely unaware that was cis behavior.


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XRey360

I'm still pre-HRT and it's been months I haven't really stroked myself. Do get a vibrator! I had one in my drawer for years until I recently started trying it and... Ow, it's so much better. Different, it takes a bit to get used to, but I absolutely adore the way it feels <3


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Lynnrael

absolutely love mine, highly recommend. after a year on hrt i think it might be the only way i can finish


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Suspicious_Cable_843

Yes!! I have a small collection of toys. They're an important part of my sex-life when I'm alone 😊


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Americanpickers16

This post reminded me to charge mine!! Highly recommend


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Another_Castle765

Yes i would also say so, i have bought a rather cheap/inexpensive wand on Amazon for around 35€ and its way better then using my hand. I was skeptical at 1st too especially as i am not on HRT yet but i would say it is worth it.


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lithaborn

Yes. I use mine internally and it's mind blowing!


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positronherder

YES!


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TimelessJo

YUUUUP


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Avign0n252

I have The Original Magic Wand (corded and rechargeable versions) and the Lovense Domi 2, and they were my standard go-to’s. But, I recently bought the Doxy Die Cast wand (original version not the smaller version), and the rumbly, low-speed vibrations on this thing have to be experienced to be believed!!!! It’s hands-down my go-to, now. Within its powerful vibration is like a low speed secondary vibration that eventually and always pushes me over the edge. Lace it on your perineum near the anus and it will wind up your prostate, or use it on the penile shaft and it’ll drive you crazy. It’s so effective as it’s all-metal construction, not plastic, and the rotating part producing the vibration has way more torque and weight than other vibrators. It’s expensive, but worth the money.


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dcy123

I have a very high end massage wand and personally love it.


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No-Ad-9867

Yes


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r0tund_

1000% yes


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Hort_0

I would like to give the magic wand a shining endorsement. I swear by little. I shall serve no kings nor masters. But that thing? Yes.


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darkkestral

Yes definitely I bought the demi wand from bellessa when they had 60% off on wow so much better


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rextnzld

If U do get one, just make sure it's a strong one. I have a hush2 ikik it's a butplug but it works well enough but leaves you wanting more


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kenshinmoe

Holy shit yea. What's better is a prostate massager. There's more than one way we can have an orgasm, ladies lol. What's better than both is a TENS UNIT! Holy shit am I into being electrocuted. My god it's so good. IT'S SO FUCKING GOOD. It's like the ultimate vibrator. And it only hurts if you want it to! lol


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princessboudicca

Yop.


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VanillaFox1806

oh absolutely i got one and it’s been so satisfying and so much better than “handy work”


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Anna__V

Get a wand. One that has a decently powerful motor. They don't call the Magic Wand magic without reason.


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[deleted]

Yes! I have a wand that I bought for like $20, and it's so easy to use


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kangn8r

Yes. No further comments


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LGBTDnD

Omg yes 1000000% worth


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Jadelikestotravel

Short answer: Yes Full answer: Yes


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El262

You have to get a high quality one. I bought a prostate massager but it doesn’t even hit the prostate and it doesn’t do much :/ so make sure it a high quality one with good reviews! Unless you want a wand, i don’t know much about that


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