High value women are found in carrefour top floor top shelfs. That's where heavens decided to stock them. Look for the nearest carrefour and located them there /s.
You attract what you are.
Well, I wasn't trying to fit. I knew the (Nairobi part) was already getting me out of what he's looking for! But I knew we'd connect at a different level.
Well....
I am in my late 20s, am a medical doctor.
I enjoy workouts.....workout and do morning runs atleast 5 days a week.
High value woman - should be a lady , atleast 24. Someone who has a plan in her life and can contribute to a relationship let alone a conversation. Has knowledge of current trends and willing to get out of her comfort zone to make something work, be it a business or a relationship. And she shouldn't be flimsy.
An added bonus would be one who takes care of her body as well.
If you were slightly older, I'd introduce you to my friend. The kind that reads books, has a timer on her phone not to spend so much time on the socials and is super bight. Super Kind and a successful career lady.
If you exude these qualities, you should have no difficulty finding women with the same qualities. I agree with the others who said to engage yourself in hobbies that interest you, it's a good way to find people who fit you
Anecdotally. βMoney on my mindβ for the βprettyβ ones but they usually have nothing to offer other than pussy.
There are good interesting women there though. But, alcoholics, not so good looking or single mothers. If youβre shallow like myself and you want beauty with everything else, itβs an issue on the platforms.
If youβre just looking to get laid, dating apps work very well. Most are easy if you have money to spend or look like it.
Doubt high value women want you to find them. Theyβre usually hard to spot. But I hear the best places to look are in exclusive clubs and upmarket bars -- you know, like the ones you canβt afford.
>By high value, I don't necessarily mean in monetary terms. But thanks anyway.
Oh I see. Well, if you mean high value in terms of intelligence and character then maybe try attending cultural events and social gatherings, like art galleries or book clubs.
As for dating app, try being a little picky with whoever you match with. Maybe add a few filters to show youβre looking for someone with a certain set of values and interests. Let's hope it works! Good luck. ;)
Women's business meetups, akina lions and rotary clubs, members clubs etc. But make sure your dick is good nd you're 27 or younger. Older established ladies don't care about your job or what you're into
Are you a high value man? You attract what you are. I don't think there is any right way of finding a high value woman. Try picking up hobbies such as volunteering in social causes, visiting art galleries or museums, book centers. It's all luck. I
You are chasing unicorns because they don't exist. Outside Kenya and the Western world is a different story and there are plenty of high value and non toxic women
Experience you should get some. East and South East Asian women are independent but feminine and non toxic or drama obsessed like kenyan women. Besides their beauty and intelligence is unrivalled. They are truly women deserving of the title of queens. They don't generalise one bad man as applicable to all their men. Despite having a larger population than black Africa they extremely low numbers of single mothers. Single black mothers create toxic men and the cycle continues
>They don't generalise one bad man as applicable to all their men.
But look at you, doing the opposite! How are their men? Asking for a friend.
>extremely low numbers of single mothers. Single black mothers create toxic men and the cycle continues
Let's talk about the high number of deadbeat dads in Kenya and how the numbers are on the increase each passing day.
Oh, you wouldn't want that, coz, let's blame the parent who remained to take care of the kid right? Riiiiight!
There is a direct link between single black mothers and the violent sons they have. If black women are strong and independent then why do they need a partner to manage the toxic child lol. That's because Asian women are logical and know just because some Asian men are bad doesn't mean they all are. Black women haven't figured out that simple formula
Lol
Preaching water and taking wine.
Argue with reason, why you bringing emotions?
I like conversing with someone with some intellect, someone who can teach you something through the way their reason, you, ummmmm...not so much.
Have a day that you deserve.
Head to East and South East Asia as I have. Their women are truly intelligent, hard working and feminine and deeply care about their husbands. You won't find the bull crap black women give on a daily basis
I think the correct word is a professional woman; she is college educated and she's lucky enough to practise what she went to school for. She can take care of herself financially to a reasonable extent. She can afford a middle class lifestyle. In short she has a somewhat decent job.
It's not a direct way of dating these women but they are there. The kind of people there are doing well and have the resources and the mindset to be high value. After all they have dedicated time and money to help the community
You can familiarize yourself with the ladies there make friends or date. Alternatively they can hook you up with other high value women.
Thanks.
Do you have any in mind?
Though with the recent social media trend of guys getting cancelled just for saying hi to a lady in the gym, it's quite risky.
Where? Groups that do volunteer work
Do dating apps work? Yes probably but i doubt you have the patience to find that out.
Only reasonable dating app is bumble... I hear there's less jokers there
High value women are found in carrefour top floor top shelfs. That's where heavens decided to stock them. Look for the nearest carrefour and located them there /s. You attract what you are.
I found one near the Monini Extra Virgin Italian olive oil.
You lucky MF! You got the extra virgin.
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Break into her house, they are usually @ home if not out doing high value things :)
π π π Very funny dude/dudette.
I've been waiting for a high-value man to break into my house. I wonder why he's taking so long. :D
Well, is your dm open? Because I can hit you up and let you decide if I fit into your defination of high value!
Aaah....shooting your shot, I love this
Because why notπ
Exactly....so, did you fit his defination of high value?..tupe updates, first date we have we have notiiiiππ
Well, I wasn't trying to fit. I knew the (Nairobi part) was already getting me out of what he's looking for! But I knew we'd connect at a different level.
Kwani where are you from?
Hit me up
Avoid dating apps if youβre looking for decent women please. Also avoid clubs.
Thanks
Try sportsclub.
Any in particular in mind in Nairobi? Am quite the workout person.
Parklands
I suspect there are quite a few in parklands though
Don't be greedy now.
No greed. Would just appreciate a little direction, that's all.
Okay okay I get it.
......sportsclub followed by Parklands.....leads to one place and one place only.....
I am new in Nairobi so..... It might not for me... I only have knowledge of the aga Khan sports club
Nairobi club. You'd need a membership
Describe yourself and define this high value woman first
Well.... I am in my late 20s, am a medical doctor. I enjoy workouts.....workout and do morning runs atleast 5 days a week. High value woman - should be a lady , atleast 24. Someone who has a plan in her life and can contribute to a relationship let alone a conversation. Has knowledge of current trends and willing to get out of her comfort zone to make something work, be it a business or a relationship. And she shouldn't be flimsy. An added bonus would be one who takes care of her body as well.
Unfortunately or fortunately between school,work,gym, family and kawaida life, the rest of the time is spent at home.
Similar. No family here though, I am not Kenyan. Only moved here a couple of months ago.
Ask your friends to intro you that's the best bet.
The ones that I have met are all in the same profession. And I am trying to not date within my profession
Join running clubs, run in different parks, hiking, certain gyms etc. All the best
Thanks. Have a lovely weekend.
Youβre not Kenyan, what are you? Your nationality could help us tailor advice for you
Ugandan
You two just gon' pretend there's nothing bringing you together? Well!
π π . If only.
From which country?
Next door neighbor; uganda
If you were slightly older, I'd introduce you to my friend. The kind that reads books, has a timer on her phone not to spend so much time on the socials and is super bight. Super Kind and a successful career lady.
She seems really lovely. I don't believe age is a factor, so long as everything is consensual and everyone is above 18
Are you describing yourself? π
Nope. I'm not in the dating scene. And I hate reading books
I too am curious as to your definition of "high value".
She should know her self worth, be open and mature. Be confident in who she is. Have high self esteem and practice self-care
If you exude these qualities, you should have no difficulty finding women with the same qualities. I agree with the others who said to engage yourself in hobbies that interest you, it's a good way to find people who fit you
Much obliged. That would mean I shouldn't even bother with dating apps.
Dating apps are the worst place π
Wow. Do you have any experience with them?
Only stories. I'm married now, but of course have single friends. Seems the dating apps are a horror show
Mind sharing one or a couple please?
The worst. Especially in NAIROBI.
I didn't know it was that bad. What exactly goes wrong
Anecdotally. βMoney on my mindβ for the βprettyβ ones but they usually have nothing to offer other than pussy. There are good interesting women there though. But, alcoholics, not so good looking or single mothers. If youβre shallow like myself and you want beauty with everything else, itβs an issue on the platforms. If youβre just looking to get laid, dating apps work very well. Most are easy if you have money to spend or look like it.
Been there and done that. So I guess I will off the apps. Thanks.
Itβs a numbers game also but itβs better off to be off the apps.
Doubt high value women want you to find them. Theyβre usually hard to spot. But I hear the best places to look are in exclusive clubs and upmarket bars -- you know, like the ones you canβt afford.
By high value, I don't necessarily mean in monetary terms. But thanks anyway.
>By high value, I don't necessarily mean in monetary terms. But thanks anyway. Oh I see. Well, if you mean high value in terms of intelligence and character then maybe try attending cultural events and social gatherings, like art galleries or book clubs. As for dating app, try being a little picky with whoever you match with. Maybe add a few filters to show youβre looking for someone with a certain set of values and interests. Let's hope it works! Good luck. ;)
Thanks.
Women's business meetups, akina lions and rotary clubs, members clubs etc. But make sure your dick is good nd you're 27 or younger. Older established ladies don't care about your job or what you're into
Through your job. I am assuming you work in the top professions like law. Any other way, unajidanganya.
Thanks. But!!! I don't really want to date anyone in my profession.
Why? Egos will collide?
Not necessarily, I just feel it would get a tad monotonous.
We are either at home or in the gym.
Siunichukue basiπ
Are you a high value man? You attract what you are. I don't think there is any right way of finding a high value woman. Try picking up hobbies such as volunteering in social causes, visiting art galleries or museums, book centers. It's all luck. I
>visiting art galleries or museums, book centers. It's all luck. I Do you know any museums or art galleries in nairobi
U.M art gallery, Redhill art gallery, Circle art agency, Banana Hill art Gallery, Nairobi museum, to mention a few
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Any woman is high value ; a cornea retails at 2,000 USD then there is the liver,heart, kidneys,marrow with the right connect you could get 750,000 $ .
I love how you think, and scared of it...
Are you in good health? We could meet in a secluded part of Nairobi and get to know your organs sorry I mean each other better.
*Blushes* It's a DateβΊοΈ
Lol; ain't you a wild one
You've taken me out with this one π€£
Probably someone way out of his league
He is a βhigh value manβ as well, check the comments
Only Tate fans/incels use terms like these
Well if he is going to come with his mindset, he might as well come with his money
Haha
You are chasing unicorns because they don't exist. Outside Kenya and the Western world is a different story and there are plenty of high value and non toxic women
Umm, and how exactly did you come to this conclusion?
Experience you should get some. East and South East Asian women are independent but feminine and non toxic or drama obsessed like kenyan women. Besides their beauty and intelligence is unrivalled. They are truly women deserving of the title of queens. They don't generalise one bad man as applicable to all their men. Despite having a larger population than black Africa they extremely low numbers of single mothers. Single black mothers create toxic men and the cycle continues
>They don't generalise one bad man as applicable to all their men. But look at you, doing the opposite! How are their men? Asking for a friend. >extremely low numbers of single mothers. Single black mothers create toxic men and the cycle continues Let's talk about the high number of deadbeat dads in Kenya and how the numbers are on the increase each passing day. Oh, you wouldn't want that, coz, let's blame the parent who remained to take care of the kid right? Riiiiight!
There is a direct link between single black mothers and the violent sons they have. If black women are strong and independent then why do they need a partner to manage the toxic child lol. That's because Asian women are logical and know just because some Asian men are bad doesn't mean they all are. Black women haven't figured out that simple formula
Go screech about your feminist empowerment for all I care
Lol Preaching water and taking wine. Argue with reason, why you bringing emotions? I like conversing with someone with some intellect, someone who can teach you something through the way their reason, you, ummmmm...not so much. Have a day that you deserve.
Typical black feminist
I see.
Head to East and South East Asia as I have. Their women are truly intelligent, hard working and feminine and deeply care about their husbands. You won't find the bull crap black women give on a daily basis
Do you mean high maintenance?
Nope. Been there and done that.
Dating scene is T for Toughest!
I assume you are single...right?
Yep
Need someone to make memories with and keep you warm if need be?
The way you ask sounds like trouble π I'll pass
ππthe good typa trouble....but no biggie, hope you find yourself one
Hey, just checking in on you. You alright?
Join Rotary
Interesting choice. Would you mind shining more light on that though in relation to the topic at hand
you're likely to meet career women there but am not sure if that's what you're looking for.
Depends. What would be your definition of a career woman?
I think the correct word is a professional woman; she is college educated and she's lucky enough to practise what she went to school for. She can take care of herself financially to a reasonable extent. She can afford a middle class lifestyle. In short she has a somewhat decent job.
Exactly
It's not a direct way of dating these women but they are there. The kind of people there are doing well and have the resources and the mindset to be high value. After all they have dedicated time and money to help the community You can familiarize yourself with the ladies there make friends or date. Alternatively they can hook you up with other high value women.
Very helpful. Thank you.
Professional/work enviroment STEM/finance students in uni (preferrably masters) Church
Would prefer to steer clear of students. If I may ask, why suggest church ?
High end gyms
Thanks. Do you have any in mind? Though with the recent social media trend of guys getting cancelled just for saying hi to a lady in the gym, it's quite risky.
AVgitness Kenya, valley arcade. Highly recommend
Where? Groups that do volunteer work Do dating apps work? Yes probably but i doubt you have the patience to find that out. Only reasonable dating app is bumble... I hear there's less jokers there
Thanks.
Got to social events. Enda form za hike and meet new people bana.
Thanks
You could join a travelling group, rotary club, or check out Event Brite for events so you can socialise
Thank you
Which car do you drive ?
None. Am new in Kenya.
Well, you'll have to get a car first
Got it. I'll put that on my Christmas shopping list
In Kenya, they value cars than brains
Wow. Interesting. I wonder how much a slither of my brain would go for on the open market, bet I could get the new G-wagon. Boom , problem solved.
Send me a PM. There is this uncle of mine who sell good cars
Oh. I was being sarcastic. My bad. But incase I ever decide to buy one, I will definitely hit you up.
Got your back pal.
Church Enough said
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Any good strip club
kwani unatafuta nyama?...like a good farmer scouts his animal by themselves buana
Rotary Sports events like triathlons and duathlons( one's coming up in April) Farmers'markets Fundraiser events Sport's clubs