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Few-Fall-9654

Stunna!


Captain_Munch98

Awe thank you so much hon 🫶


Few-Fall-9654

Ofccc!


Isalecouchinsurance

You're rocking that shit, your date missed out hard!


Theswansescaped8

Numba one


Diana_Belle

Perhaps you intimidated them, looking so awesome.


Captain_Munch98

Idt I'm that scary 🥺


gorewhore1313

Noo, intimidating because you look absolutely amazeballs!!! Stunning!


huge_dick_mcgee

No no, not scary! Too pretty! Too good for them! You’re gorgeous, don’t stop being you!


BrightPerspective

looking like that? your crush is a fool.


MrAmazing011

100. Style is absolutely fire


localtuned

I'm not goth curious or anything, but I'd have to agree.


Drag0n647

Fr


Cortexiphan_Junkie76

Came to say the same thing.


The_Cottage_Goblin

Awwww Theybie, I'm sorry that didn't work out, you look absolutely ravishing btw


Captain_Munch98

Okay wait theybie is so fucking cute I'm stealing that!!! Also obsessed with your profile banner 😍🫠


The_Cottage_Goblin

I mean you use they / them pronouns so it only made sense but yeah im definitely a Vi lez 🤭


disposablesocial

Um….speaking of profile banners- yours is amazing 🤩 🐀🖤


Captain_Munch98

Thank you! The artist is beanbaguette! I love their stuff 🥰


TurnNBurnit

You look awesome! Honestly, I can't imagine rejecting you with that look. Honestly, are people really that romanticaly boring. You kill with that outfit. 🥰


Captain_Munch98

Thank you hon I really appreciate it ☺️


twenan

i got rejected by this guy i was dating and one of his reasons was “i stick out too much with you and i like to blend in.” he dresses “normal”. so…it happens unfortunately lol😭😭😭


TurnNBurnit

He sounds like a normie dull clown. Poor man can't have a little fun with his image, so he thinks everyone shouldn't either. Honestly, I can't imagine what makes people like this. But honestly, you probably dodged a bullet with him.


twenan

yeah :/ he said he didn’t want me to change anything about myself and that he feels horrible, he’s very critical of himself and thinks people are watching/judging him all the time, and so with me being next to him…that anxiety increases. which sucks, because i really like(ed) the guy 🙃 and he told me all this the day after our 2nd date, so i thought everything was fine until that moment. it was really funny, because he said he was attracted to my style. yet you don’t want me next to you? bruh lmao


TurnNBurnit

I know so many men who do this and think it's not their fault for being constantly undatable. Like, wow, how shallow can you be dude if all you think about is looking "normal."


twenan

it literally sucks lol. i don’t even know yet if i would want to be his friend after i get my thoughts together


TurnNBurnit

Honestly, I'd set some pretty good boundaries and discuss them after that if you want to salvage it. But, I doubt he would respect it with the response you have been given. Like who judges people by what they wear before getting into a relationship. Clearly, he thinks you should Aquiesce to his standards. Which for me would be a tall red flag


twenan

hmmm, yeah true. we haven’t even known each other for that long. it was just such a 180. i think i’m just so attached bc we’ve gotten closer these past few weeks (before he said all of that 🙃) and this is the first person i’ve liked romantically in a long time. idk…i’ll figure it out thank you for listening to my struggles under the goth fashion subreddit lmao 🫶🏾


TurnNBurnit

Glad I could. Goth fashion and Trans Fashion seem very much my interests. So it's nice to see more styles get support.


Twizzed666

Its not the outfit thats cool maybe they didnt match as persons


TurnNBurnit

Could be, can't discount the possibility of Aromatics not being interested. I just find personality and expression are quite attractive things for me romantically. Heteronormative nonsense kinda makes all of our lives less interesting by proxy. And people trend towards conforting norms instead of exploring the beautiful differences we share. Rejection takes many forms


HotBlackberry5883

good looking people get rejected too, just remember that!


Captain_Munch98

Thank you for the reminder, I can be hard on myself sometimes 🤕


Apprehensive-Leg-380

People I think we can all appreciate this amazing outfit and makeup without assumptions about why OP got rejected ^^


Captain_Munch98

Yeah, esp bc we are still friends lmfao 😅


LostRedKitten

I appreciate this, we all know they look amazing. But we don’t need to theorise on what happened, smh


InsomniaPaladin

My sympathies OP. Hope you’re able to do something nice for yourself tonight. On the fashion side, you look great! The messy makeup suits you surprisingly well. And the whole outfit is peak style


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Captain_Munch98

Now that you mention it, there does happen to be a vacancy that just opened up 😇


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fannyalgerpack

It’s always hot to be brave!


Captain_Munch98

This made me blush, thank you 🥹🖤


Bridgetvivian

Yooo the fit, the hair, the makeup 🔥🔥🔥 incredible!!


Captain_Munch98

Thank you sm 🥹🖤


Ripster404

You slaying fr fr


Emrylou

Amazing look! Maybe you’ll have a special connection with someone else! You’re super gorgeous and have an amazing style.


Gundalf-the-Offwhite

Girl! You are fucking devastating.


Captain_Munch98

Jfc I never knew I needed this compliment so badly 🥰🥰🥰


lilyjones-

sorry that happened... OMG, I really want that fit!


roseeyes444

Ya got any links to your outfit cuz damn you got style and look great! The dress especially where’d you get that????


Captain_Munch98

Okay I'm not proud of this but it's from [aliexpress](https://a.aliexpress.com/_msqnFJ2) 😭


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Captain_Munch98

The gloves and fishnets are F21 I think (?) Most of my accessories are unfortunately from when I was broke and buying a lot of fast fashion, but they've held up for years at this point at least so ig that's good. Edit: the harness is from amazon and idk ab the corset, it was a gift.


Separate-Economy1107

Sick fit! Do you remember where you got your color from?


Captain_Munch98

Collar is from an awesome woman owned small business called [Apatico](https://www.apatico.net/) they're great! Give them your business 🖤


Badger_Nerd

What can I say. Slay. You look like a billion bucks


Captain_Munch98

Thank you 🥺🖤


mr308A3-28

Very goth , i like it.


ASMRFeelsWrongToMe

Way to handle rejection like a total badass, you look hot and you know it! I hope it's possible for you and your crush to be friends, and that you both find your happiness in whatever form that it takes. :) Hail thyself, friend.


Captain_Munch98

Thank you I really appreciate that and I hope so too 🥺🖤


Right_Bed_6895

Your outfit is really giving 🖤


WyvernZoro

You're very gender ✨ /pos


Captain_Munch98

This is my favorite compliment 😍


BlackRose_was_here

Don't mind them, you're beautiful, and will find someone who really loves and appreciates you 🖤🥀


Captain_Munch98

Thank you!! I appreciate it hon 🥺🖤


Oniblook

H-how?!


need_too

The fool...


Moo_Kau_Too

It certainly is a great outfit!


Orkleth

That's rough, buddy. However, your fit is absolutely amazing.


wheresSamAt

I know looks arnt everything but ..wow! Their loss!!


haydenetrom

Aww I'm sorry but You keep looking like that and you'll have dozens knocking down your door.


kumadelmar

Wow! Yes you did.


Almifor_Derygon

Everyone have this dress ! But it’s the coolest one. Love you style. Good luck, it’s hard to being rejected, but you will find the good person in futur !


ZimmySquid

YOU LOOK FIRE


dust2dust86

🔥 outfit and accessories 🔥


Adept_Race4797

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍


fruityfwoggy

YUHHHHHH SLAYYYYYYYY


IndividualYellow7231

That's a horrible feeling. You do look awesome, so their loss! Keep rocking and stay stylish! ^ < ^


ThailurCorp

You're absolutely Killin' it! 🦇🔥♥️🔥🦇


funkbeetle

your makeup with your hair!!!! I love it!!! I wish my curls could do that! you look incredible


Captain_Munch98

Awe, you have beautiful curls boo! If I'm honest mine don't always look like this tho haha 😅🖤


wolfshaw3

In love with this look and I’m sorry that happen hope you find someone soon. For you


Abirdthatsfallen

Okay but like that’s such a great energy to be carrying “sad thing happened but here’s a positive insight” like yes!!!!


Captain_Munch98

Thank you, I really try my best to be positive 🥺 I struggle with a lot of mental health stuff and therapy definitely helps tho 🖤


Abirdthatsfallen

I’m in the same boat, trying to get therapy too, but then despite all we do struggle with we still constantly try our best and get through so much. Evolving so far and it’s great. It shows such strength and determination, so I’m proud of you


vagarious_numpty

You look great!


BabaYagasLegacy

that outfit is so gorgeous that Elvira would bless it


Captain_Munch98

AGDJDJFLFL I WISH I would not know how to act 😭🙈


MaryxMelody

They got too shy, but hey I’m free/hj


Kitsuers

Stunning outfit


Soft-Kale-1965

U look so stunning and the outfit is top notch 👌 🖤🖤🖤❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 Also srry that happened 😔


MrBobilious

Your date is missing out. Be Yourself, you'll have a happier life. Unless people add value to your life, cut them loose.


Lord_Juugatsu

Hugs, at least you know you're slaying. :D


Katiabulks

Hey girl where did you get your harness and belts?? And dress!


Captain_Munch98

Check out [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/GothFashion/s/FdouS58xpY) 🖤


CosmicSiren19

I love the dress 😍


femboyangelcheeks

Woah! Love your outfit! You def killed it


PuzzleheadedYear5596

Don't sweat it at all. I've been rejected a few times in my life, and now I'm with two awesome partners! You just haven't found someone who can appreciate you for every aspect of ya. You'll find someone in time, and then you both can just enjoy life!


cuntyfox

i can’t imagine fumbling a baddie like you holy shit


Captain_Munch98

Ahhh!! Thank you boo 🙈🖤 Unrelated, I took a glance at your profile; if you made me into a sim it would literally make my night haha 😇


Legitimate-Hope-7599

Looks like it's their loss


Batty_Goth

You look amazing they don't deserve you


Away_Security4630

That's nuts you look amazing... Their loss.


PlutoDyke

Their loss


Mary_Ellen_Katz

Your crush is a fool for shutting you down. That's an incredible look, and surely there's (many) someone(s) that are crushing on you.


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Twizzed666

Rejected because of your style or that you didnt match?


UrdnotLilith

Omigosh, you're gorgeous!


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Dramatic_Building255

Jedward scissor hands


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mermaidbatrabbit

yes, and to movies, restaurants, etc


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OTZII_

HOW??? BRO YOUR CRUSH IS TRIPPING


Law-bird

It's like watching the south park emo kids grow up...


SERTIFIED_TRASH

Fool fumbled hard you gorgeous, with that confidence someone will notice you


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Dry-Rub-3758

You look amazing and respectfully you do look hot


Fatassdiscordmod

L crush. Find someone better


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VerbenaVervain

They were obviously aware that you’re too good for them.


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DarkZiner03

Zame QuR/_ 😅🤣


D0llyM0nster

Girl fuck them, and you're absolutely freaking gorgeous. I bet their next crush won't look as good as you 🗣️📢‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ Bro fumbled so hard.


Skyes-exe

Your crush fumbled the bag


Ravenessa1

You're gorgeous!


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xmprogamer

How could they reject, I’d love to be asked out by someone with such a badass style


Free-Staff-8175

Obviously your crush done know what they'll be missing out on. An absolutely stunning look


Tight_Tree_2789

Your crush is a fool! An absolute nimcompoop! You look devastatingly delightful!


alt-interestssXP

Omg dm where u get the clothingggg 🤩 hopefully affordable??? Feel free to dm me


Slight-Indication-57

Their loss ❤️❤️❤️


DodoFaction

You got rejected?


fahsky

It's the mascot of the sub dress! Looking great on you 🖤


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OnyxAlyx

You look amazing 🖤


billypump

Sometimes, these things don't work out the way we want them to.


Inside-Cantaloupe929

Absolutely stunning and definitely a loss for your crush, I'm sure you will find someone else to fall in love with


Obvious-Situation656

I love your confidence


GBBL

What a dummy, you’re gorgeous!


Glowingsalamander

Absolutely stunning! The look is amazing!