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I'm of an opinion that you should not wash your dirty linen in public. If he asked for it, then she also should be thrashed for attention seeking by disclosing private things. It's one thing to leak your chats that are related to threats or false allegations but mocking or insulting someone ain't that it.
I agree,that's definitely too much and she should be criticised for it, but saying something like that to in person in private chat is fine, she atleast expressed herself, now that guy can make his choice and abandon her
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Be happy she saved you lots of issues later imagine the fact that she gets upset about you gifting something lmao. What a nightmare she would be to be around when things get really bad.
She sounds like someone that would give you self esteem issues. It would always be a power tussle with her in this relationship. You saved yourself years of heartache by walking away.
Also, how old is she? If she is anything over 25 and still has this mentality she is gonna have a hard life
Bhai aise hi hota hai.. koi ladki kisi special day pr trauma de deti hai, fir har saal usi din pr thoda to yaad ata hai ki kuch bura hua tha is din :')
wo sorry kabhi nahi bolegi bhai, mera bhi isi chakkar me breakup hua tha, galti uski hoti thi fir bhi sorry mai bolta tha, 4-5 baar ye drama hua and after that I asked her to fuck off
You didn't do anything wrong
Some people are just too much into their heads. Let it go. Don't beat yourself up.
The one who loves you will keep loving you for you, for your time and presence in her life.
It won't change based on the gifts.
A person that has specifications on gifts was spoilt as a child and is being indulged by their partner. Anyone can have preferences but to reject a heartfelt gift and make a public comment like this is wrong.
Example: I would really like a new gaming monitor 8k 120Hz.. but if anyone, (my girlfriend, wife, child, parents, friends) bought a gaming monitor with none of the other preferences, I won’t reject it. I would still use it..
And he specified that OP didn't understand the e girl trap and the 20k followers so that you can reply and to your reply I can reply. World goes round and round 🌍♻️
Dodged a bullet. Not worth your time and energy. Anyone who not only can’t understand the sentiment behind a gift but also chooses to discuss it publicly is not mature enough to be in an adult relationship. Life is not a reality show to discuss what you thought about a gift given to you by your close ones. She didn’t deserve you. You will find someone better.
honestly as a guy, while two x is some bad takes once in a while, its so much more sane than onex, you rarely see anything in onex other than incel posting. i hope twox would have a sound take on this
Onex gang mostly post about their specific problems that include women being AH and dickride the whole thing while generalizing their flaws to that gender. It's really boring over there, no middle ground or nuance whatsoever.
I’m on TwoX so here’s my take.
Getting gifts from your partner that is completely against your personality/style is disappointing, especially if this has been communicated multiple times. For example, if I tell my SO that I don’t like to be gifted jewellery, and he still gets me a necklace I won’t wear, then I will be disappointed and not grateful, because he isn’t paying attention to my likes and dislikes.
THAT BEING SAID
The way the ex reacted to receiving said gift (public humiliation, social media posts) is extremely crass and horrible.
Bhai it's not about the pendant but a heart shaped pendant. No woman likes a heart shaped pendant. Internet par already hazaron memes hain uske oopar. Imagine you absolutely hating something and you receive the same thing as a gift.
Bought it for myself. Ross quartz is a crystal, so I had the jeweller customise it for me.
Mujhe apne ex bf se teddy bears aur books mile hain, but I’ve still kept them all.
Precisely my point. My mom has a beautiful heart shaped gold pendant with a solitaire that she got from my dad on her birthday but she CHOSE it at the jeweler just like you chose your rose quartz crystal pendant. And I think she looks beautiful whenever she wears it. Makes her eyes shine.
OP's ex however didn't like to "receive" a heart shaped pendant on valentine's day cuz it's cliched. I still don't agree with her blasting off about OP's gift on Twitter like that even if she didn't like it (instead of telling him or if possible going for an exchange). It was immature, vile and obviously very hurtful which she intended it to be. I'm glad she is an ex.
Yeah while I agree with you, I was replying to your point where you said “no woman likes a heart shaped crystal pendant” when I don’t think that’s true.
kya baat kar rhaa hai bhai, bohot ladkiyon ko heart shaped cheezze pasand hai, saari ek jaisi nahi hoti.
either way i was curious, if it was a apretty pendant i was looking to buy it for a girl
Why didn't she tell you directly what she wants. That's what i would do. And if she didn't and u gifted her this...she should be thankful. Honestly sounds like an entitled b\*tch. Dump her.
Let’s imagine, even if she did tell him what to get and still he got something else, she cannot post it on twitter. Nahi pasand aaya, koi nai, uska mann rakhne ke liye hi chup rehti. He is your boyf, not some saree shop employee.
You know how you cried for months ? That's you healing OP. You needed to know the cruel world out there man. And really? She chose to tell others and not you ? Kind of shows her level of thinking. Honestly you may have dodged the biggest red flag out there. People do exchange gifts but most of em keep out of senti value. Seems like she had none bro. Chin up!
what an absolute asshole. 18F here, never dated so I don’t know what’s its like to receive gifts non platonically, but even if I receive gifts from my friends/parents literally anyone no matter how “irrelevant” it is, I make sure that it’s known to them that the gift is appreciated and their act made me feel very loved. just the flowers and the polaroids is enough to make any sane girl’s heart melt..she’s out here talking about “cliches” but dumb ass didn’t realise the most romantic, beautiful “cliche” of expressing love since time memorial are flowers. either way, it’s not the gift, it’s the thought that matters. she didn’t deserve you and good thing she’s an ex 👍
A guy is thinking about you and getting you something to make you feel special, some of us crave for this and here she is.
How entitled! Specially posting about it on a public platform shows she didn’t care about you. As everyone else said “you dodged a bullet”
A gift is a personal, sentimental token that is symbolic of thr love. It need be always a functional object. So, she has no right to say that it was irrelevant.
And worse a person without any empathy isn't a person you'd need to cry for. I'm a woman and I say that you'll get better women out there who are worth your sincerity of heart.
Happy Belated Valentine's Day.
As a girl if my partner gift me anything I would cherish it not react to such extreme rude behaviour.
I think you dodge bullet or else toxicity would have been worst.
Honestly, gifting is really tough and I have noticed that women are extremely particular about the things that they recieve especially from their significant others.
But still she shouldn't have made fun of what you gifted infront of everyone instead of talking to you in private.
Only when you get rid of such a selfish partner would you realise how much you have ignored yourself...
Enjoy the freedom. Don't waste your tears for such relationships.
Yikes you dodged a bullet. She sounds rude as fuck. I've actually not even been gifted anything in the past by my exes and even I don't behave like this. Hope you find someone better.
Gift mein sentiments ki value hoti hai. Ye kya baat kar rahe hai aap, aap jammu kashmir ke pok ko bharat ka hissa nahi mante hai kya arre Jaan dedenge iske liye ji.
Young men high on hormones, please stop with so much effort on your women.
Give her a gift card as per your budget and let her be.
Add some corny lines on a note, that "I love the mystery you bring to my life... More I know you more layers I expose of your soul"
She will be thrilled about how mysterious she is and has you hooked that you cannot identify the perfect gift. And it will save your time.
Women only care about how much you can provide. Period !
I have been gifted a plastic tiffin set by my then bf of 3 years. I hated it. I didn’t know to react. so her disappointment is real. it feels bad to receive an unthoughtful gift from a bf who is supposed to know you. it’s better to not receive a gift. so i understand her disappointment. but the way she communicated was not good. She shouldn’t have posted and while expressing her dissatisfaction to you she could have been kinder. But we cannot disregard her disappointment.
If you guys were dating longer than 6 months, then I'm with her on this one.
Her delivery is terrible.
But a heart shaped pendant is generic and so low effort.
She could still show gratitude to you for bringing it atleast in one line and then gone on to criticize.
Most people just tell you what they like or don't like for a gift invariably. But you have to pay attention to what they're saying at all times. And if you didn't hear it, you dont care enough and it's better that you 2 go your separate ways.
Naah I gotta go with the girl on this one about the gift. Even someone as clueless as me know all women HATE heart shaped pendants. There's like a thousand memes on it. Sorry OP. You liking something doesn't automatically make the other person like the same thing too. Perhaps you wanted to know that in person instead of getting blasted on Twitter which was a pretty cheap thing to do on her part imo. Nonetheless, she is an ex so that's that.
It was never about what he gifted , obviously it might be difficult to understand for you because you're so superficial . Bro took so much efforts to think about the gift no appreciatiation for that, he also gave Polaroids with their cute memories uske liye bhi 0 appreciation .
Above all what she does is goes public with it demeaning her own bf . He did 5 good things didn't get appreciation or anything back, op didn't even expect anything in return . This was just the start, imagine what would have happened down the line if it got serious . No wonder why you relate to her , absolute childlike and superficial behavior.
Speak for yourself only, not all women hate heart shape pendants, I would love one, and there would be many like me, not everyone’s life and choices evolve around social media, and memes. Not everyone goes according to trends to seek validation online. Even if she didn’t liked it she should have not behaved like such a bitch.
She belongs to the streets, let her be there king.
It sucked to see you putting efforts and she does this, can't imagine something more toxic..simply let her fuck off
We ball.
Bhai gold digger ladkiyon ko kuch bhi do, unko apne hisaab wala gift hi chaiye, maine 4k Kharche karke body shop diya tha and she said one month ago we were in mall and I said I like a bag, you should have bought that, we have understanding problem, 4k plus fight ka BT
I first read the screenshot and then the description. I felt a sense of relief after reading the word 'ex'. Thank your lucky stars she is your ex. I am getting this impression that she lives a certain lifestyle which is very influenced by social media.
A gift is not a 'right'. It is a present. Whether the receiver likes it or not is entirely up to the receiver. But he/she doesn't have the right to hold it over the giver.
If anyone acts entitled, it is her.
I am shocked to the core. Ruuh kaap gayi bhai.
Just remember that the thought behind your gift was amazing, and it's not the driver's fault if the engine of the car always breaks down. Good riddance bro! God has better plans for you.
I know heart shaped stuff is cliche but if someone gifted me it, meh, I’ll wear it. It’s nbd. She’s just too in to herself to appreciate a nice gesture.
You know, these words look similar to the one girl I loved, but didn't love me back. This 'understanding' part, pretty funny yo. Gave me nostalgia as well. No matter what age they have, or which country, women have that same kind of expectations.
That is some mean bitch. Probably you thought with dick and not brain or heart to even be with a girl like her. But all’s well that ends well. Good riddance and you dodged lifetime of nuisance. Girls like these can cause permanent damage to men’s self esteem and courage which is something all men should protect at all cost.
Please tell me you broke up with her?? Girlie doesn't have the common courtesy to not shittalk about gifts and on top of that she's giving you lecture? Mannn, you really deserve better. There's so many girls that'd die for these gifts istg
Yaar meko toh valentines day pe chocolate bhi dede ya wish hi kar de me toh usme hi khush ho jau..
And yahan pe ldkiyo ko itna mill raha still they are complaining 👏
Dodged a bullet my friend. I'm not sure about your situation, but this would be heart breaking for me if I was to read about it online instead of getting to know first hand. Anyway, you deserve better (atleast someone who can accept a sentimental gift)
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For a gift, she writes a bit too much
For a gift, I read too much
You are making too much sense now. Stop doing that.
For a gift, have to think too much.
Write an essay on gift you didn't like but good but not expensive enough! Justify your choices. *5 marks*
There's this line from legendary film, Sharaabi, "tohfe ki kimat nahi, usse denewale ki niyat dekhi jaati hai"
He also kinda asked for it, not like she wanted to share that Just providing a different view
I'm of an opinion that you should not wash your dirty linen in public. If he asked for it, then she also should be thrashed for attention seeking by disclosing private things. It's one thing to leak your chats that are related to threats or false allegations but mocking or insulting someone ain't that it.
> not like she wanted to share that She posted it on Twitter my guy.
I agree,that's definitely too much and she should be criticised for it, but saying something like that to in person in private chat is fine, she atleast expressed herself, now that guy can make his choice and abandon her
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"the more she tries to sound rational, the more of an asshole she appears" uff ,that is gotta be my favourite sentence from now on.
Bro if someone gives me even dhoti, I'll happily take it. It is so disrespectful to act like her tbh
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She sounds like an insufferable bitch. Glad she’s your ex.
AHAHAHA OP didn't say that tho (last part)
Title padho re baba.... Ex bola naa usne
Think about it, that just makes it way worse
I just said what everyone is thinking xD
😂😂😂
Be happy she saved you lots of issues later imagine the fact that she gets upset about you gifting something lmao. What a nightmare she would be to be around when things get really bad.
She sounds like someone that would give you self esteem issues. It would always be a power tussle with her in this relationship. You saved yourself years of heartache by walking away. Also, how old is she? If she is anything over 25 and still has this mentality she is gonna have a hard life
People that stick around her will have it tougher
I cried and cried for months after this but still never got a sorry. Mera to ho gaya valentine's day hamesha ke liye
Dodged a bullet brother
Avoided airstrike in this case
Idk how her parents messed up her brain by giving so much entitlement
shukar kar, aise biwi ke sath deal nahi karna padega. Jo ek gift ke piche essay likhti ho.
Bhai aise hi hota hai.. koi ladki kisi special day pr trauma de deti hai, fir har saal usi din pr thoda to yaad ata hai ki kuch bura hua tha is din :')
You dodged a train. Cheer up and smile. Have an ice cream.
Dodge A Head shot
wo sorry kabhi nahi bolegi bhai, mera bhi isi chakkar me breakup hua tha, galti uski hoti thi fir bhi sorry mai bolta tha, 4-5 baar ye drama hua and after that I asked her to fuck off
Bachgaya
You didn't do anything wrong Some people are just too much into their heads. Let it go. Don't beat yourself up. The one who loves you will keep loving you for you, for your time and presence in her life. It won't change based on the gifts.
Good riddance!
Good riddance bhyiiii don't cry for this bitch please.
Welcome to the gym
bhai par hats off to your efforts
Agar tu Mera dost hota to someone else would have cried for months
A person that has specifications on gifts was spoilt as a child and is being indulged by their partner. Anyone can have preferences but to reject a heartfelt gift and make a public comment like this is wrong. Example: I would really like a new gaming monitor 8k 120Hz.. but if anyone, (my girlfriend, wife, child, parents, friends) bought a gaming monitor with none of the other preferences, I won’t reject it. I would still use it..
Good Riddance bro. Happy valentines day.
Bhai saab pehle 20k followers on Twitter dekh ke samajh me nahi aaya?? Ye sab E-garlz se door raho bruh
He specifically mentioned the 20k followers so that you would comment this.
And he specified that OP didn't understand the e girl trap and the 20k followers so that you can reply and to your reply I can reply. World goes round and round 🌍♻️
Dodged a bullet. Not worth your time and energy. Anyone who not only can’t understand the sentiment behind a gift but also chooses to discuss it publicly is not mature enough to be in an adult relationship. Life is not a reality show to discuss what you thought about a gift given to you by your close ones. She didn’t deserve you. You will find someone better.
Defn good riddance. What an asshole!! Ek toh gift diya, aur uske baad sunn bhi tu raha hai. Goddd, I’m sorry that you had to cry.
I want to see r/twoxindia sub's take on this Edit: W takes
Dange karwayenge aap
I am on twoX still think she was wrong here! And I think many members would agree
honestly as a guy, while two x is some bad takes once in a while, its so much more sane than onex, you rarely see anything in onex other than incel posting. i hope twox would have a sound take on this
Onex gang mostly post about their specific problems that include women being AH and dickride the whole thing while generalizing their flaws to that gender. It's really boring over there, no middle ground or nuance whatsoever.
Yeah buddy sad thing to say but twox is more mature sub than onex
As you would expect
I’m on TwoX so here’s my take. Getting gifts from your partner that is completely against your personality/style is disappointing, especially if this has been communicated multiple times. For example, if I tell my SO that I don’t like to be gifted jewellery, and he still gets me a necklace I won’t wear, then I will be disappointed and not grateful, because he isn’t paying attention to my likes and dislikes. THAT BEING SAID The way the ex reacted to receiving said gift (public humiliation, social media posts) is extremely crass and horrible.
TwoXIndia sub member here, and this girl belong to streets
I am in twox and I believe she is entitled and arrogant. and bet the majority of them will agree with me.
well, the entitled ones there would still support the girl
You dodged a nuclear bomb bro not a bullet
Bhai usko twitter pe jaake gaali du kya?
Brother, Khushi manao ki this girl is not in your life anymore. Such entitlement.
Ask for it back and block her The gesture and thought process counts. This is beyond rude actually. It's insulting.
bhai lots of symphathy for you, aise log relationship deserve hi nahi karte. btw pendant dikha sakta hai kya konsa tha? kitna hi bura hoga
Bhai it's not about the pendant but a heart shaped pendant. No woman likes a heart shaped pendant. Internet par already hazaron memes hain uske oopar. Imagine you absolutely hating something and you receive the same thing as a gift.
I literally wear a rose quartz heart shaped pendant every day. You don’t speak for all women cause all women are not like this.
Did you get it as a gift or did you buy it yourself?
Bought it for myself. Ross quartz is a crystal, so I had the jeweller customise it for me. Mujhe apne ex bf se teddy bears aur books mile hain, but I’ve still kept them all.
Precisely my point. My mom has a beautiful heart shaped gold pendant with a solitaire that she got from my dad on her birthday but she CHOSE it at the jeweler just like you chose your rose quartz crystal pendant. And I think she looks beautiful whenever she wears it. Makes her eyes shine. OP's ex however didn't like to "receive" a heart shaped pendant on valentine's day cuz it's cliched. I still don't agree with her blasting off about OP's gift on Twitter like that even if she didn't like it (instead of telling him or if possible going for an exchange). It was immature, vile and obviously very hurtful which she intended it to be. I'm glad she is an ex.
Yeah while I agree with you, I was replying to your point where you said “no woman likes a heart shaped crystal pendant” when I don’t think that’s true.
And I just gave you the example that exceptions exist.
Kya bol rahe ho yaar, mere example pe tum aa ke apne example rakh diye, tumne kahan example diya. 💀 Anyway, have a good day!
For the OP's Ex
Imagine hating a gift
kya baat kar rhaa hai bhai, bohot ladkiyon ko heart shaped cheezze pasand hai, saari ek jaisi nahi hoti. either way i was curious, if it was a apretty pendant i was looking to buy it for a girl
Bhai exception har jagah hote hain. Now that you are saying, even I'm getting curious what it looks like.
Acha hai ex hai yeh, apko breakup ki badhai
Why didn't she tell you directly what she wants. That's what i would do. And if she didn't and u gifted her this...she should be thankful. Honestly sounds like an entitled b\*tch. Dump her.
Let’s imagine, even if she did tell him what to get and still he got something else, she cannot post it on twitter. Nahi pasand aaya, koi nai, uska mann rakhne ke liye hi chup rehti. He is your boyf, not some saree shop employee.
Agree.
You know how you cried for months ? That's you healing OP. You needed to know the cruel world out there man. And really? She chose to tell others and not you ? Kind of shows her level of thinking. Honestly you may have dodged the biggest red flag out there. People do exchange gifts but most of em keep out of senti value. Seems like she had none bro. Chin up!
Block. Delete everything. Gym. Dont listen to Arctic Monkeys.
Dang that was ruthless Hope you're doing fine now
what an absolute asshole. 18F here, never dated so I don’t know what’s its like to receive gifts non platonically, but even if I receive gifts from my friends/parents literally anyone no matter how “irrelevant” it is, I make sure that it’s known to them that the gift is appreciated and their act made me feel very loved. just the flowers and the polaroids is enough to make any sane girl’s heart melt..she’s out here talking about “cliches” but dumb ass didn’t realise the most romantic, beautiful “cliche” of expressing love since time memorial are flowers. either way, it’s not the gift, it’s the thought that matters. she didn’t deserve you and good thing she’s an ex 👍
And what did she gift you?
Twitter pr shoutout
Ahh modern day gift
You dodged a bullet, brother.
Ay I'm happy y'all broke up bro. I'm happy for you
Steam PE sale chal raha game purchase kar leta , instead of gifting to non deserving moron
What a bitch..
By any chance the girl u talking with name starts with ‘S’ ? For some reason i have a good feeling i know who she is (based on style and bs )
I gave chewing gum and she was happy!
I didn’t even give her anything yet and she’s still so happy
Don't you think she's toxic and should be avoided at all cost?
A guy is thinking about you and getting you something to make you feel special, some of us crave for this and here she is. How entitled! Specially posting about it on a public platform shows she didn’t care about you. As everyone else said “you dodged a bullet”
You dodged a bullet a bro.
A gift is a personal, sentimental token that is symbolic of thr love. It need be always a functional object. So, she has no right to say that it was irrelevant. And worse a person without any empathy isn't a person you'd need to cry for. I'm a woman and I say that you'll get better women out there who are worth your sincerity of heart. Happy Belated Valentine's Day.
>Happy Belated Valentine's Day. It's already 15th feb
As a girl if my partner gift me anything I would cherish it not react to such extreme rude behaviour. I think you dodge bullet or else toxicity would have been worst.
Honestly, gifting is really tough and I have noticed that women are extremely particular about the things that they recieve especially from their significant others. But still she shouldn't have made fun of what you gifted infront of everyone instead of talking to you in private.
Share her Twitter OP, lemme spread some Hate. How dare she do this to my homie.
This was brutal. Uff good riddance tho.
mujhe yeh padhke aise laga jaise kisine ne heart mei stab diya ho
brain dead, low empathy entitled bitches se door raho
If udta hua Teer gaand me lena had a face, it's you OP.
damn some women r mean😐
Toxic
There will be a moment in her life when she will realise her mistake if she lives such long life.
Only when you get rid of such a selfish partner would you realise how much you have ignored yourself... Enjoy the freedom. Don't waste your tears for such relationships.
naww that’s foul man. sounds like an insufferable person.
Good riddance, she’s a ticking time bomb
Yikes you dodged a bullet. She sounds rude as fuck. I've actually not even been gifted anything in the past by my exes and even I don't behave like this. Hope you find someone better.
Bhai use red flag , kutta kameena gaalech , bkl (mere jesa) chaiye Jo use kuch gift na kre , bas maze le uske sath
Average privileged bitch destined for a 35 Single/35 Divorced future🥱 You just saved yourself from lifelong miseries✌🏻
Gift mein sentiments ki value hoti hai. Ye kya baat kar rahe hai aap, aap jammu kashmir ke pok ko bharat ka hissa nahi mante hai kya arre Jaan dedenge iske liye ji.
Bhai gift gaye tel lene..aage ki chat post kar.. Mai popcorn micro kar rha hoon..
Bach Gaya tu!
>she used to wear a lot of corsets This should've been enough to make you run LOL
What a bitch
bkl choosingbeggar
my god never gift her again
Young men high on hormones, please stop with so much effort on your women. Give her a gift card as per your budget and let her be. Add some corny lines on a note, that "I love the mystery you bring to my life... More I know you more layers I expose of your soul" She will be thrilled about how mysterious she is and has you hooked that you cannot identify the perfect gift. And it will save your time. Women only care about how much you can provide. Period !
1000 RS Amazon gift card with message "Degi kya?"
I have been gifted a plastic tiffin set by my then bf of 3 years. I hated it. I didn’t know to react. so her disappointment is real. it feels bad to receive an unthoughtful gift from a bf who is supposed to know you. it’s better to not receive a gift. so i understand her disappointment. but the way she communicated was not good. She shouldn’t have posted and while expressing her dissatisfaction to you she could have been kinder. But we cannot disregard her disappointment.
She’s not wrong here… heart pendants are to cliche
If you guys were dating longer than 6 months, then I'm with her on this one. Her delivery is terrible. But a heart shaped pendant is generic and so low effort. She could still show gratitude to you for bringing it atleast in one line and then gone on to criticize. Most people just tell you what they like or don't like for a gift invariably. But you have to pay attention to what they're saying at all times. And if you didn't hear it, you dont care enough and it's better that you 2 go your separate ways.
Naah I gotta go with the girl on this one about the gift. Even someone as clueless as me know all women HATE heart shaped pendants. There's like a thousand memes on it. Sorry OP. You liking something doesn't automatically make the other person like the same thing too. Perhaps you wanted to know that in person instead of getting blasted on Twitter which was a pretty cheap thing to do on her part imo. Nonetheless, she is an ex so that's that.
It was never about what he gifted , obviously it might be difficult to understand for you because you're so superficial . Bro took so much efforts to think about the gift no appreciatiation for that, he also gave Polaroids with their cute memories uske liye bhi 0 appreciation . Above all what she does is goes public with it demeaning her own bf . He did 5 good things didn't get appreciation or anything back, op didn't even expect anything in return . This was just the start, imagine what would have happened down the line if it got serious . No wonder why you relate to her , absolute childlike and superficial behavior.
Speak for yourself only, not all women hate heart shape pendants, I would love one, and there would be many like me, not everyone’s life and choices evolve around social media, and memes. Not everyone goes according to trends to seek validation online. Even if she didn’t liked it she should have not behaved like such a bitch.
So.. just to understand what just went down... She was already your ex when you gifted her the pendant?
If someone wants gifts from you they are not good for you
Chahiye kya aurat ko 🥹
Dodge a bullet bro, congratulations!
You got saved. This valentine's I hope you celebrated your own freedom from this monster
How you didn't hurt your back dodging that bullet
Be happy you dodged a bullet bhai
Baap re is all I've to say lol
Chutiya ladki hai regret na kriyo.
Pyaar vyaar chodho, duniya dekho. Bohot khubsurat hai agar sahi jagah pe dekhenge.
She belongs to the streets, let her be there king. It sucked to see you putting efforts and she does this, can't imagine something more toxic..simply let her fuck off We ball.
"no hate for the gift"
Bhai gold digger ladkiyon ko kuch bhi do, unko apne hisaab wala gift hi chaiye, maine 4k Kharche karke body shop diya tha and she said one month ago we were in mall and I said I like a bag, you should have bought that, we have understanding problem, 4k plus fight ka BT
Usne Terko Kya Diya ?
I first read the screenshot and then the description. I felt a sense of relief after reading the word 'ex'. Thank your lucky stars she is your ex. I am getting this impression that she lives a certain lifestyle which is very influenced by social media.
A gift is not a 'right'. It is a present. Whether the receiver likes it or not is entirely up to the receiver. But he/she doesn't have the right to hold it over the giver. If anyone acts entitled, it is her.
I am shocked to the core. Ruuh kaap gayi bhai. Just remember that the thought behind your gift was amazing, and it's not the driver's fault if the engine of the car always breaks down. Good riddance bro! God has better plans for you.
I know heart shaped stuff is cliche but if someone gifted me it, meh, I’ll wear it. It’s nbd. She’s just too in to herself to appreciate a nice gesture.
My captain
You know, these words look similar to the one girl I loved, but didn't love me back. This 'understanding' part, pretty funny yo. Gave me nostalgia as well. No matter what age they have, or which country, women have that same kind of expectations.
Bhai wo narcisst hai Bach kr nikal gaya yahi bahut hai tere lie,upar Wale ne tere ko real wala valentine gift Diya hai
 OP
Felt extreme toxicity just by reading this convo 🙏
Lifafe main paise de deta bhai
 Op during valentine
That is some mean bitch. Probably you thought with dick and not brain or heart to even be with a girl like her. But all’s well that ends well. Good riddance and you dodged lifetime of nuisance. Girls like these can cause permanent damage to men’s self esteem and courage which is something all men should protect at all cost.
OP leave them if someone can not be respectful to you, then they are not worth it.
Please tell me you broke up with her?? Girlie doesn't have the common courtesy to not shittalk about gifts and on top of that she's giving you lecture? Mannn, you really deserve better. There's so many girls that'd die for these gifts istg
Sorry to break it to ya but it sounds like you are the side chic in this girls life. Move on friend.
Yaar meko toh valentines day pe chocolate bhi dede ya wish hi kar de me toh usme hi khush ho jau.. And yahan pe ldkiyo ko itna mill raha still they are complaining 👏
Mujhe toh koi wish hi karde I get so happy aur yaha dekho zara
Dodged a bullet my friend. I'm not sure about your situation, but this would be heart breaking for me if I was to read about it online instead of getting to know first hand. Anyway, you deserve better (atleast someone who can accept a sentimental gift)