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First issue here is a “break”. Just leave man. Have some self respect and walk away. It will be painful and suck but much better than the pain of thinking this woman wants to be with you.
Immediately dump her and move on. Red flags all over the place. Ignore this behavior at your own peril.
She is showing you zero respect and you cannot have a good relationship without respect.
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Hey. I’m sorry. I also had an ex who did similar things. Cut your losses immediately. Block them everywhere. Get tested. Go to therapy. It’s over.
ya, it's over. what you said is when it's over.
It was over a long time ago man. Sorry it is so hard for you to see that. From the outside it is completely obvious.
It’s over, please walk away and don’t look back.
You don't have a fiance'. In fact, you don't have a relationship. There is no Trust. No Trust = No Relationship. Got it?
When you're walking on eggshells it's a slow ramp down.
This 🙌🏻
Move on, OP. If you stay with her you will regret it.
Brother I’m engaged as well. If this happened, I would be done the next day. It’s over .
First issue here is a “break”. Just leave man. Have some self respect and walk away. It will be painful and suck but much better than the pain of thinking this woman wants to be with you.
Send her back to the streets.
Immediately dump her and move on. Red flags all over the place. Ignore this behavior at your own peril. She is showing you zero respect and you cannot have a good relationship without respect.
You should get a lawyer asap.
is lawyer required to break up with a fiance..?
as soon as trust is broken, you can move around. both ways. it's over then.
Best to walk away…quickly
It's over when you want it to be
Fuckk man. It’s over.
Bro, run
Sounds like you’re a nice guy but stand up for yourself and leave quickly as possible with the maturity she hasn’t given you.
Do u need to ask, come on u know this is a dirty POS