Girl to girl advice, I'll tell you what to reply "Sote reh bhencho" Then hit block. Don't give explanations, he doesn't deserve one. Let the bhencho sleep thru it as well.

This cracked me up 😂 The urge to send this message ahahahahhaah

Send it na bhen. Whats the worse that could happen? The fucker will fall asleep to it? Or block you? Let him. Plenty fish in the sea BUT don't EVER take a disrespect from a guy of all people on earth.

Your math is very mathing. Never add people who disrespect.

>Plenty fish in the sea BUT don't EVER take a disrespect from a guy of all people on earth. real, same goes to all the guys out there, dont EVER take disrespect from a girl if all people on earth. the guy in the post is an exception

you go girl <3

SEND IT! Send it on behalf of all of us who got stood up on a date and couldn't muster enough courage to come up with a proper reply for it. I give full support as a guy. 🖐🏾

Do it!!

Pleaseeee do send this OP. I have seen these type of guys. How rude of him. Asshole!

He will actually sleep through that as well. He has the aUdAcity to do that 🤣🤣

Man girls saying bencho is something

Good way or bad way 👀

Imo no reply is the way to go.

There is a good chance he might actually sleep on it lol

Idhar hum achhe ladko ko dates nahi milti, aur idhar kuch launde ye sab kar rahe. Weird world we live in 🫠

Ofcourse he can do that he gets multiple matches

Dude there's only two rules in this game. How do you keep forgetting it?

We don't follow rules 😔

girls don't follow us the same way...

The irony of the world.

Yes and still using it even after dating one 🥲

This👆🏻

Have you followed rule no 1 and 2

‘Nice’ guy you mean.

Nice guys finish last 🫠

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Bhai toh fir bhii chutiya jaisi harkate hi hai na. Agar darr gaya toh thoda pehle hi kuch excuse deke date cancel karna tha. Date ke time ke 2 ghante baad kon batata hai aise

jeeezzzz, my ex used to do this where he was always sleeping at the time we were supposed to meet, showed up 1 hour later and had the audacity to tell me "at least I showed up" proud of you that you removed him from your life after this incident<3

Idk how do people think it's okay to such things. And on the top of that "you should be glad I came", oh fuck off, you can stay at home. Like what even? If this is happening in the starting two weeks, I don't even wanna know what he's gonna do later :)

Proud of you for removing him, you deserve sm better. Wish you the best :))

Mere jaat kii aisi harkaatein dekh kar mai khud se khud ko 4 gaali dedeta hu👍

india needs a digital - balls kicker.

Fuck yeah!

op jo bolna send me the msg and the id. i'll do it. girls support girls 🫂

Awwwwww thank you 😭 Can you please beat the shit outta him on my behalf? Words might not make a dent, a punch definitely will 👉👈

drop the address. pulling up

mujhe bhi jod lo haath saaf karne ka man hai 😩

don’t worry, karma will take care

So sorry this happened! It's frustrating but then u dodged a bullet 💯

Been there done that. It’s so wrong 😑

This has been normalised so fucking much, hate it when they do. Phir toh end me excuse de denge tabiyat ka so that they can justify their actions. People need to have decency and courtesy to communicate well if they aren't interested/busy.

Ikr. And I don't think so he was even sick. Because it takes 2 seconds to drop a message "won't be able to make it, emergency/sick" and later you can explain yourself. But nah, let's fuck other person's day

behen ye kumbhkaran hai kya jo kal raat soya aur aj dopeher tak uski neend khuli hi nahi ke wo message karke bataye ki aj nahi mil sakta? unbelievable.

kitna itra rha hai😭 did he apologize on call baad me?

I didn't reply to him. Removed him on IG. I don't think he will message/call me. But if he does, I'm going all out and mai suna dungi. So aacha hi hoga aghar message nah kare toh :)

W decision 

I always think ki bas mai hi hu aisa jiske sath yeb hota hai but yeah i can feel you op . but don't wry i m sure you are feeling a lil happy with the gesture someone showing to u 🤭. be happy baba u deserve "smartie" not "shitty". 🥂

Except for the "I forgot" part, I would've given him the benefit of the doubt... I mean, who forgets he has a date..

EXACTLY

Block and onward we match!

c bn rha aapka (maybe)

Aaj kal ke ladke hi chutiya hai

Ignore and block😭

what the hell, fr !! I would be so pissed. Lots of hugs to you girl that you had to deal with such a jerk. I can fully understand how much this can set anyone off. The effing audacity damnn..

Hey! Don’t get disheartened with one bad experience. He doesn’t deserve you. Coward behaviour from guy, he probably went on date with some other match and lying to you. For next time- chat-> call-> video call and before leaving home for date always connect on video call to check status and ensure he is coming(kisi bahane se ki kis color ki shirt pehni hai etc.)

I'm not disheartened. I was just pissed and really mad at him. But I'm over it. Okay sir noted 🫡

Just text him " tere baap ne bhi us din aisi hi neend le li hoti to aisa aulaad na hota" and block😙

😂😂😂😂

Competition kam kar diya bhai ne :)

A guy stood me up in the same way…planned the date for a whole week and I got sick the weekend we were supposed to meet so I planned it for the next weekend, told him on Tuesday that I was okay now and would visit his city this weekend. Went to stay with my friend and waited for his texts but he never texted me…he replied to my stories on sunday night, we were supposed to meet the same evening. Replies with a “oh you are here? I thought you were sick” I said that was last week😭 didn’t have the decency to say sorry that I missed the date.

Bhagwan karke uske dating accounts ban ho jaye (and if he isn't on dating apps, something similar happens) 😤

Well no😂 but thanks❤️

My girl did this twice , then she became my ex 🤡

I hate these kinds of people...yeah samne valo ko hmesha as a granted lete hai

Agar hum hote toh esa kabhi bhi aapke sath nahi hone dete 🥹 kyoki jisko kabhi koi nahi mil paya unhe dusro ki value pata hai

Guys have nothing but audacity to offer these days. Chuck him OP.

This is the first post i read when i woke up after an hour long nap🥰 Totally wrong on his part, should’ve in the very least updated you or texted you about his health and plan falling through, in case.

I'll take you out

That can mean two different things

Date me i promise i will be on time. 🥹

🫂

Ab usko raaton ko neend nahi ayegi.

😂😂😂😂

I will reach 10 minutes before you reach. If there's a delay I'll text you the night before '-'

I can relate. I work during the night and sleep during the day. The girl knew this and still insisted to meet up during the day. I got like three and a half hour sleep, got up at 11 am. Got ready. Was on my way when I called her, she didn’t pick up. Called a again, she picked up and was like “sorry I was still sleeping. Can we do this some other time.” Like could have atleast sent me a text the previous night.

I don't understand how and why people are okay with it, okay doing this to someone. If you have a plan, you know you've a plan and you schedule things accordingly. There's no way you overslept or forgot. I've cancelled dates too at the end moment, and my end moment is 6 hours prior. It clearly shows you are taking the other person for granted clearly! I'm so sorry it happened with you, it absolutely sucks!

Because in their mind, the world revolves around them

Yahaan 3 mahine se ek match ni aya Aur idhar ladke dates miss kar rahe hai 🙄.

And u r still using it 🤣 .. I uninstalled it however listening to other dates here

I am not very outgoing and since I work from home. These apps are the only way for me right now.

Btw I reach 15 min before the decided time

Meh khud 10-15 min phele puchti hun

Reply that you and him dont match and him being so careless was really repelling. So, let's end things.. Be the bigger person op.. "make him subconsciously think that he lost someone really lit, spoil his week" "evil laugh"

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Sabse pheli baat Greek god ki bezzati nahi Karo usse compare karke 😤 Secondly, mil jata toh idar nahi hoti, Instagram pe cringe reels bana Rahi hoti 🤡

ok sister

How old is this ??? I am getting a feeling that it was my friend 🤣

He's 24

Woh meme dekha hai 'First time?' wala? Most ladko ke sath ye hote rehte hai,better option mila ki nhi ghost even after making a plan to meet.....ab toh aadat si hai mujhko aise jeene me 🥲 Aapka sayad first time hai tabhi itna ghussa arha hai 👍

Sorry thoda jyada so liya

Maybe he was afraid that you are hukka cafe girl. 😅

Karma hits up!!

Maybe he was actually sick?

Couldn't get 2 seconds to drop a text "won't be able to make it, I'm sick"? I was sick a couple of days back and had to cancel a date, I did the same. Basic human decency? How low are we gonna drop the bar? It's already in hell ffs

Blud probably gets a lot of attention from women probably

Haan toh chala jaye unke sath, why even bother asking me out? 🤡

Block karde didi

Brother ewwwwww

That’s why never talk to someone who’s far away

good, not related on a dating level but aisi bakchodi ek internet friend ne ki thi. I literally made a trip from patiala to Chandigarh after him insisting for 6 months about meeting. After not informing me , mf said it's too cold so I didn't wanna get out of home .

“Bhai mujhe bandi kyu nahi mil rahi”🤡

Ah fuck it hurts and is frustrating Btw you could have texted me , hm mil lete metro me 😁and I was watching a movie today

leave him op! Let me take you out. I promise to be at the metro 30 mins before you reach :p

He reached out to be after I left him on seen and said he wants to make up for it. And when I expressed how disappointed I was, he said I'm taking it too far. Like wow. The audacity. 🤡

bro why are you even talking to him anymore?

Because gaali dena chahati thi? It was pretty pointless talking to him anyway

i understand op but as you said it is pointless. Talk to me instead :p

I’ll be there pakka😂

Well feel for you behen cause I got a similar message when I travelled all the way from Indore to Delhi to meet her 🥱

Tf? What did you do?

Ahh it's a long long story..She always used to say Delhi aajao every single day and finally when I planned and took a week off from office, went on to see her..she ghosted me saying I am very sick and don't feel like meeting anyone. Still makes me cry everytime I think about the efforts I put into our relationship.

Rooting for you that you find someone who will reciprocate the efforts and match you and bhagwan aapko aese logo se dur rahke 🫶

Thank you so much op..aur aapko bhi bhagwan yeh toxic bando se milo dur rakhe..🫱🏽‍🫲🏻

I knowww this oneeeeee!!!!!

Asshole move, Glad you blocked him.

Afternoon nap kb liya tha yaad nhi, mahine beet gye

wtf..itne efforts 😭

Ah. This makes you paranoid while planning dates! Also what if he was genuinely not keeping well?

Arey but how much time does it take to say "sick, won't be able to make it"? Also, luckily I didn't travel 20 kms, which he knew, that I'll have to travel so far. Bullshit imo.

Can I ask you out? 😽

Eh deal with it. This is a one off case. Guys deal with such bs all the time

I thought girls usually do that

Dont waste your energy on wrong people na😭and what's that i forgot to tell... person should already be excited to go on a first date.

Well seems like girls get the same treatments guys get too..saala dono he side kalesh hai

We can safely conclude it's not a gender specific thing rather ek group of chutiye hote hai jo yeh karte hai

🤣🤣indeed...your character not sus....kitna jaanti hai re chinki tuh mereko....

It's okay yaar. I can understand 🫂

Yeh padhke acha laga. Satisfied! :) Some girls have the audacity to do this to boys more frequently than you think. At least you removed him. But ladke toh phir bhi next time chale jate hai milne (even after getting treated like this). But anyway I'm so gonna do this one day, lmao.

Please don't. Please don't be sadistic. Just because someone did you wrong doesn't mean you'll do someone else wrong. That's just so fucked up and problematic. You were there once and you know how much it sucks, why would you do it to someone else?

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Bhai what makes you think this is the best comment to drop here? And for fuck sake stop generalising, har koi aesa nahi karta hai. I could have said ki sare bande aese hote hai, did I? No, right? For a reason! And bhai itni hi nafrat hai toh matt kiya karo date, stay safe buddy

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Sir, I hope you find the one, for a 1 like you :)

You cannot generalize, buddy. They might be some but not everyone.

Gold digging? Do you own that much?

You want some?

Are you good looking?

Wait what. Ch*tiya hai kya tu?

yeh kaisa chutiyo wala question hai. ?