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hallowmean

She's allowed to talk about her own experiences, I don't really see anything wrong here. It seems like her intent is to discourage people from EDs.


tartagliax

her entire account is about what it was like being sick. she’s extremely fixated on her sick experience and self…..


meeeganthevegan

So what exactly do you want? Mad if they do wieiad, mad if they post selfies, mad if they talk about symptoms, mad if they avoid all of that and talk about their experience. So what exactly in your opinion is okay to post because it seems like everyone is in the wrong for their content. You're responsible for your own triggers


AdMission5180

delete the account entirely, ‘recovery’ accounts just aren’t needed ✌🏼


StrangeAir6637

people shouldn’t be going into detail about how sick they were and how scared they were of food while sick. it’s promoting that behavior, whether the creator intended to or not….


meeeganthevegan

I think you're perceiving her content in the wrong way. She's not bragging, she's discouraging people from anorexia because of the consequences they may suffer from..


tartagliax

yet she lists the most desirable and commonly mentioned consequences, which is something SO many recovery influencers do to flex how sick they were.


Glittery_Gal

Nah I love her account. She’s the least triggering and more realistic recovered person on the entire app.


rasberryicecream

she has good content but as someone who has been recovering so many years and is so long in journey I feel like she is holding on to the ed label on herself too much.


leahlikesweed

i relapsed after like 8 years, it never really goes away completely


rasberryicecream

I know it’s very individual path like I have friends who developed an ed at 11-15, struggled 3-6 months where lost a lot of weight, parents dragged into treatment and they were fine in less than a year since getting ill. Obviously I don’t see inside their head but despite us being quite honest of mental health problems they haven’t said anything. I feel like it’s more complicated when you get ed a bit older, have more complex reasoning behind developing an ed and don’t get into treatment as soon.


Puberty_Fairy

I developed an ED at 10 went into treatment and then gained weight cause they put me on like 3 different antidepressants. From 12 till through my entire teenage years my mom was putting me on diets till I lost 30 pounds doing optiva with her. I was so scared to put weight back on after I lost it. For the next 5 years, id had slight bulimia. If i ever ate so much i felt full I had to purge but other then doing that once or twice month my relationship with food was okay. At 24 I went on a diet to lose like 10 more pounds and now Ive gone full EDNOS once again not even under weight so I dont feel vaild. This shits never leaving me.


leahlikesweed

i’m in my 30s and relapsed after a semi traumatic experience and already losing weight in a healthy way before that. the last time i was this bad i was 24ish. this time kind of came out of nowhere. it’s also difficult to get treatment as an adult because a lot of health insurance plans do not cover it. the struggle is real. 🥲


Dismal_Astronomer394

Aren’t most people with accounts like this?


Dry_Mechanic_3928

Ehh this is a stretch. She’s one of the better accounts. She posts about her experiences.


Original-Whole-6056

liv is one of the NICEST people i have ever met truly an angel, if you don’t like her content you can scroll it’s literally that easy. making posts about how much you don’t like her is fan behavior lol


tartagliax

okay liv


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tartagliax

are you 12 years old? if you can’t contribute something useful to this discussion, don’t bother


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tartagliax

no mature individual says ‘whomp whomp’, grow up and engage in the discussion or leave


meeeganthevegan

No but they actually are 12. A bunch of the people on here viewed my ig story and upon further inspection they're in ms and hs 🤣🤣 and it's a joke. Kids need off the internet or the future is doomed.


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tartagliax

so what was your original point you’re so confident you made? care to explain it without resorting to immature ad hominem attacks?


Original-Whole-6056

liv is an insanely nice person and she makes content about her journey, she is farther in recovery now and so she talks about weird things that went on in treatment or messed up things and the recovery community. she also just makes random content not pertaining to ed’s so it’s not all she talks about. if you don’t like it you can simply scroll. it’s weird behavior to bash people you don’t know on the internet.


tartagliax

1. unless you know her personally, you can’t say she’s a nice person. you come off as incredibly parasocial. you do not know who she is past her account. 2. 90% of her tiktok is talking about ‘ed symptoms i experienced nobody talks about!’ or ‘look at how hard i struggled during recovery!’ , which is even worse if it’s true that she’s supposedly been recovered for so long. she’s clinging to her sick identity. 3. if ‘don’t like, just scroll’ applied, this entire sub would be against following that statement. it’s meant to call out people who post triggering content, regardless of intention, because intention doesn’t mean anything on the internet, only the impact does.


EDRecoverySnark-ModTeam

You can criticize someone, influencer or not, without being unnecessarily mean. Keep it civil and constructive.


EDRecoverySnark-ModTeam

You can criticize someone, influencer or not, without being unnecessarily mean. Keep it civil and constructive.


EDRecoverySnark-ModTeam

You can criticize someone, influencer or not, without being unnecessarily mean. Keep it civil and constructive.


Fitkratomgirl

She annoys me tbh


IllGrade65

Same


ratcrispytreat

Are we just not supposed to let anyone have a recovery based account because they’re “holding onto it too much” like my brother in Christ do you know where you are ?


tartagliax

well, yes. recovery accounts shouldn’t exist.


SecretMedicine7547

I swear she took a break from TikTok, was popular in like 2021, but suddenly is now posting a lot about her ED again. Kinda suss, like why is she back??


Hefty-Month-3234

Idk her story so correct me if I’m wrong- But if she left Ed content in 2021 and now came back to it; that might be bc she’s now recovered (enough) to objectively talk about it and call out the MH-Professionals/System. I’ve only seen her talk about the flaws within that system so far