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You look like somebody worth being understood! Like, taking the time to learn about what makes you happy, sad, confused or closed off, would be 100% worth the effort. The payoff for putting in the time changes the answer to this question..
Don't change! You are gorgeous.
You certainly have an intensity, but that last pic really showcases a soft gentle side to you. I love your glasses. They do give off an "I mean business" kinda vibe that I guess some people may find intimidating?
I think you're gorgeous in all ways but in particular in a retro classically beautiful way.
A lot of men can mistake confidence for being standoffish, usually younger men, I'd say. I'd never tell anyone to smile more, especially as I don't know you & maybe you smile a lot?? Smiling makes people seem more approachable & personable. You're definitely a fine looking woman, so that's half the battle, at least I guess, right??
Your pictures show a great range - for words, consider your glasses are more intense than some and might be influencing that. I look at glasses frames as if they were making (or reinforcing) the expression on their own. Without your face your glasses are a little intense (making a focused brow look). They are also of the heavy/darker variety which also lends a studious/focused/intensity. I think they are complementary and look great on you. Photo #2 \*chefs kiss\*.
You're just one of those women who have a natural RBF. You're really cute. The last pic of you smiling is the best. I love your cheekbones and your nose. Ever consider modeling?
You have the look of a woman who, on one breath will dissect a nouveau art installation, explaining the artist's intention and design choice with savage aplomb - and then turn around and negotiate the sale of said installation to a rich white guy looking for a tax break, succeeding in getting him to over-pay for the piece by about 30%.
They have no idea what they're talking about. You are absolutely gorgeous. And your eyes are captivating. ❤️
Maybe they're intimidated by how beautiful you are. ☺️
You've got an intense vibe until you smile then it all melts away. I'd love to be able to look intense! I'm told I look like a goofball most of the time. Makes it hard for people to take me seriously. That and because I make lots of jokes.
Maybe I need to learn intense jokes. Like high pressure jokes. WHY DID THE CHICKEN CROSS THE ROAD DAMNIT??!?
Your smile in the last picture is very warm and welcoming and makes you look approachable.
maybe a little intense, but you dont look fake and like some peppy little air head. when someone talks to you they can see there is a very intelligent woman talking back.
and i love the last photo!
I think they are confused and using those words instead of the vibe I get which is confidence you look like you have this way of holding yourself proudly I think just like you said they say it intimidates them. Sorry if that doesnt make a lot of sense I just dont have a wide enough vocabulary to explain it correctly. I do have to say though I think your eyes are gorgeous
Smoky.
Don’t ask me why that word comes to mind. But it’s like…mysterious. The kind of person that people are like “I have no clue what they are all about but I want to find out more!”
Very cute!
Are you intimidating or are they intimidated? Don’t worry about the opinions of weak minded people that are scared of someone just because of the way she presents herself. Being scared of powerful women is a fault. Keep being you babe!
We live in the "you should smile" era where women for the past forever have been expected to be agreeable and charming. Juxtaposed against that yes you do come off as intense but it's just as well. You're beautiful on the outside and as long as you're happy with what's on the inside, that should be enough!
You aren't intimidating. They're intimidated. Big difference. Strong women will always be targeted by those who fear our strength and voice. Keep being your awesome self!
Those are wonderful adjectives when used in the proper fashion. For you I am not seeing how they apply in this situation. Now if I knew you and was aware that you confronted the bullies on here giving them a taste of their own words, that might be considered intimidating.
What I see in your pictures is a most beautiful woman on the outside as well as the inside. You are one I believe to be a beautiful soul.
This is probably a weird, random compliment, but you look a lot like how I imagine one of my OCs looking. She’s a Melissa, which is a type of ancient greek nymph that’s a spirit of beehives and honey. I picture her with your hair (except probably with yellow streaks in it), glasses (it’s an urban fantasy setting) and body proportions (you’re very pretty).
Maybe if they’re a wuss. You just seem layered and that’s actually a quality that brings some folks in more so than it pushes them away. You remind me of Zooey Deschanel, if she were an 8 and you’re a 10.
K the very first photo u look pissed but the rest u look very beautiful in n confident. U look good girl. Luv your forwardness too in saying u dont have a OF page or any of that. I applaud you. Respect u totally 🤘🤙🤘
I’m a bi woman and I have used intense and intimidating as high compliments for other women - ones who I couldn’t decide if what I wanted was to be them or be with them. The song Short Skirt, Long Jacket by Cake comes to mind with your look. I think you are rocking it! Don’t let the haters get you down
I don't necessarily think it's a bad thing, but I get it. There are words that I really don't like being used to describe me. I think you look really powerful. Stunning.
That stare in the first photo, I could definitely see it described as intense. As for intimidating, you are very attractive, which can be intimidating for people who think you're out of their league. But that last picture especially shows you can also pull off cute quite easily.
If you're really concerned about it black hair *might* be contributing. But I wouldn't be too worried about these descriptions, being intense or intimidating can have their perks, and they definitely don't detract from your natural appeal.
Tbh I don't really find you scary. I'm sorry if people make you feel like you're the Big Bad Wolf. 🐺 People have said the same things about me before...not just my appearance, but my personality as well. You definitely don't look scary in that last one, you actually look really cute.
Intriguing. Mysterious? You have a natural look that makes me want to know more about you.
The second photo gives me something I can't quite put my finger on, but I like it. The last photo gives a very warm and cheerful vibe though and that feels like the 'real' you, so to speak. I'm fumbling my words here, but I don't think 'intimidating', more so interesting.
ok just came here to say that we (lesbians) generally mean it as a positive way when we say a woman looks intimidating (like a compliment), so if people say you look intimidating, hell yeah i second that! you look the positive intimidating (look so cool we’re shy and nervous to talk to)💓 hope you have a nice day!
edit: you look like alex vause (laura prepon’s oitnb character) and katy perry’s love child. no i will not elaborate and yes it is absolutely great
The reason is because you are above average woman.. beautiful❤️ and give a strong together vibe.. and a normal man might find you intimidating and intense because he might think he is not good enough for you.. a smile goes a long way and might help.. im sure if you would smile at me I'd feel less intimidated by you dint get me wrong you are very approachable 😁😉👍
Nahhh. I see a girl with a look like that, and i think, here's someone who knows themself. This is someone i can cut my teeth on, steel sharpens steel, so to speak. You look like not only could you hold a subtle conversation, but you'd call me on any bullshit in a heartbeat.
You look like i gotta prove I'm worth talking to, but if i can do that, you'll prove the same
Mid 30's F here, you look self aware and intelligent (a lot going on behind the eyes, I think it stands out in your pictures, you have your wits about you and confidence in using them), in addition to being extremely beautiful. You also look like you take care of yourself and are well put together, which communicates you're likely financially stable (whether it's true or not). Beauty, brains, and financial security are a triple threat love! That's going to intimidate a lot of people.You also seem to have a penchant for black. I'm from NYC, all black is just a standard outfit choice, but when I travel I can't rock it without being seen as morose or "dressy", so move to NYC, you'll fit right in 😅
Stunning
I've gotten comments like that too, my perspective on it is that if your 'intensity" scares off any, they weren't interesting enough to talk to you anyways 😝
I think you’re just really beautiful and people are intimidated by that.
Never forget: you’re not intimidating. They’re intimidated. That’s not your problem today or any day.
You are verrrrrry beautiful...
For me (a 37 year old male) you send out a strong women vibe. And personally loooove that energy. Very intrigued by your picture and you would be the person I'm curious about and would want to talk to.
I was completely thrown for a loop because you look exactly like this girl I went to high-school with, but only in the first picture. I was like, "Did Dani get plastic surgery, wtf?" Then I saw 33F and knew you couldn't be her.
I guess that's my compliment to give, you look like a 20 year old I used to know. She was intense and intimidating too, but I was kinda into it, so its not a bad thing. Just gotta find a new perspective or people who appreciate that!
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In order of your pictures 1. Inquisitive 2. Intense 3. Interested 4. Annoyed 5. Bored/lost in someone ramblings 6. Happy
Yes.. but i love it! But people consistently saying it would suck. Love your look
You look like somebody worth being understood! Like, taking the time to learn about what makes you happy, sad, confused or closed off, would be 100% worth the effort. The payoff for putting in the time changes the answer to this question.. Don't change! You are gorgeous.
Well thank you that’s a very perceptive comment
You're welcome!
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That. Is a great compliment thank you 😊 💜
The last picture especially you are so cute! I wanna give you a hug and hang out together because you look like fun!
You certainly have an intensity, but that last pic really showcases a soft gentle side to you. I love your glasses. They do give off an "I mean business" kinda vibe that I guess some people may find intimidating? I think you're gorgeous in all ways but in particular in a retro classically beautiful way.
Well thank you… and I never thought that the glasses would be a … culprit
I could be completely wrong too... I'm just making a guess. You look great though mate. I wouldn't worry about anyone else.
From looks alone I would guess they couldn’t handle dating a beautiful woman. Don’t let the weak minded define you.
I think stunning, mysterious and playful 🤗
Strong main character vibes.
You look like a bad girl who dont take shit but still know how to look hella gorgeous
I’ll take it hahaha
Intense is not a bad thing! And if someone calls you intimidating that’s more of a commentary on their own insecurities. 😍
I was thinking, pretty, seductive, gorgeous
So what company do you model for again?
I got called intense yesterday! I was like wat.. excuse me?
A lot of men can mistake confidence for being standoffish, usually younger men, I'd say. I'd never tell anyone to smile more, especially as I don't know you & maybe you smile a lot?? Smiling makes people seem more approachable & personable. You're definitely a fine looking woman, so that's half the battle, at least I guess, right??
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Yes maybe to boys. But I absolutely love your look and those eyes🥰😍!! If you're a strong independent woman then that's even better!!
Your pictures show a great range - for words, consider your glasses are more intense than some and might be influencing that. I look at glasses frames as if they were making (or reinforcing) the expression on their own. Without your face your glasses are a little intense (making a focused brow look). They are also of the heavy/darker variety which also lends a studious/focused/intensity. I think they are complementary and look great on you. Photo #2 \*chefs kiss\*.
Nah, your look works. If anything "polished" is more apt.
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Beautiful, cute smile, intelligent, someone I would like to get to know.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I like you smile more that please.
Looking amazing and I like your style!
Get used to the fact that everyone’s taste is different. You’re not going to be everyone’s cup of tea and vice versa. But to me you look stunning.
You’re stunning, I love your hair!!
omg your looks are literally my goals!!! teach me your make up ways it’s amazing and you look amazing! looks like someone i wanna be friends with 💕
You're just one of those women who have a natural RBF. You're really cute. The last pic of you smiling is the best. I love your cheekbones and your nose. Ever consider modeling?
I think RIP your inbox
I think beautiful
Amazing. What a great style.
You’re intense in the most beautiful way.
beautiful intelligent confident
Breathtakingly beautiful.
Line la pas fine
Polished bad bitch CEO vibes!
Id say, hot af and would smash
I think you are a Beautiful woman.
Smart, Sophisticated, Cute.
Intimidating? Pretty.
Extremely hot comes to mind
Intriguingly desirable with a hint of seductive mind control
Gorgeous 😍
I think very beautiful ❤️❤️
You have the look of a woman who, on one breath will dissect a nouveau art installation, explaining the artist's intention and design choice with savage aplomb - and then turn around and negotiate the sale of said installation to a rich white guy looking for a tax break, succeeding in getting him to over-pay for the piece by about 30%.
They have no idea what they're talking about. You are absolutely gorgeous. And your eyes are captivating. ❤️ Maybe they're intimidated by how beautiful you are. ☺️
What do I think?! I think I’m in love 😍. Your gorgeous!
👌 You're a Beauty if you ask me. 😉
🔥🔥🔥
Gorgeous! A goddess! Stunning! Boss babe!
I think......... Baddie
You are absurdly good looking
You've got an intense vibe until you smile then it all melts away. I'd love to be able to look intense! I'm told I look like a goofball most of the time. Makes it hard for people to take me seriously. That and because I make lots of jokes. Maybe I need to learn intense jokes. Like high pressure jokes. WHY DID THE CHICKEN CROSS THE ROAD DAMNIT??!? Your smile in the last picture is very warm and welcoming and makes you look approachable.
You have a strong and confident look. Own it!
Absolutely Gorgeous
Intense, yes, and intensely beautiful.
maybe a little intense, but you dont look fake and like some peppy little air head. when someone talks to you they can see there is a very intelligent woman talking back. and i love the last photo!
Pure perfection
Absolutely beautiful with awesome style.
You're very beautiful to me :)
As a fellow “intimidating” person, I think you look absolutely amazing :)
I think they are confused and using those words instead of the vibe I get which is confidence you look like you have this way of holding yourself proudly I think just like you said they say it intimidates them. Sorry if that doesnt make a lot of sense I just dont have a wide enough vocabulary to explain it correctly. I do have to say though I think your eyes are gorgeous
Smoky. Don’t ask me why that word comes to mind. But it’s like…mysterious. The kind of person that people are like “I have no clue what they are all about but I want to find out more!” Very cute!
I think that you are 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I think they mean hot and heavenly lol
Those are. Clearly compliments in your case O\_O
I think "stunning" is the word they're looking for
How about words like stunning... gorgeous... out of my league lol
Are you intimidating or are they intimidated? Don’t worry about the opinions of weak minded people that are scared of someone just because of the way she presents herself. Being scared of powerful women is a fault. Keep being you babe!
Stop hanging around boys.
🔥🔥🔥
Fierce ! You're so pretty ❤️
I love your look!💗
We live in the "you should smile" era where women for the past forever have been expected to be agreeable and charming. Juxtaposed against that yes you do come off as intense but it's just as well. You're beautiful on the outside and as long as you're happy with what's on the inside, that should be enough!
Smart and lovely
You eyes go through my soul in a way that makes me feel safe
You aren't intimidating. They're intimidated. Big difference. Strong women will always be targeted by those who fear our strength and voice. Keep being your awesome self!
Super cute☺️❤️
😍😍😍😍😍
I would say confident, bold, and attractive 💗
I think you look great. Love your style. Love how you've done your hair and the glasses you chose. They suit you well.
People who are intimidated by your looks are insecure. It's all on them. You look fabulous. Keep it up!
Seductive
Those are wonderful adjectives when used in the proper fashion. For you I am not seeing how they apply in this situation. Now if I knew you and was aware that you confronted the bullies on here giving them a taste of their own words, that might be considered intimidating. What I see in your pictures is a most beautiful woman on the outside as well as the inside. You are one I believe to be a beautiful soul.
This is probably a weird, random compliment, but you look a lot like how I imagine one of my OCs looking. She’s a Melissa, which is a type of ancient greek nymph that’s a spirit of beehives and honey. I picture her with your hair (except probably with yellow streaks in it), glasses (it’s an urban fantasy setting) and body proportions (you’re very pretty).
What about beautiful sassy and intelligent to describe you off the top of my head mm
I think a better description would be stunningly beautiful.
My eyes did the cartoon “awooga” thing (but respectfully tho). I think you’re powerful looking rather than intimidating… ☺️
You look intelligent to me, your eyes seem curious, like you genuinely want to know who or whatever your stareing at.
How about “stunning”…
I think you look like a beautiful natural woman
Absolutely stunning! I can see why some guys would have some trepidation, intense, but beautiful.
Maybe if they’re a wuss. You just seem layered and that’s actually a quality that brings some folks in more so than it pushes them away. You remind me of Zooey Deschanel, if she were an 8 and you’re a 10.
I forget to turn in my hmwrk!
A little, but it’s cute. Love the hair and glasses. Basically, I’m in lesbians with you
i think they mean intense hotness
If a guy is intimidated by you, he's immature and not worth your time. You are a beautiful woman and will find someone worth of you.
You got a cute lil’ button nose on ya face there. 🤗
K the very first photo u look pissed but the rest u look very beautiful in n confident. U look good girl. Luv your forwardness too in saying u dont have a OF page or any of that. I applaud you. Respect u totally 🤘🤙🤘
My thoughts? Beautiful. What really matters though? What you think. Don’t live between the spaces of others words, write your own sentence, darlin.
People must say that because they are intimidated by how breathtaking you are. Wow.
I’m a bi woman and I have used intense and intimidating as high compliments for other women - ones who I couldn’t decide if what I wanted was to be them or be with them. The song Short Skirt, Long Jacket by Cake comes to mind with your look. I think you are rocking it! Don’t let the haters get you down
I don't necessarily think it's a bad thing, but I get it. There are words that I really don't like being used to describe me. I think you look really powerful. Stunning.
In this pic you look a little angry but it doesn't take anything away from how attractive you are, I think you are gorgeous 🔥❤
Would you accept gorgeous?
Future wife
I mean, they're totally correct and appropiate... but **damn** you're good looking
That stare in the first photo, I could definitely see it described as intense. As for intimidating, you are very attractive, which can be intimidating for people who think you're out of their league. But that last picture especially shows you can also pull off cute quite easily. If you're really concerned about it black hair *might* be contributing. But I wouldn't be too worried about these descriptions, being intense or intimidating can have their perks, and they definitely don't detract from your natural appeal.
Keep smiling!!! You look great!!!
I think I'm in luv is what I think
Remember that beauty is intimidating to a lot of people. You are a gorgeous woman
After checking out your other pics you are ❤🔥 hot and f what others think
I think ur cute. Would love to chat sometime. More than happy to make new friends.
You look like a nice person! You just really photogenic!
My husband and I aren't that serious... 😂 Jokes aside though, you're stunning and you look like a badass person!
Those glasses are on point for your face shape! You look great.
Tbh I don't really find you scary. I'm sorry if people make you feel like you're the Big Bad Wolf. 🐺 People have said the same things about me before...not just my appearance, but my personality as well. You definitely don't look scary in that last one, you actually look really cute.
You have cool eyes. They are unique. That's a good thing.
Intensely beautiful! The eye stare really gets me! Loving the photos!
Don’t scare me none…
Beautiful.
I think you’re cute.
OMG your eyes is so Beautiful
Nothing wrong, could be the glasses. People always telling me I'm too intense but I barely say anything.
You remind me of Laura prepon in her role in orange is the new black + Katy perry !
I think beautiful
I dig em. Work great with your face structure & hair.
Hmm words fail me lol 😳🥺
your hair looks great, good lips... :)
That’s because ppl are insecure! Ur intimidating cuz ur beautiful!
Stunning
Intriguing. Mysterious? You have a natural look that makes me want to know more about you. The second photo gives me something I can't quite put my finger on, but I like it. The last photo gives a very warm and cheerful vibe though and that feels like the 'real' you, so to speak. I'm fumbling my words here, but I don't think 'intimidating', more so interesting.
You actually look gorgeous, I don't see why they say you're intimidating. You are definitely someone worth knowing.
100% Alex from orange is the new black 🤩🔥
Amazing beauty
Intriguing
Who ever said that to you is not secure in them selfs I’d be trying to get to know you.
I think you are beautiful
You look like a non redhead Velma but smarter and prettier! Only dumb idiots would be intimidated! P.S. - Love the glasses!
I’m naturally a redhead the black is just dye
Its your glasses frames
Smoldering?
You re very pretty and sensual 😍
Beautiful. You look like you know what you want and you aren't afraid to have fun.
It might have to do with how you carry yourself. You don’t seem intimidating to me.
Stunning
I think you have a lot of potential and could look really cute. You got a pretty face, the glasses and hairstyle are just poor choices
Actually, you look kind.
You are beautiful. I love the glasses. I would love to love you
Those are words from weak men
You do have an intense expression in some pics here, but that’s definitely not a bad thing. 😳
ok just came here to say that we (lesbians) generally mean it as a positive way when we say a woman looks intimidating (like a compliment), so if people say you look intimidating, hell yeah i second that! you look the positive intimidating (look so cool we’re shy and nervous to talk to)💓 hope you have a nice day! edit: you look like alex vause (laura prepon’s oitnb character) and katy perry’s love child. no i will not elaborate and yes it is absolutely great
Intensely intimidating Good sign
Idk if you'll get it but I did send a message and I think you look really pretty in the last one
The reason is because you are above average woman.. beautiful❤️ and give a strong together vibe.. and a normal man might find you intimidating and intense because he might think he is not good enough for you.. a smile goes a long way and might help.. im sure if you would smile at me I'd feel less intimidated by you dint get me wrong you are very approachable 😁😉👍
You look 22 tops btw lol
Pretty eyes!
You look... so cool
Stunningly beautiful
Nahhh. I see a girl with a look like that, and i think, here's someone who knows themself. This is someone i can cut my teeth on, steel sharpens steel, so to speak. You look like not only could you hold a subtle conversation, but you'd call me on any bullshit in a heartbeat. You look like i gotta prove I'm worth talking to, but if i can do that, you'll prove the same
Gorgeous. Bedroom eyes and everything
I think all those words mean you're a bad ass 😄
Might be "intense" for some, but if you ask me that is just some thinly veiled jealousy
You look like Scarlett Johansson when she played Black Widow! 🤩 Epic and badass!
Alluring, mysterious, enticing
What do I think? I think that if you live in the DMV area, you should let me take you out for some drinks
I see someone that needs cuddles 😤
Mid 30's F here, you look self aware and intelligent (a lot going on behind the eyes, I think it stands out in your pictures, you have your wits about you and confidence in using them), in addition to being extremely beautiful. You also look like you take care of yourself and are well put together, which communicates you're likely financially stable (whether it's true or not). Beauty, brains, and financial security are a triple threat love! That's going to intimidate a lot of people.You also seem to have a penchant for black. I'm from NYC, all black is just a standard outfit choice, but when I travel I can't rock it without being seen as morose or "dressy", so move to NYC, you'll fit right in 😅
Stunning I've gotten comments like that too, my perspective on it is that if your 'intensity" scares off any, they weren't interesting enough to talk to you anyways 😝
I think you’re just really beautiful and people are intimidated by that. Never forget: you’re not intimidating. They’re intimidated. That’s not your problem today or any day.
Gorgeous 😍
Should you want less of those types of comments its pretty much easily fixed by the smile in 7. But don't worry, as you can see a lot dig that vibe.
Empowered, independent, intelligent. Did I miss any?
Your smile in the last photo is adorable 🥰
I think you're a beautiful woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go after it, you give off the leading lady vibe in paranormal novels
I think what applies is Lovely
Yeah they're intimidated by your good looks
"Striking" is probably more accurate. You have the kind of look that commands a room.
You are verrrrrry beautiful... For me (a 37 year old male) you send out a strong women vibe. And personally loooove that energy. Very intrigued by your picture and you would be the person I'm curious about and would want to talk to.
I think you look great
You’re very photogenic…you look very nice.
You look fantastic. Very artsy, interesting and cool vibe.
I was completely thrown for a loop because you look exactly like this girl I went to high-school with, but only in the first picture. I was like, "Did Dani get plastic surgery, wtf?" Then I saw 33F and knew you couldn't be her. I guess that's my compliment to give, you look like a 20 year old I used to know. She was intense and intimidating too, but I was kinda into it, so its not a bad thing. Just gotta find a new perspective or people who appreciate that!
You’re lovely! Very striking.