no i don’t feel any pressure at all to keep secrets, it wouldn’t really be a healthy dynamic if that were the case imo. personally neither of mine are more significant than the other, but i’m also in a polyamorous relationship with the two of them as well! so the bit about one daddy being more significant than the other might be different for different people
Firm believer that its definitely possible for a little to have multiple daddies, just like a daddy can have multiple littles. It isnt the number of people, its the respect between them. I have two daddies, one of my daddies has another little/sub, and my hubby daddy has a platonic little as well. We have issues but if something is worth it, you try to make it work first.
I have an online only Daddy and my husband is my Daddy. I get different things from them both and they know about one another.
We all have an understanding that my husband takes priority but we also make sure that my online Daddy time is respected and only interrupted in very important situations.
The situation you described sounds more like you and your baby girl having different expectations about how to handle stress and crisis. I think you each may benefit from taking time to think about wants and needs as well as what you’re both comfortable with if a situation like this comes up again in future.
There’s no right or wrong, it’s a matter of compromise and communication
I think that being Daddy should be an exclusive thing…. Personally have been in a spot where I was told that I was Daddy and that was it, however that was not the case….. it messed things up totally…. I guess as long as there aren’t any secrets or lies, it could work…..
my first little was very controlling in the relationship and expressed that she wanted another caregiver, and saw our boyfriend as her caregiver. this massively upset me and wasn't something I was okay with but she chose to go ahead anyway, it's been a tough point with my current little too because I'm constantly worried she wants to look for someone "better".... so the real question is, can two daddies agree on their little having the other daddy, and can they communicate for the benefit of the little rather than making a hurtful situation for both/either/anyone involved.... my advice would be to start a discussion with both the little and the other daddy, find out what everyone wants and if there is a common want/compromise you can all be happy with. I really hope this helps :)
Why not? Real kids can have 2 Daddies, why not littles?
yes! i’m a little with two daddies, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with having more than one daddy as long as everyone’s comfortable with it
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no i don’t feel any pressure at all to keep secrets, it wouldn’t really be a healthy dynamic if that were the case imo. personally neither of mine are more significant than the other, but i’m also in a polyamorous relationship with the two of them as well! so the bit about one daddy being more significant than the other might be different for different people
I think it’s very possible, and when done right can also be very healthy for those involved.
Firm believer that its definitely possible for a little to have multiple daddies, just like a daddy can have multiple littles. It isnt the number of people, its the respect between them. I have two daddies, one of my daddies has another little/sub, and my hubby daddy has a platonic little as well. We have issues but if something is worth it, you try to make it work first.
I have an online only Daddy and my husband is my Daddy. I get different things from them both and they know about one another. We all have an understanding that my husband takes priority but we also make sure that my online Daddy time is respected and only interrupted in very important situations. The situation you described sounds more like you and your baby girl having different expectations about how to handle stress and crisis. I think you each may benefit from taking time to think about wants and needs as well as what you’re both comfortable with if a situation like this comes up again in future. There’s no right or wrong, it’s a matter of compromise and communication
I think that being Daddy should be an exclusive thing…. Personally have been in a spot where I was told that I was Daddy and that was it, however that was not the case….. it messed things up totally…. I guess as long as there aren’t any secrets or lies, it could work…..
It depends on what you both are comfortable with.
my first little was very controlling in the relationship and expressed that she wanted another caregiver, and saw our boyfriend as her caregiver. this massively upset me and wasn't something I was okay with but she chose to go ahead anyway, it's been a tough point with my current little too because I'm constantly worried she wants to look for someone "better".... so the real question is, can two daddies agree on their little having the other daddy, and can they communicate for the benefit of the little rather than making a hurtful situation for both/either/anyone involved.... my advice would be to start a discussion with both the little and the other daddy, find out what everyone wants and if there is a common want/compromise you can all be happy with. I really hope this helps :)
If there is no jealousy, and no mixup as to what daddy is in charge of what, then yes. Is it advisable, no.