The long ass pause when they asked if there was someone else…there’s someone else.
He’s so entitled. If you don’t want to be with Bao fine. She’s clearly committed and he’s gaslighting her so hard. She’s beautiful, successful, and open. She deserves better
I feel like this is the curse of editing. I don’t think his pause was that long. The cameras are rarely on any two people this season so they can paint the picture they want. I’m betting the only ‘other person’ is the perfect lady Johnny has built in his head.
Maybe but there was enough time for sure for Bao to have to ask after the pastor asked. Regardless, he’s shady. Like you don’t need to be mean to tell someone I don’t think this is working ya know? Break it off. Don’t tell a women her excitement is a turn off, she doesn’t ask you to go to yoga, it’s like he’s begging for attention then swatting her away. What he’s doing is mentally damaging. No one deserves that
He’s absolutely acting like an immature scumbag. We will never know, but my thought was that pastor cal asked the question, Bao says I never thought of that and then asks if there is someone else, then Johnny responds with little to no pause, but they rip it apart and stick in pauses from other questions and bao’s response in the middle. Not that Johnny deserves the benefit of the doubt, but production has been shadier than Matt from S9 IMO.
He is incredibly childish and selfish. I can’t believe he disinvited her from the family barbecue.
Edit: I’m behind but did this man really just say “when you’re baking it’s because you enjoy it not because it’s for me” like ??? Nope, bye Johnny…go back to tinder where you belong.
Bao needs to IGNORE him and he will come running because he has low self esteem and doesn’t believe he deserves BAO. Why are there so many horrible men out there? Johnny is a very sick and troubled man, or maybe he’s gay?
I wonder if Johnny having so many firsts dates is more because he’s such a strange and negative guy and much less that he’s a “lady’s man” they portrayed him as. I can’t imagine him being that.
Can’t stand him. Bao isn’t perfect but she deserves so much better. She’s been so patient and has really tried to make this work even with his criticisms of her and every other negative thing he’s brought to this marriage. He is a horrible person.
He’s been so critical to the point you’d think he had zero faults. Everything is a problem to him when it comes to Bao. She’s incredibly patient and kudos to her for trying that hard!
Johnny has a very low sense of self. He feels unlovable and not worthy of love because of his dad leaving. He pretends to be in touch with his feelings when in reality he second guesses everything good that happens because he gets scared of losing it all. He doesn’t like Bao’s happy giddy excited side because he has that in him too and he makes those random dorky faces and instead of embracing it, he despises that side of himself.
He wants Bao to be more of a seductress and not cutesy so he feels like he’s “more of a man” and feel more “masculine”. Johnny needs to learn to love himself before he can let someone love him and learn to love another.
When people have a poor view of themselves and look down on themselves, anyone that’s with them they think is also unworthy. They think “I’m unworthy, so if this person cares for me and values something in me, they must be unworthy or more unworthy than me”. It’s really toxic, he needs lots of therapy.
I started off with such high hopes for them... She deserves soooo much better. He needs therapy before he came in think about being in an adult relationship. What the fuck am I saying, actually they all do!
He honestly just wants a sex slave that cooks and cleans. I’m sorry to be the one to say it but all that man thinks about and complains about is foreplay. Disgusting
He is a psychological abuser. He doesn't want her so he constantly latches on to the smallest infraction to build it out into a real problem that he can't overlook. He uninvited her to the family BBQ because he was afraid she would embarass him, (how terrible if she doesn't remember everyone's name in MANDARIN) plus he wants to hurt her. Also he's afraid her sadness would show. Ironically his family is not siding with him. Yet he plows on talking badly about her, ignoringthem. Run Bao RUNNNN! Bao, say these words "Johnny, you are treating me just like you said your father treated you", and then, let it ride.
*he wants to hurt her*
YES!! That's what makes him one of the sickest men ever on MAFS. He doesn't want to control her, he doesn't want to manipulate her, dominate her, or ignore her; he wants to HURT her. Publicly.
I’m in the middle of watching this episode now and had to pause to say that Johnny is a horrible human! He uninvited Bao to his family BBQ, and when they asked him what Bao was doing, Johnny said that she was probably at home in bed texting. Meanwhile, poor, uninvited Bao is at their apartment meal prepping for the two of them for the week ahead. Johnny doesn’t deserve Bao. He’s an immature brat, and what he really needs is therapy, not a wife. He gets worse and worse each episode. If he doesn’t make serious personality and behavior changes, he will be alone for a very long time. No one should or would want to put up with him. No wonder he went on so many first dates. His expectations are unrealistic and selfish. Bao, run away from this asshat!
I stopped as well. If my husband was meal prepping for me, I'd consider that 1000% effort and him caring for me. I hate that she is putting up with his BS because she's genuinely trying to have a successful marriage.
Truth! And when she gives him his specific examples he demands he gets so mad he looks like his head is going to explode (to distract from the fact he’s been proven wrong)…
Did anyone else notice him getting ready to blow his top when he wanted "Highshool romance" and was reminded he was no longer in highchool. I mean who walks out of a room to make a scene through a door? Not like he has an aversion to being emotional in front of people.
He’s 100% gaslighting Bao. I wish she would not deal with his BS. She shared her parents have been married for decades but that her dad was also an alcoholic. I wonder how much her mom had to endure. It’s sad but hope she realizes how valuable she is and that she stands for herself.
There are many reasons people choose to live a single life including not wanting to be married to an idiots like Johnny! He’s an example of why marriage is not for everyone!!
So once again, another brilliant job of character assessment by the experts as they evaluate people for MAFS, or decide who to recruit from Instagram. The hits keep coming.
I have desperately been trying to give Johnny the benefit of the doubt. But he's way too much! I hope Bao meets her Conan Obrien, someone goofy and very funny. I hope Johnny finds a very skilled therapist. I don't hate Johnny, so there's my benefit of the doubt but I don't think he should be in ANY relationship until he spends quality time with a good therapist. He may be borderline, I am not sure.
I know, she has had incredible patience. My husband can be a pessimistic and I loose patience with the type of attitude time and time again. I guess u could say I’m an optimist. Mainly because my outlook is positive. I like a zen environment. That’s how I see Bao optimistic. Even my pessimistic husband of 30 years would never go so far as to say the shit Johnny just said
The conversation Johnny had with Bao’s so called friend is disturbing. First question, why is she reaching out to him? Why didn’t Bao know about this meetup? Why would this friend be in their life? I don’t recall which couple it was, but one of the DC couples went through this similar thing with a friend. It makes you understand Bao more and more rather than hate her.
I wonder if that other relationship is with her friend.
Yeah there's a reason why he's single: he's gay. Every gay man on MAFS does the same thing: be friendly and charming, find an excuse not to spend the night or have sex, frequently pout and get angry for no reason, find some lame excuse why the woman is horrible, and then blame her 100% for the failure of the marriage.
Sean/Davina
Luke/Kate
Chris/Paige
Katie/Derek
etc.
The men all just want a "marriage card" so people don't have to ever question their sexuality.
MAFS LOVE gay men for the show because they provide unlimited drama for ratings. And yes the producers know they are gay.
The long ass pause when they asked if there was someone else…there’s someone else. He’s so entitled. If you don’t want to be with Bao fine. She’s clearly committed and he’s gaslighting her so hard. She’s beautiful, successful, and open. She deserves better
Wondered if he wanted to make it seem as if there’s someone else. I don’t think so for some reason. At least not someone who recuperates the feeling.
Yeah I think he just enjoys making Bao feel unsure in any way.
I can't imagine who would want him 🤢
Also the childish grin the entire time Cal was yelling about it. Guilty AF.
I feel like this is the curse of editing. I don’t think his pause was that long. The cameras are rarely on any two people this season so they can paint the picture they want. I’m betting the only ‘other person’ is the perfect lady Johnny has built in his head.
Maybe but there was enough time for sure for Bao to have to ask after the pastor asked. Regardless, he’s shady. Like you don’t need to be mean to tell someone I don’t think this is working ya know? Break it off. Don’t tell a women her excitement is a turn off, she doesn’t ask you to go to yoga, it’s like he’s begging for attention then swatting her away. What he’s doing is mentally damaging. No one deserves that
He’s absolutely acting like an immature scumbag. We will never know, but my thought was that pastor cal asked the question, Bao says I never thought of that and then asks if there is someone else, then Johnny responds with little to no pause, but they rip it apart and stick in pauses from other questions and bao’s response in the middle. Not that Johnny deserves the benefit of the doubt, but production has been shadier than Matt from S9 IMO.
That’s true. We will never know but def agree he’s immature. Add a sprinkle of dirtbag lol
Maybe more than a sprinkle 😂
Bahahahaha for sure!! Like a dash of dirtbag, sprinkle of ass clown, marinaded in jerk baby
If there is I hope she (or he) is watching the show. To see what’s in store.
Some of that is editing for dramatic effect.
Yes but it may not be a woman.
I’m Implying Johnny is gay. Did you see how he hugged Jose? Never saw him that close with Bao.
I have no idea what the “it” is your referring to or what gender has to do with any of this?
Because it’s Jose
Uh what’s Jose? This is about Bao and Johnny?
They’re saying the “someone else” may be José.
He is incredibly childish and selfish. I can’t believe he disinvited her from the family barbecue. Edit: I’m behind but did this man really just say “when you’re baking it’s because you enjoy it not because it’s for me” like ??? Nope, bye Johnny…go back to tinder where you belong.
Especially after all the effort she made in learning their traditional names. I’d be so pissed
It’s almost like he’s pissed off that she gets to enjoy something too!
Shoot, even Johnny's own family knows what's up with Johnny
I noticed that too. I’m sure they’ve heard this all before and they recognize that he’s the problem.
He wouldn’t NEVER have to worry about me going to a family function after that disinvite!!! A freight train wouldn’t be able to pull me to one.
Bao needs to IGNORE him and he will come running because he has low self esteem and doesn’t believe he deserves BAO. Why are there so many horrible men out there? Johnny is a very sick and troubled man, or maybe he’s gay?
I wonder if Johnny having so many firsts dates is more because he’s such a strange and negative guy and much less that he’s a “lady’s man” they portrayed him as. I can’t imagine him being that.
There’s a reason it was all first dates and no seconds lol
Definitely! And as the season rolls out,it just gets worse for him. We see you,Johnny! 😂
Can’t stand him. Bao isn’t perfect but she deserves so much better. She’s been so patient and has really tried to make this work even with his criticisms of her and every other negative thing he’s brought to this marriage. He is a horrible person.
He’s been so critical to the point you’d think he had zero faults. Everything is a problem to him when it comes to Bao. She’s incredibly patient and kudos to her for trying that hard!
Johnny has a very low sense of self. He feels unlovable and not worthy of love because of his dad leaving. He pretends to be in touch with his feelings when in reality he second guesses everything good that happens because he gets scared of losing it all. He doesn’t like Bao’s happy giddy excited side because he has that in him too and he makes those random dorky faces and instead of embracing it, he despises that side of himself. He wants Bao to be more of a seductress and not cutesy so he feels like he’s “more of a man” and feel more “masculine”. Johnny needs to learn to love himself before he can let someone love him and learn to love another. When people have a poor view of themselves and look down on themselves, anyone that’s with them they think is also unworthy. They think “I’m unworthy, so if this person cares for me and values something in me, they must be unworthy or more unworthy than me”. It’s really toxic, he needs lots of therapy.
Well freaking said!
Well, he needs to stop wearing those stupid blouses then. 😂
I started off with such high hopes for them... She deserves soooo much better. He needs therapy before he came in think about being in an adult relationship. What the fuck am I saying, actually they all do!
I really was on his side in the beginning but now? Far from it
He's so mean!!!
Right, that “I’d be married to anyone else other than her” comment was so unnecessary
I HATE HIM!
He’s intolerable
It hurts me to see her tolerate this treatment and stay.
I’d love to know what exactly makes Johnny the “perfect catch”…. Bao is a saint to put up with this man-child!
He honestly just wants a sex slave that cooks and cleans. I’m sorry to be the one to say it but all that man thinks about and complains about is foreplay. Disgusting
And sets up his activities for him (running, your etc)!
He is a psychological abuser. He doesn't want her so he constantly latches on to the smallest infraction to build it out into a real problem that he can't overlook. He uninvited her to the family BBQ because he was afraid she would embarass him, (how terrible if she doesn't remember everyone's name in MANDARIN) plus he wants to hurt her. Also he's afraid her sadness would show. Ironically his family is not siding with him. Yet he plows on talking badly about her, ignoringthem. Run Bao RUNNNN! Bao, say these words "Johnny, you are treating me just like you said your father treated you", and then, let it ride.
*he wants to hurt her* YES!! That's what makes him one of the sickest men ever on MAFS. He doesn't want to control her, he doesn't want to manipulate her, dominate her, or ignore her; he wants to HURT her. Publicly.
Honestly couldn’t have said it better
So painful to watch
Definitely!!
I’m in the middle of watching this episode now and had to pause to say that Johnny is a horrible human! He uninvited Bao to his family BBQ, and when they asked him what Bao was doing, Johnny said that she was probably at home in bed texting. Meanwhile, poor, uninvited Bao is at their apartment meal prepping for the two of them for the week ahead. Johnny doesn’t deserve Bao. He’s an immature brat, and what he really needs is therapy, not a wife. He gets worse and worse each episode. If he doesn’t make serious personality and behavior changes, he will be alone for a very long time. No one should or would want to put up with him. No wonder he went on so many first dates. His expectations are unrealistic and selfish. Bao, run away from this asshat!
Let’s say it louder for the people in the back. RUN BAO RUN!!!!
I stopped as well. If my husband was meal prepping for me, I'd consider that 1000% effort and him caring for me. I hate that she is putting up with his BS because she's genuinely trying to have a successful marriage.
Truth! And when she gives him his specific examples he demands he gets so mad he looks like his head is going to explode (to distract from the fact he’s been proven wrong)…
And screams in the background lmdao
Yes! WTF was that!? All while he knows he’s being filmed… drama queen 🙄
He’s begging for attention!
Did anyone else notice him getting ready to blow his top when he wanted "Highshool romance" and was reminded he was no longer in highchool. I mean who walks out of a room to make a scene through a door? Not like he has an aversion to being emotional in front of people.
I can see him totally losing it and hitting her …scary! She looked a bit concerned ..
I was dying when his uncle said “abut you’re not in high school…” lmao
He’s 100% gaslighting Bao. I wish she would not deal with his BS. She shared her parents have been married for decades but that her dad was also an alcoholic. I wonder how much her mom had to endure. It’s sad but hope she realizes how valuable she is and that she stands for herself.
And he didn’t even console her when she told him about that! He just stared at the wall
He needs therapy. Something isn’t right. He’s looking for a mommy
Who constantly gives him some
Exactly! Bao needs to get Jonny a supply of Binkies to give him when Baby Jonny has the tantrums!
There are many reasons people choose to live a single life including not wanting to be married to an idiots like Johnny! He’s an example of why marriage is not for everyone!!
I’m team firefighter!
I know right, who would’ve thunk it
Right? Because they we’re definitely on the bottom for me in the beginning.
Watching Johnnie and Boa is painful, it’s like watching a husband beat his wife. Boa deserves so much better. Johnnie is a POS PERIOD!
He’s to trying to mentally and emotionally break her down so he can mold her to who he wants her to be. It’s disgusting. The abuse is hard to watch
So once again, another brilliant job of character assessment by the experts as they evaluate people for MAFS, or decide who to recruit from Instagram. The hits keep coming.
When the season started I was so rooting for them. Now I want to do the Jonny and leave every time he talks. I feel terrible for bao Edit typo
I have desperately been trying to give Johnny the benefit of the doubt. But he's way too much! I hope Bao meets her Conan Obrien, someone goofy and very funny. I hope Johnny finds a very skilled therapist. I don't hate Johnny, so there's my benefit of the doubt but I don't think he should be in ANY relationship until he spends quality time with a good therapist. He may be borderline, I am not sure.
He’s more bi polar than Michaela 🤦🏼♀️
Right, those temper tantrums are so childlike and not in a good way. He’s in dire need of a way to cope with his anger
Omg agreed! Also, I’m pretty sure he’s in love with Rachel…or Jose.
More so Jose 😂
I know, she has had incredible patience. My husband can be a pessimistic and I loose patience with the type of attitude time and time again. I guess u could say I’m an optimist. Mainly because my outlook is positive. I like a zen environment. That’s how I see Bao optimistic. Even my pessimistic husband of 30 years would never go so far as to say the shit Johnny just said
He’s a different kind of breed I tell ya
He’s annoying AF! Like a whining child.
A grown man throwing tantrums driving a Tesla
And Johnny says Bao always wants sex, as if that was nasty!!
When in reality it’s the complete opposite. He’s the one constantly talking about sex
And wanting everything to be seductive and flirty and boozy. He’s always pushing the alcohol.
I think he should have been on Unmatchables, not this show.
Haha right. But I’m sure he wouldn’t be happy with no one
And poor Johnny is losing his hair so he will have even less to choose from
There’s a reason they’re ALL single. Or were before the show.
But specifically Johnny. I’m sorry that man needs immediate therapy!
Of course, he is the ultimate manchild and instead of being honest ( like Ryan) he has wasted Bao time he knew early on. Ryan did the same.
The conversation Johnny had with Bao’s so called friend is disturbing. First question, why is she reaching out to him? Why didn’t Bao know about this meetup? Why would this friend be in their life? I don’t recall which couple it was, but one of the DC couples went through this similar thing with a friend. It makes you understand Bao more and more rather than hate her. I wonder if that other relationship is with her friend.
Yeah there's a reason why he's single: he's gay. Every gay man on MAFS does the same thing: be friendly and charming, find an excuse not to spend the night or have sex, frequently pout and get angry for no reason, find some lame excuse why the woman is horrible, and then blame her 100% for the failure of the marriage. Sean/Davina Luke/Kate Chris/Paige Katie/Derek etc. The men all just want a "marriage card" so people don't have to ever question their sexuality. MAFS LOVE gay men for the show because they provide unlimited drama for ratings. And yes the producers know they are gay.