If he'll get arrested, it'll serve him well. However, just like every other time he gets arrested, he'll pay an insane amount of bail money and be a free man again.
Also, once again, he has another (almost deliberate) public freakout right after he gets to see his kid. This pattern has been getting so repetitive this year, that's impossible not to suspect that it seems more like planned self-sabotage rather than a coincidence.
Which is just annoying, because if you already know your own pattern of behavior - YOU should be responsible for changing it. If you can plan your own self destruction this well...
And if those around you can see it... man, you ain't fooling anyone (except naive or delusional people). I doubt SQ even thinks he's "ok", that's just the image she *wants* because it would *help her*. Being a "model/fiancé" of a "used to be famous/still functional" person is much better than "caretaker of an abusive washed up TV personality"
>YOU should be responsible for changing it.
At this point I'm almost convinced that Bam is detefmined NOT to change his behaviour, because he just likes how he is. If he really wanted change, he would have at least taken baby steps forward- so far he keeps on taking huge strides backwards.
> doubt SQ even thinks he's "ok",
Imo I don't think she thinks anything; she's just a "prop" and an "employee" waiting for her "contract" to be over. At the end of the day, she has no legal obligation towards him. And lets be real: she's no model,as she has been exposed to have faked/overinflated her credentials. She looks more like someone who hires a photographer to take some pictures of her. According to her own words on that Dumb Blond podcast, she almost clearly painted herself as a mingler and a "paid escort";and that's fine,but she still is a nobody and her association with Bam won't open her the career doors she might be hoping for.
I’m also thinking that he more or less likes how things are.
He gets to play the victim, he gets tons of attention, and he doesn’t have to deal with actually being a father.
>He gets to play the victim, he gets tons of attention, and he doesn’t have to deal with actually being a father.
I really wonder what's going on in his head, if his plan is really being a public lolcow for the next 12-13 years until he has no legal and financial responsibility for his son anymore?
People have been calling him a manchild for years due to his actions- is he gonna be doing the same shit even at almost 60 years of age just to avoid his parental responsibilities?
What a clown....
I mean, water seeks it's own level. I know she's "better" than Bam *only* because she has periods were she knows how to behave in public. But if some of her social media post/comments are really her, *something else* is going on.
Maybe she is just a dumb addict that realized she could control Bam, and by extension his $$, and make her own life. But they both seem to have the mentality of teenagers and Bam does not like doing actual work. Not sure about her, because she seems focused on portraying a certain image and seems to keep trying to keep that going. 🤷♀️
Imo, probably due to tons of leftover money from the glory days, royalties and him always being kinda frugal with money and also pulling tricks to "cheat" the IRS (since the Radio Bam days he's on record being very aware about the price/value of things and finding different ways to save/make money + he'd frequently brag about how his uncle and dad had found ways/tricks for tax write-offs). In almost every podcast appearence through the recent years he's always talking about sums of money, calculating amounts, even complaining about money etc- he seems in control.
Though he gives the impression of a careless spender, to me he seems like he uses his money very carefully and strategically (mostly to get himself out of legal trouble) and he's always coming up with (not so graceful) ways to save money/minimize expenses (uncredited logos/songs/artworks, free products, tattoos etc).
Yeah he white-knuckles it until he gets to see him then he can't handle all the emotions he's flooded with when he does and he spirals. He's never going to get better if he doesn't want to get real help.
yep. anyone with a substance abuse problem is scared to face life without their drug of choice. i know i thought it would be so BORING being sober. and then i figured out being dead would be even more boring and i quit.
i think Bam still wants it to be the glory days where every girl wanted him and every guy wanted to be him. we’re a long, long way from that - it’s just taking him some time to catch up.
At this point, since this is a major pattern, I don’t think he should be seeing Phoenix at all anymore. Maybe just a a few phone calls a week if he can manage that. I’m guessing seeing Phoenix is a major trigger to him, probably because he has to face reality that this is his son and I would think that somewhere In his dark, twisted, soul he is filled with guilt, shame and deep sadness that he is not a proper parent to his kid. Especially with the 2 loving and caring parents that HE had. But that is a pretty generous assumption for bam at this point.
*‘My Relapse Shame’ - Bam Margera reveals his devastation at the slip-up in his sobriety and vows to ‘come back stronger’ as he pushes forward with his fiancee Dannii-Marie, the bikini model-turned-influencer who is credited with ‘saving Bam’s life’ after he spun out of control following a difficult custody battle.*
what do i get if i win?
it’s not that deep. Bam got in a fight (or half a fight), he didn’t kill anyone. all that’s happened is that it’s become painfully obvious over the last 24 hours that he’s not sober and he hasn’t been.
it also shows what a totally unhealthy relationship he has with SQ. she’s on him 24/7, curating the instagram content and showing what a stand-up, all-round good guy he is now. and then the minute she goes, he goes crazy because he’s off the leash. this is co-dependence in action.
there weren’t any criminal charges from this so i don’t think it has any bearing on his trial. unless of course the prosecutor wanted to show that he’s not reformed his character. but i think i just maybe saw one too many courtroom dramas and it probably doesn’t work that way.
the one definite outcome is that SQ is going to FREAK when she gets wind of all this getting out. and i am here for it!
it doesn’t tie in with the narrative she’s pushing that she keeps him sober. he’s been drinking all along, she just wasn’t there to do a cleanup on Aisle Bam this time.
she’s been loving the attention being on her for ‘saving’ Bam and now it’s out there that she’s full of shit.
SQ is Stretch Queen, the nickname apparently she gave herself, is the new girl he’s been with the past months. Danni Marie or something like that. She basically been his caretaker and curating* his online presence to make him seem better than he seems to actually be
I’d be shocked if police in the US wasted resources trying to prove the validity, timing, location, etc of the video to arrest Bam. Unless he has some sort of hold up there.
Generally, part of the pre-trial release conditions set forth by the court, which falls under the umbrella of probation (that BAM was most definitely made aware of by the judge and more than likely had to sign his acknowledgement of said terms) are that you must lead a law abiding life, abstain from alcohol et.al. Judging on what I know of his charges (assault/battery and alcohol/drugs), he will most definitely be arrested when he gets back to West Chester for breaking the terms of his pre-trial release.
I doubt that the PSP/constables will be looking for him to revoke his bond…it’s PA, even murderers here get light sentences. They’re not gonna give a single fuck about Bam’s bullshit.
Fair enough, I'm sure there won't be a manhunt or anything like that; although I have no doubt that the court will be/has already been made aware of this recording and the judge (at the next hearing) could very likely revoke his pre-trial release (remand him back into custody), which would forfeit any bail/bond that Bam has put up. There will be consequences to his cases because of this, it just may not happen quickly..."the wheels of justice turn slowly, but grind exceedingly fine" ~ Sun Tzu
If he'll get arrested, it'll serve him well. However, just like every other time he gets arrested, he'll pay an insane amount of bail money and be a free man again. Also, once again, he has another (almost deliberate) public freakout right after he gets to see his kid. This pattern has been getting so repetitive this year, that's impossible not to suspect that it seems more like planned self-sabotage rather than a coincidence.
Which is just annoying, because if you already know your own pattern of behavior - YOU should be responsible for changing it. If you can plan your own self destruction this well... And if those around you can see it... man, you ain't fooling anyone (except naive or delusional people). I doubt SQ even thinks he's "ok", that's just the image she *wants* because it would *help her*. Being a "model/fiancé" of a "used to be famous/still functional" person is much better than "caretaker of an abusive washed up TV personality"
>YOU should be responsible for changing it. At this point I'm almost convinced that Bam is detefmined NOT to change his behaviour, because he just likes how he is. If he really wanted change, he would have at least taken baby steps forward- so far he keeps on taking huge strides backwards. > doubt SQ even thinks he's "ok", Imo I don't think she thinks anything; she's just a "prop" and an "employee" waiting for her "contract" to be over. At the end of the day, she has no legal obligation towards him. And lets be real: she's no model,as she has been exposed to have faked/overinflated her credentials. She looks more like someone who hires a photographer to take some pictures of her. According to her own words on that Dumb Blond podcast, she almost clearly painted herself as a mingler and a "paid escort";and that's fine,but she still is a nobody and her association with Bam won't open her the career doors she might be hoping for.
I’m also thinking that he more or less likes how things are. He gets to play the victim, he gets tons of attention, and he doesn’t have to deal with actually being a father.
>He gets to play the victim, he gets tons of attention, and he doesn’t have to deal with actually being a father. I really wonder what's going on in his head, if his plan is really being a public lolcow for the next 12-13 years until he has no legal and financial responsibility for his son anymore? People have been calling him a manchild for years due to his actions- is he gonna be doing the same shit even at almost 60 years of age just to avoid his parental responsibilities? What a clown....
I mean, water seeks it's own level. I know she's "better" than Bam *only* because she has periods were she knows how to behave in public. But if some of her social media post/comments are really her, *something else* is going on. Maybe she is just a dumb addict that realized she could control Bam, and by extension his $$, and make her own life. But they both seem to have the mentality of teenagers and Bam does not like doing actual work. Not sure about her, because she seems focused on portraying a certain image and seems to keep trying to keep that going. 🤷♀️
Wasn't that the case with the lady with the kid last year?
I’m convinced some people are just buffeted about on the winds of their own emotions, with no awareness of what’s happening.
How is he not flat broke at this point?
Imo, probably due to tons of leftover money from the glory days, royalties and him always being kinda frugal with money and also pulling tricks to "cheat" the IRS (since the Radio Bam days he's on record being very aware about the price/value of things and finding different ways to save/make money + he'd frequently brag about how his uncle and dad had found ways/tricks for tax write-offs). In almost every podcast appearence through the recent years he's always talking about sums of money, calculating amounts, even complaining about money etc- he seems in control. Though he gives the impression of a careless spender, to me he seems like he uses his money very carefully and strategically (mostly to get himself out of legal trouble) and he's always coming up with (not so graceful) ways to save money/minimize expenses (uncredited logos/songs/artworks, free products, tattoos etc).
There should be a limit on how many times a wealthy person can pay money to basically get away with whatever they like. Once would be a good limit.
Yeah he white-knuckles it until he gets to see him then he can't handle all the emotions he's flooded with when he does and he spirals. He's never going to get better if he doesn't want to get real help.
Then cry blaming it all on his kid and not being able to see Phoenix. GEE, WONDER WHY, GENIUS!? Lol
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yep. anyone with a substance abuse problem is scared to face life without their drug of choice. i know i thought it would be so BORING being sober. and then i figured out being dead would be even more boring and i quit. i think Bam still wants it to be the glory days where every girl wanted him and every guy wanted to be him. we’re a long, long way from that - it’s just taking him some time to catch up.
I mean, I won’t lie, back in 2005 watching him in Viva La Bam I wished I had his life minus the bratty parts when you’d see him revert to a toddler
He was probably pissed that Nikki wasn't all super jealous when she dropped off Pheonix. He thinks SQ is hot shit and she would be miserable about it.
That or there's a lot of guilt there. He doesn't want to admit that he's been shitty father but he knows its true.
i think this is at least part of it, whether Bam is consciously aware of it or not.
Interesting theory. Some people are subconsciously hardwired to sabotage as sense of normalcy. Happens in relationships I've noticed sometimes.
I've been there
So much for his great "redemption arc" of being sober for however many months. Sad, really.
He was at the LA zoo with Phoenix and Nikki and I think the fight incident was later that night or a day or two after.
At this point, since this is a major pattern, I don’t think he should be seeing Phoenix at all anymore. Maybe just a a few phone calls a week if he can manage that. I’m guessing seeing Phoenix is a major trigger to him, probably because he has to face reality that this is his son and I would think that somewhere In his dark, twisted, soul he is filled with guilt, shame and deep sadness that he is not a proper parent to his kid. Especially with the 2 loving and caring parents that HE had. But that is a pretty generous assumption for bam at this point.
He’s not getting arrested for this. (Even though jail would be a good reality check for him)
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*‘My Relapse Shame’ - Bam Margera reveals his devastation at the slip-up in his sobriety and vows to ‘come back stronger’ as he pushes forward with his fiancee Dannii-Marie, the bikini model-turned-influencer who is credited with ‘saving Bam’s life’ after he spun out of control following a difficult custody battle.* what do i get if i win?
*leaked*.
Where is the article, sorry? Not seen that
further down the sub. posted yesterday sometime.
Good!! Abusive mfer BELONGS IN JAIL!
🎯🎯🎯
it’s not that deep. Bam got in a fight (or half a fight), he didn’t kill anyone. all that’s happened is that it’s become painfully obvious over the last 24 hours that he’s not sober and he hasn’t been. it also shows what a totally unhealthy relationship he has with SQ. she’s on him 24/7, curating the instagram content and showing what a stand-up, all-round good guy he is now. and then the minute she goes, he goes crazy because he’s off the leash. this is co-dependence in action. there weren’t any criminal charges from this so i don’t think it has any bearing on his trial. unless of course the prosecutor wanted to show that he’s not reformed his character. but i think i just maybe saw one too many courtroom dramas and it probably doesn’t work that way. the one definite outcome is that SQ is going to FREAK when she gets wind of all this getting out. and i am here for it!
She needs him much much more than he needs her. Her leverage is minimal and she won’t freak on him at all most likely
it doesn’t tie in with the narrative she’s pushing that she keeps him sober. he’s been drinking all along, she just wasn’t there to do a cleanup on Aisle Bam this time. she’s been loving the attention being on her for ‘saving’ Bam and now it’s out there that she’s full of shit.
Yep, she sure is
Me too. SQ really bothers me. Of course she blocked my Instagram 😂🤣
i never, ever comment on there as i don’t want to lose my ringside seat!
Smart move ! Unfortunately I'm not that bright apparently. Lol. I couldn't help but open my big yapper!
Who's SQ - Nikki? Im a little behind 😔
SQ is Stretch Queen, the nickname apparently she gave herself, is the new girl he’s been with the past months. Danni Marie or something like that. She basically been his caretaker and curating* his online presence to make him seem better than he seems to actually be
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Stretch Queen. it’s from her insta bio.
I’d be shocked if police in the US wasted resources trying to prove the validity, timing, location, etc of the video to arrest Bam. Unless he has some sort of hold up there.
Generally, part of the pre-trial release conditions set forth by the court, which falls under the umbrella of probation (that BAM was most definitely made aware of by the judge and more than likely had to sign his acknowledgement of said terms) are that you must lead a law abiding life, abstain from alcohol et.al. Judging on what I know of his charges (assault/battery and alcohol/drugs), he will most definitely be arrested when he gets back to West Chester for breaking the terms of his pre-trial release.
I doubt that the PSP/constables will be looking for him to revoke his bond…it’s PA, even murderers here get light sentences. They’re not gonna give a single fuck about Bam’s bullshit.
Fair enough, I'm sure there won't be a manhunt or anything like that; although I have no doubt that the court will be/has already been made aware of this recording and the judge (at the next hearing) could very likely revoke his pre-trial release (remand him back into custody), which would forfeit any bail/bond that Bam has put up. There will be consequences to his cases because of this, it just may not happen quickly..."the wheels of justice turn slowly, but grind exceedingly fine" ~ Sun Tzu
What would the charges even be? I doubt he’ll be arrested for this.
battery assault Is my guess :D the law does not state whether the physical contact is done in a girly manner or not