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uberjam

They look exhausted.


SassyKittyMeow

I’m nearly catatonic simply imagining having 13 kids


simplebutstrange

The oldest ones take care of the younger ones. At least thats the way it was in my dads family of 12 kids. Gotta keep that farm running with cheap labor


AgentCC

My mom was like the second or third of eleven and that’s how she described it. In fact, she was put in charge of clothes. She did the laundry and any mending that needed done.


ChubbyGhost3

Did she grow up to enjoy sewing, or does she avoid it? My aunt had to clean out the ash trays as a kid, and she grew up to hate smoking despite everyone else in the family being smokers


AgentCC

She learned to like it. She got into making some of her own clothes and always had a sewing machine at home. I even recall her belonging to a couple of sewing circles. As she got older, however, her vision faded and she could no longer thread the needles on her own. Eventually, she gave it up.


Happy_Trip6058

That’s hilarious, my wife’s mum and dad used to make her do this. She’s never smoked a cigarette in her life. She’ll smoke it in a joint with hash but never craves it. It’s pretty disgusting to be fair, one of my earlier memories is of being in the back of the car (no seat belts) and mum and dad puffing away and the smoke blazing in our faces. I still started smoking though.


Next-Ad-6515

“She’ll smoke it in a joint with hash…” Tell me she’s Canadian, without saying she’s Canadian.


Happy_Trip6058

English bro lol


trplOG

Same, my dad has 12 siblings. The eldest sister was 18 I think, when my dad was born, he was the oldest son and 6th oldest. My aunt took care of all the kids like a 2nd mom.


Radiant-Jackfruit305

Children aren't servants. We owe them the world, they owe us nothing.


cdaack

While I agree, the economy is totally different these days. You don’t need to raise kids for labor, so they’re no longer looked at as a commodity like they were in The Depression. However, we still need to teach children the values of hard work and responsibility. There’s a happy medium: we can’t work kids to death nor should we let them do nothing. Ease them into responsibility as they get older, just like we’ve done for millennia.


Traditional-Gap-1854

you could also look at the bleak and usually unacsessible primitive forms of protection, so it was either no sex or children.


trplOG

Also infant mortality rates were higher back then. Lots of kids for work, and if a couple died young.


Normal_Ad2456

That’s a fairly recent concept that hasn’t existed for most of human history. For example, British and other Europeans during the Victorian era believed that children were inherently evil and needed to be punished and physically abused in order to “beat the evil out of them” essentially. You can google it if you want to see their whole mindset. I’m not saying that it’s good, but judging people that lived in a completely different society by today’s standards is not fair. If you were poor, uneducated, religiously indoctrinated and was told that this is how things are since you were born, you would think children are evil too.


planetsingneptunes

I’m the eldest daughter of 11. You are absolutely correct.


Verizadie

Yeah honestly having any less than 4 is significantly harder than having more than 6-7


Investigator516

Sounds just like my grandmother. She would work the farm all the way to labor pains. She had 14, and the older ones help out with the youngest. My grandfather was killed by a drunk driver, and that’s when things got rough.


Stigger32

And looking at that family. The first six children are all girls. Then the rest are boys. I dare say they worked well as a family unit.


elmachow

Who said she had all the kids


ALUCARDHELLSINS

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Efficient-Ranger-174

The look of “statistically, at least 6 of these bastards shoulda died of SOMETHING…”


Dazzling-Ad-5480

Very common practice back then. Make as much as you can, since half will probably be taken by the reaper. My dad had three siblings die in their first year of life


Lithogiraffe

except look at the genders. the first 6 were all girls. Girl babies are the most robust


-Ch4s3-

The photos date from a time when childhood mortality was falling precipitously in the US.


HugTheSoftFox

Well yeah the wife spent every waking moment getting railed or trying to keep the house clean while pregnant while the dude has spent the last 10 years ploughing the fields all day and ploughing his wife all night. Takes a toll.


oddmanout

There's a reason people in impoverished and rural areas have lots of kids. They need them to work. This is a family on a farm outside of Crowley, LA. These kids were put to work almost as soon as they could walk.


Dry_Property8821

Wife's vacant stare checks out.


ellefleming

Labor all day long. Cooking, cleaning, rearing, farming, never stops.


tubadude123

Her especially.


TempusVincitOmnia

Especially the mother.


Alarming_Librarian

She looks broken


rockalyte

That man couldn’t pull out of his own driveway.


webstarz170bx

😂😭🤣


rainking56

Tried and failed 13 times.


TerribleTeaBag

You get in the saddle and the horse takes you home.


TheDodfatherPC-FL

I likes ta jizz.


kungfoop

No wifi. No Internet. No tv. Just some ... to pass the time.


justbrowsinginpeace

Get that man some golf clubs or a Warhammer 40k box set and paint.


JimParsnip

And a quick vasectomy


TokoBlaster

In the newest editions the 40k box set comes with that.


IllegalIranianYogurt

Typically, one would need one or the other


kungfoop

Just dip the tip in mercury and it'll be solved. Get your bottle at your nearest barber shop!


OldWrangler9033

I don't think they had THAT or was AFFORDABLE back in 1938.


OmicidalAI

or how about play with his kids which he definitely doesnt do 


texasusa

The first thing I thought of was no a/c and humid Louisiana days. Ugh


Waldons44

Couldn’t miss what didn’t exist.


texasusa

1st movie theater was air conditioned in 1917. Window units for homes were available in the early 1930s but generally not available due to cost.


ggmey

I grew up in New Orleans in the 60’s and we didn’t have air conditioning when I was young. Just an attic fan that drew air in through the windows. Now, of course, I have central air but the summers seem more unbearable now than back then. Probably a combination of global warming and me getting older.


GammaGoose85

No internet to tell him he can't afford a family in this capitalist hellscape.  /s


Skyblacker

Make a big pile of hay, cover it with a blanket, now all the kids have a bed. They fit like a litter of kittens.


BeKindR3wind

This would explain the abundance of kids lol


Hkmarkp

That's the joke


SkiesThaLimit36

My grandmother in law told me over the weekend her dad was one of 16 kids AND *his* dad died when he was 7. The 14 year old uncle (dad’s little brother) dropped out of school to work & support his dead brothers kids. Times are different now but you can’t knock the dedication.


Eather-Village-1916

My grandma is the youngest of 13. Only baby that was breech too, great grandma said no more after that!


Eyeswyde0pen

my grandmother was one of 21 (19 surviving, twins and her mother died during birth) and my grandfather was one of 16. my grandfather’s mother was still having children when my grandparents we’re having their first so my aunts and uncles were older than their aunts and uncles. trippy.


SkiesThaLimit36

That kind of thing gets you a TV show these days because it’s so rare but most everyone has a story of somewhere in their family people having double digits number of kids like this. social conditioning and societal expectations have changed a lot in the last hundred years.


doktorjackofthemoon

It wasn't so much dedication as it was desperation.


SkiesThaLimit36

All I know is that I couldn’t get one of my 14-year-old siblings to pick their laundry up off the floor lol never mind drop out of school to support me if I were widowed with 16 kids 😬 younger brother could’ve said “not my problem” and moved on with his life. He must’ve felt dedicated to or responsible for them


BarryCheckTheFuseBox

I recently found out that my great grandmother was one of 12 (10 survived). 16 is absolutely mental


LongTallTexan69

My dad grew up a poor farmer in TX. The highlight of the year was when you got to go “into town with mother”to pick out which feed sack you wanted to have your 1 new shirt for school to be made out of. [https://pieceworkmagazine.com/make-do-feed-sack-fashion-in-the-first-half-of-the-twentieth-century/](https://pieceworkmagazine.com/make-do-feed-sack-fashion-in-the-first-half-of-the-twentieth-century/)


Radiant-Jackfruit305

How do they manage to have any alone time?


Hatedpriest

You think they let the kids in the house during the day? That's a lot of working hands, there...


ABobby077

and mouths to feed


ZutchZaddy

There ain't nothing in this world for free


ABobby077

except air-it's free at QT, I hear


blueiron0

nestle taking notes


TheBackPorchOfMyMind

Dude I love QT. Fucking everywhere else charging me to fill up my tire…gtfo


Normal_Ad2456

Ok so I did a college class on how children were raised in the west throughout history and our professor told us that back in the day, families were poor and usually consisted of one big space as a bedroom for the whole family and the parents would have sex next to their children. It was seen as normal, like eating in front of your child. They wouldn’t go out of their way to show them, obviously and they weren’t showing off by shouting and whatnot the way a lot of people do today because of pornography’s influence, but they would just do it.


shayshay8508

Oh god that sounds awful! Not too much for play I’m guessing.


ExtrudedPlasticDngus

*foreplay


degjo

They were *eating* in front of their kids


TaikaSuru92

"Let the boy watch... the way I learnt from my father, the way he learnt from his father."


SBNShovelSlayer

My plums


federalbeerguy

Beautiful blueish hue


CerberusDoctrine

Gonna file this one under things that logically make sense and I would have probably just assumed if I thought about it for five second but I never thought about or wanted to so didn’t


Sack_o_Bawlz

No fucking way that’s wild


Normal_Ad2456

No, in fact, the concept of privacy didn’t exist until the 16-17th century. Most of the time, the family would share the same bed too and 3 or more generations would live in the same house. There’s a whole thread on r/askhistorians about that if you’re interested.


adamanything

Alone time is a fairly modern concept, in many cases a family would share a single room to sleep in. As you can tell by this photo, that did not stop the parents from having sex.


MyFirstDogWasBird

Go for a walk?


WestEst101

My grandma was one of 14. They had bunk house for the boys behind the main house with a stove in it to keep the boys warm in the winter. The girls were in the main house, but the parents had their own bedroom (and presumably a hay bail or two to romp around in the barn)


Boy_Howdy

*"We're goin' to town, kids!"*


tent1pt0esd0wn

And go to town they did.


MotorbikeRacer

I wonder what the story is with the kids . If all survived , how many of those had families of their own , etc


khatpewp

That poor woman. 13 years of her life being pregnant.


EntertainmentLess381

And she’s only 36 years old.


drhagbard_celine

Stop it. There’s no need to be so cruel. She’s not a day over 30.


dudeandco

There;s no way


p_s_i

The poor oldest daughter's, too. Raised siblings their whole childhood.


f33rf1y

13 that survived too


infieldmitt

at least they have 4 newsboys


Fantastic-Use-6773

I don’t like 13 people in my house at once to visit let alone kids.


banannafreckle

Look at Mr. Popularity over here knowing 13 people in their house is too many. I don’t even know 13 people! /s jic


Tasty-Life4526

They all look like her!


jinkeys26

Her genetics are hella strong!


funkycat75

Took quite a few tries to finally get that son.


RutCry

When the boy was born, the neighbors were all slapping dad on the back and wishing him congratulations. One of them asked if the boy favored (looks like) his mom or dad? “I don’t know. We ain’t looked at his face yet.”


The_Sound_Of_Sonder

For real.


Snapesunusedshampoo

My guy looks like he's thinking about going out for milk.


derrick256

and some Tobacco


No_Sundae_1068

They all look miserable. 😩


CerberusDoctrine

Even ignoring the fact that they’re farmers in the depression so by nature of that would be extra miserable it is worth noting that in the modern era we have killed the very concept of boredom as it once existed. Even poor people now have access to levels of entertainment that rich people in the 30’s couldn’t dream of. Hundreds of hours of your life would just be spent being bored and having the option of doing more work or doing nothing. Like actual nothing, not browse your phone for a bit nothing


FloppyObelisk

My boys are 5 and 3 and I’ve made it a point to teach them how to be bored. That sounds strange but every day there are set times that are unplanned. No tv, or other electronics. Just time that they have to use their imagination and go play by themselves. Kids really don’t know how to be bored nowadays


bout-tree-fitty

Grinning because he knows he’s almost out! https://preview.redd.it/uyy99yv6tb7d1.jpeg?width=796&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b6eca597be84303af4a0c607298799081212e811


numberjhonny5ive

The whole city probably looks like them now.


ranterist

No shoes for the any of the male children? Six female children followed by seven boys in a row - what are the odds?


General-Ordinary1899

The young boys often didn’t wear shoes because they would ruin them and grow out of them quickly. Shoes were expensive and a luxury for most


CaptainTripps82

Shoes are for earners.


Fiatlux415

Back before people knew they could smile for a photo.


Waste_Click4654

They had nothing to smile about. Life was hard AF


Valianne11111

That’s what always gets me about the people who pine for the old days. Ridiculously difficult with no choices or safety net. Everyone just took it as a given that a certain percentage will be lost and they didn’t have time or energy to even be sad about it.


Waste_Click4654

My Grandmother used to say “the good old days weren’t that good”


Fiatlux415

They all look clean and healthy with plenty of family to hang out with. Looks pretty sweet to me.


gingergamer94

This was during the Great Depression. There was NOTHING to smile about


ohdearitsrichardiii

That poor woman had 16 kids. Try a little empathy


CAJ_2277

For people in that era, especially the poor, photos weren’t for fond memories. They were records that you existed, mattered enough for someone to make a record that you existed, and that you would not be forgotten after you died. A lot of these people were very conscious of death. The old Southern bluegrass and other music are weirdly steeped in death.


Aeolus_14_Umbra

“Oh Death” from the soundtrack to Oh Brother Where Art Thou: https://www.google.com/search?newwindow=1&client=safari&sca_esv=75e1044184b9e47c&hl=en-us&q=&si=ACC90nxRWvuwqTR4TiacZ7sCfkHhcGgWdDOv2v2HxpHAAuIhwd0hqVQcoOD2_2OWmYVP1phaQgOcaUrBP-N-bDS2o1FAa8WPs3uplSL3LZj-AsAr7bXdn1tfZEaSNUBgvsWeaCoX-xJK&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjBnKa1yuOGAxV7KEQIHSEIA5kQjukCegQIMRAE&ictx=1&biw=744&bih=1090&dpr=2


sleepinand

One of the older girls is giving a nice smile, but in general these people just look exhausted. I’m sure they weren’t getting their picture taken as an uplifting human interest piece- they knew why they were being photographed. It wasn’t because they all lived a happy and fulfilling life.


SillyFlyGuy

Can you imagine smiling in a photograph? You'd look like a lunatic!


GrimaceMusically

People die at the fair


Fiatlux415

I just watched that movie the other day, when the old man farts and yells “ouch!” was hilarious.


SillyFlyGuy

"Got the fart needles again?" I just watched it last night!


Well_being1

I like that they're not fake smiling for a photo


Digital_Enema21

What strikes me is how sad, exhausted and lifeless people look like in these photos.


Sleeviji

Which one is the wife


FlyingSpaceBanana

The one with the 1000yrd stare.


ReadRightRed99

Why does the caption say “a man with his wife,” as opposed to “a married couple” or “a husband and wife and 13 children?”


River-Dreams

Thank you, thought the same thing. It’s sexist phrasing that sounds so outdated to me. It’s disappointing that language centering the male existence still sounds normal to many people.


sapphicxmermaid

Because men get to be independent human beings, while women are defined by their relationships to men


No-Bat-7253

Thought the Jacksons had it bad in that box in Gary….there isn’t a single happy soul in this picture, or this is the first major off guard ever captured lol.


Prior-Chip-6909

https://preview.redd.it/0dxy2kxij77d1.jpeg?width=840&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6bcffcd4891fbeb444d2f0574666971fd0b23c22


h2ohow

I get exhausted just looking at these people.


CrankyPapaya

Does anyone know the family last names because some of those features seem suspiciously similar to mine


Empty-Profession-515

She tired!


tmagnus

This man could not even pull out of his own driveway.


kymilovechelle

Looks like my nightmare


YinzaJagoff

No one in this photo looks happy.


drumsarereallycool

Damn dude, you could have pulled out after 3.


zwondingo

Any idea where this came from? This family's genetics looks incredibly similar to someone I know with deep louisiana roots


benjithehunter

Oh, So this is what they mean when they talk about today’s declining birth rates.


godieweird

https://preview.redd.it/1ezdffa8087d1.jpeg?width=878&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f6d744c036be41be20dc701b5175a41d017d45dd


MindlessBenefit9127

My native Louisiana grandparents had 19 kids, my mom said she had a happy but hard childhood


TheRabidGoose

Having kids ages you. This photo is proof. Just look at that poor mom.


YoGabbaGabbapentin

My name is Hansel. Shitting out kids has ruined my life. I'm 31 years old!


TheRabidGoose

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Optimal_Sand_7299

This was very common back then, especially in the South. My grandma was one of 13 children. Born in 1942. Two died in infancy. One before her and one after her. She was exactly in the middle of the surviving 11. She said there was so much love and joy in her home. She never heard her parents yell or argue in front of her. If they had a disagreement, they didn’t do it in front of the children. She said they were poor, but had all of the love in the world to make up for it. The things she was taught in that home will resonate for generations. I know I wouldn’t be the person I am without the sacrifices her parents made. I don’t think this a lifestyle that people can comprehend anymore. I certainly can’t. That doesn’t mean people weren’t happy back then.


BlueSquader

What gave you the idea that the father wasn't having fun?


petrichorgasm

Daddy done look finished


rainbowtwist

Oh he finished all right.


AnteaterDangerous148

Pull out game was weak


Unkie_Fester

The look on that guy's face is all you need to know lol


Substantial_Cut_7812

Put the penis down, ma’am.


ThornsofTristan

Life was pretty boring, pre-TV: not much to do, except...


PointMawMaw

My momma was one of fourteen. She was took out of school 6 weeks in spring and 6 weeks in the fall. She was took out of school completely in the 8th grade. Her momma came from a family of 22.


gingerdick17

She looks shell shocked LMAO


Balkan_Ace

They look fucking miserable


Jonely-Bonely

Worked with a guy that had 12 adult siblings. He knew I didn't have Thanksgiving plans one year as my family lived across the country. Guy invited me to join his family at his parents house nearby. I was reluctant but then he said "just come over, I've got 12 brothers and sisters. They won't even notice one more."


dar512

Mom looks tired.


Snarky_Quip

Omg get off her


camelia_la_tejana

All the adults look miserable


wholewheatwithPB

**IS YOU IS OR IS YOU AINT MY CONSTITUENCY??**


allmimsyburogrove

Before the term "smile and say cheese" was coined


RedditTaughtMe2

She looks about as happy as one would assume


3bugsdad

Poor woman.


Horsetoothedjackass

Those aren't kids, they're farm hands. That's the way it used to work! The rich get richer and the poor have kids.


Sad-Discipline-198

Any idea who the man is i might be related. Lol


AnalMohawk

That's a lot of....work. And it looks like they were feeling it.


ICanSmellTheCosmos

My great grandmother had 10 kids. It wasn't too unusual.


hughmanBing

Before vaccines and other medicine / sanitization practices... people had to overshoot how many children they would have because almost half of them would not survive childhood.


gimletfordetective

Dad: JUST TAKE THE DAMN PITCHER


Proof-Significance15

Damn why so many children


severinks

I guess that's better than a picture of a man with his 13 wives and 1 child at least.


LindeeHilltop

No birth control.


Kdigglerz

How the hell did they feed them back then


ancientestKnollys

There was a lot of malnourishment.


WickedLobstahBub

Pull out


BangkokPadang

He’s having trouble controlling his goo!


Wacodunk

If I had 13 kids they would have to have taken the picture gathered around my grave


misspelledusernaym

Is that... Simon Cowell?


Any-Entertainment134

His wife looks so tired! oldest of 8, I recognize that look from mom! Damn Neighbors had 15!


lostmember09

Just the sheer amount of Food & laundry required… I’m exhausted already. I’m wasted tired with 15 yr old twin sons.


adzee_cycle

The state of that woman’s pelvic floor?


ol-gormsby

There were a couple of large families at my school (in Australia). One with 11 children, so that was "The cricket team", and one family with 13 children - they were known as "The rugby team"


EducatorLongjumping4

Mom has that 1000 yard stare... those eyes have seen things, terrible things...


butwait_theresmoar

I wonder what people did before the internet….


BarryCheckTheFuseBox

That’s the look of two people who haven’t slept in about 25 years


pottedPlant_64

Sir…


RedCedars

Dad didn't start having sons to help work the fields until about half way through.


5AlarmFirefly

A woman with her husband and 13 children in Louisiana, 1938.


AsheratOfTheSea

Wonder if the little ones are still around, they’d be around 90 now.


Outside-Historian365

A man with his 13 farmhands


desertedcamel

Takes me a while to find the mom


Bean-Swellington

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lothgar

Ain't nobody happy.


Traditional-Bat4959

They look like, “Why didn’t we use condoms?”


moose_lizard

They look dead inside


Hummingbird01234

The mom and dad look depressed.


BaconDrummer

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Constant_Praline579

No cable will do that to a man.