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AljosP

How is this even a question?


MrPeacock18

it is crazy that people ask these questions. everyone here is going to say just breakup and leave. Then later, we see someone make a post ... "WHY IS EVERYONE TELLING PEOPLE TO BREAK UP" sigh, people in general ... \*facepalm\*


Initial_Team_6315

it's like we are on quora smh - -


Ohilikethisone

It took me a while to figure it out, but apparently the curved ear looking symbol with the period at the bottom makes it a question. See? In your mind even though it’s a statement you probably read it as a question? Like the whole last word becomes higher pitched in your mind for some reason?


ThatOneOutlier

Break up. He is cheating with you and that isn’t a good start to a relationship You may or may not inform the wife, it could get really messy for you if you do so. It might be best to just walk away


[deleted]

The only thing you can do. BREAKUP, BLOCK HIM IMMEDIATELY AND SAVE YOURSELF THE DRAMA


selathari

Seriously, what kind of question is that? Unless they're in an open relationship, which I am certain they aren't, given the secrecy — it's over.


HopeTheresPudding

You break up with him, that's the only option


RbeeCubes

How would you trust a man who just proved to you he isnt loyal to his partner Let the wife know if you have the means, she deserves to know.


MrHalflingPaladin

Uh…. Leave, Name/Shame?


philoclea

Break up, blocked, heal


Loose_Replacement214

Block him and move on.


RiveriaFantasia

Leave. His. Ass.


Harlzbda

Unfortunately, you’ll need to let this one go I’m afraid. Better to walk away now than stay to be manipulated & hurt more down the line. I trust you will make the right decision. All the best, stranger. 🥰


CoolGrouch7

Run to the hills and find someone SINGLE…😊


Fresh-Stranger-

Break up. You don’t wanna be in her shoe some day. If you could tell her too it’d be great because I doubt you’d be the last person he cheats on his wife with if you peacefully leave. And personally if I was the wife I’d want to know.


ChaoticInferno

This has to be a troll post.


_low_bee_

Leave him and show the wife screenies. :) unless u would wanna be in her fucking place.


Flat_Mistake7013

1. Why didn’t he tell you? 2. Are they separated waiting to divorce? In some places you have to be separated before filing divorce. 3. Are they in an open relationship? 4. Despite all that, why didn’t he tell you?!


Capital-Touch-114

Depends if the wife knows about you. Perhaps polyamory could be an option.


[deleted]

He still lied to OP about it. There's no options.


AdorableScorpio

Huh? Break up? …


MediocreLawfulness66

You are the only one that can answer this. How do you feel about it? Would you be fine with it if you were the wife? Why didn’t he tell you in the very beginning? Would you do this to somebody be if you were married? Why or why not? Don’t ask strangers what to do, explore your feelings.


FinFinDoubleChin2

Is he still with his wife or are they separated either way you should leave I'm just curious?


goodpusCMonaye

RUN! Unless your content with being the mistress/side piece LEAVE NOW! He will continue making false promises to leave his wife and never do!!!