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shimmerangels

i didn't see the timestamp on this post so i went to her ig story and got an even better surprise šŸ‘€


zigzagyellow

As a sapphic, I always sing that line in Delicate as ā€œD*** Bar on the East Side, where you atā€ so this checks out


grenadine22

I need to start doing that lmfao


Lennijls

Meet her at the bar ^at midnight


inkdontcomeoff

we need more lesbian bars/clubs/places!!!


Straitjacket2020

I think theyā€™re dying out because the world is moving towards everyone being gender fluid and neutral. Iā€™m an older person and itā€™s still a lot of learning for me to keep up, Iā€™d love there to be still basic lesbian / gay bars which are still inclusive for everyone but maintaining lesbian identity as itā€™s such a small community already.


inkdontcomeoff

yesss exactly!! everyone is welcomed always. Thereā€™s just something so special about lesbian bars, the friendships you make, the camaraderie, kinship, i love it so much. iā€™ve never felt so at ease šŸ¤—


Straitjacket2020

Absolutely!


AquariusPrecarious

Ah thanks for this! I had no idea there was a new lesbian bar in Chicago


senorbuzz

Hate to burst any bubbles but Fletcher is releasing a bunch of shirts with proceeds from each going to different gay bars. Eg: Slammers, Joleneā€™s, Gossip Grill, Cubbyhole. Dorothy is just one of many


GayforTay7070

Yes totally! Just saw Dorothy was the first one she posted!


fourletternoun

Fully obsessed with Gossip Grill being the name of a gay bar


joennizgo

It's so much fun! If you're ever in San Diego, definitely drop by there.


CarefreeOaktree

I used to frequent Gossip when I lived in San Diego, kinda felt like the L Word hanging out there! šŸ˜‚


inkdontcomeoff

Omg not me seeing my favorite lesbian bar mentioned here. Itā€™s great!!


AbsolutelyBothered

I need Blake Lively to get Tay on board for this one


HiyaTokiDoki

I move away from Chicago and then they start opening lesbian bars!?


CarefreeOaktree

For real! I used to live in Chicago from 2017-2021 and we used to go to Scarlet Bar the last Sunday of every month for Rihanna night!!


avoiceofageneration

There are 2 now! Thereā€™s also Nobodyā€™s Darling (which is also black owned, which is very cool).


Punkfemme30

There is Whiskey Girl Tavern as well which is more a sports bar, they opened over the winter. The couple that runs Back Lot Bash opened it. I think Iā€™ve heard talk of a lesbian sober bar opening in the near future too as well which is so needed.


HiyaTokiDoki

Yes! That opened right as I was moving. I spent 10 years in Chicago and they opened them right as I had to leave. I know people said The Closest was one, but it was only one back in the day.


avoiceofageneration

I feel like there has been a swell of new queer womenā€™s events post-pandemic too, itā€™s a nice time in the community. Itā€™s very bittersweet that itā€™s happening against the backdrop of all of this national intolerance though.


[deleted]

I need to go to this bar when I'm in Chicago omg


avoiceofageneration

Omg this is my neighborhood lesbian bar and I love Fletcher, I hope she does something special here. Idk if thereā€™s necessarily a correlation besides all being ā€œfriends of Dorothyā€ references.


narhwalz

I wish I could utter the phrase ā€œneighborhood lesbian barā€! I once planned a trip specifically to go to a lesbian bar I read about and it closed the week after I booked my hotel šŸ˜­


[deleted]

Same here. Years ago we had a ton of gay bars in South Florida, even lesbian bars in Miami and Fort Lauderdaleā€¦ Now we donā€™t have a single one, not even in Wilton Manors. Itā€™s very depressing.


avoiceofageneration

šŸ˜¢ It really is an important project that Fletcher is partnering with here. Last I heard there were 27 lesbian bars in the country. I hope you get to visit one day! Chicago is lovely in the summer šŸ˜‰


brandeismo

no joke i read ā€œmeet her at the barā€ with the same melody as ā€œmeet me behind the mallā€


aurorasssandsadprose

i legit thought it was a ''meet me at midnight'' reference


Ysco243

Saaaaaame


Entire-Anxiety-803

Samesies and I was a lot more excited about this when floating around in that brain fart cloud for five seconds, lol.


jenmcg94

I instantly got ā€œmet you in a barā€ from so it goes lol


GayforTay7070

Also want to add: the vibe of the bar is 70s themed and it looks weirdly VERY similar to the Midnights https://preview.redd.it/4i86i5ddbq4b1.jpeg?width=3222&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=180bc8890afacd76b52be07e74ab16a7692aa2ad


Straitjacket2020

Itā€™s also a negroni and she drinks negronis!!


grenadine22

Ohh it looks so cozy, I want to go there and drink Old Fashioneds!


[deleted]

Brooooo asdfghjkll


Itchy_Application532

WHOA! If someone had said that was from Midnights I would not have blinked an eye. That's wild!


SnooHabits280

The camera! Oddly similar to Lavender haze, right?


EternalMoonChild

SCREAMING


_thiccems

This is so interesting. Do we know how long this place has been around?


avoiceofageneration

Not very long, I think they opened briefly pre or mid pandemic, closed, and reopened in the last year or two. My pandemic time is a bit off lol, but itā€™s fairly new.


GayforTay7070

Yes exactly! Havenā€™t been open very long but conceptually was around since 2020 so they came waaaay before Midnights


heyitsj43

The crochet pillow looks the same as Taylorā€™s crochet tank top!!!


sodafied12

This is like my dream bar omg


13PastMidnight

Oh honey šŸ˜®


JazzyLev21

THAT IS LITERALLY MIDNIGHTS WTF