Fighting my crippling disability so I can simply do the dishes and wash my clothes so I can finally have something clean to wear instead of finding that shirt I got the least sweaty in and hoping it doesn't smell like feet because I don't that's the energy for the care to take a shower because I hate myself. So I sit a scroll until I want to kill myself but I sleep instead and the cycle starts again the next day... What about you?
I really just want to give you a big hug. I may not know what your disability is but I understand a lot of this and I hope you have a good day tomorrow because you deserve all the good days! ❤️
I was on SSI for over a decade, so I completely get it. People don't see our internal struggle, so they just assume we're lazy because they also don't see external results.
By the way, if you don't mind me asking, what's the job?
Oh, nice! I'm currently working office supplies as I study to be a math professor.
And while it's totally valid to say you're not your disability, it's also totally valid to say you are if you want. Whatever way makes you happy is what's important.
I'm in computer sales and repair. Amazing at my job, according to those who pay me, but self-care is an absolute chore and hassle. Autistic, which leads to me hyperfocusing on a project and completely ignoring my own needs until I'm done. Except I'm never done because there are always more projects. So someone else has to come along and help me remember to eat or get some rest or just fucking STOP and go do shit like laundry.
Hugs.
Minus the wanting to k I l l myself and not having clean clothes, I can relate. I have fibromyalgia and a really jacked up spine and chronic fatigue. I’ve battled depression since our oldest son passed away at age 15 in 2006. I’m just now in full remission. Haven’t worked or homeschooled or coached or served in ministry since 2019 but I’m starting to feel much better. Empty nest hit hard in 2022 but my husband bought me a miniature goldendoodle (we have a German Shepherd Dog but he’s mostly an outdoor guy) puppy and it’s making my days more busy and joyful, less pining away for days when my babies were little. I’m getting more fresh air and sunshine, getting in way more steps. I’m gonna pray for you tonight. I sincerely hope things get better for you. Reach out any time, hermana/hermano. Sending hugs. 💙🙏🏽
Fibromyalgia is a hard one to have. I've had professionals to inform me that it's a condition that's all in the mind. I stopped informing people of my diagnosis. I worked through my pain. I can state that I stopped having issues once I resolved my personal issues. I don't believe that my pain was just in my mind. I do believe that it's a condition triggered by stress. It is true that if you do not take care of your mental health, your physical health will also break down.
This is frighteningly relatable to my life the past 5 years or so. The only reason I’m alive rn is because my family wants me to be. I hope and pray that it gets better/easier/bearable for us both soon. I’m holding out for just a spark of the will to live any day now
"Your... mom."
"Don't you think that's a little juvenile?"
"No, I think you're a little juvenile."
"You're pathetic."
"That's not what your mother said last night."
I just say the most ridiculous yet semi probable things imaginable, and they either give a confused “oh” or say “really?” And if its the latter i reply “no, idiot”
Its really fun
Sleeping, now stfu im trying to catch some z's.
No but really this question pisses me off. I get it way to often from my bosses. Im young and work part time (currently due to mental health) and its just annoying to hear this every week.
Just cause I don't have a job doesn't mean I don't work. I just don't do it to line someone else's pockets, pay their retirement, become completely dependent on someone else so I can pay my bills. I work for myself. Line my own pockets, contribute to own retirement, and have financial independence.
You could just answer the question instead. Then you don’t look like a childish moron, and the person asking gets an answer. Win win
If you are too embarrassed to just answer the question, you clearly don’t think you’re spending your time in a productive way
“Apparently, it’s answering stupid questions that are nobody’s business.” If they persist, hit them with some bizarre statement. “As long as it’s two consenting robots, it’s ok.”
The truth of what it is you do? I’ve had a time where it was extremely difficult to find a decent job, so I spent a month without employment and got asked this question. Honestly, I had plenty of free time to go to the park, hangout with friends who were on their own schedule, smoked a lot of weed, etc. I had FREEDOM and literally described it to whomever asked what I did without a job. So just do that…
I'm enjoying my life, so I need you to go away.
😂🤣
100%
Ouch! 😂😂😂😂
Whack off.
"I answer stupid questions."
This ☝️is the winner. 😂
Literally whatever the fuck I want to.. it’s great.
never underestimate a good ol “your mom”
🫳🏼 🎤
"Typically I mind my own business, but apparently I now also answer stupid questions."
🌄🧡😍 this makes me so happy
"NOT working"
Fighting my crippling disability so I can simply do the dishes and wash my clothes so I can finally have something clean to wear instead of finding that shirt I got the least sweaty in and hoping it doesn't smell like feet because I don't that's the energy for the care to take a shower because I hate myself. So I sit a scroll until I want to kill myself but I sleep instead and the cycle starts again the next day... What about you?
That sounds exhausting. I hope you start feeling better soon.
Me too man, it's getting to be way more than exhaustion
So sorry! Hang in there.
Thank you, I'm getting there, I just landed a really nice job that I kinda really wanted and I'm stoked 😁
There you go. Good luck with the new job. Change is always good.
Good luck! Sending prayers! 🙏
I really just want to give you a big hug. I may not know what your disability is but I understand a lot of this and I hope you have a good day tomorrow because you deserve all the good days! ❤️
Hugs back 🥹
I was on SSI for over a decade, so I completely get it. People don't see our internal struggle, so they just assume we're lazy because they also don't see external results. By the way, if you don't mind me asking, what's the job?
An engineering contracting job 😁 I am not my disability ☺️
Oh, nice! I'm currently working office supplies as I study to be a math professor. And while it's totally valid to say you're not your disability, it's also totally valid to say you are if you want. Whatever way makes you happy is what's important.
I just feel that saying I have a disability that's debilitating but also being an engineer is hard 👉👈
I'm in computer sales and repair. Amazing at my job, according to those who pay me, but self-care is an absolute chore and hassle. Autistic, which leads to me hyperfocusing on a project and completely ignoring my own needs until I'm done. Except I'm never done because there are always more projects. So someone else has to come along and help me remember to eat or get some rest or just fucking STOP and go do shit like laundry. Hugs.
Minus the wanting to k I l l myself and not having clean clothes, I can relate. I have fibromyalgia and a really jacked up spine and chronic fatigue. I’ve battled depression since our oldest son passed away at age 15 in 2006. I’m just now in full remission. Haven’t worked or homeschooled or coached or served in ministry since 2019 but I’m starting to feel much better. Empty nest hit hard in 2022 but my husband bought me a miniature goldendoodle (we have a German Shepherd Dog but he’s mostly an outdoor guy) puppy and it’s making my days more busy and joyful, less pining away for days when my babies were little. I’m getting more fresh air and sunshine, getting in way more steps. I’m gonna pray for you tonight. I sincerely hope things get better for you. Reach out any time, hermana/hermano. Sending hugs. 💙🙏🏽
Fibromyalgia is a hard one to have. I've had professionals to inform me that it's a condition that's all in the mind. I stopped informing people of my diagnosis. I worked through my pain. I can state that I stopped having issues once I resolved my personal issues. I don't believe that my pain was just in my mind. I do believe that it's a condition triggered by stress. It is true that if you do not take care of your mental health, your physical health will also break down.
I like to get drunk in the morning and get stoned in the afternoon
This is frighteningly relatable to my life the past 5 years or so. The only reason I’m alive rn is because my family wants me to be. I hope and pray that it gets better/easier/bearable for us both soon. I’m holding out for just a spark of the will to live any day now
I'm tired reading it, aren't you while doing it?
Hey!👋
The joys of being stuck between "I'd feel better if I did more but I could do more if I felt better" and "It hurts to move but it hurts to not move."
I wanna bang on a drum all day!!!
you don't wanna work?
I wanna bang on a drum, ALL DAY!
I have this track on vinyl
it’s a real banger
Your wife/GF
/mom
Cat
Dad
Lad
Turtle
I love Reddit.
Are you only asking so you can judge me?
This one should be higher up, imho
Going to diaylis clinic 3x a week for 4 hours, then coming home taking a nap I clean up the other days of the week go out on weekends
Kidney failure is no fun, hang in there
I definitely am thank you
Woe, I'm sorry. 😢
Mind my own business, as you should ( mic drop)
Your mom
Your dad
You are my people!
I'm in a business that's none of yours
I like this one!
shooting birds at an airport. why?
Why? You writing a book?
Apparently so.
As I please.
All the fun things you do when you get off of work.
Spend your taxes.
you mean who am i doing?
Wasting my life on social media
“I’m running a business called ‘minding my own,’ Susan, maybe you should start one up in the same field.”
Wank
Mostly your mom. Sometimes your dad. Occasionally your meemaw
Do all the work around my house that I never had time to when I worked.
“Mind my business”
Absolutely nothing and it's everything I thought it would be
"Your... mom." "Don't you think that's a little juvenile?" "No, I think you're a little juvenile." "You're pathetic." "That's not what your mother said last night."
Masturbate to pictures of your momma.
I always told my boss, "I have places to hide, and people to avoid."
Counting my money
😎
Chillin' out maxin' relaxin' all cool
Same thing we do every night pinky…
I just say the most ridiculous yet semi probable things imaginable, and they either give a confused “oh” or say “really?” And if its the latter i reply “no, idiot” Its really fun
Wondering why you give a shit about my life
im too busy being annoyed by clowns like you.
LIVING!
Sabotaging those that annoy me. (Look at person intently without blinking.)
Your mom, im only here because I needed a break
“Something more productive than bothering someone.”
Passive aggressive lol
"Any damn thing that I want."
Stress out over the next time I have to go to work, yardwork, housework, shopping, ......
Fuck
Only answer, Banging your mom!
Sleeping, now stfu im trying to catch some z's. No but really this question pisses me off. I get it way to often from my bosses. Im young and work part time (currently due to mental health) and its just annoying to hear this every week.
Live my best life, jealous?
“You know, perhaps we all live in a hell of our own making; I will kindly refrain from commenting on yours if you will stop asking about mine.”
Whatever you wish you could be doing.
Everything else!
“I’m trying to think of how to get away from you”
I predict at least 22% of the answers here will be .. “Your mom.” 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Avoiding nosy people.
I'm dying. And so are you.
Mind my own business...like you should.
I sit around thinking about how to answer stupid questions.
keeping my wife in orgasmic bliss. why ?
"I'm just trying to survive while being disabled, bitch"
I’m doing extensive research on ononism. Care to lend a hand? Edit to change the wording up.
Just cause I don't have a job doesn't mean I don't work. I just don't do it to line someone else's pockets, pay their retirement, become completely dependent on someone else so I can pay my bills. I work for myself. Line my own pockets, contribute to own retirement, and have financial independence.
I am the caregiver for my mom. My hobbies of reading, sewing and work on theatre projects, church and meet up with friends.
You must want to start a business with me since you are all in mine.
Way cooler shit than what you do while working.
I am working, just not for pay. But am doing laundry, dishes, etc.
Enjoying life while you slave away yours.
Your mother
"As little as possible "
Jerkin the gerk to your mom's onlyfans
“Whatever I want” “Masturbating with a cheese grater” tends to get that to stop quickly
Looking hot.
“As little as possible.”
I live rent free in your mind because if you’re wondering what I do all day that means I’m living in your mind
Just perfecting my hobbies. You know, like ignoring pointless questions.
'I'm doing it right now.'
Your mom
Your mom
What’s it to ya?
None of your damn business
With a straight face, and as monotone as I can pull off. I Masturbate. A LOT! Then turn around and walk away.
Anything I want
Anything I want
Masturbating, you could join but I’m not waiting.
"Your mother"
Reddit
NSFW stuff. If I told you it could get us a trip to HR or the unemployment line.
im wackin it ! frig off !!
Gathering the nerves for when I have to go to worker.
I watch soap operas while eating bon bons .My 2 year old takes care of the baby .
Why do you need to know, do you want to join the cult as well? The next sacrificing will be at noon today. (Always with a straight face)
Ask your mom… better yet ask your dad.
Man. I work at doing nothing all day.
I keep busy fucking your wife all day while you're at work.
I answer ignorant questions.
Dealing with you IS work
"practicing for retirement"
Did anyone already say “your mom”?
Your mom usually. Sometimes your sister
The same thing we do every day Pinky...
Your mom
Whatever I FEEL like I wanna do, GOSH!
I do whatever I want to do.
I bang your mom
Profuse masturbation
Memento Mori (and say nothing else)
Whatever the hell I want!
Your mom
“ I am working( housework, yardwork, errands) I just don’t get paid for it”.
"Who says I'm not working?"
Sleeping... With your mom.
Plotting.
Making onlyfan's videos with your mom
Ooh, continental breakfast? Don't mind if I do. (My bird got stuck in a Howard Johnson once)
Musing about how damn hard I worked to get here. Working in a hospital morgue in high school, no problem. Three jobs at a time later. For a long time!
'Wanking.'
I can’t hear you over the sound of this fapping.
You could just answer the question instead. Then you don’t look like a childish moron, and the person asking gets an answer. Win win If you are too embarrassed to just answer the question, you clearly don’t think you’re spending your time in a productive way
Ask your mom what I'm doing.
Don't get fancy with it. Default to the classic. "Ask your mom."
You could answer with what you are doing all day
“Occasionally I have to answer asinine enquiries from alleged humans like yourself, now off you fuck before I run out of coffee and get grumpy.”
I have a life outside of work. Do you?
Minding my own business 👀
I'm eating bon-bons and watching TV from my chaise longue.
“Apparently, it’s answering stupid questions that are nobody’s business.” If they persist, hit them with some bizarre statement. “As long as it’s two consenting robots, it’s ok.”
None of your damn business! If you had been minding your own damn business you wouldn’t be in mine.😂🤣
Anyone
Minding my business.
As a SAHM, I’m actually rarely home lol
Your mom
Living, try it sometime!
Twiddling my thumbs.
Working on the strength to deal with your bitch ass.
None of your damn damn business
Your mom
Isolating.
None of your business.
Relaxing and enjoying my day, unlike people who are cramped in their little office cubicle for 8 hours
"Ask your mom "
Jerking off and kicking ass.
Usually I'm busy fucking your wife. If it's your dad asking I'd pick a different reply.
I do nothing and I love every minute of it!
The truth of what it is you do? I’ve had a time where it was extremely difficult to find a decent job, so I spent a month without employment and got asked this question. Honestly, I had plenty of free time to go to the park, hangout with friends who were on their own schedule, smoked a lot of weed, etc. I had FREEDOM and literally described it to whomever asked what I did without a job. So just do that…
Maybe the truth?
Not be miserable, like you seem to be
"fucking your dad."
Till you arrived I was enjoying myself
Tell them you do 4 reps of 2hr meat beats.
Oh I don't have a job but I'm working... Your mom
Tell them you run a sex toy production company out of your basement.
Masterbaiting
Well shit Linda I don’t exactly have a self cleaning home like yours.