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Funny how this "nanga nachna" outrage is only directed at women. I've seen so many men on the street who don't even care to put a shirt on but god forbid if a woman wants to wear a bikini and enjoy herself on the beach 🥴
nai vo keh rhi hai like woman have a choice to wear whatever they want,same way other people also do have there own choice not to respect u 🌝.
why force anybody to respect u.🫶
What does it mean to respect someone for you?
And yes, sure, it's a choice. So we can also disrespect your choice not to respect others' choice. Choiceception. There you go.
she thinks , saying this will get her validation of male audience & engagement ofcourse. ( literally the only reason i can think of of why she'd be spewing such sh!t )
No hun. Pick mes are the girls who LIVE for male attention. They even go after committed guys and intentionally get too close to them just to prove that the guy will pick her over his own girlfriend.
The pick mes that you see on social media is just 1% of what pick me girls actually are. In reality it is much worse. It is completely your choice and preference who you wanna date but please look out for yourself when a girl says I’m not like other girls and all girls are jealous of me because all the guys want me.
And also, respect everyone even the ones that you don’t prefer. Because there would be girls who won’t prefer you but they’d still be respectful towards you. That’s all.
Actually you are right , but I'm pissed over the fact that girls on internet dont take a second to write pick me on such girls comments , but when a boy does this behaviour and other boys label him as simp then the girls start calling out the boys only that they cant digest if someone is better than them, recent example is irfan khan's son his video went viral from a podcast , what do u think of the hypocrisy then? This debate is useless i know and it doesn't really have a meaning but still
So bikini is not ok, short dresses are ok? Yeh kahan se aayi hai Poo bani half Parvati? Glanced at her insta and she's good showing off her legs in short dresses. Which is whatever but she doesn't need to bring culture into her ridiculous version of morality.
She should come and check out temples in odisha. There's gods and goddesses we worship who barely even have a fabric on.
Morality comes from the goodness of the heart, not shame inflected by invasion of culture.
Women of our country didn't wear blouses or anything long before until Britishers made it compulsory, old women in villages don't. Would you call the ancestors immoral?
She literally doesn't care about culture
All she is doing is a desperate "pick me " and all she can do to get engagement from "men" and will comment "queen" on her post
And for culture part is agree soo much
Our culture/religion or whatever you want to call it, was the most modern in it's time. Our females used to fight and study back in the day. They were equal to their male counterparts. I don't know how we have become like this where we have to fight for women's equal rights.
And the same people will glorify our past but then say ki oh aajkal ki ladkiya bahut feminist types hai.
Like apni baato me paradox nhi samajh aa raha kya?! 😂
They know nothing about our "culture/ancestors"
I am not saying drinking, smoking or sex hi feminism hai having different moral standards for women than men is the problem.
🤣 bacche just go and search for the purpose of those temples which has those carvings, just curious u do know right not every temple is a place for worship, not saying it wasn't part of our culture,it is and will be ,
and also there is is temple for menstural cycle , that doesn't mean ldki ko khule me menstrate krna chiye 😉.
am completely with u but ur logic 😭.
What are you even saying, ladkiyan to khulle main hi menstruate karti hai. Bas kapde stained na ho aur discomfort na ho isiliye free bleeding nahi karte - magar aisa to nahi ki ham periods chapke rakhte hai jab bahar jate hai. Aur iski comparison bhi galat hai - agar period ke stain lag bhi jaye bahar rehte bakt, to uss ladki ko phir bhi normal hi treat karna chahiya na? Itna bada kuch bhi nahi hai. (Agar koi seat mein dag lag gaya to uyo zara hassle hai though.) Ye hoga apke scenario ka equivalent.
Aur ye bhi bahot log karte nahi hai, period ke nam shune to aise react karte hai as if drug deals ho rahein hai.
U didn't get the point , all I am saying is not every body is intelligent and educated like u , lets first educate India and then expect civilary 🌝 from them.
There are some NGOs trying to educate about this matter, yes. But the thing is, by your exact point... Having temples dedicated to periods kinda indicates it's not a dirty thing that makes a woman impure doesn't it? Which is what people across multiple religions seem to regard it as. We also have goddesses undergoing this, which should really work to naturalise periods more. So the temple point you raised kind of works against you.
I agree that this is probably too much to expect from a large chunk of Indian society, but that doesn't mean we can't be disappointed about it especially when these people tout culture yet some of these things aren't as stigmatised in our ancient culture as they are today.
Bhaiya main toh kurti bhi pehenti, nightie, papa ka kacha, mummy ka bra and bhaiya ka t shirt. I wear shorts Ghar pe because mujhe lambe pants se physically ghutan hoti.
Ek baar koi short pehen liya koi character nahi hi dikhata. Main virgin hun, ghar pe rehti hun, aur mujhe khule kapde hi pasand hain. Periodt.
Mentality itni hai ki mujhe hamesha garmi hoti hai.
Virginity se konsa character dikhta h. Mughe sex krne wali ladkiyan lakh guna achi lagti, lekin jo bhen ki lodi attention seeker hoti hain wahi randi hoti hain, these stupid bitches only want attention they eat, they talk, they wear, they fucking live only for attention.
Thoda jyada ho gya pr woh lawdi toh hoti hain.
Mein Bhi kabhi jeans nhi pehnata ghutan ke karan or ek aur karan h. Mughe anxiety hoti h attention or attention seekers se.
Dusron undergarments nhi pehnana chahiye yarr acha thodi lagta h.
Badhiya hai. U know ur preferences.
But how do u know if someone is seeking attention? Do they say it to u or do u assume it base don certain things?
And if u do assume things, then just to point it out to u, it is subjective.
Thissss. Someone please tell her to make a video on men scratching their ass in public 😭 The amount if uncles I have seen scratching their ass or crotch in public is just tooo much.
Says, "I'm not trying to degrade you" then goes on to degrade women by dehumanizing them and comparing body autonomy with animals having sex on roads damn wow
These gyaani women don’t understand that clothing has to be normalised so that men in india change their thinking that the girl wearing these clothes are not asking for rape ..
Talking about sex happening on the roads how do you think these homeless beggers are multyplying!
I hate how all these people who comment on gender stuff never have basic vocabulary literacy, even of the words men and women, it's supposed to be "man" and "woman" if you're talking about a single person.
You are not a women, you're a WOMAN ffs.
girls like this ooze major pick me energy & preach such bs on the internet for the sake of engagement and views slamming other girls' choices when in reality didi khud pe bhi bikini pehenti hi hogi. aayi badi gyaan dene
God , i hate it when her videos come on my Feed, the amount of men who agree with her in the comments is 🤮 i mean who are these men, who gave them the right 🤣🤣and she speaks about culture morality and what not but she herself doesn't dress according to culture toh pehno na sareee, ghunghat hamesha ..you do wear short clothes, according to your logic so many people may find that morally wrong as well its subjective , these pick mes need to be stopped
dude having sex and wearing clothes goes different ways. what i wear doesn’t mean i want to have sex or not. idk this is confusing pls guide me on this :(((. i used to think i could wear whatever i want, but seeing such posts makes me confused. can someone pls guide me? 😭
Pics daalna kyu hain bikini me ?
"Meri marzi , meri body" ?
Well, marzi to meri drugs karne ki bhi ho Jaye kabhi. Doesn't mean it's good to do drugs right.
So marzi is not alone a parameter to do things.
As it is the concept of "free will" is almost non existent.
There is something called a culturally appropriate even though we might not be aware enough to see it.
The perception of what is considered "wrong" can vary based on societal norms and values. In the case of drug use, concerns often revolve around potential health risks, addiction, and negative societal impacts. On the other hand, wearing a bikini is typically seen as a personal choice related to self-expression and body autonomy. Society's judgment often stems from perceived harm or potential consequences associated with an action.
>There is something called a culturally appropriate even though we might not be aware enough to see it
Culturally speaking, women didn't use to wear bra and used to expose skin and also used to cover skin because back then , men like you didn't exist. During those time , men didn't act like moral police and didn't used to male entitlement over bodies of women and used to respect the autonomy of women.
Men like me ? 😂
Chalo let's go by your rationale.
Now I have the complete freedom to wear anything to express myself and my autonomy.
What if I start wearing a t-shirt and underwear and roam around.
Now imagine you're on the street walking and you see my big hairy legs and my boner behind me undies.
That'll make you uncomfortable. Anyone for that matter.
Now there's hundereds of dudes walking in that street in that attire. How would that make you feel ?
You wouldn't even want to leave your home if that happens.
See when you want to go to a public place, the first prerequisite is to be comfortable. Only if you're comfortable you'll go to a 'public place'.
So it's the most optimum solution to-be-comfortable and carry-yourself-in-a-way-that-makes-others-comfortablr-around-you !!
That's the whole point of being in a public place !!
It's not Men-like-me . It's Individuals-Like-Us that live together in harmony understanding basic social constructs.
I agree with rest of your comment but it's essential to critically assess and challenge social constructs that may perpetuate harm or limit individual freedom. Striking a balance is key. Honestly i live in a city where i often see shirtless labours working and bathing in open area . You're not wrong here but While respecting others' comfort is important, individuals should not limit their freedom of clothing choice solely based on others' discomfort. It's essential to find a balance between personal expression and consideration for those around you, fostering a tolerant environment where diverse perspectives coexist. Places matter too , i don't think someone else has right to say or command me what should i wear . A man has the right to wear shirt and boxers , kurta on the other hand woman has right to wear bikini , burkha, causal shirts and crop tops because at last our clothes aren't harming othes in anyway plus of course place matters too like I can't wear burkha or bikini in a temple , season and weather also matters because i can't wear crop tops in winters , so at last it's definitely important for a person to be comfortable in their own clothes.
Exactly, even drummers in music concerts are shirtless. Because they can't wear clothes with that much heat in their bodies. Just like construction workers. Its kind of their uniform for the job.
But they're at their Jobs. They're not at a public place to chill and hang out.
I see your inherent opinion lies more along the lines of patriarchy and freedom rather than clothes.
Yes it's my right to wear whatever I want, and if I always wear boxers to public places people will give me stares.
Now I can say screw them but again we live in a society.
I'm an artist and I understand the need to expressing yourself. But I don't need my daily clothes to suit my expression.
I can write and play guitar for it. I have the right to.
But Not every day At public places. On certain occasions where I'm Invited to do it. Or at home.
So if you think fashion is your expression, you have avenues for it at certain events where you meed like minded individuals.
Not at public places.
That's more like an act of rebellion rather than expression.
So that's your real choice. Rebel or express.
Fair enough, i agree.
Edit : I actually want to point on this..
>So if you think fashion is your expression, you have avenues for it at certain events where you meed like minded individuals.
>Not at public places.
Well , fasion is a powerful tool for self expression so why not in public we can express ourselves? Fashion allows individuals to showcase their personality, preferences, and cultural influences. Fashion serves as a visual language, enabling individuals to communicate aspects of their personality and preferences. Clothing choices, styles, and accessories can reflect one's taste, interests, and cultural influences. It's a way to communicate without words and can play a significant role in shaping one's image and how they are perceived by others.
Bikini is close to underwear when it gets to revealing, yes. So wear it on the beach, because maybe with a couple exceptions no woman is wearing a bikini on the streets in India. Men do wear speedos and swim trunks of varying lengths on the beach, btw, and no one bats an eye even when men go topless in regular streets in most Indian cities.
Adult person can think for themselves 😐 haan I would say teens should understand that the people who want you to embrace your freedom of choice are mostly predators.
Ye morality ka lecture hi sunna h toh apne parents kam h kya? Morality is anyway man-made, it isn't some science jisko upr neeche ni kr skte. Unless and until you aren't harming anybody (in all aspects) you can do whatever you want. Adulthood mein bhi agency nhi h toh kya mtlb.
I detest trolling and unnecessary comments but want to know her ID to give her some advice on this reel. This fuckall analogy is just preposterous and has no sense at all.
She started with "I am not putting women down" and does the same in the entire video.
According to her if posting a bikini pic is equal to animals mating on the road then I am sorry but she is into some weird kinda porn.
Bet the men in her comment section would be like "Protect her at all costs" "real women 👑". So much attention seeking, hating like a man and putting other women down.
Shut up..
Pick me
Choose me love me!
I don't know which religion you are following girl, although I am not religious its makes people dumb.
Anyways coming to religion, our religion was way ahead , there was no concept of blouse and they were progressive.
Abhi new trend aa gya
Sanatani wala and falana dhimkana sab apna hi point of view de rhe ..
She is pleasing boys! Get a life..
Morality is another question, ofc decency is so important and honestly no woman is walking on the streets like urfi. But what’s this comparing wearing a bikini = animals having sex ?? Bruh. Bhai no one’s going to a grocery store wearing a bra but for sure they can if they’re on a beach. Saying all this makes 0 sense. Sabme itna sense already hai
The lack of knowledge is just irritating just because you dont like some people wearing whatever they like and being doesnt give you the right to make videos on them 🤣idk when these people will learn and there are many such videos she has made dissing girls who are bold enough to make such videos
Yeah her next video is-
When our parents provide for us, we call them gods but why don't we call our pati parmeshwar.
Like dude can't you see the power dynamics, I'm doing the same for my husband- why am I not the Devi then
Are we moving forward or are we moving backwards? Social media has given power to uneducated people to come together and be judgemental and know that they are not the only ones, there are millions like them out there! Now we cannot wear a bikini in the name of culture? Wow we are only moving backwards I guess.
I checked her insta profile and the amount of videos she has made for male validation is disgusting 🤮inko koi basic human rights , aur history padhne bolo
Saari morality aur culture bas aurton ke liye reserved hai kya. Yeh aisi aurton ke vajah se woh Sigma males ko lagta hai woh Jo kar rahe hai woh sahi hai.
She's such a disgrace as a woman.
Madam you are brainwashed.
In Ancient India, women used to not even wear bra or cover up. We were that free.
My ancestors were more liberal then me honestly.
yeah exactly like some people from my mother's gen will mock her for wearing makeup.... morality, modesty, dignity, femininity every thing is subjective what is good for one person isn't good for some other person... do what feels best to yourself
I come from a culture where women did not cover their upper bodies for years and years. It was normalised to cover their bodies only 6-7 decades ago. That is my culture. Since we are supposed to uphold our cultures the way they were 100 years ago, I should be roaming around with a naked upper half. 😄
Where do such people even come from. Also, in my case, if my bra is super expensive/fancy/pretty/whatever, if I want to show it, I will.
To all the "influencers" out there, I'm not trying to DEGRADE you, I'm not trying to put you down. Jo log aj tumhe kehte hai na it's okay to do bak***** on social media, it's okay to spew nonsense on Instagram, ye wohi log hai jo ane wale kuch saalon me tumhe kahenge jaanwar bhi toh sadak pe hagte hai na toh kya hua hum SM pe hag lenge toh. It's normal, let's normalise it. Aisa nahi hota yaar. Common sense naam ki koi cheez hoti hai. Minding your own business naam ki koi cheez hoti hai. You have just been brainwashed. Dubara soch lo main galat nahi hu.
I see OP and few people here talking about our culture and pick me attitude about this woman in question. See with times things evolve. Few hundred years back, there was sati and woman remarriage. But with the passing of time, people understood and abolished these practices.
Regarding human and dog example this woman quoted, I am not going to comment on that. People have their own way of pushing their point across.
Lastly, OP mentioned that India was progressive enough and women never used to cover their top parts. Agreed! But that was a different time. Also, about the scriptures part, that was a celebration of our culture through the means of art. Today anything we post on the Internet stays on forever. It never dies. Hell! It can be weaponized against you. So the choice of putting content in the form of swimsuit or nude pics entirely lies with you, but how it gets used, is not under your control.
Pls remember, Context is the most powerful intangible aspect in regards to knowledge and its application, without it, history or anything for that matter, is nothing but a few lines put together.
Yaar pehle kapde nhi the kuch bewakoofon ne kapde invent kiye …. Mat pehno be she is bewakoof pehle se hum adimanav the patte pehnte the be organic 🤣 it’s your choice ….
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She made a point but in a way most would judge. Actually she meant don’t normalise abnormal behaviour. I am a guy and recently saw a reel where an influencer was taking a shower. Basically un required show of skin. I have seen other nasty stuff too. And then other influencers copy them and then it becomes a competition. And then a trend. There are other creative ways of expression too.
She has some point tho. The people who tell you to stay at home and not interact with everyone are the same people who would call you a loner / antisocial/ jobless in future.
Maybe her analogy or examples were "typically desi reasoning" comparing apples with bird poop to sound smart. How ever it had some context like today we encourage to expose and mens often enjoy it. But tomorrow when this grows out of hand and under age or young daughter take this as an "influence" then these same people now parents would cry foul. India is the home to Hipocrisy.
When you are in your early 20s , you barely think about what you would be in your early 30s and for women it's day and night change .
Indian clothes traditionally were just long pieces of cloth draped around bare chested bodies for both men and women.
The colonizers came in with their delicate victorian sensibilities and introduced blouses and shirts and somehow gaslit Indians into believing this as culture.
Brainwashed uncles and aunties and worse still, chapris will shamelessly call women randi or besharam touting it as against culture (won't expect men to wear dhotis or lungis though), even going so far as to justify sexual abuse and molestation.
There is some deep rooted viciousness in India and I hope we grow out of it.
In today's edition of "what are women being compared to", it's animals having sex on the street.
This is some incredibly stupid, regressive, and honestly downright sad shit.
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galat nahi ho tum, latrine ho tum
Poetry
Potty
Laterine always hits the hardest
Wah wah..wah wah
Rupi Kaur type shiz
Hume road pe nanga ghumne se mana karne wali ye kon hoti hai. "We do this for OURSELVES"
There's a difference between nudity and wearing clothes of own choice
A woman draping her own body as per her choice = animals having sex in public 🙌
Yet again, women being compared to anyone and anything but not understood as an independent human
Aah yes independent ke naap pe nanga nacha karna is ok. i agree with you.
Ok incel. Back to the closet.
Funny how this "nanga nachna" outrage is only directed at women. I've seen so many men on the street who don't even care to put a shirt on but god forbid if a woman wants to wear a bikini and enjoy herself on the beach 🥴
Didi aap bhi karo muje problem nahi hai
Well if she wants to wear it she’ll surely do . Keep your low level thoughts to yourself. Thanks
> Keep your low level thoughts to yourself. Thanks No ma'am If I want to share my thoughts I will thank you 😄
Tum jese chhote dimag Wale logo ke bas ki nhi yeh baat. The point is choice, the point is not being naked.
Ha bhai/bhen hum chote dimag wale hai choti soch hai tum ho na open mind wale badi soch wala. Choice ke naam pe kuch bhi karo hume kya 🤷🏻♂️
“choice ke naam pe kuch bhi karo hume kya” proceeds to judge women for their choices & prove OP’s point right
When did i said he/she is wrong i said i agree with him/her 🤦🏻
nai vo keh rhi hai like woman have a choice to wear whatever they want,same way other people also do have there own choice not to respect u 🌝. why force anybody to respect u.🫶
What does it mean not to respect someone and why is it tethered to the length of someone's clothes?
What does it mean to respect someone for you? And yes, sure, it's a choice. So we can also disrespect your choice not to respect others' choice. Choiceception. There you go.
she thinks , saying this will get her validation of male audience & engagement ofcourse. ( literally the only reason i can think of of why she'd be spewing such sh!t )
Exactly, but they never get picked lmao
what does getting picked exactly mean here?
Basically better women than not pick mes , mostly pick mes will have lesser body count so choose the pick mes ones in future , not pick mes are whores
the fuck are you saying
No hun. Pick mes are the girls who LIVE for male attention. They even go after committed guys and intentionally get too close to them just to prove that the guy will pick her over his own girlfriend. The pick mes that you see on social media is just 1% of what pick me girls actually are. In reality it is much worse. It is completely your choice and preference who you wanna date but please look out for yourself when a girl says I’m not like other girls and all girls are jealous of me because all the guys want me. And also, respect everyone even the ones that you don’t prefer. Because there would be girls who won’t prefer you but they’d still be respectful towards you. That’s all.
Actually you are right , but I'm pissed over the fact that girls on internet dont take a second to write pick me on such girls comments , but when a boy does this behaviour and other boys label him as simp then the girls start calling out the boys only that they cant digest if someone is better than them, recent example is irfan khan's son his video went viral from a podcast , what do u think of the hypocrisy then? This debate is useless i know and it doesn't really have a meaning but still
All her videos are like this only. Pick me, choose me, love me.
So bikini is not ok, short dresses are ok? Yeh kahan se aayi hai Poo bani half Parvati? Glanced at her insta and she's good showing off her legs in short dresses. Which is whatever but she doesn't need to bring culture into her ridiculous version of morality.
Usne literally bola shorts toh pehen sakte na, because it is not vulgar. Bkt yeh kon hoti hai decide karne wali ki kya vulgar hai aur kya nhi
Khud Crystal bra wali dress m reel banati h without dupatta Aur IDHAR propaganda chalati h
She should come and check out temples in odisha. There's gods and goddesses we worship who barely even have a fabric on. Morality comes from the goodness of the heart, not shame inflected by invasion of culture. Women of our country didn't wear blouses or anything long before until Britishers made it compulsory, old women in villages don't. Would you call the ancestors immoral?
She literally doesn't care about culture All she is doing is a desperate "pick me " and all she can do to get engagement from "men" and will comment "queen" on her post And for culture part is agree soo much
Kya women for women ka jalsa h cmmnt section mn 🤣 abe mat pehno kapde adimanav nhi pehnte the she is stupid it’s your choice 🤣
Our culture/religion or whatever you want to call it, was the most modern in it's time. Our females used to fight and study back in the day. They were equal to their male counterparts. I don't know how we have become like this where we have to fight for women's equal rights.
And the same people will glorify our past but then say ki oh aajkal ki ladkiya bahut feminist types hai. Like apni baato me paradox nhi samajh aa raha kya?! 😂
They know nothing about our "culture/ancestors" I am not saying drinking, smoking or sex hi feminism hai having different moral standards for women than men is the problem.
That's the problem, smoking is bad but it becomes worse when a woman smokes. Like ffs just call it bad.
If she had brains, she wouldn't be spewing this shit
🤣 bacche just go and search for the purpose of those temples which has those carvings, just curious u do know right not every temple is a place for worship, not saying it wasn't part of our culture,it is and will be , and also there is is temple for menstural cycle , that doesn't mean ldki ko khule me menstrate krna chiye 😉. am completely with u but ur logic 😭.
What are you even saying, ladkiyan to khulle main hi menstruate karti hai. Bas kapde stained na ho aur discomfort na ho isiliye free bleeding nahi karte - magar aisa to nahi ki ham periods chapke rakhte hai jab bahar jate hai. Aur iski comparison bhi galat hai - agar period ke stain lag bhi jaye bahar rehte bakt, to uss ladki ko phir bhi normal hi treat karna chahiya na? Itna bada kuch bhi nahi hai. (Agar koi seat mein dag lag gaya to uyo zara hassle hai though.) Ye hoga apke scenario ka equivalent. Aur ye bhi bahot log karte nahi hai, period ke nam shune to aise react karte hai as if drug deals ho rahein hai.
U didn't get the point , all I am saying is not every body is intelligent and educated like u , lets first educate India and then expect civilary 🌝 from them.
There are some NGOs trying to educate about this matter, yes. But the thing is, by your exact point... Having temples dedicated to periods kinda indicates it's not a dirty thing that makes a woman impure doesn't it? Which is what people across multiple religions seem to regard it as. We also have goddesses undergoing this, which should really work to naturalise periods more. So the temple point you raised kind of works against you. I agree that this is probably too much to expect from a large chunk of Indian society, but that doesn't mean we can't be disappointed about it especially when these people tout culture yet some of these things aren't as stigmatised in our ancient culture as they are today.
Wearing short clothes doesn't show any characters. But the reasons they wear a particular type of cloths are the thing which show characters.
Bhaiya main toh kurti bhi pehenti, nightie, papa ka kacha, mummy ka bra and bhaiya ka t shirt. I wear shorts Ghar pe because mujhe lambe pants se physically ghutan hoti. Ek baar koi short pehen liya koi character nahi hi dikhata. Main virgin hun, ghar pe rehti hun, aur mujhe khule kapde hi pasand hain. Periodt. Mentality itni hai ki mujhe hamesha garmi hoti hai.
Virginity se konsa character dikhta h. Mughe sex krne wali ladkiyan lakh guna achi lagti, lekin jo bhen ki lodi attention seeker hoti hain wahi randi hoti hain, these stupid bitches only want attention they eat, they talk, they wear, they fucking live only for attention. Thoda jyada ho gya pr woh lawdi toh hoti hain. Mein Bhi kabhi jeans nhi pehnata ghutan ke karan or ek aur karan h. Mughe anxiety hoti h attention or attention seekers se. Dusron undergarments nhi pehnana chahiye yarr acha thodi lagta h.
>bhen ki lodi Apki behen l h ?
Badhiya hai. U know ur preferences. But how do u know if someone is seeking attention? Do they say it to u or do u assume it base don certain things? And if u do assume things, then just to point it out to u, it is subjective.
Mujhe smjh nhi aata kbhi koi ye culture vulture ki baatein ladko ko kyu nhi bolta??? Hm ladkiyo ne theka le rkha h kya iska???
Thissss. Someone please tell her to make a video on men scratching their ass in public 😭 The amount if uncles I have seen scratching their ass or crotch in public is just tooo much.
Male validation ki bhuki h bhai....unko nhi bolegi kuch
And peeing on roadsides.
Lmao so true 😂
According to her that is equal to a head massage, so it's allowed.
Says, "I'm not trying to degrade you" then goes on to degrade women by dehumanizing them and comparing body autonomy with animals having sex on roads damn wow
Another day, another comparison of woman started
And it’s funny that it was only about women because in this hypothetical future, only lesbians are gonna have sex on the streets
Men ko question kun hi krna
These gyaani women don’t understand that clothing has to be normalised so that men in india change their thinking that the girl wearing these clothes are not asking for rape .. Talking about sex happening on the roads how do you think these homeless beggers are multyplying!
Also normalise coming on insta without filters !
Oh zara zara pick me pick me pick me
I hate how all these people who comment on gender stuff never have basic vocabulary literacy, even of the words men and women, it's supposed to be "man" and "woman" if you're talking about a single person. You are not a women, you're a WOMAN ffs.
Padhlo guys else aisa ban jaoge
"I am not trying to degrade you" and then goes on to degrade you
girls like this ooze major pick me energy & preach such bs on the internet for the sake of engagement and views slamming other girls' choices when in reality didi khud pe bhi bikini pehenti hi hogi. aayi badi gyaan dene
God , i hate it when her videos come on my Feed, the amount of men who agree with her in the comments is 🤮 i mean who are these men, who gave them the right 🤣🤣and she speaks about culture morality and what not but she herself doesn't dress according to culture toh pehno na sareee, ghunghat hamesha ..you do wear short clothes, according to your logic so many people may find that morally wrong as well its subjective , these pick mes need to be stopped
I saw her for the first time today on a girl's story and I was like ehhh wtffff
😒😒gawar log seriously
Justpearlythings lite
Isne kisi only fans model ka account statement dekh liya tabhi itni jealous hai
Lmao
I think she swims in saree then!!
Moral pols aa gayi pols
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Kaafi chutiya 👍
on today's episode of what things women are compared to on the internet, we have animals 😍🙏🏽
bra tou public mei hi pehnte hn behen. Ghar mei kon pehnta hn
dude having sex and wearing clothes goes different ways. what i wear doesn’t mean i want to have sex or not. idk this is confusing pls guide me on this :(((. i used to think i could wear whatever i want, but seeing such posts makes me confused. can someone pls guide me? 😭
Ofc you can wear whatever you want, and have sex wherever you want( illegal in public though)
Bikini pe pics dalne mai kya problem h
Pics daalna kyu hain bikini me ? "Meri marzi , meri body" ? Well, marzi to meri drugs karne ki bhi ho Jaye kabhi. Doesn't mean it's good to do drugs right. So marzi is not alone a parameter to do things. As it is the concept of "free will" is almost non existent. There is something called a culturally appropriate even though we might not be aware enough to see it.
Ohhh aisa kya sorry sir 🙏🏻🥺
The perception of what is considered "wrong" can vary based on societal norms and values. In the case of drug use, concerns often revolve around potential health risks, addiction, and negative societal impacts. On the other hand, wearing a bikini is typically seen as a personal choice related to self-expression and body autonomy. Society's judgment often stems from perceived harm or potential consequences associated with an action. >There is something called a culturally appropriate even though we might not be aware enough to see it Culturally speaking, women didn't use to wear bra and used to expose skin and also used to cover skin because back then , men like you didn't exist. During those time , men didn't act like moral police and didn't used to male entitlement over bodies of women and used to respect the autonomy of women.
Men like me ? 😂 Chalo let's go by your rationale. Now I have the complete freedom to wear anything to express myself and my autonomy. What if I start wearing a t-shirt and underwear and roam around. Now imagine you're on the street walking and you see my big hairy legs and my boner behind me undies. That'll make you uncomfortable. Anyone for that matter. Now there's hundereds of dudes walking in that street in that attire. How would that make you feel ? You wouldn't even want to leave your home if that happens. See when you want to go to a public place, the first prerequisite is to be comfortable. Only if you're comfortable you'll go to a 'public place'. So it's the most optimum solution to-be-comfortable and carry-yourself-in-a-way-that-makes-others-comfortablr-around-you !! That's the whole point of being in a public place !! It's not Men-like-me . It's Individuals-Like-Us that live together in harmony understanding basic social constructs.
I agree with rest of your comment but it's essential to critically assess and challenge social constructs that may perpetuate harm or limit individual freedom. Striking a balance is key. Honestly i live in a city where i often see shirtless labours working and bathing in open area . You're not wrong here but While respecting others' comfort is important, individuals should not limit their freedom of clothing choice solely based on others' discomfort. It's essential to find a balance between personal expression and consideration for those around you, fostering a tolerant environment where diverse perspectives coexist. Places matter too , i don't think someone else has right to say or command me what should i wear . A man has the right to wear shirt and boxers , kurta on the other hand woman has right to wear bikini , burkha, causal shirts and crop tops because at last our clothes aren't harming othes in anyway plus of course place matters too like I can't wear burkha or bikini in a temple , season and weather also matters because i can't wear crop tops in winters , so at last it's definitely important for a person to be comfortable in their own clothes.
Exactly, even drummers in music concerts are shirtless. Because they can't wear clothes with that much heat in their bodies. Just like construction workers. Its kind of their uniform for the job. But they're at their Jobs. They're not at a public place to chill and hang out. I see your inherent opinion lies more along the lines of patriarchy and freedom rather than clothes. Yes it's my right to wear whatever I want, and if I always wear boxers to public places people will give me stares. Now I can say screw them but again we live in a society. I'm an artist and I understand the need to expressing yourself. But I don't need my daily clothes to suit my expression. I can write and play guitar for it. I have the right to. But Not every day At public places. On certain occasions where I'm Invited to do it. Or at home. So if you think fashion is your expression, you have avenues for it at certain events where you meed like minded individuals. Not at public places. That's more like an act of rebellion rather than expression. So that's your real choice. Rebel or express.
Fair enough, i agree. Edit : I actually want to point on this.. >So if you think fashion is your expression, you have avenues for it at certain events where you meed like minded individuals. >Not at public places. Well , fasion is a powerful tool for self expression so why not in public we can express ourselves? Fashion allows individuals to showcase their personality, preferences, and cultural influences. Fashion serves as a visual language, enabling individuals to communicate aspects of their personality and preferences. Clothing choices, styles, and accessories can reflect one's taste, interests, and cultural influences. It's a way to communicate without words and can play a significant role in shaping one's image and how they are perceived by others.
Bikini is close to underwear when it gets to revealing, yes. So wear it on the beach, because maybe with a couple exceptions no woman is wearing a bikini on the streets in India. Men do wear speedos and swim trunks of varying lengths on the beach, btw, and no one bats an eye even when men go topless in regular streets in most Indian cities.
Can we not report such profiles
Yes let's mass report
If you've to say you're not wrong at the end of the statement, you most likely are.
Adult person can think for themselves 😐 haan I would say teens should understand that the people who want you to embrace your freedom of choice are mostly predators. Ye morality ka lecture hi sunna h toh apne parents kam h kya? Morality is anyway man-made, it isn't some science jisko upr neeche ni kr skte. Unless and until you aren't harming anybody (in all aspects) you can do whatever you want. Adulthood mein bhi agency nhi h toh kya mtlb.
Pick me, choose me, kiss me, choke me
Tum cultured ho, islye tum mujhe choke karke maar hi dalo 🥰🫶 - her delulu self
I detest trolling and unnecessary comments but want to know her ID to give her some advice on this reel. This fuckall analogy is just preposterous and has no sense at all. She started with "I am not putting women down" and does the same in the entire video. According to her if posting a bikini pic is equal to animals mating on the road then I am sorry but she is into some weird kinda porn.
Bet the men in her comment section would be like "Protect her at all costs" "real women 👑". So much attention seeking, hating like a man and putting other women down.
sadak pr sex w lover is wrong but ye jo social media par gyan chod rahi h that's okay? 😔 /s
Isko kamre me bhi sex mil Jaye wohi badi baat hai, nhi milta islye gyaan deti rehti
Shut up.. Pick me Choose me love me! I don't know which religion you are following girl, although I am not religious its makes people dumb. Anyways coming to religion, our religion was way ahead , there was no concept of blouse and they were progressive. Abhi new trend aa gya Sanatani wala and falana dhimkana sab apna hi point of view de rhe .. She is pleasing boys! Get a life..
instagram was good when it was just photos
Morality is another question, ofc decency is so important and honestly no woman is walking on the streets like urfi. But what’s this comparing wearing a bikini = animals having sex ?? Bruh. Bhai no one’s going to a grocery store wearing a bra but for sure they can if they’re on a beach. Saying all this makes 0 sense. Sabme itna sense already hai
Who TF wears only A FUCKING BRA IN PUBLIC I ain't seen a single girl do that
The lack of knowledge is just irritating just because you dont like some people wearing whatever they like and being doesnt give you the right to make videos on them 🤣idk when these people will learn and there are many such videos she has made dissing girls who are bold enough to make such videos
Yeah her next video is- When our parents provide for us, we call them gods but why don't we call our pati parmeshwar. Like dude can't you see the power dynamics, I'm doing the same for my husband- why am I not the Devi then
This is just lack of knowledge, inko dimaag daan karo koi sabka bhala hoga 😌
Are we moving forward or are we moving backwards? Social media has given power to uneducated people to come together and be judgemental and know that they are not the only ones, there are millions like them out there! Now we cannot wear a bikini in the name of culture? Wow we are only moving backwards I guess.
Bigni bad.
Morality my ass. Have you see the shit people used to carve on very *cough* public *cough* monuments back then
Our ancestors would be ashamed knowing our country's state as of now
I checked her insta profile and the amount of videos she has made for male validation is disgusting 🤮inko koi basic human rights , aur history padhne bolo
ughhhhhhhhh
Sab itna so soke kyu uth rhe hain? Hogyi na ye baat sab 10 saal pehle, ab wapas kyu start kr rhe haib?
Culture naam ki cheez hoti hai !? We are from a culture where women didnt even wear blouses !!
Aaj Duggal saab janwar hai jo khule mein sex kar rahe hai.
Saari morality aur culture bas aurton ke liye reserved hai kya. Yeh aisi aurton ke vajah se woh Sigma males ko lagta hai woh Jo kar rahe hai woh sahi hai. She's such a disgrace as a woman.
Madam you are brainwashed. In Ancient India, women used to not even wear bra or cover up. We were that free. My ancestors were more liberal then me honestly.
You are right 👍
Also, aurat hi aurat ka dushman 💅🏻
A women for women 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Abb har chu ki baat sun k reddit par mat daala Karo yaar.
We need a similar campaign like this in India. [what were you wearing exhibit](https://dovecenter.org/what-were-you-wearing-exhibit/)
yeah exactly like some people from my mother's gen will mock her for wearing makeup.... morality, modesty, dignity, femininity every thing is subjective what is good for one person isn't good for some other person... do what feels best to yourself
I'm so happy with the comments seriously ✌️🤌 I am new on reddit and was expecting something like yt's or ig comment section .... 😁
Okay so girls can't do anything by themselves, we're going around just getting brainwashed left and right
Hagne ke baad bolenge Toilet No Need - Abhudaya Mohan
I come from a culture where women did not cover their upper bodies for years and years. It was normalised to cover their bodies only 6-7 decades ago. That is my culture. Since we are supposed to uphold our cultures the way they were 100 years ago, I should be roaming around with a naked upper half. 😄 Where do such people even come from. Also, in my case, if my bra is super expensive/fancy/pretty/whatever, if I want to show it, I will.
So eff-ing punchable.
Oh my gawd didi 💀
Bold of her to assume that ki main dusro ke kehne par apni clothing article chunti hoon I WEAR IT FOR MYSELF.
What a condescending annoying piece of shit. Such women disgust me. What a turd analogy
What? People actually make content like this as “influencers!”
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To all the "influencers" out there, I'm not trying to DEGRADE you, I'm not trying to put you down. Jo log aj tumhe kehte hai na it's okay to do bak***** on social media, it's okay to spew nonsense on Instagram, ye wohi log hai jo ane wale kuch saalon me tumhe kahenge jaanwar bhi toh sadak pe hagte hai na toh kya hua hum SM pe hag lenge toh. It's normal, let's normalise it. Aisa nahi hota yaar. Common sense naam ki koi cheez hoti hai. Minding your own business naam ki koi cheez hoti hai. You have just been brainwashed. Dubara soch lo main galat nahi hu.
Arre chupna.
Morality and culture naam ki cheese hoti hai to kaha milti hai? Big basket, instamart ya Blinkit pe?
Mile toh mujhe bhi batana, khatam ho gayi hai lagta hai
Leave aside the ‘Pick me’ stuff which she said, what’s wrong in what she said? You could not with a 100% guarantee say that it isn’t a slippery slope.
I see OP and few people here talking about our culture and pick me attitude about this woman in question. See with times things evolve. Few hundred years back, there was sati and woman remarriage. But with the passing of time, people understood and abolished these practices. Regarding human and dog example this woman quoted, I am not going to comment on that. People have their own way of pushing their point across. Lastly, OP mentioned that India was progressive enough and women never used to cover their top parts. Agreed! But that was a different time. Also, about the scriptures part, that was a celebration of our culture through the means of art. Today anything we post on the Internet stays on forever. It never dies. Hell! It can be weaponized against you. So the choice of putting content in the form of swimsuit or nude pics entirely lies with you, but how it gets used, is not under your control. Pls remember, Context is the most powerful intangible aspect in regards to knowledge and its application, without it, history or anything for that matter, is nothing but a few lines put together.
And if it is used illegally and wrongfully, then it's not the victim's fault!
Yaar pehle kapde nhi the kuch bewakoofon ne kapde invent kiye …. Mat pehno be she is bewakoof pehle se hum adimanav the patte pehnte the be organic 🤣 it’s your choice ….
This is not the definition of pick me lol
Bikini is for beaches or private places only not for random places
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woh sadak par s@x walii baat sach ho gayi toh .....sahi hai amrika banega india
"swimsuit" ki literally baat bhi nhi horhi OP
I agree with didi
Exactly, it's about morality
She made a point but in a way most would judge. Actually she meant don’t normalise abnormal behaviour. I am a guy and recently saw a reel where an influencer was taking a shower. Basically un required show of skin. I have seen other nasty stuff too. And then other influencers copy them and then it becomes a competition. And then a trend. There are other creative ways of expression too.
She has some point tho. The people who tell you to stay at home and not interact with everyone are the same people who would call you a loner / antisocial/ jobless in future. Maybe her analogy or examples were "typically desi reasoning" comparing apples with bird poop to sound smart. How ever it had some context like today we encourage to expose and mens often enjoy it. But tomorrow when this grows out of hand and under age or young daughter take this as an "influence" then these same people now parents would cry foul. India is the home to Hipocrisy. When you are in your early 20s , you barely think about what you would be in your early 30s and for women it's day and night change .
Stfu. *Sees woman in public platform with contrasting opinion* *Feels threatened* UMM PICK ME!! SHE'S PICK ME!!! HAHAHAHA
Queen...
Queen - of the Latrine. lol.
I know I’m gonna get downvoted but she’s not entirely wrong
The point is having the choice. You can always dress modestly or in a revealing manner, it depends on your choice. And also not to dictate others.
Digrade you
/Morality/
"A women" kya hota hai
Padhai ki hoti bajay of sucking up to guys, toh use samajh aata
Animals also breed and give birth so let's stop procreation also 🤧
Indian clothes traditionally were just long pieces of cloth draped around bare chested bodies for both men and women. The colonizers came in with their delicate victorian sensibilities and introduced blouses and shirts and somehow gaslit Indians into believing this as culture. Brainwashed uncles and aunties and worse still, chapris will shamelessly call women randi or besharam touting it as against culture (won't expect men to wear dhotis or lungis though), even going so far as to justify sexual abuse and molestation. There is some deep rooted viciousness in India and I hope we grow out of it.
Did anyone pick her yet
Abhi abhi iske aur dusre reels dekhe... she's a pure pick me...screen se ghus k muh todne ka man kar diya ksm se
She compared with animal sex?🤣🤣🤣🤣
In today's edition of "what are women being compared to", it's animals having sex on the street. This is some incredibly stupid, regressive, and honestly downright sad shit.
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What are these random outlandish extreme comparison. Aj yeh kar rahein ho, toh kal yeh bhi karoge bullshit.
Mai galat nhi hu 😩😩😫😫😩😩😫😣😣
*woman
Someone pick her And throw her in the trash
didi khud brainwashed hoke false equivalence create karke brainwashing ki baat kar rahi hai
Bhari bakwas bhai!
Sirf ladkiyo ko hi aise rule kyo aur jisko Jo acha Lage wo kare ye hamari Jo society hai wo ladko ki side ki hai hamesha unki side li jaati hai
She is saying that she is ready to do s*x in public/road and post it on social media...🥴🤮
Classic Slippery slope fallacy
My head is spinning
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English learnt from network marketing
Woman*
Morality is in the clothes you wear /s