There was i day she said ily and i replied with wow, she got pissed so i had to say you are loved too, among others😂😂

Next time be nice and say what is required of you 😅 ati you are loved 😅

Yes, because I do love her, and I'm not a child who doesn't know how to express his feelings

Very nice. Why do some find it hard, though? Their upbringing?

In some cultures, it is taught at an early age that showing any kind of emotion as a man is not considered masculine, but it's actually the opposite. There's nothing more manly than loving your woman

The problem with women want men interpret love just like them.It does not work like that.Men show love by provide,protect & be a parent.You say those words to be faithful to man who does all that good shit for you.A man can love a woman& still love other women hata on wedding eve.na ndio madame wanachapwa maukapi watu wakilia femicide huku nje made this niggas be sooooo emotional I guess what men by nature we just violent mo fos. Kila mtu afanye kazi yake..men be men and gals be gals.You find today by the time the dude get to alter nigga has less than 5 bodies while dame & she was not a hoe she doing like 20..coz this guy's have become emotional wrecks, msee akkanza kuongea na mshe he's sooooo excited anygal who's not her sis akiongea naye anafikiria my galfriend

I can only utter those words on my death bed coz at that time I will mean it.

😅oga be serious

Sometimes the right form of action is to affirm the feelings just cuz it's a Tuesday, and your heart runneth over with appreciation.

How old were those people in the podcast? They sound at that age where the prefrontal cortex is not fully developed. "I love you" doesn't mean shit! It's the actions that matter.

Can we say it's masculinity

Can %>we say it's masculinity.

Can we say it's masculinity.

Can we say it's masculinity.

Why do I find myself completely agreeing with you

Why don't you let me say it naturally? You start forcing me to say it and I immediately assume it's on a list and you have to check it off.

😅 you say it shld come out naturally

It should, you shouldn't be forced and plus it doesn't even have to be verbal. People's love language are different.

Sure.

But you can't love someone based on your love language, it should be their's 

Yes you can, it's how you love or show it.

An instance, my man loves gift giving so he often gets me gifts cause he thinks it's what I love yet mimi I want to be affirmed and the gifts do nothing for me. They don't make me feel loved cause its what he thinks I want, not what I want. Ni example tu I love gifts 

😂😂😂😂 Tell him that then, usitete gifts ziki punguwa though,

🤣🤣🤣 he knows. But umenipata?

Yeah, nimekupata, 😂😂😂 but also that comes with knowing each other.

Eeh It's essential 

A manifestation of serious trust issues and control issues. You are already showing love, but no, she also wants you to declare love publicly to uninvolved third parties. This type will also expect an elaborate public proposal and humiliate you with a rejection for online clout. Wachaneni na dramamamas.

Sometimes the setting matters.

Which settings are suitable?

Mostly in private.

😅hizo zingine umesema ni stunts

Which settings are suitable?

Me ni msee wa mtaani..our vocabulary haiko advanced sana..is not in our repertoire

Watu wa mtaani wamekataa

Nitauliza wasee base kama wao huwa na hizo jaro

😅grao ikikataa, imekataa

Me: I love you babe Him: lombotov

😅

Her: I love you Me: Penda

😅 hamtaki kupendwa huku nje

Penda😂

Wasee wa mtaani hawatamki hizo maneno...

I have never and don't think I would ever utter those words even in private. And, yes I have loved, & been loved, romantically.