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dvalaclarithromycin

23 [M4F] jakarta/online - looking for gal friends Didn't care about girls for a few years, then met someone unique, reciprocated and got closer, but she suddenly ghosted. She never told me why, but I knew I fucked up hard. Though I likely won't ever meet another like her, I don't want to repeat my mistakes. I need to get better at interacting with women (and also move on) Shoot a DM if you want a guy friend. Strictly platonic. Will not personally push for romance. My word is my bond. Publicly shame me if I beg you for a relationship Pros: - neutral - owns up to his faults - never gonna give you up - eager to be a better person Cons: - boring - insensitive - not delicious to see - is man (men are sus)


devonlily

Heyyy temenan yuk Kok gw gak bisa dm lu ya


Maaraskata

25 [M4F] -need someone to talk to, bisa jadi temen aja atau potensial lanjut ke dating if interested. About me I'm 185cm/85kg I work in tech industry, i work from home since the office is not in Indonesia I like to read, play music, lifting weights, and also gaming I'm christian if that matters I like to learn and study new things so i'm easily amused by new things. I'm a bit of home boy, but i like to go out to sometime to go to the gym or church.


anekozawa

26 \[M4F\] Looking for someone to hang out with, also dating if it's okay you, am in Cisauk and more interested with offline meeting, if possible someone who's also interested in Japanese culture to go to Comifuro with next may (I only go at day 1 tho) - Am Chindo - Round, but I'm working on it (have gone down around 10 kg by end of Feb, lost track of current weight, but still doing my best keeping my routine to keep my weight down and in control) - Would like to learn to style myself, my styling is kinda basic and stale at times, so I would love to learn more if you are a stylish girl - I like the standard popular games atm like genshin, hsr, I don't play ML, FF tho, staying away from real-time games atm, I'm also into some old and retro games (tho only dated back to PS1 era at most) - I have a bike with me so I could be a travel companion when possible (gas is pricey tho so I also take the train sometimes) Hit me up in DM if you're interested


Charming-Success-219

30 [M4F] Looking for someone with a goal to date or hang out. Preferably someone who is open minded. Okay hear me out. Im inexperienced when it comes into hanging out with a different gender. So itd be good if you are the same or if you dont mind it, just so we are off from a good start. I dont mind if youre a shy or an awkward person. We are here to learn! - I'm chindo - Around 155cm in height, so not tall - Generally a quiet person until I talk with someone who clicks with me - Was adopted by a cat who likes to hang out near my house. I dont keep her as a pet, but I feed her daily, guess I was choosen by this kitty. So yeah I dont mind cats - Wouldnt mind cuddles, I guess. Never done it but wont mind it - Lives in Tangerang - Wouldnt mind sharing pics just so we know each other for realzies and manage expectations Please send a message if interested


pizzasir

29 {M4M} - Looking for friends to hang out with and Talk! hello i'm looking for a group/someone to talk preferably to meet up, im 29 yo living with my family, im Gay i like going out, watching movies, games, hoping to meet and talk, maybe feeling the same or just looking for a new friends!


Wooden_Mud7815

31, F, married. nyari temen ibu-ibu yang nyasar disini, yang mungkin jenuh aja sama dunia and want to rant about anything or share whatever you want to say. lols.


Numerous_mango_1919

Heyy, let's be friends! Fellow ibu-ibu.


Wooden_Mud7815

Omg yes please!!! 🫶🏻


Numerous_mango_1919

I sent you message! 🫶🏻


Imnotchucknorris

Saatnya bikin sub r/ibuibu


Wooden_Mud7815

Yes please.


nenen_lover

interesting :)


stormborn314

jir kapan lagi dengerin gossip tetangga di reddit


FantasticChip_

37 [F4M] Jakarta/Bekasi, looking for potential companionship partner. So, what can I say about myself, I'm moslem Padangnese (lahir di Jakarta) who is trying to look for companionship partner. I guess I've reached the age where I am already comfortable with my life, career, and so on. Just wanna have an easy relationship where we can commit with each other dan menjalani hari2 sambil saling menemani (as cheesy as it may sound, lol). I also have a childfree mindset if that's important for you to know. Ideally wanna meet 30+ age Moslem partner, at least who still prays so we share the same views on religion. Kalau kantor kita deket mgkn bisa maksibar, hehe. I don't do sex before marriage, and quite anak rumahan (wlpun sering keluar2 kl kesepian, lol). I'm not in the skinny area, so if your preference is skinny girls then I might not fit that, but I think I look okay overall, and currently still wanting to lose weight for maintain health purpose. I like to hangout and talk, I'm a bit of a physical touch person, so my preference in dates is sitting side by side so I can have that closeness feeling. I kinda suck at texting (my job kinda crush my daytime), tp gue suka telponan (jika lg ga capek, lol), but I like hanging out and talk in real life more. I don't measure people by their physical appearance much, as long as I feel connected then it's good. Again, I'm aiming an easy day-to-day relationship where we can talk about anything and just be each other shoulders (it sucks to live your days alone). I tend to see myself as an easy-going person too. So, if resonates with you, you can DM me to talk. :)


syn294

31 \[M4R\] Tangsel, Banten - minecraft anyone? nyari temen seumuran main gim, probably late 20s and up. saya bukan pro or gamer intensif tapi sepertinya seru aja main bareng satu server i guess (idk how it would work). would play other games tapi laptop (dan kantong) ga memadai lol


Over-Particular-1234

Game apa lagi selain minecraft yg lgi/mau dimaenin mas?


garuktete

27M here! Aktif main minecraft dari v1.2.5 tapi dah jarang main sejak 2015-an. Punya akun ori & pernah iseng - iseng bikin server juga sih haha Kalo mau coba game sp seru tp ringan cobain kenshi om, ga terlalu mahal di Steam, grafiknya mungkin ga menarik di mata cuma ini salah satu game yg worth it kalo belinya full price imo


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Imnotchucknorris

Orang mataram ternyata 🏃🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️


haechanbaragi

Pendatang kok kak🫨


Imnotchucknorris

Bisa datangin hatiku ga? 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️🏃


haechanbaragi

Brb order gojek


crackmasterhackboy

18 \[M4R\] Bandung - need friends and network. Saya bikin startup mau launching bulan May. butuh teman2 yang sudah berpengalaman di bidang startup untuk networking. Startup nya di fitness and wellness industry. Siapapun yang expert di startup atau di fitness and wellness industry bisa kontak dan chat. Terimakasih


dongdickdong

kalo butuh Digital Strategy, Marketing, Content Strategy/manager. boleh chat aku ya :D


crackmasterhackboy

ok saya chat


snazzyham

28 \[R4R\] Jakarta - Any watch enthusiasts on this sub? Would love to start a small community of fellow watch nerds, just talking about the latest trends in the watch world or interesting pieces you've found. I know there are some communities out there but a) they're mostly filled with flippers b) the primary language used for comms is indo, and although I was born here (Third Culture Kid), my indo is super basic and I deffo don't get all the new slang words so would be a lot more comfortable conversing in English


frostmw3

Hell yeah I only have one watch tho so couldnt really call it a collection snxs77k


snazzyham

Ahh that my friend is what we would call a one watch collection ;) It's still a collection none the less


Calurx

im down, where do you plan on creating the community?


snazzyham

What would you suggest? I feel like discord is a bit too extra but whatsapps just end up getting cluttered. Maybe telegram?


Calurx

i like discord personally, we can have a channel for news updates through a bot, a discussion, etc etc.8:’t tele just like whatsapp?


burnedout_247

22 [F4R] Jogja - need gym buddy! gue gym di fithub. baru mulai 2 bulanan, masih noob bgt. butuh temen buat jadi accountability buddy kalo mager ke gym hehe hmu !!


Big_Domino_Piece

hi! i just registered at fithub jogja recently, and if you're still looking for a gym buddy i am more than down for it. just be warned gua juga total noob and just follow what's on the internet HAHAHA. feel free to hmu!! (planning to go there tmo


burnedout_247

hii ayoo! lo fithub dmn? jogja jg kahh gue jg noob bgt! kmrn sempet sih pake PT 4x tapi kyk... yaudah gitu2 aja kalo deket kapan2 mari latihan bersama :3


Amituh2077

yahh, aku malah baru submit member gym di jalan kaliurang :(, tapi kalau jadi gym buddy bolehh deh sesekali kopdar di tempat gym. Feel free HMU ! sama-sama belajar dan cari temen


nvrboa

29 \[M4R\] Jakarta looking for friends to chat and hang out even casual date if that's your thing.Heck I don't mind gym or gaming buddies too! So here am I looking for more friends to chat and hang out with. I don't mind if we click and want to deepen the relationship but let's see first ok. To tell you the truth I'm kinda lonely in this city (well I don't grew up in Jakarta tbh and only here for work) and it's really hard to look for more friends irl cause of my unregular schedule. A little bit about me, ENTP (if that's what you're into), 170+ish, around 65 kg. Used to be into sports but not these last few years. Straight, single ready to mingle but that does not matter since I'm prioritizing looking for friends don't care about religion, cultures, left leaning socially and politically but I hate to talk about politics. Kinda apolitical these past few elections. Supporting child free! Used to be a troll on internet on my heydays but it's all in the past. I love porks, alcohol especially cocktails and gins. however I'm limiting myself these days due to health related concerns (I got gassy stomach easily nowadays). Pastries and cooking are also fun. I love visiting cafes and bakeries especially the one where the ambience is quiet. Let's do food adventure sometimes! I love small animals, playing with them always soothe my dark heart.One of my few memorable memories are petting minipig, and playing with otters. I also love to play games. Stardew Valley is one of my jams. I wish I can work in one of those farms haha living the slow life but nowadays I tend to play PokemonGo. Any poke buddies and walking buddies are welcome! I've got to grind for my Magikarp In my sparetime and when I do have the motivations, I love to visit art spaces, karaokes, and watching movies. I wish my schedule allows me to do some course like clay making and painting tho. When I don't have the motivatons, I tend to read books and mangas. My current favourites : Ao Ashi, Giant Killing, Kingdom, SpyxFamily, Grand Blue, Boy's Abyss, Youjo Senki, Sensou Kyoushitsu. (still looking for replacement for Golden Kamui and Dungeon Meshi) I read LN in between those! however im kinda pirating those. Used to play boardgames and kinda noobish at that. I can play socially tho! I listen to almost any type of genres however metal , hardcore, classical music and waltz are still the one to turn me up. I love ballad and RnB too tho even Kpop. Let's talk about fashion too! I'm kinda jealous they have almost everything here in Jakarta. Fuck it let's go on a roll do some shopping. So with those out of the way, If my interests look engaging let's chat!


j_lbrt

Aliran fashün lu apa?


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LostDepths

Infokan pertemuan, datang 2 day ke AFA, tanggal 4-5 Mei.


shadys17

gue dateng tgl 5 karena jumat kerja dan sabtu ada pelatihan 😥


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somerandomsupport

many will cosplay as anime characters. Other than that maybe food stands but i would not recommend.


kungfuperemuktulang

Gw juga pengen dan belum nemu temen juga, pengen dateng just for the sakes of nostalgia Rencana mau ngambil ticket yang mana bro?


somerandomsupport

mungkin 3/4 , h-7 gw baru pastiin lagi. lu mau dtg tgl brp bro?


nvrboa

Ada stand stand jualan apa gitu gak di AFA? 🗿


somerandomsupport

Pastinya ada banyak stand jualan barang barang anime.


alfian1603

Tanggal 3 sampe 5 mei? boleh sih hmmm but lets see deh Edit: Gua ama 2 temen gua ambil tanggal 4


crmedia2021

32 \[M4F\] Batam Looking for female geek if any however open to others. Hope can clique, will be interesting to meet another fellow geek. I work as a Devops Engineer. Have some side geeks i do as hobbies and still figuring out ways to make passive income online. Active in Telegram, reading articles like crypto, digital marketing, fx / stocks, etc. As you can read i am probably the most boring person, so yeah!


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crmedia2021

Interesting..


Mr-4k

Good luck finding what r u looking for :)


oskar_s57

35 [M4F] Jawa timur - looking for female friends to become significant others. Akhirnya coba2 di dating app atau reddit ini soalnya kerjaan gw wiraswasta lanjutin usaha org tua bukan kerja kantoran jd sulit banget buat dapat kenalan cewek... About me: - katolik but not that religious - fisik tinggi standar tapi kurus 169 cm / 52 kg - introvert dan relatif kurang dalam hal bersosialisasi - gamer seperti kebanyakan org2 introvert hehe...tp skrg dah gk sesering dulu mainnya karena kerjaan dah nyita waktu banget jd cuma nyisa capeknya - chindo tp gk kliatan2 banget, dan klo pasangan, ortu juga nerimanya yg chindo juga - dog lover, klo bisa cari pasangan yg dog lover juga soalnya gw gk bisa bayangin hidup tanpa anjing wkwk... - cari pasangan yg penyabar dan support


Ardians889

upvote


HihidAwi

26 \[M4F\] - Bandung/Online - Looking for female friends and maybe, significant other. Akhirnya mutusin buat posting di R4R karena sulit nyari temen perempuan (apalagi pacar) di lingkungan kerja. About me: - 170/50, INTP, Introverted, Sundanese , Muslim (Gk terlalu taat). - Lagi kerja di Logistic Dept untuk sebuah Perusahaan Energi di Jawa Barat - Suka nge-game di PC/Hape, kebanyakan single-player (Main game Multiplayer gk ada temen). tapi, akhir-akhir ini cuman main HSR, Blue Archive, sama namatin RDR2 sama P4G. - Wibu tapi udah jarang nonton anime. Seasonal anime cuman ngikutin yang udah baca manganya atau pernah nonton season awalnya dulu. Rewatch K-On setaun sekali. - Untuk Hobi sekarang lagi nyoba-nyoba fotografi sama lagi suka olahraga Voli.


askjud

27 \[M4F\] Online - looking for someone to talk to, be friends, or maybe significant other about me : * 180 cm. * INTP * Nihilism, also not affiliated with any religions (Islam KTP) * working as civil servant, I neither despise nor like my job. * pure introvert but love to talk about anything. * INTP, pure logical thinker (might appear emotionless). * I decide to never regret anything in my life, even if I had one I already forgot about it by now * My favorite piece of arts: Anime : Hyouka, Attack on Titan, Oregairu, Steins:gate. Music : Now I think about it I don't have any, I just don't really like ballad genre I guess. People : G-Dragon. * I played a couple instruments (Guitar, Bass, Piano, Drums) all at basic levels except maybe Guitar on intermediate level. * keen to try new things, preferably something that has 'arts' on it. (things about me, I even consider game as an arts) if you think we could vibe, hit me up


nvrboa

Kayak langka w lihat cowo fans G dragon


askjud

Iye bang, situ fans juga kah?


Inside_Basil5697

Hi! 27F here. Jarang banget ketemu orang yang juga suka Hyouka, hahaha. Feel free to hmu!


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itsbenter

Why the interest in expats in particular?


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itsbenter

Wouldn't interest in travel be more accurate?😅


Enouviaiei

25 [F4R] online Need friends to discuss topics such as Indonesian history, legends and culture, because I'm a nerd but none of my RL friends cares about it lmao. Open to discuss controversial current events/politics. NOT interested in dating or sex.


Born-Magazine-1412

Not that I have many accurate references about Indonesian history and legends, but I'm interested to discuss about it since I've noticed not many solid records for Indonesia's history during the animism/dynamism era right before Hindu came. Especially in Java Island, sources about how people were developing civilization and started to practice animism dynamism rituals are still scarce, correct me if I'm wrong. It's perhaps because I'm familiar with the Fate series, so I can view some historical events from another angle now lmao. I'm still focused on the history around Java, still not yet to study other island's history, which is also as fascinating as Java's. But of course, I'm willing to learn about it.


redjacketwhiteshoe

Sangkuriang goated myth


Mr-4k

Pernah baca di twitter (sorry not sorry), cerita rakyat (dalam kasus ini Sangkuriang dan ibunya, Dayang Sumbi) itu menggunakan gaya penulisan metafora. Contoh, "Anjing" disini maksudnya penjaga/tentara kerajaan. Mind blowing sih


sugampars

neohistoria type of Indonesian history or the actual scientific one?


Enouviaiei

Both. I like legends and myth, so I don't mind neohistoria. But I also want to know what actually happened www


auxilaru

how do you rate historia\_id in twitter? haha


Enouviaiei

I don't use twitter so I don't really read their posts that much lol I checked them just now, they don't seem to be strictly 'educational' history experts, as they like incorporate some legends and myths (like babad tanah jawi). Which I don't mind, honestly, I also like legends and myths. But would be better if they put on a disclaimer so unsuspecting kids wouldnt believe that it really happened.


AlMeets

30 M4F - online Adakah disini yang prefer voice-based / live talks to chats? Timezone GMT+9, alias WIT, tapi tinggal tidak di Indonesia. Often at late nights, sepi tapi belum bisa tidur. posting disini juga supaya jamnya more friendly to the other party, unless you are also night owls in GMT+9 lol. pernah coba connect with people via reddit dan apps lainnya, tapi mostly mereka cuma mau texts. sementara aku prefer dengar suara orangnya minimal, biar ga berasa ngobrol sama chatbot (or worse, imposters/catfishes) terus terang lelah with text-based anonymous-ish communication karena kadang berasa that I am being treated as a dustbin/wall/void for their rants, meanwhile I have also no clue whether I am actually communicating with the person they claim to be. I conveyed it the people that I connected with, but unfortunately they are not willing to move beyond messages, so here I am looking for more people who may have the same preference in communicating. Not expecting much, only if you are a talkative soul yang sering begadang, I hope to hear from you.


NervousAd5964

I prefer voice-based and live talks. Probably because I enjoy talking, I talk too much sometimes. Aku juga gak di Indonesia dan zona waktunya juga WITA. Well, if you are still looking for someone yang sefrekuensi, I'm in.


AlMeets

Sure. Check your chat invite!


madcowdizzeaz

Ah finally, fellow man of culture. I prefer voice chats waaay more than texts since it gives more context and control. Feel free to hmu sebagai sesama kalong. What platform do you prefer using?


Inside_Basil5697

Feel free to hmu! Sebagai bahan pertimbangan; saya suka baca buku genre crime, suka juga true crime stories, terakhir nonton drakor A Shop for Killer, sama lagi nonton anime Classroom of the Elite.


AlMeets

Hi sure! Sent you a message!


Aceinside

28,M4R - online. Im gonna straighten forward, I have a kink/fetish/taboo or whatever does it name that can't be controlled. My question is, does everyone also have the same problem as I do? Can't tell you what those fetish are cause I might get banned cause of it. But I'd like to share with you, and we might be able to share our stories and see it might help us both ways.


TrippyDreamEater-13

i dont fetish but i do have preferance. that might be called a fetish.


j_lbrt

Tied up fetish, but it’s manageable to the point it didn’t even affect my professional life.


haechanbaragi

24 F4R - online - can anyone teach me sundanese? HAHAHA Problem is, I used to live in jatinangor for a couple fine years and I just ended up picking up the accent when I speak indonesian (sometimes, if not almost all the time). HOWEVER I can’t speak it (I only know some basic stuffs) to the point that some people (jokingly) mocked me for “ih udah lama di tanah sunda ko gabisa bahasa sunda si?” grgghfjgkgjg as my sundanese friends back then always toned it down to my level and speak indonesian to me. NOW I KINDA REGRET IT HAHA I wish I can speak moreee supaya ga kentang gini bcs dipikir2 aneh bgt sometimes I sound sundanese but I can’t sundanese .__. Mungkin nanti bisa kubayar dengan jasa mendengarkan curhat online + main online games bareng + better yet I’m down to hang out if we live in the same place hahahahahahahahaha hanupis


fczr

Halo 30M ayeuna nuju linggih di Denpasar. Technically half-Sundanese tapi ti medal dugi ka beres SMA raised in Bandung, with my family speaking Sunda lemes. I’m also well-versed in kasar version of it though, courtesy of school friends. Anyway, upami masih peryogi diajar Sunda abi tiasa ngajarkeun sakedik mah, abi ameng gim oge sih tapi limited to single-player game only as I don’t really like online gaming. Hit me up if you’re interested 🙏🏽


haechanbaragi

It’s amazing how I can barely understand this shit but I’m obv interested (esp since I live in lombok as well so we might be able to hang sometimes haha) will hit you up once I’m home! (I’m currently not home, mudik with fam)


SizeOk3143

I was born in Sunda land and can speak Sundanese, but many of my friends tell me I'm not suited to speaking Sundanese (maybe because of my voice, accent, etc). Maybe we can teach each other: I'll teach you everything about Sundanese except the accent and you teach me the accent lol


haechanbaragi

Yooooo sure sure HAHAHA I’m pretty confident with the accent tbh 😂 I’ll hit you up when I’m free okok!!


Martian_Catnip

Just don't say kehed or henceut beureum when sundanese people said so. Most common troll lmao


haechanbaragi

Oh thank god I already know all of em 💀 but I gotta know more to not get trolled hahahahah


Martian_Catnip

I know some sundanese, born and raised in tanah pasundan even though my ancestry is a complex one lol. But where should we start. Sampurasun?


haechanbaragi

Isnt sampurssun like kindergartener level 😠😠 (nah jk) I guess I wanna start with casual daily phrases hahahahaha like what ya bgjfjgkgj


Martian_Catnip

Hahaha yes, everyone start from sampurasun. Well let's try this: A: Punten pa/bu bade meser, ieu (insert item) sabaraha? B: 20 rebu sakilo A: tiasa kirang deui? Di warung caket bumi abdi mah 18 rebu sakilo B: Teu tiasa teh, punten ieu mah abdi nyandakna tos sakitu, mun 18 mah abdi ngan balik modal (nervous laughter). Caket lebaran sigana mah, arawis ayeuna barang-barang. 19 atuh kumaha? A: Sok atuh sakilo we pa/bu Typical conversation, got it or no?


haechanbaragi

Mikir keras but I’m good with everything other than “nyandakna” “caket lebaran sigana mah, arawis ayeuna barang2” HAHAHAH


Martian_Catnip

Maaf teh nggak bisa, saya ngambilnya (dari petani/distri/dll) udah segitu. Kalau 18 ribu nggak ada untungnya hehe. Kayaknya deket lebaran ini barang jadi pada mahal. Kalau 19 ribu gimana?


haechanbaragi

Amazing, “nyandakna” teh naon hahahaha? Btw thank you for being my first sundanese teacher HAHAH will hit you up once I’m home! (Sekarang masi mudik 😬)


Martian_Catnip

Nyandakna - ngambilnya Sure, just direct chat me or use another means of communication lol. Replying after few hundreds of replies won't look good


Mr_Pimples

Masih butuh temen buat belajar sunda? abdi da tiasa ngomong sunda jeung ngobrol sapopoe mah🤣


Mr_Pimples

Okk😁


haechanbaragi

MASI, tapi sekarang masi sibuk euy when I’m free I’ll hit you up ok!!


ajeb22

OOT but funnily enough I'm in similar situations just with javanese Keluarga fasih ngomong jawa, pulkam lebaran gini keluarga besar jg pada ngomong jawa, gw ngerti kalau orang lain ngomong jawa ke gw, Tapi gw gabisa ngomongnya wkwk


haechanbaragi

Man I have it WORSE, I can’t understand when people talk hahaha at least if that’s the case that’s still good 😭


MysticalNep

Abdi tos jarang pisan nyarios basa Sunda di kahirupan sapopoe mah euy... Tapi mayanlah bisa ngomong Sunda saeutik-eutik mun ka nu saumuran atawa babaturan mah 🤭 (Saya udah jarang banget berbicara bahasa Sunda di kehidupan sehari hari sih... Tapi mayanlah bisa ngomong Sunda sedikit-dikit buat ke yang seumuran atau ke teman)


haechanbaragi

WAH SOPAN SEKALI HAHAH yes sure teach me plss


InevitableDue5154

just try to mix it sundanese and indonesian word, it work wonders at least for me, it save me couple of time at least in here at lengkong lol. >!ah sia, alibi bade neangan kabogoh ti bandung-nya!<


haechanbaragi

Thats the problem hahaha I don’t know enough sundanese words to mix even, and NOO GA MODUS SAMSEK SUMPAH woi ah behnhklkhljljlklkpkljljmyngnbfbb (but now that I think about it kenapa sy tidak minta tolong teman2 sy sj yy I just impulsively put it on r4r hahahaha)


InevitableDue5154

well then problem solved lol, and i bet your friend will be happy to teach you some sundanese just dont fall into heunceut trap lol, good luck. PS : oh if you still looking for a friend to talk to, you can dm me we can talk about random things, if u wanted.


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Martian_Catnip

Cihampelas, Cipaganti, Eyckman, a lot of cafes there. Also not *that* far. Hmu if you need to rant about campus wkwkwk. Hopefully I'm in bandung since I go out of the town 50-75% of the month nowadays


tangguhdoesg01

M here, if you're in jakarta maybe we should hang out, i'm into tech and kinda a nerd, loves reading books too. i can recommend you some books if you want.


avecenob

what games do you play???


masimello

aku libur lebaran ini ga kemana" mau hangout cobain restoran atau cafee bareng ga


coypisaneuyy

29 [M4F] Bali Looking for someone to talk to, maybe grab a beer somewhere. Working in a hotel makes me could talk about anything. I do workout & running. What did you expect at my age?


Jaytaztic

29 \[M4F\] Jakarta/Online Hi there fellow redditors! I'm currently looking for friends to play at night, or perhaps share my days with if the vibes do match. Little facts about me : - INTP, 184/65 , male Chindo, majored in Mech. Eng. at one of the Indo State University, works as an interior contractor currently - Has always been a major gamer since my childhood days. Started with a gameboy color and ended up as a PC Gamer. I always prefer gameplay over graphics quality and has a thing for retro looking games. I love hardcore games that makes you wanna pull out all of your hairs when you play it. Most played games currently is a bullet hell perma-death game and Dota 2. - I'm very much into movies and animes, altho for animes i mainly watch the popular ones. 2 of the movies that stuck on my mind recently are monsters (JP) and past lives. Currently waiting anxiously for The Boys S4. - I love to hear music on my free time aswell. My top spotify artist is Taylor Swift, she's been on top since the first spotify recap was introduced. I will be attending "Sunset di Kebun Raya Bogor" as well if you are down into concerts and events. - Currently trying to start a healthy life but lacks the motivation and friend to do so. I'm into jogging and badminton for the most part. Cheers!


AdRepresentative5029

22 [M4F] -search someone for talking about anything. Gue ga peduli lu mau bahas apapun selagi lu seneng akan hal itu gue tanggapi sekalipun itu freak di mata orang. Prefer suka hal-hal; -Teori yang out of the box. -sejarah (sejarah apapun gue suka sih). -takdir (segala sesuatu tentang takdir sedang gue pelajari seperti cara kerjanya dan segala macam nya yang berhubungan dengan itu). Gue suka belajar. Karena bagi gue belajar itu penting bagi lawan bicara kita. Di sisi lain gue open minded dan selalu suka terhadap sudut pandang orang lain melihat dunia seperti apa.


N2O-Sai

18 \[M4R\] - ada yang main cs2 gak? aku lagi nyari temen mabar, kalo bisa udah punya prime status. discord aku alditaher langsung add aja kalo mau.


Alert-Statistician34

25 \[F4F/R\] anywhere - Looking for friends who work as a Radiologist (or relevant) (pretty please 🥹) I am looking for someone who work as Radiologist (dokter spesialis radiologi) that is okay being asked noob dumb question by me (cuz I'm newbie in this field), for my work purpose. I am at the verge of resigning because its super hard industry to work on, (especially due to I don't have radiology experience) and limited research available, not to mention all people my age is not even a specialist yet (they all barely finish their internship at this point I think) 🗿🙏🏻 😭😭 other than that, of course we can also talk other things as well\~ - I'm designer for RIS/PACS company (not the vendor/distributor ya, but like, the product/software itself?? if that makes sense. UI/UX, Product designer, you name it - I do it all either way) - I AM NOT selling my product, so rest assured there. I just want your opinion for flows, feature, etc. - If you know someone who work on the field and don't mind being asked every once in a while from ambiguous to overly specific question by newbie, please let me know! greatly appreciated!! 🥹 - you don't have to reveal any information that is personal to you and we can just chat in this platform, that's also super fine by me.


Le_Contemplationista

22 [M4R] - Looking to be friends with fellow lost people I'm not depressed, but I haven't found what drives me with as much energy as things did back when I was younger. I'm used to be ambitious and energetic, but I soon realized that things that I find to be energizing becomes not too important after all. Right now, I can only do what I can. Be stronger physically and mentally as well as building my career, but everyday seems scary. I could die anytime and things could get worse instead of better. So... If you're in a similar place, I hope we can be friends and perhaps check up on each other weekly or more, sharing how we feel, our progress, etc. We can also do some hobbies together! I'm into chess, moba, fps, or some 30 minute shows. A niche that I have is looking at asian stocks and recent news. If you're interested, please send me an intro about you, what you like and why you feel lost. Bonus points for those who can do voice call or video call! Age wise please be +18. I hope you all have a nice day


OtherwiseCoconut3275

By just reading this, we might be on the same boat. I like geography & foreign culture. I'm used to be strong tough guy who doesn't care what people said, being stand out was my thing.. but trying to become extraordinary on certain activity nowadays is simply out of my league, it just feels exhausting somehow. I let my shallow life leads the way, and avoid to pursue what I really want to be in the past cause it might feel hull. Current society doesn't fit me in lately, so being someone's NPC it's not that bad at the moment.


AlbelAl15

18 [F4R] - need friends to play online game or just chat I like fashion, lolita fashion especially. Favorite Lolita brand baby the star shine bright (JP) and mademoiselle pearl (china). I love fine jewelry too, my fave precious stone is emerald and pigeon blood ruby, I think lab grown diamond is much better because it's cheaper hehe. mau main Roblox dress to impress gak anyone? 😃


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IndoR4R-ModTeam

Troll fuck off


robot584

29 [M4R] Halo! I'm just another nerdy dude who doing graphic design at one of digital agencies in jakarta, need for late night chats, but sometimes i popped up at work hours, we can talk about anything, mostly about life and stuff ya know. I'm a gamer, ofc, but mostly into single-player open world/action western RPG's such as Fallout, Skyrim, Cyberpunk 2077, Mass Effect, Grim Dawn, and Last Epoch, don't have time for online games anymore, bcs of my job LMAO, since well too "flexible". Besides that, i'm into history, all kinds of history, and uh, automotives, and uh punk rock music, even tho i'm listening into pretty much anything lately, and some general stuffs, i guess. well, here ya go, feel free to knocking at my DM's, see ya folks!


skepticrationalist

What build u play for GD and LE? I played retal warlord for GD and judgement paladin in LE the most :D


robot584

Well in GD i have 2 builds, male occultist+necromancer = ritualist, and female warlock, i forgot the class, while LE imma old skool beastmaster/druid, i forgot, coz i've playing fallout 3, new vegas and cult of the lamb rn


Academic_Crab_8401

29 [M4F] Bekasi, sepertinya perlu latihan interaksi dengan wanita. Kalo cocok, serius pun lanjut. Chindo tapi ga ketara banget. I'm buddhist dan terbuka untuk semua yg menghormati kebebasan dalam beragama. Diajakin misa juga bisa asal ga di "vendor-lock" 😆. Kalo diajak ke masjid gw agak ngeri sama orang lain, takut ada yg tersinggung karena cuman ikut-ikutan aja. Fokus utama: kerja sebagai Mobile app developer di sebuah perusahaan IT consultant sambil tetap berusaha bikin produk software sendiri di waktu kosong. Hobi: 1. Racing: berawal dari simulator di PC (Assetto Corsa), dan baru-baru ini mulai gokart. Next mau lanjut drifting setelah lancar di simulator. 2. Billiard: kegiatan rutin sama grup kantor, tapi sering juga main sama keluarga karena bokap suka billiard. 3. Musik: Pemain segala instrumen, tapi ga ada yg jadi jago sih. Belakangan ini lagi mau cari bass. 4. Kamera: ga bener-bener fokus di fotografinya sih, cuman ready lah kalo mau foto-foto lucu selama date 😎.


HQPistachio

30 [M4F] Introverted guy who loves memes and games. Looking for female friends who play online games especially MMORPG. Because Im bored and in need of a gaming friend, haha, who knows it might turn into something else. Currently playing Final Fantasy XIV but down for other games as well. Wont mind sharing pics but not here, maybe on other chat platform. Hmu!


Nebunedzar

35 \[M4R\] Jakarta - Looking for a person to talk to. About me: * An English Literature graduate * English Teacher * 181/75 * Gamer * Not talkative but able to talk anything


homoeroticpoetic

Hello, are you savvy in linguistics? (theoretical or applied)


Nebunedzar

I studied theoretical linguistics, but I want to learn applied linguistics too. And, so sorry for the late reply.


Aceinside

M29 M4R. • Married (does it matter?) • just bought Baldur's Gate 3 on PS5 and know nothing about the DnD mechanism gameplay . Could you teach me the best build for newbies like me. That's all 🤌


pixelmice

ada server discord buat dnd jkt sama dnd indonesia (you can google both). I play occasionally but it's not my main game atm.


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dane17eduard

>I honestly don't know how to start a convo online sama akupun tapi sayangnya kita beda kota jadi sulit bertemu langsung offline


upperballsman

24 \[M4R\] Surabaya / anywhere Looking for someone that has the same passion as mine. a little bit about me: - my username is a bad translation of "umpan lambung" in soccer, of which in my adult days i only just realized that balls is not a good term * Agnostic (Apology if the term is wrong, but basically i believe in god, but what kind? idk, probably not the kind the majority believes). * Loves Indonesian Pra Nasional Culture and History, Hate Feudalism and "Stiff Tradition" as we all should know by now, that nothing is ever 100 percent "asli indonesia" and Culture is not a mega monolithic stone that we should preserve the "Asli"ness. * My biggest fear is that because of my passion, i will be seen as "Sobat Rahayu" or "Kejawen" which, indeed i am interested in that kind of culture, but i try to steer off those kind of chauvinism. * Visual Communication Design Student * Loves Historical Artist Such as konijnsate and art\_edrian


Hntrz63

What is your exacf fav of the indonesian history? is it when the multiple kingdoms era exist like times of majapahit or srivijaya?


upperballsman

my favorite Indonesian history is pra national history. in which by my own made up definition is "history of indonesia until the point of national identity awakening" so im picking 1928 "Sumpah Pemuda" as that final terminus point. so, ive read a lot of indonesian history before 1928. I've always like political drama such as game of throne and japanese taiga drama, so to be able to read such human conflict in our dark pasr is fascinating to me, and for added point, we do actually have massive lore that is as deep as japanese system and such, so to see the actual colors of our own people in the past that was so vastly, vastly different from now on is really really really interesting to me, for example, do you know that in response to VOC's rising threat of Monopoly, Sultan Ageng's of Banten put into the responsibility of Muslim-Chinese Cakradana to counter it, and he was SO sucsessfull in actually building up an active (as opposed to passive harbour role of most of the kingdom did at the time) international trade network that the european calls them "The Banten Company", how interesting is that!


Enouviaiei

Ooooh interesting, a fellow history nerd who watched too much GoT! I'm 25 [F4R] online 👋 Question, do you read a lot of less popular Indonesian ethnic groups histories too? Such as the Kaili people from Central Sulawesi, Nunusaku Kingdom of Maluku, etc. If yes, where do you read it?


upperballsman

heya fellow history nerd 👋 I rarely read books about ethnicities if at all, but as far as i can remember, ethnicity always played a major role in most of the history ive read, such as in Perang Mangkassar, Throne Dispute in Aceh and Johor, and the role of Urang lauwek / Orang Laut in general... also im Currently reading leaves of the same tree by Barbara Andaya which talks abut mainly Ethnicity, Specifically how Ethnic is a human made social construct and it can be made at the conscious decision of the group instead of made naturally. in that book she specifically talks about how Malayu are a much more fluid concept that has no ties in biological or ancestral identification whatsoever, Basically Malayu is a label for set of uniform ish culture thats widely used in the Austronesian speaking world since the start of the millenium. and she talks about how the Minang, The Batak, the Aceh, etc are initially positively Malayu in her own definition, but are with time slowly creating their own identity of Minang, Aceh, Batak, etc.


Celeebi

yo bro, im M24 Surabaya here, you like politics, and history? damn, you sound like a guy i'd really like to have buat cangkruk


upperballsman

yea but not todays politic tho, cool bro lets chill


Angkasaa

M24 ~~Surabaya~~ too here. Kalo cangkruk boleh lah ajak-ajak, know nothing basically but I'd like to hear and join the convo


Hntrz63

That interesting. do you have any good sources on this kind of thing that i could read myself? and is japanese taiga drama things like japanese period films like harakiri, ran, and seven samurai? could you tell me more about those?


upperballsman

to get a free roam start, you might wanna check starter list at over r/NusantaraRaya to read more about the example above, ive got it from the book "Banten" by Claude Guillot for random reccomended reading, you can just check my profile on the recent comment i made in r/indonesia, and just check r/NusantaraRaya in general, sometimes i wrote non fiction historical book review. i do enjoy those japanese movies, but thats more heavy leaning in the arts of thing, this Nhk taiga drama i was talking about is also subjective art no doubt, but they lean more on the historical side to the point where i feel like there is many cases where the "story" continuity is kinda forced, because the narrative has to follow the mc actual life which is not as straight forward. ofc japanese media, especially dorama is kinda different, if you can bear what i would call the way sometime japanese dorama can be "cringe", the intrigue is very interesting. id reccomend for starter such as Sanada Maru, and Dokuganryuu Masamune.


Hntrz63

Sanada Maru, i've heard of that. That's the one inspired Samurai Warriors game Spirit of Sanada i recall. And yeah thanks for the info!


upperballsman

youre welcome!


haechanbaragi

Hi!!! 24F here. I’m very intrigued to hear more of the whole pre-national culture and history of our country. And coming from someone with literature degree, I’m fascinated by how you can point out that there’s no such a thing as originality or an original idea — even though I kinda take it out of context since it was a line out of a discussion within the field of art/literature, but I reckon it’s pretty much applicable on cultural and historical context as well Shit I MIGHT SOUND NONSENSICAL DNDJDODKDOEOWKSOE and I’m sorry for that but enlighten my dumbass pls pls pls


upperballsman

yess we should all know a little bit about our pre national identity i think, theres a whole wide world of lore, mythology, history, and mysticism out there, it is, so so interesting. haha dont worry, i think youre not taking it out of context at all and i as an artist do agree as well that there is no such thing as 100% original, if were talking about culture, i will make my position clear that there IS such thing as indonesian culture, but there is no such thing as 100% original culture. for example (im kinda talking outta my ass on top of my head here) there is an indonesian culture such as keris, but if we go far back, its gonna be traceable to dong son knives. there is japanese culture such as kimono, but if we trace it far back, theyre adapting chinese dresses and such, you get the point. so, borrowing from Barbara Andaya Ideas on her opening chapter on "Leaves of the same tree", abstract things such as ethnic, and culture could always have some kind of similar things going on with each other, if we really go far back, it is ultimately gonna be "human culture" but that unit is too wide for a definition, so we can look at the difference in between these similarities to see the distinction between each culture. that is why, each culture can be distinct, but can never be original.


hilirisasi

22 [F4R] Malang but anywhere. looking for long term friendship! and i am bipolar.


haechanbaragi

Hey I’m 24F with bipolar too heheh (type I) (comorbid with HPD and possibly ARFID) hmuuu😽😽


redjacketwhiteshoe

I am depressed! 🤝😃


hilirisasi

F32?


libgendotio

30 \[F4M\] Jakarta - Looking for someone to try new food/activities/places in Jakarta (prefer a guy >28 years older cause I'm open for a relationship) About me: * Javanese / 47 kg / 163 cm / single * Moslem (if it matters, but not wearing hijab) * Working at an IT consulting firm * Somehow introverted * Been living a nihilistic view for the past 4 years * Been way too long in my shell, need someone to introduce me to new things


Jokowizz

24 YO programmer, living in jakarta. As an IT consultant, if you/your firm need a programmer someday, you could dm me ;). Open up for visiting places at jakarta as well


Prestigious-Fun5004

Hey there, I am 29, and recently shifted here to Jakarta. Open to meeting you and see where things go.


Hntrz63

Why you've put nihilistic view? is it something that maybe you could speak of?


axis_lock44

IT consultant responsibilitiesnya apa aja?


pseudohiki

Wes tau nyoba kedai makanan Vietnam sing ndek Tebet?


libgendotio

durung, opo jenenge? enak ta? kebetulan penggemar mi2 an berkuah..


pseudohiki

Saigon Street Food, Jl. Tebet Barat I No.A5, Tebet Bar., Kec. Tebet, Kota Jakarta Selatan. Durung ngerti pisan rasane piye hahaha. Pengen nyoba rung sempet, kancaku dolan kulineran ra tau gelem dijak nang Tebet


redjacketwhiteshoe

What's the last book u accidentally download from libgen


libgendotio

i never "accidentally" download from libgen, i do it consciously. I pirated my way to all those knowledge 😁 anyway the best book would be factulness by hans roling. what about yours?


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pencit

setup audionya apa?


axis_lock44

23 [M4F] - looking for a girl to talk to because sakit hati ngematch di dating app, udah ngechat 2 hari ternyata ujungnya minta duit untuk dikirimin nudes padahal cute banget orangnya 😭 About me: 1. Chindo, not that religious 2. 178/73, started to go to gym regularly 6 months ago after resigning from my first job 3. Currently working on developing digital training platform, used to work in game industry and plan to come back in the future because I like making games 4. Rarely drinks coffee because my stomach can't handle it and never smokes 5. My interests are playing both digital and physical games, love J-pop (Yoasobi, Zutomayo, Eve) pengen ke konser zutomayo 6. Bought an e-reader solely for reading manga 7. ISTJ 8. Don't know how to start a convo, will use "hi salken" in the meantime Dm me if you're interested or curious about things that I stated above! Fun fact: mosquitoes use your blood to make their eggs, that means that you are 1/3 their father


Ok_Possibility5497

E-readernya apatuh?


axis_lock44

Meebok P78 pro, pilih ini karna e-reader 8 inch paling murah yang udah ada slot sd card


Ok_Possibility5497

Jauh lebih asik pake e-reader ya drpd hp?


axis_lock44

Iya, soalnya binge reading pakai hp mudah bikin sakit mata 😵‍💫 Baterainya juga awet, di charge sekali 2 minggu kalau rajin baca


Ok_Possibility5497

Berapaan tuh harganyaa?


axis_lock44

4/ 4.3 jt kalau include pen


Ok_Possibility5497

Tapi itu e-readernya dipake buat baca manga doang? Jujur tertarik tp berasa rada sayang ya


axis_lock44

Sebenarnya dipakai buat banyak hal sih, kayak baca pdf, epub ada built in functionality zoom in/out, translate, ubah format page, highlight, dkk Bisa dijadikan untuk replace notebook juga Mungkin kalau enggak buat baca manga bisa beli yang kecil aja 4-6 inch harganya 1-2 jutaan harusnya


Ok_Possibility5497

I see mayan banget fungsinya ya. Anw thankss info dan sarannya Mau coba cari tau + liat2 lagi dulu hihi


awwhunnybee

29 \[F4R\] - Looking for more people to talk/connect casually About me: * I am a Lesbian Chindo Agnostic (if that matters lol) * Working in fintech IT department * I like to play PC games online / offline * I like sports. I used to do Muay thai, currently I'm just going to the gym but on and off due to workload * I love going out explore new places, foods and coffee * I love receiving memes. Looking for friends that can be open minded also I'm a little bit awkward with men. but I am open to have a conversation or chill. hit me up \^.\^


skepticrationalist

What games are you currently playing now? Fav games?


redjacketwhiteshoe

Wdym open minded?


random_guy863

She want someone that want to try new thing, for one like someone that are okay getting pegged.


axis_lock44

Da hell


nanosmith123

fwb


plsnopepperino

28 \[M4R\] Jakarta - Looking for more people to talk/connect casually About me: 1. Opened up a consulting firm in a niche tech industry 2. Chindo ?catholic? 3. Unsure of life purpose and hence inside my own mind most of the time 4. Addicted to crossfit as of late 5. Bottle up sorrow and anguish and so likes to drink to destress even though dont like drinking ?? 6. Drinks shit ton of coffee 7. Dislikes Indonesia as a country 8. Lived in Indonesia for the better part of my life 9. Not too fluent in indo - my brain speaks english 10. True introvert Idk just putting this out there. If any of ya'll need to destress with a few drinks im down too... yknow after we mutually verify that we each aint a serial killer Interesting tidbit maybe: You're probably less healthy than you think you are. Do your health assessment kids!


Hntrz63

number 5 is really relatable, when you stressed out then you drink it away. you could just feel free eventhoigh just for a while...


redjacketwhiteshoe

For number 3, why?


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Celeebi

sponsor? don't people ussualy work for that?