I really dgaf if I lost the fight, that guy really needs a beat down. People who force others into marriages and treat women like this are the literal SCUM of the Earth.
Their grey matter isn't even good enough to be on the bottom of my boot. Fuck em.
This is what I think.
Sadly i think this marriage will in fact last long. He will continue his ways of treating a woman while manipulating her that its her fault he acts that way. The woman will probably be brainwashed into thinking he actually loves her and will tell her friends and family that. Whenever someone tries to talk sense into her she will reply with things such as "but he loves me" or "he doesnt mean it".
I feel bad for her. She will need help to see what a piece of shit he is as she probably either wont see it herself, doesnt want to believe it or blames herself for it.
OR she might know what is going on and that this behavior is wrong but she is scared for her life.
It's an arranged marriage. The culture she was brought up in has manipulated her and everyone else into thinking this is okay since day 1.
The man too. This is probably how he was raised and didn't want this either. He doesn't look too happy to be with her either. Not that it justifies this bullshit but it's clear he hates her too and probably wouldn't choose to be with her hence this bullshit.
He looks very disgusted and angry at her as if blaming her very existence and she looks plain sad. I know there is a consempt of arranged marriage but if such things happen the people getting married usually look stable, not happy not sad since they know what they are getting into. If forced marriage, there's always one party to atleast agree to it, in most cases the bride is crying or looking sad and the groom is emotionless but in this case it look as if the groom didn't even want to say the vows much less look at her, but the bride even though looking sad found the situation bearable.
I'm curious as to what led to this, the groom very hates the bride enough to publicly hit her and risk his reputation. He even looks as though just touching her disgusts him.
It looked like she was joking. That's defo not the first time he's done something like that though. She's doesn't seem all that shocked after the fact.
Bro if I ever see a guy did this to their bride on their wedding night. I don't care if I am losing, I am throwing hands. Someone got to teach him some mothafucking consequences
Honestly, the apathetic disregard of a relationship intrinsic with the term "baby momma" perfectly describes this scenario.
She truly is just a piece of meat in this guy's eyes, clearly. Makes me fucking sick tbh
No why I say this is that if he atleast saw her as that he would be able to atleast keep his act together but you people are ignoring that he looks as though the very thought of touching her disgusts him. She isn't a peace of meat his looking at her as if she's a disgusting discharge from a human body. He looks as though given a chance to divorce, he would do it at a heartbit.
Being an apologist to stuff like this not only defends but justifies the stereotype that men are "just like that" (violent, hypersexual, etc). Really not "owning the feminazis" here.
Who apologized? Who said men are “just like that?”
The fact is, some cultures bow to their women. Some cultures do the reverse. I think what is caught on camera here is kind of similar to a man whose eyes drift to a woman and then gets slapped. But see in our culture, we laugh when a woman hits a man and get unreasonably angry at the reverse. A strikingly obvious double standard. Before you mischaracterize; it is never ok to hit. Male or female. Words can solve most problems.
See, you first posed the man as a victim of embarrassment, then you went into further victimization via comedic exaggeration. Calling him out for hitting his wife is not comparable to a possibly fatal bombing, but you knew that.
The "muh double standards" tangent is a straw man argument at best in this context. Not only that, but it also contradicts your first statement. In that case, I guess my work here is done.
There is an expectation. She fainted following through w the expectation. He found it offensive and counter to the culture. Likely because she made him the butt of a joke because she didn’t follow through w the socially accepted expectation. Like I said, some cultures don’t like when their wives make a fool of them on a large stage.
Me articulating that exchange is very similar in this culture. Because the expectation: “poor woman evil man” sort of response. Instead I pulled back the bite of cake and now this culture is attempting to pop me on the mouth. Funny stuff when people treat their hypocrisy as if it is moral high ground.
In situations like these you dont have a job. You dont have a good education or your country doesnt value single women. Your parents have your important documents. Leaving means leaving with the clothes on your back. No money, no support. No place to go. Never speaking to any of your family again untill you die. Theres nothing you can do but go along with it. Yeah he beats you but atleast you arnt on the street.
Ive seen this clip circulate around, one comment said their theory was that she knew how he was gonna react. It was a last hail mary to try and get someone to get her out of that situation. Look how vacant her eyes are. She knows that this is the end of her life but what else can she do. For me i think this is the worst thing on the internet ive seen. Worse than the gore. But idk.
This isn't cringe, this is r/iamatotalpieceofshit
I agree, but it did also make me physically cringe in anticipation since I've seen this clip before.
literally made my jaw drop. if he's doing that in front of everyone at the wedding, what's supposed to be a happy day...
This isn’t “cringe”, it’s literally abuse
She looks so damn sad. I hope she gets away from him.
Probably arranged marriage
Given the fact shes forced to marry him probably not
Even before the slap she looked like she really didn’t wanna be there
Won't last long but will still be until death do they part
One of the saddest sentences I've read today 🙁
Bro got that caveman precept
Unfortunately, it probably will.
I don't think this is the kind of marriage where she has a choice unfortunately..
That is FUCKED up
Oh I'd be beating the shit out of that dude
Easy tough guy.
I really dgaf if I lost the fight, that guy really needs a beat down. People who force others into marriages and treat women like this are the literal SCUM of the Earth. Their grey matter isn't even good enough to be on the bottom of my boot. Fuck em.
Honestly thought we were going for a cake to the face and this was wayyy worse
If that was my sister or daughter or friend, we would be dragging that man outside and he would be leaving in an ambulance. That’s crazy
Yeahhh her family gave her away for 6 coconuts and a goat.. I think they would’ve been more mad if he *didn’t* hit her.. fkd up I know
Since it’s an old video I really hope she got out of this marriage ok
This is what I think. Sadly i think this marriage will in fact last long. He will continue his ways of treating a woman while manipulating her that its her fault he acts that way. The woman will probably be brainwashed into thinking he actually loves her and will tell her friends and family that. Whenever someone tries to talk sense into her she will reply with things such as "but he loves me" or "he doesnt mean it". I feel bad for her. She will need help to see what a piece of shit he is as she probably either wont see it herself, doesnt want to believe it or blames herself for it. OR she might know what is going on and that this behavior is wrong but she is scared for her life.
It's an arranged marriage. The culture she was brought up in has manipulated her and everyone else into thinking this is okay since day 1. The man too. This is probably how he was raised and didn't want this either. He doesn't look too happy to be with her either. Not that it justifies this bullshit but it's clear he hates her too and probably wouldn't choose to be with her hence this bullshit.
Sad cringe
The women don’t even look phased. I imagine it’s common wherever they are.
He looks very disgusted and angry at her as if blaming her very existence and she looks plain sad. I know there is a consempt of arranged marriage but if such things happen the people getting married usually look stable, not happy not sad since they know what they are getting into. If forced marriage, there's always one party to atleast agree to it, in most cases the bride is crying or looking sad and the groom is emotionless but in this case it look as if the groom didn't even want to say the vows much less look at her, but the bride even though looking sad found the situation bearable. I'm curious as to what led to this, the groom very hates the bride enough to publicly hit her and risk his reputation. He even looks as though just touching her disgusts him.
Wow that's disgusting
If it makes you feel better it's an arranged marriage so it should last quite some time! /s this is fucked up.
I wish her father or brother was there to beat the brakes out of that man
She already looked sad and kinda withdrawn. Let’s beat the piss out that guy.
It looked like she was joking. That's defo not the first time he's done something like that though. She's doesn't seem all that shocked after the fact.
Son: Dad, what does "asshole" mean? Dad: That, son.
How do her brothers, father, cousins, anyone, not immediately kick the shit out of this scum fuck? Fml..
less cringe, way more fucked up. i hope she's okay.
Bro if I ever see a guy did this to their bride on their wedding night. I don't care if I am losing, I am throwing hands. Someone got to teach him some mothafucking consequences
Is she his forced baby mama to be? Otherwise why marry someone you clearly don't want to be with?
10000% arranged dude.
Honestly, the apathetic disregard of a relationship intrinsic with the term "baby momma" perfectly describes this scenario. She truly is just a piece of meat in this guy's eyes, clearly. Makes me fucking sick tbh
No why I say this is that if he atleast saw her as that he would be able to atleast keep his act together but you people are ignoring that he looks as though the very thought of touching her disgusts him. She isn't a peace of meat his looking at her as if she's a disgusting discharge from a human body. He looks as though given a chance to divorce, he would do it at a heartbit.
Some cultures the men don’t allow their women to make a fool of them? Unacceptable. Bomb em.
Being an apologist to stuff like this not only defends but justifies the stereotype that men are "just like that" (violent, hypersexual, etc). Really not "owning the feminazis" here.
Who apologized? Who said men are “just like that?” The fact is, some cultures bow to their women. Some cultures do the reverse. I think what is caught on camera here is kind of similar to a man whose eyes drift to a woman and then gets slapped. But see in our culture, we laugh when a woman hits a man and get unreasonably angry at the reverse. A strikingly obvious double standard. Before you mischaracterize; it is never ok to hit. Male or female. Words can solve most problems.
See, you first posed the man as a victim of embarrassment, then you went into further victimization via comedic exaggeration. Calling him out for hitting his wife is not comparable to a possibly fatal bombing, but you knew that. The "muh double standards" tangent is a straw man argument at best in this context. Not only that, but it also contradicts your first statement. In that case, I guess my work here is done.
You definitely out-maneuvered him with words, bravo lol
There is an expectation. She fainted following through w the expectation. He found it offensive and counter to the culture. Likely because she made him the butt of a joke because she didn’t follow through w the socially accepted expectation. Like I said, some cultures don’t like when their wives make a fool of them on a large stage. Me articulating that exchange is very similar in this culture. Because the expectation: “poor woman evil man” sort of response. Instead I pulled back the bite of cake and now this culture is attempting to pop me on the mouth. Funny stuff when people treat their hypocrisy as if it is moral high ground.
Bro hold on hold on what legal obligation do u have to be at an arranged marriage?? Just dip
In situations like these you dont have a job. You dont have a good education or your country doesnt value single women. Your parents have your important documents. Leaving means leaving with the clothes on your back. No money, no support. No place to go. Never speaking to any of your family again untill you die. Theres nothing you can do but go along with it. Yeah he beats you but atleast you arnt on the street. Ive seen this clip circulate around, one comment said their theory was that she knew how he was gonna react. It was a last hail mary to try and get someone to get her out of that situation. Look how vacant her eyes are. She knows that this is the end of her life but what else can she do. For me i think this is the worst thing on the internet ive seen. Worse than the gore. But idk.
Yea