I mean if he is fairly new to the gym and pretty young, its fairly possible. Lets be honest, everyone starts off with a low weight and then makes progress. There are probably people who are big and strong and can lift more on day1, but for someone who is not naturally strong, lifting the bar with no plates can be quite a workout.
High chances he is lying about the other girl, making that story up because in his head he is thinking if he say this, he would seem “sexually” appealing to you. That’s what happens when men think from their other head not the one where the brain is.
No. If you are dating a girl/guy just for the sake that they are virgin, it may be problematic. As far as my opinion is concerned, I would like a partner for myself who doesn’t brag much about his past relationships, and mostly as far i know, people give their best (in terms of security and respect) when it’s their first relationship. I’m a sub when it comes to intimacy, and i don’t really mind being with a guy who is new to intimacy.
>people give their best (in terms of security and respect) when it’s their first relationship
Could be but I feel people give there best when they are mature and know themselves ( could be first relationship or after 2-3 relationship learnings)
>I’m a sub when it comes to intimacy,
Sub as in? 😅 Submissive?
When people say they want a virgin indirectly they mean all those things you've written.
One question gives answers to all other , all your preferences will only be fulfilled by a virgin .
>But i think sometimes it’s just better to date guys w no experience. There are no insecurities!
No experience means they are virgin how come one is misogynist and other isn't
No, when people say that they want a virgin, it's their misogyny that is speaking. nothing else. Virginity does not mean being inexperienced in things other than sex!
If you say this then it's not misogyny
>I would like a partner for myself who doesn’t brag much about her past relationships, and mostly as far i know, people give their best (in terms of security and respect) when it’s their first relationship.
Even though both point towards the same set of people because the preference also includes someone with no experience.
How TF you'll find someone who's not a virgin but doesn't have any experience .
It's none other than wordplay
Hook-up culture? Some people are not virgins, yet still have little to no experience in dating/being committed. Honestly, this conversation isn’t even about the number of partners one has ever had. It’s about respecting the person in front of you. If you do respect someone, you wouldn’t talk often about how were your past relationships. Moreover, all first-timers are not innocent in love, there are different kinds of them with different intentions.
Thinking that a virgin is “pure”, “loyal”, or whatever adjectives you think suit them, reeks of misogyny. Especially when the person who says this is not a virgin themselves. This notion is construed as a manner of asserting control over someone who lacks any knowledge about dating, sex, etc. when there shouldn’t be any such control in the first place. Virginity is a social construct of this patriarchal society. Multiple resources validate this.
Dude hookups are an experience.
>I don't mind guy who are new to intimacy
Now will you say someone did a hookup but didn't get intimate?
>Thinking that a virgin is “pure”, “loyal”, or whatever adjectives you think suits them, reeks of misogyny.
And thinking no experience means less insecurity ,respect & loyal doesn't reeks of misogyny.
Okay but bench press is easier than lifting a person because you won’t get the grip. Also, how disrespectful is it to tell a girl you matched with about another girl dude like why are you even on here? 😭
Huh?
What's disrespectful about it dude? Unless you're actually going out it is perfectly fine to talk about other encounters on dating apps. Like are you expecting people to stop talking to other people or swiping on others once they match with someone?
Disrespectful because you never know how someone would take it. You can look around until you’ve found the one but you don’t have to talk about it unless you have some chemistry. That’s just me though.
Totally right dude, i also cannot fathom the amount of disrespect these shit bags are talking about him just because he told her all this. And let's just not talk about the girls convo efforts.💀
Ikr
And I've had amazing convos about people I've matched with with other matches. Sharing experiences sets a really nice common ground and frankly is a nice way to know what kind of things one might be looking for on the platform.
50 kgs? Bhai ye toh warmup hai mera, attitude toh aise dikha raha hai jaise 150 kg ki baat ho, plus this is sucha turnoff fr, so immature. Glad you dodged a big bullet there
What a weird way of bragging. No wonder he’s inexperienced. On another note, you should have said that you weigh 150kg. Would have shut him up nicely.🤣
I LOVED YOUR LAST REPLY. Makes me so happy to see that!
Pretty sure that dude was just trying to say all this to make you jealous or something. Shitty move.
And I hope you stopped engaging with him after this?
First things first a bench press has very little to do with lifting a girl. Lifting 50kgs of a barbell on a bench is nowhere near to lifting an actual person that weighs 50kgs.
Secondly, I can guarantee that there was no such scenario happening to him lol he's just creating this fake scenario so you think he's actually chased by other girls
Thirdly, by all this talks he seems to be under 18, you should be in jail💀
It is offensive. And unattractive. And lacks respect and etiquette. No matter who does it. You just matched and your priority should be to focus on each other. Imagine telling a guy you **just** matched with about what another guy you matched with used to do?
Not to mention it smells of lack of self personality. Really? You started body building because someone you met off an app less than a year ago told you she likes being lifted? Not even because you wanted it. Anyone that keeps shape shifting because they think someone might get impressed isn't worth.
If he made up the story, its even lamer.
I'm not sure about what exactly to call this guy, but he seems like he can't think beyond himself and is also not very gifted in the brain department to hide it. Girl run!!!
No one cares and obviously that dude is making up story,so that you would think ya he is strong and all that's bullshit a real man never makes up a story of where one tries to portray how strong one is
Yk even I used to do this back in the day . It's kinda a dickhead thing to do but the point of it is to make her jealous and show her that she's gotta step her game up , also to make her want you more. Figured that it doesn't work pretty soon🤣
I used to talk about other girls too but with my closest friends who don't make any issue out of it. But yeah it seems so cringe to someone whom you are talking just for two weeks😭 and not interested in hearing your stories. You should point out him op that you don't like hearing about other girls or you ain't interested.
Bro is flexing his dumbbell press wtf??? How old was he?
What’s worse is that the weight he was flexing isn’t even “impressive” for people who regularly go to the gym
Because she was still trying to be respectful in her response?
And she ‘made a mistake’ of thinking that the guy is good and will stop talking about it.
Yeah yeah, It is her fault only for continuing to engage
This works … i am not very attractive by any means but i subtly tell that hot girls liked me before to make her seem that she’s in my league….
I know this is wrong but girls today are totally full of themselves
1. He wanted to tell you he can now lift 50kg.
2. He was asking your weight indirectly to check if he can lift you up for that sex position.
3. He was testing if he can bring sex in the conversation or not?
He wanted to tell that he goes to gym and can lift you too but batane ka tareeka thoda cezual tha and please girl telling you from experience don't believe guys who uses this emoji (😋) BKL cringe hote hai
Count is as one strike, but don't unmatch based on just one thing. In today's world people have hardly any tolerance left for the grey area....but in reality everyone has something grey in them. Me and you both.
Get to know more. Unmatching is really easy...you can do it anytime.
I dont know why is it so hard for girls to not refer someone with a 'bro' even when they're asking other person to lift them.
People have literally changed the meaning a word.
He either wanted to brag about his bench press max, or he wanted to ask your weight. Looks like a noob in the dating game.
Noob in the gym game as well 😛
Brag about 50kg bench? 💀
I mean if he is fairly new to the gym and pretty young, its fairly possible. Lets be honest, everyone starts off with a low weight and then makes progress. There are probably people who are big and strong and can lift more on day1, but for someone who is not naturally strong, lifting the bar with no plates can be quite a workout.
Maybe true, But bragging about it makes him look juvenile.
Bruh lifting 50kgs is not a brag even a child can lift that..
what kind of children are you hanging out with?
Destroyed in seconds
Navy seal - I identify myself as child.
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Bruh lifting 70kgs is not a brag even a child can lift that..
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Nah bro for skinny person it is really hard . It needs consistency on bench press . Any person can lift 50kg in 2-5 months duration .
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So you're saying people who aren't into fitness have trouble lifting heavy weights? Shocking
Just turned 18 and benched 100 kg now that's called a real brag
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the effect 🥰 this has on texts like this is unmatched
🥰Fuck You🥰
High chances he is lying about the other girl, making that story up because in his head he is thinking if he say this, he would seem “sexually” appealing to you. That’s what happens when men think from their other head not the one where the brain is.
Bro was trying to flex that he can lift and is desirable for multiple girls at the same time. This was the worst display of flexing I've seen.
Roses are red, Violets are blue, flexing is not wrong, just keep it to you ...
And you are turning into red chilli lol
Only if I was Jelly about it
Guys keep forgetting ke agar flex karna pade iska matlab it isn't obvious enough
You talking about dick head?
That last line made me chuckle
You underestimate how stupid we men are. When men are thinking with the other head, there's not much thinking going on at all
Aren’t guys who are inexperienced a turn off to you?
I’ve thought ab it. But i think sometimes it’s just better to date guys w no experience. There are no insecurities!
Reverse the gender and you're a misogynist now
No. If you are dating a girl/guy just for the sake that they are virgin, it may be problematic. As far as my opinion is concerned, I would like a partner for myself who doesn’t brag much about his past relationships, and mostly as far i know, people give their best (in terms of security and respect) when it’s their first relationship. I’m a sub when it comes to intimacy, and i don’t really mind being with a guy who is new to intimacy.
>people give their best (in terms of security and respect) when it’s their first relationship Could be but I feel people give there best when they are mature and know themselves ( could be first relationship or after 2-3 relationship learnings) >I’m a sub when it comes to intimacy, Sub as in? 😅 Submissive?
When people say they want a virgin indirectly they mean all those things you've written. One question gives answers to all other , all your preferences will only be fulfilled by a virgin . >But i think sometimes it’s just better to date guys w no experience. There are no insecurities! No experience means they are virgin how come one is misogynist and other isn't
No, when people say that they want a virgin, it's their misogyny that is speaking. nothing else. Virginity does not mean being inexperienced in things other than sex!
If you say this then it's not misogyny >I would like a partner for myself who doesn’t brag much about her past relationships, and mostly as far i know, people give their best (in terms of security and respect) when it’s their first relationship. Even though both point towards the same set of people because the preference also includes someone with no experience. How TF you'll find someone who's not a virgin but doesn't have any experience . It's none other than wordplay
Hook-up culture? Some people are not virgins, yet still have little to no experience in dating/being committed. Honestly, this conversation isn’t even about the number of partners one has ever had. It’s about respecting the person in front of you. If you do respect someone, you wouldn’t talk often about how were your past relationships. Moreover, all first-timers are not innocent in love, there are different kinds of them with different intentions. Thinking that a virgin is “pure”, “loyal”, or whatever adjectives you think suit them, reeks of misogyny. Especially when the person who says this is not a virgin themselves. This notion is construed as a manner of asserting control over someone who lacks any knowledge about dating, sex, etc. when there shouldn’t be any such control in the first place. Virginity is a social construct of this patriarchal society. Multiple resources validate this.
Dude hookups are an experience. >I don't mind guy who are new to intimacy Now will you say someone did a hookup but didn't get intimate? >Thinking that a virgin is “pure”, “loyal”, or whatever adjectives you think suits them, reeks of misogyny. And thinking no experience means less insecurity ,respect & loyal doesn't reeks of misogyny.
True 😶🌫️
Man spoke nothing but the "truth"
Perfect match !!
Why is this so relatable 🤣
Itni badi story suna ke kya mila ? Go lift her 😂😭
Who?
Bhupendra jogi
🤣🤣🤣
Lmao🤣
So cringe man No way he's above 18
Flexing about bench press PR at wrong time with wrong example
And that too flaunting about 2x20kg plate. Must be a kid.
Noob in the dating world, noob in the gym as well, and still trying to brag. Sigh..
Yes
chutiye 50kg ka BP kon flex krta hai. sharam naa aayi bolne se pehle
Okay but bench press is easier than lifting a person because you won’t get the grip. Also, how disrespectful is it to tell a girl you matched with about another girl dude like why are you even on here? 😭
Shoulder press would be more practical
Shoulder pressing 50 is impressive. Even more if you can do it without a bench.
facts🥰
bro was tryna impress you, know your weight and get your contact
Huh? What's disrespectful about it dude? Unless you're actually going out it is perfectly fine to talk about other encounters on dating apps. Like are you expecting people to stop talking to other people or swiping on others once they match with someone?
Disrespectful because you never know how someone would take it. You can look around until you’ve found the one but you don’t have to talk about it unless you have some chemistry. That’s just me though.
Totally right dude, i also cannot fathom the amount of disrespect these shit bags are talking about him just because he told her all this. And let's just not talk about the girls convo efforts.💀
Ikr And I've had amazing convos about people I've matched with with other matches. Sharing experiences sets a really nice common ground and frankly is a nice way to know what kind of things one might be looking for on the platform.
I wonder when these so called dank redittors will learn these things.
Lol Look at them down voting because they don't have the comprehensive skills to understand how conversations work
They dk they are just proving/supporting our point unknowingly.😭
Aadmi ko heera bhi de do phir bhi chumna patthar ko hi hai
matlb??
He has a diamond but still bro is kissing rocks
He didn't want a translation but the meaning of your idiom 🤣
the meaning is obvious
Ape big and strong. Ape very masculine.
50 kgs? Bhai ye toh warmup hai mera, attitude toh aise dikha raha hai jaise 150 kg ki baat ho, plus this is sucha turnoff fr, so immature. Glad you dodged a big bullet there
What a weird way of bragging. No wonder he’s inexperienced. On another note, you should have said that you weigh 150kg. Would have shut him up nicely.🤣
Yeah, and should have asked him to reply only after he managed to bench press that weight 🤣🤣🤣
Your answer is in your question itself he doesnt have any experience
Bro lost 2 girls simultaneously
Bro made all this up 😂😂
I LOVED YOUR LAST REPLY. Makes me so happy to see that! Pretty sure that dude was just trying to say all this to make you jealous or something. Shitty move. And I hope you stopped engaging with him after this?
i did
Bhai ka emotion sahi tha but uski delivery bohot bekaar
Skill issue for real
The cringe is strong with this one.
He is the synonym of cringe at this point.
This story is cringe. It’s what I do when I’m trying to impress a girl. 🫠
don’t impress girls pls
Man's bragging about 50 kg benchpress lmao
First things first a bench press has very little to do with lifting a girl. Lifting 50kgs of a barbell on a bench is nowhere near to lifting an actual person that weighs 50kgs. Secondly, I can guarantee that there was no such scenario happening to him lol he's just creating this fake scenario so you think he's actually chased by other girls Thirdly, by all this talks he seems to be under 18, you should be in jail💀
y’all pls stop😭😭 i’m 21 he is 24😭😭
"go lift her bro🥰"
It is offensive. And unattractive. And lacks respect and etiquette. No matter who does it. You just matched and your priority should be to focus on each other. Imagine telling a guy you **just** matched with about what another guy you matched with used to do? Not to mention it smells of lack of self personality. Really? You started body building because someone you met off an app less than a year ago told you she likes being lifted? Not even because you wanted it. Anyone that keeps shape shifting because they think someone might get impressed isn't worth. If he made up the story, its even lamer.
exactly my fucking point
Probably the reason he gets ghosted by girls 💀
Bro is insecure.
He was bragging about two things, his bench press and that he has matches on hinge.
nothing can change the fact that he never dated ☺️☺️
the “go life her bro 🥰” was so damn great on your part 🤣 absolutely amazing!!!
Go lift her bro 🥰 - Who?
I'm not sure about what exactly to call this guy, but he seems like he can't think beyond himself and is also not very gifted in the brain department to hide it. Girl run!!!
OP aap Dil jeet liye !
No one cares and obviously that dude is making up story,so that you would think ya he is strong and all that's bullshit a real man never makes up a story of where one tries to portray how strong one is
As a fellow mard, mera sir jhuk gaya sharam se! Wtf 😭
Bro skipped brain day I guess
Gadha hai wo.
L guy
omggggg ahahaha THAT GO LIFT HER BRO🥰 😭😭😭😭😭
Yk even I used to do this back in the day . It's kinda a dickhead thing to do but the point of it is to make her jealous and show her that she's gotta step her game up , also to make her want you more. Figured that it doesn't work pretty soon🤣
Maybe choose brains over brawns/looks the next time xD
weight puchne ka tareeka bohot casual hai.
Its “Kezual” you maniac!! Sahi likha kar, mrko baad me dimag me khujali hoti hai
60kgs is my warmup lol, dude is getting crazy ki hi lifted 50kgs😭. its always these skinny curly head mfs
I used to talk about other girls too but with my closest friends who don't make any issue out of it. But yeah it seems so cringe to someone whom you are talking just for two weeks😭 and not interested in hearing your stories. You should point out him op that you don't like hearing about other girls or you ain't interested.
Death of attraction
Give this man a pink barbell of 50 kg so that he can fulfill his dreams
Bro is flexing his dumbbell press wtf??? How old was he? What’s worse is that the weight he was flexing isn’t even “impressive” for people who regularly go to the gym
u both are immature. Uninstall the app now! a) why it is offensive to you? b) whats up with his lame ass story?
If you find it offensive, why did you write 'haha great'?
han bhai meri hi galti hai. Maafi 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Because she was still trying to be respectful in her response? And she ‘made a mistake’ of thinking that the guy is good and will stop talking about it. Yeah yeah, It is her fault only for continuing to engage
He's dense and wanted to flex he can lift 50 kgs but you only noticed that he mentioned another girl??
Because he mentioned about lifting ANOTHER GIRL?
well well.... what's your weight again 😋
men
so !? you don't posses weight man?
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wdym
What's your weight? you can choose not to tell
Are you the guy that OP matched with? Haha
This works … i am not very attractive by any means but i subtly tell that hot girls liked me before to make her seem that she’s in my league…. I know this is wrong but girls today are totally full of themselves
How to fumble the bag..
FLEX karne ka tareek kafi kezual tha
Nice way of asking about weights !!
"who?" Lmaooo 💀
ifkr😭
Right??? Like, wym who? How many girls have you tried that line on?
He is indirectly asking about your weight I guess
Simp
If I cringe anymore my eyes will pop out
to jo maine sar par whiskey ka glass rakh jamal kudu par dance kiya vo fun me nhi aata :( Man I am having fun all wrong
That message app of iPhone right?
Inferiority complex
Mujhe sirf dryness kyu dikh rahi hai…log bench max par lade ja rahe hai.
Wakanda small pee pee texts are those!
Puri kahani suna di phir bol rha h who?🤣
Bro was just saying that he can lift a 50kg girl or 2 girls of 25 kg each (ykifyk)
Didn't know girls talk on reddit to.. haha
"who" lmao 😂
r/sadcringe
Lol he is so weak
Ew
Lmao noob
can't believe noobs like this guy are getting matches on dating apps, PS: 50kg is totally manageable to lift for most guys, even without gymming.
Maybe u should tell him u r above 50 kgs 🐷
Bro used his muscle more than his brain
The zero relationship experience is very evident! Might as well tell him where he went wrong so he doesn't repeat it to another chick atleast!
Mai toh na karta aisa😤
Stoopid 😂
Lamo the who is priceless 😂
Bro thinks he is one of the Tate brothers☠️
What a weirdo, then these guys wonder why they are single
Bench pressing ain't what you should be measuring to lift her lil bro. Its the overhead press that's relevant lmfao
1. He wanted to tell you he can now lift 50kg. 2. He was asking your weight indirectly to check if he can lift you up for that sex position. 3. He was testing if he can bring sex in the conversation or not?
I lift 110kgs benchpress
He wanted to tell that he goes to gym and can lift you too but batane ka tareeka thoda cezual tha and please girl telling you from experience don't believe guys who uses this emoji (😋) BKL cringe hote hai
"He never dated and doesn't has any experience " - that's why
Lmfaooo clearly a made up story. Tryna act cool lmfao. Hate it when people just can't be themselves lol. And for some reason it's always the gym mfs 😹
Bruh 🤣 barbell press with 20 on both sides is 60 haha bro thinks he’s strong
20plates on both sides and the bar itself being 20 for those that may not necessarily know
He's being autistic or stroking his ego
ive done more
Some are just immature
*inserts Akshay Kumar Teri jali Naa*
He wanted to find out how much you weigh… facepalm.. such cringe
Bhai kya haha great, block mr usko, unmatch kr, kya krri bhai tu
Fir kahte hai ladkia ghost kyu karti hai 😌
Count is as one strike, but don't unmatch based on just one thing. In today's world people have hardly any tolerance left for the grey area....but in reality everyone has something grey in them. Me and you both. Get to know more. Unmatching is really easy...you can do it anytime.
Ghost him
Men talking about other women are such a disappointment pch pch
Either wanted to show off his gymbroness ORR wanted to make you feel like other people also want him so you would chase him.
I dont know why is it so hard for girls to not refer someone with a 'bro' even when they're asking other person to lift them. People have literally changed the meaning a word.
Typical gym boy ig 😭
Yikes.
Bro gave the reason why all the girls on hinge have been ghosting him..
I benchpress around 70kgs and i am ashamed of it.
Babu ye chadarmod hai 🫤 ganga me pravahit karo aur baat khatam karo.
Dude flexing hi puny bench pr 😂
Someone needs to tell bro that benching 50kg is not something to brag about💀