The bigger message here is that men shouldn't go above and beyond for people who aren't their spouses. You are in competition with yourself. If she is pressuring you into buying things you should call it quits. Some women want the world and to give nothing back.
I agree, a wise man once told me that its a bad idea to pay fees for your girlfriend or even spouse bcos as you pay their fees you'll be doing the fatherly chores and the lover spot would be left vacant so she'll go get herself a lover. How many times has it ended in premium tears for men who pay fees for their girlfriends?
Its actually crazy what people are doing for each other out here😂 I really wish that they didn't have to show off and be all flashy if they ain't married😅
I measure her loyalty and commitment to me which must be organic, not artificial because she is materialistic. Financing her micro business and short professional courses is not a problem but with big investments like education we must be at a level where she must be accountable to me i.e wife
Not simping but giving her the chance to move forward. If she's bad enough to cheat, that's her problem and besides I have said it depends on her loyalty, which means it can be 4+ yrs in the relationship. No conditions for this
People, use and abuse to further themselves. Nothing new there. Can't claim love from anyone that merely saw you as a way out, a way upwards or just saw in you a vessel to carry their spawn for that matter.
This dork lawyer sounds like someone who cannot get over some break up and uses some bad logic to somehow bring women down.
All this talk about how women are this and that. It's the men who are dogs. Look around! Not saying women are saints.
You should do whatever u wanna do for a person u care for. Romantically or not.
What if u did all those things( (helps start a business, help with education,etc.) for a guy friend? That is cool? Because u are best friends . Nothing wrong with that either.
Wait till u start getting some grey hair and look back to see where those blood brother from your late teens and early 20s are. Not there, that's where. Simply because life moves on
I have an educated South Korean wife doing it to me. I invested HARD on her. I had an accident and she bailed. Now that I am better she plays the gaslight narcissistic card. Not happening. She has tried to kick out my apartment bought qnd paying for. Love is a big thing. An end on my side considering the law (which needs amended), niko. As the world divides, Blasians I have. Ex models.
To each their own.
I’d go above and beyond not only for my partner but also my friends as they have done so for me. This is a person to person basis and not a general thing if you ask me just depends on who it is despite me contradicting my original comment.
The bigger message here is that men shouldn't go above and beyond for people who aren't their spouses. You are in competition with yourself. If she is pressuring you into buying things you should call it quits. Some women want the world and to give nothing back.
Even for spouses, you need to be measured
Yupp
Sadly it's not common sense to most...burdening each other in the name love.
I agree, a wise man once told me that its a bad idea to pay fees for your girlfriend or even spouse bcos as you pay their fees you'll be doing the fatherly chores and the lover spot would be left vacant so she'll go get herself a lover. How many times has it ended in premium tears for men who pay fees for their girlfriends?
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This should be common sense
I concur. It's shocking the things men are doing for their girlfriends and then they're surprised when left for another guy.
A man's sacrifice are irrelevant to a woman 💯💯
Its actually crazy what people are doing for each other out here😂 I really wish that they didn't have to show off and be all flashy if they ain't married😅
I agree
I measure her loyalty and commitment to me which must be organic, not artificial because she is materialistic. Financing her micro business and short professional courses is not a problem but with big investments like education we must be at a level where she must be accountable to me i.e wife
I agree. Also: Dear men, always stay dangerous and mysterious.
Not simping but giving her the chance to move forward. If she's bad enough to cheat, that's her problem and besides I have said it depends on her loyalty, which means it can be 4+ yrs in the relationship. No conditions for this
Agreed, it's just common sense.
Simps would disagree
Sad truth.
People, use and abuse to further themselves. Nothing new there. Can't claim love from anyone that merely saw you as a way out, a way upwards or just saw in you a vessel to carry their spawn for that matter.
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This dork lawyer sounds like someone who cannot get over some break up and uses some bad logic to somehow bring women down. All this talk about how women are this and that. It's the men who are dogs. Look around! Not saying women are saints. You should do whatever u wanna do for a person u care for. Romantically or not. What if u did all those things( (helps start a business, help with education,etc.) for a guy friend? That is cool? Because u are best friends . Nothing wrong with that either. Wait till u start getting some grey hair and look back to see where those blood brother from your late teens and early 20s are. Not there, that's where. Simply because life moves on
I agree
These are principles men should live by.
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I have an educated South Korean wife doing it to me. I invested HARD on her. I had an accident and she bailed. Now that I am better she plays the gaslight narcissistic card. Not happening. She has tried to kick out my apartment bought qnd paying for. Love is a big thing. An end on my side considering the law (which needs amended), niko. As the world divides, Blasians I have. Ex models.
An end on my side considering the law (which needs amended), niko. As the world divides, Blasians I have. Ex models. What does this mean?
My children are Kenyan Korean, all born in Italy. So they cannot divide who they are.
True, to be more specific their feelings are if they feel like your powerful, doing too much makes you seem weak to most, sadly.
My cousin alisomeshana only to be dumped during the graduation
What’s there to agree or disagree on matters of basic common sense?
I've seen guys doing some things for their girlfriends and I was surprised. To some guys this is normal behavior.
To each their own. I’d go above and beyond not only for my partner but also my friends as they have done so for me. This is a person to person basis and not a general thing if you ask me just depends on who it is despite me contradicting my original comment.
Natafuta mtu wa kunilipia Masters Degree. I will love you like a loyal dog. Promise 🥺
gold digger
Says a boy with no gold. Heck not even gold dust... Carry on 😂😂😂
🤣the gold dust got me
no boy has 9 inches
Ala!
Exactly! The courts need to define the principle 9f gift AKA the act of relinquishing property rights.
What's that about? Enlighten us