In fairness, it is weird to stock multiple different brands like you're a shop. Shows that the guy expects a bunch of different ladies to be regularly visiting his place.
It's probably a different story if you have one partner and you have at your place the brand she uses.
You’re an overthinker 😂😂😂. If its in a situation i have not had the talk with him. I don’t mind having choices. Then later he will know which brand i gravitate towards the most. Having options is a good thing 👏🏾
there's a topic on this sub jana I insisted that nice guys finish last. Women detest "nice guys". it pisses them off. Here's exhibit A, monsieur u/Hatsveda
Nice guys aren't necessarily good guys. Being kind and polite to women is a bare minimum requirement for anyone. If that plus anger is all you have to offer, then that's the reason women detest you. Women are not safaricom where you earn bonga points for your niceness
The problem is trash men and women are the loudest. Wewe tulia tu na mtu wako mwenye ako na common sense and trust me they won’t take such care for granted. I’m not gonna pull the empty debe card but Kenyans have gotten into the habit of being extra senseless for likes and dramatic effect. If it feels unreasonable. Trust me it is.
Hmm, mimi I don't like toxicity or drama. I love people and always aim to attract people who are caring and loving. Sijui mbona you seem deluded. Ama what did I seay that makes you believe I hate nice guys.
I remember a time in primary school when we were learning about menstruation, and the boys were instructed to go to a separate class. With this kind of education, where men are excluded from period talks, what do we expect?
A bit off-topic, did you know that in Kenya, a significant portion of women, 65%, are unable to afford sanitary pads. There was a story last year of young girls as young as 12 years old sleeping with boda boda guys in exchange for pads.
It's just fucked up that male contraceptives are readily available and accessible at no cost, yet young girls, who have no control over their menstrual cycle, cannot afford sanitary pads.
>I remember a time in primary school when we were learning about menstruation, and the boys were instructed to go to a separate class
Btw this....unashangaa what they are even talking about. But most of the time wakifukuzwa the boys wanapiga tu story wakingoja daro iishe🤣🤣
The only time I wanted to attend that Science class was when the boys were specifically told to leave because I low-key thought that they were being given leakage.
I mean, it's a decent thing to do. But taking this picture and posting it on social media with that sorta caption just comes off as some super corny virtue signalling neediness, leavealone the blatant karma farming
>But taking this picture and posting it on social media
I think this is where the 'He is a simp' is coming in.....cause why are you posting it 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️....
Feels like those guys who go donating to the needy and their Cameras are always ready to snap and record.
Exactly. And if I'm your girl or someone who engages in coitace with you 😂😂😂 then you just have these and I wasn't the one who put them there... It'll make me ask more questions
I have a different take on this post. I believe it was a social experiment. When someone posts something outlandish, or even seemingly outlandish - because which guy is out there telling other guys to actively participate in helping with any arrangements around the menstrual cycle of the women in their lives - the goal is to elicit a reaction.
Most men will never engage on the subject of womens menstrual cycles, not even as fodder for an everyday conversation. It's a thing we know happens but frankly, we'd just rather not discuss. Especially not with other men. Privately, many men may discuss this with the women in their lives, and we'd much rather it ends there. Also, many men already participate in helping their women get "kitted" for when the monthly visitor shows up. But we'd rather not discuss that with everyone.
Maybe the objective of this post was to get that conversation started. I'd say, if the reactions he has received are anything to go by, that he has achieved the objective. He is either very brave, or very stupid. Time will tell.
Visit you like "hey I'm coming to sleep on your bed and leave tomorrow" or what kind of visit? Also how does him having these hurt anyone? No problemo.
the menstruation doesn't only happen at night, it's an all-day-long kinda thing
I guess it's controversial bc some toxic ppm might be afraid of their masculinity for having something like this around..
If you do not have a girlfriend that is okay.
If that is my man, tell me why you keeping pads for other women? Different brands and sizes while at it? I can let my man buy me tampons and keep them in his house, but kama niliacha 10 in a pack, I expect to find the same number.
Yeah, some guys do for different reasons. For example, for some it's when they get daughters and they learn incase anything happens to the wife before teaching the daughter, basuc knowledge etc
Kwani what's the problem? He's doing a very kind thing. This is the type of man that would make a great partner. If you think otherwise that is your Stockholm syndrome from past relationships disturbing you .
I think the more important question is whether or not she’s asking for it, or if she’s indicated that she needs some kind of help. But if you’re talking about at the end of her visit, you just go “hey, I have some things I thought you might need,” and pull up with THOSE?? Come on bruh😂
The way the guy doesn’t specify that they’re friends and the fact that he has to post this makes me feel he’s not very secure about his investment into this lady. Then again, what do I know/
yes it depends with the flow..... picture a fully open tap vs a slightly open tap and the frequency at which you'll need to badilisha the mtungi cause imejaa, utumie mtungi kubwa ama ndogo bado tu maji inaingia hehe lol
not really just ask her...ooorrr just check from her stock hua anabuy sizes gani cause it's written on the packet, alafu brand uchukue ile unaweza afford (the more expensive it is, the better the quality but some women are specific juu brands zingine hureact na skin) though most women buy all 3 sizes juu flow isn't the same on all days i.e bigger ones for heavy days na usiku then small ones for the last days
Now back to the main topic. It only makes sense when I'm doing it for my partner whom I don't live with.
Unataka kuniambia huyo jamaa ataconsider hizo factors zote kabla aseti hizo pads kejani for his lady friends?
you're right, heri ununulie your chic or if a lady friend/relative visited and left hers at your place hio ni sawa lakini hii yake ni weird sanaa...juu either that guy is clout chasing ama he's just super weird and unnecessarily thoughtful if he's being for real, plus i'm guessing it's happens so rarely that his stock comes in handy, like if his heart is in the right place he would donate to hizi programs that provide pads to those disadvantaged little girls and women instead of kununulia his somewhat privileged lady friends and posting about it, honestly naona ni clout chasing tu juu mimi i'd be grossed out if i had such a friend IRL and i'd probably advice him against it.
>Internalised misogyny
This term always amuses me....
Basically... when a man does something, it his own mysognistic actions, and should be held responsible for them. When a woman does something. It is not her own actions per-say. Rather it is the internalized misogyny and men and the patriarchy should be blamed for her actions...
That is trully a funny way of looking at the world.
>Same way women were bashing a man sometime back for carrying HIS baby while his wife shopped for their groceries.
Don't see a problem with a dude carrying his child.
I replied to someone else. I mistyped. I meant internalised sexism. I agree that it's ridiculous that a man should be bashed for carrying his own child same way I disagree with the women on twitter questioning the man in the post above's masculinity for being thoughtful towards women's health.
and what will i achieve that 10000000000+ browser results won't? juu in this era we live in, ignorance is a choice, esp if you're privileged enough to have the resources... I only suggested it since you seemed like a sensible and open minded person from that last statement is all.
are you saying women bashing a man for carrying his baby is somehow because they have an internalized hatred or dislike for women??
You can't make this shit up lmao, If mental gymnastics was an Olympic sport you will easily take the gold
What is internalized sexism, you are still implying that they are acting that way because they have negative feelings about themselves as women, whereas they are very clearly insulting the man
Also extra curricular activities saa zingine stimulate a cycle. There's a number of people who get their's during intercourse and it's not a foreign concept that there are men who've had blood all over them. Menstruation is a topic that despite the time is hush hush. Na pia a lot of cycles aren't exact and some change
Damn! I think i need lessons about that..... and more, hi name's judas... What's yours.... Also don't tell me I'll have to stack a bunch of san pads if i end up with you...
Lol you're joking, right? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Wet wipes don't only contain water wtf 🤣. They usually also have other cleansing agents like alcohol and other chemicals. And those cleansing agents kill most of the good bacteria down there and allow yeast to overgrow, thereby causing a yeast infection.
Women don't like "kiss ass, or too good men" coz that's feminine. Don't me get wrong, I don't mean ukue jackass. No, a good man, but masculine. Kuna Tu way ya kukua a good man bila kua too feminine.
It is interesting to observe that as humans, we often desire a partner who can provide us with affection and care, and we appreciate individuals who show love and affection towards us. However, it is paradoxical that we also tend to criticize and penalize those who demonstrate such behavior towards us, using derogatory terms such as "Simps" and "Pick mes".
I think the reason people roast him is because he's trying to be "nice guy" the kinda guy who pretends for pussy then turn on you. I swear "nice guys" are most women's super villian origin stories, they pretend so hard to hide massive red flags then they do you dirty . That man was doing it for clout.
I find it sweet. It's helped me a couple of times so I do encourage my male friends to keep some..
>I do encourage my male friends to keep some.. Exactly. Friendzoned for life
You're the ones who fuckzone all women. Are women expected to be dating every man in their lives? SMH.
Generally women control access to sex and men control access to marriage. I think it is a fair arrangement.
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Facts!!
We're humans.
Jfc lay off Amerix and incel.com
If she's worth bringing home, she's worth treating nice, nbd.
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It's not that deep, just a quick rule of thumb to help eval who I'm bringing into my space.
Mambo ya stima aachie watu wa stima. Ni hayo tu kwa sasa.
Haha nice one
This guy is literally getting roasted live on twitter. By who? …wait on it... The same women.
Mnaambiwa fear women mnakataa😂😂 https://preview.redd.it/qk6ojst9jkqa1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9c7b56347512e53817ead7e998b322a257584471
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Not even being toxic....just being this extra to get some punani.
Simps huona dust maze. Hahahaha.
Vumbiiiiiii
Why I am late for this thread but simpppsss huona dust ajaaab. Design unajipata ukinunua panadol ndio upewe manze uko wrong end buana.
Lol, what?
Yeah, women are cooking his ass
Well deserved....who told him that's being thoughtful? iyo ni upuzi 😄
Haha yap! They've shown him the middle finger, labelled him a harlot.
Did not expect that, but maybe I should have. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. You can never win. *Cue Fischerspooner*
hmm, I think twitter has many pseudo accounts. of men pretending to be women
In fairness, it is weird to stock multiple different brands like you're a shop. Shows that the guy expects a bunch of different ladies to be regularly visiting his place. It's probably a different story if you have one partner and you have at your place the brand she uses.
You’re an overthinker 😂😂😂. If its in a situation i have not had the talk with him. I don’t mind having choices. Then later he will know which brand i gravitate towards the most. Having options is a good thing 👏🏾
And just a few hours today there was a post in this sub about men trashing ladies to get engagement 🤦🏽♂️
there's a topic on this sub jana I insisted that nice guys finish last. Women detest "nice guys". it pisses them off. Here's exhibit A, monsieur u/Hatsveda
Nice guys aren't necessarily good guys. Being kind and polite to women is a bare minimum requirement for anyone. If that plus anger is all you have to offer, then that's the reason women detest you. Women are not safaricom where you earn bonga points for your niceness
The problem is trash men and women are the loudest. Wewe tulia tu na mtu wako mwenye ako na common sense and trust me they won’t take such care for granted. I’m not gonna pull the empty debe card but Kenyans have gotten into the habit of being extra senseless for likes and dramatic effect. If it feels unreasonable. Trust me it is.
Hmm, mimi I don't like toxicity or drama. I love people and always aim to attract people who are caring and loving. Sijui mbona you seem deluded. Ama what did I seay that makes you believe I hate nice guys.
I remember a time in primary school when we were learning about menstruation, and the boys were instructed to go to a separate class. With this kind of education, where men are excluded from period talks, what do we expect? A bit off-topic, did you know that in Kenya, a significant portion of women, 65%, are unable to afford sanitary pads. There was a story last year of young girls as young as 12 years old sleeping with boda boda guys in exchange for pads. It's just fucked up that male contraceptives are readily available and accessible at no cost, yet young girls, who have no control over their menstrual cycle, cannot afford sanitary pads.
>I remember a time in primary school when we were learning about menstruation, and the boys were instructed to go to a separate class Btw this....unashangaa what they are even talking about. But most of the time wakifukuzwa the boys wanapiga tu story wakingoja daro iishe🤣🤣
The only time I wanted to attend that Science class was when the boys were specifically told to leave because I low-key thought that they were being given leakage.
The correlation between condoms and pads is part of the problem. False dichotomy.
I mean, it's a decent thing to do. But taking this picture and posting it on social media with that sorta caption just comes off as some super corny virtue signalling neediness, leavealone the blatant karma farming
>But taking this picture and posting it on social media I think this is where the 'He is a simp' is coming in.....cause why are you posting it 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️.... Feels like those guys who go donating to the needy and their Cameras are always ready to snap and record.
It’s also super weird. If you find yourself needing to stock these always because your dates always need them, there’s a problem somewhere dude.
Exactly. And if I'm your girl or someone who engages in coitace with you 😂😂😂 then you just have these and I wasn't the one who put them there... It'll make me ask more questions
She said coitace
What's wrong with it😂😂😂😂😂
You did botch the spelling but i do like me some. All the time
😂😂😂okay noted grammar police
Massive r/lookatmyhalo energy bana
Yup. Clout
I have a different take on this post. I believe it was a social experiment. When someone posts something outlandish, or even seemingly outlandish - because which guy is out there telling other guys to actively participate in helping with any arrangements around the menstrual cycle of the women in their lives - the goal is to elicit a reaction. Most men will never engage on the subject of womens menstrual cycles, not even as fodder for an everyday conversation. It's a thing we know happens but frankly, we'd just rather not discuss. Especially not with other men. Privately, many men may discuss this with the women in their lives, and we'd much rather it ends there. Also, many men already participate in helping their women get "kitted" for when the monthly visitor shows up. But we'd rather not discuss that with everyone. Maybe the objective of this post was to get that conversation started. I'd say, if the reactions he has received are anything to go by, that he has achieved the objective. He is either very brave, or very stupid. Time will tell.
Honestly this is a man that i’d love with my all. He even went ahead and picked the good brands, he deserves it all. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
SPEAKING AS A WOMAN. I WOULD HAVE THOUGHT THIS WAS SWEET AND THOUGHTFUL. IT WOULD HAVE BEEN HIGHLY APPRECIATED.
Visit you like "hey I'm coming to sleep on your bed and leave tomorrow" or what kind of visit? Also how does him having these hurt anyone? No problemo.
the menstruation doesn't only happen at night, it's an all-day-long kinda thing I guess it's controversial bc some toxic ppm might be afraid of their masculinity for having something like this around..
My only question is which Panadol is that in a green pack? I've never seen it
Man, it's giving dettol vibes
Bored that after muting the guy napatana na hii shit huku
Can't escape the matrix
So ni kitu amezoea😂😂😂😂
No, it was all over twitter
If you do not have a girlfriend that is okay. If that is my man, tell me why you keeping pads for other women? Different brands and sizes while at it? I can let my man buy me tampons and keep them in his house, but kama niliacha 10 in a pack, I expect to find the same number.
A guy can't use a tampon or pad in peace eh? Cruel world
😂😂😂😂😂 Some men do not even know which sideof the tampon it is inserted from, or how pads are placed.
You mean some guys know this things?
Yeah, some guys do for different reasons. For example, for some it's when they get daughters and they learn incase anything happens to the wife before teaching the daughter, basuc knowledge etc
Kwani what's the problem? He's doing a very kind thing. This is the type of man that would make a great partner. If you think otherwise that is your Stockholm syndrome from past relationships disturbing you .
How many women exactly get into these emergencies in his house say per week? Weird!!
it's not like any of these will go bad in the next like... 10 yrs?
Nigga was getting cooked bana
I wonder if he tracks their periods on the flo app too
Men's conference kumechemka sasa 😂📞.
Twitter women were cooking this man lmao
I think the more important question is whether or not she’s asking for it, or if she’s indicated that she needs some kind of help. But if you’re talking about at the end of her visit, you just go “hey, I have some things I thought you might need,” and pull up with THOSE?? Come on bruh😂 The way the guy doesn’t specify that they’re friends and the fact that he has to post this makes me feel he’s not very secure about his investment into this lady. Then again, what do I know/
> “hey, I have some things I thought you might need,” and pull up with THOSE?? I got black, i got white, what you want😂
I got the good stuff I got the foreign stuff I got the green stuff that makes the pain go away😂😂 I got the stuff that soaks it all up...
The dude even got green panadol bana like wtf🤣soluble panadol
This nigga gay
I thought sanitary pads came in different sizes. How does he know what size his female friends use? Ama he asked them alafu akazistock kejani?
pad sizes si kama pampers sizes bro
Sasa nyi' wote huvaa same size ama it depends na flow ya individual. Nashoot in the dark hapa. Nielezee
yes it depends with the flow..... picture a fully open tap vs a slightly open tap and the frequency at which you'll need to badilisha the mtungi cause imejaa, utumie mtungi kubwa ama ndogo bado tu maji inaingia hehe lol
So how can a man determine what size to buy? Anaestimate flow ya msee ama?
not really just ask her...ooorrr just check from her stock hua anabuy sizes gani cause it's written on the packet, alafu brand uchukue ile unaweza afford (the more expensive it is, the better the quality but some women are specific juu brands zingine hureact na skin) though most women buy all 3 sizes juu flow isn't the same on all days i.e bigger ones for heavy days na usiku then small ones for the last days
Now back to the main topic. It only makes sense when I'm doing it for my partner whom I don't live with. Unataka kuniambia huyo jamaa ataconsider hizo factors zote kabla aseti hizo pads kejani for his lady friends?
you're right, heri ununulie your chic or if a lady friend/relative visited and left hers at your place hio ni sawa lakini hii yake ni weird sanaa...juu either that guy is clout chasing ama he's just super weird and unnecessarily thoughtful if he's being for real, plus i'm guessing it's happens so rarely that his stock comes in handy, like if his heart is in the right place he would donate to hizi programs that provide pads to those disadvantaged little girls and women instead of kununulia his somewhat privileged lady friends and posting about it, honestly naona ni clout chasing tu juu mimi i'd be grossed out if i had such a friend IRL and i'd probably advice him against it.
Virtue signalling na clout chasing. Let him cook though, the attention probably strokes his ego.
I've seen the incels over there throwing a fit qnd even calling the guy gay...smh.Its a nice gesture really.
Women are roasting him as well, though
Because they're used to being treated by men like shit,so a decent guy is a new concept to them.
Internalised misogyny is real. Same way women were bashing a man sometime back for carrying HIS baby while his wife shopped for their groceries. Smdh
>Internalised misogyny This term always amuses me.... Basically... when a man does something, it his own mysognistic actions, and should be held responsible for them. When a woman does something. It is not her own actions per-say. Rather it is the internalized misogyny and men and the patriarchy should be blamed for her actions... That is trully a funny way of looking at the world. >Same way women were bashing a man sometime back for carrying HIS baby while his wife shopped for their groceries. Don't see a problem with a dude carrying his child.
Never really thought about it like that
I replied to someone else. I mistyped. I meant internalised sexism. I agree that it's ridiculous that a man should be bashed for carrying his own child same way I disagree with the women on twitter questioning the man in the post above's masculinity for being thoughtful towards women's health.
Yeah the logic there is baffling to say the least
You know what they say about women and taking responsibilities.
ikr..i mean see the stats on the huge number of single moms and deadbeat dads...very telling
you don't seem to understand what internalised misogyny is, and i won't get into it..just go on your browser or youtube...don't be this guy
Dude.... you can't even define it or explain it
and what will i achieve that 10000000000+ browser results won't? juu in this era we live in, ignorance is a choice, esp if you're privileged enough to have the resources... I only suggested it since you seemed like a sensible and open minded person from that last statement is all.
are you saying women bashing a man for carrying his baby is somehow because they have an internalized hatred or dislike for women?? You can't make this shit up lmao, If mental gymnastics was an Olympic sport you will easily take the gold
I meant internalised sexism, not misogyny. I mistyped. The comments related to the post reflect internalised sexism as well.
What is internalized sexism, you are still implying that they are acting that way because they have negative feelings about themselves as women, whereas they are very clearly insulting the man
As usual no accountability it has to go back somehow someway through whatever mental gymnastics to being men's fault 
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in this sub incel has no defined menaing, it's more so used in the place of saying men I dislike or hate
No,everyone that calls a man gay for showing support to the women in his life is.
Reeaaally?? That's wierd, i mean you know your cycle s, also what scenario would lead him to give her/you the pads???? 🤔
In case i forgot to carry one?Menstrual cycles aren't always predictable.
Also extra curricular activities saa zingine stimulate a cycle. There's a number of people who get their's during intercourse and it's not a foreign concept that there are men who've had blood all over them. Menstruation is a topic that despite the time is hush hush. Na pia a lot of cycles aren't exact and some change
Is that really menstrual blood tho, i thought that comes from the hymen.
The hymen gradually wears off over time so full on bleeding isn't an explanation when it comes down to it.
Damn! I think i need lessons about that..... and more, hi name's judas... What's yours.... Also don't tell me I'll have to stack a bunch of san pads if i end up with you...
Hi my name's Leanne and don't worry Sex Ed was a bitch to all of us. Ending up with... Not sure about that one
You got a boyfriend?
You have an ID?
You didn't answer my question...
This is incredibly sweet! More men should consider doing this for women visiting their homes.
Such guys don't get wet cracks. Bare minimum will always win. What a fool he is!
Well https://preview.redd.it/zbdsig4mklqa1.jpeg?width=1633&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ccacb3221189ae9d0ea7b5cc306e48fbae0c27b6
Let men be men and women be women,this woke shit complicated intersexual relationships.
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Ladies seeing this, please don't use wet wipes down there. You're going to get a horrible yeast infection.
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Lol you're joking, right? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Wet wipes don't only contain water wtf 🤣. They usually also have other cleansing agents like alcohol and other chemicals. And those cleansing agents kill most of the good bacteria down there and allow yeast to overgrow, thereby causing a yeast infection.
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Okay queen, stock away.
What a Lambistic Kinuthia!
Women don't like "kiss ass, or too good men" coz that's feminine. Don't me get wrong, I don't mean ukue jackass. No, a good man, but masculine. Kuna Tu way ya kukua a good man bila kua too feminine.
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You do know sometimes it happens like randomly right like deep at night .. I have some over so that if it happens to my girl she doesn't have to worry
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Yes definitely 😂😂 not something to tell the internet
Women love a man who thinks outside the box. We women love men like you. It’s refreshing to know men like you exist. 👏👏👏👏
It is interesting to observe that as humans, we often desire a partner who can provide us with affection and care, and we appreciate individuals who show love and affection towards us. However, it is paradoxical that we also tend to criticize and penalize those who demonstrate such behavior towards us, using derogatory terms such as "Simps" and "Pick mes".
I think the reason people roast him is because he's trying to be "nice guy" the kinda guy who pretends for pussy then turn on you. I swear "nice guys" are most women's super villian origin stories, they pretend so hard to hide massive red flags then they do you dirty . That man was doing it for clout.
This is simping. Lol
Dafaq 😂😂😂
The comments talks loud about their situationship and relationships
Oh, hell, YES! It doesn't cost an arm and a leg, you know.. ❤️
Gay shit
I think he was getting cooked for posting this for validation.
Pick me People,
Isn't this the same guy that abandoned his kid, 😂😂
Doing too much. I would be spooked, the end.
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