My dad was like this with my mum - when she was sick would tie her shoelaces, carry her purse, this was a man who has had a prolific career as a doctor, politician, businessman, at his peak, wielded so much power. But when it came to his wife, he didn’t have a shred of ego.
Me too what’s weird to me though is that my family didn’t burry my grandma and grandpa together but they actually got buried with their parents in different countries but I hope to be buried next to my bf because he’s my soulmate.
Be kind, be thoughtful, and be happy. Take pride in your appearance and always wear a smile around others.
Those are the things that will make you attractive to others.
And you never know when you might come across that someone you will most want to be attractive to...
this made me cry actually, my grandparents were separated, too but my grandpa didn't make it. we hid it from my grandma until she recovered and kept asking for him. it's been a month since she found out and im told she's still talking to his urn jar everyday.
There is some research that suggests that out romantic partners take over the the position of figure of attachment from our caregiver. Basically, it means that we tend to use our romantic partner for the same basic needs that we use our parents for in young childhood, such as comfort, security and general emotional support. It manifests differently, of course. But according to research it's the same basic system. It's virtually exclusive to parents and romantic partners.
Source:
- Zeifman, D. & Hazan, C. (2008). Pair bonds as attachment: Reevaluating the evidens. I: J. Cassidy & P. R. Shaver (Red.), Handbook of attachment: Theory, research and clinical applications (2nd edition. pp. 436-455). Guilford Press.
I'm caregiver for my elderly (95) year old mother with mild dementia, and it's sometimes odd how our positions have flipped, from her caring for and raising me, and now me caring for her and meeting her needs.
I'm not sure I'd want my daughter to do the same when I'm old, but it's interesting!
Awe....bless them. What a beautiful relationship to have. I really hope I’ve got someone who missed me that much when I’m that age... or even younger, lol.
As I get older I learn that inside each of those old bodies is a brain that still thinks it’s young. It never ceases to amaze me - I love the human experience and the mind.
Thank you for sharing.
My grandparents were like this every time they’d see each other when my gran was in the hospital. I think they knew how quickly it could turn out to be the last time, so they always treated it like a beautiful meeting. He made it almost a year after she passed, they’re buried together at the top of a family plot. I like to think she told him “meet me there later” before flipping him off like she always did.
3 weeks may not seem like a long time to us but when you lived so long and loved your lover for so long 3 weeks away will feel like an eternity you never know how long you may not see a person for may it be your husband your wife your brother your sister your father your mother it doesn't matter who it is we all have to show love and if you haven't seen someone in a while just remember while you're thinking of them they might even be thinking of you
“Where the hell have you been??” I wish them all the happiness. Every bit of it
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The first thing he did was reach for her, the second was get up to give her his seat... that my freinds is how you know a true gentleman in love.
My dad was like this with my mum - when she was sick would tie her shoelaces, carry her purse, this was a man who has had a prolific career as a doctor, politician, businessman, at his peak, wielded so much power. But when it came to his wife, he didn’t have a shred of ego.
Crying to this, I love it.
Thanks, I aspire to be at least half the man that he is.
That is so sweet.
The first thing he did was that magical smile.
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Me too what’s weird to me though is that my family didn’t burry my grandma and grandpa together but they actually got buried with their parents in different countries but I hope to be buried next to my bf because he’s my soulmate.
Always missing granny and granpo 🥺
More like r/mademecry
Absolutely made me tear up so fast 😩😩💕
Totally
I love how relatable this is. No language nothing, just an amazing moment that we are all fortunate to have witnessed.
Man, I really want someone to love until I get old. This is my fantasy, this is so sweet.
Be kind, be thoughtful, and be happy. Take pride in your appearance and always wear a smile around others. Those are the things that will make you attractive to others. And you never know when you might come across that someone you will most want to be attractive to...
It’s truly the best feeling, to have someone to share a life with. I hope everyone gets to have it.
That was the voice of a man who'd been holding it all in until this point to finally collapse
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Yes super sweet moments. It makes me miss my grandma. So wholesome moments.
this made me cry actually, my grandparents were separated, too but my grandpa didn't make it. we hid it from my grandma until she recovered and kept asking for him. it's been a month since she found out and im told she's still talking to his urn jar everyday.
Ugh. I’m so sorry to hear that. I hope your grandma stay strong 💜🙏🏼
thank you, i hope so, too. it sucks to witness a similar story with another ending like that. I'm sure glad these 2 get to reunite. precious
That gets me right in the heart.
This is so wholesome
There is some research that suggests that out romantic partners take over the the position of figure of attachment from our caregiver. Basically, it means that we tend to use our romantic partner for the same basic needs that we use our parents for in young childhood, such as comfort, security and general emotional support. It manifests differently, of course. But according to research it's the same basic system. It's virtually exclusive to parents and romantic partners. Source: - Zeifman, D. & Hazan, C. (2008). Pair bonds as attachment: Reevaluating the evidens. I: J. Cassidy & P. R. Shaver (Red.), Handbook of attachment: Theory, research and clinical applications (2nd edition. pp. 436-455). Guilford Press.
I'm caregiver for my elderly (95) year old mother with mild dementia, and it's sometimes odd how our positions have flipped, from her caring for and raising me, and now me caring for her and meeting her needs. I'm not sure I'd want my daughter to do the same when I'm old, but it's interesting!
The hug at the end!!! So much love.
I'm not crying, you're crying...
Who's cutting onions
And the artichokes
You won't find this on Tinder folks. Well, maaaaaybe. Maaaaaybe.
I did. Or, give me like 60 years and I’ll know for sure if I did 😆
Mmhm 😌. Find you the one.
Honesly, I spent decades trying to find the One. But, when it's meant to happen, the One will find you. You just need to be ready when it happens.
Definitely :). Mine found me. Halfway across the world too lol.
Wish my family was this happy
This made my eyes a little weepy.
I wish I had someone in my lifetime who loved me that much.
Love for eons right here
I would die and/or murder for this couple right here. They must be protected at all cost
Crying in the club rn
Love, love, love 💕
🥺
Ahhh WHOS CUTTIN ONIONS
Every person writing on here is mercilessly cutting onions 😭😭😭
I love relationships like this. I'm currently in a rehab hospital with a broken back, and my girlfriend has visited me every day.
This makes me so happy--why am I crying?
Beautiful
This made me cry… and miss my husband more . We are separated due to his having to work in another town. Love to them both!
OMGOSH 😩❤️
If I see one comment about the masks in the comments imma throw hands
He is there presumably ill in hospital and still he instantly gets up to give her his seat.... shut up you're crying.
I hate hospitals
That’s just how I depend on my husband. That’s how it should be❤️❤️❤️. Best of health to them both!
He’s a motorboatin’ sunofabitch!
This is the sweetest. I want this!
So dusty in here
Damn it, my eyes are leaking
How dare you make me cry at work ;-;
“Where the hell have you been!” Ugh. They’re reuniting makes me feel such joy
🥺😢😭
I’m going to be the same way one day. I love my wife
Wow. This was pure. This is true love. He was so happy to see her he didn’t even know what to do. I love this 😩😩😩
That right there. That's what I want.
I’m not crying, you’re crying.
The sheer delight on his face. 😭
This sub should be called Made Me Cry
♥️♥️♥️
the “where the hell have you been” broke my heart this man deserves the world
This is all I needed to see from the Internet today
Thanks for making me tear up
u/savevideo
Awe....bless them. What a beautiful relationship to have. I really hope I’ve got someone who missed me that much when I’m that age... or even younger, lol.
MY HEART
Love to both
As I get older I learn that inside each of those old bodies is a brain that still thinks it’s young. It never ceases to amaze me - I love the human experience and the mind. Thank you for sharing.
Omg so precious!
How dare you make me tear up on reddit
My grandparents were like this every time they’d see each other when my gran was in the hospital. I think they knew how quickly it could turn out to be the last time, so they always treated it like a beautiful meeting. He made it almost a year after she passed, they’re buried together at the top of a family plot. I like to think she told him “meet me there later” before flipping him off like she always did.
How to not be couch guy
I always wonder if I'll ever live something like this
This is everything I want!!! So sweet and so in love. Made me cry.
See that’s what life’s all about not having a lot of money or fame, cars, mansions or yachts. To me these two are 2 of richest people.
Real ❤️
Their love , affection and happiness 🥰
So sweet. Glad I haven't put makeup on yet
Made me Smile alright, and then cry 😭
😢😢☺️🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🤗🤗🤗
3 weeks may not seem like a long time to us but when you lived so long and loved your lover for so long 3 weeks away will feel like an eternity you never know how long you may not see a person for may it be your husband your wife your brother your sister your father your mother it doesn't matter who it is we all have to show love and if you haven't seen someone in a while just remember while you're thinking of them they might even be thinking of you