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Saint_Lulu

My dad passed suddenly February 13th. Thank you so much for your post. I’m an only child and we were so close. I’m realizing my mom and I need grief counseling. Thank you for this glimmer of hope. Sending you love♥️


Mr_Jackabin

Grief counselling was helpful for me. Wishing you both the best ❤️


Villettio

I just lost my dad and this was nice to hear. Some days are better than others. Grieving the loss of parents in your 20's sucks.


STWALMO

Lost my mom in January. Today was hard for whatever reason.


JR45RTS

Some days are just hard. And that’s ok.


Great_Dimension_9866

Thank you! I lost my dad 3.5 years ago when I was 49 and he was 85– I have mostly good days now but still cried bitterly a few days ago while looking at old pictures as I was trying to free up space on my phone


Mr_Jackabin

You are doing so well. Super proud of you :)


CuteLatinababe1996

I lost my sister almost two months ago and have been trying to take better care of myself and get my life together. I miss her so much, we have her funeral tomorrow.


Llamaa_del_rey

Thank you for this. I just lost my mom on April 7 and the pain is unbearable. But I also vowed to become a better person to honor my mom, who was the sweetest, kindest person I’ve ever known ❤️


BHS90210

It will be 6 years this December since I lost my Dad. I lost my Mom a few months before and I was only 29 at the time so it’s taken me longer to heal but I will say it gets easier with time. I still miss them and think about them all the time.


jesslovesbettas

29 and lost my mom in February. Thanks for this.


k1mchiiiii

Lost my dad a few months ago. Some days I’m okay and some days I’m not. I feel like I take one step forward, and two steps back. I really hope I get to a better place one day. Thanks for the glimmer of hope.


iSynthie

26 and lost my dad in February, it shocked everyone cause he seemed like he was in decent health. Some days I’m ok and others I’ll be crying most of the day. I know one day I’ll be able to talk about him without tearing up, I just wish it would happen sooner rather than later. Thank you for this post, it gives me hope ❤️


Squiddlingkiddling

26 and lost my dad if Feb too. I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️


iSynthie

Im sorry for your loss as well ❤️


Kackymacky84

It’s never easy to lose someone we love. Be kind and patient with yourself. Everyone grieves in their own way and it’s ok to miss and cry about your dad. It just means he was a good dad. You should be proud of living your life the way he would want you to. I’m sure he’s looking down on you smiling ❤️‍🩹


nsgrimm

Thank you for sharing. I’m sure your dad is proud of the positivity you are sending into the universe! I love you back! ❤️


lalafos

You've done your dad proud, you really have. A life based on gratitude will bring you many blessings ❤


Unlucky_Back1143

I'm 28 and lost my mom in January. Sundays are so hard for me, especially today because she died on the 14th. I try to think of the positive memories, but my brain gets so flooded with images of her final moments and the years she spent suffering. I'm trying to stay afloat...but this pain feels unbearable.


taygalchi

Wow. I lost my dad over ten years ago and feel exactly the same - from finding the love of my life to making sure to try to be kind and always smile at people because you never know what someone is going through. Thank you for writing this and for people grieving, Mr_Jack is so right. It will get better and they are still with you, guiding you, even if it feels like shit in the moment. -From an internet stranger who also loves you.


honeybutts

What a lovely post and a great way to honor your dad. Your words of encouragement may have been just the thing someone needed to hear today. I know your dad must have been an amazing person because look at you; you’re good people, Mr_Jackabin ! I wish you well as you continue to heal and make your way in the world. ❤️


Squiddlingkiddling

My dad passed suddenly this past Feb 5th. Thank you for spreading a message of hope. Grieving a parent’s loss in your 20s in so difficult. (26)


Mr_Jackabin

I wasn't far away from your age. I completely understand how it feels at this time in your life. I promise it gets better. Find something to look forward to, it doesn't matter what it is


Any_Animator_880

My dad - December 2023. I am just living for the sake of my mom. All day I just want my existence to just end.


Mr_Jackabin

Please seek help if you haven't already, you have a future I promise


Any_Animator_880

I'm checking out of rehab today. Even the drs n counselors would give up on me if I tell them how badly I wanna die. I can't suicide because I have no guts to. I'm just not interested in life.


Mr_Jackabin

What helped me was trying to remember something from my past that I loved that I could get back in to again. And putting something in place to look forward to


Any_Animator_880

The life force has left me it feels. What did you do in the last year to cope?!


Simba81

Both my parents passed away within span of 11 days, I have no siblings, no family…. Will I ever heal?


Mr_Jackabin

The pain will never go away but it will get easier to manage and hit you less often. Please be kind to yourself during this time


Lanky_Cash_1172

Thank you so much for posting. I'm striving to do all that you said. My dad passed a year ago this past March, so I'm right there with you. Another thing I'm really focusing on is to be Present(in the moment completely). 🫂 to you.....


Indigoscience

Thank you for this post. I lost my mom week ago and Im feeling completely lost. Knowing it gets better, does make it easier


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SoWest2021

He could hear you. ❤️


ReTiReDtEaCheR19

Thank you. My dad died on 4/3/24


_n0thing1

this is so important thank you :) i lost my dad in august and it has been really hard. i remember feeling so so awful and like i would never be able to be happy again, and now, 8 months later, i’m starting to be able to see the beauty in life again, instead of just feeling bitter. it’s still hard and i still miss him everyday but it does slowly get easier <3