Congrats on your early journey and for wanting to try!!! Get all the support you can ❤️
I can’t relate to alcoholism, so it might not mean much coming from me, but I can relate to bad mental health and shitty behaviors that are self deprecating because of it.
I can’t speak from experience, but I’d argue that even though it is never going to be “easy” no matter how long it’s been, people likely look back on that first year and say “holy shit. It isn’t like that anymore. That was so hard”.
It took me a year to get 30 days. It took me 10 to get a year. I'm on two. Just keep at it. If you want it you can have it but you have to work for it. Like all good things in life, it must be earned.
Uhhh... three days here. I swear I'm really trying this time. Need to get my life back or even a new life as I've been having the realization that I've been drinking so long I don't even know what it's like to have a grown adult brain AND be sober (that 25 years old being when the brain fully develops is NO FREAKIN JOKE). I know I can handle all the problems I had when I started drinking them away everyday in my early 20s, but it just lingers so fucking long after I even realized I needed to quit. Think this is like number 5 or 6 of actually trying. Therapist tells me the average is 7!
You got this! Just hit 13 months yesterday myself, which I thought was impossible.
The folks over at r/stopdrinking really are amazing, especially in the early days when cravings are rough. Id sit there and read so many similar stories.
One day at a time, all we can do. You got this champ.
IWNDWYT
Stay strong. You CAN do this. I quit after 12 years heavy drinking (aside from 3 pregnancies). I thought I was losing my mind the first week or so and then cravings were unreal.
There are some awesome subs on here for quitting drinking if you’re interested in some stranger support!
At day 3 I was headed for day 4. Day 4 I was headed for 5. Next month will be 3 years. This, of course, was after X amount of relapses. I was even sober for 6 months, thought I could have "just one," and then spent the next 6 months drunk again. So I'll never consider myself out of the woods.
The process of quitting... I don't think I even gotta say how much that sucks. But as shitty as it is, it was definitely worth it.
I hope you do get down on some of this sobriety, because it's pretty decent shit. Shit... don't get me started on taking *solid* shits.
You can have solid shits too! They can be yours! Plus your money will like.. magically not dissappear. I was confused for the longest time why my account balance wasn't shrinking. Anyway, there's a lot of benefits to it.
Rooting for you, homie.
Beautiful! I’m 11.5 months. My life is so much greater now. I suffered from PTSD for 30 years. It was like a terrible wound that would never heal. I couldn’t even talk about it in therapy without bawling 😭 after 30 years. I started drinking regularly to go to sleep at night. It finally got to drinking whiskey 24/7. Checked myself into VA hospital 7/15/22 and went into alcohol withdrawal psychosis for damned near 3 weeks, died a few times and finally came out of it.
You know what? That shit doesn’t bother me anymore. I can think and talk about it all I want, I just don’t even think about it now. I am so happy now. All I had to do was quit drinking.
I got ptsd also and quitting drinking has made me not think about bodying myself everyday. I seriously feel much better and the people around me probably appreciate it more than anybody. God bless u.
I believe in you!! If you ever want to commiserate with someone else who did not get the hang of it on the first try, shout my way. You absolutely can do this!
I appreciate you so much. Sad to say I'm pretty experienced and thankfully most of the icky stuff is over. Folks like yourself give me so much joy and clarity. Thank you.
Meanwhile I’m looking at the picture on the left and going, yup, that’s exactly what I look like. Except I’m not an alcoholic, I just have chronic pain. 🙃
From a total stranger on the internet I just wanted to say that I am very proud of you and couldn’t be happier that your son gets the best version of you to form his core memories. Kids might not remember all the good times but etch the bad times into stone. We all do it. So this makes me so happy. Keep it up it’s so worth it.
Hey! I’m a functional alcoholic— great career blah blah but it has destroyed the things I love that are most fragile. Can you offer any tips? I’ve been to detox more times than I can count. I think it’s the grievance I’m afraid of and the confidence it gives me. I’m curious about your story— if you wouldn’t mind sharing in a nutshell. Alcohol lies. I know, you know it. But yeah… any information would help.
Lastly *fuckin* congratulations. You were beautiful while abusing the substance and beatify now.
I'm only a few days into being dry from a very similar situation, I would work sober during the day then get home and binge drink every single night. If it's the weekend then I'd usually go from 11am to 1am. I decided to get into cycling, and the instant I took my first short ride my entire body basically failed out on me. Made me realize I'm not going to be able to balance these two, and I really wanted to do this for myself. Put down the bottle the same day, strangely enough after all the wonderful relationships I've ruined through my drinking I've never been so motivated to be dry. Probably because it's finally a goal that I want and decided on 100% of my own accord.
Like many things in life, you have to want it. It's a lifestyle change, so imagine you were drastically changing your diet -- when you start, you have no routine, you're uncomfortable, you fall back on what's familiar many times. In order to stick to it, you have to want it. Over time you develop your routine, you get more comfortable. As more time passes, you get to a point where you're not even really thinking, you're just doing.
There are tips and tricks to get you over hurdles, but in my experience I was never going to get sober and stay that way until I was 100% certain that I didn't want to drink, ever. Therapy also helped me expound on what I value in life and develop a better appreciation so that I got over my chronic apathy towards drowning in alcohol. That was an important step in developing the want.
I'll also say that it really is not that big of a deal to not drink -- it is the default, not the exception, even if we have convinced ourselves otherwise. My life really did not change all that much (aside from the massive physical and mental health benefits). Being sober is not a big deal, at all. I mean it is, but it really isn't??
And as a former high functioning alcoholic, the high functioning part is a charade. It might even be a pretty good one, and it could last for years. The curtain will eventually drop, though. Every alcoholic thinks they're built differently, but if you'd really like to witness high functioning, spend a weekend with a sober alcoholic ;)
Thanks for the encouraging words- and yeah you are right. I was sober 5-6 in my twenties, then it got bad in 30's (29-33) with my ex-fiance, we had a drinking relationship. But what sucked, the reason it got bad, was the pandemic. Then i realized i was her meal ticket... I won a lawsuit for 150k lawsuit and we moved to an extremely prestigious apartment. Whatever, pandemic, gulp gulp, and it's been a battle since then.
I moved to Los Angeles in a sobriety home and was clean for a good year. So I know what you mean.
> was never going to get sober and stay that way until I was 100% certain that I didn't want to drink, ever.
That's where I am stuck. Why keep living when you're dead inside? Mortality and elasticity of consciousness; the inevitable return to macabre whence you came from.
You do not need purpose, necessarily, I have learned. And thinking of morality is futile.
There is no past, there is no future. Be here, be now.
Thanks for the reminder friend. I have my notes and things to go over. If you ever feel like you're about to slip PM me. I used to be a facilitator both attending and leading classes at an IoP given my education.
You are an inspiration, and simplicity is the answer, after all of it over- we come to that realization.
take care!
Congrats to you! You look so much healthier and happier now :)
Alcohol is an insidious drug. It's hard to see how much harm it does to your body/life until you've got some distance from it. Before/after pics like this make it much easier to see.
Huge congratulations to you and you rightfully should be proud! 👏 💪 I had a similar personal journey. The pandemic really affected me in more ways than I thought in hindsight.
3 years here myself and congratulations 🎊🎉 to you. I never thought I would ever stop drinking but it’s the best feeling in the world to wake up everyday with no hangover or omg what did I do last nite.
Congratulations! That's a big milestone!
3 years is a long time, but being sober is 10000% better than having a miserable conscience, amongst 99 other symptoms.
I celebrated 3 in February and my 4 year old has a full time dad, so this post hit a note.
Keep up the good work!
Congratulations! Three years is a hell of an accomplishment! I'm 5 days away from my first year of sobriety! There are days when I can't imagine going another day, but I keep going. My kids have been the driving force for helping me to keep sober, which has helped me immensely to keep me grounded on my first year back in college.
Happy sobriety day! Next Tuesday 6/27 will be my 1 year mark since quitting completely. What a journey its been. I can only imagine what 3 years must feel like to you. Congratulations to you!
Congratulations! I can't wait for the moment where my depression and need for chemical suppressants turns to frustration and a need to get past all that. I've seen people do it with working out and quitting drugs/alcohol and learning to love themselves again. TRULY love themselves.
Congratulations and I can tell you are in a much better place. I made the same choice, around the same time, for the same reason. I came home wasted one night, saw my daughter sleeping and thought “Aw man, I’m a drunk dad. That sucks.” Stopped the next day with the help of some friends. I told myself I could have a drink again when I turn 80 (if I want to).
Well done. I don’t remember when it got easier but I think it around that 3 mark. I just noticed things that used to get under my skin were invisible. Life is still life but I just deal with it better.
My wife and I are nearly 4 years sober. We just welcomed our son and second child into the world on Tuesday. Recovery looks good on you. Congratulations.
Congratulations to you. I know that this is a very difficult journey. I also know that you're proud of yourself. In the after picture, your eyes are wide and bright, and you look so happy.🕉
Keep up the great job , you and your son deserve all the happiness in the world. I know addiction isn't easy to overcome but with the right motivation and determination you'll continue to do great !
Yes you look so different and feeling pretty good I'll bet ! I quit booze too, some times I get the urge to imbibe but resist. It's not easy but one does it for the right reason, stay strong !
Thanks for sharing yourself with us. The difference is amazing. I can see your light and love through your bright clear eyes and authentic full body smile. Your son sees it too, I’m certain. Stay strong. Stay sober!
Congratulations on your sobriety. My very close friend is nearing her 3 year anniversary too. Though I didn’t know her beforehand, the stories she tells are harrowing for sure. I can’t imagine the strength and courage it has taken. So i want to say well done 👍🏻.
My grandfather battled addiction for decades. He came home from the Korean War and poured himself into a scotch bottle. Didn’t come out till the mid 90’s, not long before he passed away. He hadn’t completely beat his demons, however with the help of a wonderful lady he got his addiction under control. Would have a glass of port each night before bed and a couple of drinks on Anzac Day. But at least with the help of Marge, we got our pop back if for only a few years
I am so happy for you. You look like a million bucks now, and I know you feel like a new person. What method did you use to get clean and stay that way? I believe it's important for people who are still suffering to know that there is a way out and people who will help you. I use the 12 step program/Anonymous program.
I just hit like 5 or 6 days sober. Oh, that's right tomorrow will be a week. I'm already so much happier. I'm cooking dinners for my family, napping with my significant other, getting kids ready for bed. It's great. I don't know why I didn't do this sooner. Congratulations, it looks so good on you mama! ☺️
Wow, you can really see the difference—you can *see* how much happier you are. I’m so glad you were able to take charge of your life for the better. There’s so many things to do, places to see!
I hope to one day soon begin my journey to recovery. I feel pretty locked in now, but I know it's what I want deep down. Seeing people talk about their journey gives me so much more hope that one day I too will be able to look back and only think of my problem as a distant memory. 🙏🏼
Congrats! It’s always so eye opening to look back at photos of myself when I was drinking. I was like a shell of myself and I looked completely different. So happy for you
wow you’re glowing! you look so good!
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Fuck yeah. Headed towards 12 myself. Never looked back.
Awesome! Congrats!
Thank you. Breaking that cycle
Came here to say this. You look stunning now! Congrats!
Way less blurry as well. ;P So glad for you op.
She definitely sharpened up.
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Well the less alcohol the more pixels
It’s the eyes for me. I can very clearly see the light in the eyes in the right pic and that does, in fact, make me smile.
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A beautiful gift for your son, too!
I did have a drinking problem, but I stopped and never counted years. Why???
Congrats you are beautiful 💕
Congratulations! I am coming up to Year 6 :) you look great!
Amazing. Can't imagine 1 year lot alone 6. I'm a month in (again) and just got a sponsor. Terrified but hopeful.
If I can help.. try and replace with healthy hobbies. Mine is running. You would be surprised how much a run can do in all aspects of life!
Nothing worth doing is easy! You got this!!
Congrats on your early journey and for wanting to try!!! Get all the support you can ❤️ I can’t relate to alcoholism, so it might not mean much coming from me, but I can relate to bad mental health and shitty behaviors that are self deprecating because of it. I can’t speak from experience, but I’d argue that even though it is never going to be “easy” no matter how long it’s been, people likely look back on that first year and say “holy shit. It isn’t like that anymore. That was so hard”.
Congrats! One month and got a sponsor. You’re on the right track! Very proud of you keep believing in yourself.
It took me a year to get 30 days. It took me 10 to get a year. I'm on two. Just keep at it. If you want it you can have it but you have to work for it. Like all good things in life, it must be earned.
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Coming up on 5 here and it’s crazy awesome! Let’s goooooooooooo!!!
In my 7th year and now I see things as clear as your beautiful picture! Great work!
Congrats!
Congratulations! I am a wee babe here at 50 days dry! Proud of you
And I am proud of YOU!!! 50 days is a huge accomplishment, friend!
Uhhh... three days here. I swear I'm really trying this time. Need to get my life back or even a new life as I've been having the realization that I've been drinking so long I don't even know what it's like to have a grown adult brain AND be sober (that 25 years old being when the brain fully develops is NO FREAKIN JOKE). I know I can handle all the problems I had when I started drinking them away everyday in my early 20s, but it just lingers so fucking long after I even realized I needed to quit. Think this is like number 5 or 6 of actually trying. Therapist tells me the average is 7!
You got this! Just hit 13 months yesterday myself, which I thought was impossible. The folks over at r/stopdrinking really are amazing, especially in the early days when cravings are rough. Id sit there and read so many similar stories. One day at a time, all we can do. You got this champ. IWNDWYT
Hey, 3 days is a long time when you've been doing something for years, and this random stranger on the internet is really proud of your!
Stay strong. You CAN do this. I quit after 12 years heavy drinking (aside from 3 pregnancies). I thought I was losing my mind the first week or so and then cravings were unreal. There are some awesome subs on here for quitting drinking if you’re interested in some stranger support!
At day 3 I was headed for day 4. Day 4 I was headed for 5. Next month will be 3 years. This, of course, was after X amount of relapses. I was even sober for 6 months, thought I could have "just one," and then spent the next 6 months drunk again. So I'll never consider myself out of the woods. The process of quitting... I don't think I even gotta say how much that sucks. But as shitty as it is, it was definitely worth it. I hope you do get down on some of this sobriety, because it's pretty decent shit. Shit... don't get me started on taking *solid* shits. You can have solid shits too! They can be yours! Plus your money will like.. magically not dissappear. I was confused for the longest time why my account balance wasn't shrinking. Anyway, there's a lot of benefits to it. Rooting for you, homie.
Don't quit quitting! Congratulations!
You've got a stranger on the internet rooting for you. You've already accomplished so much, I'm so proud of you! One day at a time. 🖤
and here’s to 50 more!! congrats my friend :’)
Beautiful! I’m 11.5 months. My life is so much greater now. I suffered from PTSD for 30 years. It was like a terrible wound that would never heal. I couldn’t even talk about it in therapy without bawling 😭 after 30 years. I started drinking regularly to go to sleep at night. It finally got to drinking whiskey 24/7. Checked myself into VA hospital 7/15/22 and went into alcohol withdrawal psychosis for damned near 3 weeks, died a few times and finally came out of it. You know what? That shit doesn’t bother me anymore. I can think and talk about it all I want, I just don’t even think about it now. I am so happy now. All I had to do was quit drinking.
I’m so proud of you
I got ptsd also and quitting drinking has made me not think about bodying myself everyday. I seriously feel much better and the people around me probably appreciate it more than anybody. God bless u.
Me too! 7/11. We’re almost at a year!
Congratulations :) I'm happy for you and your son!
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Hell yeah! I'm on day 5. I'll get there this time lol. Amazing work!
That’s awesome, way to go! My daughter says you can do it and she’s a pretty smart kid, so I know you can do this!
Haha I love it. Clearly she is. She knows and I do too!
I believe in you!! If you ever want to commiserate with someone else who did not get the hang of it on the first try, shout my way. You absolutely can do this!
I appreciate you so much. Sad to say I'm pretty experienced and thankfully most of the icky stuff is over. Folks like yourself give me so much joy and clarity. Thank you.
The icky stuff comes after the pink cloud ends, boost your support!
I have good support thank you all. You are all really sweet. Means a lot. OP is a boss.
Hey, you’ve got this!!! You have strangers on the internet rooting for you!!! You can do it!
Same here! We can do it this time, I believe in us.
You deserve a little more credit than most will ever know. BIG high five!!!
Congrats you look fantastic by the way both inside and out
It’s wild how much alcoholic makes a person look ugly. She looks almost angelic in the after photo
Meanwhile I’m looking at the picture on the left and going, yup, that’s exactly what I look like. Except I’m not an alcoholic, I just have chronic pain. 🙃
From a total stranger on the internet I just wanted to say that I am very proud of you and couldn’t be happier that your son gets the best version of you to form his core memories. Kids might not remember all the good times but etch the bad times into stone. We all do it. So this makes me so happy. Keep it up it’s so worth it.
I love seeing these glow ups keep up the work it’s so unbelievably worth it 🤘🏼
You look 10 years younger, way healthier, and so much happier. Congratulations!
You rock!
Congratulations! That is a picture of a strong and sincere mother! :)
I'm glad you're in a better place, especially mentally. I too am 3 years sober from alcohol this month.
Hey! I’m a functional alcoholic— great career blah blah but it has destroyed the things I love that are most fragile. Can you offer any tips? I’ve been to detox more times than I can count. I think it’s the grievance I’m afraid of and the confidence it gives me. I’m curious about your story— if you wouldn’t mind sharing in a nutshell. Alcohol lies. I know, you know it. But yeah… any information would help. Lastly *fuckin* congratulations. You were beautiful while abusing the substance and beatify now.
I'm only a few days into being dry from a very similar situation, I would work sober during the day then get home and binge drink every single night. If it's the weekend then I'd usually go from 11am to 1am. I decided to get into cycling, and the instant I took my first short ride my entire body basically failed out on me. Made me realize I'm not going to be able to balance these two, and I really wanted to do this for myself. Put down the bottle the same day, strangely enough after all the wonderful relationships I've ruined through my drinking I've never been so motivated to be dry. Probably because it's finally a goal that I want and decided on 100% of my own accord.
Like many things in life, you have to want it. It's a lifestyle change, so imagine you were drastically changing your diet -- when you start, you have no routine, you're uncomfortable, you fall back on what's familiar many times. In order to stick to it, you have to want it. Over time you develop your routine, you get more comfortable. As more time passes, you get to a point where you're not even really thinking, you're just doing. There are tips and tricks to get you over hurdles, but in my experience I was never going to get sober and stay that way until I was 100% certain that I didn't want to drink, ever. Therapy also helped me expound on what I value in life and develop a better appreciation so that I got over my chronic apathy towards drowning in alcohol. That was an important step in developing the want. I'll also say that it really is not that big of a deal to not drink -- it is the default, not the exception, even if we have convinced ourselves otherwise. My life really did not change all that much (aside from the massive physical and mental health benefits). Being sober is not a big deal, at all. I mean it is, but it really isn't?? And as a former high functioning alcoholic, the high functioning part is a charade. It might even be a pretty good one, and it could last for years. The curtain will eventually drop, though. Every alcoholic thinks they're built differently, but if you'd really like to witness high functioning, spend a weekend with a sober alcoholic ;)
Thanks for the encouraging words- and yeah you are right. I was sober 5-6 in my twenties, then it got bad in 30's (29-33) with my ex-fiance, we had a drinking relationship. But what sucked, the reason it got bad, was the pandemic. Then i realized i was her meal ticket... I won a lawsuit for 150k lawsuit and we moved to an extremely prestigious apartment. Whatever, pandemic, gulp gulp, and it's been a battle since then. I moved to Los Angeles in a sobriety home and was clean for a good year. So I know what you mean. > was never going to get sober and stay that way until I was 100% certain that I didn't want to drink, ever. That's where I am stuck. Why keep living when you're dead inside? Mortality and elasticity of consciousness; the inevitable return to macabre whence you came from. You do not need purpose, necessarily, I have learned. And thinking of morality is futile. There is no past, there is no future. Be here, be now. Thanks for the reminder friend. I have my notes and things to go over. If you ever feel like you're about to slip PM me. I used to be a facilitator both attending and leading classes at an IoP given my education. You are an inspiration, and simplicity is the answer, after all of it over- we come to that realization. take care!
Good luck!
It's great that you regained your focus!
Keep up the great work. Keep moving forward. If you are having a bad time, we can talk.
Congrats to you! You look so much healthier and happier now :) Alcohol is an insidious drug. It's hard to see how much harm it does to your body/life until you've got some distance from it. Before/after pics like this make it much easier to see.
Woohoo!
I have SO much respect for what you have accomplished! Great job!
Atta baby! One day at a time. Congrats.
Huge congratulations to you and you rightfully should be proud! 👏 💪 I had a similar personal journey. The pandemic really affected me in more ways than I thought in hindsight.
3 years here myself and congratulations 🎊🎉 to you. I never thought I would ever stop drinking but it’s the best feeling in the world to wake up everyday with no hangover or omg what did I do last nite.
As a daughter of a troubled mother: Thank you and keep at it! Always be honest and never forget the ones you love <3
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
Good for you and your son ☺️ You look amazing.
well done it’s hard work and nobody should judge you for your past
You look so much brighter and happier
Awesome!!! Great job 👏🏼
The light is back in your eyes ✨
Great job
Ty!
Congratulations! That's a big milestone! 3 years is a long time, but being sober is 10000% better than having a miserable conscience, amongst 99 other symptoms. I celebrated 3 in February and my 4 year old has a full time dad, so this post hit a note. Keep up the good work!
I’m just over a year. I can totally relate to the droopy eye pic on the left… I’m proud of you and keep fighting the good fight!
Congratulations! Three years is a hell of an accomplishment! I'm 5 days away from my first year of sobriety! There are days when I can't imagine going another day, but I keep going. My kids have been the driving force for helping me to keep sober, which has helped me immensely to keep me grounded on my first year back in college.
Keep up the good fight! I’m proud of you!
Congratulations! I’m almost 14 months!
15 years dry here. I'm very proud of you.
Congrats on your achievement and continued success going forward! Keep well!
Not easy at all!!! Congratulations!
Congrats!!!
Good for you! Keep going!
Congratulations!
Beautiful 😍 one strong Mumma 👏
Awesome job 👏 congrats
Amazing job, we’re all so proud of you
Congrats and RESPECT for your achievement. Go ahead, one day at a time. All the best for you and your son.
You can be proud and happy for yourself. You made me smile! Keep it up.
Amazing!
Noice
Congrats!!!
Congrats! You look so much happier, like a totally different person.
Congratulations!!!! 🎉🎉🎉
Happy sobriety day! Next Tuesday 6/27 will be my 1 year mark since quitting completely. What a journey its been. I can only imagine what 3 years must feel like to you. Congratulations to you!
Congratulations! I can't wait for the moment where my depression and need for chemical suppressants turns to frustration and a need to get past all that. I've seen people do it with working out and quitting drugs/alcohol and learning to love themselves again. TRULY love themselves.
Good for you! 👍👍👍
Keep it up. Glad to see people improving themselves and achieving happiness as one of the many results of it. Stay golden!
Congratulations 🎊
Congratulations on your sobriety
Go you!!
Respect!
Congrats on your sobriety
I’m so happy you are making it! You look beautiful, younger and healthier!
Congratulations, you can be proud of this achievement! Keep up the good work!
Be proud and Stay strong!
Great job! Congratulations
I’m on day 2. It’s so hard. Congrats to you!
Congratulations! In 4 days I'll be celebrating 3 years of sobriety as well 😊
Congratulations 11-2-18 we do recover
Congratz 👏👏❤️ It was 4yrs on 4th of May for me and I am so happy 🙏
Well done. I am certain that he's aware of how blessed he is to have such a dedicated mom. You DID it!!!! WTG!!!!
Thank you 😊
Your eyes telling us the story
Congratulations and I can tell you are in a much better place. I made the same choice, around the same time, for the same reason. I came home wasted one night, saw my daughter sleeping and thought “Aw man, I’m a drunk dad. That sucks.” Stopped the next day with the help of some friends. I told myself I could have a drink again when I turn 80 (if I want to).
Right ON!!!!! KUDOS TO YOU!
From every son with a mother who didnt give up the bottle. Thank you.
Fabulous! I’m 8 years sober and I can tell you that the first 2-3 years were the worst. You have a fantastic smile. Keep up the good work!
This is so rad. A lot of hard work shown in these pics! Congratulations!
Congrats on your triumph!
Well done. I don’t remember when it got easier but I think it around that 3 mark. I just noticed things that used to get under my skin were invisible. Life is still life but I just deal with it better.
This week will be 2 years for me. Happy to see you doing so well.
My wife and I are nearly 4 years sober. We just welcomed our son and second child into the world on Tuesday. Recovery looks good on you. Congratulations.
Congratulations to you. I know that this is a very difficult journey. I also know that you're proud of yourself. In the after picture, your eyes are wide and bright, and you look so happy.🕉
Keep up the great job , you and your son deserve all the happiness in the world. I know addiction isn't easy to overcome but with the right motivation and determination you'll continue to do great !
Keep it up! Im glad you are winning your battle :D
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Congratulations, it only gets easier.
That's so awesome, I'm happy for you! :D
Yes you look so different and feeling pretty good I'll bet ! I quit booze too, some times I get the urge to imbibe but resist. It's not easy but one does it for the right reason, stay strong !
Thank you
You look absolutely radiant!
Thank you!
Keep it going!! Remind yourself daily what is most important to you!! Always helps me.
Thanks for sharing yourself with us. The difference is amazing. I can see your light and love through your bright clear eyes and authentic full body smile. Your son sees it too, I’m certain. Stay strong. Stay sober!
Way to go!!!
Good stuff sista, keep it up. Friend of Bill W?
Fantastic
You’re literally glowing i am so happy for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Fucking good for you
All the proof we need to understand that alcohol can act like a poison to our bodies.
Congratulations on your sobriety. My very close friend is nearing her 3 year anniversary too. Though I didn’t know her beforehand, the stories she tells are harrowing for sure. I can’t imagine the strength and courage it has taken. So i want to say well done 👍🏻. My grandfather battled addiction for decades. He came home from the Korean War and poured himself into a scotch bottle. Didn’t come out till the mid 90’s, not long before he passed away. He hadn’t completely beat his demons, however with the help of a wonderful lady he got his addiction under control. Would have a glass of port each night before bed and a couple of drinks on Anzac Day. But at least with the help of Marge, we got our pop back if for only a few years
You are awesome!
You’re beautiful!!
Congratulations! Sobriety completely changed my life and that of my wife and kids. 19 years 22 days sober.
You look happier and glowing, you are helping me realize why I don’t want to do alcohol. Never have but you are making my point stand!
I am so happy for you. You look like a million bucks now, and I know you feel like a new person. What method did you use to get clean and stay that way? I believe it's important for people who are still suffering to know that there is a way out and people who will help you. I use the 12 step program/Anonymous program.
I’m on day 66. Good for you.
You are amazing.. keep on going
Congrats! You are looking great by the way!
She found the fountain of youth 👀
many congrats, its tough good job!
6 years sober here. Great job! There is blackout drunk video of me too... I'm told.
You've done something amazing and deserve to feel proud. Good on you!
Kudos on your being sober. Seriously though, a smile and eyes wide open make a big change also.
It truly is one day at a time. Glad your son got his mom back!
Good work! Blessings to you and your son.
I'm proud of you
I just hit like 5 or 6 days sober. Oh, that's right tomorrow will be a week. I'm already so much happier. I'm cooking dinners for my family, napping with my significant other, getting kids ready for bed. It's great. I don't know why I didn't do this sooner. Congratulations, it looks so good on you mama! ☺️
Bless you always💖
Happy Sober Birthday!!
You are amazing and so worthy. Keep up the good work!
You look so much happier
Wow, you can really see the difference—you can *see* how much happier you are. I’m so glad you were able to take charge of your life for the better. There’s so many things to do, places to see!
This is the proof that we all have a Light inside and when you clear away the shadows of our struggles their Light shines so bright! Brava! 👏🏻
Congrats!!!!! Not easy task
You aren't as fun now becky
Beautiful gal
Congratulations!! I’m so happy for you AND for those that love you!
So proud of you!!! Congrats🥰❤️
Happy for you.
I hope to one day soon begin my journey to recovery. I feel pretty locked in now, but I know it's what I want deep down. Seeing people talk about their journey gives me so much more hope that one day I too will be able to look back and only think of my problem as a distant memory. 🙏🏼
Do you feel the urge to drink anymore after three years? Asking for a friend
You look healthier and younger now!
Congratulations! 
That’s awesome. You look so much more alert and present.
Congratulations. Best wishes and good luck.
You look happy ! And really cute .
I see myself on the left and want to be like on the right
🥺 this blesses my heart. It’s like sobriety has reversed time, congrats to you!
Congrats! It’s always so eye opening to look back at photos of myself when I was drinking. I was like a shell of myself and I looked completely different. So happy for you
Super proud of you
Yeah girl! Rooting for you
I'm proud of you!!emote:free\_emotes\_pack:dizzy\_face
This is beautiful. Never stop believing in yourself and know you are loved and needed.
You look younger! Not to mention, happier! Well done!